Family in need of help after mom dies days after giving birth

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  • @molliewiggins6412
    @molliewiggins6412 Місяць тому +1389

    8 days???????? The surgeon cut her. The Dr failed her. They should be held acountabke

    • @boycee1
      @boycee1 Місяць тому

      ​@@SharenaHartley OMG! 🙄This just shows it doesn't matter what color you are. Why does it always have to be a comparison and the blacks always have it worse??? I see plenty of white women die from doctors mistakes.

    • @lyndieskurry1969
      @lyndieskurry1969 Місяць тому +44

      @@SharenaHartleywhat does race got to do with this??? Give it a rest!!!🙄

    • @StarryNightt.
      @StarryNightt. Місяць тому +33

      @@SharenaHartleyNot the time or place🤦🏾‍♀️ ain’t nobody talking about race rn.

    • @missjo2036
      @missjo2036 Місяць тому +35

      ​​@@SharenaHartleyalways one person who's got to pull the race card. Not the time or place to seek negative attention. 😒

    • @Uprightfossil
      @Uprightfossil Місяць тому +8

      @@SharenaHartleyseriously ?

  • @Jazz1959
    @Jazz1959 Місяць тому +707

    How sad. The hospital should pay the bills. They failed the mother. That baby will never get to know her mama.

    • @karensayer3089
      @karensayer3089 Місяць тому +9

      Complications of Caesar. Knicked bowel. Common

    • @Freeblueface
      @Freeblueface Місяць тому +8

      😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @rosetheis1403
      @rosetheis1403 Місяць тому +8

      @@karensayer3089 I heard about that in one of my health classes when I was in school

    • @karensayer3089
      @karensayer3089 Місяць тому +3

      @@rosetheis1403 so sad.

    • @SouthernSpirit222
      @SouthernSpirit222 Місяць тому +21

      Pay their bills? They could be tried for criminal negligence.

  • @CourageUnderFire87
    @CourageUnderFire87 Місяць тому +1094

    Really 8 days they waited to check for bleeding! WOW insane

    • @Horseluvver
      @Horseluvver Місяць тому +116

      It sure is & her abdominal pain would have been severe which is always an emergency....she was on morphine....& they waited 8 days.
      They killed her.

    • @Brittoxo
      @Brittoxo Місяць тому +16

      Live free I completely agree absolutely devastating

    • @julie-og4lu
      @julie-og4lu Місяць тому +6

      ❤❤

    • @cocoxtina8366
      @cocoxtina8366 Місяць тому +48

      I had a C section & could've almost died cause my doctor didn't do a good job in closing my cut & I was bleeding internally! If they wouldn't of stopped the bleeding & performed another emergency surgery I wouldn't be here telling my story😓

    • @amyhenningsgard8618
      @amyhenningsgard8618 Місяць тому +20

      @@cocoxtina8366Glad you survived!🌹

  • @rkm5369
    @rkm5369 Місяць тому +632

    Who are these doctors that are performing these procedures now, this is getting very scary. Condolences to her family

    • @loricawley54
      @loricawley54 Місяць тому +48

      DEI hires. Not every Dr graduates his training with A’s, and after they fired the staff that refused the 💉💉💉, they’re left with the Didn’t Earn It staff.

    • @Chels-fz5uq
      @Chels-fz5uq Місяць тому +19

      @@loricawley54wow…..give me a break.

    • @SouthernSpirit222
      @SouthernSpirit222 Місяць тому +12

      Could be charged with serious criminal negligence like the Dr who was recently tried for murder in negligence of patient

    • @loricawley54
      @loricawley54 Місяць тому

      @@Chels-fz5uq Baaah, keep putting ur head in the sand, sheep.

    • @Mischa21xo
      @Mischa21xo Місяць тому +13

      ​@@loricawley54Exactly.

  • @mwahmi7
    @mwahmi7 Місяць тому +466

    So sorry for your loss. May she Rest in heaven and see her girls again.

  • @amyutah1934
    @amyutah1934 Місяць тому +326

    Hopefully the family has hired an attorney.

    • @lolakepi
      @lolakepi Місяць тому +5

      This will not bring her back 😢

    • @sewcrazybaker
      @sewcrazybaker Місяць тому +11

      @@lolakepi No, it won't bring her back. But it might make those doctors be more careful in the future.

    • @MrsB197something
      @MrsB197something Місяць тому +5

      ​@@lolakepino but it will hold those derelict of their oath to do no harm accountable

    • @gigigoddess3352
      @gigigoddess3352 Місяць тому +12

      @lolakepi
      Of course it won’t bring her back! It’s not about that. It’s about holding the hospital accountable for medical negligence! The only thing doctors/hospitals fear is losing money! The only way to bring about change is to get them where it hurts….take money from them. They learn by that! They need to pay for their negligence. Period! The husband now has to raise those kids alone and the kids now have to grow up without a mother. All preventable had they paid attention!!!!!

    • @ruthiebella
      @ruthiebella Місяць тому +5

      ​@lolakepi the money will help the family

  • @meganwheeler145
    @meganwheeler145 Місяць тому +425

    This is heartbreaking!! I’m so sorry for your loss!❤

    • @BORN-to-Run
      @BORN-to-Run Місяць тому +2

      WE must ALWAYS be ready

    • @marycanary
      @marycanary Місяць тому +3

      I’m sorry for your loss 😢

    • @EdithJimenez-e6d
      @EdithJimenez-e6d Місяць тому +1

      I'm very sorry for your loss God bless the family

  • @sophiamac9100
    @sophiamac9100 Місяць тому +351

    What a tragedy...😢 A nick in the colon is certainly medical negligence...

    • @Storyvevo
      @Storyvevo Місяць тому +1

      May I ask what is a nick ?

    • @trishatate327
      @trishatate327 Місяць тому +8

      in the defense of the surgeon , she was morbidly obese , adding a great deal of difficulty to the surgery and significantly increasing the risks of complications. That stated , there really is no other defense for her dying from that injury.

    • @anniej1616
      @anniej1616 Місяць тому +3

      @@Storyvevo A 'nick' is a Britishism, meaning a tiny cut made in error.

    • @unknown-hi5cf
      @unknown-hi5cf Місяць тому +2

      ​@@anniej1616I'm not sure why would that kill her? Antibiotics would've healed that

    • @Shopgirl1
      @Shopgirl1 Місяць тому

      @@unknown-hi5cfunless she became septic from the fluid leaking from her colon and was probably leaking for the whole 8 days and she died from sepsis..

  • @DrTHC
    @DrTHC Місяць тому +196

    The media begging on behalf of a grieving family because there isn't shit for reliable healthcare in the US is disgusting. But golly, the US can sure spend billions of tax monies destroying other people's infrastructures!

    • @DaddiesLittlePsycho
      @DaddiesLittlePsycho Місяць тому

      Trump increased our debt 2x the amount that the Biden administration has. A total of 8.4 trillion dollars, mind you. With only 3.6 of that being for covid relief. That's 4.8 trillion to "other".... Meanwhile Biden administration was a total of about 4 trillion. With half of that being covid relief. So again, 4 trillion dollars of unspecified output added to our countries debt. He also aims to increase inflation substantially.
      After all, the only way a president can increase inflation is by increasing national debt (he loves to do that) and imposing tariffs. Which he has publicly stated he plans to do if elected again. Quoted "20% tariff on every foreign import coming into the US, as well as another tariff upward of 60% on all Chinese imports." Also said he would impose a "100% tariff” on countries that shift away from using the US dollar. So... you ARE right. Just not in the way you think you are. Fyi, it's is OUR DUTY to help our allies. That is what we are doing. If we turn our back on our allies, then we will be far more hated than we already are, and no... that NOT ok.
      THIS administration is not destroying anyones infrastructure. You just don't understand anything the government is doing. None of you Republicans seem to understand the trickle down effect. What the ACTUAL outcomes could be of the things Trump is declaring he is going to do in office. Or even the fact that the power governing the republican party stopped the Biden administration from doing many of the very things that you people scream about, like border protection. After all, he couldn't POSSIBLY allow them to fix the problem he is gaining so much support in the name of.
      Speaking of healthcare, you can thank Trump administration for destroying Healthcare, because that's who is responsible. They are also responsible for covid ripping the country a new one. He destroyed Obamacare AND dismantled the WHO which is what had safeguards in place for that exact possibility. Mind you, Obama care was actually a great thing. The president can't force Healthcare to change, but they can help make sure you have it and that it's held responsible for its actions. Trump destroyed all of that, he have big pharmaceutical an even greater license to kill.
      Yet you are telling me that THIS administration is in the wrong for... doing exactly what it's supposed to do, trying to undo all the damage caused by the former one, and oh yeah, taking the blame for the effects of trumps reign of terror that has been set upon us only AFTER his residency because THATS HOW THE TRICKLE DOWN WORKS. Seriously, get informed, for the sake of ALL of us.
      I'll be damned if people who refuse to do THEIR OWN research via the ACTUAL non-affiliated 3rd party sources from which such data actually comes from (instead of blatant, late night, FOX lies) are going to be the harbinger of all things hell on earth to our doorstep. Well, actually, we will ALL DEFINITELY be damned if that happens.

    • @HerMajesty1
      @HerMajesty1 Місяць тому

      I used to be proud to be an American but now I know that our government is pure evil.

    • @TrueEnergizerBunnies
      @TrueEnergizerBunnies Місяць тому +4

      Shut up. They had insurance and most of the medical bills are paid other than deductible and possible co-insurence if they have it.
      The poem here is this woman is dead from something totally preventable and now this baby doesn't have a mom. And now dad is a single dad who has to work and now needs child care as well without his wife there. They have funeral expenses, child care expenses, and if mom worked that's 1 less income. That's the problem here. Quit moaning about irrelevant nonsensical things

    • @laurafratoni7931
      @laurafratoni7931 Місяць тому +1

      DrThc - to smoke another one. The US has the best healthcare in the world. This is a tragic medical error and the hospital, and that family will suffer for it, but it wasn’t the “system fault

    • @UtkaMedvedTravels
      @UtkaMedvedTravels Місяць тому

      ​@@laurafratoni7931 The US has the best healthcare in the world? Seriously?

  • @MeepieNom
    @MeepieNom Місяць тому +255

    I’m so sorry this happened to this family. I agree this was preventable. It’s just so unfair.

  • @joycejackson9315
    @joycejackson9315 Місяць тому +171

    How sad. May she rest in peace.

  • @angelwings7930
    @angelwings7930 Місяць тому +181

    The family definitely has the opportunity to launch a massive lawsuit.

    • @yanasosnovskaya864
      @yanasosnovskaya864 Місяць тому +14

      100% and not pay a dime to the hospital for not taking care

    • @kristirichards2249
      @kristirichards2249 Місяць тому +8

      And they should, not just for themselves but hopefully to send a message to anyone who was negligent in this new moms care.❤

  • @chas9914
    @chas9914 Місяць тому +186

    My friend died the same exact way they knicked her colon she died from septic shock days later 😢

    • @Joanthebrightone
      @Joanthebrightone Місяць тому +23

      I’m so sorry for your loss!

    • @ShealynnKerns
      @ShealynnKerns Місяць тому +13

      Can the family sue

    • @Gina-nt5ur
      @Gina-nt5ur Місяць тому +11

      I’m so so very sorry. That’s exactly what this woman was going through. They just let her suffer and then sge died. That was too late to just let her be ill like that. Prayers for all the families this has happened to.

    • @annmarieknapp
      @annmarieknapp Місяць тому +9

      I'm so sorry. My mother and I were septic from the genuises leaving my mother for 48 hours after her water broke while I was breach.

    • @hoppincin
      @hoppincin Місяць тому

      Oh that is really bad.

  • @hscamzhscam177
    @hscamzhscam177 Місяць тому +121

    Post partum sepsis? in 2024? smh!!! Family neeeds to sue! Being 39yo is NOT a risk factor for sepsis but poor medical care is!

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 Місяць тому +7

      It’s America though where you have the highest rate of maternal death in the western world. Plus, sepsis kills many even now. Very unfortunate

    • @lissaC.W.
      @lissaC.W. Місяць тому

      @@whitneyanders5945 yeah sepsis to is a brutal way to go. I almost died from it when my appendix ruptured and I went into septic shock the Doctor Who performed my surgery, said that it was a miracle I pulled through. It took over a month to recover, and I had to get a heart picc to get antibiotic streamed. It was a month recovery in hospital. Wish sepsis on my worst enemy. And yeah, the US has like the highest maternal mortality rate than any other westernized country in this world it’s crazy.

  • @yanasosnovskaya864
    @yanasosnovskaya864 Місяць тому +202

    So doctors messed up but there are still bills to pay. 😮 crazy America

    • @Simply-Hameedah
      @Simply-Hameedah Місяць тому

      America is busy for paying Israhell war and its free schools healthcare and more while own Americans paying the price for greedy politicians

    • @lindadeporter
      @lindadeporter Місяць тому +9

      Meaning of INSURANCE is gone as no-one should have a bill when paying a monthly premium.....

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates Місяць тому +6

      They have the option to sue

    • @pigalottafattenton5003
      @pigalottafattenton5003 Місяць тому +8

      They don’t have to pay them. At worst the hospital/provider can try to sue her estate, they usually won’t to try to look better if the family sues.

    • @Gina-nt5ur
      @Gina-nt5ur Місяць тому

      Exactly!!!! Grrr!

  • @signiturelady
    @signiturelady Місяць тому +189

    The US has the worst medical system in the developed world. When mistakes are made, the statment is always " this was a 1 in a million occurence." Meanwhile, they are in the back speaking with their lawyers. Condolences to the family. Praying for u all.

    • @whereisyourhumanity7557
      @whereisyourhumanity7557 Місяць тому +12

      Thank you for keeping it real. The Maternal Mortality Rate in the US is abysmal, compared to civilized nations.

    • @sallyire1
      @sallyire1 Місяць тому +7

      Very glad you mentioned this. People are just cattle in this system. In and out and on to the next patient to keep the profits rolling in.

    • @stephaniepiazzese2602
      @stephaniepiazzese2602 Місяць тому

      @@whereisyourhumanity7557????

    • @GeoffreyVincent
      @GeoffreyVincent Місяць тому +4

      It’s worldwide at the moment. The care has gone and too many inexperienced medical staff.

    • @violetdemure33
      @violetdemure33 Місяць тому +3

      I agree. My laparotomy mistake went two weeks, I had post surgery visits 10 days after they said I was okay despite my complaints of pain and itching and burning in my belly, day after doc said I was fine I went into the ER because my wound had burst open and spilled puss everywhere. My entire abdomen abscessed and it was dismissed when it could have been caught early. I almost died during surgery as my heart stopped and I had a wound vac and open wound in my belly for almost 3 months. The crazy thing, they don't give antibiotics if they believe there is no bleeding, hence when bleeding happens it becomes an infection. It's awful. I almost died. Also in the ER operating room while they scraped and flushed and cut open my surgical scar they did without any pain meds or anesthesia. They connected IV but didn't connect it to the machine giving the meds. Wasn't found until I was moved up to a floor to prepare for surgery, I couldn't speak and was shaking from the pain (shock). Nurse came and told them I hadn't been given anything they discovered when they did their audits of the medicine in resetting that er room. Doctor gave me dozens of shots of local anesthetic in my abdomen and I passed out until I woke up after surgery 1 or 2 days? When I woke up I was alone they had me sign papers I wouldn't litigate in exchange they covered my hospital bills and the daily wound changes from a in-home nurse for months of recovery (Covered only medical visits didn't cover medical equipment and supplies for the in-home nurse care I was on unpaid medical leave and ended up losing 3 months of pay, having to remortgage my house, I had to buy the supplies out-of pocket from Apria and my claims to my HMO were rejected). The type of medical mistakes in the USA are why I chose to have my child born in South Korea. I had 3 weeks postpartum care in South Korea, which is standard. Also, the hospitals are far nicer in Korea, more clean and modern equipment and beds. Cost to give birth in Korea + the postpartum care was less than a Root Canal at the dentist in the USA.

  • @delwynhallett565
    @delwynhallett565 Місяць тому +28

    Here in Australia my niece's first baby born healthy, but my niece bleed drastically after, rushed to theatre stabilised her, days later sent home.
    For the next 2 months, (still caring for her new born, breastfeeding/nappy changes/bathing etc with little help from her partner- he was working) she was incredibly sick, weak and vomiting, high temperatures. Returning to the hospital every two three days begging for some help with her mother. But ignored.
    She flew with her infant to her home town where on arrival, collapsed and taken to hospital.
    Doctors found a bath mat size packing in her womb, she was septic and hours from death.
    Her strong will, is the only thing that pulled her through...and prayers...
    The doctor that delivered her baby, after plenty of attempts to have him removed, still has a job...
    ( Doctors/staff in surgery forgot they packed her )

    • @cheryb.1355
      @cheryb.1355 Місяць тому +7

      Just horrible

    • @Imissnormal
      @Imissnormal Місяць тому +2

      That should have been charted. Thank God she is still here.

    • @VOCW_Radio_Podcast
      @VOCW_Radio_Podcast Місяць тому +3

      Thanks for the warning ⚠️

  • @jacquedodd7279
    @jacquedodd7279 Місяць тому +131

    Please help this family. Father will need all sorts of help💙I’m so sorry for your loss.. my condolences

  • @RaisingMyWildflowers
    @RaisingMyWildflowers Місяць тому +25

    I am so sick of doctors neglecting their patient's health. How many of us give up a huge chunk of our lives staying with a horrible employer to keep our health insurance . . . and just so we can have doctors who ignore us until it's too late. It's ridiculous. This poor mother and her family. 😥

  • @tans6207
    @tans6207 Місяць тому +102

    Bless the mum in heaven 🇦🇺🦘

    • @APDTA_
      @APDTA_ Місяць тому +2

      You don’t know that she’s in heaven

    • @BeverlyMowatt-c7t
      @BeverlyMowatt-c7t Місяць тому

      She is NOT in heaven, when a person dies they cease to exist. The same way you didn't exist before conception, you stop existing after death. On the day of resurrection, if Yahweh (Jehovah) chooses, he will resurrect her. Read ecclesiastes 9 vs 5-6 and 10

    • @jvs1ice
      @jvs1ice Місяць тому +3

      Y’all need help fr

    • @Cemyra
      @Cemyra Місяць тому +4

      No hell is probably where she is .good people don't go to heaven righteous people do .Your soul doesn't Cease to exist Heaven and hell are real things. And the only way to heaven is Jesus. Her time was up There is no resurrecting. And God gives everybody a chance to turn to Jesus Before they die Most people reject it. So most people will perish for lack of knowledge.

    • @Mischa21xo
      @Mischa21xo Місяць тому

      ​@@CemyraAmen. The truth hurts though, so the majority will reject it, or pretend that it does not exist. They will be in for an eternal rude awakening.

  • @julsjewels3185
    @julsjewels3185 Місяць тому +187

    This happened to me with an ectopic miscarriage. Fortunately, the dr. repaired it during surgery. This precious family will mourn her loss. Baby Emerson has a guardian angel.

    • @SD-ph6cr
      @SD-ph6cr Місяць тому +4

      What did they leave inside ?

    • @PrettyDiimples
      @PrettyDiimples Місяць тому +3

      Was this before the new abortion laws? I would hate to have an ectopic pregnancy during these times

    • @lindsayb1329
      @lindsayb1329 Місяць тому +2

      @@PrettyDiimplesdon't believe all the stories you read!

    • @cyndlehick9777
      @cyndlehick9777 Місяць тому +11

      @@lindsayb1329these are real stories. Etopic pregnancies are very scary.

    • @lindsayb1329
      @lindsayb1329 Місяць тому

      @@cyndlehick9777 well duh! You obviously missed what I was trying to say.

  • @SaoirseAnthony
    @SaoirseAnthony Місяць тому +109

    😞 more and more preventable deaths. It is quite hard for the average joe to hold doctors and hospitals accountable. I'm so sorry for this family's loss.

  • @bjdlvr
    @bjdlvr Місяць тому +180

    If she was bleeding internally, she would have been anemic or hypotensive or both. I'm surprised she was not in the OR after three or four days. She must have felt awful. So very sad for everyone in the family - especially the little girl who will never know the mama who wanted her SO badly. 😢
    I had 'geriatric pregnancy' (they're not called that anymore), at age 41. It went smoothly, no c section or any precautions necessary...so don't let this story scare you if you're still trying.

    • @evelynd1355
      @evelynd1355 Місяць тому +17

      My relative just had a beautiful baby boy and told me her pregnancy was called at “geriatric pregnancy” and she is 41 and that where she lives in PA they consider any pregnancy at age 35 or more to be “geriatric pregnancy”. I’m a senior citizen so she taught me something.

    • @stormbunnie6966
      @stormbunnie6966 Місяць тому +23

      "advanced maternal age" they had to change it because folks are too sensitive these days. the older you are the more likely you or the baby will have complications. The US is pretty high up on the list of the most maternal mortalities out of all first world countries. Such a shame.

    • @bjdlvr
      @bjdlvr Місяць тому +19

      @@stormbunnie6966 It's no wonder, considering that geriatric generally refers to really old people, lol. These days, forty is barely middle aged. But yes, you are right - the US has a terribly low percentage of maternal care providers. It's actually pretty shocking.

    • @bjdlvr
      @bjdlvr Місяць тому +9

      @@evelynd1355 Her providers were pretty old school, since that's not what it's called anymore. (Actually, my OBGYN didn't give it any labels at all - he just gave me the thumbs up and said I was healthy, strong, and foresaw no complications at all.) Pregnancies over age 35 are now 'advanced maternal age.' I felt great, except for, you know, seven weeks of morning sickness, lol. But it's all about PC!

    • @stormbunnie6966
      @stormbunnie6966 Місяць тому +4

      @@bjdlvr maternal mortality rate means the women are dying usually during or tight after birth.

  • @vivalabad6
    @vivalabad6 Місяць тому +58

    I like how they forced her to say geriatric pregnancy when it was 100% the hospital's negligence and incompetence. I'm sure they'll still send them the $30,000 bill too

    • @jenny-sue7174
      @jenny-sue7174 Місяць тому +4

      Oh, I promise you, that bill and more will be covered by the upcoming medical malpractice lawsuit.

    • @ScarlettEmeraldASMR
      @ScarlettEmeraldASMR Місяць тому +10

      Geriatric pregnancy meaning a woman over 35. That's just the truth

    • @vivalabad6
      @vivalabad6 Місяць тому +10

      @@ScarlettEmeraldASMR and what does it have to do with the story though? They already trying to blame shift

    • @pigalottafattenton5003
      @pigalottafattenton5003 Місяць тому +4

      @@vivalabad6that was her sister in law telling why the c-section was scheduled. It was to put emphasis on the fact it was not an emergency so the doctor was not in life saving hurry up mode. Scheduled vs emergency means the doctor’s actions will be looked at differently.

    • @maggiegarber246
      @maggiegarber246 Місяць тому

      @@ScarlettEmeraldASMRI am sure her weight didn’t help because the abdomen would have been more difficult to navigate. In any event, it is very sad and it should have been avoided. From what I have read of sepsis…sometimes hard to pinpoint.

  • @stephanieann622
    @stephanieann622 Місяць тому +55

    Dear God, what a tragedy. My prayers for the family. This is a “mistake” that should absolutely never happen again. RIP Mommy Angel 🙏

  • @nikr9240
    @nikr9240 Місяць тому +34

    What was her cbc? Red blood count? Hemoglobin and hematocrit? Wbc? Blood pressure? Pain level? How was this over looked! This is not acceptable! That doctor AND those nurses should have their license taken away

  • @user-pn9db8sm5w
    @user-pn9db8sm5w Місяць тому +84

    Many years ago a woman would stay in the hospital for 3 days after giving birth or at least 5 days after having a C-section. Now they are sent home one day after birth, I wonder how long they stay in after a C-section. It's the insurance that decides to only pay for the least days they can. I'm wondering if this woman was sent home too soon, or was she so sick she had to stay in the hospital, and was basically ignored.

    • @tinahauser8864
      @tinahauser8864 Місяць тому +10

      Most C-section deliveries get a 2-day hospital stay as long as mommy has good vitals. I was in 4 days with my first because my BP was too high - all because they were using a youth cuff on my large arm.

    • @yvonnecooper5004
      @yvonnecooper5004 Місяць тому +14

      I believe in general people are sent home much too soon.😊

    • @Alicia-um4rx
      @Alicia-um4rx Місяць тому +8

      Just had my second in June they sent me home in 2 days. With my first almost 10 years ago it was 4.5 days both c-section. I asked to stay longer but they said no.

    • @yvonnecooper5004
      @yvonnecooper5004 Місяць тому +3

      @Alicia-um4rx congratulations on new baby. I think it is good to be cautious. Some might be concerned with more exposure at hospitals with longer stay like Mersa or covid.

    • @brandym2099
      @brandym2099 Місяць тому +2

      I have 3 kids all delivered by c section. The years of birth was 2000,2007, and 2010 and I stayed a total of 3 days with my youngest 2 and 4 days with my oldest. I don’t know if that’s all changed now

  • @MV-ew6ty
    @MV-ew6ty Місяць тому +32

    Rest in peace beautiful. This is a tragedy and preventable. Lord protect her kids and family.

  • @LADYxREBEL
    @LADYxREBEL Місяць тому +48

    u can see it in her eyes shes not all with it thats scary im sorryy for your loss

  • @Findpepperbridge
    @Findpepperbridge Місяць тому +21

    Why would she be paying the hospital who killed her? I’m so confused….

    • @HerMajesty1
      @HerMajesty1 Місяць тому +2

      Why would we be paying for the healthcare and all living expenses for people who came here illegally and don't contribute like all immigrants before? The system is completely broken and predatory for American citizens and taxpayers.

  • @daa4309
    @daa4309 Місяць тому +64

    I'm so sorry for their loss!😢😢

  • @synthiawilson941
    @synthiawilson941 Місяць тому +101

    Respect,heartfelt condolences n family/friends stay strong

  • @earthling8585
    @earthling8585 Місяць тому +10

    Outrageous. The same thing happened to my cousin. Luckily, they saved her. BUT! She suffered horribly for months after in the hospital. Utterly outrageous. R.I.P. Beautiful Mama💔

  • @rosah.901
    @rosah.901 Місяць тому +44

    Sending prayers and love to her family

    • @KNR90
      @KNR90 Місяць тому

      Thanks to your prayers, the problem was fixed somehow! Amazing!

  • @minnipearls3633
    @minnipearls3633 Місяць тому +35

    Unbelievable that they weighted 8 days to do exploratory surgery!

  • @jodybobo
    @jodybobo Місяць тому +16

    How awful! It took 8 days to figure out what was going on? They should have known in hours… that poor family

  • @starriderkittykat9064
    @starriderkittykat9064 Місяць тому +32

    How does someone die in this day and age after having a baby in a hospital…😢

    • @KittyCatTV
      @KittyCatTV Місяць тому

      Easy. The United States has the worst maternal and fetal mortality rates of any developed country.

    • @moxie86
      @moxie86 Місяць тому +1

      Easily

    • @river8760
      @river8760 Місяць тому +2

      I know of a Dr. that died after giving birth.

    • @HerMajesty1
      @HerMajesty1 Місяць тому +1

      It happens. Healthcare in the US is abysmal.

  • @elaine1423
    @elaine1423 Місяць тому +4

    This is very sad a horrible tragedy that never should have happened..... My condolences to the family.

  • @roselynn816
    @roselynn816 Місяць тому +56

    This isn't right. Jesus, heal this family and give them peace.

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus Місяць тому

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, then I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. About four hours later, On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Місяць тому

      @@shawnalLovesJesus He is.

    • @patricias5122
      @patricias5122 Місяць тому +1

      Never mind all that nonsense, hospitals failed this woman, and Jesus didn't save her. Only the justice system can provide some financial help to this family. They shouldn't have to be doing Go Fund Me.

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus Місяць тому

      @@patricias5122 Jesus is in the business of saving souls. WE have to try and do right by each other. Our eternal home, that is what counts. If you had to choose between heaven or this life... what would YOU choose?

  • @Ann-xv1it
    @Ann-xv1it Місяць тому +35

    THAT IS SO SAD😪😪!!!!!! A FRIEND OF MINE'S SISTER WENT THROUGH THIS, BUT AT LEAST THE BABY HAD LOTS OF FAMILY!!!!

  • @sherrylong7774
    @sherrylong7774 Місяць тому +4

    The hospital should be paying all bills. I am so sorry for this families loss. Should not have happened

    • @DeJaVuCa
      @DeJaVuCa Місяць тому

      Only in USA can hospitals get away with this and still Bankrupt the patient

  • @PK-bh1ww
    @PK-bh1ww Місяць тому +12

    Medical care is not what it used to be. It took 3 trips to the ER in dire pain before they finally did a blood draw. I had sepsis, Then another 2 days to do an MRI and it showed I had a abscess on my spine close enough to paralyze me if I hadn't went the 3rd time to ER. Then 6 wks later they sent me home with a 3.5 centimeter aneurism leaking into my abdomen. A CAT scan the days before I was discharged would have found it. What saved me was a good PA that finally did the tests needed after I kept going back to ER..

  • @Mrs.A-z6m
    @Mrs.A-z6m Місяць тому +15

    You’d be surprised that healthcare in Asia is surpassing that of the West. Did my c- section in thailand and was blown away by the skills of doctors and their facilities. The fees are also nothing compared to that of the US.

    • @donna626
      @donna626 Місяць тому

      My C section in New Zealand was free. God bless her family.

    • @HerMajesty1
      @HerMajesty1 Місяць тому

      The US is rapidly collapsing. Obama ruined healthcare and private practice medicine. It's all corporate now and only driven by $$$$$. They made billions during 2020. Were paid in advance for deaths and told to only use drugs that were guaranteed to end lives. Not a theory. Fact.

    • @jenfoster128
      @jenfoster128 Місяць тому

      May I ask what hospital? I need a hysterectomy and can't get it done in Canada and don't want to go to the US. Thanks!

  • @kimfinder-of7ly
    @kimfinder-of7ly Місяць тому +24

    Sorry for lose my heart is with her family❤

  • @MsWDWFAN1
    @MsWDWFAN1 Місяць тому +7

    That hospital needs to say the bills are paid in full! Unfortunately with that poor mother's life!
    The father is already overwhelmed with losing his wife, taking care of a newborn who will never know her mother and a special needs teenager!
    Any money raised needs to go to the family expenses but you know the hospital or collector is going to hound him for money knowing he needs to concentrate on his family! It could also ruin his credit! But that would be the least of my worries!
    Sue that hospital, doctor(s) and anyone else who was involved in the prevatable death of a mother who only knew her baby for a few short days.
    May she rest in peace and be a guardian angel protecting her family from heaven! 😔🙏💔😢

  • @donnakitchen8118
    @donnakitchen8118 Місяць тому +1

    Praying for you and your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and be with you through this difficult time.🙏

  • @ladonnatartoni9339
    @ladonnatartoni9339 Місяць тому +17

    Sending tons of calming prayers for y'all at this time

  • @nunyabizniz1983
    @nunyabizniz1983 Місяць тому +1

    Negligence. I hope the family filed a lawsuit against the hospital. Poor family. So sick of hearing about these stories… 😢

  • @agirlnamedtomm940
    @agirlnamedtomm940 Місяць тому +16

    So sad that even with insurance the family has to beg for money to cover medical expenses.. in the so called greatest country in the world.

    • @HerMajesty1
      @HerMajesty1 Місяць тому

      Hospital killed her. There should be zero expenses

  • @ShadesofSage
    @ShadesofSage Місяць тому +2

    So absolutely HEARTBREAKING 💔🥺😭😭! Why I will continue advocating for all mothers everywhere on my UA-cam channel and in life as a childbirth doula and educator 🙏🏿

  • @nbaoldgirl
    @nbaoldgirl Місяць тому +20

    Horrifying and heartbreaking. My condolences 💐❤ BEAUTIFUL PHOTO 💔 1:13

  • @beverlyjohnson5503
    @beverlyjohnson5503 Місяць тому +2

    MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY 😢😢

  • @NyanyiC
    @NyanyiC Місяць тому +14

    this had nothing to do with her being a 'geriatric mother' - it was the surgeon's incompetence

  • @IAmWithinEverything
    @IAmWithinEverything Місяць тому +1

    Such a beautiful baby…so sorry for your loss❤

  • @AnneOfTheIndies
    @AnneOfTheIndies Місяць тому +4

    Emmerson is beautiful. So sorry for her mum and family. Thirty-nine isn't old. If she was a teen, people would have something to say about that too.
    Condolences dad. R.I.P Mum. 🌷.

  • @pumpkingirl4229
    @pumpkingirl4229 Місяць тому +1

    Aaaah how sad... RIP Beautiful Sweet Mama ...🙏🏼✝️✨💖✨🕊️💐

  • @shesaid20
    @shesaid20 Місяць тому +4

    HER COLON ???!!! Blood and bacteria going through her body ???!!! I hope that hospital has to pay through the nose to that family ! I was almost killed in an ER … doctors decide early on in treatment if you are deserving of their precious time and energy and you are treated accordingly ! They need a good lawyer and I hope they get MILLIONS !

  • @drussell-v1x
    @drussell-v1x Місяць тому +1

    A beautiful Mother so sad that she will miss out on seeing her baby grow up that baby is going to have all the love and care they need because it looks like she as a great family to do that❤❤❤God bless all of you I hope this family gets the justice they deserve for their loss and i hope that the people responsible are made to.pay and brought to justice

  • @sassygranny1868
    @sassygranny1868 Місяць тому +5

    My heart goes out to this family! I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @EyeofDeborah
    @EyeofDeborah Місяць тому +18

    Geesus these medical people need to do better!!!! Fly high Momma😢

  • @Freeworld856
    @Freeworld856 Місяць тому +5

    I had something similar happen to me. They didn’t realize they had nicked me inside when they were cutting the cord from around my son’s neck. I was bleeding out internally. I had to get an emergency blood transfusion. I was lucky it was caught on time but that’s just because I told them I still felt like I was having contractions and felt the need to push. When I pushed huge blood clots started coming out.

  • @rcfnc
    @rcfnc Місяць тому +2

    Really sad. I had both my kids at 40, 41 with no issues and no C-section. I am so sorry for this family.

  • @fayesmith2406
    @fayesmith2406 Місяць тому +13

    Lawsuit $ will be coming

  • @danasmith6043
    @danasmith6043 Місяць тому +2

    God Bless her Soul Bless her Baby. So Sad.🙏🙏🙏

  • @kimminer7341
    @kimminer7341 Місяць тому +4

    ALL SURGERIES HAVE RISKS. Surgeons are just regular people who happen to have many extra years of schooling.

  • @judidunn1533
    @judidunn1533 Місяць тому

    Her big sister is beautiful! So very sad to have to have lost her mother at such a young age. Praying for comfort during this difficult time.

  • @r.simpson3307
    @r.simpson3307 Місяць тому +2

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽May God Almighty strengthen your family during this time.

  • @HaleyWilliams-o5v
    @HaleyWilliams-o5v Місяць тому +1

    Bless the mama and baby heart

  • @christinabarron9176
    @christinabarron9176 Місяць тому +9

    Omg!shocking and so truly sad for all of that family!!! heartbreak ing..bless this family

  • @suerolfe9451
    @suerolfe9451 Місяць тому +1

    Love and hugs to your family ❤

  • @Largo-y
    @Largo-y Місяць тому +5

    May the family be comforted in their time of bereavement. May the children experience the best life has to offer after their terrible loss.

  • @kygal
    @kygal Місяць тому +1

    This is heartbreaking. Condolences to the family. I’m sure they’ll raise that lil boy to know who his mommy was and that she loved him very much.

  • @cherlynk.8403
    @cherlynk.8403 Місяць тому +18

    So sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family and give you strength to move on to take care of yourself and your children. I pray that God will supply all your needs. In Jesus name. Amen. 🙏 💖 🌹 🕊️

  • @patricias5122
    @patricias5122 Місяць тому +1

    I sincerely hope the hospital isn't stupid enough to send this poor woman's family a bill!

  • @pamparker4047
    @pamparker4047 Місяць тому +17

    Incredibly sad 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @marcielong6978
    @marcielong6978 Місяць тому +2

    How awful! So sorry for the loss

  • @mangographics225
    @mangographics225 Місяць тому +3

    Get a great Attorney and sue them!!!

  • @debiliard3135
    @debiliard3135 Місяць тому

    I am so very sorry for your loss. On a brighter note, beautiful family. God Bless

  • @tropicalpunchkool-aid8326
    @tropicalpunchkool-aid8326 Місяць тому +55

    Sue the Hospital this is Sad

  • @tinapoucher7406
    @tinapoucher7406 Місяць тому +1

    God, please protect this baby & family.

  • @ebonitaapplebum9219
    @ebonitaapplebum9219 Місяць тому +7

    This is awful because it could have been prevented smh

  • @pitbull7885
    @pitbull7885 Місяць тому +7

    Medical malpractice lawsuit

  • @Truchrissy76
    @Truchrissy76 Місяць тому +2

    Bless her soul and my condolences to the family I hope they sue that Hospital

  • @WakkasLove
    @WakkasLove Місяць тому +8

    That is just so wrong and so awful. I'm so, so sorry for the family. May God comfort this family, and may they all be reunited in Heaven one day. In Jesus's name, Amen.

  • @donnamurphy4536
    @donnamurphy4536 Місяць тому +1

    Oh my God.. I am so sorry for your loss and I will pray for her children and family! Such a tragedy 💔

  • @graceabel6292
    @graceabel6292 Місяць тому +3

    Omg so sad..my deepest condolences to them all.. Lord plz send Angels to guard this little Angel and to comfort her husband and other child and her entire family and friends...they need you Lord Jesus more now than ever... show up in a special way i pray 🙏

  • @Shaqlife
    @Shaqlife Місяць тому +1

    How awful so tragic 😢 prayers to her family

  • @sallytidwell7804
    @sallytidwell7804 Місяць тому +43

    They nicked the collen during the C-section and they expect payment! How unjust!

    • @debbiewilson9712
      @debbiewilson9712 Місяць тому +5

      You mean 'colon'?

    • @Sarahthompson2237
      @Sarahthompson2237 Місяць тому +11

      She was morbidly obese and therefor in extreme high risk of problems due to the c-section . So sad

    • @lulamamie8524
      @lulamamie8524 Місяць тому +23

      @@debbiewilson9712 this is NOT a time for a spelling test 🤯🤬😐🙄🙄

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 Місяць тому +6

      Plus diabetes was mentioned that added to complications

    • @jerellg08
      @jerellg08 Місяць тому +4

      @@debbiewilson9712shut up Debbie 🙄

  • @CarmenPortillo-vlog
    @CarmenPortillo-vlog Місяць тому

    I feel sorry for your loss. May God have her in his arms and may God help dad to be a mother and father of the children with the help of the both families.

  • @pa1060
    @pa1060 Місяць тому +4

    I think her weight may have been an issue as well

  • @kayPeel-j5u
    @kayPeel-j5u Місяць тому

    Prayers for your family and friends.And for the dad and his precious girls. Momma is now they're guardian angel.

  • @sapphirerain70
    @sapphirerain70 Місяць тому +4

    Oh my gosh, this is horrible 😢 why 8 days though..someone didn’t do thier job.

  • @carolwalker9307
    @carolwalker9307 Місяць тому

    So so sorry to hear that this wonderful Mam has passed x

  • @Celisar1
    @Celisar1 Місяць тому +30

    This sounds like severe medical neglect.
    After a C-section you do not need morphine!
    And the lab results must have shown a rapidly increasing infection.
    Plus has no one ever palpated her abdomen after the surgery? There must have been signs of peritonitis.
    This is tragic!

    • @Sulaeyes
      @Sulaeyes Місяць тому +6

      I had morphine after my C section. Even a physician would not make a blank statement about pain control after a major surgery.

    • @lewiscayla96
      @lewiscayla96 Місяць тому +2

      @@SulaeyesI think it depends on how soon. You just had pain meds during the surgery and whatever it is that makes you not feel the incision so to add to that seems very over the top. I can say maybe hours after but right after seems negligent.

    • @barbarakrall1184
      @barbarakrall1184 Місяць тому +2

      Over 38 years ago I was given morphine after my c-section. Have you had a c-section? As I recall, the pain was bad.

    • @Celisar1
      @Celisar1 Місяць тому +2

      @@Sulaeyes
      Then you got treated in an inadequate way. I have already heard that US Americans often get morphine when in European countries ibuprofen does suffice.
      I have never seen any patient, not a single one, getting morphine postoperatively. But what are my 20 years of experience in the field in comparison to your one C- section. :)

    • @karenglenn6707
      @karenglenn6707 Місяць тому +1

      ⁠@@Celisar1I’ve had numerous laparotomy’s for endometriosis, ovary removal, then removal of a hydrosalpix, in Australia and each time have received morphine after surgery, and even was sent home with tablets as well.

  • @LittlePieceOfHeaven.65
    @LittlePieceOfHeaven.65 Місяць тому

    Wow ! I teared up just hearing this story . My condolences to the father and the family.

  • @Horseluvver
    @Horseluvver Місяць тому +21

    Omg peritonitis is SO painful....and deadly.
    Careless & clueless drs, unable to think rationally.
    Severe abdominal pain is ALWAYS an emergency.

    • @Celisar1
      @Celisar1 Місяць тому +7

      Exactly!
      Normally you never need morphine after a C section, plusthe lab results must have shown a severe infection.
      Bet she had a fever too, so why no blood cultures?
      And lastly:no one checked on her abdomen? There are most often clear signs in a peritonitis.

  • @mindfulspirit0510
    @mindfulspirit0510 Місяць тому

    My heart goes out to family. An upside down joy. So sad for family.

  • @deniseblackburn33
    @deniseblackburn33 Місяць тому +9

    I’m so sorry

  • @TheGilmore_Girl
    @TheGilmore_Girl Місяць тому +1

    Beautiful baby

  • @SC.......
    @SC....... Місяць тому +4

    This is what malpractice insurance was for. Hold them responsible 😢