Marriage in the ASL Community

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  • @JeffreyMaher-p8n
    @JeffreyMaher-p8n 2 місяці тому

    I love that all you guys are so supportive and caring about each other that is team of couples ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @williamgraves535
    @williamgraves535 5 років тому +2

    asl marriage in the community
    in some marvellous communication , they take times( flexibly ) and may be more built up like a strong, ultimately loving and more understandable relationships.

  • @aarondelgado3421
    @aarondelgado3421 8 років тому +3

    This is an excellent video, even though it just focused on marriages.
    Communication is vital to the growth of any relationship on any level. If a hearing individual is dating a deaf individual, it is imperative that hearing individual understands how the deaf individual prefers to communicate, be it orally or signing.
    However, despite what you think, I would say the hearing status does matter in a relationship, especially in the beginning stages because the hearing person has to understand his/her significant other is deaf or hard-of-hearing and consider the communication/cultural issues that are present. This is more of an issue for hearing people who have absolutely no idea about d/Deaf culture and/or sign language and is starting to date someone who is d/Deaf.

    • @StrongDeafVoice
      @StrongDeafVoice  8 років тому

      +Aaron Delgado You are actually right on this part. This was actually specifically made to show that Deaf/Hearing marriages are possible. I see rarely anything on the internet that is positive about Deaf/Hearing marriages. I wanted a positive point of view to begin with. Despite of the fact that 80% of Deaf/Hearing marriage go up in divorce. I want people to know that it's still possible as long the hearing person work hard to learn signs. Like the third couple in the video said that you have to acknowledge the differences and make it work. There will be challenges along the way but you can overcome it. I feel like people give up easily on marriages. I want to give them something to look forward to.

    • @aarondelgado3421
      @aarondelgado3421 8 років тому

      Yeah, I completely understand your endeavor in making this video. Yes, deaf/hearing relationships or marriages are possible only if both people are willing to work with the differences that are present and take the best course of action to be able to be equipped to deal with those differences. This is not only for deaf/hearing relationships, but it goes for all relationships of any kind.
      Unfortunately, people do give up so easily on marriage. I am irked every time I read an article that says a couple is getting divorced on the grounds of irreconcilable differences. Differences in actuality are NOT irreconcilable as it just requires effective communication from each individual in the relationship to decide how to best approach those differences and work around them.

    • @StrongDeafVoice
      @StrongDeafVoice  8 років тому

      +Aaron Delgado Amen to that.

  • @williamgraves535
    @williamgraves535 5 років тому

    remember ! communication is a vital of grow relationship- no
    budgets are very difficult- complex ( issues)
    emotional marriage is able to hurt a less or worse but a pain .
    how the relationship , hearing and deaf are accept to support love?
    it is not easy ?
    whichever the marriage and relationship are different or same?
    a marriage shows a love and emotion if a consent of abusive feeling.
    a relationship shows a complex of love and reasonable options( opinion) if emotion issues.
    over year or a moth they grow the emotion and make a conflict of interest or not, either.

  • @williamgraves535
    @williamgraves535 5 років тому

    ask marriage in community
    I love A.S.L marriage communication is best key they spread quality of years . Negatives and Positively are they agreed. excellent idea or concept

    • @williamgraves535
      @williamgraves535 5 років тому

      a. s. l mean American sign language mean people are deaf and loss of hearing they use good images like a beautiful dream .
      hearing and deaf couples are starting to become a best friends like a real relationships.
      first they feel trusting the feeling like an sex activity - an opening communication. they decide to purpose to approve the pledge of marriages - trying to make good lovable ( matching) family.
      touching mean to tap the shoulder ( wake up , sometimes nice) do not slap the shoulder ( no friend) .
      where is a consent of love? deaf men feel or lost control of sex .
      first deaf or hearing women don't mess deaf men up.
      why the loss of hearing or deaf husband make up and decide to divorce her?
      key
      do - do not advangte of man for reason money mean paying rent, save some money ( food).
      do not -
      hearing or deaf woman approach and noisy what a man make money. she tries she likes to be bossy and harm him. he become angry it is wrong. happen? the man does not love her anymore.
      a communcation is what man interest in woman 's saying if the warning she turns him to upset or harm him do not hurt him
      how? the man may confuse and feel betray because of woman like a boss. do not use him.
      if he lies and uses her for money. he leaves her. he doesn't love her.
      past - bad memory people uses him a lot .
      American sign language is the concept they learn gestures.
      writing is poor( bad) or very good hearing people can not understand.
      sorry!

    • @williamgraves535
      @williamgraves535 5 років тому

      thank you for reading this . the communcation works like a hope , if the communcation doesn't work don't use sign = bossy , bull and ego.
      the love shows means agreement ( connect or reality).

    • @williamgraves535
      @williamgraves535 5 років тому

      good concept - American sign language the man have feeling.
      key is to Happy or joyous the man have mind and feeling what woman give him to obtain carefully. thanks!

  • @williamgraves535
    @williamgraves535 3 роки тому

    Hearing and deaf are best relationship , best love? Yes or no
    Communcation is helpful whoever loves American sign languages . impressively?

  • @williamgraves535
    @williamgraves535 5 років тому

    example I am deaf... whoever approaches me .. how do I get an attention?
    one number
    gentle tapping on shoulder( do not spank my back).
    two number give me an eye to eye ( I feel comfort).
    three number
    use note , write it down ( I read it)
    if America sign language she signs,,, I am impress... ( do not trick me).
    ask me to check my plan ( schedules I have plan if happen ).
    easy I do not remember ... myself figure I alway have plans..
    four number whoever, she answers me to choose ( myself).
    I know whoever woman does not communicate with me no good!
    communications I m interesting to look out whoever speaks ...
    how?? I first check my schedules ( solved). I don't like whoever she is bossy. I elevalue.. whoever she seems nice to me. whoever she saves my money.. , if she understands I plan to support child. she understands and respects me very noblely. ➡ I m broke I may leave her. I don't love her simply.
    one thing I can't remember how a woman who says.. ( I ignore).

  • @user-jt5vm3mi1w
    @user-jt5vm3mi1w 4 місяці тому

    Change smoke alarm battery

  • @tamipatterson26
    @tamipatterson26 4 місяці тому

    Don't see why it should.

  • @williamgraves535
    @williamgraves535 5 років тому

    how do they meet a friend become a dating ? interesting what they meet and talk- work out a communication
    - learning how to write a short or long sentence
    simple problem writing or poorly writing
    an example the Apple is red where is an vowel ? an , a and the
    an apple is red , correct sentence instead red apple is a short .
    a bland word deaf person can not write it instead America sign language is a creative or idea mean a complex of image hearing person tries to catch idea or hearing person may misinterpret the word.
    a marriage is different or same ?
    the mind they grow together -
    boring ( the same thing or emotion distress stress) a month or over year
    how year the marriage solve ? different the mind they grow together and rid of past ( bad and good memory)
    a relationship is not so easily
    why? remember ! it is a vital of communcation
    budgets are stress if suspecting love or cheating - happen to angry , confuse and mistrust.
    home apartment , how they live comfortably ?
    go work and buy some grocery
    stress
    forget
    frustration
    less or high prices your money ( agreement and disagreement)- argue or how to solve problem
    communication
    stubborn
    unthinkable ( if consent of abuse)