Is life in the US a golden cage? From visa-dependent to finding my voice | Albeli Ritu

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  • @theamericanalien
    @theamericanalien 3 місяці тому +17

    Thank you, dearest Ritu, for letting me be so candid on this interview. It didn't feel like I was being grilled 😂 This is what happens when two desis start chatting! The camera becomes invisible, and the content just flows 😂.
    The best part? It’s in Hindi! I felt soooo comfortable, like I was chatting with a friend over chai, not a camera crew.
    New York mein khade reh ke "abbey and arre yaar" 😆

    • @SonaJain_USA
      @SonaJain_USA 3 місяці тому +2

      Bahut achhi video hai Neha di🙏🩷 Duniya ko reality batane ke liye thanks.
      I am currently in the US on a dependent visa after marrying my boyfriend. Back in India, I used to be a teacher.

  • @sonalimhaisekar6151
    @sonalimhaisekar6151 3 місяці тому +5

    That's what i love about the country usa, A person start taking hobbies and other atypical way of lifestyle seriously; which enhance overall personality! That is another kind of beauty of USA!! ❤ u guys look so happy and satisfied!!

  • @codencolor
    @codencolor 3 місяці тому +5

    Amazing content. Thanks Ritu for finding the strength to create this value even with a baby. You are right, it’s easy to sit in sadness. I am on H4. Thank you for sharing this

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  3 місяці тому +1

      I’m so glad it resonated with you. Wishing you all the best on your journey! 🤩

  • @arunkumaracharya9641
    @arunkumaracharya9641 3 місяці тому +4

    I understand that for someone who worked in the middle of corporate walls, it is hard to sit between home walls. Kudos to homemakers who love being homemakers, are proud and happily involved with their spouse and kids, and see growth in family nurture.

  • @jisajohn123
    @jisajohn123 3 місяці тому +4

    Hello Ritu....
    Can you make a video on H4EAD, specifically on the "certain percentage of people qualifying H4EAD and not all H4 visa holder", as mentioned in the video. Thank you

  • @usharamesh8853
    @usharamesh8853 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you ma'am for your detailed insights. Appreciate the way, you over came all your struggles. God bless you with more power and success ❤ ❤

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for your kind words, I appreciate it! 🙏

  • @cks4604
    @cks4604 3 місяці тому +3

    ❤Ritu such a great listener! And nice story covered this time.

  • @JustHuman24-h1s
    @JustHuman24-h1s 2 місяці тому +1

    100% correctly said . Just two cents , there is another dependent visa category L2 which will let the spouse work in us with valid I94. So do your research before coming . It’s definitely the land of opportunities only if you have the correct qualifications and willingness to work really hard .

  • @that-sane-mind
    @that-sane-mind 3 місяці тому +2

    Very informative vlog. Lots of actual facts n insights shared honestly 👍🏻

  • @kets7
    @kets7 3 місяці тому +3

    I used to do volunteering in public library n other few organizations as well on once a week or twice a week basis. But nothing worked to get job or earning or no any company was ready to sponsor my visa.

  • @nehachawla7913
    @nehachawla7913 3 місяці тому +1

    Very helpful video. Thanks for sharing

  • @mash6943
    @mash6943 2 місяці тому +1

    Nice Interview 👌🏻
    Good inputes by Neha 😊
    Sach se RuBa Ru kiya😊

  • @kets7
    @kets7 3 місяці тому +7

    This is also the main point Trump started getting huge following of american ppl as Obama administration started H4EAD n Trump admin thinks that they r loosing job market for americans.

  • @awesomedude4428
    @awesomedude4428 3 місяці тому +3

    I would say no other country is more welcoming or has more opportunities in STEM than the US for sure. The combination of all that coupled with an excellent quality of life is what makes the American Dream attractive. This combo is hard to come by elsewhere, if at all! But yeah it's subjective.

  • @kets7
    @kets7 3 місяці тому +5

    Been there, done that...even no kids...what should I supposed to do??? Husband used to say he is earning alone n I m just living lavishly, eating good food bcz of him, spending his money on things n doing nothing!!!

    • @MK-xx5zg
      @MK-xx5zg 3 місяці тому +1

      All the chores you did in your home, all the cooking, taking care of home dont count?

    • @Pritha879
      @Pritha879 3 місяці тому

      No​@@MK-xx5zg

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  3 місяці тому +1

      I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. Stay strong, and consider starting to volunteer-it can help you get out of the house, build your confidence, form your own circle, and establish a routine. Wishing you all the best, and don’t lose hope!

    • @kets7
      @kets7 2 місяці тому

      We moved back to India 3 years back for good as per his n his parents wish n he immediately filed divorce case mentioning all the above reasons (not giving tiffin on time, max time watching tv, spending his money, saw USA bcz of him, I only need his money, not cleaning dishes on time etc etc)...
      Bcz of huge career gap, not able to get gud job...dnt hv any place to live. Dnt hv any investment on my name (he made sure all these yrs) dnt have ANY kind of help..still living under same roof n legal battle is going on..

    • @kets7
      @kets7 2 місяці тому

      #albeliritu

  • @prashantjoshi5314
    @prashantjoshi5314 3 місяці тому +3

    Nice vlog. Very informative 😊

  • @priiyashraj
    @priiyashraj 3 місяці тому +2

    Very nice and informative video!❤

  • @GarimaMalik-hx8yn
    @GarimaMalik-hx8yn 3 місяці тому +2

    Hi Ritu , could you please share something about Abdanoment of H4 spouse visa holders by H1-B holders ?? I recently got abandoned by my H1-B spouse and i was left in the middle of the night on airport

  • @kets7
    @kets7 3 місяці тому +3

    Its H4 EAD. In subtitles it says H4 AD

  • @kets7
    @kets7 3 місяці тому +2

    Even we got GC in EB1 but exactly just before Covid hits!

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  3 місяці тому +1

      I am glad finally things worked out.. all the best for your journey ahead 🤩

    • @kets7
      @kets7 2 місяці тому

      ​@@AlbeliRituRitu, pls read my above reply. Life is short yet very very difficult. Not all people get lucky!

  • @soumyadayal1034
    @soumyadayal1034 3 місяці тому +1

    Awesome Podcast ऋतु 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👍🏻👍🏻.....The Best Part for being a Comedian is that a Comedian will always have to be Stress Free to make other person Stress Free 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳😜😜
    Enjoy 👍🏻👍🏻🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  3 місяці тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it 🙏

    • @soumyadayal1034
      @soumyadayal1034 3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks to you for Sharing such Informative and Entertaining videos 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👍🏻👍🏻🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🎥🎥
      इतिका को ढेर सारा प्यार 👶🏻👶🏻🍫🍫💕
      नवरात्रि एवं विजयादशमी की आप सभी को हार्दिक शुभकामनायें 💐💐🙏🏻
      खुश रहिये 👍🏻👍🏻
      जय माता दी।। 🙏🏻

  • @AnuradhaKinariwala
    @AnuradhaKinariwala 3 місяці тому +2

    100% true.

  • @swastimukherjee6030
    @swastimukherjee6030 3 місяці тому +3

    Nice informative video

  • @shashankagrawal5970
    @shashankagrawal5970 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice video Ritu sister ji happy Navratri 😊❤😊❤

  • @sp-bl4pt
    @sp-bl4pt 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks 👍😊 Good to hv this info

  • @marisolsharma4809
    @marisolsharma4809 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi 🙏🏼, Ritu,…..Amazing vlogs 👍🏼

  • @hematiwari8093
    @hematiwari8093 3 місяці тому +3

    Sacchai dikhai hai sahi naam diya hai golden gate door ke dhol suhawne hote hain

  • @namratafamilychannel
    @namratafamilychannel 3 місяці тому +2

    VERY NICE SHARING ..... HI RITU , HOW R U?

  • @gitaranganathan-tc5dn
    @gitaranganathan-tc5dn 3 місяці тому +1

    Very informative and truthful

  • @siddharthasingh5211
    @siddharthasingh5211 3 місяці тому +1

    Why is it a privilege to stand in Bryant Park, NYC ?

  • @PMyra
    @PMyra 2 місяці тому +1

    Me and you are same year came ..I will face same problem

  • @kapilhintya7507
    @kapilhintya7507 3 місяці тому +1

    Sabse samajdhari....usa feedback explain...jo log samajne..kee koshish karenge..will..avoid..messing...there...life.

  • @nirmalapande9255
    @nirmalapande9255 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice vlog 😊

  • @deepkalra3295
    @deepkalra3295 3 місяці тому +2

    V informative. 👍reality check but American dream is v attractive 😊

  • @Pritha879
    @Pritha879 3 місяці тому

    If possible convert to F1 .. the experience of studying at an American university is priceless .. more valuable than earning dollars.. try claiming in state to get fifty percent off .. or do phD.. baaaki India mei bhi sab mil hi jaata hai

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 3 місяці тому

      It is painful to be an international student in USA

    • @Pritha879
      @Pritha879 3 місяці тому

      @@rohanutep81 yes but I only need tuition fees if u r staying with husband

  • @kets7
    @kets7 3 місяці тому

    Whenever I used to travel, I hv to carry our mrriage certificate!

  • @KaranKumar-xb2zu
    @KaranKumar-xb2zu 3 місяці тому

    Ritu Didi Namsty I’m from pakistan 🇵🇰 Didi plz Mje b USA ana h m physiotherapist ho plz he job salary k bare m guide kre k kese ana hota h

  • @siddhantsuri6383
    @siddhantsuri6383 3 місяці тому

    Ritu im in deep trouble plss help me im from delhi india

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  3 місяці тому

      Kya hua?

    • @siddhantsuri6383
      @siddhantsuri6383 3 місяці тому

      @@AlbeliRitu thanks for reply mam ghar main bahut pareshani h or job bhi nh h father is 78 fitts padte h kahi se bhi help karwao im jobless

    • @siddhantsuri6383
      @siddhantsuri6383 3 місяці тому +1

      @@AlbeliRitu im from delhi siddhant suri my name

    • @siddhantsuri6383
      @siddhantsuri6383 3 місяці тому

      @@AlbeliRitu im in deep trouble

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 3 місяці тому

      @@siddhantsuri6383better to return to India

  • @Natureloverallmylife
    @Natureloverallmylife 2 місяці тому

    You were a journalist in India! You did not know what h4 was but was your husband not aware too? You should have left him for keeping you in dark!!

    • @theamericanalien
      @theamericanalien 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching the interview 😊.

  • @bellapatel910
    @bellapatel910 3 місяці тому +1

    Really...Big No No...Make them to "bow dawn" for highly qualified & skilled workers...and get all benefits like a other eligal individuals... & title "Cheap Labor" needs to be out too...Stand Tall...& Move on...TY...

  • @vviniaggarwall
    @vviniaggarwall 3 місяці тому +1

    It's better to be in a Golden cage then being in Dirty Mud!!

  • @SonaJain_USA
    @SonaJain_USA 3 місяці тому +1

    Lovely video, Ritu Di 🙏🩷 Main abhi US mein hoon on a dependent visa, after getting married to my boyfriend. India mein main teacher thi. Main aapka Facebook page bhi follow karti hoon. Waise, aapki gudiya ka naam aur mera naam kaafi similar hai, hai na? ☺🩷

    • @AlbeliRitu
      @AlbeliRitu  3 місяці тому +1

      Hello Sona.. thanks for following me and being part of my journey.