I don"t like competing with anyone, therefore I don't compete nor do I criticize other people. People can call me a liar but I know that I don't. No one should be competing with other people, compete with yourself. You got this!
Women are catty with each other because most women compete each other for men and a relationship leading to marriage. Most women are jealous of each other. We all have something unique and different to offer. And like the caller said, what is for you is for you! There is no need to compete with someone else over something God has for you. If God has something for someone else, support that woman, do not be envious of her. God will give you what he has for you in his time.
Yes, my second oldest sistenemy lol and my middle sistenemy lol hate me for that reason.I'm low contact with the second oldest and no contact with the middle one, no surprise right there go figure.
I’m with Adrienne, I’m just too lazy to pine/compete for a mans attention with many women wanting him. It’s sad ,competition is very real and truly self destructive.
Unfortunately, many women get off on that. They like the idea of being with a man that many other women want. They like making other women jealous. They want other women to hate them. They get off on it. It's a sad truth that needs to change.
This is why i am by myself most of the time, just me, my daughter and fiancé and my bunnies :) I had a long history of experiencing jealous “friends” & jealous co workers etc.. For legit no reason...Jealousy is a demonic spirit..
Heres to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise them. Other women are not my competition, I stand with them, not against them. Also, shout out to the girls who smile at and compliment other girls, real Queens fix each others crowns. P.S. I hope you feel beautiful today. 💃
The WNBA is a league that is struggling to make money. But do you know what the irony is? The majority of the WNBA’s audience is men. Women don’t even support other women. Yet they will blame men for the fact that their league is struggling.
Women are catty to each other we live in a world where if you’re not doing this , not looking like this , not dressing like this , not slaying like this and etc..then you’re not an “ it “ girl... lemme tell you something... every woman on this earth is capable of fulfilling a different purpose from the next and guess what ?!?! You can support women that do the same thing as you as well do things opposite of your life !
They all had great points👏👏👏 You shouldn't feel the need to bring down another woman just to uplift yourself. That says a lot about your self esteem and how toxic you are.
Muffinpie 207 true. But I don’t think people who think like this are necessarily bad people. They just need to train themselves to not have this mindset. You can always reverse it.
Bria Barrows you can offer different perspectives 👌but I’m talking about the Women in the comments that are actually jealous, hateful and competitive towards other women!
Muffinpie 207 Exactly that’s what most people thing competition is to bring down others but the goal of competition is not to bring down others it’s to uplift yourself through your flaws. How many companies are competing against each other and know about their flaws every day? What about the lions that fail hunting but stay competitive and learn through their failures and what they can do next? Competition is not bad it’s how you take it!!!!
We all have insecurities but if those are insecurities are going to cause you to belittle and downplay other women and their achievements then you need to check yourself. We all bloom at different times, so wait on your time and trust God.
Or do what Tamera said. Instead of looking at the successful woman with jealousy and hatred, ask yourself what she's doing that you're not. What could you be doing better? Improve yourself. Set goals and work towards them.
I know right! She didn’t even comment. All I could think of was that she felt guilty because of the way she did Tamar. It would be hypocritical for her to speak when she too wanted to “eliminate” the competition smh
Noup. I didn't make the society I was born in, so some things are not my fault, it's the society's, that was created by the people who were born before me
I've run into this cattiness and it absolutely makes my skin crawl. Not all women are this way and I'm one of them. I've always been to myself even as a young person and have never cared about popularity or gossip or the "in-crowd." I just didn't care and still don't as a grown woman. I do my own thing. If I can help, I'll help and move on. Spending time on such non-sense is a waste of time. When someone tries to bring this junk to me I'll quickly tell them I'm not interested in this mess and I quickly remove myself. Sometimes I don't say a word and quickly remove myself, never to be found. Take the insecurity somewhere else. Who's got time for this? I certainly don't.
Man I felt that when Adrienne said that’s she’s too lazy to compete! So facts!I never ever cared what the next woman is doing. I’ve always stayed in my lane and focused on myself. I remember having this friend in college where she was always super cool and down to earth when it was just me and her chillen in the dorms but when we would go out to a bar or club her energy would shift. I got a sense she was on full competition mode. It was so weird to me.
Comparison, Insecurity, Jealously, the list goes on; lack of identity, not empowering each other... ugh! Being a woman can be exhausting when you're not the catty type... Like, GIRLS WE ALL WIN!
@@britbritnicole And that's what it boils down too. I think some men encourage the cattiness... they don't like the drama but they sure create it and if a woman is not secured in herself, that will happen. I mean, look what happened to Yaya Mayweather... even though that's another level of cattiness but if she didn't feel threatened or somewhat in competition with the other woman, she wouldn't have driven herself to stab her.
Natalie M and it’s also the fact that she rambles and doesn’t get to the point. she’s the least person i’m interesting in hearing when it comes to topics 💀
I love this segment! I had to learn the hard way that being around the wrong women with the wrong energies can bring out the wrong energies within yourself. Competing with yourself and being confident in yourself is the prominent way it should be. You are great, beautiful and you can do it and you can support other women as well!
Yes it can. I decided this year was the year I’d heal and be better for me and have boundaries with people. Because people’s negativity can rub off on you when you are trying to progress. 🙏🏾
I’m a young teen. And one of the reasons why some of us young women & adults compete is over jealousy. Speaking for myself, I’m in high school. A lot of females in my school feel the need to compete with other females over something so stupid and petty. Sometimes this occurs because of one’s own insecurities. And I admit sometimes it’s over boys and female drama. I feel like all the women in our country no matter what race, should unite together and lift each other up. Ps: I hope everyone is staying Safe & Healthy during this time. God Bless you all❤️
Are you even down ? So that someone would lift . Women have everything equally men are more homeless than women and more in prisons and you still think women are victim of society
@@amolchavan1558 men should start the bromance again and support each other again, no matter Masculine , feminine , gay , straight . men need their own space to help each other .
@@CONGLOMERATE32 thank you for your reply. I agree with you. It happens with both sexes. We need to lift each other up as human beings. That gives us inspiration and motivation..
“The jealousy can eat at you “ . Agreed Amanda . Kinda like if a woman pushes an opportunity out of another’s woman’s hands to further herself and then she goes on a guilt trip to convince everyone she didn’t do it . Right ...Loni ?
Whoever is reading this know that you are going to make it through these evil days. You have fought and won battles that are much dangerous than this. If you survived last time you will be victorious this time too
I liked your comment but I do want to add this, just because I'm still here on anyone else, doesn't mean it's because I fought to win the battle it's because of God's grace giving me a chance to finally pick up myself and battle.
🗣🗣🗣A study showed that 80% of Women would rather have a MALE BOSS than a FEMALE BOSS!!! That says a lot!! I had a female co worker that was a narcissist and tried to get me fired and it ended up BACKFIRING on her big time!! She ended up getting FIRED and one by one her toxic friends in the workplace got fired and quit!!! Here’s a tip for hostile work environment: Document everything in the workplace and send it to your manager’s email; that way there is a paper trail!!!
Ms. Beautiful - I used to work in a hostile environment and documented everything and the moment I couldn’t take it anymore I just quit because life is way too short to be working at a place full of negativity.
Right!! Same thing happened to me. I’ve never had a problem working with men but some women can be super rude as mangers. While I was training for a job, I had the most horrible experience with a woman manager. She later apologized but I never really knew what caused her to act that way. Can’t we all just get along? Lol
luxaholic anonymous Luckily I was at a job where we didn’t worked together BUT they still tried to phase me out and they failed!! I’m a fighter and I wanted to WIN!! Don’t get me wrong, I was gettin stressed BUT it made me stronger and I pushed her buttons so bad that she went off and they were FORCED TO FIRE HER!!! Otherwise, they’d be looking at a Lawsuit!!!
In my last position I had a white female supervisor and she was the nastiest person I've ever had the displeasure of working with. Not only was she a bully but she was closeted racist. I had a meeting with the CEO and discussed all of my concerns. He looked me right in my eyes and said "I believe you". Several other people have attested to her character as well. Karma has already handled her.
Because we can be petty and we are unfortunately always competing. Some of us not all. Like for most women, it’s like we want to be the best when it comes to success, when it comes to looks, etc. ( not realizing we are all unique.) Like no one wants anyone them to “one up them.” I absolutely love what Jeannie is saying. You have to have it set in your mind to be in your own lane. But it takes time! I’ve struggled with this over and over again. But overtime you will get better with being in a state of contentment. If you need to take social media breaks, take them. Tam is right as well! It stems from insecurities for sure. This is an excellent and needed segment.
Talya Brown I don’t believe the reason why she is quiet is the reason u mentioned. Lately she mostly talks at the end giving conclusive point . This time around, all the other hosts and the person asking the question said it all.
Am Blessed That’s true so we could be wrong but .. I think the irony of her recently rrama and her facial expression kinda add to this opinion/assumption .
Our society puts alot of a womans self worth on her appearance. And the media consistently projects certain standards of beauty that alot of women feel the pressure to obtain. It's too many different women in this world for us all to be trying to look the same and competing on who's closer to the standard.
"Society" and "media" projecting beauty standards: most of those "standards" seem to be created by women. Women notice and draw attention to every single detail in makeup, clothing etc.
JZWALZ51 ROBIN Who created the standard of blonde hair and blue eyes? A man! Who constantly put in their music I like big butts and other women's body parts? Men. Who have majority of the power in mainstream networks and movies? Men. So for you to say women have created this is you projecting and assuming I was blaming you. But since you turned this into a sex thing then I will call a spade a spade. Women follow these beauty standards and trends to attract men and to look attractive to other women. The beauty industry also created alot of the insecurities of women not looking good with cellulite and stretch marks. The list goes on but there's no need for you to be condescending.
etf42 Stop blaming women. Men have contributed larger to these standards. The scientists that came up with the golden ratio for women's facial features was a man. The beauty industries capitalized on the insecurities that women gained from alot of the pressures put on them. We live in a patriarchy society so that's asinine to believe men don't contribute to these standards.
@@jadesmith7983 we do not live in a patriachal society. women are free to do and think whatever they wish. the average man is too weak and scared to say anything remotely critical about women, no matter how true it is. stop acting like women are mindless creatures that can not think or act on their own. its insulting. women are well aware of what makes them attractive and what does not. they are not stupid. the scientist that came up with whatever ratio you said simply explained what women intuitively know to be true.
Naughty Girlfriend right!. It’s too much energy hating...I don’t understand. To be honest I don’t want to understand what goes through their minds lmao
🙄 Here we go again 🤦🏽♂️ How does a conversation that was originally about why women are catty become about men❓❗Why was Amanda Seales the only 1 on the panel that felt the need to inject the word patriarchy into the conversation as some type of misandrist slur against men 🤨❓❗😏 I promise you that is 1 mentally disturbed bitter black woman ✅
Insecurity. Women tend to look at what’s going on with the next woman. Then comes jealousy because they want to be her. I’m nowhere near perfect but there’s a girl who blocked me because she believe I have “everything” (a degree ... a career etc.) when in reality I have my struggles.
LaNeedra W. Don’t worry girl it’s jealousy and people in general take competition in a wrong way. That woman that blocked you was to weak to handle you and your presence removed her toxicity away from you with out you doing anything that is God doing the work for you. If I was that lady the first thing I will do is ask myself questions on how I can improve my well being of life and make sure I compete against myself in order to reach that level of success cause the first thing she did is compare herself and right away she took it as competition against you when she could have use it as motivation that is where competition becomes bad and unhealthy .A lot of people look at the ending but never take a look on how it takes to get a degree. There is good competition and there is bad competition a lot of women and men in this comment section think with a bad competition mentality and let their insecurities come to them when it comes to competition! I don’t. The world thrives of competition if not we would be stuck 1950 right now! Hospitals are competing against each other to find the right medical supplies for patients and it’s also a business too! the better the supplies the better the hospital! So people overtopping each other is good thing because it creates new cures but again it is how you see competition! As long as you ignore the negativity around you and that social media bs you will be fine girl!! Do your thing!
They are so damned blinded by their extreme insecurities. I had to tell a hater off one. I had just lost my mom (it was around my theirs day of grieving) and the nasty, vitriolic b*tch tried to engage me in some BS…gave me nasty looks and speaking under her breath as she passed in the lobby of the apartment building where I live. I said to myself, this is it, I’m going to have to really check this hating @zz b*tch. She’d done that shite TOO MANY TIMES. I wrote a note and put it under her door. This is pretty much what I wrote: . “yolanda, I have done NOTHING to you. I’m always kind and have even brought you treats to cheer you up when you sprained your ankle. Yet, you keep being shitty, throwing your nasty looks and hateful energy in my direction. My mother JUST passed a few days ago and I’m minding my own business, not saying anything to you and STILL, you’re a nasty, hate-filled bit
If ppl r jealous of me, in short u r not me. Get over it. K thx. It actually takes alot to be me. Still trying to figure out me on the daily. But at least I dont project bs or instigate. Or antagonize & instigate. Or get off to the stupid simple sh. Paint it however u want. Or u could just simply stfu
What you mean? Ive dealt with this even with women in their 50s and 60s and im in my 20s. Some people age but still have not dealt with their insecurities and its sad really. They should have grown out of such behaviors, like you said, but unfortunately mean girls has no age.
She nodded in agreement with the other ladies and she is the time keeper so maybe she realised that there wouldn't be enough time for what she had to say
Bc everyone else is talking and they didn’t have time for her to say anything. You gotta remember it’s 5 ppl. I’ve noticed she’s usually the last person to talk now, she holds her opinion to the end and unfortunately that means she may not get to talk. A lot of times when she does that she has to fight her way into the conversation and say “I haven’t said anything yet”.
LauraChinyere Yep insecurities can also be a good thing! It can teach you to just appreciate how you are or improving yourself in a healthy matter!!! If you’re obese you have the option if you want to accept your beauty or change the your perception of beauty right? It’s all about you! I never take competition as a wrong thing!! Look at the successful business men, artists, people in general thrive of competition!
I had an issue working under a female lawyer. She was constantly belittling me. AS IF I was a threat to her, she owned her own company and I was just a receptionist who sometimes did paralegal stuff 😂 I found it so odd. Like sis your name is on the company, I’m not coming for your “throne” I just want to pay my bills. Could care less lol
It's usually to do with their upbringing. Nothing less, nothing more. So to solve this problem parents need to teach their daughters how embrace other women to play with and as they grow as adults learn to be able to work with...true or facts?
I agree, me and my sister were never jealous of others and were always kind to other people, it was our parents who taught us to be humble, never be greedy and kind, especially to the less unfortunate!
Hectic. I know i have become unapologetic with the way I look and feel and it has helped me to strive and achieve more in life. I can't be responsible of how other women feel about me, I can only be my own best version in society.
Because some women don’t like to see other women to succeed and they would prefer that they would stay down forever. And that is because they are insecure. Ofc like Tamera say I’m referring to unhealthy competition so I agree with her completely.
I think women hate themselves alot. As someone who is on RECORD for not being catty, I get really offended by women who compete and act out like 12 year old girls. I hate jealous, nosy, petty, intrusive women who target other women because of what's going on inside of them. LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF IS THE BIGGEST LEVEL UP WOMEN COULD EVER MAKE.... because its not the patriarchy. Its us not realizing that what God has for us is for us... no one has what's yours, no one is keeping your from them man for you... what's for you is just for YOU!!!
I had a friend who literally tried to one up me in every situation. Another friend complimented my eyelashes by saying they're long and she goes "NO she doesn't. But (somebody in her family) does". Super weird and that was just one example.
Agreed. I had one girl call me insecure lol and when i didnt cry over it.. she did. its so sad just how immature and insecure girls are to go as far as putting other women down to actually make themselves feel better.
@@cookiegirl891 I just don't get it! Me and this girl had been friends since middle. We went to high school AND college together and her cattiness and need to compete with others especially me just intensified over the years. We were best friends but I wouldn't consider her that anymore.
@@Lola-rn2jj Nope. I feel you girl. my own best friend did that. Broke my back to please that girl, even dimmed my own light and belittled my accomplishments so that she did not feel a certain way. In the end, she still didnt think I deserved half the things (i actually worked hard for) that I got after college. She grew up with a silver spoon and expected me to continue to know my place even tho we all work hard to get ourselves out and up. smh
Yes! Only compete with yourself! This world has become so toxic where I see people and groups of grown people purposely choosing targets and belittling people. It's almost like they are seeking superiority in a way that sends a message that I am better then you . But everyone has their own skills. I admire a lot of people and love giving them compliments on their individual success.
@@LilacStar82 Kiely's family was overseeing and managing everything so we can't really blame her for that. They probably would have kicked her out of the group if she wasn't siding with Kiely.
They stay doing my girl jeannie wrong , they never want to credit her for the things she say. She literally just explained that whole question & everybody else just paddled off that answer. #FellowCapricorn I understand you jeannie don't worry we stay being misunderstood or not being credited for our intelligence. Capricorn mindsets are to advanced for the everyday human brain intellect. We're always ahead of the game that is why were the most misunderstood. - #THEPLUG 🔥💨
All of these comments are right on point. Always inspire yourself in order to reach your goals. Don’t let outside negativity hold you down or hold you back!
Girl, I’m with you. If you’re going to say it being lazy then I am lazy too. I don’t compete. It’s tiring. I do what I love doing. I don’t care what another woman has or does.
Gosh people give Loni a break! When she talks y'all say "why is she talking after what she did to Tamar" when she doesn't y'all mad because she is silent. We don't know the full story so why don't y'all stay out of other people business and enjoy the show for god sake!
Loni was rude ...watch the clip again...she shades amanda and looks at tam and Adrienne and then looks down awkwardly...people aren't being mean they're just being honest
Raymond Cabrera Loni has commented on her facial expression numerous times on the show that’s the face she makes when she’s taking in information I think you’re reaching
More of, the creator of those words were a man. There is nothing wrong with patriarchy. A society has to be patriarchial or matriarchial @JZWALZ51 ROBIN.
@@TNJ-gn2gv Those two descriptive options only exist for the ideologically possessed feminists who are not intelligent enough to realize that societies are more complex than that.
Amanda's styling is GORGEIUS...WOW glamourous rock chick...those earrings oh woww ....I collect earrings so it's an extra detail I look at and they suit her and with her skin tone 😍 so beautiful
Man land is very different, when there's a dispute we just knock each other out and we're friends the next day LOL women like to hold grudges for years
I LOVE LOVE LOVE Amanda's style!! Her hair and her clothes..she looks great today ( not saying she doesn't look good other days) I just liked it a lot today
In order to truly be happy, STOP COMPARING!!! There's ALEAYS gonna be someone bigger, badder, bolder, better, and beautiful! That's just it! Love YOU!!! ✌🏾️
This was literally sooo real. especially Tam...I have never thought about patriarchy making us feel that there is only room for 1 of us. Soooo real. Face yourself girl I have been doing that alot lately. No one can take what is for you girl.
I had a so called cousin who I considered a "Bestfriend" backstabbed me for the past decade. We use to hangout alot when were very young. We became closer in middle school/ high school. In middle school she was such a good friend. Then when we went to high school she started changing and started acting like a "bad bitch". She always tried acting tough around the popular people. I noticed that once I started posting pictures on social media and got attention she became jealous. Years later through out highschool i thought i could trust her with anything. By that I mean girl things like with cute boys , gossips , and secrets. I remember this one time I got excited that a cute boy would look at me. I told my so called bestfriend about that and she than told that cute kid in class about what I said. Thinking back about this one time we were in the main hallway and I had seen the cute boy walk by me and another friend of mine, laughing at us with his group of friends. It was the most embarrassing thing ever. I confronted her asking her if she had told him and she denied it. I dont understand why females hate on each other so bad! Literally it can be your own so called family member!
Can y’all please discuss the racial issues happening on the app TikTok? 👏🏼 Like the white girls using their black boyfriends for clout. 👀 It’s honestly truly disgusting and cringe worthy to watch. I’m sure I’m not the only one who sees this.
Zandile Xaba Yes, and it’s sad for those who are in serious interracial relationships. It puts a bad taste in people’s mouths and it’s disrespectful to the black community, particularly black women.
It is funny how tamera basically repeated what Jeannie already said and everyone clapped like wow response of the year 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. They stay piggy backing off Jeannie’s intelligent responses.
Missed Loni's take on this. But it's definitely what all of you all said. When you see another person doing good, applaud. The reality is that a feeling arises sometimes saying I wish I could accomplish like that. At that point there are two roads ahead, either:who she thinks she is, I'll show her while being jealous OR you can applaud and ask God what does He have is store for you. The latter road is always better. Accomplishments are different but isn't that God's WILL though, each of us have a purpose.
I think there's this misconception that only women are "catty" aka competitive ... but men are competitive too. Except that for some reason it's called "dominance" and not viewed as such a bad thing. I think it's natural to want to take out the competition. It's engrained in the primal part of our brain because back in the day, thats how you survived. You either took out the competition or you didn't get to eat. However I do think that women and minorities and particular are already put in such limiting situations, that they have to work extra hard to fight that urge of competitiveness and build each other up instead of tearing each other down.
I absolutely hate this unnecessary competition amongst women and I won't hesitate to admit it to men. I had a close friend of mine that would always turn the attention towards her. When I told her how devastated I was about my boyfriend being immunocompromised, she bragged about how much her boyfriend loves her. When I opened up about us not being able to see each other for months because he is high risk, she replied "i miss him too i only see him twice a week and talk through a window for 20 minutes". When I explained that I'm not getting any income because of my asthma, she said "just go to work" but because her boyfriend is going to work with asthma she's like "omg i'm worried sick about him". When I say that I have anxiety, she doesn't help at all. When I talk about my fitness success because I have been working so hard, she just has to brag about her being an athlete. Just last night, she sent 2 photos in a groupchat posing for mirror selfies and after us not reacting, she replied "like how no one is talking about me" sarcastically. I hate people who are so narcissistic and hate seeing other people succeed! She wasn't like this before. She started acting this way once she realised that she wasn't the only one in a relationship anymore. She always has to criticise my boyfriend even though he treats me so good and has never done anything to her. She can't accept the fact that her friend is happy in her relationship. Meanwhile, every time her boyfriend doesn't speak to her for half a day, she's like "omg he's going to break up with me". She does this every other day and I'm done supporting her. All she wants is gossip, attention and compliments. She never asks how I'm feeling. I'm slowly dropping her out of my life
Ashley F Actually no, I checked and checked and I don’t think they were at all. What’s there to laugh at anyway? She already mentioned in many past episodes how she started off her career at the makeup counter of a store. No offence but I strongly think you’re mistaken on this one.
No matter what industry you work in, women are catty. I tend to be someone who focuses on doing my best for the team and for myself. I tend to be so focused on my work alone that when someone comes out of the left field with some kind of attitude or rumor, I don’t even know why this person is being that way when I haven’t even given them the time to begin with.
Loni’s face was so guilty.. . She looked awkward. That fact that she didn’t speak .. . Said it all. Tamar popped in her head. She had to eliminate her competition. It’s like they were talking to her. Look at her body language.
If everyone respected everyone this world would be a much better place
Yep👏🏽❤️
Amen!
FACTS!!
I agree ^_^
I don"t like competing with anyone, therefore I don't compete nor do I criticize other people. People can call me a liar but I know that I don't. No one should be competing with other people, compete with yourself. You got this!
Women are catty with each other because most women compete each other for men and a relationship leading to marriage. Most women are jealous of each other. We all have something unique and different to offer. And like the caller said, what is for you is for you! There is no need to compete with someone else over something God has for you. If God has something for someone else, support that woman, do not be envious of her. God will give you what he has for you in his time.
God jealous people are annoying man. UPLIFT PEOPLE INSTEAD 😂
Coupon Bee amen
Yes, my second oldest sistenemy lol and my middle sistenemy lol hate me for that reason.I'm low contact with the second oldest and no contact with the middle one, no surprise right there go figure.
Amen!!
Yes never be jealous of the next just wait on your turn
Jeanie never misses, she always knows exactly what to say
I love that about her!
Always💖
She is an example of a powerful womans woman
She's the reason why I watch the show... so down to Earth. I'd love to just hang out with her.
@Auset Ausar Exactly 😏
When women try to start unnecessary drama with me, I curve them real quick.
What does curve them mean? Sorry. I'm English and I feel your comment might help me but not sure what you mean.
@@helencampbell4900 she means she exclude them
@@amolchavan1558 Thank you Amol. Happy New Year and stay safe. xx
She ditches them
Same
I’m with Adrienne, I’m just too lazy to pine/compete for a mans attention with many women wanting him. It’s sad ,competition is very real and truly self destructive.
Unfortunately, many women get off on that. They like the idea of being with a man that many other women want. They like making other women jealous. They want other women to hate them. They get off on it. It's a sad truth that needs to change.
DARK CHOCOLATE!!
Agreed...many people are not happy unless they are miserable.
I feel that either a guy wants me or he doesn't.....no need to compete/fight for him, it's a waste of time, and I'm really not that desperate.
And quite frankly men aren't even important enough to be fighting over them. They are definitely not the prize in this world 🙄😂
Dead ass. If I peep that I have no interest quickly.
When Amanda said we’re made to feel there isn’t room for all of us, I felt that. That got me. Everyone made such great points. Every single one.
Except Loni
pinke pink well she didn’t talk
Sooo true
Big Potato no just women in general. Like one has to be better than the other
૨σყαℓ ƭεε as you should 😌
Is anyone else just so HAPPY for Jeannie Mai😭😍😍❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on your ENGAGEMENT HUNNAYYY
🥳🥰🥰🥰🥰
mareze123 omg yes !! She deserves it all 😫
Yesss
Oh yesss they need to livestream the wedding😁😍
Yes and I know she got come thru with the glam on her wedding day
This did not age well. Now she is about to be single again.
I wish Tamera had a podcast. She’s the only one that seems deeply rooted...inspires me to read my bible again . She never gets caught up in drama.
I agree 💯!!!
I love her input!!!
I would definitely be there for tam tam podcast
Diamond Bright I agree
Her man gets caught up in drama though.
This is why i am by myself most of the time, just me, my daughter and fiancé and my bunnies :) I had a long history of experiencing jealous “friends” & jealous co workers etc.. For legit no reason...Jealousy is a demonic spirit..
Raquel Castillo exactly!!
I know the feeling
Same. One of my coworkers even spread nasty rumours about me even though we were supposed to be “good friends”.
@@srana10 so do you like guys More than girls?
Yes it is , it’s a sick spirit!
Heres to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise them. Other women are not my competition, I stand with them, not against them. Also, shout out to the girls who smile at and compliment other girls, real Queens fix each others crowns. P.S. I hope you feel beautiful today. 💃
What an amazing comment.
@Uncle Simp It will work
Right on
The WNBA is a league that is struggling to make money. But do you know what the irony is? The majority of the WNBA’s audience is men. Women don’t even support other women. Yet they will blame men for the fact that their league is struggling.
Women are catty to each other we live in a world where if you’re not doing this , not looking like this , not dressing like this , not slaying like this and etc..then you’re not an “ it “ girl... lemme tell you something... every woman on this earth is capable of fulfilling a different purpose from the next and guess what ?!?! You can support women that do the same thing as you as well do things opposite of your life !
Myronn Coleman this’
You said it perfectly!!! and it is more interesting that is coming from a young male 😊
Vanessa Ideliz no it’s not more interesting u pick me
@@user-nq6um4bs5y uhhh...what? Lol
Myronn Coleman i stay looking for you comments cause they’re always insightful. Keep them coming 👏🏾👏🏾
They all had great points👏👏👏 You shouldn't feel the need to bring down another woman just to uplift yourself. That says a lot about your self esteem and how toxic you are.
Muffinpie 207 true. But I don’t think people who think like this are necessarily bad people. They just need to train themselves to not have this mindset. You can always reverse it.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽thank u. some women in the comments are really justifying their catty and jealous behaviour in the comments lmao. I’d rather uplift
suxexa we are being transparent. Absolutely not condoning this behaviour but I’m offering different perspectives. I hope this makes sense.
Bria Barrows you can offer different perspectives 👌but I’m talking about the Women in the comments that are actually jealous, hateful and competitive towards other women!
Muffinpie 207 Exactly that’s what most people thing competition is to bring down others but the goal of competition is not to bring down others it’s to uplift yourself through your flaws. How many companies are competing against each other and know about their flaws every day? What about the lions that fail hunting but stay competitive and learn through their failures and what they can do next? Competition is not bad it’s how you take it!!!!
Cattiness is too light a word. I've seen women psychologically destroy each other on a number of occasions.
Exactly
Cattiness is not same as psychologically torturing in subtle ways
Agree
I never experienced this until I started working with women
I've watched it too. They get away with it because there is no threat of violence. Without that threat you can say and do anything
We all have insecurities but if those are insecurities are going to cause you to belittle and downplay other women and their achievements then you need to check yourself. We all bloom at different times, so wait on your time and trust God.
Exactly. We all deal with things. Its what you do with it though that reveals your character
Rocky Rae facts
Or do what Tamera said. Instead of looking at the successful woman with jealousy and hatred, ask yourself what she's doing that you're not. What could you be doing better? Improve yourself. Set goals and work towards them.
@@vlo4829 There you go. That is the approach I have taken for 2020.
“What’s for you will be for you” period.
I almost forgot Loni was there until the very end lol
I know right! She didn’t even comment. All I could think of was that she felt guilty because of the way she did Tamar. It would be hypocritical for her to speak when she too wanted to “eliminate” the competition smh
I believe every word that woman said about Loni.
Adeishé Ashley girl I didn’t know she was there!!! Lol sis was pressed...
Charity Family I felt that
Maybe the other hosts had already said what she wanted to say, as simple as that. Not everything need to be shady...
We can’t always blame society when WE make up society.🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
youre making too much sense.
FACTS.
Get 'em.
Noup. I didn't make the society I was born in, so some things are not my fault, it's the society's, that was created by the people who were born before me
Preach
I've run into this cattiness and it absolutely makes my skin crawl. Not all women are this way and I'm one of them. I've always been to myself even as a young person and have never cared about popularity or gossip or the "in-crowd." I just didn't care and still don't as a grown woman. I do my own thing. If I can help, I'll help and move on. Spending time on such non-sense is a waste of time. When someone tries to bring this junk to me I'll quickly tell them I'm not interested in this mess and I quickly remove myself. Sometimes I don't say a word and quickly remove myself, never to be found. Take the insecurity somewhere else. Who's got time for this? I certainly don't.
You recibe a great education im like that myself
That was their most introspective and insightful conversation in a LONGGG time ESPECIALLY from Tam~ preach Tam preach
I’m secure and confident in within my self, so I’m only my own competition. Other women can’t stand that about me.
Yep. Me too sis.
Too bad for them.
Man I felt that when Adrienne said that’s she’s too lazy to compete! So facts!I never ever cared what the next woman is doing. I’ve always stayed in my lane and focused on myself. I remember having this friend in college where she was always super cool and down to earth when it was just me and her chillen in the dorms but when we would go out to a bar or club her energy would shift. I got a sense she was on full competition mode. It was so weird to me.
bitches are weird
Very nasty
Comparison, Insecurity, Jealously, the list goes on; lack of identity, not empowering each other... ugh! Being a woman can be exhausting when you're not the catty type... Like, GIRLS WE ALL WIN!
Facts. It’s something most of us need to work on. Lovely profile btw. ♥️
@@BriaBarrows Aw! Thank you darling :D
Charnell Price yw:)
Some women are raised to be insecure and toxic. Break all the cycles
Adrienne changed the whole topic by herself 😂
Natalie M she made a good point tho women can be competitive about that too
@@britbritnicole And that's what it boils down too. I think some men encourage the cattiness... they don't like the drama but they sure create it and if a woman is not secured in herself, that will happen. I mean, look what happened to Yaya Mayweather... even though that's another level of cattiness but if she didn't feel threatened or somewhat in competition with the other woman, she wouldn't have driven herself to stab her.
Natalie M and it’s also the fact that she rambles and doesn’t get to the point. she’s the least person i’m interesting in hearing when it comes to topics 💀
Natalie M DUUUUUDE!!!!!! Always about men in her head!
Amanda and tamera’s comment is spot on 👍🏼
I can understand why there are women that prefer to have more male friends then female friends.
!!!
It can be exhausting
@@BriaBarrows , I’m a male. I do experienced more dramatic times with women then men.
I love this segment! I had to learn the hard way that being around the wrong women with the wrong energies can bring out the wrong energies within yourself. Competing with yourself and being confident in yourself is the prominent way it should be. You are great, beautiful and you can do it and you can support other women as well!
Yes it can. I decided this year was the year I’d heal and be better for me and have boundaries with people. Because people’s negativity can rub off on you when you are trying to progress. 🙏🏾
♥️
I’m a young teen. And one of the reasons why some of us young women & adults compete is over jealousy. Speaking for myself, I’m in high school. A lot of females in my school feel the need to compete with other females over something so stupid and petty. Sometimes this occurs because of one’s own insecurities. And I admit sometimes it’s over boys and female drama. I feel like all the women in our country no matter what race, should unite together and lift each other up.
Ps: I hope everyone is staying Safe & Healthy during this time. God Bless you all❤️
Are you even down ? So that someone would lift . Women have everything equally men are more homeless than women and more in prisons and you still think women are victim of society
@@amolchavan1558 men should start the bromance again and support each other again, no matter Masculine , feminine , gay , straight . men need their own space to help each other .
Thank you for this topic. I, as a man, am tired of women pulling each other down. Just rise together..damn it
They can't. There long Ass fake nails be getting in the way..
S C that’s yo ghett0 azz mama
Men can also be catty and pull each other down so be tired of that too!
@@CONGLOMERATE32 thank you for your reply. I agree with you. It happens with both sexes. We need to lift each other up as human beings. That gives us inspiration and motivation..
@@CS-sv8fg hey. I hear what u say, but there are women and men who support each other entirely. The saddest part is, not everyone does that..
“The jealousy can eat at you “ . Agreed Amanda . Kinda like if a woman pushes an opportunity out of another’s woman’s hands to further herself and then she goes on a guilt trip to convince everyone she didn’t do it . Right ...Loni ?
Maya Clery u talk like it’s facts. How do u know Loni did that?
@@user-nq6um4bs5y well we do know for a fact that there was some mess between them 2
Fr Loni was so uncomfortable
Whoever is reading this know that you are going to make it through these evil days. You have fought and won battles that are much dangerous than this. If you survived last time you will be victorious this time too
Love u for this❤️
Amen🙏🏾Thank you for this❤️
Thanks man that's really nice..thanks. God bless you as well.
I liked your comment but I do want to add this, just because I'm still here on anyone else, doesn't mean it's because I fought to win the battle it's because of God's grace giving me a chance to finally pick up myself and battle.
Warrior for Christ! Amen! Hallelujah 😄👏
🗣🗣🗣A study showed that 80% of Women would rather have a MALE BOSS than a FEMALE BOSS!!! That says a lot!!
I had a female co worker that was a narcissist and tried to get me fired and it ended up BACKFIRING on her big time!!
She ended up getting FIRED and one by one her toxic friends in the workplace got fired and quit!!!
Here’s a tip for hostile work environment: Document everything in the workplace and send it to your manager’s email; that way there is a paper trail!!!
Ms. Beautiful - I used to work in a hostile environment and documented everything and the moment I couldn’t take it anymore I just quit because life is way too short to be working at a place full of negativity.
Right!! Same thing happened to me. I’ve never had a problem working with men but some women can be super rude as mangers. While I was training for a job, I had the most horrible experience with a woman manager. She later apologized but I never really knew what caused her to act that way. Can’t we all just get along? Lol
luxaholic anonymous
Luckily I was at a job where we didn’t worked together BUT they still tried to phase me out and they failed!!
I’m a fighter and I wanted to WIN!!
Don’t get me wrong, I was gettin stressed BUT it made me stronger and I pushed her buttons so bad that she went off and they were FORCED TO FIRE HER!!!
Otherwise, they’d be looking at a Lawsuit!!!
In my last position I had a white female supervisor and she was the nastiest person I've ever had the displeasure of working with. Not only was she a bully but she was closeted racist. I had a meeting with the CEO and discussed all of my concerns. He looked me right in my eyes and said "I believe you". Several other people have attested to her character as well. Karma has already handled her.
the overwhelming majority of women want strong, righteous, male leadership
Our JeannieBeans is getting married! 🥺😩❤️❤️
Yeni Taylor where’d you hear that?
@@wallawizardz she posted on her insta
Because we can be petty and we are unfortunately always competing. Some of us not all. Like for most women, it’s like we want to be the best when it comes to success, when it comes to looks, etc. ( not realizing we are all unique.) Like no one wants anyone them to “one up them.” I absolutely love what Jeannie is saying. You have to have it set in your mind to be in your own lane. But it takes time! I’ve struggled with this over and over again. But overtime you will get better with being in a state of contentment. If you need to take social media breaks, take them. Tam is right as well! It stems from insecurities for sure. This is an excellent and needed segment.
Im like Adrienne, too lazy to compete.
Loni up there quiet cause she know she secretly trynna compete with everyone at the table😂💀
Talya Brown I was looking for this comment , thanks 😂
Talya Brown I don’t believe the reason why she is quiet is the reason u mentioned. Lately she mostly talks at the end giving conclusive point . This time around, all the other hosts and the person asking the question said it all.
Am Blessed That’s true so we could be wrong but .. I think the irony of her recently rrama and her facial expression kinda add to this opinion/assumption .
Talya Brown you didn’t lie tho
Our society puts alot of a womans self worth on her appearance. And the media consistently projects certain standards of beauty that alot of women feel the pressure to obtain. It's too many different women in this world for us all to be trying to look the same and competing on who's closer to the standard.
"Society" and "media" projecting beauty standards: most of those "standards" seem to be created by women. Women notice and draw attention to every single detail in makeup, clothing etc.
@@jzwalz51robin45 yep excactly
JZWALZ51 ROBIN Who created the standard of blonde hair and blue eyes? A man! Who constantly put in their music I like big butts and other women's body parts? Men. Who have majority of the power in mainstream networks and movies? Men. So for you to say women have created this is you projecting and assuming I was blaming you. But since you turned this into a sex thing then I will call a spade a spade. Women follow these beauty standards and trends to attract men and to look attractive to other women. The beauty industry also created alot of the insecurities of women not looking good with cellulite and stretch marks. The list goes on but there's no need for you to be condescending.
etf42 Stop blaming women. Men have contributed larger to these standards. The scientists that came up with the golden ratio for women's facial features was a man. The beauty industries capitalized on the insecurities that women gained from alot of the pressures put on them. We live in a patriarchy society so that's asinine to believe men don't contribute to these standards.
@@jadesmith7983 we do not live in a patriachal society. women are free to do and think whatever they wish. the average man is too weak and scared to say anything remotely critical about women, no matter how true it is. stop acting like women are mindless creatures that can not think or act on their own. its insulting. women are well aware of what makes them attractive and what does not. they are not stupid. the scientist that came up with whatever ratio you said simply explained what women intuitively know to be true.
Women love being competitive not only in make-up industry
Couldn’t be me lmao
@@sumeya1923 me too I just dnt know why most of them love competition
Naughty Girlfriend right!. It’s too much energy hating...I don’t understand. To be honest I don’t want to understand what goes through their minds lmao
True ✅
🙄 Here we go again 🤦🏽♂️ How does a conversation that was originally about why women are catty become about men❓❗Why was Amanda Seales the only 1 on the panel that felt the need to inject the word patriarchy into the conversation as some type of misandrist slur against men 🤨❓❗😏 I promise you that is 1 mentally disturbed bitter black woman ✅
Amanda is highly intelligent. She brings so much substance to the conversation.
Love Amanda's presence
Helen Egwu tam does as well.
Always political views to have a point for almost everything
Its quite boring to listen to her
no she doesnt, she just recites misandrist tropes
@@etf42 agreed
Insecurity. Women tend to look at what’s going on with the next woman. Then comes jealousy because they want to be her. I’m nowhere near perfect but there’s a girl who blocked me because she believe I have “everything” (a degree ... a career etc.) when in reality I have my struggles.
LaNeedra W. meanwhile God has an assignment for you to do in your own life.
LaNeedra W. Don’t worry girl it’s jealousy and people in general take competition in a wrong way. That woman that blocked you was to weak to handle you and your presence removed her toxicity away from you with out you doing anything that is God doing the work for you. If I was that lady the first thing I will do is ask myself questions on how I can improve my well being of life and make sure I compete against myself in order to reach that level of success cause the first thing she did is compare herself and right away she took it as competition against you when she could have use it as motivation that is where competition becomes bad and unhealthy .A lot of people look at the ending but never take a look on how it takes to get a degree. There is good competition and there is bad competition a lot of women and men in this comment section think with a bad competition mentality and let their insecurities come to them when it comes to competition! I don’t. The world thrives of competition if not we would be stuck 1950 right now! Hospitals are competing against each other to find the right medical supplies for patients and it’s also a business too! the better the supplies the better the hospital! So people overtopping each other is good thing because it creates new cures but again it is how you see competition! As long as you ignore the negativity around you and that social media bs you will be fine girl!! Do your thing!
LaNeedra W. So sad to live your life this way that’s why men we rule the world we don’t have time to worry about crap like this
They are so damned blinded by their extreme insecurities. I had to tell a hater off one. I had just lost my mom (it was around my theirs day of grieving) and the nasty, vitriolic b*tch tried to engage me in some BS…gave me nasty looks and speaking under her breath as she passed in the lobby of the apartment building where I live. I said to myself, this is it, I’m going to have to really check this hating @zz b*tch. She’d done that shite TOO MANY TIMES. I wrote a note and put it under her door. This is pretty much what I wrote: . “yolanda, I have done NOTHING to you. I’m always kind and have even brought you treats to cheer you up when you sprained your ankle. Yet, you keep being shitty, throwing your nasty looks and hateful energy in my direction. My mother JUST passed a few days ago and I’m minding my own business, not saying anything to you and STILL, you’re a nasty, hate-filled bit
If ppl r jealous of me, in short u r not me. Get over it. K thx. It actually takes alot to be me. Still trying to figure out me on the daily. But at least I dont project bs or instigate. Or antagonize & instigate. Or get off to the stupid simple sh. Paint it however u want. Or u could just simply stfu
It’s how you are raised. I was raised a “girl’s girl” I’ve never hated another women in my life.
I can't imagine grown women being catty...now teenage girls, that's a whole other animal.
Pamela Jones believe me their are so many “grown” women who are catty AF
Pamela Jones those teenage girls become insecure grown up catty girls
What you mean? Ive dealt with this even with women in their 50s and 60s and im in my 20s. Some people age but still have not dealt with their insecurities and its sad really. They should have grown out of such behaviors, like you said, but unfortunately mean girls has no age.
Chile, they can be. Like wtf
Tracy G no lies were told
I agree with Amanda and Adrienne. The best thing you can do is keep your emotions in check and ignore/avoid the bs
Loni was mighty quiet 👀
Luigi Feduccini I didn’t even know she was there...awkward.
@@bsbgirl85 I agree with you. Plus sometimes I hate how she brings up the things she does for Tamera as if she wants praises.
She nodded in agreement with the other ladies and she is the time keeper so maybe she realised that there wouldn't be enough time for what she had to say
Bc everyone else is talking and they didn’t have time for her to say anything. You gotta remember it’s 5 ppl. I’ve noticed she’s usually the last person to talk now, she holds her opinion to the end and unfortunately that means she may not get to talk. A lot of times when she does that she has to fight her way into the conversation and say “I haven’t said anything yet”.
ZimboCapetonian that’s exactly what it is but ppl are being shady and rude for no reason.
Not “all” woman compete with each other.
@@chrisj277 and I’m that 1% that don’t.
@nadianicole899, same here, I don't get the point.
I can relate so much with “I’m too lazy to compete” 😂🔥❤️🤣
When are we going to get a video congratulating Jeannie?!?!
We might not get one because they are not working
@@shantell4847 oh yeah. True. I thought they were 😭
@@OrangeMilkBlossom It was mentioned on The Real instergram page
It stems from insecurities.
LauraChinyere exactly!!
LauraChinyere Yep insecurities can also be a good thing! It can teach you to just appreciate how you are or improving yourself in a healthy matter!!! If you’re obese you have the option if you want to accept your beauty or change the your perception of beauty right? It’s all about you! I never take competition as a wrong thing!! Look at the successful business men, artists, people in general thrive of competition!
Jeannie is a well rounded individual, I could listen to her speak all day.
I had an issue working under a female lawyer. She was constantly belittling me. AS IF I was a threat to her, she owned her own company and I was just a receptionist who sometimes did paralegal stuff 😂 I found it so odd. Like sis your name is on the company, I’m not coming for your “throne” I just want to pay my bills. Could care less lol
It's usually to do with their upbringing. Nothing less, nothing more. So to solve this problem parents need to teach their daughters how embrace other women to play with and as they grow as adults learn to be able to work with...true or facts?
The Alkebulan Trust all facts
Yep
😏 Nah 👋🏼 Some women are just going to be natural born haters 👋🏼 no matter what ✅
I agree, me and my sister were never jealous of others and were always kind to other people, it was our parents who taught us to be humble, never be greedy and kind, especially to the less unfortunate!
I think it goes back to self esteem and tackling insecurities as well
YES I LOVE THESE WOMEN Amanda is so well spoken and I loved what tamera said!!
Hectic. I know i have become unapologetic with the way I look and feel and it has helped me to strive and achieve more in life. I can't be responsible of how other women feel about me, I can only be my own best version in society.
Loving Amanda's whole look today! 💕
Because some women don’t like to see other women to succeed and they would prefer that they would stay down forever. And that is because they are insecure. Ofc like Tamera say I’m referring to unhealthy competition so I agree with her completely.
I think women hate themselves alot. As someone who is on RECORD for not being catty, I get really offended by women who compete and act out like 12 year old girls. I hate jealous, nosy, petty, intrusive women who target other women because of what's going on inside of them. LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF IS THE BIGGEST LEVEL UP WOMEN COULD EVER MAKE.... because its not the patriarchy. Its us not realizing that what God has for us is for us... no one has what's yours, no one is keeping your from them man for you... what's for you is just for YOU!!!
I had a friend who literally tried to one up me in every situation. Another friend complimented my eyelashes by saying they're long and she goes "NO she doesn't. But (somebody in her family) does". Super weird and that was just one example.
T Holmes right!!
T Holmes girlllll their will always be some girls and some guys who hate themselves and wanna make others feel the way they feel
Agreed. I had one girl call me insecure lol and when i didnt cry over it.. she did. its so sad just how immature and insecure girls are to go as far as putting other women down to actually make themselves feel better.
@@cookiegirl891 I just don't get it! Me and this girl had been friends since middle. We went to high school AND college together and her cattiness and need to compete with others especially me just intensified over the years. We were best friends but I wouldn't consider her that anymore.
@@Lola-rn2jj Nope. I feel you girl. my own best friend did that. Broke my back to please that girl, even dimmed my own light and belittled my accomplishments so that she did not feel a certain way. In the end, she still didnt think I deserved half the things (i actually worked hard for) that I got after college. She grew up with a silver spoon and expected me to continue to know my place even tho we all work hard to get ourselves out and up. smh
Adrienne was off topic as always🤦🏾♀️
Katrice Channel
she always has to involve men 🥴
Kimberly Rivera it’s funny that she be saying I don’t do that but yet all her stories about her “ friend “ be about her 😂
She’s not the brightest color in the crayon box lol
We are so much more powerful together!
This was really informative... I'm first for the first time Yaayyyyy
It's telling that Loni remained quiet especially after hearing people say she was competing with Tamar to be the only hood black girl on the show
Yes! Only compete with yourself! This world has become so toxic where I see people and groups of grown people purposely choosing targets and belittling people. It's almost like they are seeking superiority in a way that sends a message that I am better then you . But everyone has their own skills. I admire a lot of people and love giving them compliments on their individual success.
Adrienne: Former 3LW member.
Also Adrienne: "I've never been a competitive person". "I'm a girl's girl and support women".
Adrienne wasn't the catty/nasty one though. That was Kiely.
The music industry is tough. 3LW's record label and management (Kiely's family) could have kicked Adrienne to the curb in a second.
@@ilovelife3328 No you're right. Adrienne was the follower/if you can't beat 'em join 'em type that tried staying on the bully's good side.
@@LilacStar82 Kiely's family was overseeing and managing everything so we can't really blame her for that. They probably would have kicked her out of the group if she wasn't siding with Kiely.
You must blame Adrienne for everything
Has nothing to do with patriarchy, women are just naturally competitive with each other.
@@internetprincess788 nope. are you?
They stay doing my girl jeannie wrong , they never want to credit her for the things she say. She literally just explained that whole question & everybody else just paddled off that answer. #FellowCapricorn I understand you jeannie don't worry we stay being misunderstood or not being credited for our intelligence. Capricorn mindsets are to advanced for the everyday human brain intellect. We're always ahead of the game that is why were the most misunderstood.
- #THEPLUG 🔥💨
All of these comments are right on point. Always inspire yourself in order to reach your goals. Don’t let outside negativity hold you down or hold you back!
Girl, I’m with you. If you’re going to say it being lazy then I am lazy too. I don’t compete. It’s tiring. I do what I love doing. I don’t care what another woman has or does.
Women compete with each other and are jealous. They compete for jobs and men as well.
Lol Lonnie was very quiet in this segment 😂 I wonder why.. I’ll ask Tamar
THAT GOES WHERE?!? Who cares? 🤷🏽♂️
Loni is so beautiful 😍
ghufran al Finally a positive comment about her. It’s soo many black Women trashing her in the comments that it’s sad.
Gosh people give Loni a break! When she talks y'all say "why is she talking after what she did to Tamar" when she doesn't y'all mad because she is silent. We don't know the full story so why don't y'all stay out of other people business and enjoy the show for god sake!
People are just finding a reason to hate. Real sad. I don’t see the point in all the negativity
Well said 👏🏾
Loni was rude ...watch the clip again...she shades amanda and looks at tam and Adrienne and then looks down awkwardly...people aren't being mean they're just being honest
Raymond Cabrera Loni has commented on her facial expression numerous times on the show that’s the face she makes when she’s taking in information I think you’re reaching
I thank you very much 4 YOUR COMMENT, bc I would have added a couple of cuss words, and am tryin not 2 cuss so much🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
“Women understand women, and they hate each other!” -Al Bundy
A false teaching propagated to women by men that makes insecurity the norm rather than security in oneself.
@@TNJ-gn2gv The fiction of the "patriarchy"
...said a stupid man 🙄
More of, the creator of those words were a man. There is nothing wrong with patriarchy. A society has to be patriarchial or matriarchial @JZWALZ51 ROBIN.
@@TNJ-gn2gv Those two descriptive options only exist for the ideologically possessed feminists who are not intelligent enough to realize that societies are more complex than that.
Congratulations Jeannie Mai. We love you, you deserve happiness Hunnnaayyyyyyy ♥️
Amanda's styling is GORGEIUS...WOW glamourous rock chick...those earrings oh woww ....I collect earrings so it's an extra detail I look at and they suit her and with her skin tone 😍 so beautiful
Both men and women are catty
nope men arent as catty as women instead we become bros lol
why Loni being so quiet I wanna know what she's thinking lol
destiny maddox she might be feeling a little guilty 😬...Tamar
@@GoldenGlam95 Tamar was the catty one on the table.
Well, people say she cuts people off and has dumb answers so, let others speak
Man land is very different, when there's a dispute we just knock each other out and we're friends the next day LOL women like to hold grudges for years
I hundred percent agree what’s for you is for you and no one can take that away from you
I LOVE LOVE LOVE Amanda's style!! Her hair and her clothes..she looks great today ( not saying she doesn't look good other days) I just liked it a lot today
In order to truly be happy, STOP COMPARING!!! There's ALEAYS gonna be someone bigger, badder, bolder, better, and beautiful! That's just it! Love YOU!!! ✌🏾️
When is Jeannie gonna write that book? This woman knows exactly what to say and when to say it. Also Gabrielle Union talked about this in her book.
Zandile Xaba Gabrielle union is currently ruining a little boys life with her messed up feminism
@@user-nq6um4bs5y Personally I don't know enough about that to even have an opinion but I get where you're coming from
And Tamera
This was literally sooo real. especially Tam...I have never thought about patriarchy making us feel that there is only room for 1 of us. Soooo real. Face yourself girl I have been doing that alot lately. No one can take what is for you girl.
I had a so called cousin who I considered a "Bestfriend" backstabbed me for the past decade. We use to hangout alot when were very young. We became closer in middle school/ high school. In middle school she was such a good friend. Then when we went to high school she started changing and started acting like a "bad bitch". She always tried acting tough around the popular people.
I noticed that once I started posting pictures on social media and got attention she became jealous.
Years later through out highschool i thought i could trust her with anything. By that I mean girl things like with cute boys , gossips , and secrets. I remember this one time I got excited that a cute boy would look at me. I told my so called bestfriend about that and she than told that cute kid in class about what I said. Thinking back about this one time we were in the main hallway and I had seen the cute boy walk by me and another friend of mine, laughing at us with his group of friends. It was the most embarrassing thing ever. I confronted her asking her if she had told him and she denied it. I dont understand why females hate on each other so bad! Literally it can be your own so called family member!
I feel you, my female cousin did something similar too
This is a conversation that needs to be had a few times in many different forms. I completely agree with tam and Jeannie
I’ll be bringing it up on my UA-cam channel. Like a deep dive. I agree.
Can y’all please discuss the racial issues happening on the app TikTok? 👏🏼 Like the white girls using their black boyfriends for clout. 👀 It’s honestly truly disgusting and cringe worthy to watch. I’m sure I’m not the only one who sees this.
Wow. Never noticed. Will pay attention next time
Agreed
They do that?
Zandile Xaba Yes, and it’s sad for those who are in serious interracial relationships. It puts a bad taste in people’s mouths and it’s disrespectful to the black community, particularly black women.
Omg what happened? I’m not on tiktok, I just watch compilation videos on here lmaoo
Before clicking I KNEW Amanda would somehow flip it and put the onus on men. And I was right lol
Lol right.
" Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other".... Al Bundy 😍
It is funny how tamera basically repeated what Jeannie already said and everyone clapped like wow response of the year 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. They stay piggy backing off Jeannie’s intelligent responses.
Missed Loni's take on this. But it's definitely what all of you all said. When you see another person doing good, applaud. The reality is that a feeling arises sometimes saying I wish I could accomplish like that. At that point there are two roads ahead, either:who she thinks she is, I'll show her while being jealous OR you can applaud and ask God what does He have is store for you. The latter road is always better. Accomplishments are different but isn't that God's WILL though, each of us have a purpose.
Tamera explained this perfectly. I’ll also do a deep dive on this topic on my channel
I think there's this misconception that only women are "catty" aka competitive ... but men are competitive too. Except that for some reason it's called "dominance" and not viewed as such a bad thing. I think it's natural to want to take out the competition. It's engrained in the primal part of our brain because back in the day, thats how you survived. You either took out the competition or you didn't get to eat. However I do think that women and minorities and particular are already put in such limiting situations, that they have to work extra hard to fight that urge of competitiveness and build each other up instead of tearing each other down.
Female rivalry is when a female is looking at another female and viewing her as competition and jealousy is a monster
Adrienne took time to Beag snout herself then shift the topic ... you go girl lmao
Oops.it's Renée Tv they all agreed soooo
I absolutely hate this unnecessary competition amongst women and I won't hesitate to admit it to men. I had a close friend of mine that would always turn the attention towards her. When I told her how devastated I was about my boyfriend being immunocompromised, she bragged about how much her boyfriend loves her. When I opened up about us not being able to see each other for months because he is high risk, she replied "i miss him too i only see him twice a week and talk through a window for 20 minutes". When I explained that I'm not getting any income because of my asthma, she said "just go to work" but because her boyfriend is going to work with asthma she's like "omg i'm worried sick about him". When I say that I have anxiety, she doesn't help at all. When I talk about my fitness success because I have been working so hard, she just has to brag about her being an athlete. Just last night, she sent 2 photos in a groupchat posing for mirror selfies and after us not reacting, she replied "like how no one is talking about me" sarcastically. I hate people who are so narcissistic and hate seeing other people succeed! She wasn't like this before. She started acting this way once she realised that she wasn't the only one in a relationship anymore. She always has to criticise my boyfriend even though he treats me so good and has never done anything to her. She can't accept the fact that her friend is happy in her relationship. Meanwhile, every time her boyfriend doesn't speak to her for half a day, she's like "omg he's going to break up with me". She does this every other day and I'm done supporting her. All she wants is gossip, attention and compliments. She never asks how I'm feeling. I'm slowly dropping her out of my life
So are we going to ignore Adrienne and Loni fighting their laughter at each other when Jeanie said she started off as a makeup artist at 1:05??😂😂
Ashley F Actually no, I checked and checked and I don’t think they were at all. What’s there to laugh at anyway? She already mentioned in many past episodes how she started off her career at the makeup counter of a store. No offence but I strongly think you’re mistaken on this one.
You’re reading them wrong babygirl. They weren’t laughing at anyone
I'm too lazy to compete too girl. Lol
No matter what industry you work in, women are catty. I tend to be someone who focuses on doing my best for the team and for myself. I tend to be so focused on my work alone that when someone comes out of the left field with some kind of attitude or rumor, I don’t even know why this person is being that way when I haven’t even given them the time to begin with.
I dont care who is prettier, smarter or richer. I love me and love to keep on healing and growing.
Loni’s face was so guilty.. . She looked awkward. That fact that she didn’t speak .. . Said it all. Tamar popped in her head. She had to eliminate her competition. It’s like they were talking to her. Look at her body language.
Loni was waiting to be asked her opinion last....😂