The Nightgame Gameplan: How I Win EVERY Night
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
- systembytodd.com
How to run your night. Where to start, who to talk to, how to manage your emotions all the things that go on in between interactions that make a huge difference within interactions. Here are some expert strategies for insuring you have a great night (or day) every time.
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"But at the very least, no one can stop you from learning, and no one in the world can stop you from doing what's right and pushing through, developing that self esteem of knowing that you loved yourself and cared about yourself enough to do it even when it was hard"
WORD
‘Gym Day’- I like that. I’ve had so many times where I’ve felt weak, tired and unmotivated to go to the gym (even though generally I love training), but I’ve gone anyway, and not only did I feel better about myself afterwards, like Todd said, but most of those times I’ve surprised myself too, without how much weight I was able to lift that day. Amazing things can happen when you just ‘do it anyway’, taking one step at a time.
Her : "What do you do for a living?" Me: "I'm an Esoteric Game Theorist"
Lmaooo
I always struggle with the, "What's your hobby?" question. Erm... This! LOL
Preperation
• Have your pad prepared
1. Alcohal
2. Fun activities
3. Simple pickup also has a vid on this
• Have a way to get there
• Bring a condom
• Where are you going
• how are you going to get in there
1. Know the bouncer
2. Bring girls
• who are you going with
• What is your plan
• Know your goals (u should do these once in a while)
1. Pull a girl?
2. Learning the maximum?
3. Having the most fun?
4. Combine learning and success night
5. Quality or cetainty?
6. Set challenging but realistic goals for your skill level
Should I stay in this set?
• EV model (expected value)
1. Expected value is the expected success of your night
2. You should ask yiur self in a set, if it will increase the EV of the night
Mind set
• Dont think about getting in state
• Assume you are enough and follow procedure
• As a beginner if you have social anxiety issues, you can do exercises to subdue that.(intermediatte and advanced shouldnt have to)
• Phsycological process
1. Affirmations-reasons you are the best decision a girl can make, know that you give the girl value, remember past success, watch infield,
• Physiological process
1. Acting confident, makes you more confident
2. Go crazy on the dance floor
3. Sing loudly to a song on the wat to the club
• Process process
1. Take right action (gym night)-do it becaus eyou know you should
This is a roadmap not a prison
Simple Pickup aka KING KONG!
Thanks, i have the exam tomorrow morning and stressing out
thank you
Great advice! After a long time being single and a long troubling relationship before (I’m 39 with kids). I had a great night last weekend with my friends. I just naturally made out with a sweet 19 year old student. She was approached by some other guys at the same time. All younger, taller and good looking 😄 But she said, that I was the one to go with 😄 Unfortunately we both where from far away and she had to leave with her friends: This is already a crazy progress for me, because I never talked to girls before. My ego was sky high. I will use this experience to realize that I can do it, that I am a great guy and have something to give and that I will enjoy the learning and progress. Guys. If you are 39 and single, and never talked to women before. You can do it! 😄 I did it. So everyone can 😄
respect! keep it up
I'm 36 and the other day a 23 year old girl told me I was too old...funny thing is when she asked how old I was, I told her to guess and she said 27. She was shocked that I was 36.
Love the "gym day" analogy. Sometimes I have thought about game like this even though some guys think that "you can't be too logical". I have noticed that when I commit to goals that are not easy (NoFap, trying heavier weights than the previous week, meditating daily), I tend to have better control of willpower and push through those situations when it's not readily desirable.
Execute The System B-)
Same here. It's working the "will power muscle". The more you use it, the easier it is to ignore the bad feelings and keep pushing through the obstacles. Just like your daily or weekly routines, game can be turned into a routine, which makes it easier to execute.
Alan Chen very thoughtful insight.
Gold just pours out of this guy's mouth. Valuable info every time, thanks Todd.
great intro kid cudi is an amazing artist
Ulisses Rios what's the song?
Dalitso Banda Reborn - Kids See Ghost (Kanye and Kid Cudi group name)
todd has very wondefull ears brother, i have noticed that since he played daytona in an outro
Kids see ghosts is amazing
Songs called reborn
Damn Todd, always amazes me how much knowledge you have... After so many years I feel I should have seen most "theory" out there by now, but you time and again prove how much 'science/experience/wisdom/knowledge' there can be behind the whole Game thing. Props.
Your every video is just pure gold. Thank you Todd.
i can't believe some guys go out without a condom, it's like going to yout exams without your hands lol
But what if it is an eye exam?
un dragueur no the point you made relates more to going out without a dick as you can go to an exam without a pen and ask for it there and going without a condom buying it there and you cant asn for a dick or hands from someone
you don't need condom if you are always rejected by women. since you won't have sexe anyway. this is the case for nerds
Why should I? If I pull I always pull to my home and I have it there. All clubs are within 10min cab so I don't use hotel.
Using a condom is like eating a sandwich through a plastic bag.
If this is free, imagine whats in the course
ArmandoMLB well thats the point its some psychological effect it makes the brain think that and makes you buy the program Rsd foes this a lot and you will probably let down when you buy their program
Having gone through some of Todd's programs, I believe it will probably exceed my expectations.
Duuuuude the programs gonna be amazing
LOL... Dudes actually biy this shit?
ZO FIFA 20 MY PLAYER STORYLINES people watch your videos?
In Todd we trust.
His name is Robert Paulson
Is this a cult?
Putin approved this
Its rock or bust
What you do before, after, and between interactions matters, it's not just what you do IN them. Find out the principles, and processes I use to make sure I have the absolute best chance of having an amazing night (or day) every time I go out! www.toddvdating.com for more
Todd.
Watched this video before going out tonight. First night in a long time going out with any real intention to even try ignite a spark with our fairer sex.
I would have come home with self deprecating thoughts for even trying, if it weren't for your advice to look at instances or nights which may feel unsuccessful as opportunities to learn.
Simple thought but powerful message.
Thankyou for doing what you do.
Much respect,
Ronan in Ireland
Ronan Browne
Come to Prague and bang tourists and Czech sluts.
16:28 where can i find this
Your approach based on winning is actually unique.
It is kind of self help in winning in general, bit still very down to earth for everything related to attracting women.
The whole production quality of this video and your upcoming product look amazing!
Looking sharp!
what kind of camera is he using?
I just saw the logo and was hoping it read "pulldog" cause that would be hilarious.
RSD would have you believe LoOks DoNt MaDdder. Work on your looks boys.
Todd's been bumping the new Kanye releases ;)
The poker analogy takes something abstract and turns it into tangible product... ;)
Releasing these videos on friday getting us ready for the weekend
Thank you todd
Also love the new kange
Scorpion by Drake and System by Todd are two of the biggest upcoming releases of june 🔥🔥🔥
Suk Mike Hok most probably
june 29 i believe
Drake took the L
lmao preach
My results is zero, so if I 10x it will still be zero
Jonas don't give up. It's a journey. Keep learning! Keep improving!
I'm personally far from being a master, however, since I've started learning, it feels like every interaction I have with girls is more enjoyable than the last, as a result of the learnings I am accumulating. I'm beginning to understand how much more enjoyable life can be.
Stay strong. Keep improving. You will see!
r/suicidebywords
Jonas Knutsen - if you approach 10 girls you will get some kind of result. Just do it.
Make one approach. Critically and constructively appraise how it went. Learn, adjust, improve. Approach again, repeat.
After 10 you will be so much better.
Figure out which step you are failing out... then fix it
You put down Kid Cudi as your intro, much respect
why so excited bro do u worship kid cudi
Marty Forkwater I personally be bowing down and worshiping Kid Cudi most days, candles and allat.
I should have known yawning would be the next hip music trend.
20:15 Wow, love this part about the confidence approach.
how amazing you are todd , each of this points is life and game applicable
Todd’s on top of his music game
right?!
I love your channel
*Todd explains how EV can be brought from poker, to game* ... "It was at that point that he realized, even after watching most of Todd's material, that Todd V, is the RSD personality he resonates with the most."
This video is a piece of gold. Thank you Todd!
Damn. You're either out to Work, Learn, or Win with the preference of whichever is best for any given day or night. Good point about learning, every experience can improve you, if you allow it.
*Love the video!*
*You explained it scientifically, schematically, and straightforwardly, which nerds like me just need!*
*There weren't many details about the approaches themselves, it's an overview, but damn a good one!*
*Happy hunting, gentlemen!*
Fully appreciate your POV. I wish I felt the same way about the club as I do about the gym. The idea that the club should be “relaxing” is absolutely insane to me haha. But I hope to experience that one day, even though it hasn’t happened yet after 10 years.
I loved the gym day analogy. For those who haven't bought Todd's program, you don't know what you're missing.
your intro music is literally a copy paste of my spotify playlists, I fucking love it
YOU PUT KIDS SEE GHOSTS IN YOUR VIDEO, NEW FAVORITE UA-camR
"game is technological" - Todd 2018
I love Kids See Ghosts too!
Mastermind of strategies and planning!
Todd, you are so inspirational, holy jesus!
You are the Boss ! I’m glad that you doing this for us !
you using reborn for the intro made my day man
Best damn coach on the tube waaaay better then anyone in rsd hands down. I remember trying to remember what the hell RAS was lol that shyt worked perfect.
Todd, how can someone support you via donation etc? Feel like you've helped me to a level where I should pay back
Todd I have to TY so much... U helped my game tremendously..
Hej Todd, you are so amazing. I am followed already some of you advices with such a success, I never had befor in my life. Especially I need to comment this video as I was training opening girls the last days quite hard, however with some seccess. hearing you talking about the comparison about the gym, just confims me that I am on a good way playing the game better then ever
Best in the feild by explaining. Richard the best by aproaching
Do what you must, and come what may
Thanks Todd, much love from Australia ✌🇦🇺
Todd the god 🙌🏻
Take my money Todd!
I'm ready to get scientific an pragmatic about my game
Tired of ruts
Hey Todd, just wanted to let you know that WE appreciate you sharing all this knowledge, and we support you and your programs. And being a pro for 18 years in every field of life is crazy, so you dont just have guys who watch your video to learn pick up, but you have real fans! 💪👍
You did right with kid cudi
Where was this shot? I dig the street art! And great content as always ;) Release The System already we've got our money ready!!!
What he says about the psychological aspect is incredibly true. If you feel like you're losing all the time, you can stay motivated for a while, but eventually you'll break. I went out for many years, really studying game and practicing it. I'd reflect on my results and try to adjust what I thought needed work. Along the way I started working out and did whatever would improve my confidence.
Eventually, I had built my body into one worthy of being in the next Baywatch film, had approached so much I had no approach anxiety in 99% of situations. I knew most of the bartenders and bouncers at the places I frequented, and would routinely see people I knew when I was out. I'd move through the venue with confidence, hit the dance floor, go to my table, whatever.
However, one day I realized that I had gone out no less than 1,000 times, and had not pulled a girl once. After that, every additional night of going home alone was not only a certainty, it added to the frustration and feeling of failure. I had done everything I could yet was still failing miserably. Eventually I gave up because I felt I'd tried everything and couldn't get even an ounce of success. Meanwhile most of the guys in my group had less game, less confidence, knew less people, were in worse shape than me, yet they'd pull anywhere from 20-50% of the time. I couldn't understand it.
The frustration and embarrassment became too much to take and I gave up...I still daygame sometimes, but my mental state is so shot that even though I can get them smiling and laughing, I still can't get them interested in me.
Damn this is scary to hear. Have you ever considered using the services of a coach?
@@harsh3948 I went out with a coach once, he actually did it for free because we had talked for a while and I happened to be taking a trip to his area.
When I met him he immediately said "wow, you really do look like your pictures". He doubted that I was actually as jacked as I looked in my pictures.
Anyway, we started day gaming together and I was more energetic, approached more girls more often and was generally the one doing most of the approaches, openings and carrying of the conversations.
After a while we'd had lots of interactions but nothing more. He took me back to their "headquarters" and introduced me to some of the other coaches.
We all went out, yet as always I got no results. In the end he was lost for words. He said I clearly didn't have an inability to approach, I carried conversations better than he did, hell he even told me he was going to use some of MY approaches lol. On top of it I had the looks too.
He couldn't understand what he was seeing and just kept apologizing because he couldn't understand what the problem was.
The head coach of the group very quickly started ignoring and avoiding me. I found out that it was because he felt intimidated by me because I could "keep up" with him and he didn't like it. He liked being the best approacher, most confident guy in the group.
I'm sure it sounds like I'm making all this up but F*ing christ I WISH that was the case. The level of frustration that comes with having everything you need in spades yet still failing across the board is indescribable.
@@fuzzypanda1684 What location were you doing the approaching at? And how many number closes did you make? What feedback did you receive apart from “yeah you’re good, keep doing what you are currently doing”
btw Night game has the highest same day pull ratio especially if you’re good looking
How personal are you, when gaming? I am a fucking beginner, but your experiences mirrors something I have seen quite often with me:
I am a recovering social retard, and years of abuse in my childhood, from many people, have equipped me with 2 particular social skills:
I can appear invulnerably confident and I am usually the funniest guy in the room, at least on my "good" days. By now I am also built like a brick shithouse, I dress well, I look good, I can by now carry conversations reasonably well, my trouble is in approach and escalation. Still, on these good days some success should come.
There never was any. On days I am way less "in the zone", I actually get numbers. I actually get real personal connections with women, if I dont fuck up the approach. The escalation is still hard lmao
Because instinctively people notice when the mask is up, and as men that are very strong (dangerous), any appearance of mask is a threat, way more than in less strong men.
So maybe less perfect, more personal is the answer.
The other Idea I might have from following Todds stuff: What if the value you project is actually so high, that skipping most "gamey" conversation methods becomes -maybe even- necessary. If you project being perfect, what is there to add to you? What availability do you have?
Maybe stuff you tried already, just spitballing. Good luck brother.
@@DivingDonutNah, that's all good stuff man, appreciate it. You're definitely on the right track with the idea of "gaming too hard". If you're not a very attractive guy, not in great shape etc. then gaming is essential.
But if you're a good looking guy who's in great shape, gaming can actually hurt you. They'll think, why is this guy trying so hard? If you're attractive, you need to act like you get female attention all the time and DGAF how this one reacts to you. As such, you're not trying to be "on", or trying to be funny, because you don't have to be.
Event though I know that, it's still hard for me to turn everything off and be nonchalant. Not giving AF is the hardest for me by far, because I do give AF and the closer I get to closing the more nervous I get that I'll mess it up.
So I feel ya, and I'm right there with you.
How do you plan daygame (best time and place)
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כיף לראות שיש עוד אנשים בתחום הזה בעולם. גם אני מאמן דייטינג בישראל ונתת לי השראה להמשיך :)))
I love Todd
loved the ending of the video💯
Can’t forget ‘being present’ as one of the psychological processes. For me, ‘watching the thinker’ beats trying to use affirmations.
whats watching the thinker? can you elaborate?
@@Mysteryboy0007 Late reply, I just saw this. Well watching the thinker is a term that Eckhart Tolle uses (though of course it is a very old idea). It basically means observing your thoughts as they happen, rather than identifying with them. It's hard to explain, but it's essentially being present/mindful. Read the Power of Now (as most PUA's recommend) and you'll understand a lot better.
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Incredible! This is top-notch content. I stumbled upon something similar, and it was truly mind-blowing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Thanks Todd you are the man!
Amazing content. Thx 🙌🙌🙌✌️✌️✌️👑👑👑
This video is Great.
Straight fire 🔥
Do the same for Daygame - please, God.
A fan of kid cudi as well? Liked for the intro music
Question: How do I know what goals are reasonable? I'm just starting out and I have approach anxiety. I approached 12 girls (some sets) over the past weekend at night, but not without some level of fear or anxiety. I'm not sure where to place myself in this process and I don't know what to do everyday to improve.
Get a girlfriend asap!
What goals have you reached since then on the domain of dating?
absolutely top notch!
Great job
As always some solid sociopathic shit there, Tod!
Let me know when u are in Gdansk.
You tha man.
Good video
Kids See Ghost - Reborn
Did Todd get a new producer or something? His music selection has been 🔥 for the past couple of weeks. Great video btw!
thank u for the video!!!!
Good stuff. Can you show more of your "rejectionsc infield? Be nice to see a pro like you even bouncing back.
Question: it's early on in the night and the first set you run is going really well. What's the best way to make the girl feel comfortable enough to ditch her friend(s) and leave with you that early in the night? Or is it better to step away talk to other girls and try to reconnect with her later on in the night?
I'd say the latter but make sure you grab her number and text her at the end of the night if you do not bump into her ;)
Wish you did coaching in Melbourne, Australia. I'd pay you. No dating coach has worked so far.
Good stuff
what are the actual step by step way to close?
opening...
then what?
O-open..... Firevt , indirect
H- hook... A push pull or objective statement
C-comfort...... Go to a bar,park,crib
L- lead....... Delf explanatory.
NB: let the eye contact do the seduction
Do you use any nootropics or biohacking? Let us know your opinion dude and keep up the amazing content!
Shawn Shukla Wondering this as well.
What are nootropics or biohacking? Never heard of this
Todd V Dating Broker. Can you explain stop loss approaches, day trading women, standard deviation and option trading women please?
Toddlers, Todd has just created a new word! its a combination of technical and psychological, its called technological!
Are you a poker player Todd?
Can you do this stuff in recovery/sobriety?
What do you say when a girl is interested in you, but she said she just saw you pull another girls number?
tell her thats an old work friend who's number you lost.
Is 'The system' have ebook version? because I'm live at China, and it would be hard to send me the book.
Next miami immersion, im signing up
Haha that was the most nonchalant intro 😂 hey what’s up it’s Todd
PURE GOLD
I'm new to this and just wanted some insight
what are some of your guys stats in terms of results ?
I have approached 97 girls, 1 same night lay, some numbers but I have been ignored most of the time.
Can I expect these stats to get better? Or is 1 in 100 good/normal?
p zuzu That seems pretty bad but I suppose without knowing everything it’s hard to say. If you’re just walking up to 100 random girls who may be all 8,9, 10s and you’re s 6 or 7 at best then that’s probably ok. I’d probably lower your standards a bit and practice on some low value girls and get some successes in.
One lay out of 100 approaches is a win for sure
Good morning Todd
Why have I just discovered this just now
How does this stuff work for a full time single dad who has, maybe, 1 night a month to go out? Otherwise it's kid activities, lifting weights, dropping fat, working, doing activities that are active....so going out on the scene is a lot less appealing.
Best places to game in LA night and day?
Been two years and my results are ZERO. Never ever ever had a solid number. This is extremely sad.
Onlyme2015 keep trying my brother
Has anything changed since?
@@andrea-mj9ce absolutely nothing. rsd shut down cause they're a scam ( he used to work for him) . he puts down all his videos. he's a liar