Best Vipassana Meditation Centre in India | Himachal Centre Complete Tour [ 2021] !!

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  • Опубліковано 29 сер 2021
  • Song Used in the Video 👉 • Na kaam na Krodh Song ...
    Best Vipasana Centre in India in 2021.
    Himachal Pradesh Vipasana Centre complete guide tour. In this video, i will be showing you Dhamma Sikhara Vipassana Himachal Meditation Centre from inside.
    Questions answered : how is the food?
    how is the weather?
    how is the location? etc.
    my experience of vipasana centre himachal. How to reach himachal vipasana centre.
    Dhamma Sikhara Vipassana Himachal Meditation Centre is located in a very silent location perfect for vipasana.
    #DhammaSikhara
    #vipasana
    #vipasanameditation
    #vipasanameditation
    best Vipasana Centre in india.
    registration process of vipasana course is online.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 190

  • @AN-jb7dc
    @AN-jb7dc 2 роки тому +15

    Being Canadian, this is where I did my First Vipassana 12 years ago (October month)…..and I must say this place is completely changed!!

  • @sanchaitabiswas3898
    @sanchaitabiswas3898 Рік тому +3

    Soo peaceful❤and your song👌😌

  • @divinerhythmicsoul9427
    @divinerhythmicsoul9427 3 місяці тому +2

    Very nice informative video and very beautiful song

  • @ektachauhan0505
    @ektachauhan0505 2 роки тому +1

    🙏😍🥰Nice place

  • @shivrajrajput4383
    @shivrajrajput4383 Рік тому +2

    Ek yatra apne bhitar ki or.bhut badiya

  • @indiagautamjain1673
    @indiagautamjain1673 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice bro, thanks for your vidoe.

  • @vivekrana729
    @vivekrana729 Рік тому +2

    Aap acha describe toh karte hi hain..aapki awaaz bhi bhut achi hai, thanks

  • @ratandantani585
    @ratandantani585 2 роки тому

    बहुत सुंदर ❤️

  • @paraspanwar7054
    @paraspanwar7054 Рік тому

    Thank you, Dear, for information about vipashyana in Dharmshala Himachal
    Next 15 October's I am there
    😃😃🙏🙏

  • @shalusangwan1720
    @shalusangwan1720 2 роки тому +4

    Your voice is sooo beautiful✨✨✨

  • @TeluguPride
    @TeluguPride Рік тому

    Sweet voice bro

  • @BMP755
    @BMP755 4 місяці тому +2

    sir apki voice same to same flying beast jaisi hai❤

  • @krantigurumanojazad2082
    @krantigurumanojazad2082 2 роки тому

    Good

  • @sanchaitabiswas3898
    @sanchaitabiswas3898 17 днів тому +1

    So peaceful..But where are you now....its been one year but no video

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  16 днів тому +1

      I don't post here.......I created a new channel - @Anokha_Khana ......
      Do subscribe 🙃
      Search ' Anokha_Khana ' on UA-cam.....you will find it🌝
      & Please comment on any video on that channel, so that I know you found that channel 🙏🙏

  • @krantigurumanojazad2082
    @krantigurumanojazad2082 2 роки тому +1

    Very good

  • @prabhasganvir2098
    @prabhasganvir2098 2 роки тому

    Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shailendrasinghchauhan7943
    @shailendrasinghchauhan7943 Рік тому

    Bahuuuuut shaandaar bolte hain aap.Go for some anchoring in channel

  • @jbcryptoguru3413
    @jbcryptoguru3413 2 роки тому +2

    True bhaii vipassana centre jaane se pehle ghr pr bethne ka practice bht important hai . Abhi 2 days back mai wapas aya Vipassana centre se unfortunately mai 4 din hi ruk paya aur mai agya reason aane ka wahi 1st to bht pain hua back aur legs mai 2nd thoda theek hua phir 3rd day wapas bhtt pain hone laga back and legs mai and same 4th day mai bhtt zada hi problems honi lagi bhtt pain hone lga mujhe aana pada bhtt dukh huaa mujhe ki mai 10 din nhi ruk paya 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +2

      Koi baat ni.... practice karke phir chale jana kabhi...keep trying 👍👍

    • @karankamble558
      @karankamble558 2 роки тому +1

      Next Time You Go to any centre Go with 101% Determination that i will Complete 10 days abiding all rules and discipline Im Dhammasevak at Igatpuri i often go there to serving I work in MALE COURSE OFFICE i often Face such cases but i ve also seen those same people leave in middle they regret they get highly regret but Next Time they Visit centre they Come with higyly determination and Complete Course happily "Determination & Hardwork " during Course will benefit you more...

    • @sudhirchoudhary4823
      @sudhirchoudhary4823 4 місяці тому +1

      The entire game of vipasanna is that only going through the pain,if unbearable take 5min walk out of dhamma hall but by 5th day start having strong determination to sit for entire sitting,longer u sit the deeper sankharas will come out of our body
      Mind blowing truth is that the same pain if u observe with equanimity will vanish in next few minutes if u keep doing vipasanna and yes that pain sensation is our sankhara(karam sanskars)that's the beauty of vipasanna meditation 🙏

  • @krantigurumanojazad2082
    @krantigurumanojazad2082 2 роки тому +1

    Main bhi vipasna course Kiya Hai

  • @noelmathias2375
    @noelmathias2375 Рік тому +2

    Bhai, your video is very informative. Thank you. I will soon visit Dhamma Sikhara. (Question: Which is the best month for course May/Nov/Dec)

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому +2

      Summer season is a good option....winters are very harsh there

    • @poonamshukla3639
      @poonamshukla3639 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@MR_FactologistJuly kaisa rahega Sir??

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Місяць тому +1

      Good month 👍 rainy & cool

  • @kkrockssongs398
    @kkrockssongs398 2 роки тому +2

    Pls, upload your song na kaam....

  • @jammukashmirwala3154
    @jammukashmirwala3154 2 роки тому +1

    Bro aapka video acha lga . Plz bs yeh btaaye ki jaane se pehle hume kya kya saath Lena hai aur kin kin baato ka dhayan rkhna hai. Plz btaaye.

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      Daily use hone wali items......like soap, paste, clothes,....etc.....aur kuch nahi.....baki sab arrange ho jata hai waha.........
      Jane se pehle sitting ki practice kar lena...nahi to Beth nahi paoge waha.....All the best👍👍

    • @sudhirchoudhary4823
      @sudhirchoudhary4823 4 місяці тому

      ​@@MR_FactologistBeth paogay brother thoda determination chahiye hota hai,every hour time increase kar kar k he hota hai just how u workout in gym from 3 kg slowly u move to 5 to 10 to 20 🙏 entire vipasanna process is to train the mind first make it stronger to sit through pain so the deep rooted sankharas can come up on surface n eradicate itself,lot of people miss this thing n the most important staying equanimous
      I just came back from my 3rd long course I went so deep that I felt pain of a bullet inside my back and I sat through it observed it n it vanished that was my deep rooted one out of many sankhara,also the centre bodh gaya has different energies it's unbelievable I felt 10 days just went by like anything because I was highly focused n didn't waste any time even after lunch break i would sit in cell 🙏 Mangal ho

  • @RahulD1818
    @RahulD1818 2 місяці тому

    Mujhe bhi yaha shivir karna agla shivir mai yahi karunga

  • @krishnasolanki1331
    @krishnasolanki1331 Рік тому

    Sir , ynha pr jo instructions ya course ki language bs English m hoti h ya fir hindi m bhee bola jaata h

  • @vikrantyadav2050
    @vikrantyadav2050 Рік тому +2

    Where I can listen song you played in video " Na kaam na krodh"?

  • @MyMiracle19
    @MyMiracle19 2 роки тому +7

    I enrolled for November, during daytime I require woolens or not. Nite quilt is required. Mosquito repellent machine can be used, room must have a plug-in option or not....Bcos mobiles and gadgets not allowed. Moreover It's my first time. I am not sure, whether able to sit for 12 hours in a day. Hope they provide some assistance to first timers... 👍🏻

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +4

      November will be cold there...so take winter clothes...at night they will provide whatever is required...no tension.... mosquito repellent if required , they will provide it too.... electric socket is present in the room.... don't forget to take Alarm clock with you.....
      For those people who can't sit for long...they give back support option & chair sitting option( but only in extreme cases)...
      If you forget anything to take with you eg.. toothbrush 🙃.....they have bucket system ...in which you write on a slip what you want....& They will give you the next day....so don't worry.....& And the end , they will charge you for what you have ordered.
      All the best🙏

    • @MyMiracle19
      @MyMiracle19 2 роки тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist thank you so much... 😄👍🏻

    • @karankamble558
      @karankamble558 2 роки тому +1

      10 hours in Day 2 hours for discourse..

    • @MNaveenReddy
      @MNaveenReddy Рік тому +1

      I am from Telangana. How can I reach there.what I need to carry & what is the size of the campus...plz...

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому +1

      Take a train to pathankot railway station....
      Then take bus to mcleodganj.....
      Carry daily essentials ......
      Campus is big enough & peaceful... that's it👍👍

  • @user-ut1fg8ke6g
    @user-ut1fg8ke6g Рік тому +1

    Kya october month me jana thik rahega? October ke liye 16 Aug se booking start hogi to kya seats turant book ho jati hai...ya slot book karne me problem aa sakti hai.

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому +1

      Booking raat 12 bje shuru ho jati hai..... bahut jaldi jaldi seats book ho jati hai .....meri bhi pehle waiting aa rhi thi seat....baad me confirm ho gyi thi

    • @user-ut1fg8ke6g
      @user-ut1fg8ke6g Рік тому

      @@MR_Factologist thankyou very much

  • @mohitdadeia6933
    @mohitdadeia6933 2 роки тому

    Hey bro i want to ask something... That in this course the discourse language is English and I'm basic type in english mean that i can understand but i wanted to know that Whats the time for discourse? Or should i go to other centre?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +2

      It is both in hindi and english....8 pm to 9pm every day

    • @mohitdadeia6933
      @mohitdadeia6933 2 роки тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist thankyou bro, but it's written english on their website.

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +3

      @@mohitdadeia6933 hindi is default language in every centre.....so they don't write separately

  • @PiyushSharma-gz6pg
    @PiyushSharma-gz6pg 2 роки тому

    Bro please ap btayiye jo background music he na kam na krodh na lobh na moh ...... Ye chaiye mujhe please

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/users/shorts-CbUfWDJ5xc?feature=share

  • @Thekartikk
    @Thekartikk 2 роки тому +1

    Pathankot cantt stn se kaise poochte hai yaah prr aur saare room sharing hai kya??

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +1

      Cantt station se bus stand jana....vaha se Dharamshala ki bus milegi....phir auto me McLeod Ganj.....
      1st time course kr rahe ho to sharing room milega..
      2nd ,3rd time karne walo ko single milta hai🙏

    • @Thekartikk
      @Thekartikk 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks you 🙏

  • @atat8846
    @atat8846 2 роки тому +1

    maine already 2 session liye hai lekin dusre vipasana centre se ... agar mai is location ke liye apply karta hoo toh muje single room meelega yaa sharing room

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +2

      90% chance hai single room milne ka....but room availability pe bhi depend karta hai....
      Vese bhi single room ho ya double room...12 ghante to hall me hi bethna hai...6 ghante sona hai....2 ghante dining hall & washroom....
      1 ghanta walking.....
      To room me to 3 ghante hi rehna hai🙃

  • @nyp1209
    @nyp1209 11 місяців тому +1

    I have 2 questions:-
    1)Is it safe for females travelling alone?
    2) can we directly go to the centre without prior registration. I heard there is a waiting of 2 months but i would like to enroll immediately.

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  11 місяців тому

      1. Very Safe
      2. 2 months advance booking required

  • @Markcarleous1903
    @Markcarleous1903 2 роки тому +2

    Hey I am planning to visit this center, should I go in April or July?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      In July we have to use blankets at night....so, April will be even colder than July....
      July - good weather , but raining almost all the time
      April - less rain, but colder..
      For meditation, I think cold weather will be a hindrance..
      So...July is better...
      Rest is up to you🙏

    • @kunalsatija10
      @kunalsatija10 Рік тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist Hi, I have been planning to go to Dharmashala centre in July, thing is i have phobia of lizards. were there those things in the room?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому

      No, but Lots of Monkeys

    • @kunalsatija10
      @kunalsatija10 Рік тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist thanks for replying. Monkeys are a problem, as they can bite, but i am more afraid of lizards which are practically harmless.. I really need to learn to see "reality as it is"!

  • @anhadighazi
    @anhadighazi 2 роки тому

    We have to register in advance or we can enroll in the centre after reach there??

  • @sanjukta.mohapatrasonali8714
    @sanjukta.mohapatrasonali8714 2 роки тому

    Me orissa ki hu plz road idea bata sakte he kya kaha se kese jake konsa road pakdana he

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +1

      Book a ticket to Pathankot cantt railway station....then go to Pathankot bus stop...then take a bus to Dharamshala....then take a auto to Mcleodganj... that's it

  • @Amairahupadhyay
    @Amairahupadhyay Рік тому +1

    Hey , would love to know how much the expenses will be for 10days .
    Please reply as soon as possible.
    It’s urgent

  • @ritabhutoria86
    @ritabhutoria86 Місяць тому

    Bro, old sadhak gets si gle room???

  • @ASusmitaPanda
    @ASusmitaPanda 3 місяці тому +1

    I was here in last may (2023).. memories

  • @adityadubey623
    @adityadubey623 2 роки тому +1

    Bhaiya Yahan Pey Yog Centre And Vipassna hai Ja Only Vipassna Centre

  • @subhajitadhikary7396
    @subhajitadhikary7396 2 роки тому +2

    Very good informative video. I am going to attend "Introduction2Buddhism" @Tushita on 02.06.2022

  • @KishanKumar-ig4mf
    @KishanKumar-ig4mf Рік тому

    Eski timing kaise pta chlegi kab se new session start hogi pls reply???

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому

      From website... search Vipasana website in Google

  • @krantigurumanojazad2082
    @krantigurumanojazad2082 2 роки тому

    Main Pushkar se kiya tha

  • @beaconsharman7159
    @beaconsharman7159 Рік тому

    rooms are dirty ? water heaters and geysers don't work no exhaust lot of pad vayu?

  • @panktislifestyle2354
    @panktislifestyle2354 Рік тому

    Do we get a separate room with attached washroom and hot water?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому

      No attach bathroom..... no separate room for people who are doing the course 1st time

    • @panktislifestyle2354
      @panktislifestyle2354 Рік тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist thank you.

    • @archanashah3588
      @archanashah3588 Рік тому +1

      Did they have chairs for those who have health issues like varicose veins and can’t sit long hours ?? I did my 1 st Vipassana course here in Georgia USA , and they provided chair and cushion for me .

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому

      Yes, they have chairs👍

  • @bpositivstaywell9912
    @bpositivstaywell9912 2 роки тому

    Mcleodganj me kidhar hai ye centre plz tell me exact location

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      U have to walk 1 km up hill or take a taxi

  • @poojapawar1780
    @poojapawar1780 11 місяців тому

    Is October a good month to go there?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  11 місяців тому

      It will be slightly Cold 🥶....keep warm clothes with you

  • @meenaboyabhi2860
    @meenaboyabhi2860 Рік тому +1

    Hlo.. Sir
    Registration kese or kitne din phle kre

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому

      2 months pehle hoti hai....online ....vipasana ki website me

  • @sarojsaharan9670
    @sarojsaharan9670 2 роки тому

    june month good for doing 10 day course?

  • @adityadubey623
    @adityadubey623 2 роки тому

    Bhai Jaan Please El Baat Btaaye Meditation mein aane wali Koi health problem Please btaaye

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      Kya matlab?

    • @adityadubey623
      @adityadubey623 2 роки тому

      @@MR_Factologist kush Log Bolte Hai Health Related Issues Hota hai Mind ko Focus krna padta hai

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +1

      Bro, this meditation is not a picnic.... It's a serious event..... Timepass ke lie nahi hai ye.... Yha vohi log jate hai, jo human life ko samajna chahte hai..... Life death ke cycle se bahr nikalna chahte hai........isko apko khud experience karna padega.... Kisi ki bato se kuch nahi hoga......
      Agar abhi aap mentally ready nhi ho, to mat jayo abhi....
      Bahut sare log 2nd din hi vapis aa jate hai....
      Jab ander se aawaz aye ki ye duniya kyu bni hai,.... Phir hi jana🙂

  • @BuddhSagerNegivlogs
    @BuddhSagerNegivlogs 5 місяців тому

    Kab kab lagta he ye shivir

  • @manindermann8164
    @manindermann8164 Рік тому

    most import info is total fee and duration

  • @prasenjit2020rickydebbarma
    @prasenjit2020rickydebbarma 2 роки тому

    Im a banker n i need some meditation for one week kindly hlp me how to get in

  • @intention8101
    @intention8101 2 роки тому

    I want to go this month October can I..

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      I think registration has to be done in advance....1-2 months in advance

  • @sankalpgupta7920
    @sankalpgupta7920 2 роки тому

    Na rog, na sog, na bhog, na bhay hai.... Is this a song aur music, can you plz share the link

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +1

      It's a line from guru granth sahib....I just sang it

    • @kkrockssongs398
      @kkrockssongs398 2 роки тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist pls isko record kar k upload kijiye... It's so melodious

    • @kkrockssongs398
      @kkrockssongs398 2 роки тому

      @@MR_Factologist pls pls 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏aap upload karo ye song

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      It is just a single line...about 10 seconds

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      Ok....found an old video in my phone... uploaded as shorts 🙃👍

  • @SandeepPandey-xv2ks
    @SandeepPandey-xv2ks Рік тому

    Khane me kya sham ko fasting rahti hai

  • @meenakshiverma3690
    @meenakshiverma3690 Рік тому

    Is it also for females

  • @KishanKumar-ig4mf
    @KishanKumar-ig4mf Рік тому

    Expenses v bta dete bhai pls

  • @knowyourself4219
    @knowyourself4219 Рік тому

    अगर आलती-पालती करके नही बैठ सकते कुछ प्रोब्लम की वजह से तो क्या इसमें पार्टिसिपेट नही कर सकते?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  Рік тому +1

      कुर्सी (chair) मिल जायेगी आपको ....कुर्सी का भी प्रबंध हैं वहा 🙏

    • @knowyourself4219
      @knowyourself4219 Рік тому +1

      @@MR_Factologist Thanks for reply 🙏

  • @shubhamthakur6274
    @shubhamthakur6274 2 роки тому

    Bhai ji shunya ghar kidhr hai?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      Single room hi shunya Ghar hai

    • @shubhamthakur6274
      @shubhamthakur6274 2 роки тому

      @@MR_Factologist bhai ji benefits mila hai kya?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +1

      Ye apko khud karke dekhna hoga.....jese आम का स्वाद किताबों से पड़कर नही आ सकता...खाना ही पड़ेगा 🙏

  • @savinaysadhu794
    @savinaysadhu794 8 місяців тому

    Bhaiya Minimum kitna donate karna chahiye huma paisa ,, apki suggestion?

    • @sudhirchoudhary4823
      @sudhirchoudhary4823 4 місяці тому

      Donate as per you wish with a clean heart🙏whatever you donate should be with full compassion which will help the next batch for food n lodging etc and the technique is something which we can never pay for because it's beyond words

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  4 місяці тому

      2000 minimum ठीक रहेगा🙃

    • @savinaysadhu794
      @savinaysadhu794 4 місяці тому

      @@sudhirchoudhary4823 thanks for suggestion sir

    • @savinaysadhu794
      @savinaysadhu794 4 місяці тому

      @@MR_Factologist thanks for suggestion

  • @utkarshgarg2791
    @utkarshgarg2791 Рік тому

    How to apply and what are charges???

  • @efunpadhai
    @efunpadhai 2 роки тому

    Price kitna hai

  • @tarannumhussain9354
    @tarannumhussain9354 Рік тому

    Charges kya hai ?

  • @ytgyani5740
    @ytgyani5740 Рік тому

    Sir cost kitna padega ?? Fees??

  • @avinash1354
    @avinash1354 2 роки тому

    How to reach this centre from New Delhi ?

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +3

      Take a train to pathankot.....and then go to mcleodganj by bus.....simple🙃

    • @avinash1354
      @avinash1354 2 роки тому +2

      @@MR_Factologist Thank you Dear!
      God bless you 🙇

  • @intention8101
    @intention8101 2 роки тому

    What's the price for meditation

  • @intention8101
    @intention8101 2 роки тому

    How to register..

  • @PramodSingh-hu3jk
    @PramodSingh-hu3jk 2 роки тому

    I guess, you are Deval Mehta and currently working in BKT, right ??

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      Computer जी इनका उत्तर lock Kiya जाय.......
      अफ़सोस ' गलत ' जवाब 😁😁🙏

  • @anuu2744
    @anuu2744 Рік тому

    Mobile, camera are not allowed then how did u make videos

  • @Manalee837
    @Manalee837 Рік тому

    Hindi me hota he vipasana meditation?

  • @kakaligoswami2850
    @kakaligoswami2850 2 роки тому

    Yaha ka koi contact no. Hai...???
    Jaanese pahele kayse sampark kare...???

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому

      Vipasana website pe hoga ....pehle form submit karna padta hai ...... website pe

  • @adityadubey623
    @adityadubey623 2 роки тому

    Bhai Registered kaise kare

  • @tanu155
    @tanu155 Рік тому

    Kitne log ik room me

  • @UtkarshMaheshwari1000
    @UtkarshMaheshwari1000 Рік тому

    What about fee

  • @mohitrana3520
    @mohitrana3520 2 роки тому +2

    He thought ki Chalo Vipassana ke saath thoda humour add kiya jaaye "Yahaan foreigners aate hain. Toh unko lootne ke liye itna price rakkha hua h"🤣

  • @levidennis8007
    @levidennis8007 2 роки тому

    I can hear a lot of traffic noise

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  2 роки тому +1

      Voice recording was done separately..... Not at the center

  • @ashishkorde7149
    @ashishkorde7149 Рік тому

    Please I have a contact no of center

  • @viralstuff1117
    @viralstuff1117 19 днів тому

    one true fact : you learn nothing here

    • @MR_Factologist
      @MR_Factologist  18 днів тому

      It varies from person to person......
      Beginners like me do get frustrated here😐