Law Bsk it doesn’t matter if someone dropped 1000$ and wasn’t around, you should still attempt to find the rightful owner. It’s the right thing to do. She’s not stupid at all. It’s called being kind and considerate.
N Epps I would totally agree if you found it around people? But she said she would run around asking random people passing by. Plus they said if no one was around
Law Bsk she also corrected herself and said she would ask ppl if they lost something. Regardless if no one was around I think common decency is to exhaust all options of trying to find the owner. But to each it’s own.
One time my family and I came across a wallet in a Target parking lot. We were going to take it in to the front desk or call the p.d. We opened it and it turned out to be my middle school best friend. He was very fortunate. ;) Just a little experience with finding a wallet/a story!
Yes! I remember losing my phone last year in a store. It was brand new and a girl a bit younger than me was going to turn it in at the front and I thanked her. I’m super greatful for people like that.
I got blessed right after. I have the man his wallet and he gave me two bucks as a thank you and being at the casino already I just played it. I won 400$
Aye but listen... if I see money in a wallet with identification and SS and all this other stuff... I’d feel hella guilty and I’d ry to find the person who lost it... BUT if I just see money on the ground... no wallet , no sense of identification or anything... then finders keepers , losers weepers
@@mandys1038 It's a completely different case if a hundred dollars does not benefit you. You got half a milli? A hundred bucks flying in the breeze should make it into your pocket long enough to be passed on to the next homeless person you see.
I believe in God but if I find something in the floor I'm not gonna go around asking "did you lost this" lol.. If is a wallet that has information on it I will return it to the person, because i think that will be sterling just my opinion
Nobody was particularly wrong in this conversation, except Loni. You can't just keep anything you find wtf. Also, I don't see the point in asking random strangers if its their money because they could easily lie lol but I get that she would do that just to clear her conscience.
Happened to me too. I was at the car wash and I really needed cash. I was entering into the store to pay the receipt and lo and behold, a CRISP $100 bill folded on the floor. I looked around, picked it up and said thank you Jesus!
Tamara is a cancer sign. ..She reminds me of me. When I was younger. & I had less concerns. I was like yeah, that's easy for her to say tho. .. Look at her posit- tam: so that's when I tell myself, I am blessed... You reap what you sow. Alright then, jeezenums. Bless me. I used to purposely leave several 20s out there for ppl to find. Even if sometimes they were mean af to me. 🤷🏻♀️ I thought they needed it more than I did...
I love tam I love tam I LOVE TAM 😂😂 She really does not care what other people think, she’s got integrity that keeps her steadfast in her beliefs and we love to see it 😂👏👏
No we don’t she’s naive and stupid, no one asked her to steal. They said if no one was around and she said she would go around asking if anyone dropped it
It's situational for me. If I see someone drop money without realising, I'll pick it up and hand it to them. But if it blows on by with no clear owner, then God provides.
I’m with tamera on this one! My mom went to pay a bill one day & lost her wallet at the place. They looked at the cameras & the man who walked in after her took it. She really needed that money & id’s were in there. Long story short about 2 years later she got a phone call from a guy who’s father had just passed. He wanted to know why my moms stuff was at his fathers house & originally thought they had something going on. It was a sad situation, but my mother had to explain to him that his dad had stolen it 2 years prior & that she had made a police report & everything, but they never found him. God definitely does see everything!
Oooh Jeanie that spirit, it depends how broke you are. 😁😁😁 Tamera I love her very much, she too sweet and honesty. Yo I am learning a lot here And Loni oooh Lord lol!!
When I feel super thankful I get emotional like that too. I also think she felt a bit frustrated for a couple reasons. One is that it can be frustrating when you have certain moral standards that you think should be universal, but not everyone lives up to your standard. Also they tease her a bit for being well off. We shouldn’t compare struggles, tamera is so proud of her mom for putting her own life aside for the mowry kids. She worked multiple jobs and guided some very successful careers. I think tamera wants to make sure that sacrifice is being honored
@@oliviasalubi594 but how do you find them? You don't know who's it is. A wallet with I.D should be returned, but all bills look the same there's no way to tell who's it is... if someone dropped it give it back but if you're in the middle of nowhere, no one around, there's no way to find the rightful owner
You'll be surprised how giving the homeless are.. but at the end of the day it comes down to character and normally people have their I.D in the wallet with the address on it. You can return it that way. I've done that plenty of times
A man returned my sister's wallet from off the train one day. That man is truly blessed. I will pay it forward and do the best. However, if I just found $100, I'd stay around in the area for a while to see if anyone may be looking. If not, I'm keeping it lol.
I was on vacation and found a wallet with money I could not finish count. Had to leave the next day. Could not find any identification. And was at a huge mall. I was determined to find the person cause I knew if it was mine I would want it back. Thank God the person was found with help of management. They described the wallet and questions I asked and I gave it back. My sister was mad lol. She wished she was the one who found it to continue shopping the last day. But my heart was clean and I did get rewarded.
Tamera, please never stop being you. She reminds me so much of my mom, they’re both very Christian, faith based, morally conscious women. You don’t have to conform to anything or anyone’s standard but your own ❣️
I agree with tamera YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW. I’ve been in positions where I really didnt have it to give but the person in need needed it more than I did but god blessed me 10 fold
@@luizholiveira3105 it doesn’t matter how much money she has , she has an amazing heart . She knows if it were her she’d want her money back as well . She’s not on these girls level she’s above them and has high standards. Miss Darlene holds them up on a pedestal and they know better than to fall down
I left work after a bad serving shift and found $10 on the ground in the parking garage, a lot of homeless people live in it so I left it, but my friend/coworker took it. The next day I recurved a $100 tip, and my friend had a table walk out on her and she had to cover their $60 tab. I will never keep money I find after that
I need to find some damn money on the ground. I am homeless outside with nothing :( I have been struggling so bad for Years. I go on interviews, no luck. Sometimes I wanna commit suicide but I'm not brave enough so I'm stuck dealing with this reality. Great conversation. If I find some money on the ground, that would be a blessing for me I really need it. I have absolutely nothing :(
Tamera...total won my heart here ..with how persistent she is with proving it that karma comes back ..and I am pleasantly surprised that the beauty who you see outside in this lady is the same inside..keep it up girl !🌸🌻
It amazes me how this show is so open to talk about God the way that they do. People act so scared or ashamed to talk about Him nowadays on a public platform, but the ladies of the Real are just speaking their truth & all that makes them them. I love it
Being a person who suffered the loss of my wallet ( i had money and loads of gift cards of my wedding gifts).. i would return a wallet if I found it...Anyone else who lost a wallet would empathize . I may keep cash if i found it on the street.. sometimes I put it in the church collection.. or a portion of it.. if its a huge amt..
Tam wants to pretend like she could become Job. And I know in her heart she truly believes she will do the right thing, and I do think that she will because this is all ridiculous hypotheticals for her. You know, the idea of no money, no home, no job, dead family and friends, no food, your kids crying to eat, no insurance for healthcare, needing a prescription to live, etc. [Just imagine Tamera in the Walking Dead] Like please imagine having to become a refugee after your entire country has been destroyed and millions of people have died and tortured and come back telling me that you looked around to give the money away. You would be running for your life and only looking around to see if you were in danger. There would be no trust of strangers like that. But I'm glad she is able to be protected from this. It's nice to see that some people haven't been corrupted by the harsh reality of the world and are able to be sheltered enough from danger and have enough resources so that they don't need to give in to the parts of themselves that they would hate to admit about themselves because nobody wants to face that. It just is though. It's a different reality than hers and I hope it stays that way.
@@victoryjessey yea, well unlike her I've been homeless twice after more trauma than you can imagine so I've had plenty of time to think this stuff over and because of all my trauma, people don't understand why I cant control the volume of my voice when I get upset. even after I tell them my mother molested me, my best friend killed herself, I was trafficked, my dad threw me down the stairs, blah blah blah. people don't care and they act like my anger that i feel everyday from reliving trauma isn't justified. because those people don't actually have enough empathy to comprehend how painful it really is. which is why I think it's crazy when people like tamera call themselves an empath. because people like her are actually pretty weak and don't have the threshold to feel as much pain as certain situations would create. which means she doesn't actually empathize with others and just looks down on them from her innocent eyes.
@@qualia5953 Well I truly sympathise with you for all you have gone through. Sometimes we don't know out strengths and weaknesses until we are in a situation and I can see that you are very strong. Empathy and sympathy are slightly different though. I think Tam is more of a sympathetic person. I don't know if you believe in God but I will put you in my prayers and I pray that the Lord upholds you. I for one know I can't even imagine up to the extent the kind of trauma you feel. When I'm alone I think "if any of my friends ever commit suicide, I don't even know how I would feel about that". Its obvious that life has dealt you a bad hand but I hope you are better today and I hope you continue to be better.
@@victoryjessey yea she's sympathetic and that's not something bad, so she isn't going to need to look any further into it to actually see that it's just her ego. and people say they are sorry and im sure it makes them feel bad/upset to hear about what I've been through but pretty much everyone just wants to ignore the stuff that makes them feel bad/upset. and i'm not strong. I've tried to kill myself many times. I think it's up to 4 times now. the first time was after my father told me to kill myself and I had a heart monitor in the ER but nobody visited me. My father only came to visit me to tell me "we can't deal with you" and his partner that I've known since I was a toddler and also raised me was apparently too busy working to even visit me and I was told not to even call him. and he didn't call me either. Just made me realize how right I was to think I was such a burden to everybody. I haven't believed in god since I was like 5 years old, maybe 7. That's when my mother explained to me what suicide was and said that she just might be suicidal again and that's just her disorder. And she told me that right after that part where I said I nearly starved. She had me call my aunt to teach me how to cook after I was crying for days about how hungry I was. My aunt didn't visit or call anyone to check on me in person. I was at home crying and begging my mom to eat the next few days after that though. She kept refusing and saying she wanted to die. I think she was trying to starve herself. But when she got better, she acted like she was the parent but she couldn't even take care of me by herself. She screamed at me when I would get angry, which of course happens to any kid that goes through that kind of thing. The rage you feel makes your tears burn. The kind you can't heal from completely, not ever. And then she played the victim and pressed charges on me when I was only 9 years old and again when I was ten. She made me believe that I was bad. And I don't mean that I did something bad. Because she constantly told me that I couldn't control my emotions before she even pressed charges. And she never provided me proper therapy, she only brought me to a study consistently so she could make money from the study. Moved so many times. I moved 20 times by the time I was 14. Not an exaggeration. And no army parent, no travel jobs. Just really unstable. And I never got a chance to learn how to handle my anger. So I either use it to punish myself or scream at people now. And I don't know how to do any different. And people act like me being self-aware is a great thing. But people don't understand what that kind of self-awareness means. Because it's like being cursed. Wishing you had someone to help guide you through the way you need to be guided, the way you were supposed to be as a child. But now being an adult and finally being able to realize so many things that I thought were normal, were actually trauma and that my anger is justified. And because I'm adult people expect more of me. But I don't get how I'm supposed to control myself when I was programmed to not believe that I can but that I'm also innately bad because I can't. And everybody hates it. They say they can't help me because I'm angry. And I don't see the point in trying. Because the only other way for me to get help is to focus on hurting myself instead of screaming at people. And I guess that's what everyone wants. That really is what everyone wants. People don't realize it. But they are actually more cruel than I am just by not being able to control the volume of my voice. Because I've worked hard on handling my emotions more than anyone knows. Over 10,000 hours of meditation. But even that isn't enough. It would take a lifetime or several to get over everything. Can't live like this. I can't keep living like this. Nobody ever loved me. The only person who listens to me is my rheumatologist. I have an autoimmune disorder that started right after I got taken away by CPS. It's the stress that kills. That's what they say. I didn't even know it stressed me out as much as it did. When CPS showed up, I wasn't even shocked. I had been waiting outside alone in the sun for about 4 hours. I knew she wasn't going to show up. I knew something happened with her again. We didn't even have a home at that point. I called the police on her fiancé after he hit me, and we were living with him. I already saw her attack someone and then get peppersprayed and knocked to the ground by the police years before that when I was 10. Or the other time when she forced me to pay the rent when I was only 11. I don't even want to get into the other stuff yet. It's just thoughts that come to my mind a lot. How much of a narcissist to people actually have to be to be able to function. I don't understand why my mother even calls herself an empath too. Because she's still delusional af. She really believes that she is a woman of god, and that she only wants to help people. But she literally did all of that to me and never apologized or owned up to it. I blocked her and I was trying to find a text for a coupon that I accidentally deleted and I saw that she texted me about how difficult I was when I was 1 years old and 2 years old. Like she literally brings up stuff about me being an infant as either an excuse for herself or the most insane and idiotic explanation of how she's the reasonable one. She never stopped bringing up how I hit her when I was 9, when she had me arrested. I don't know how much more humiliation I would need, but apparently that wasn't enough. And she still has tried to kiss me and molest me into my 20s. I had told her no over and over again. But I can't even say "no", because that gives her the opportunity to shove her tongue down my throat. Like I'm literally unable to say "no". And it doesn't even matter to her that I've said no for decades. I've screamed at her for decades. And then she always acts like I'm being mean. And she'll bring up different stuff from the past. But the one thing that she always says is "You always used to let me do it". That's what she would say in 2001 and she still says it now. Any time I wanted a hug, and remember I moved so many times that I had NOBODY else. So anytime I wanted a hug, I had to remember to turn my face away from hers or she might try to stick her tongue in my mouth again. I can't stand eye contact. I don't feel safe. So many times, I tried to look her in the eyes and just smile. And she lunges on me. But she acts as if this is okay or normal. And she denies so much of it. And now that I'm older, I realized I need to warn people and tell them not to let their kids near her and so many people are telling ME that I should be ashamed for telling the TRUTH? And all I have is the truth in the end. And It isn't enough. It's never enough. And everyone hates me for it. And nobody else wants to face it. And why would they. Why would they try to? They see me as a burden. Because if they have to try to feel what I'm going through in order to help me. They will never want that or wish that on anyone, but they won't make that sacrifice for themselves because they don't love me. They don't care about me. They won't face pain together. I'm alone. I'm all alone. I've always been alone. And the only people who reach out to me, who seem like they care or just want to be around just end up hurting me even further. Yes, I know it's long. I don't have a life to look forward to so I don't see why not typing out this kind of stuff. If people think it's too much, then they don't even get the point of about everything I'm saying anyways and most people don't so it doesn't matter when I'm damned if I do and I'm damned if I don't. I'll be stuck in this eternal hell all alone with nobody to ever care about me anyways. Just a little glimmer of hope when I see my rheumatologist and then when she dies, I'll truly be all alone and there will be nothing left to look forward to.
@@qualia5953 Well, alright I read everything and I pray you find someone in which you won't feel alone anymore, God or man. I pray you do. I pray the Lord finds you and I pray that things get better for you. And YOU have a purpose.
I love all the girls! Tamera you are a great example to everyone when we are just thinking about ourselves first and immediately going to we deserve it when it’s not ours way may be causing others pain. Our gain should not be someone else’s lose, when you know you can prevent it.
I am a good girl at heart just like lovely Tamera😘. I agree with her 150% and that’s how I also live my life by the Grace of God! You reap what you sow and God is always watching over you.🙏❤️😊
I mean, I don't want to keep money that isn't mine. I just don't like the idea of taking money that may belong to someone in need or something. So if it was a wallet I would not keep it, ID or not because I know it belongs to someone... ... but if I was in poverty living on a park bench I'm pretty sure my mentality would change. I can't speak for that hypothetical version of myself but I can imagine taking what crosses my path depending on how desperate I am. Hunger and fear can be huge motivators.
If I found a purse/ wallet with ID I would return it. One time I found a 20$ bill near the atm machine. I kept it because no one was in front of me or around so I had no clue who it could have belonged too. Lol
Matthew 25:21 “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’. I'm with you, Tam. God is good all the time.💓🙏 And to Loni, Jeannie and Adrienne: " Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says". James 1:22
I went to a Christian middle school. We had a chapel and I found $100 on the floor so I gave it to my teacher so that he can put it in the offering for the next Sunday service. Lol, my classmates were not happy .
I'm with Tamara if God sends you something then it's for you, so if she goes around seeing who it belongs to it will get denied either way cuz if God wants you to have it it's for you.Tamara please never change who you are. What you stand for is amazing....
I once saw a group of boys walk off and one forgetting his thermos, so I ran and gave it to them (he was very grateful). Immediately after that, I sat down on a train and there was a wallet right beside me. It was really weird. I felt like I a guardian angel or the main character in a cheesy feel-good movie. It felt good. A lot better than if I'd kept the thermos or took the money...
This actually happened to me. I found a wallet in the parking lot with money ID, CC everything! And I was about 16 years old. I went straight home to tell my parents that we needed to return the wallet. And when we did the man was soooo happy and gave me $50 for returning it. Just do the right thing guys ❤️
Once I dropped a £5 which tbh is significant for me as a student and this lady picked it up and I thought she would return it (she saw me drop it) but she picked it and ran. I didn't try to stop her, bc I figured if she's really gonna do that maybe she really needs that kind of money
Someone picked up a money order from me, when I left my purse on the ground. I was at Aldi's, trying to unleash a cart. So, it went floating away. But I saw her have it & I questioned her. She claimed it was hers. In the back of my head, I knew I didn't even write anything on it yet. I knew I could've been screwed. I said," Alright, how much is your money order?" Bc mine was 3/400, something like that. That's a good chunk of change. She made up some number, like I knew she would, so that it was incorrect & I "snatched" it from her hand. I didn't "snatch" sh from her tho, it was mine anyways. I was ready... Don't w/ me! 😤😑✋.
I used to work retail, and I once had a very rude customer come into my store to do a return, and when he opened up his wallet to get his credit card for me to do the refund (that's why he was upset...he assumed he was getting cash), I saw something fall on the floor. Thinking it was probably old receipts or a business card or something, I figured he saw it and didn't care because he was being a jerk. So as he was walking toward the door, I walked around the counter to pick it up and dispose of it, and it's $60 (three $20 bills) laying there. If you think I was going to yell and get his attention to give it back to him, you're crazy. Had he been nice, I absolutely would have. As it stood, I figured it was a reward from the universe for putting up with him (and other rude customers) and karma for him for being a jerk.
Tamera is a beautiful soul, don't ever change. You are here for a reason. 😘
Amen
Laura Reynolds nah, saying that you do good so that u can expect good be sent from your god is selfish
Awww I wish more people had Tamera’s mentality. Even homeless people have returned things and wound up being rewarded for it. Be better people! 💛
N Epps didn’t you not hear it was dropped and no one was around? She is just stupid
I agree with you!
Law Bsk it doesn’t matter if someone dropped 1000$ and wasn’t around, you should still attempt to find the rightful owner. It’s the right thing to do. She’s not stupid at all. It’s called being kind and considerate.
N Epps I would totally agree if you found it around people? But she said she would run around asking random people passing by. Plus they said if no one was around
Law Bsk she also corrected herself and said she would ask ppl if they lost something. Regardless if no one was around I think common decency is to exhaust all options of trying to find the owner. But to each it’s own.
If it’s a wallet I’m giving it back because people work hard for there money. Also treat others how you want to be treated.
John Turner Amen!
One time my family and I came across a wallet in a Target parking lot. We were going to take it in to the front desk or call the p.d. We opened it and it turned out to be my middle school best friend. He was very fortunate. ;) Just a little experience with finding a wallet/a story!
Yes! I remember losing my phone last year in a store. It was brand new and a girl a bit younger than me was going to turn it in at the front and I thanked her. I’m super greatful for people like that.
For sure I have found wallets in given it back why would I keep someone’s whole wallet
I got blessed right after. I have the man his wallet and he gave me two bucks as a thank you and being at the casino already I just played it. I won 400$
Aye but listen... if I see money in a wallet with identification and SS and all this other stuff... I’d feel hella guilty and I’d ry to find the person who lost it... BUT if I just see money on the ground... no wallet , no sense of identification or anything... then finders keepers , losers weepers
Not losers weepers, sis 🤣😭 you've got me laughing out loud
Exactly! That's why I related to what Jeannie and Adrienne said. Its a completely different case when you don't know who the money belongs to.
@@mandys1038 It's a completely different case if a hundred dollars does not benefit you. You got half a milli? A hundred bucks flying in the breeze should make it into your pocket long enough to be passed on to the next homeless person you see.
Kern Albert EXACTLY
I believe in God but if I find something in the floor I'm not gonna go around asking "did you lost this" lol..
If is a wallet that has information on it I will return it to the person, because i think that will be sterling just my opinion
Nobody was particularly wrong in this conversation, except Loni. You can't just keep anything you find wtf. Also, I don't see the point in asking random strangers if its their money because they could easily lie lol but I get that she would do that just to clear her conscience.
Loni really just be joking most times.. cant take her seriously
You're taking life too serious please
You know Loni, she’s saying that for comedic effect. If it really came down to it, she’d for sure turn in what she would of found.
Adim Favourmaris excuse me?
Noah i know
Bless Tamera’s heart she’s honestly so sweet 😩
God sent me a $100 bill in a parking lot. no one was around and no cars were leaving 😫😍😍 that really happens
Rebecca 021818 Oh my goodness!
Maaaaaan I WISH
Happened to me too. I was at the car wash and I really needed cash. I was entering into the store to pay the receipt and lo and behold, a CRISP $100 bill folded on the floor. I looked around, picked it up and said thank you Jesus!
Rebecca 021818 Wow! Amen 🙏🏽
it happend me years Agoo
found
$300 crumpled up . me thinkin was JUST $100
Tamara Keep stay to your morals, God is watching over his people and it's true you reap what you sow. So continue to sow good seeds, Amen.
2:54 When Jeannie said "I don't even have to be broke"😂😂
LOLLL
Tamera: Preaching about karma... blahh blah blahhhh
Jeanie: Has left the chat 😴😴😴😴🏃🏃🏃🏃😅
Tam can follow her out the chat too.
Tamara is a cancer sign. ..She reminds me of me.
When I was younger. & I had less concerns. I was like yeah, that's easy for her to say tho. .. Look at her posit- tam: so that's when I tell myself, I am blessed... You reap what you sow.
Alright then, jeezenums. Bless me. I used to purposely leave several 20s out there for ppl to find. Even if sometimes they were mean af to me. 🤷🏻♀️ I thought they needed it more than I did...
bsbgirl85 We’re all waiting for you to get lost.
Lmao reminds me of the vampire diaries. 'Think about Elena bla blah blaaAAAA'
bsbgirl85 shut up
I love tam I love tam I LOVE TAM 😂😂
She really does not care what other people think, she’s got integrity that keeps her steadfast in her beliefs and we love to see it 😂👏👏
We need more people like Tamera... yes faith.
@@user-ij4kb9dg8t 😕😕
Love her but she is too naive for this world.
@@user-ij4kb9dg8t believe it or not, not everyone is evil. Some good people would do this..
No we don’t she’s naive and stupid, no one asked her to steal. They said if no one was around and she said she would go around asking if anyone dropped it
It's situational for me. If I see someone drop money without realising, I'll pick it up and hand it to them. But if it blows on by with no clear owner, then God provides.
I’m with tamera on this one! My mom went to pay a bill one day & lost her wallet at the place. They looked at the cameras & the man who walked in after her took it. She really needed that money & id’s were in there. Long story short about 2 years later she got a phone call from a guy who’s father had just passed. He wanted to know why my moms stuff was at his fathers house & originally thought they had something going on. It was a sad situation, but my mother had to explain to him that his dad had stolen it 2 years prior & that she had made a police report & everything, but they never found him. God definitely does see everything!
Oooh Jeanie that spirit, it depends how broke you are. 😁😁😁 Tamera I love her very much, she too sweet and honesty. Yo I am learning a lot here
And Loni oooh Lord lol!!
Was Tam going to cry towards the end? Looked like she had tears in her eyes when Jeannie was comforting her
When I feel super thankful I get emotional like that too. I also think she felt a bit frustrated for a couple reasons. One is that it can be frustrating when you have certain moral standards that you think should be universal, but not everyone lives up to your standard. Also they tease her a bit for being well off. We shouldn’t compare struggles, tamera is so proud of her mom for putting her own life aside for the mowry kids. She worked multiple jobs and guided some very successful careers. I think tamera wants to make sure that sacrifice is being honored
y’all reading too deep into it. tam’s sensitive but that’s just her normal facial expressions lmao
It wasn't that deep. It's just that thing you did to that one friend that's too sweet in a joking way like "ok babes" it's all jokes
Jeannie and Adrienne are so cute together 🤣 the play off each other so perfectly!
We all know how much Tam loves her babies and if they were really struggling and hungry she would have kept the money to feed them.
I would return the wallet but if there was money floating around I would take it lol
girl stop..that could be someones rent...
@@oliviasalubi594 but how do you find them? You don't know who's it is. A wallet with I.D should be returned, but all bills look the same there's no way to tell who's it is... if someone dropped it give it back but if you're in the middle of nowhere, no one around, there's no way to find the rightful owner
olivia Salubi You must be psychic, since you apparently would know who it belongs to...
Helin * lmfao right! 😂😂
@@helin4397 Right, my esp didn't kick in yet 🤣🤣
You'll be surprised how giving the homeless are.. but at the end of the day it comes down to character and normally people have their I.D in the wallet with the address on it. You can return it that way. I've done that plenty of times
Tamera is a good person and that's why I love her!
Tam going "Y'all hold up, Jesus!" in the middle of her preaching got me dead 😆😂
If you are broke and that money has no owner I am keeping it
Tamera straight TESTIFYING at the end! Love!
The falling asleep part was HILARIOUS.
A man returned my sister's wallet from off the train one day. That man is truly blessed. I will pay it forward and do the best. However, if I just found $100, I'd stay around in the area for a while to see if anyone may be looking. If not, I'm keeping it lol.
Charnell Price lmao same!
Charnell Price I like that answer 👏🏾👏🏾
Never change, Tam! Your parents raised you beautifully.
I was on vacation and found a wallet with money I could not finish count. Had to leave the next day. Could not find any identification. And was at a huge mall. I was determined to find the person cause I knew if it was mine I would want it back. Thank God the person was found with help of management. They described the wallet and questions I asked and I gave it back. My sister was mad lol. She wished she was the one who found it to continue shopping the last day. But my heart was clean and I did get rewarded.
I love Tam! God bless her❤
Tamera, please never stop being you. She reminds me so much of my mom, they’re both very Christian, faith based, morally conscious women. You don’t have to conform to anything or anyone’s standard but your own ❣️
Tamera: “ if somebody comes knocking on my door“ Tam you ain’t got a door in this scenario, you homeless😂😂😂😂😂
If tamera had to feed her kids, she would keep the money!
Right..she know damn well that's what she would do.
I agree with tamera YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW. I’ve been in positions where I really didnt have it to give but the person in need needed it more than I did but god blessed me 10 fold
Yes Tamera! Talk about it! I would do the SAME dont let them heathens try to shame you!!!!
I bet Adrienne got up just for us to see the complete outfit.
I see you girl.yes nice 👗 lol
Love this show it keep me smiling everyday
Tamera always got that big heart and I love her for that.keep shining girl, God is always good to honest people.
i think maybe Tam would change her tune in the moment had she been truly broke af
*just listen to your intuition* 🙏🏾
I am here for it Tam; thanks for showing to put God first and He will handle the rest.
Tamera just be saying that cause she was born in a good family. The Lord knows that when you are broke asf you be wilding out !
she was not born in a rich family. I think thinngs got better after Sister Sister.
@@luizholiveira3105 yeah she still had a good upbringing though and she dies have a really good family. For other ppl, its different
Alma Avendad 😂😂
@@serealgurl A good family doesn't mean a wealthy family
@@luizholiveira3105 it doesn’t matter how much money she has , she has an amazing heart . She knows if it were her she’d want her money back as well . She’s not on these girls level she’s above them and has high standards. Miss Darlene holds them up on a pedestal and they know better than to fall down
I left work after a bad serving shift and found $10 on the ground in the parking garage, a lot of homeless people live in it so I left it, but my friend/coworker took it. The next day I recurved a $100 tip, and my friend had a table walk out on her and she had to cover their $60 tab. I will never keep money I find after that
Tamera gives me joy all the time! 🙏
“Jeannie’s broke ass is going to walk by…” lmfaoooo
Tamera keep being beautiful as you are inside out. In this world it is rare but just know that he good you do will always come back to you!
Tamear: ya hold up Jesus! 😂😂
Y'all hold up, JESUS!!! 😂😂😂😂 I can't Tam🤣🤣🤣
If I randomly found money in the middle of nowhere. I’d keep it.
But if I found a suitcase full of money, I’m turning it in.
I found $60 on the ground outside my job once. Asked around if anyone dropped it and no one did. So I kept it. Manifestation is real
Yes Tamara, your are absolutely right, we are being asked on the daily to do the right thing. So everyone do the right thing.
I need to find some damn money on the ground. I am homeless outside with nothing :( I have been struggling so bad for Years. I go on interviews, no luck. Sometimes I wanna commit suicide but I'm not brave enough so I'm stuck dealing with this reality. Great conversation. If I find some money on the ground, that would be a blessing for me I really need it. I have absolutely nothing :(
lavendergirl girl please look up Mark Haughton on youtube or join his fb group manifesting all desires using consciousness and Loa. Good luck!
I love this show! As if were all friends, it's crazy!
Tamera...total won my heart here ..with how persistent she is with proving it that karma comes back ..and I am pleasantly surprised that the beauty who you see outside in this lady is the same inside..keep it up girl !🌸🌻
It amazes me how this show is so open to talk about God the way that they do. People act so scared or ashamed to talk about Him nowadays on a public platform, but the ladies of the Real are just speaking their truth & all that makes them them. I love it
Being a person who suffered the loss of my wallet ( i had money and loads of gift cards of my wedding gifts).. i would return a wallet if I found it...Anyone else who lost a wallet would empathize .
I may keep cash if i found it on the street.. sometimes I put it in the church collection.. or a portion of it.. if its a huge amt..
Bless Tam. We need more people like her.
Tam wants to pretend like she could become Job. And I know in her heart she truly believes she will do the right thing, and I do think that she will because this is all ridiculous hypotheticals for her. You know, the idea of no money, no home, no job, dead family and friends, no food, your kids crying to eat, no insurance for healthcare, needing a prescription to live, etc. [Just imagine Tamera in the Walking Dead]
Like please imagine having to become a refugee after your entire country has been destroyed and millions of people have died and tortured and come back telling me that you looked around to give the money away. You would be running for your life and only looking around to see if you were in danger. There would be no trust of strangers like that.
But I'm glad she is able to be protected from this. It's nice to see that some people haven't been corrupted by the harsh reality of the world and are able to be sheltered enough from danger and have enough resources so that they don't need to give in to the parts of themselves that they would hate to admit about themselves because nobody wants to face that. It just is though. It's a different reality than hers and I hope it stays that way.
😅😅 I understand what you saying but your thoughts went really far but its absolutely amazing that you're aware
@@victoryjessey yea, well unlike her I've been homeless twice after more trauma than you can imagine so I've had plenty of time to think this stuff over
and because of all my trauma, people don't understand why I cant control the volume of my voice when I get upset. even after I tell them my mother molested me, my best friend killed herself, I was trafficked, my dad threw me down the stairs, blah blah blah. people don't care and they act like my anger that i feel everyday from reliving trauma isn't justified. because those people don't actually have enough empathy to comprehend how painful it really is. which is why I think it's crazy when people like tamera call themselves an empath. because people like her are actually pretty weak and don't have the threshold to feel as much pain as certain situations would create. which means she doesn't actually empathize with others and just looks down on them from her innocent eyes.
@@qualia5953 Well I truly sympathise with you for all you have gone through. Sometimes we don't know out strengths and weaknesses until we are in a situation and I can see that you are very strong. Empathy and sympathy are slightly different though. I think Tam is more of a sympathetic person. I don't know if you believe in God but I will put you in my prayers and I pray that the Lord upholds you. I for one know I can't even imagine up to the extent the kind of trauma you feel. When I'm alone I think "if any of my friends ever commit suicide, I don't even know how I would feel about that". Its obvious that life has dealt you a bad hand but I hope you are better today and I hope you continue to be better.
@@victoryjessey yea she's sympathetic and that's not something bad, so she isn't going to need to look any further into it to actually see that it's just her ego. and people say they are sorry and im sure it makes them feel bad/upset to hear about what I've been through but pretty much everyone just wants to ignore the stuff that makes them feel bad/upset. and i'm not strong. I've tried to kill myself many times. I think it's up to 4 times now. the first time was after my father told me to kill myself and I had a heart monitor in the ER but nobody visited me. My father only came to visit me to tell me "we can't deal with you" and his partner that I've known since I was a toddler and also raised me was apparently too busy working to even visit me and I was told not to even call him. and he didn't call me either. Just made me realize how right I was to think I was such a burden to everybody. I haven't believed in god since I was like 5 years old, maybe 7. That's when my mother explained to me what suicide was and said that she just might be suicidal again and that's just her disorder. And she told me that right after that part where I said I nearly starved. She had me call my aunt to teach me how to cook after I was crying for days about how hungry I was. My aunt didn't visit or call anyone to check on me in person. I was at home crying and begging my mom to eat the next few days after that though. She kept refusing and saying she wanted to die. I think she was trying to starve herself. But when she got better, she acted like she was the parent but she couldn't even take care of me by herself. She screamed at me when I would get angry, which of course happens to any kid that goes through that kind of thing. The rage you feel makes your tears burn. The kind you can't heal from completely, not ever. And then she played the victim and pressed charges on me when I was only 9 years old and again when I was ten. She made me believe that I was bad. And I don't mean that I did something bad. Because she constantly told me that I couldn't control my emotions before she even pressed charges. And she never provided me proper therapy, she only brought me to a study consistently so she could make money from the study. Moved so many times. I moved 20 times by the time I was 14. Not an exaggeration. And no army parent, no travel jobs. Just really unstable. And I never got a chance to learn how to handle my anger. So I either use it to punish myself or scream at people now. And I don't know how to do any different. And people act like me being self-aware is a great thing. But people don't understand what that kind of self-awareness means. Because it's like being cursed. Wishing you had someone to help guide you through the way you need to be guided, the way you were supposed to be as a child. But now being an adult and finally being able to realize so many things that I thought were normal, were actually trauma and that my anger is justified. And because I'm adult people expect more of me. But I don't get how I'm supposed to control myself when I was programmed to not believe that I can but that I'm also innately bad because I can't. And everybody hates it. They say they can't help me because I'm angry. And I don't see the point in trying. Because the only other way for me to get help is to focus on hurting myself instead of screaming at people. And I guess that's what everyone wants. That really is what everyone wants. People don't realize it. But they are actually more cruel than I am just by not being able to control the volume of my voice. Because I've worked hard on handling my emotions more than anyone knows. Over 10,000 hours of meditation. But even that isn't enough. It would take a lifetime or several to get over everything. Can't live like this. I can't keep living like this. Nobody ever loved me. The only person who listens to me is my rheumatologist. I have an autoimmune disorder that started right after I got taken away by CPS. It's the stress that kills. That's what they say. I didn't even know it stressed me out as much as it did. When CPS showed up, I wasn't even shocked. I had been waiting outside alone in the sun for about 4 hours. I knew she wasn't going to show up. I knew something happened with her again. We didn't even have a home at that point. I called the police on her fiancé after he hit me, and we were living with him. I already saw her attack someone and then get peppersprayed and knocked to the ground by the police years before that when I was 10. Or the other time when she forced me to pay the rent when I was only 11. I don't even want to get into the other stuff yet. It's just thoughts that come to my mind a lot. How much of a narcissist to people actually have to be to be able to function. I don't understand why my mother even calls herself an empath too. Because she's still delusional af. She really believes that she is a woman of god, and that she only wants to help people. But she literally did all of that to me and never apologized or owned up to it. I blocked her and I was trying to find a text for a coupon that I accidentally deleted and I saw that she texted me about how difficult I was when I was 1 years old and 2 years old. Like she literally brings up stuff about me being an infant as either an excuse for herself or the most insane and idiotic explanation of how she's the reasonable one. She never stopped bringing up how I hit her when I was 9, when she had me arrested. I don't know how much more humiliation I would need, but apparently that wasn't enough. And she still has tried to kiss me and molest me into my 20s. I had told her no over and over again. But I can't even say "no", because that gives her the opportunity to shove her tongue down my throat. Like I'm literally unable to say "no". And it doesn't even matter to her that I've said no for decades. I've screamed at her for decades. And then she always acts like I'm being mean. And she'll bring up different stuff from the past. But the one thing that she always says is "You always used to let me do it". That's what she would say in 2001 and she still says it now. Any time I wanted a hug, and remember I moved so many times that I had NOBODY else. So anytime I wanted a hug, I had to remember to turn my face away from hers or she might try to stick her tongue in my mouth again. I can't stand eye contact. I don't feel safe. So many times, I tried to look her in the eyes and just smile. And she lunges on me. But she acts as if this is okay or normal. And she denies so much of it. And now that I'm older, I realized I need to warn people and tell them not to let their kids near her and so many people are telling ME that I should be ashamed for telling the TRUTH? And all I have is the truth in the end. And It isn't enough. It's never enough. And everyone hates me for it. And nobody else wants to face it. And why would they. Why would they try to? They see me as a burden. Because if they have to try to feel what I'm going through in order to help me. They will never want that or wish that on anyone, but they won't make that sacrifice for themselves because they don't love me. They don't care about me. They won't face pain together. I'm alone. I'm all alone. I've always been alone. And the only people who reach out to me, who seem like they care or just want to be around just end up hurting me even further. Yes, I know it's long. I don't have a life to look forward to so I don't see why not typing out this kind of stuff. If people think it's too much, then they don't even get the point of about everything I'm saying anyways and most people don't so it doesn't matter when I'm damned if I do and I'm damned if I don't. I'll be stuck in this eternal hell all alone with nobody to ever care about me anyways. Just a little glimmer of hope when I see my rheumatologist and then when she dies, I'll truly be all alone and there will be nothing left to look forward to.
@@qualia5953 Well, alright I read everything and I pray you find someone in which you won't feel alone anymore, God or man. I pray you do. I pray the Lord finds you and I pray that things get better for you. And YOU have a purpose.
I’m fkn dead at jeanie sleeping while tam explains lmfaooooooo
I wish everyone success. More health, money and happiness
Tamera's so sweet. Somebody gonna con the mess outta her if she dont wise up lol
Right! Like stop being so fucking naiive..
Tamera , you don't need to explain. God bless you!
I’m with Adrienne on this one. I was cracking up 😂
I agree with Tamera. I’d try to find out who owns it too, but if there was NOBODY around, then I’d keep it.
No Loni! It’s not a “sister sister” mentality! I actually do believe that Tamera would do this even before the money and fame 😌
I love all the girls! Tamera you are a great example to everyone when we are just thinking about ourselves first and immediately going to we deserve it when it’s not ours way may be causing others pain. Our gain should not be someone else’s lose, when you know you can prevent it.
Tamara CANT LEAVE😭😭😭😭 IM LITERALLY CRYING
I'm sorry Tam. No ma'am. Take that money because if you find it. Thats your blessing lol !!
If someone was missing money you wouldn't have to ask around.
"Just a hundred bill floating around"
Bisss when???where??? Why???
Adrienne gon say “Jeannie’s broke ass”😂😂
I always find money lol I found a 50 literally blowing in the wind. I’m weak that Adrienne said it wasn’t in the 4 walls🤣
They need Ms Darlene on the show she raised some amazing people I wanna hear her wisdom
1:15 Jeannie always breaking things into parts 😭😭😂😂
Everyone is so rude, tam is trying to say something they just pretend like they fall asleep let her talk for once God!!!!!😒😤😠😑🙄
That's what friends do.
Tamera keep doing your thing. Some people just don't have morals.
I am a good girl at heart just like lovely Tamera😘. I agree with her 150% and that’s how I also live my life by the Grace of God! You reap what you sow and God is always watching over you.🙏❤️😊
I mean, I don't want to keep money that isn't mine. I just don't like the idea of taking money that may belong to someone in need or something. So if it was a wallet I would not keep it, ID or not because I know it belongs to someone...
... but if I was in poverty living on a park bench I'm pretty sure my mentality would change. I can't speak for that hypothetical version of myself but I can imagine taking what crosses my path depending on how desperate I am. Hunger and fear can be huge motivators.
I love Tamera ❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼 I know I’ll see her in Heaven. Always glorifying God. God bless you and your fam.
If I found a purse/ wallet with ID I would return it. One time I found a 20$ bill near the atm machine. I kept it because no one was in front of me or around so I had no clue who it could have belonged too. Lol
Jennie looking like “f*** that I’m keeping the cash”😂😂😂😂
Matthew 25:21
“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’.
I'm with you, Tam. God is good all the time.💓🙏
And to Loni, Jeannie and Adrienne: " Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says". James 1:22
I went to a Christian middle school. We had a chapel and I found $100 on the floor so I gave it to my teacher so that he can put it in the offering for the next Sunday service. Lol, my classmates were not happy .
Nah I’m broke if I find money I’m keeping it
As a Muslim woman, I totally agree with Tamera! God will bless you for doing the right thing!
They all look so good here
I need to be in that same park Tamera in if somebody lose 100k “thank god you found my missing money” lol
Tamera... no... if you ask me “did you drop this $100 bill?” Ima say hell yeah girl thank youuuuu
Ive found numerous stuff throughout my years...Wallets, cc, debit card, cash, phones, purses...Ive always given it back, except cash by itself.
If I find money I'm taking it, periodt.
I'm with Tamara if God sends you something then it's for you, so if she goes around seeing who it belongs to it will get denied either way cuz if God wants you to have it it's for you.Tamara please never change who you are. What you stand for is amazing....
YASS TAM. Don't sleep on Tam like that Jeannie hahaha
I once saw a group of boys walk off and one forgetting his thermos, so I ran and gave it to them (he was very grateful). Immediately after that, I sat down on a train and there was a wallet right beside me. It was really weird. I felt like I a guardian angel or the main character in a cheesy feel-good movie. It felt good. A lot better than if I'd kept the thermos or took the money...
I’m a Muslim and I completely agree with Tamera God will always have a way for u ❤️
Lmao if it’s an wallet I’m returning it, but if I just find some money with nothing else I’m keeping it 😂 like Ade said “that’s a blessing” 😂
I’m with Tamera 100%. ❤️
This actually happened to me. I found a wallet in the parking lot with money ID, CC everything! And I was about 16 years old. I went straight home to tell my parents that we needed to return the wallet. And when we did the man was soooo happy and gave me $50 for returning it. Just do the right thing guys ❤️
Once I dropped a £5 which tbh is significant for me as a student and this lady picked it up and I thought she would return it (she saw me drop it) but she picked it and ran. I didn't try to stop her, bc I figured if she's really gonna do that maybe she really needs that kind of money
nah, she's just trifling and has no morals lol especially if she saw you drop it
Someone picked up a money order from me, when I left my purse on the ground. I was at Aldi's, trying to unleash a cart. So, it went floating away. But I saw her have it & I questioned her. She claimed it was hers. In the back of my head, I knew I didn't even write anything on it yet. I knew I could've been screwed. I said," Alright, how much is your money order?" Bc mine was 3/400, something like that. That's a good chunk of change. She made up some number, like I knew she would, so that it was incorrect & I "snatched" it from her hand. I didn't "snatch" sh from her tho, it was mine anyways. I was ready... Don't w/ me! 😤😑✋.
Tams explanation of faith on that .!! Yas❤
Tamera is either lying to us or herself. If her kids are hungry shes not giving up that money
I used to work retail, and I once had a very rude customer come into my store to do a return, and when he opened up his wallet to get his credit card for me to do the refund (that's why he was upset...he assumed he was getting cash), I saw something fall on the floor. Thinking it was probably old receipts or a business card or something, I figured he saw it and didn't care because he was being a jerk. So as he was walking toward the door, I walked around the counter to pick it up and dispose of it, and it's $60 (three $20 bills) laying there. If you think I was going to yell and get his attention to give it back to him, you're crazy. Had he been nice, I absolutely would have. As it stood, I figured it was a reward from the universe for putting up with him (and other rude customers) and karma for him for being a jerk.