The separate self is living on top of core wounds: There's something inherently wrong with me

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  • Опубліковано 10 гру 2024

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  • @unbrokenspine
    @unbrokenspine Рік тому +15

    Summer is coming, we will miss your hats.

  • @DivineLoveFlow
    @DivineLoveFlow Рік тому +3

    As this here collapsed quit recently all you say is what happens now. Body so so tired. Everything full on, the aces and hurts and contractions blasting through to its sweet release. Seeing how all the stress of the me-illusion has influenced the body suffer. Yet all pure, unconditional love dancing harmoniously as movements of the Stillness. Isness. Thank you for your beautiful mirror.

  • @ms94895
    @ms94895 Рік тому +3

    Yes... the exhaustion of losing a sense of self is real

  • @Marcel-Kueng
    @Marcel-Kueng Рік тому +7

    Thank you, Suzanne!

  • @bodhiveeren
    @bodhiveeren Рік тому +2

    To me you are one adorable "sad" Buddha, thank you for sharing with us, love you Suzanne

  • @Highttune
    @Highttune Рік тому +1

    I have just discover you yesterday October the 4. I am beyond greatful, to have find you. Thank you so much. For a few days now, I think what you are describing is what I am going through, specially the one live video you made 7 month ago ( You simply arent there, and everything is just happening...Fear of the unknow) Thank you 💛🙏I just check the date that you made that live and it was the 24 of february 2023

  • @chrissickler1977
    @chrissickler1977 Рік тому +14

    I just so much enjoy your voice and presence playing in the background. The words don’t even have to be listened to to resonate. You are so deeply cherished here. Love you Suzanne!!

  • @SlowDancer
    @SlowDancer Рік тому +3

    I wish I had the possibility of sitting beside you in silence. Wishing you the best.

  • @davidsisson1488
    @davidsisson1488 Рік тому +5

    Thank you Suzanne,I love the non person YOU ! 💜

  • @InnerWorkWithEvan
    @InnerWorkWithEvan Рік тому +4

    Love the honest, raw, non-pretentious sharing

  • @lunkerjunkie
    @lunkerjunkie Рік тому +7

    culture put it in me, it's not my fault,
    I can allow it to be a part of my experience now, it isn't who I am.

  • @jamil1418
    @jamil1418 Рік тому +5

    thank you once again for expressing so clearly what i've been feeling for quite some time now.
    greetings from france

  • @pamelaj1226
    @pamelaj1226 Рік тому +1

    Such a beautiful sharing today. Thank you.

  • @scandisamurai8899
    @scandisamurai8899 Рік тому +5

    Good morning my amazing spiritual friend 🙏 🙂 Thank you for brightening my day with your grounding wisdom 🙇‍♂️ ☯️

  • @Sookhi_
    @Sookhi_ Рік тому +7

    Such a sweetheart ❤️

  • @fhl60
    @fhl60 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful!! In Confucius teaching there's also pure love which is often translated as kindness that lies underneath all surface personality. 仁

  • @mehriravel5619
    @mehriravel5619 Рік тому +7

    So powerful. Touched some part in me that felt not good enough. Feeling of nobody saw me which was not true but it felt like that. Thank you Suzanne.❤

  • @Lola-Yo
    @Lola-Yo Рік тому +1

    The immense weariness ❤️ Actually this is really helpful!

  • @UC241
    @UC241 Рік тому +4

    Love this, nice and clear.

  • @marcello44
    @marcello44 Рік тому

    Resonated greatly with me ❤

  • @Tony_Ningam
    @Tony_Ningam Рік тому

    Love your videos. THANKS❤️
    I share as well about non-duality.
    All my love❤️

  • @SimonM282
    @SimonM282 Рік тому +1

    Suzanne - I love this. Being more and more ok with feeling uncomfortable, or feeling emotional pain. Surrender of resistance to what is, really.

  • @riznah
    @riznah Рік тому

    I found your UA-cam through Zdogg and I'm so glad I did. Thank you.

  • @macparker3549
    @macparker3549 Рік тому +11

    Hi, Suzanne,
    Halfway through this…
    This sharing right from the ongoing heart of your experience is so disarming and so helpful.
    So many things you say just ring true to what’s happening in my experience.
    When you talk about things only becoming clear in retrospect, somehow I know that’s true, even though I’m not exactly at the place of seeing things in retrospect. 🤨😎
    Often lately I can in a way feel how I’m asleep, feel how there’s a clarity or a shift nearby, like the sea breeze off an ocean I cannot yet see, but can somehow begin to sense.
    Of course “I” have no idea what will happen or not happen, but your honest, vulnerable “as it’s happening” descriptions are comforting and inspiring.
    Thank you so much…
    🙏💥💤🤬😂🫥⭕️

    • @macparker3549
      @macparker3549 Рік тому +8

      And then, in the second half…
      Your deep tenderness for these “core wounds” is so powerful.
      Such a lovely and vital feminine complement to the perhaps more masculine expressions of non-duality. Just beautiful to watch how this is all playing out through Suzanne…
      🙏💜🙏💜

    • @suzanne-chang
      @suzanne-chang  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Mac ♡ ♡ ♡ Sending lots of love

  • @PreciselyScRiBBleS
    @PreciselyScRiBBleS Рік тому +6

    This cut deep. My whole life I've been "aware" of things most ppl weren't, as I'm clairvoyant/claircognizant, and I've never been takin seriously in moments when I get "downloads" and start rambling about things I didn't know I knew, or didn't fully understand myself. It's always made me question my reality wonder what the purpose of the "gift" if nobody believes you which has driven me further into these kinds of things to find answers. As ppl are becoming more aware and the more I'm understanding things at least it's easier to explain things to ppl but man it is still lonely. Things are looking up tho, despite all the things happing in the 3D around me in my personal life, 1 can see the reasons in the energy/karma/truth. The whole universe is transforming on an energy level based on cause a affect.

    • @brushstroke3733
      @brushstroke3733 Рік тому +2

      Have you ever heard the Greek myth about Cassandra? Seems like you could relate to her story. 🙂

    • @PreciselyScRiBBleS
      @PreciselyScRiBBleS Рік тому +1

      @Brushstroke I've not actually...I'll look into it! I appreciate you

  • @receivinglovesubliminals
    @receivinglovesubliminals Рік тому +8

    Thanks a ton Suzanne. Sending love. Idk why, but I've been clearing some seriously challenging energies .Everything you're talking about seems like is happening inside of me as well.

  • @jeancarrenpao
    @jeancarrenpao Рік тому

    I love you Suzanne! I feel you. I totally feel you!

  • @zoyaskir
    @zoyaskir Рік тому

    Love this video so much listened to it six times already

  • @soundsgoodunplugged478
    @soundsgoodunplugged478 Рік тому +6

    Came out of a deep morning meditation then turned on my phone & this video popped right up. It was posted while in meditation & you answered exactly the questions I was asking during the meditation😯crazy! This is a potent moment for me of oneness in the abyss of this life experience; thank you Suzanne for your gift of clarity 🙏💚

  • @HolisticHealthWithHarry
    @HolisticHealthWithHarry 11 місяців тому

    LOVE U TY

  • @Anastasia-oy2zp
    @Anastasia-oy2zp Рік тому +1

    Whenever I would talk with my mom about feelings like feeling isolated in school she would always be downplaying it. The “don’t be sad cause so many people are suffering so much more than you” was literally indoctrinated into me by her and made me avoid my feelings which is why I ended up so fucked up emotionally. NOW that I’m awakening and all of the shame surrounding my feelings is released I feel a hell lot of anger for my parents which is very painful but so so necessary. Also she doesn’t really accept me as a trans woman which hurt me even more but one of things that was accepted after I let myself fully feel the pain was that it just doesn’t matter anyway.

    • @DamnitJerry11
      @DamnitJerry11 Рік тому

      Hi there! If you wouldn’t mind helping me understand it would be greatly appreciated. If you are awakening which means you are accepting what is in this moment, not the past or future, why the need to transition instead or remaining the way you presently are with surrender & equanimity? I’m just a cancer survivor who is learning to accept my post-mastectomy body, so I’m curious about the journey of others with altered physical bodies. Thank you in advance.

    • @winonafrog
      @winonafrog 5 місяців тому

      Hey same experience here, so much misunderstanding and mistreatment is still smoldering, at least its finally being vented out. Sending the best.

  • @demogadget
    @demogadget Рік тому

    thanks

  • @Coreyinthehouse
    @Coreyinthehouse Рік тому

    Have you made a video sharing your story of awakening? I would love to hear it

  • @yasminel-hakim4348
    @yasminel-hakim4348 Рік тому +3

    🙏🙏❤️

  • @irislind5313
    @irislind5313 Рік тому

    Nice

  • @johnjackman8113
    @johnjackman8113 Рік тому

    nice.

  • @stopwithitnowthx
    @stopwithitnowthx Рік тому

    Is their shame in education of oneself? If a child grabs a ember from the fure thhe pain teaches us not to pick up the ember. Then we learn how to enjoy the warmth of the radiant heat. I see the video hear your words and appreciate your pain and moreover your lessonns. I would love ❤️ to speak with you over the phone if you are available and willing, humbly.

  • @orndadi6404
    @orndadi6404 Рік тому

    I'm so ashamed of My Body and mind.

  • @anemandaane5183
    @anemandaane5183 Рік тому +2

    what do you mean pure love? why do you call it love? is it like the love you feel for another person? if it is different why call it the same name - can it be described another way?

  • @premganga8822
    @premganga8822 Рік тому

    🌷

  • @dansmith8174
    @dansmith8174 Рік тому +2

    At times I realize peoples words of expression; are expressions from a different perspective than my own. 🙃.. What makes a human different than any other life form?.. With humans; maybe the influence of a belief, limits the words of expression in such a manner that humans are unable to comprehend the perspective they exist within. :)..... Maybe the belief system is completely based upon deception?.... there is complexity in the way thoughts are generated, and few can grasp the concepts involved.
    😂..people hold on to idea's that give them a sense of security.. they want happiness, love, and things like bliss... People do not understand much of anything outside of a frame they were born into. Every word of expression learned is used to secure the frame. Does anyone want to live outside of that frame?... Do you want happiness, love, and bliss?... would those things exist outside of the frame?... Happiness, love, and Bliss are interesting concepts, I discuss these things with an opossum I found running amuck in the roadway... He's pretty intelligent upon these concepts

    • @hempfu
      @hempfu Рік тому +2

      humans can make themselves suffering.

    • @brushstroke3733
      @brushstroke3733 Рік тому +5

      Just imagine if you were a blood cell (or liver cell, or kidney cell, or lung cell, or skin cell, etc.) trying to understand your world and existence. What clue does that cell have about the entire organsim, and what perspectives and experiences that organsim has?
      I agree, we have no idea what is going on in the bigger picture. We are like that cell in the body of a much larger organism - an ecosystem, a planet, a solar system, a galaxy. All of those larger systems are alive in their own way and perhaps have their own experiences and perspectives that we could never imagine or comprehend.
      Human arrogance makes us think we know something. It is probably an evolved mechanism to keep us moving through life without shriveling up into a ball of confusion. We think we know things so that we can function, find food, build shelter, and ultimately mate and reproduce. Our brains imagine and create a reality from limited sensory information that doesn't necessarily reflect the truth "out there" but instead gives us a functional representation that allows our genes to pass themselves on.
      We are nothing but the vehicles our genes use to create copies of themselves and pass themselves on, at least in the dream of a physical reality that may only be non-physical awareness ultimately.

    • @dansmith8174
      @dansmith8174 Рік тому

      🙂... I've read that Hindu philosophy believes there is truth in all religions, but there is no religion that is completely true...
      🤔
      Hermetic philosophy claims their are 'only' half truths..
      The thought process of every living thing is dependent upon symbiotic associations... everything whether living or not, has influence upon the associations of symbiotic processes..
      🙂.. many things we can put our mental energy towards... If humans put their energy into non-productive effort.. it's possible that humans could be replaced by another organism. B.Becking hypothesized that all life exist everywhere. It is the environment that selects. Funny that people reason that every individual human has a purpose, and use this belief in effort/energy to earn a living, procure a lifestyle, or validate a personal belief. Often the effort/energy is counterproductive to their own health, yet they do not comprehend how they are being self-destructive in thought and action.

    • @hempfu
      @hempfu Рік тому

      @@brushstroke3733 humans have minds that can "think " and make the illusion of separation to feel " real " ; the body is a miniature galaxy that is understandable about how it functions just as the macrocosm is ...

    • @brushstroke3733
      @brushstroke3733 Рік тому

      @@hempfu We have models for how both systems work, but they are limited models. Only human arrogance and hubris makes us think we actually know what is going on. Our models are sufficient to make fairly accurate predictions, but that doesn't mean our models are perfect or even close to representing reality.
      Think of the Bohr electron model and how useful it is, yet totally unlike how electrons work in our now more sophisticated models. Think of how Mayan calenders could predict eclipses, positions of the planets, etc., all without havingnour current model of planets orbiting the sun.
      As these examples demonstrate, models can be useful and effective while still not representing anything close to the external reality. Everything we see is just a model or map. Do not mistake the map for the territory as so many humans do. See them as the maps they are. They can help us navigate, but they are only representations. A subway map, a topographical map, a temperature and pressure map, and a road map each has a function, yet none is a perfect one-to-one replica of the territory.
      Put a pin in that, cowboy. 🤠

  • @targetfootball7807
    @targetfootball7807 Рік тому

    ❤️

  • @WingZeroSymphonics
    @WingZeroSymphonics Рік тому

    Its boundless Love…

  • @farid0107ah
    @farid0107ah Рік тому +2

    First

  • @shawn6306
    @shawn6306 Рік тому +1

    I still disagree don't resonate with this message you say this isn't real that it feels real because i will always think this is all real it's not fake made up at all to me in my honest difference point of view but i do resonate some say that there is no separation and there is no good or bad and there is no right or wrong, should or shouldn't but the only thing i do think that is not ok is murdering actually harming that's the only thing i think that is not ok in my book but i do agree what you said it is what it is that it just there is nothing to be a shame of at all that there is nothing wrong with it i do agree that we are so perfect just the way we are that it is what it is yes that's true that we do feel like we are not good enough but there is apart of me that i think i do want to say that there is i do feel like there is nothing wrong with me i am good enough i'm loved and i'm saved but i disagree you said none of it is true because i do think some of it is true to me and some of that things i didn't resonate you said wasn't true to me in my point of view take is true but that's fine if you think none of it is true to you at all i respect that.

  • @DamnitJerry11
    @DamnitJerry11 Рік тому

    I intend this question respectfully for clarification, not argumentatively, but if there is no longer an egoic you, what is the point of healing yourself? Why bother telling it “you’re safe and loved?” Why would it need that affirmation? Your talks are confusing because they still dance between the serving the self and the freedom of no self. When does it end, if ever?

  • @patrickkozak9490
    @patrickkozak9490 Рік тому

    Pure "LOVE" ???
    Not to be naive, I wouldn't use that word unless you would care to clarify definition.
    In this world and society, the word "Love" is subjective.
    If you are experiencing "Joy", can you as the Bible calls us to do, is to be able to give reason to others for the Joy that is within us.

  • @ubuntuber1619
    @ubuntuber1619 Рік тому +9

    Suzanne such a beautiful Asian woman you are, i love you.❤