A Psychotherapeutic Technique That Can Address All Your Disagreements | Jordan Peterson at Cambridge
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- Опубліковано 31 бер 2022
- Full Q&A coming soon. From the address at Caius College - • Why Free Speech is the...
Dr. Peterson recently traveled to the UK for a series of lectures at the highly esteemed Universities of Oxford and Cambridge. This was the first of said lectures.
After some remarks on Cambridge’s beauty and rich history, Dr. Peterson examines the significance and history of clinical psychology. Drawing from the likes of Carl Rogers, Freud, Maslow, and Jung, this lecture investigates free speech, the value of structure, ways to approach mental illness, Jordan’s clinical experience, active listening, relationships, and the golden rule for conflict management.
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This man has dedicated his life to healing the pain and suffering of others. You get a sense of how much of a burden this is when he speaks. It's like he finds the thing that hurts you down to your soul, and then just floats it up in the air so it can be analyzed freely, and help the owner of that pain understand what's causing it. Why would anyone wish to silence someone like that with such a rare gift? Such a beautiful mind. Bless this man.
Only the Lord God Almighty heals.
Because there are those who would use your pain to their benefits and not yours. Jp knows this. Here knows the most powerful tool we are given is the experiences we go threw and how we communicate them. Expression of pain or exasperation of pain. Lifes only two real choices
Yes, that's what ALL clinical psychologist do.
@@phasespace4700 you've got such a willful and evil malevolence within you that I hope you can heal one day
@@phasespace4700 you're damaged goods
"If you're concerned with the oppressed, why in the world would you oppose free speech? It's the only thing the oppressed have."
This man is such a true gem, and a scholar.
That's what got my attention, too. Incredible line.
That should be on a T shirt.
Wow! Profound squared!
I have many friends who I've discovered recently are quite ignorant, but even worse, refuse to listen or see evidence which may disprove their militant stance on said topics.
It's so frustrating not being able to explain to friends why they are misinformed or wrong on subjects that matter.
People who don't communicate are either fearful of what they perceive as failure, too proud to accept they may be wrong, or just brainwashed to a point of Narcassism.
I dont want friends like this but feel a strong obligation to keep trying to help them see the light but then I am faced with the prospect of being labeled a pest. I hate knowing that people are misinformed and even fearful unnecessarily and making irrational choices simply coz I am failing to create a 2 way conversation I always insist they show me why they have their views but they insist they don't want to talk about it. There is the dilemma.
Do we just give up on these types of people? I tend to think it's dangerous to do that.
@@northernoracle7690 That should be on a billboard.
On the road from Moscow to Kyiv.
I could listen to this man every hour for the rest of my life without ever getting bored. He's a rare gift!!!
Absolutely Yes!
He speaks the universal language of love and truth --- such sweet music!
the older the wiser🧑🏼🦳🧙🏻♂️ but the less time with us😔 we need to listen and learn while he is still here preaching the truth
Loved how he tied it all back to the idea of Free Speech!! "Its all the oppressed have" Thank you Dr. Peterson yet again
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟭𝟲𝟭𝟵𝟴𝟯𝟲𝟭𝟵𝟬𝟳
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ;
I do as well!
The problem with the internet era is that we have so much speech from listening. If a person types into the void on twitter, you can't hear anyone listen back, even if people are. So people get louder and more extreme in their expressions to the point that they hyperbolize their speech into nonsense -- and then it is roundly mocked as if it is not worth listening to at all.
So we have thousands of people walking around aggrieved because they perceive that nobody is listening to them.
The solution? Free speech in living rooms and audiochats.
You have the same name as a great powerlifter
An excellent and well expressed insight!
Oh man this full circled me
This dude blows the roof off of any place he speaks. What he says is so profound that I'm sometimes moved to tears.
Jordon himself regularly flirts with teary eyes. That’s what makes him relatable to his audience. You can hear the quiver in his voice during this clip.
I met Dr. Peterson a few weeks ago at a lecture in Iowa on the topic of abandoning ideology. He is a genuine person who deeply cares about the people he speaks to and genuinely believes what he teaches. Personally, he has impressed deeply upon my heart to be a better, more genuine person by his example.
Exactly! I was just thinking (and not for the first time) how simultaneously thrilling yet terrifying it would be to attend one of his talks in person because he would invariably say something that would hit home and make me cry, (a pretty easy thing to do, as I'm a highly sensitive person with some mental and emotional issues to untangle from childhood) or he, himself, would get choked up and I (being also highly empathic) would cry. I would be a mess! So embarrassing!
@@mrs.antihero I feel you on that one. This clip brought me to tears. I'd be a mess if I was there. The gravity of what he's addressing is so very important. Seeing freedom of speech slip away from our grasp has been very hard for me lately.
@@christopherhitchens163 why though?
Sometimes the sentences he strings together are like art.
True👌
he forces you to read even to understand some words, learning^2
He had me weeping. Would that others who have a platform be as passionate of preserving our freedom of speech.
I thought it was just emotional me, when my tears started rolling...
He suffers to explain others suffering. It’s a curse & a blessing but he is the very rare person who carries so many crosses to bear for the greater good of society by digging deep and he also has a gift of being able to eloquently describe suffering..
He's an empath. He KNOWS others' suffering, he feels it. Sympathy is understanding and compassion for another. Empathy is feeling with another what they are feeling.
@elan Empathy is narcissistic self-projection. You cannot possibly ever know how someone else is feeling, ever.
@Zomboo, sounds to me like you're the one self projecting here.
@@smokingcrab2290 Projecting what?
@Smoking Crab I'm not an empathetic person. I'd never assume to know what another person is feeling unless it's something I have personally gone through.
“If pain is more real then anything else, what’s even more real than pain is whatever we have to fight off the pain.”
benzos?
@@Zeberai I know it was a meme, but he does actually mean "whatever positive and truthful actions you can take to fight the pain in a virtuous way". You can apply that to his perseverence in suffering through the withdraws of the benzos that were alleviating his autoimmune-caused pain. And that feeling of hope and redemption does feel more real than the pain you rose above, the pain starts to feel like a dream while the redemption is the more real experience.
Perfectly said
@@zxctgb Thanks, I know he was talking about speech, but I believe that assertion can be extrapolated from a lot of what he's said
It's love, mark my words
When I was in seminary, the exact principle was instilled in us, and required of us, with these words: You cannot respond to your opponent until you can rephrase their position in a way that they can heartily affirm.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟔𝟏98𝟑𝟔𝟏9𝟎𝟕
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ;...
Exactly!
I love this. Yes.
Love it. Jordan is on fire when he gets an emotional boost, speaking the truth from his gut. The end was the best; "and that's that."
Brilliant man, love this guy. May God continue to bless him and his family and listeners.
and bless you 🙏
Amen
Retired court reporter here. I listened to and wrote down verbatim what people said in various settings including Congressional hearings, city council meetings, hospital board meetings, depositions, and court trials during a career of nearly forty years. Jordan Peterson is the most brilliant speaker I’ve heard. Anyone who gets into a battle of wits with him is essentially unarmed.
Unless the topic turns to religion, his fatal flaw.
@@morbidmanmusic He is just as brilliant on religion and has turned his stunning intellect into an honest endeavor to understand God as well. Instead of arguing via the fallacy of assertion how about you present a cogent posit on why religion is his fatal flaw, preferably one that does not rehash lazy pseudo-intellectual dismissals.
@@JB-mg5lw 🙏😊 thank you for saying it!
How lightly people are using the fallacy of assertion?!?
agree...as one who values speaking, and speaking in front of crowds specifically, very highly, I am in awe of his seemingly off the cuff spoken word. Every other sentence is a gem and meme for this broken world.
@@JB-mg5lw i think edgelords have a big issue with religion
basically the idea is that nothing useful or enlightening may come of religious discussion
i appreciate the allegorical stories these fairytails written by humans are meant to represent, and jbp does a fine job at relaying those intented ideas to the audience
When we first got married, we ended up having a dragged out argument till no end over and over. When we finally got a counselor, all he did basically is to listen. Once we felt we got heard, we could hear each other. It saved our marriage. People can't hear until they feel heard.
Yeah but the Issue with psychopathy is you have to be a pretty good actor in front of them, that’s the point, you need to come across genuine in your “understanding” and make them feel like you are truly understanding them, even though you may not understand or want to lose the argument, this gives you a starting point to do either.
@@CommanderxShepard yes, both parties have to be willing and committed, so even if it's painful they're not giving up trying to hear and be heard.
This is so true. That’s why therapy can work so well. I’m glad to hear you respond this way.❤️
I agree that having something that unifies people may be an overaching idea, yet whose idea will be the unifying one?
Telling people what to believe may lead to more adversity.
Yet, listening to another without wanting or needing to convince them of anything, including religious dogma and then simply showing a real intetest in the other person is a bridge of unification through being truly present with the other, in order for NEW ideas and solutions to arrive into the meeting between them, something that may not have existed before the meeting. A real meeting of hearts. Which takes some preparation.
This way of meeting does not imply that anyone will be swayed to the other's opinion but that a Higher truth may become revealed through the meeting and the mutual desire to understand each other with openness of mind.
No longer your idea against my idea but the result of the meeting of ideas, desires or hopes or ideals.
This Higher ideal is not something that can be scripted, nor does it fall into categories like archetypes (if we have this that or the other archetype as a layer over the person we might miss seeing something about them that is not in that category) because it does not belong to the realm of preconceived ideas or concept about the perso , it belongs in the realm of possibility and surprise and hope, therefore a counsellor treads on a kind of holy ground, which is not religious but deeply spiritual, in the sense of the depth of valuing the meeting and what is happening in the present between the people meeting, clearing the lenses of preconceiveid categories, which might make the other feel confined to an archetypal character when in fact he or she may be sharing something deeply individual and intimate, the art of listening also includes the art of waiting for the Revelation about the other person's experience.
Archetypes are helpful in understanding undercurrents of human behaviour . Yet, In some cases too many other archetypal layering may block the way to this kind of revelation, because the very skill of perceiving another through those lenses of for example archetypes can be a hindrance to seeing the person in the deepest sense of what they are able to reveal about themselves and to read the person as though all the information about that person is in the person themselves.
Wonderful work of art & truth with deep seeded emotions-Jordan Peterson.
The salt of the Earth!
One of a kind. We need more like him.
Such a beautiful mind, a noble soul living a purposeful authentic life. An inspiration to us all. So much light. Thank-you Dr. Peterson
Beautiful comment and feedback. Totally agree..... what a beautiful mind and an inspiration.... and so authentic and humble too.
I tried this with a friend of mine a few months ago. We see each other about once a month and he loves to have serious discussions about current issues. However, we rarely came to any agreement and he constantly strawmanned me. I'd go to great lengths to explain the principles behind my arguments but would be baffled by how he would characterize my position later on. So I started asking him to restate my position to me & discovered that he is incapable of thinking logically & sees everything through a lens of emotion. Needless to say I avoid these discussions now.
its sad to realize the people we love are so lacking, sometimes in emotions, sometimes in logic, sometimes in empathy, sometimes in raw intelligence. It hurts deeply, because they have access to your trust and inner mind, and yet, by will or ignorance, they betray it so completely...
@@Eve.n.t_horizon You're looking at it wrong. Nobody's perfect, and if you're far more logically capable/intelligent/whatever metric matters to you, relative to your friends, that's a gift, treasure it and be thankful for it.
~I tried this with my mother ages ago & she ended up getting defensive & angry, insisting i was trying to trick her into looking foolish~
@@khimaros no, youre not listening to what op and me are talking about. please re read.
@@Eve.n.t_horizon yes but people aren’t perfect and we just forgive them. That’s all we can do and hope they will do the same for us.
I just adore JP. He’s so intelligent, thoughtful, passionate, empathetic, and reasonable. I wish he wasn’t misunderstood by so many but it is totally their loss. Free speech is the pillar of free society. You know that society has begun to crumble when people start protesting the thing that allows their lives to be as good as they are.
I love this comment. I feel so sad that he is maligned in the way that he is, he is very far from a misogynist, nazi, far right extremist, or any of the other things he's called. He seems to be a brilliant man, trying to answer questions about the world, and use his gifts to help people along the way. How can any of that be bad?
"Hitler just wanted to clean Germany's room"
-Jordan Peterson being "thoughtful"
@@xp8969 you just made an interesting lie.
Took a line out of context and then lie about what it means.
That comes from a lecture about how Hitler was even worse than is thought.
@@phasespace4700 😂 compared to most people, that is probably true.
But why try to lie? He is an expert on such ideologies. So why try to demean him falsely?
@@phasespace4700 such as?
I love being exposed to higher thinking. It opens my mind and I start thinking higher thoughts myself. It's refreshing to have my mind challenged with big concepts and big words! I'm going to share this with my wife.
Share it with everyone. Everyone likes the feel of a higher vibration. Love and truth are contagious!
He is genuinely sincere for others in his words and his emotions. Great teacher!
What makes JP so relevant is not only that he is a gem but the way he delivers his message with passion and humility makes it even more listenable
His sincerity is what makes it all real.
did y’all forget that actors exist ?? 💀
@@sybill123ful then he is a good actor
@@sybill123ful I would love some elaboration on that very vague statement.
Listenable? Ugh - try and find ONE sentence in this jumbled gargantuan verbosity 😑
I love how authentic he always appears. He is a true and honest speaker with a lot of wisdom to be shared in my opinion. Thank you Jordan !
Appears is kind of like saying "I feel like". I never even thought about that until now, maybe I've seen it used in propaganda, "It appears the president lied"... How often do we talk to people and they say "I feel bla bla bla"? I have friends who do it more than others, it's something I don't do anymore, well I damn sure try and teach my children not to also.
Anyhow sometimes I feel like a robot as I age, the emotion I struggle with would be anxiety born usually, that crap we CAN'T turn off no matter how hard we try the irony being I saw our bodies as pretty much 'machines', they need fuel and have exhaust systems LOL... HAHAHAHA I'm gonna smoke a bowl. No Segway just keeping it real, I respect Peterson more than I respect most people I've met in real life.... like you said, he's honest to the point that many people struggle with, denial proving itself.
JP should be taught in K-3, not teachers worried about teaching little children to be always thinking about sex...... weird weird weird ambition to have...
As a black father of 2 I'm SICK of the Democrat party, they push more division on us than anything. Media is like Goebells sometimes lately, "Speaking truth to power" keeps meaning "Lie to get votes". The premises always fail. Utopians, dreamers, lazy anarchists and wtf ever. Family is so damn important and who cares anymore besides fathers????
@@AcquiredCents spread awareness
Jordan Peterson is a very polished and practiced interlocutor, which pays off when he goes full-on orator.
@@AcquiredCents I've met Dr. Peterson, I can assure you that he is genuine and real. The thoughtfulness and kindness of his answers during a one on one q&a at a lecture I attended was absolutely mind blowing for a man who has such fame and notoriety.
@@AcquiredCents Fantastic observation. Well thought out. Thank you.
We all have a great desire to be heard…..and we can practice by consciously and honestly listen and showing others they are being heard. It’s an intimate experience.
Unfortunately most people won't do that in return, I've experienced it enough.
Just last year Ive discovered Dr. Jordan Peterson and I wish I discovered him a lot sooner because hes helping me so much with life in general!
and yet feminists dislike him. I didnt even know about him until about 6 years ago when he was coming to my country to give some talks. The media wrote some hoopla about how certain woke groups and feminists hated him. When I read that I thought to myself that this guy is probably awesome! ....and I was correct. He actually speaks common sense. Feminists don't like when people speak common sense as it highlights the nonsense that they spew forth on a daily basis.
I was raised in a religious cult, and everything Dr. Peterson says about twisting of words and suppression of dissent are fundamental techniques that cults use to spread and enforce their ideological principles, which are always weaponized as a tool for absolute control. It has been a tough psychological battle to find my way out of that forest, but Dr. Peterson's articulate mapping of these evil kinds of thinking has been tremendously helpful for liberating myself from my toxic upbringing. Thanks, Dr. Peterson.
Yes if only he did not prefer to attribute incompetence over malevolence to this new move of the powers to be, to seize control and abolish all Judeo Christian values, but I love him for speaking the truth in a way I have not heard anyone else do in depth on this topic.
Can you express your opinion of the techniques used in the cult you managed to get out of with the events taking place today by our institutions? Or should I be more specific with my question?
Thank you.
Was the cult Mormonism? Guess it doesn’t really matter what cult it is
Maybe I should be more specific. I don't know the type of cult you came from.
Though the most recognized cult leader of them all was the koolaid man.
Jim Jones used to preach out of his garage in Palo Alto CA. Feinstein, Pelosi, Jerry Brown, Jane Fonda, Harvey Milk and Jim Jones all hang in Palo Alto where Jim Jones lived. "I was constructed in a garage in Palo Alto" - Hillary Clinton
He was the founder of many of the lefts beliefs today. his video's are on youtube. He pushed for Equality, Social Justice, radical atheism and of course communism.
His ideas of social justice he taught that we should view everything including objects as a color based on skin. Equality was taught to be equal those that oppressed you need to compensate you for the actions of their great grandparents. The wording he used was masterful and deceiving.
Today I understand his line while drinking the koolaid and using the injections. he said, "This medicine will not work unless everyone takes it"
Does this sound familiar?
@@broman1536 Its called "The Way International," founded by Victor Paul Wierwille, and it claims to be a "biblical research ministry". They believe that the Bible contains a perfect, whole, indisputable truth that interprets itself, and that it existed in perfect form in the original texts. In reality, this means that they think they hold an absolute, indisputable truth, and that the special privilege of knowing this means they are superior to everyone else, which leads to hem believing that they can justify all kinds of abusive behavior due to their inflated sense of importance. TL;DR: they think ends justify the means because they are chosen to spread the true "Word of God" and they justify their evil acts with this delusion. There are also multiple splinter groups as "Dr Wierwille" died in 1985, and almost immediately afterwards the cult fractured due to power grabs in the ensuing vacuum.
You can hear the raw emotion in Peterson's voice as he speaks. This man has seen a LOT of pain, steeped himself in it while helping others through theirs!
@@phasespace4700 The hell are ya blabbing on about?
@@phasespace4700 Disagree
No
@@phasespace4700
Projectionist gonna project.
@@phasespace4700 - Aaah, the unmistakable sound of cynicism and jealousy!
You can tell just how emotional Jordan Peterson gets in his speech. It is remarkable to see a man care so deeply about fixing our greatest issues. I look up to him so much and hope that I can gain the courage to read his books. Truly an amazing man.
need courage to read a book? what?
The courage to read his books! Man, I get it! Get the audio books, please! I can't keep up with him on paper, at least Maps of Meaning. The first time through I could keep track of the last 5 or 10 minutes of what he was saying. I just let it go. The second time through I grasped a lot more. It's worth it, man. But do audio. It's way easier to grasp.
I've followed this man for many years and I see next level improvement for him. It's quite remarkable how he continually builds further upon what he already has built. His thoughts are lighter years ahead and there's not a single doubt in my mind people will remember him for eons to come. You never know how valuable someone is until they're gone so appreciate and talk about this man with all your heart!!
What a beautiful thing to say.
I so agree.
He is an amazing man..so many would benefit from listening to.
He is definetly one of the biggest, if not the biggest, names in Psychology today. Even progressives have to admit the men produced a great deal of academic pieces while in the University of Toronto.
I finally understand his need for defending free speech. He sees it as the means for healing of mental and emotional illness and the resolution for the conflict between good and evil. But as I think about it, he is not simply advocating for free speech but also for active listening, validating the speaker’s need to be heard and understanding his complaints.
Pointless rant.
Outstanding reflection in my opinion
i think goes even deeper than that and that is freedom of conscience. Jordan sees freedom of speech suppressed by the media and next is the suppression of freedom of conscience by the Pope and government in their unity. Instead to preach the Divine redemption brought by Lord Jesus, they will want suppressed the freedom of conscience same as in the dark ages. UK was the country that gave the Bible to the world by marvellous work of William Tyndale that burned him on the stake because translating the Bible to common language.
Yeah AND giving his listeners techniques on how to speak and listen more effectively.
I like your assessment.
I love that Peterson actually fully explained the technique within the first 43 seconds of this video. Opposite of clickbait, he gave the full answer first!
he said you summarize their argument. but then what? lol
Did he? You summarize the argument and then what? You both part ways happy? This video was anti-climatic.
You can’t rebut their argument until you have summarized their point. Seemed pretty clear to me.
“You don’t get to respond until you have recapitulated their viewpoint.” He says it 30 seconds in.
Yes, but some people might not appreciate the technique if they’ve never tried it in good faith. To “steel man” the other’s argument, you have to genuinely listen, and seriously consider their point of view, and then prove that you have done so. That goes a long way towards at least reaching a respectful disagreement, but might well allow you each to modify your position and find common ground.
I was taught exactly this technique in 1964 at school in Melbourne Australia. I seem to recall that it was recommended by some department of the United Nations. It was presented as the first level of agreement; the agreement as to what are the arguments on both sides. At age 14 it seemed to me to be common sense.
The fact that today's society is lacking of these concepts which used to be matters of common sense in the past, makes it even more crucial to impart.
wow, this is good
Just the greatest psychologist this country is lucky to have, probably one of the best psychologists this planet has ever had, then to be able to deliver the knowledge to people that need it in a way that is understandable and still accurate! He is changing the lives of so many with the power of his words.
The emotion in your voice near the end of this video is a fairly reliable gauge that you are genuine and passionate about what you discuss. Thank you for your humanity Dr Peterson.
I work in customer service as a call centre rep for a big company. Every day our clients call because something doesn't go their way and sometimes they start off pretty angry. It's my job to resolve the situation, offer them a solution and hopefully keep the client. Doing what Dr. Peterson describes in this segment was a serious game changer. It makes a huge deal of the clients' negative emotions go away almost instantly and makes the job of reaching a resolution a lot leasier. As a result, the clients are happy, I'm happy and my employer is happy too.
Customer service is a dreadful game at times, knowing that you're gonna have to converse with angry people on an uneven grounding (because you can't escalate the situation) during the day and that it's going to affect you. Your perspective is admirable and I'm impressed that you can make it work. Stay the course buddy!
@@Kubaaano thank you for your reply! You sound like you're speaking from hard earned experience. Tell me more.
I must say having this job for over four years has been a rocky ride at times and yes, it can get pretty dreadful. That's what makes me all the more grateful for having been able to reach a functioning modus operandi.
Att?
I hate when customer service does that.
@@shaec3405 it's a Europe based company 🙂
If only we could treat people with respect and kindness even if we don’t like them, we could have such a beautiful place.
Listening is a virtue, a solid one. We all need to practice it and practice it with the ones we love and not be so rushed to speak.
Jordan is my hero for so many respectable reasons. We need more people like him. ❤️
Makes me wonder then why shortly after this lecture was published he was so unkind and so disrespectful about the appearance of a total stranger he saw on a magazine cover.
“People will do anything, no matter how absurd, to avoid facing their own souls.” -Carl Jung
The way he stitches everything together in one take, and come out of it with a strong and powerful thesis is a piece of art.
I wish one day I could become as articulate as Jordan is when he is lecturing.
Students as well as teachers and scholars who seek to speak in a such an eloquent manner should take notes here. He’s a living case study.
I mean if this Jordan lived, let’s say, during those biblical times, I believe he would’ve made it into that Abrahamic book.
What a passionate orator.
Yes,
most certainly so!!!
🕊
“Make it into that Abrahamic Book” - that’s great 😁😁 you’re off to a good start- that was quite the quip!!! 👍🏼🤩👏
Right! Amen to that! LoL 😘
You become as articulate by reading
@Skalbird Genome that is possible and probable for sure.
Glad to see Dr. Peterson back in front of a class. It's what he does best.
Yeah, JP on fire! 😉
What? Bloviate?
Preach to the choir, you mean?
that and being addicted to benzos
Indeed. But such a shame half the class appear as they would rather be somwwhere elese, shifting around in their seats. Others would killl for the ooprtunity to sit and really listen to this guy talk. Thank goodness we are all virtually there! We love you, Dr P!
I could listen to this man every day for hours on end! 🤩
I adore this man, such clarity, such courage. So honourable. I think he had helped more people in this generation than any other. He is a gift, as we all are, but he has something that people need right now.
I thank him personally for your courage. We know your suffering. Pain is not the most real thing. Love is, and you Jordan are loved.
Amazing that in today's toxic culture, actually listening to understand someone's point of view/complaint/perspective and asking for clarification in your summarization or validation BEFORE simply arguing or talking or dismissing is considered a new discovery, or a new breakthrough that we should try in our communication.
If you think this is a problem with TODAYS toxic culture you are mistaken. The entire course of human history has been paved by people seeking and exerting power. Most human interaction is not about truth but about dominance. It just so happens that we live in a time where people are beginning to discover that the truth is the most powerful thing.
@@lol-nt1qw ... Hello, S.E. ...
Yeah, I don't recon that there's too many places like Earth, around 'n' abouts. Well, least not that iam awares of.
On one hand it's like a full on support system of simbiotic sentiant simiitry, which just got a bunch of them there ess words outa the way. And then it's like, top down, bottom up, highest order, preditor prey, with exploitative monopolizing power plays every which way one turns ...
Lol and here's the guy to dismiss your point without understanding it GO UNTERNUT
@@pereraddison932 j
This only works with REASONABLE people.
I love how clear he can articulate himself
Really not it’s kinda confusing what he is saying I literally lose focus cause of how incoherent he is
@@uncomfortabletruths7990 You've just watched a video regarding the importance of listening attentively and then demonstrated publicly how this message was completely lost on you. Congratulations, that's quite an achievement. Have you tried Tik Tok?
Gold rush - watch again with pauses for absorption. some times he speaks too rapidly and while a sentence or concept is being absorbed, one can miss the next sentence and confuse the concept. something we deaf people experience daily. we're attempting to collate what we thought we heard with what the person actually said while other sentences are flying at us.
@@uncomfortabletruths7990 context is very important when explaining a viewpoint/conclusion. He speaks academically over an outline almost with several points of context that build up to the point/conclusion hes trying to make. Also you only get a few minutes to speak, he has to go fast unfortunately.
@@uncomfortabletruths7990 is that because you need things simple?
This is my third attempt at saying how much I enjoyed this extracted video. It is hard to write about someone you find so admirable. I wish I had been lucky enough to be at this talk, and I'm grateful that videos make it possible for me to listen in. Surely Dr Peterson is one of the most gifted communicators of sometimes complex ideas in the English-speaking world? He doesn't just speak to "academics in ivory towers", he speaks to ordinary folk like me who don't have a degree but who think about life and seek meaning in it. That is a tremendous gift and I'm sure some of his fellow academics are quite jealous of how famous he has become for all the right and some of the wrong reasons (not that what he says is wrong - although it might be - just that it generates controversy amongst some people). I'm going to end here and listen to this again. I just find him so impressive.
Amen.
Love him.
Basically he’s describing a conversational strategy called reflection…makes the person feel heard and once that happens they will be MUCH more open to what you have to say. Learning these things have helped me in every type of relationship
Also validation
@@gretelhance are you saying it’s also called validation?
Which could be considered the fundamental basis of psychotherapy...active listening coupled with reflected paraphrase...
I've listened to this talk 3 times in a row, and each new time his words carve out a deeper meaning for me.
In fact I'm going to listen once again.
@@phasespace4700 for example…. that the person speaking to me or even at me is NOT stupid and NOT wrong though in the heat of the moment we tend to verbally or visually communicate such. That could happen especially IF the argument aims at my flawed actions or my flawed character. Especially IF I desperately would be inclined to dodge, or counterattack, or avoid or bring a straw men.
There are so many things we could learn from each other, even if that “other” is the person yelling at us from across the room. We may learn even more from wise men appearing between us through the ages….
When we encounter someone who digests life out of his inexplicable internal urge and brings back to the fore and to the wider public via The University of YT his profound angle and his well verbalized understanding as a psychotherapist-philosopher-ethicist-egalitarian we should simply stfu and listen….
And then we still have a full freedom to only absorb theories we are ready to comprehend and only act out actions we deem worthy of testing out and incorporating into our self-correcting mechanisms
Hope it makes sense 🙏😊
@@phasespace4700 That trolls like yourself, will always exist.
@@phasespace4700 it’s not “the attraction” as you call it, it is the truth resonance as people prefer to name it…
I cared to provide very specific, very applicable examples of what one can take out of the scholarly brain IF one is willing to suspend previous opinions, believes or modus operandi
the particular lesson one could take out of 10 min. lecture is how to truly listen, not to judge, not to disregard, not to diminish, not to call the other stupid or wrong… NOT to call the other fraud… purely listen…. listen and let it sink in… nothing more or less… listen and comprehend
There is a simplicity of ITTT if this then that. IF one finds value in others words THEN one can exercise their utility and applicability
You cared to provide slandering assertions calling Dr. Peterson a con artist, pathological liar, complete fraud. The person who has been a highly renowned Clinician, Profesor, spent over 40 years on scholarship, disciplined learning, informed discernment discussion and discrimination of falsehood from the truth many overlapping areas of scholarly disciplines: sociology, psychology, psychotherapy, religion, art, communication, writing
Is he an ABSOLUTE ORACLE??? I hope not! It’s not a totalitarian regime to listen and to prize one living-god-like-deity or system
Is he a great mind full of valuable and applicable knowledge… millions of people who find value and are willing to learn are the simplest testimony to it
Ps. I am absolutely sure that he is still a “normal” human: full of shit as we all are, full of mistakes, dark moments, doubts and mischiefs. That is what being a human truly means. Sharing our own knowledge is never a fraud.
@@phasespace4700 Just like a newspaper or visual media presents easy to spout opinions you can roll out to appear to be an intellectual so to do the cult of JP. It’s laziness. People want to appear to be brighter so to beat the bell curve of IQ they build knowledge in a lazy way. Much of our education system is based on memorisation rather than critical thinking, which doesn’t build intellectuals. Our social hierarchies are constructed around allegiances to figures of status, which JP is to his followers. Thinkers don’t follow, they critique, constructively with respect. It’s sad so many followers have formed an unthinking cult.
@@brandnewyorker Issac Newton was the showman of his time whilst Hooke was the thinker in his shadow. Edison won out on showmanship whilst the greater mind, Tesla, who lost out to inferior ideas. Morphing into a showman isn’t necessarily an indication of greatness.
"Free speech, it's identical with freedom of thought"
Well said. Regardless if you have the most horrible or the most beautiful thoughts and things to say, you should be allowed to get them out there, as bouncing ideas off others is the first step to sorting yourself out as a person. You can't evolve as an individual or even remotely consider yourself free without freedom of speech and thought. And that's merely the selfish way of looking at it. Ultimately, no one should be arrogant and selfish enough to believe it's okay for them to silence or socially destroy anyone over self-righteous delusions, or the pursuit of attention and acceptance from whichever they think "their side" is.
And this is why Trudeau is so dangerous. He's a compromised politician who it appears, takes his orders from authorities outside our border.
"Hitler just wanted to clean Germany's room"
-Jordan Peterson exercising his free speech
And I shortened it but that's a literal JP quote
@@xp8969 Yes, that is correct. So what? While that is logical and understandable from the German perspective at the time, it of course does not morally justify the systematic ethnic cleansing and other atrocities committed by the nazis. Nor does it mean that acknowledging their motives makes one share or subscribe to their views, like you're obviously insinuating.
@@xp8969 and the communists just wanted to instate a utopia of the proletariat.
Trust me, it makes sense to understand what ideological god the people had who
killed milions of people and tortured milions more into that utopia, collapsing the societies it touched, leaving them still reeling from the fallout 32 years later.
Dr Peterson blows my mind and gets me emotional at the same time and that might be thanks to his messages being true from both logical and emotional perspectives.
Until I heard this fluent speech, this discussion that without any resistance spilled continuously between several important topics,… I thought I was very smart.
The guy is true Master Jedi
👍🙏
I saw him in Kansas City, Missouri about a week ago. This is a very different lecture than what he gave to us, which is what he does. He never repeats lectures. It's a blessing to see how captivating he is in person, but also a wonder to see it's universal.
I'm fairly certain that the reason he doesn't repeat lectures is because his lectures aren't scripted. You are watching him actually think on his feet, live. Sure, he has a plan for what he wants to say, for his overall thesis, the important points he needs to make sure to cover to defend it, and the basic idea of how to get from claim A to claim B logically, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't plan it word for word. He just thinks it through as he goes.
@@BladeOfLight16 Yes, he says so in at least one speech. That he is not done but partly examines things he is struggling with understanding , with his audience in the hall.
@@phasespace4700 How you liking that bubble you're in?
Brilliant man , such a gift to humanity
I really like Jordan but I'm convinced the man is incapable of drawing a straight line.
@@carena8478 In what sense?
@@carena8478 Yeah I mean rulers are handy like that
@@carena8478 10 min on Steelmanning. A steel man argument (or steelmanning) is the opposite of a straw man argument. The idea is to help one's opponent to construct the strongest form of their argument. Hope this helps. Are you saying he is hard to follow or is inappropriacy convoluted?
@@carena8478 elaborate
It’s truly amazing how much relevance this man’s words have with me. It’s like he’s speaking directly to me about current issues. He’s an absolute genius.
This very notion you describe right here is why community faith is so important. If we can't trust the sum of morality from all of our ancestors before us, who despite our arrogance lived in very much the only way humans can - differing slightly, but telling the same stories over and over again - then we are lost. There is great wisdom in trusting and knowing that.
Dr. Peterson! You look very well sir! I’m so glad to see that you are back to teaching with all of your usual energy, enthusiasm and health seemingly. I’m sure you know, but you are loved!
I've been a passionate student of JBP for several years, I was blessed to hear him live in Charlotte recently, and I am so thrilled his health has returned and people all around the world can continue to benefit from distillation of his life's work.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟔𝟏98𝟑𝟔𝟏9𝟎𝟕
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.. ..
Jordan you are the most beautiful human! Your passion lights up the entire room. It’s amazing to watch all those young adults admiring your every word. Their eyes are all focused on you. 🥰 Thank you! ❤️✝️❤️
Shiny eyes too!
@@julieprior3126 He has the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen, their like authentic majestic wonderful galaxies where dreams can come true. That’s where I can see his lovingkindness for humanity. I have 5 brothers (2 older/ 3 younger) and 2 older sisters. We had the best dad on the planet. He was my best friend not just my dad. Anyway, it’s such a wonderful thing to witness Jordan help men of all ages. God broke the mold when he created Jordan that’s for sure. ✝️
@@Cinderella227 Actually, I meant the young adults' eyes shining in the audience as they are so absorbed and fascinated by his presentation. But I quite agree, Jordan has a wonderfully expressive face and eyes too. I can relate to your daughter / sister experience. I have older brothers and we all had a fabulous Dad. We all still miss him and we are in our 60s and 70s!
@@julieprior3126 Oh how funny. Hahaha 🤣 🤦🏻♀️ Of course you meant the youths. God bless ✝️
Careful Lucifer was the most beautiful lol but Jordan should really be happy for helping so many. Much love to Jordan! Would love to have a conversation with him sometime.
I'm constantly entertained by this man's ability to knit words together. It is as close to flawless as any human can get, in my opinion.
knitting words together? that's called speaking.
@@4kassis Very much so. It can even occur in written form.
@@SupremeOverkill indeed. most of us can do it!
Dr. Peterson, thank you for all you do, sincerely.
I hope you and yours are well
I was very concerned after Jordan's recent serious health issues that he would not be able to regain his amazingly effective communication skills. This lecture has shown me that my worry was misplaced - he is still as eloquent, persuasive, and wise as he always was. Thank you Dr. Peterson.
@@phasespace4700 Why do you come here just to shit on people, the lesson of properly understanding a point before arguing against it is valuable and more people should learn it, your suspiciously sourced quote doesn't add anything to the conversation
@@phasespace4700 triggered
Post modern cultural Marxism:
Post modern: "Of or relating to an intellectual stance often marked by eclecticism and irony and *tending to reject* the universal validity of such principles as *hierarchy, binary opposition, categorization,* and *stable identity."*
Cultural: pertaining to the context of culture or cultural exchange/system
Marxism: a political, social, & economic philosophy developed primarily by Karl Marx which, among other premises, ultimately assumes that *socialism* is inevitably the final stage of societal development, and therefore *superior to capitalism* on *merit that it is last.*
I think that phrase (not a word) might not be made up & sounds completely relevant to what he commonly discusses.
Sounds to me that some of his critics perceive his opponents being castrated by descriptive phrases because they're too lazy to unpack them & so would like to think they were merely made up.
I didn't watch the GQ interview@@psychcowboy1, so I have no commentary on whether his point is contradictory or not (I have observed elsewhere that he does a lot of his logic reasoning verbally out loud as he is evaluating it, which absolutely could manifest contradicts & interruptions in competitive dialogue by virtue of how that thought process works, but alas I am missing context on his likely usage of this in your reference).
Summarizing someone's argument isn't terribly hard, but summarizing it in a way that their main idea is effective & clear & without a spin or misinterpretation from one's own inherent biases is quite difficult & was the core of his point, which incidentally didn't seem to make it into your point.
Because it's so hard to dissociate from our own preconceptions enough to objectively evaluate another's, a dynamic social structure with a wide diversity of contradicting values (i.e. significant difference in opinions) loses cohesion very quickly unless those preconceptions share common ground, the closer to one another the better. Or if the opinion with the most divergence/friction is held by an individual emotionally mature enough to let it go (or is otherwise oppressively censored enough to not disruptively manifest it), & validate the common ground shared by everyone else for social peace, this is the exception he alludes to a lot. It doesn't always have to come down to that, but it seems most people tend to skip the validation step, as I've done here.
I love how the title of the video is subterfuge (a call to action and potential parlor trick on how to win arguments) but the content leads us to the fundamental mechanics of free speech. Bravo.
Listen. Respond.
Not just the mechanics but the critical importance of it and the link between it and human rights and civilization.
Also, maybe April fool's day had something to do with the title 😂😂
exactly the right sort of clickbait...
I hardly ever remember to "Like" a video even when I like it, but this is life changing brilliance in 10 minutes. A thumbs up 👍 doesn't adequately express my appreciation.
God bless this man, I really love his energy.
I love the fact that I can understand everything he is saying to the point I end up arriving to the conclusion just before he states them but then I’m blown away at how he ends up stating them. Words can destroy but man can they bring forth life!
That’s the mark of a good teacher they bring u to the conclusion on your own
Logos
He doesn’t even know what he’s saying half the time. He’s a try hard
@@Touchit344 get back under your bridge. Sad.
I am unable to understand it properly.. try hard but failed. Could u plz help me
Thanks for all your work over the years Dr Peterson
Every time this man speak he helps me think better and be better.
I love Jordan Peterson's passion. He has helped me find hope and trust in myself again to keep trying! All of his naysayers be damned.
I love the fact that his family is there supporting him sitting at the front. Really great technique as well, could be useful in the future...
I wish I could just take every class he teaches. Dont care about a degree, I just love listening to him. So smart and such a good lecturer. It is very difficult to be someone that people want to listen to
edit: I know his lectures are online; I guess I was meaning I wish I could have listened to him lecture in college
Welcome to UA-cam/internet. Luckily you can do just that without leaving your couch
When I studied psychology at degree level we had to be CRB checked, a UK criminal record check. It’s frightening that material that in a deranged or sociopathic mind could be used to mentally abuse is so widely available.
Watch all his University Lectures.
@@brynleytalbot778 that's an interesting view/point. Do you mean sociopaths? It's true. On the other hand, think of how many families you can help as well. I think there are alot more people out there using info for good. I guess this is really a fundamental discussion behind any tool- linguistic, intellectual, physical...- the question is do we deprive many of improving for the concern of how the few will misuse it? Tbh, I suspect, that a sociopathic psychopath that is out to damage and harm others is likely to find out somehow. This is not to say your concern is not valid- definitely something to think about. If nothing else, I think it told me something about me and helped me become aware of my view on alot of issues I'm uncertain about. 🙏🏼
@@grainofsand4176
With all due respect, but I completely disagree with you!
He’s taking the same risk as someone selling hammers or chainsaws. These are tools and can be used either way, and this lectures are just tools that are available to the public and I guess in the US sociopaths/psychopaths even have access to guns EASILY, but it’s still debatable to put constraints as this is the second right amendment. And you’re questioning the legitimacy of someone using the FIRST right amendment!!
I’m not American but I used this for the sake of the arguments.
I think he’s doing way more good than harm by putting these things out there and he’s promoting the ways to understand yourself not necessarily others!
JP is a tremendous blessing. If only I could spend time around people like him to grow & see the world differently. Incredible articulation & understanding, JP truly has been blessed with a gift & he has honed & perfected that gift delivering one masterpiece of a lecture after another.
So genius we are blessed for living during Jordan Peterson epoch
Eternally grateful that this man is sharing his thoughts with the world via UA-cam and that this wealth of information is stored on this platform. Thank You
Shhhh.....the critics are trying to find ways to make his speeches illegal...too many of us are getting wise thanks to him
The way JBP shows emotions while speaking about people in pain/suffering, it shows how much he really cares, he is not just speaking, but he feels it, he sympathizes.
He is the most humane speaker I have ever listened to.
Yes agree, but it's a lot deeper than sympathy...it's compassion because he also feels the pain and is trying to reduce it in others.
@@JamchesterBoozle agreeable
My wife and I went through a couple of years therapy prior to marriage (2nd time around for both of us) - this technique was promoted and it helped turn a corner between us when it came to points of contention. It's remarkably challenging to listen and relay with meaningful intent and clarity. A learned skill.
One of the great thinkers of our time, and of all time.
No. Sorry. You can't begin to compare him with Kant, of Nietzsche, or Spinoza. If you listen to Joe Rogans interview with him, you will hear him utter complete nonsense for about 90% of the podcast. Just rambling, really. His power however, is to simply have very basic common sense, and be vocal about it. This is how far we've sunk: most public figures don't have that anymore.
On a personal note---During one argument I was amazed at how easily my anger subsided when the opposing person started to give me compliments. It disarmed me completely and i was able to cool down and find common ground to end the quarrel. It was interesting. try it sometime.
Agreed. I've noticed in real time a completely change of attitude within myself as I realised the other person was actually on my side :) And I felt it immediately necessary to show the same.
As confrontation turns on a sixpence, to friendship, those moments are quite stunning.
I too am vulnerable to flattery....
Simple basic tenets of relational maturity
This works like a charm with my ex. He's so gullible. 😂
Can confirm this works fantastically. It’s very hard to attack somebody who’s being nice to you.
We could all be communicating like this with each other for deep understanding
Not really, because most people are stupid.
You are pure gold, you are the saviour of so many people out there, thanks for existing. I admire you.
It is so great to see Jordan back in form, it really saddened me to see how hard his illness had hit him.
His sharpness and passion when unpacking the human existence is uplifting.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟭𝟲𝟭𝟵𝟴𝟯𝟲𝟭𝟵𝟬𝟳
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ....
What illness?
Those who feel compelled to hate this man could use his teachings most.
The problem would be that they probably don't understand half of his concepts and are not willing to learn them.
Then they won't have the power only a brutal dictatorship can offer.
The silver lining is most of them would find themselves crushed under one instead of ruling over one.
That's _why_ they hate him! He breaks them mid-run from their painful truths.
I think most people hating on him have taken whatever he said out of context.
@@phasespace4700 First, we'd have to know where you got that information.
Dr. Peterson has been teaching his students this technique since way back as a university professor -- I remember it from the Personality Lecture Series, in the Phenomenology section. I'm really impressed by how he spun it into a preface for reiterating his "most controversial" public standpoint.
This ensures that if you understand the technique itself as he explained it, which he tried his best to make sure that we all do, you really have to apply it before criticising his advocacy for free speech (in principle, before criticising anything that anyone says). If you CHOOSE NOT TO, you clearly expose yourself to the sheer ignorance of your counter argument, and likely to the ignorance of your perspective in other domains as well. If you DO CHOOSE to apply it, however, you either cannot provide a valid counter argument... or you have to come up with a seriously strong alternative. By strong, I mean practical and sustainable for multiple generations, at the very least. What a way to shut naysayers up without calling them naysayers.
On the flip side, if you aren't even aware of the drama that arose from this topic, you can just simply apply it in your life to improve your communication with people in general. How can any sane person hate this man?
There is only one method by which a sane person can hate him: utter ignorance.
@@ronsnow402 Before you digress, do you have a problem with free speech being a mandatory ethos for humanity?
@@boomaaee Basically. 😂 Minus the tendency of distortion.
@@boomaaee
"So what your saying is ..." has a context.
When it's used as a statement to bring in assumptions that haven't been said, it's toxic and bad faith.
When it's used as an honest question and limits itself to the topic already under discussion, it may be good faith, although there are probably better ways of phrasing it.
Possibly: "I've been trying to listen carefully, and it sounds to me like you're saying X. Is that accurate?"
The initial version often sounds like people putting a rotten red herring in your mouth. The latter version makes it clearer, and is an essential part of communicating.
@@seancooper5140 Spot on. There's a running joke on that opener from one of Dr. Peterson's interviews.
This is an amazing speaking experience on communication! His articulation is superb and helps depict what needs to happen in proper ways. This avoids pitfalls into conflict and exacerbation of issues in relationships!! Most excellent!!🙏🏻❤️🥰
He has seen a lot of pain up close from his patients you have to get in close to it to do what he does. His wisdom and the logic behind it has become so strong it’s transcendent.
Jordan is taking this far higher than just to end an argument. He’s leading us up to the highest divine truths that REFLECTIVE LISTENING, truly letting the other person to speak freely and then to let them to know we grasp what they’re saying by reflecting it back to them, that this can help bring about real peace and harmony. Thank you for sharing this from Jordan and God bless you.
Yeah sure, until you try it with religious radicalists.
Man, not gonna lie, i have discovered this person last week and he is phenomenal. Surprisingly, when i played this video , he just described the base of my dealing to the other people. I thought there is no other way to discuss a problem. I know people will say that i lied, but i don't hassle to prove them wrong.
Or is it just another psychological parlour trick to increase your self image of superiority over your opponent?
@@manbirsinghsidhu567 well you're in for a real treat- there is so much that he has put out for the world to learn from. I've barely dipped into it.
@@grainofsand4176 Yeah man i am amazed to see the world through new lens
This was a masterpiece. Thank you Dr. Peterson.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟔𝟏98𝟑𝟔𝟏9𝟎𝟕
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ. .
Agree.
The entire commentary about the family structure is brilliantly stated.
Recapitulation of what someone says to you is such a great tool for many reasons.
One of the greatest minds in history. Thank you Mr. Peterson. Your clinical approach while incorporating the philosophical, humanities, and practicalities of life is something truly special and unique.
WOW! Jordan has a way with words so eloquently spoken and clear , not just actual sense but can speak through the barriers that most people have.
Simple, in-depth brilliance is what this man seems to exude, always.
Be blessed all those that listen to this Man, be twice blessed those that don't. Beyond Honourable every speech he makes. Go tell the World
Can't wait to meet Jordan in person next week!! He's positively impacted my life in so many ways 🙏🏼😌
Sooooo nice to see you working your magic Dr Peterson.
Thank you for dedicating your time to make Earth a better place to live.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟔𝟏98𝟑𝟔𝟏9𝟎𝟕
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ
Exactly, I love how you are open with how deeply you feel for humanity.
The emotionally captivated look the younger woman continually kept at Dr. Peterson just greatly exemplified how his articulate brilliance transmits itself onto people, willing to give their full attention to his astonishing disquisitions.
All in a way I’ve never witnessed this in my entire life, just absolutely astounding- I can barely believe it neither apprehend the full scale of impact it has on people’s intellectualities.
Our world's people needs to hear this message now more than ever! Thank you again Jordan for another amazing video. You are a gift to humanity. Love you brother!💗✌
Something I've recently learnt is to go into an argument with the aim of being proven wrong. Even if just one side adopts this technique, the truth of the core matter will most likely be revealed to both sides.
Hi, that is something that I did for a while too. However, I found that on occasion this mindset would lead me to fold on my own position prematurely before it was fully and properly debunked by the second party. So instead of aiming to be proven wrong, I try to follow JP’s rule about assuming whoever I am talking to knows something that I don’t. The reason this works better for me is that it allows me to defend my stance properly by assuming that whoever I am talking to is intelligent enough to have formulated good reasons for having a different opinion than me and that they are worth taking seriously. However, I don’t start a conversation on the back-foot by already thinking my opinion is something that needs to be debunked. The end goal is the same, refining arguments until the core truth of the matter is articulated, but the process is different. It’s only a slight difference in mindset but it made a big difference to me.
I HIGHLY recommend checking out a book called "Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know" - by Adam Grant. Speaks to this and changed the way I think about any debate or discussion.
Clever. Done right, you come out perceived of having humility where what you actually did was guided the other person into revealing the hidden meaning, context or driving force of their thought
@@GreyBlackWolf yep can confirm it works irl
i also do this ocasionaly, but personaly i relate far more to Jordan's comment about cynics. i lay out my sad arguments in dear hope that someone proves me wrong :/ alas on those situations it hasnt yet come to be
He is amazing. When I get into a disagreement, I will use this technique. MR. PETERSON, you're absolutely amazing 👏
So much heart and thought put into everything you say . Thank you for being who you are and helping others the way you do 🙏
Wow, what a powerful speech, Jordan really has a passion for this and it’s awesome that there at least one man out there that cares about things. What a legend.
i feel so lucky ro be alive at this time just to be able to learn and listen from a person like dr.peterson!!
It is so easy to see WHY he has MILLIONS of views in his videos, HE JUST GETS IT! How lucky I am to live at the same time as this great man!
When Jordan finishes his arguments with ' and that's that!!!' It always hits me to the core.
Sometimes, "so there's that"
To enable listeners to switch from intellectually overwhelmed to clap, it's over, the firehose of well organized wisdom has stopped.