Hello, I’m glad that you have found a silver lining in what most people would describe as loneliness. Personally, I believe that the friends you had did not serve your physical/mental health because while they alleviated whatever cognitive discomfort you face, they served no greater purpose. As you mature, you will likely find that without a meaningful connection to others, it is difficult to find meaning in life in general. By simple observation (in this 10 min UA-cam video mind you), you appear to be very high in self-monitoring. This correlates with intellectual thinking, but you should also consider that intellect correlates with social inhibition. Just some food for thought. Best of luck in your future endeavors- I envy your confidence and vulnerability in posting this video.
thank you for your observations. there is nothing to envy, you’re an individual and you’re you! there’s nothin more special than your own humanity and experience. have a blessed and amazing day❤️
I’m not sure you’re much of a loser at all. Losers are complacent with comfort and treat themselves as victims to everything that happens to them. A loser would have stayed in that situation you pulled yourself away from. Recognizing a problem and choosing to change something is the exact opposite of what a loser would have done. It has nothing to do with how many friends you have or any social status whatsoever - if you’re happy with your life as it is and would change nothing about it from where you are today, I’d say you’re winning :)
Not gonna lie being a loser is good until you feel lonely af
Hello,
I’m glad that you have found a silver lining in what most people would describe as loneliness.
Personally, I believe that the friends you had did not serve your physical/mental health because while they alleviated whatever cognitive discomfort you face, they served no greater purpose.
As you mature, you will likely find that without a meaningful connection to others, it is difficult to find meaning in life in general.
By simple observation (in this 10 min UA-cam video mind you), you appear to be very high in self-monitoring. This correlates with intellectual thinking, but you should also consider that intellect correlates with social inhibition.
Just some food for thought. Best of luck in your future endeavors- I envy your confidence and vulnerability in posting this video.
thank you for your observations. there is nothing to envy, you’re an individual and you’re you! there’s nothin more special than your own humanity and experience. have a blessed and amazing day❤️
Preach
I’m not sure you’re much of a loser at all. Losers are complacent with comfort and treat themselves as victims to everything that happens to them. A loser would have stayed in that situation you pulled yourself away from. Recognizing a problem and choosing to change something is the exact opposite of what a loser would have done. It has nothing to do with how many friends you have or any social status whatsoever - if you’re happy with your life as it is and would change nothing about it from where you are today, I’d say you’re winning :)
excellent dialogue. thank you for that. have an amazing day❤️