What is YOUR Reason for Being? (Ikigai)

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  • @thefutur
    @thefutur  4 роки тому +199

    If you enjoyed this video, watch part 2, to generate ideas: ua-cam.com/video/BAzs3amtEFA/v-deo.html

    • @L4ki0
      @L4ki0 3 роки тому +14

      There is old saying: Many people do what they like to do, what they can do, or what they must do. Just few of them do what they are supposed to do.
      Your missing piece are those people who do what they are supposed to do.

    • @vickysingh9025
      @vickysingh9025 3 роки тому +6

      Your session are life changing it will be a dream come true if I talk to you.......

    • @freebeard7361
      @freebeard7361 3 роки тому +2

      Your Ikigai sounds like a ponzi scheme

    • @ArnoDePachter
      @ArnoDePachter 3 роки тому

      jmmklxk

    • @ArnoDePachter
      @ArnoDePachter 3 роки тому

      @@L4ki0 ik
      9l’mm

  • @kurodahyokazahuchi5344
    @kurodahyokazahuchi5344 5 років тому +5261

    I Think the world needs to rethink education. Information is already there for all of us for free through internet, so I think Education should be focused in empowering thinking instead of memorizing information.

    • @ososanity3795
      @ososanity3795 5 років тому +182

      Probably the most underrated comment known to society

    • @ItalianFoodBoss
      @ItalianFoodBoss 4 роки тому +80

      I absolutely agree. Current education framework is not designed for the future world. I'm investigating options for my kid.
      Ciaoooooo from the ITALIAN FOOD BOSS💪💪🇮🇹🇮🇹

    • @kurodahyokazahuchi5344
      @kurodahyokazahuchi5344 4 роки тому +49

      @@ItalianFoodBoss Yes me too, I have a 4 year old kid wich I don't want to go through the same traditional education model.

    • @ZMorpheus
      @ZMorpheus 4 роки тому +7

      He can open an account for child support and neglect his kids. That's the real way to trick the system and blame it all on your kids later on. All love. Independent ♥

    • @awongfilms1
      @awongfilms1 4 роки тому +5

      ooo i like this!

  • @Kitanaii
    @Kitanaii 4 роки тому +1846

    First I was like 'I will NOT watch a 45 min long Video, let's just skip through it' and here I am, watching 45 minutes video and loving every Minute of it.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +54

      Thanks for watching.

    • @bernadinsenatus4007
      @bernadinsenatus4007 4 роки тому +6

      pineapplee n I rewind this baby

    • @EpE002
      @EpE002 4 роки тому +7

      I said the same thing jaja, hes a master on making thi entertaining and engaging

    • @johnny2552
      @johnny2552 4 роки тому +3

      Oof, I get happy when i see a 45 - 1hr long futur video x.x

    • @natasshayoung
      @natasshayoung 4 роки тому +5

      you can use the playback speed! I watched at 1.5 and also loved every second... actually there are tears in my eyes!

  • @Kwansmusic
    @Kwansmusic 4 роки тому +983

    actually older guys could take your class. There are loads people that are are old and never figured out their reason for being. Redesigning your life can happen any stage in your life. Hope you guys read this.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +29

      Yes

    • @liezelenriquez880
      @liezelenriquez880 4 роки тому +2

      Agree

    • @ottodidakt3069
      @ottodidakt3069 4 роки тому +17

      Hell yeah ... I'm 48 and this is useful, fun fact is I was watching this to share with my daughter who has started studying to become ... a designer. And of course she needs to make choices and narrow down for her futur studies. This video adresses the issues perfectly .. so thank you(s).

    • @conniegullo6108
      @conniegullo6108 4 роки тому +3

      And girls...

    • @jpizzleforizzle
      @jpizzleforizzle 4 роки тому +9

      Yessss! I turned 39 in June... Still trying to figure out my thing! This video is awesome!

  • @Channelbymv
    @Channelbymv 4 роки тому +482

    He feels so charismatic and safe within himself, it really shows in the way he interacts with others. Great leader, talker and educator! 👏

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +18

      Thank you 😊

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 3 роки тому +4

      I come here for his smile. 😪😍

    • @ThunderAppeal
      @ThunderAppeal 3 роки тому

      He 'feels charismatic' to morons like you who have no direction.
      Like ZERO direction.

    • @danielcowan87
      @danielcowan87 3 роки тому +3

      @@ThunderAppeal ☠

    • @muskansiddikee2171
      @muskansiddikee2171 3 роки тому +1

      @@thefutur I feel the main thing the world needs now is spirituality and mental peace (mental health)

  • @gigiazcuna1799
    @gigiazcuna1799 3 роки тому +449

    There should be one mandatory session of finding your "IKIGAI" in senior highschool. Saves parents and students lots of trouble

    • @b105n8
      @b105n8 3 роки тому +10

      Too bad your government wants to suppress you lol

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 роки тому +8

      Nah bro parents just want to make their children doctor or engineer

    • @LEXICON-DEVIL
      @LEXICON-DEVIL 3 роки тому +1

      Naw no way that might actually be helpful. Schools lower the passing line so that they have a higher graduation output. Peoyin power don't want to breed critical thinkers. Just work at a fast food place for the rest of your life instead of working there as a stepping stone. That, in my opinion, is what those jobs should be for. A stepping stone towards other careers.

    • @duhbid6870
      @duhbid6870 3 роки тому +3

      And that could be your IKIGAI, to implement that

    • @dykemoder
      @dykemoder 3 роки тому

      @@LEXICON-DEVIL what are u talking about how would finding what u want to do not help u treat those jobs as stepping stones?

  • @artbydhroov5527
    @artbydhroov5527 5 років тому +1198

    I still can't believe that you're sharing such valuable information on UA-cam free of cost. Thank you very much!

    • @artivedi3887
      @artivedi3887 4 роки тому

      dhROOV I still need help to discover how to go about

    • @Jelissei
      @Jelissei 4 роки тому +10

      you can google Ikigai and find lots of good and free resource about this topic. Furthermore Ikigai is only one way to go about it.
      Usually people will put information online for advertising purposes. The more people know you, the more people you can help.
      Having said that, Chris really seems good at his Ikigai : )

    • @Tonyroseauthor
      @Tonyroseauthor 4 роки тому +1

      333rd like 🤓

    • @shimmentakezo1196
      @shimmentakezo1196 4 роки тому +1

      the video didn't cost anything

    • @tiaan_va
      @tiaan_va 4 роки тому +1

      @@leonardoaubert okay leonard, go show how buthurt you are on some other video

  • @newrnx9776
    @newrnx9776 4 роки тому +419

    "It's hard to hit a target when you don't know where the target is, it's hard to score a goal when you don't know where the goal is"

  • @artzxpress
    @artzxpress 4 роки тому +1103

    I recently talked my son OUT of being a mechanical engineer. He has the aptitude but no passion for it. He was only doing it because he felt that it was safe. His older brother is finishing up a mechanical engineering degree but he is passionate about it. I am guiding him to zero in on what he can get excited about and this video will be great for him. Thanks!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +319

      he is lucky to have such an open minded parent.

    • @daniels.9678
      @daniels.9678 4 роки тому +97

      I have a master's degree in mechanical engineering but i pretty much hate every thing about working in this occupational field. Talking him out of it when he has no passion for it is the right thing to do. Well done.

    • @robynuniverse4088
      @robynuniverse4088 4 роки тому +72

      said no asian parent ever T_T

    • @natural91LC
      @natural91LC 4 роки тому +7

      wow what great mom!

    • @upashona
      @upashona 4 роки тому +7

      you are such a good mom! bless you

  • @Justforfrolics
    @Justforfrolics 4 роки тому +75

    This 46 minutes was one of the best investments in my life!

  • @Milorayn
    @Milorayn 4 роки тому +121

    I’ll admit it, this video made me cry. I really wish I could figure my life out. You helped that lady so much and i was so happy for her.

  • @fayeclough4001
    @fayeclough4001 4 роки тому +584

    This is something that needs to be taught in schools, colleges and universities.
    I wish someone got me thinking like this 20 years ago.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +12

      You’re very welcome.

    • @fayeclough4001
      @fayeclough4001 4 роки тому +4

      The Futur i think you are spot on with the changes coming about too. People are taking responsibility for their own educations now and so that is a massive area of growth. I would add that the world needs more reliable platforms of quality and fact checks. Too much ‘fake news’ out there. I think there will also be a shake up in the education system going forward but I expect it will take a another generation or two to really show. There are also a massive amounts of ‘awakenings’ happening now which is why people need more smart and creative ways to help people understand how to hack their own brain and emotions.

    • @vaishalichitriv8427
      @vaishalichitriv8427 4 роки тому

      Future is in our hand zits our generation and our generation knows what will be better,i think this worst scenario of education will change for sure.

    • @justbirdie4830
      @justbirdie4830 4 роки тому

      it thought in my school tho i don't even know why ppl are so anarchy toward edu system like it's a worldwide problem, problaby their environment/system.

    • @NewLimitlessWorld
      @NewLimitlessWorld 4 роки тому

      Agree 100% and glad that i met a Dr that does that exactly and super to the point. His name is Dr Joe Isaak if you know him 👍

  • @Hollyhock7
    @Hollyhock7 5 років тому +528

    Chris seems so thoughtful, wise, patient and kind.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 років тому +26

      Thank you

    • @Ledatru
      @Ledatru 5 років тому +12

      Koya Moon there is a reason why he is the global leader of the creative realm

    • @Hollyhock7
      @Hollyhock7 5 років тому

      A true blessing indeed!! 💓💓

    • @ChristopherWalch9
      @ChristopherWalch9 5 років тому +8

      Such a calm voice, right? Or is it only me haha

    • @Hollyhock7
      @Hollyhock7 5 років тому +5

      @@ChristopherWalch9 I feel that. He could do a meditation series, it'd be really effective I bet!

  • @Fujtajblus
    @Fujtajblus 5 років тому +186

    The word difference is:
    Profession - a service you offer to the market to help you make a living
    Vocation - a calling or an occupation which requires great dedication and has a greater purpose

  • @ahmedd320
    @ahmedd320 4 роки тому +139

    My indecision in choosing a path/passion has left me broke and behind

    • @SpikeAnon
      @SpikeAnon 3 роки тому +26

      I don't know where you're at, but I've spent about 5 years trying to figure myself out. I wouldn't call it wasted time, it's time I needed to make big decisions and change as a person.
      If you're realizing you need or want a change, then you've been doing something right! Many people stay lost forever. Pursue your goals, it's never too late as long as you're breathing.

    • @clove8461
      @clove8461 3 роки тому +10

      Ahmed, it's good that you know where you problem is from which is indecision. It's time to deal decisively with it. Focus on the identity you want to create for yourself. Who are you or who do you want to be known as or what do you want to be known for. I think you also need to do this ikigai exercise and then summon the will power to follow one path. The quicker you fail in one thing, the quicker you get going with the next thing until you pick the best for you. Also try to get an accountability partner. Connect with people who are already succeeding and doing exploits so you can be challenged to choose a path. I wish you well

    • @mrknarf4438
      @mrknarf4438 3 роки тому +2

      There's no such thing as being behind in life. We all have our own paths, find a way to live that's fulfilling, no matter if it takes you ten more years. Better than being "ahead" but going in the wrong direction.

  • @davidtilson9830
    @davidtilson9830 3 роки тому +81

    Im not a designer and yet I find myself drawn to this channel.I really love the way Chris thinks and teaches.I needed this in this time of my life.I’m grateful for this channel.Many blessings to all

  • @MoAtazMoRsi
    @MoAtazMoRsi 4 роки тому +447

    I had depression for a while cause I didn't know what I'm living for and what should I do for the rest of my life, what's the career/life direction, what's the manual should I follow, and I watched this video now which is so accurate, relative & impactful, Thanks Chris, you nearly saved my life.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +70

      hang in there buddy. your life is worth living for.

    • @JehanneMarie
      @JehanneMarie 4 роки тому +5

      Watch the Tom bilyieu with Mél Robbins interview . Life changing

    • @lethargic_cow
      @lethargic_cow 4 роки тому +2

      أنت مش لوحدك يا مان. اتكلم مع الناس، قريبين منك وغرباء ... اسأل حاجات عن نفسك خصوصاً من القريبين ... بص حواليك ولاحظ مين بيعمل ايه ... لو عندك حد شايفه مثل أعلى اسأل نفسك هو أو هي بيعملو ايه مختلف ... وفي الأول وفي الاخر الدنيا دي مؤقتة فحاول توازن ما بين هم الدنيا وهم الاخرة ... ربنا يريح بالك إن شاء الله :)

    • @Pixiemang0
      @Pixiemang0 4 роки тому +2

      @@lethargic_cow أنت رجل لطيف للغاية حاتم استمر في دعم الجميع مثل هذا

    • @lethargic_cow
      @lethargic_cow 4 роки тому

      @@Pixiemang0 شكرا جزيلاً :)

  • @kaylei001
    @kaylei001 4 роки тому +126

    I love coaching, helping people grow, getting people to reach their highest potential. I love challenges. I am good at problem solving, getting things done and activating people to get things done.
    I did engineering which was great actually but I wanted a little more. My parents had no expectations, but I thought that should be what I wanted. The world needs me to help people realize that they can really do anything they truly want, that they are more powerful than they can imagine. Their ideal life and career is only 6 inches away. All the information is out there for them to learn what to do. Life is for them not against them. All the problems you have in work stems from miscommunication. There’s no one thing but you have your path that you will learn from. You are meant to have multiple purposes. There are many more options. Success comes from personal development. If you want to lead, you have to lead yourself first.

    • @NancyFoxTV
      @NancyFoxTV 4 роки тому +2

      Kelly Lei Did you begin a coaching career? How’s it going?

    • @elle7322
      @elle7322 4 роки тому +4

      well said

    • @suap309
      @suap309 3 роки тому +4

      Would you consider job coaching me privately? I'm struggling with matching my many skills with a fulfilling job that will bring in decent money. I have self-limiting beliefs I need encouragement to break through in order to see the bigger picture? Many thanks

    • @souliphongsavath6324
      @souliphongsavath6324 3 роки тому +1

      Love and appreciate this message 💖 💯 💝

    • @damongutierrez8418
      @damongutierrez8418 3 роки тому

      This really helped

  • @eiich5621
    @eiich5621 5 років тому +160

    I am Japanese and I approve of your copy and paste, as well as your pronunciation. Thank you so much for this video!

  • @Tyjumli2pac
    @Tyjumli2pac 3 роки тому +10

    I read Ikigai when I was in rehab . It helped me a lot in my recovery. It was the first book I've completed. Really nice book.
    "a reason to jump out of bed each morning "

  • @spmxo
    @spmxo 6 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely love how you explained the concept of ikigai Mr.Chris. This is the reason why most people struggle with productivity. They dont need to watch productivity videos. They just need to be interested in something to be productive. Cuz once you love what you do, you will learn more about it, you will find job opportunities. You will be happy at work.

  • @nishaalkn
    @nishaalkn 5 років тому +125

    I’m almost 27 who still doesn’t know my IKIGAI. Just one word Chris. Thank You!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 років тому +6

      You're very welcome

    • @damjanbulatovic
      @damjanbulatovic 5 років тому +5

      Welcome to the club, bro! XD

    • @Jessebowyer
      @Jessebowyer 5 років тому +9

      3 words for you !
      It is okay!
      Just keep thinking keep seeking for it

    • @hiroakihanyu
      @hiroakihanyu 4 роки тому +2

      know dat feel bro

    • @beenay18
      @beenay18 4 роки тому +1

      Give your best at everything you do, every opportunity you get.

  • @beatrizcastelobranco4713
    @beatrizcastelobranco4713 4 роки тому +112

    As a college student facing graduation within the next year and amidst this pandemic, this talk was SO IMPORTANT! Thank you!! Much love from Latin America!!

  • @nuhafathima2948
    @nuhafathima2948 4 роки тому +17

    People are usually confused as to what they wanna do or take up as a job and I love the way how he explains it in such a simple way saying "this is what u wanna do" ....he just puts it there in such a simple , unambiguous, straightforward manner .....and there is a sense of calmness when he speaks ...it's like listening to some sort of personal motivation mantra

  • @dk6807
    @dk6807 4 роки тому +39

    I could watch and listen to Chris teaching for hours and i won't be bored. I love when someone explains a process in such clarity.

    • @olivert.7177
      @olivert.7177 4 роки тому

      So you found another Point for your "I Love to" list 😁🎉

    • @mysterious_worldbook
      @mysterious_worldbook Рік тому

      I love that he takes time to really get into each points here

  • @nicksaysboo
    @nicksaysboo 2 роки тому +8

    "It's hard to score a goal when you don't know where that goal is" really felt that one I love this

  • @thenewzealandkorean
    @thenewzealandkorean 4 роки тому +40

    What I found about Chris is that most designers are not good at sales, marketing and negotiation skills but he stands that part out from other designers. That part is what I want to learn from him

  • @rokkudai
    @rokkudai 5 років тому +132

    I wasn't expecting to be thinking this deep at 5 in the morning. Thank you for this vid.

  • @huihuang2306
    @huihuang2306 4 роки тому +25

    Love this model and coaching session. Here is my thinking model to share with everyone:
    - Mindset: we have to unlock ourselves and get comfortable on life-long learning and training.
    - Model: When making personal decisions trying to ask 3 questions: a. what you can do today; b. what you want to do; c. what you should do.
    - Strategy: We strive to think creatively on clarity on long term but also know what we would want to put into actions in near term (next 3 month, 6 month).
    If you have parents or others either say you should do this or you cann't do this, you can politely treat them as your advisory group, listen, analyze but still own your decisions.
    I am with TheFutur here - it is about taking your decision mindfully.
    The last thing - life is a magic system. you can bend the rules and build bridges toward the place you want to be. Don't just be a visitor, be a creator in your life journey.

  • @highvibee
    @highvibee 4 роки тому +56

    Generally, a profession is the job you've chosen to do “for life", more than just a temporary thing. However, just because you do something long-term doesn't mean you enjoy it. You may even hate what you do for a living!
    “Vocation" is something you are “called" to do, from the Latin “vocare", to call. It's following a profession that is your heart's desire. That is the main difference between the two.

  • @boomarang3186
    @boomarang3186 3 роки тому +10

    Chris, In this world, there are some humans that make a big difference. You are one of them. You have a great spirit. You inspire me a lot. I wish you a beautiful life!! I'm just touched. I can feel your beautiful soul from here. May the king of the universe bless you.

  • @bdpod
    @bdpod 5 років тому +233

    12:45 Shout out to Chris' incisive wife whose powerful insight is essentially responsible for the futur existing

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 років тому +56

      She’s my rock

    • @alexhartan
      @alexhartan 5 років тому +13

      @@thefutur Also shout out to Jose Caballer for planting the seeds of teaching on youtube early on

  • @sananavid7744
    @sananavid7744 4 роки тому +6

    Graduate in 2011 and moved to US... mother of 4 beautiful girls.. turning point in my life... always ready to learn about self discovery and awareness and how to raise good kids... god always help me to find good stuff like the futur.... I'm trying to raise a good family but want to contribute to this world before leaving this world... thanks Chris do for your time, content, motivation and energy you put...

  • @Joe-Felix.
    @Joe-Felix. 5 років тому +104

    Thanks Chris! 💛 I love this concept and i would like to add as a psychologist, I judge from my own experience that traumas can be a key road to what you love and what the world needs. Looking only for the "joyful" moments is just one facet of ourselves - remembering the things you fear, you are angry or sad about are just as powerful and can become your ikigai.
    I have most fear of expressing aggression in front of a woman. I learned as a child/baby that my mother may abandons me if I get really mad, so as a survival instinct, i stopped being angry even if i was. Facing that fear now continiously by doing the HAKA (Maori) and teaching other man to use their aggressive feelings as a source of power for focus, goal-orientation to follow what they really want - feels huge. I recommend you guys, look also for things you make yourself feeling sad, angry or fearful. There could be a huge potential for what you love next to joyful moments in your childhood. 🚀

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 років тому +5

      Thank you 😊

    • @SteveFox369
      @SteveFox369 4 роки тому +1

      Great story man. Can u just give us some instructions where to look into that, because i can't specifically find it?

    • @Julescruz
      @Julescruz 4 роки тому +5

      @@SteveFox369 check out Simon Sinek's book Find your Why or Evan Carmichael's book Your One Word. I used them to find my mission. Now I started a podcast to help people face their fears. anchor.fm/julianopaula Good Luck!

    • @m89hu
      @m89hu 4 роки тому

      Pleasa make videos!

    • @nallelycoro
      @nallelycoro 4 роки тому

      Hi, I think you should make videos on UA-cam talking about your experience and which it’s your advice for them, I think you can really help people to become a better person😌

  • @bellookojie7118
    @bellookojie7118 4 роки тому +27

    I am the type that hardly get swayed. How I bumped into this video, I would call a mystery. I don't know who this guy is, but you're in my opinion, a gem.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому +7

      Welcome to the Futur

    • @aandm7772
      @aandm7772 3 роки тому

      @@thefutur this reply is everything

    • @teenytinytoons
      @teenytinytoons 3 роки тому

      Found him last night and I’m hooked.

  • @CrazyDriverSwed
    @CrazyDriverSwed Рік тому +1

    Maybe one of the most important videos on UA-cam. It's about you, your life, your dreams, your future, your health, your everything.

  • @lynnly2406
    @lynnly2406 4 роки тому +10

    I love that your Ikigai is exactly what you’re doing rn and that it truly benefits us so much

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 роки тому

      So procrastination is my ikigai ?

  • @BingeNews
    @BingeNews 4 роки тому +18

    How many years do i need to work to retire?
    -4 years.
    This man dropped the biggest flex on us all

  • @nooralaa803
    @nooralaa803 4 роки тому +23

    One of the best speeches and best way of couching that I've listened to so far. You've no idea how much I needed this, I'm a fresh graduate and I've been working in customer services for almost 3 years during school bc I needed money. This speech is turning everything over real soon. Thanks so much for the amazing content!

  • @LeeBrandona
    @LeeBrandona 2 роки тому +7

    I'm a school director here in Ecuador, from these day we will have 2 Ikigai sessions in school: one at the beggining and one at the end. If we don't get our students to find new "love" and "Good at" or "World Needs" in a whole schoolar year, we have to change something. THank you so much!

  • @moonsugarsnorter
    @moonsugarsnorter 4 роки тому +17

    People should be watching this video right now.
    If the world crises affected their careers really badly and have lost their jobs, the change right now is a great jump off point for a review. I love the part where we should put in "what the world needs right now". It brings in a new perspective in how we can fit in the crises.
    Thanks for this video.

  • @skywire444
    @skywire444 5 років тому +42

    Chris, this one is a classic. Should be sent to all creative design schools.

  • @raymondakalonu954
    @raymondakalonu954 4 роки тому +6

    I love how Chris always mentions his wife especially during his sessions, it shows how close they, how supportive she is and the impact she's had on him over the years... this is a great lesson in terms of selecting a partner.

  • @morasuarez1314
    @morasuarez1314 4 роки тому +6

    I year ago I emigrated from my country because a heavy crisis. I was a receantly graduated journalist and I worked at it, I loved it and I was so passionated about it. But as an immigrant everything changed. I had to work as a casher at a supermarket and I was tryn to survive with a very poor salary. Finally, I started at a new job as a Community Manager for a brand of jeans. I had short experience on it and I liked it, but I don't know if I want to dedicate to this forever. This video was so good to make me analize a lot of things and I'm going to apply this excersices to determine what I really want to do on this point of my new life. Thank you so much for share all this information!

  • @farukozel4238
    @farukozel4238 4 роки тому +17

    I wish i could've watched this inspirational video years ago. The time when i was dreaming to be in the United States, to built my dream job. I had a fire in my soul, i had a dream. Then i had to leave my country because of a dictator. I left my job, the company that i love. I left everything behind me. But someday, i realized that destiny took me here, the United States, to my dream world. It was tough, struggling time for me and my family for sure. As an immigrant, i forgot about my dreams already. But now, after 4 years, during another difficult time for all the world, i started to find my way again. I met Futur's videos like a miracle, i found what i exactly need to hear. Every video is making a blast in my mind. Can't stop thinking what was said in the videos all day. Thank you so much for this huge support, after all suffering years you made me feel alive again. You just pushed the button to turn on the engine. I can't thank enough!

    • @thereadingqueenp
      @thereadingqueenp 3 роки тому

      Lol i know that dictator. XD. Congrats on making through UK!

  • @na3rial
    @na3rial 4 роки тому +4

    This video actually made me realize exactly what I hate about my current design job, despite loving design. This was amazing

  • @user-yz4iy4kc6p
    @user-yz4iy4kc6p 5 років тому +6

    Earlier today, I literally searched for "passion" on Skillshare and I'm currently watching a video on Ikigai.
    Glad to see this from a entrepreneur/designer point of view.

  • @wwechampion
    @wwechampion 4 роки тому +21

    14:30 Loves Chris' outfit. Looks like that stylish uncle that teach you life skills you didn't know you wanted to learn.

  • @zYuL05
    @zYuL05 4 роки тому +1488

    Graduated 10 years ago, still don't know what to do..

  • @tayoo8789
    @tayoo8789 4 роки тому +40

    Traditional Education had become so redundant and stifles intellectual growth in student. It should be re-thought .

  • @Zaciah93
    @Zaciah93 3 роки тому +4

    I wish this concept of an "ikigai" was explained to me in grade school. Thank you

  • @tylerjohnson7825
    @tylerjohnson7825 5 років тому +33

    I wish I saw this when I was in college, or even high school. At least I'm seeing it now! Extremely insightful and motivating.

  • @vanillalatae575
    @vanillalatae575 3 роки тому +31

    I don't even know why i started crying at some points
    What i do know is that I'm very grateful to you
    Thank you.

  • @jkosinsk2
    @jkosinsk2 4 роки тому +3

    Chris, Grateful for mentoring me on my [ ATOMIC ] • [ SUPERPOWER ], 60 years in the making - The AKASHIC record + IKIGAI process leads to the INFINITE GAME of life.

  • @geeex5783
    @geeex5783 4 роки тому +3

    This generation is SO lucky to have UA-cam and presenters like this one. Awesome video!!
    Thanks Chris!!💖

  • @itstheonewithrio
    @itstheonewithrio 4 роки тому +7

    I am an educator myself and when he said most of the teachers don't know what they're talking about - True.
    A lot of them know a little bit about the subject - True.
    Very few of them know a lot about the subject - True.
    No one knows about everything - Also true.
    I sometimes ask myself these questions and Thankyou @TheFutur for putting this out.

  • @JerryOz9er
    @JerryOz9er 5 років тому +10

    I'm so glad I got to watch this, it's like 5.am in Nigeria and this is a great way to start my day

  • @threepwoot2327
    @threepwoot2327 5 років тому +5

    Chris is so sympathic, i could listen for hours. That "Ikigai" stuff could also be transfered to find the Job you want.. exchange the World and put in Company. Very helpful for app devs. You love, numbers, are good in algorithms,arrays,complex structures. you get paid for it, and there are companys that need exact such an employee.. well done thats your "job ikigai".

  • @zdeph
    @zdeph 4 роки тому +13

    Just finished 3years of study in Finance and Accounting this year and don't know what to do next so...I've been binging on the Futur's videos and podcasts.

    • @huytran9823
      @huytran9823 3 роки тому +1

      whatever you do, don't do public accounting and avoid the Big 4 kool-aid.

    • @zdeph
      @zdeph 3 роки тому

      @@huytran9823 how come? That comment was 4 months ago and I still feel the same regarding my path lol

  • @takethedamnphoto
    @takethedamnphoto 3 роки тому +6

    this hit me hard since i graduated with a mechanical engineering degree, but it also took me awhile. i ended up hating engineering and now left a little more poor and confused. confused to where i'll be heading through life. this video helped me a bit, but still get the eerie feeling, life won't be any easier for me.

  • @JasonQiuMusic
    @JasonQiuMusic 4 роки тому +1

    I love this. I know what I would like to do (be a musician) but have no idea how I can turn it into something financially viable, and that's why I've ended up working in the banking industry for 20 years...

  • @gustavodsgn
    @gustavodsgn 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you very much man!!! I'm an almost 40yrs old guy and this class just unlocked the gate I needed. Total respect. You earn a new fan. Cheers.

  • @nakhanu
    @nakhanu 5 років тому +12

    The second time I’m watching this.
    I’m currently almost done with school and this couldn’t come at a better time

  • @ichwann_23
    @ichwann_23 3 роки тому +4

    this gives me a lot easier understanding to ikigai, i know ikigai like a year or two ago but not with this level of understanding, thank you chris

  • @brendae7198
    @brendae7198 4 роки тому +1

    This video should be shown to College students before graduating...and for those who want to change JOB bec they are burnt out,this is also a great video for them...find your Ikigai.

  • @henryetornam1529
    @henryetornam1529 3 роки тому +1

    I don't know why anyone will unlike this video. This video has really changed a lot.

  • @LuisAlbertoBetancourth
    @LuisAlbertoBetancourth 5 років тому +7

    Chris is the type of mentor one needs and the Futur is the school we all wish we went to. Saving for some of your courses

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 років тому +2

      Don’t miss the Black Friday promotion

  • @sflikuhsflikuh
    @sflikuhsflikuh 3 роки тому +21

    Around the 22:00 mark, when Chris offers Kailee the idea of combining odds and ends, it suddenly struck a nerve in me. To write things down and examine our lives deeply seems like a basic step, but for some reason, caused me to feel highly emotional and vulnerable. I discovered this channel earlier in the week and am incredibly drawn towards something invisible here. I am 23058 out of 1b, thank you for all the great content!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you. Welcome to the Futur

  • @Thomethy
    @Thomethy 4 роки тому +12

    I'm glad I came across this. Recently turned 27 and been struggeling finding what I like doing for a long time now, spending a lot of energy on jobs I don't like only to end up being drained at the end of the day. Will definitely try this out and hope it helps. Thanks for the video!

    • @CeeTee469
      @CeeTee469 4 роки тому

      Hey. What have u chosen to do?

  • @hadihasnain7200
    @hadihasnain7200 4 роки тому +2

    dont know why i get full of tears in my eyes when i watch this type of videos cant control ........

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 роки тому

      Do you feel connected to some bigger idea?

  • @aishwaryagarje905
    @aishwaryagarje905 2 роки тому +1

    If this is how every teacher in world would teach, every student will have a good reason to live a successful life.
    Thanks Chris!! For everything you do.

  • @ZachSwena
    @ZachSwena 4 роки тому +9

    I think your biggest skill is communication and problem solving, which you are currently manifesting in the field of business.

  • @kimpumpkim2193
    @kimpumpkim2193 4 роки тому +37

    Great talk, thank you! Maybe instead of asking "What would be good for the world", one should ask "What is wrong with it", so you get another perspective to find your calling

  • @jackgoldman1
    @jackgoldman1 4 роки тому +20

    The way around this crisis is self employment. Being an employee is so difficult to please the boss. Hard to be self employed too.

  • @sergiobernardi1865
    @sergiobernardi1865 21 день тому +1

    Loving this!
    For all the Spanish audience, there is a nice book to read on this topic named "Ikigai". Very smooth read and it does extends the philosophical point on this video.

  • @stephieirwin
    @stephieirwin 6 місяців тому

    Literally changed careers because of this video. I was having a quarter life crisis, became a UX designer and now I've been a designer for 4 years. Wild.

  • @2times5
    @2times5 4 роки тому +21

    I kinda wish my parents would talk to me like this 21:11 - 22:10
    They don't but I'm grateful for them regardless.
    Thank you though - for saying that.

    • @abuqadr629
      @abuqadr629 3 роки тому +1

      Feel u

    • @fileundergood2955
      @fileundergood2955 3 роки тому +1

      One thing I learned from being a parent is that parents are not perfect. Likely they did the best they could in their circumstances.
      So important to be grateful! Beats the heck out of being resentful and bitter.

  • @kathygeffen256
    @kathygeffen256 5 років тому +32

    This is like Simon Sinek’s Find My Why, but so much more in how to do it. Thank you.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  5 років тому +2

      Thanks 🙏

    • @nealtse9125
      @nealtse9125 5 років тому +1

      @@thefutur yes! There are so many talks on what you should do, but few break it down into steps you can actually follow.

    • @aliciajohnson6571
      @aliciajohnson6571 5 років тому

      I liked the overall concept in that book, but it sounded too much like a way to snoop on your coworkers' personal business.

    • @CATDHD
      @CATDHD 4 роки тому

      Exactly correct

  • @alecsjasminebarangan2252
    @alecsjasminebarangan2252 4 роки тому +3

    Somebody shared this video to me at the most needed time. I am battling burnout and depression lately thinking that I don't have a purpose anymore..or why the heck am I still living because I don't even know what I really wanted in life. And I have been thinking of resigning from my work because I can feel that I don't belong there. That I know that my heart was longing for something that I really want and would make me happy, but I really didnt know what it was. The whole 46+ minutes of watching this was worth it. Even tho I was sobbing hard while watching the first few minutes because that hit a lot of different points in my life, and it was an eye opener. Hopefully after listing down all the things needed to be listed I will finally be able to find my Ikigai and can continue on living my life. A big thank you to you Sir Chris for making this. It was a big help indeed. More power to you and to The Futur 🙂

  • @elmonterrosa
    @elmonterrosa 2 роки тому +1

    Chris talks the way I wish people would talk to me. It's so encouraging and inspiring, firm yet kind. I've had so many people trash me and bring me down in my education and career. They didn't know how to bring out the best in people and it shows.

  • @photoluke1499
    @photoluke1499 3 роки тому +1

    Within the first 3 minutes this has changed my perspective on my creative pursuits

  • @ZarkazzTV
    @ZarkazzTV 4 роки тому +3

    This is the first time I literally wanna thank the UA-cam algorithm for recommending this to me! This is exactly what I was looking for!

  • @fiercekrypton
    @fiercekrypton 3 роки тому +5

    gotta do this with people with obscure interests that arent just art and design.

  • @lintangkusumandaru7534
    @lintangkusumandaru7534 4 роки тому +61

    When you're surrounded by everything except "what I'm good at"

  • @ashlesha1999
    @ashlesha1999 4 роки тому +2

    I am currently in the process of creating my own Creative Agency and have been facing some issues (lack of motivation) with my other co-founders. After watching this video I feel so relieved and motivated that I quickly dialed my partners up and told them that guys this is what we really need to do! we need to find our individual IKIGAI and retrospect if we can actually make this happen. Thankyou @ChrisDo and @TheFutur for your words of wisdom. This has certainly brought us back on our paths to achieving want we really want to.

  • @_Diggler
    @_Diggler 4 роки тому +2

    I knew what I wanted to do at 27. And was good at it. Fast forward, I’ve spent 25 years doing a vocation. Thankful I found this

  • @saiqakhan4148
    @saiqakhan4148 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you, my son just finished high school and plans to join university next year. He's still confused about career decisions and this is really very helpful .

  • @urban0443
    @urban0443 4 роки тому +25

    This video makes me miss school. Because i just realized that all i did before was really crappy. I am one of those student who is always late in terms of knowledge. Now it's been almost 4 years since i graduated in college and i still don't have a job because i couldn't figured out what i really wanna do in my life. By the way, the first part of this video actually teared me up and i don't know why. The things that i am actually most interested is what the world needs for me. I just don't have a guts to do it.

    • @fransantelli
      @fransantelli 4 роки тому +3

      what does the world need from you? go for it!

  • @germainemedia
    @germainemedia 4 роки тому +4

    This information is gold. I wish I heard this when I was younger too. I'd have wasted a lot less time in the wrong career for me.

  • @calmadventuresmeaningfulmu1534
    @calmadventuresmeaningfulmu1534 3 роки тому

    I think I've just found the best UA-cam channel , it's never too late I'm in my late 30s and it's so inspiring to change my life

  • @gabriellahanna5594
    @gabriellahanna5594 3 роки тому +1

    Chris thank you so much, I am speechless. You helped so many people to pursue their happy fulfilling life. gosh the world doesn't deserve you. Thank you so much for being who you are.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you Gabriella.

  • @realmdive
    @realmdive 5 років тому +45

    Just brilliant: I'm rouding the cape of 40 and in the past I chose all directions. Just now everything began coming together but I lacked the insight to make the jump. After your video something clicked and it's now crystal clear how to move forward. Thanks Chris for your vocation ;).

  • @NavNosaukums
    @NavNosaukums 4 роки тому +45

    When I was little I spent time dancing and singing in front of mirror for hours. Also spent time filming myself and making movies in Windows Movie Maker. I invented roles for myself and I played out all involved parts or said other character dialogs in my head also without camera. But I was super super super shy and anxious in general. I'm now 22 almost and anxiety is my biggest obstacle which I'm overcoming all the time. Actually in Kindergarten I said that I want to be a spy when I grow up. Because I wanted to fight like Zorro and Jackie Chan, and pretend to be someone else. Also I was too afraid to say that I actually want to be a singer. Now I'm working on my singing. But I always wanted to just try to be everything because everything is interesting.

    • @CeeTee469
      @CeeTee469 4 роки тому +3

      Follow ur passion

    • @GayahakJ
      @GayahakJ 4 роки тому +6

      Same for me but acting lol I'd record my self as a superhero's and recreating my favorite video games I would do this all day and then put it on Windows movie maker and edit it and I felt so happy but as I started growing older I felt shy and scared to actually pursue it and it didn't help that my family wanted/wants me to go the "safe" route and go to school and get a "real" job that makes good money.. :/ I just finished highschool and I'm going to really try to get into acting :)

    • @NavNosaukums
      @NavNosaukums 4 роки тому +4

      @@GayahakJ I hope everything works out for you! See you in Hollywood, hehe! ;)

    • @ltaylor7241
      @ltaylor7241 4 роки тому

      Same!!!

    • @jacsonevans1455
      @jacsonevans1455 3 роки тому

      You’re straight describing me, I’m 21 and I’m scared to push for it smh

  • @Plyde001
    @Plyde001 4 роки тому +4

    This is just one of the most important lessons that I've learned in my entire life. Thank you!

  • @isaahsadiq6876
    @isaahsadiq6876 Рік тому +2

    Hands down, the best video that I’ve watched on this topic! Good stuff!

  • @Dipnotherapy
    @Dipnotherapy 3 роки тому

    Watching this incredible explanation gave me goosebumps!
    I have been absolutely mesmerised by your powerful and inspirational teaching style.
    Thank you Chris, I’m afraid I’m going to have to stalk you everywhere you are on all socials! 🤣
    I found my IKIGAI in a surreal way. I was lost and stuck in a dark place when I lost both my parents suddenly to cancer. I’m an only child and grief came to find me and knocked me into a hole of despair!
    In that time, I found strength and resources and realised I could also help others with their grief and loss.
    I became a full time self employed hypnotherapist and I now help people live well with loss and turn grief into gratitude and pain into power.
    Thank you for sharing your IKIGAI with all of us Chris! 🙏🏽

  • @annekristiina7503
    @annekristiina7503 4 роки тому +40

    I wish someone would have told me this when I was young.

    • @someone-ou3ht
      @someone-ou3ht 4 роки тому +1

      How old are you
      You could redisign your working life in 3 to 5 Years

    • @fcf777
      @fcf777 4 роки тому +2

      I just retired at 56 and so find this very useful!

    • @annekristiina7503
      @annekristiina7503 4 роки тому

      @videoracle I never said I needed improvement. I just said I wish someone told me the technique when I was young. Maybe I would have done somethings differently. Don't assume people need your help every time. Your pretty pushy.

    • @jacsonevans1455
      @jacsonevans1455 3 роки тому

      @@annekristiina7503 why are you acting like that? She was being nice to you smh.

    • @jacsonevans1455
      @jacsonevans1455 3 роки тому

      @videoracle thanks, you weren’t talking to me but, I needed to hear it

  • @creativeartisans4176
    @creativeartisans4176 4 роки тому +4

    This was very helpful i am a veteran turn full blown civilian and this helped me tremendously in creating my brand. I love your videos.

  • @velekolepnii
    @velekolepnii 4 роки тому +14

    It looks like it was very painful for you when your brother said: "do you want to be a girl?" 19:38 And your mission is to help people who are lost and cannot find themselves. maybe I'm wrong, but it looks like this.

  • @dariostefanutto5780
    @dariostefanutto5780 2 роки тому +2

    A vocation is something you do that feels like your life mission rather than just a job. I would have put it at the intersection of "you love" and "you are good at"