Very true. I'm not blaming my mom but I can tie many of my bad habits back to being raised by a single mom. NO man should ever be raised by a single mom (and I guess a beta male). Honestly jealous of guys that had a masculine influence growii g up but I have great online mentors.
You run your mouth without having any clue of what you missed out on. Most fathers in our world mash their sons down and never allow them room to become the head of the household. Most true alpha males come from single mother homes because there was no competition to be the man of the house so at least they had shot to fill it.
to be honest, I have a dad, but he was mostly consumed by alcohol back when I was little, so even when you have a dad that doesn't mean you have a good dad that teaches you how to be a man. That's why we learn so much together here, as a team, becoming a better person.
Sorry that your mother did that to you! I’ve recently realised that with my mother, l don’t think it was my dad, she goes and tells him stupid shiit 😂but a couple of times; my dad came into my room yelling at me for no reason, I think my mother goes and tells my dad something, to get me all nervous and l start yelling, then I’ve hopped in my car and drove away..
Stop being enrolled in her emotional battles. - that part I grew up with my mother and now as a 40 y/o man I realize how many times and years I have been trying to help, save and be there for her thru breakups, work wins and losses & other family member issues. I am grateful to have become stronger thru independence, hard work, sacrifice and growing a family of my own. Elliot and others help with motivation and real life mental help that many of us can relate to and apply to our own relationships and situations
I sought this video out having had an evening where my mom’s habits and actions enraged me. She has refused to adapt and change her own role as my sister and I age - even being out of her house, she will never go a day without checking in or telling me some inane detail about her day. And if you don’t respond or engage with her then she’ll get concerned. It’s been a lifetime of frustration and she refuses to change, despite how many times she’s been “logically” told. I believe that you’re right, the only path forward is to just forgive and change within. The fact I became so emotional and angry about it proves that I have not done what I need to do within myself. She mad? Be mad. It makes no difference to me.
Brother I totally agree with you. It’s kind of insane how many people are blue pulled and do not understand why we have the inclinations we do. Scarier yet, people have no idea how to take control of their realities and live in an “ordered” way as you say. Just wanted to say thank you as well! I wouldn’t have started my channel to help men if it were not for you! Respect and blessings!
I'm 38. My father passed when I was 21. Both got cancers.. I took care of her until her complete recovery but she needs to leave to respectfully sever the relationship. She doesn't acknowledge the healthy boundary that should be here, because our shared close family life. I still love and take care of her but now I have to aggressively and intentionally create that boundary to make sure I don't sink
my mom was like angry emotional typical mom but she took care of me and siblings. i love her, but when it comes to be a man you can't relly on your mom or listening her advices. as long as my mom lecture me, mom always use emotional language. everytime my mom give me advices i don't whining and interupting i just hearing it and considered it as bypassed wind with stoic face.
There are dudes in the neighborhood that are just going around collecting data for their gossiping mother's in exchange for motherly attention. It's disturbing watching men contributing that way.
I have always been at odds with my mom…her and my dad had a turbulent marriage. I learned after years that my father was the good guy in all of this and our relationship has gotten way better over the years. My mother was the master of manipulation….that doesn’t work on me anymore at 45yo….I love her but keep her at arms length
This is real, I always said once you turn 18 you need to detach from your mother and learn how to be a man. I tell my wife’s brother all the time, he’s 20 and he needs to leave the house. They have a 30 year old brother who’s still living there rent free and has nothing going for him.
Bring back traditional familys. Let's become grounded men so we can do better than our parents... ✊🏽 (No full blame on them, oftentimes they didn't know better because of society...)
How do you respect your mother who emotionally manipulates you? Honor I believe is when you accept them and learn from their behaviors. Without disrespecting but showing respect, I can’t do that.
My brother was gonna be put in prison for a false rape allegation. He could have been put away for years and that was years without hearing from him and seeing him. I was so emotionally invested in this I cried cuz I was worried about never seeing him again. I feel weak for crying drunk in my wife's arms because my family has been going through one thing after another
Luckily for this generation that has access to youtube and forums, people can slowly or quickly realize just how badly their mothers hold them back in a lot of cases before it's too late and they are 25-35 years old and have to completely redevelop their entire brain. I was brainwashed in a family dominated by a woman where the male mentor I was supposed to have teaching me had literally 0 lessons. Instinctively, even when I was a 3 year old I knew something was wrong but I was outnumbered (youngest) 4 to 1. Something important to note is, women typically have a raise in testosterone as they get older, and the boomer generation due to easy careers and birth control/abortion were able to delay starting families for a very long time. So not only is the mother older and less capable energy wise to raise her kids, she has a raise in aggression. But as I said they are weaker when they get older, so how do you think older women spend their aggression? Being 'Karens'. Using emotional manipulation to attack all those around her, even her children. Don't bother 'standing up' to your mothers. Talking is never as good as doing. Begin making decisions that separate you from her control. The reason these mothers are abusive is because they are a small dog backed up into a corner of society (in their mind). A small dog backed up into a corner by a larger animal will usually go belly up and submit for the chance of safety.... HOWEVER humans are able to use emotional manipulation as leverage.. and if the small dog is backed up into the corner by something it sees a direct weakness in, it will try to bite that weakness as hard as it can.
I know once I leave my mom’s house I will become a real man. I forgive her for the bad things that indirectly happened to me. I’m good with her, but I know the final day’s of me being around her so much are right now.
I believe Eugenics done correctly isn’t a sin as far as the Bible is concerned but I will do more research. For a healthy strong son and future King you should try to secure the best female mate. Facially and height wise 👌 genetics are literally everything this is the first thing your children are born with when they come in to this world. I’m personally 6 foot barefoot legit and have an above average face (model type) and have been chosen by and slept with many women. I’m from Brooklyn NY. I’ve impregnated a black woman that’s over 5”8 In addition to a white woman with blonde hair and blue eyes who is also over 5”8 I did this for purely genetics gifts that my children can use 👍 you should not impregnate or have kids with just anyone. Random sex is whatever but when you are trying to build a kingdom it should be done strategically 👍
Hi, Elliot Can I ask how is your mums health so bad? Doesn't she eat and live a healthy life like your father? The way you described he lived what's the cause old age? Thanks
Just to point out a funny thing. Elliot says first that he respects his mother for being such a healthy woman and some other things and then he says how his mother is ill and has a lot of pain, asthma and so on...Xd
Love the wisdom Elliot!! Been watching u since I was 15. But about the vegan thing... You're completely wrong my guy. I used to think the same exact way u did. Boy was I wrong. It's been three years and no, I have not "turned into a woman". All the women actually complement me on the test of my sperm, ever since I've gone vegan. They love it, I love the feedback, and I feel great overall
@@TheCastedone true, true. I'm not saying everyone should go vegan, no. It's actually impossible, the world is filled with too many GMO animals and they must be eaten. But from my personal experience, not just research alone, I found that anyone can do it. Anyone. Trust me, I used to eat A WHOLE LOTTA meat, couldn't even see my life without it. Now I can't ever imagine my self eating a dead animals flesh ever again...
Very true. I'm not blaming my mom but I can tie many of my bad habits back to being raised by a single mom. NO man should ever be raised by a single mom (and I guess a beta male). Honestly jealous of guys that had a masculine influence growii g up but I have great online mentors.
You run your mouth without having any clue of what you missed out on. Most fathers in our world mash their sons down and never allow them room to become the head of the household. Most true alpha males come from single mother homes because there was no competition to be the man of the house so at least they had shot to fill it.
I can totally relate to this. What do you think has helped in wake of that?
Feel you, brother
to be honest, I have a dad, but he was mostly consumed by alcohol back when I was little, so even when you have a dad that doesn't mean you have a good dad that teaches you how to be a man. That's why we learn so much together here, as a team, becoming a better person.
@@mustbecome Be honest to yourself and seek the truth. You have your masculine desires. And seeing you on a Elliot Hulse video is a good sign.
Women control by emotional manipulation - fear, shame, guilt trip. So true. My mom would do this to me ALL the time growing up.
I’m so sorry bro. I have 2 kids in their 20’s. I apportion anytime I can. I just want them to live the way they want and to be happy.
my exgirlfriend did this. Hence, ex.
Sorry that your mother did that to you! I’ve recently realised that with my mother, l don’t think it was my dad, she goes and tells him stupid shiit 😂but a couple of times; my dad came into my room yelling at me for no reason, I think my mother goes and tells my dad something, to get me all nervous and l start yelling, then I’ve hopped in my car and drove away..
Stop being enrolled in her emotional battles. - that part
I grew up with my mother and now as a 40 y/o man I realize how many times and years I have been trying to help, save and be there for her thru breakups, work wins and losses & other family member issues.
I am grateful to have become stronger thru independence, hard work, sacrifice and growing a family of my own.
Elliot and others help with motivation and real life mental help that many of us can relate to and apply to our own relationships and situations
omg I just had this last night. Fucking awful lol.
Man I miss these kinds of videos. Elliott always spreads incredible knowledge and wisdom.
I sought this video out having had an evening where my mom’s habits and actions enraged me. She has refused to adapt and change her own role as my sister and I age - even being out of her house, she will never go a day without checking in or telling me some inane detail about her day. And if you don’t respond or engage with her then she’ll get concerned. It’s been a lifetime of frustration and she refuses to change, despite how many times she’s been “logically” told.
I believe that you’re right, the only path forward is to just forgive and change within. The fact I became so emotional and angry about it proves that I have not done what I need to do within myself.
She mad? Be mad. It makes no difference to me.
I'm 19 and this is so true. Mother love is like an emotional prison that you gotta break through.
that is exactly how my husband describes his mothers “love”. we
refer to her as his smother.
Brother I totally agree with you. It’s kind of insane how many people are blue pulled and do not understand why we have the inclinations we do. Scarier yet, people have no idea how to take control of their realities and live in an “ordered” way as you say. Just wanted to say thank you as well! I wouldn’t have started my channel to help men if it were not for you! Respect and blessings!
I'm 38. My father passed when I was 21. Both got cancers.. I took care of her until her complete recovery but she needs to leave to respectfully sever the relationship. She doesn't acknowledge the healthy boundary that should be here, because our shared close family life. I still love and take care of her but now I have to aggressively and intentionally create that boundary to make sure I don't sink
my mom was like angry emotional typical mom but she took care of me and siblings. i love her, but when it comes to be a man you can't relly on your mom or listening her advices. as long as my mom lecture me, mom always use emotional language. everytime my mom give me advices i don't whining and interupting i just hearing it and considered it as bypassed wind with stoic face.
There are dudes in the neighborhood that are just going around collecting data for their gossiping mother's in exchange for motherly attention. It's disturbing watching men contributing that way.
Wtf
@@VeI_2.0 exactly my reaction
that's actually horrible, this is the first time i'm hearing about this
What do you mean
I’ve noticed men raised by single Moms love to talk and gossip. A boy raised by a man is stoic, talks less frequently but has good content.
I have always been at odds with my mom…her and my dad had a turbulent marriage. I learned after years that my father was the good guy in all of this and our relationship has gotten way better over the years. My mother was the master of manipulation….that doesn’t work on me anymore at 45yo….I love her but keep her at arms length
Wow I feel like this is perfect. I have been thinking about this all month. How I’m so paralyzed to make decisions that my parents may disapprove of
Good to have you back here dropping knowledge again, E!
Yea, ive seen this to a couple friends...
At 4:00 this is true and that's what most mothers don't want for their son's, some mothers don't even know about that scripture.
This is real, I always said once you turn 18 you need to detach from your mother and learn how to be a man. I tell my wife’s brother all the time, he’s 20 and he needs to leave the house. They have a 30 year old brother who’s still living there rent free and has nothing going for him.
Brilliant the end had me crackin up thanks E
Bring back traditional familys. Let's become grounded men so we can do better than our parents... ✊🏽 (No full blame on them, oftentimes they didn't know better because of society...)
also we have access too this.............we are very lucky.
Baby boomers were traumatized at birth.
How do you respect your mother who emotionally manipulates you? Honor I believe is when you accept them and learn from their behaviors. Without disrespecting but showing respect, I can’t do that.
I love when he does this kind of video.
THANKS
My brother was gonna be put in prison for a false rape allegation. He could have been put away for years and that was years without hearing from him and seeing him. I was so emotionally invested in this I cried cuz I was worried about never seeing him again. I feel weak for crying drunk in my wife's arms because my family has been going through one thing after another
A Good mother will nurture the future for all a Bad mother will crush the future of all. Literally no in between. IMO
Brilliant advice.
Luckily for this generation that has access to youtube and forums, people can slowly or quickly realize just how badly their mothers hold them back in a lot of cases before it's too late and they are 25-35 years old and have to completely redevelop their entire brain. I was brainwashed in a family dominated by a woman where the male mentor I was supposed to have teaching me had literally 0 lessons. Instinctively, even when I was a 3 year old I knew something was wrong but I was outnumbered (youngest) 4 to 1.
Something important to note is, women typically have a raise in testosterone as they get older, and the boomer generation due to easy careers and birth control/abortion were able to delay starting families for a very long time. So not only is the mother older and less capable energy wise to raise her kids, she has a raise in aggression. But as I said they are weaker when they get older, so how do you think older women spend their aggression? Being 'Karens'. Using emotional manipulation to attack all those around her, even her children.
Don't bother 'standing up' to your mothers. Talking is never as good as doing. Begin making decisions that separate you from her control. The reason these mothers are abusive is because they are a small dog backed up into a corner of society (in their mind). A small dog backed up into a corner by a larger animal will usually go belly up and submit for the chance of safety.... HOWEVER humans are able to use emotional manipulation as leverage.. and if the small dog is backed up into the corner by something it sees a direct weakness in, it will try to bite that weakness as hard as it can.
More content like this Unlce E. Like the old days.
I know once I leave my mom’s house I will become a real man. I forgive her for the bad things that indirectly happened to me. I’m good with her, but I know the final day’s of me being around her so much are right now.
Would love to know your opinion on eugenics and whether you believe certain people should just stay monk.
I believe Eugenics done correctly isn’t a sin as far as the Bible is concerned but I will do more research. For a healthy strong son and future King you should try to secure the best female mate. Facially and height wise 👌 genetics are literally everything this is the first thing your children are born with when they come in to this world. I’m personally 6 foot barefoot legit and have an above average face (model type) and have been chosen by and slept with many women. I’m from Brooklyn NY. I’ve impregnated a black woman that’s over 5”8 In addition to a white woman with blonde hair and blue eyes who is also over 5”8 I did this for purely genetics gifts that my children can use 👍 you should not impregnate or have kids with just anyone. Random sex is whatever but when you are trying to build a kingdom it should be done strategically 👍
@@illusiveman1 Yessir it's just science
That's because more and more are growing without a father
Interesting "coincidence." I was just talking to my mom and this popped up on my feed.
But what if she lives with you ? I want to move on by telling her to leave but I also would feel bad.
Hi, Elliot
Can I ask how is your mums health so bad? Doesn't she eat and live a healthy life like your father? The way you described he lived what's the cause old age?
Thanks
Where can I ask Elliot a question?
A mother's love isn't inherently "noble".
this video 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
As a son I love and honor them but as an adult 🖕🏾
Any good books on this topic?
Just to point out a funny thing.
Elliot says first that he respects his mother for being such a healthy woman and some other things and then he says how his mother is ill and has a lot of pain, asthma and so on...Xd
Mentally healthy
Maybe her mother has gone through so much problems and done solutions for that, that what he mean. In old age some illness are common for all
🔥🔥
A woman is a child her whole life. A child cannot raise another child.
Simple. Grow up and be a man and not a little boy obeying your mommie. This should mostly be done by age of 18 to 19.
Why is this dude so enmeshed in EITHER of his parents' business??
I really need a girlfriend man, I need one so badly
Too much mama 🍼
Love the wisdom Elliot!! Been watching u since I was 15. But about the vegan thing... You're completely wrong my guy. I used to think the same exact way u did. Boy was I wrong. It's been three years and no, I have not "turned into a woman". All the women actually complement me on the test of my sperm, ever since I've gone vegan. They love it, I love the feedback, and I feel great overall
My findings show it isn't a healthy diet for all.
Wtf man
@@TheCastedone true, true. I'm not saying everyone should go vegan, no. It's actually impossible, the world is filled with too many GMO animals and they must be eaten. But from my personal experience, not just research alone, I found that anyone can do it. Anyone. Trust me, I used to eat A WHOLE LOTTA meat, couldn't even see my life without it. Now I can't ever imagine my self eating a dead animals flesh ever again...
@@TheCastedone also after the first few months transitioning phase my gains doubled. I kid u not. I was astounded.
@@TheDickskin that's great. I tried vegan and felt lifeless. My life style and body type just wasn't having it.