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  • @LotusHeartTeachings
    @LotusHeartTeachings 2 місяці тому +1

    Such a powerful message! Being kind is important, but setting boundaries is equally crucial. Thank you for sharing this insightful story!

  • @Fixingtodraw
    @Fixingtodraw 11 місяців тому +94

    “Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me.”
    -Al Capone

    • @KrystalLee-i3w
      @KrystalLee-i3w 9 місяців тому +2

      And that is real talk 💯

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 9 місяців тому

      Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

    • @MySpiritualFreedom2.0
      @MySpiritualFreedom2.0 9 місяців тому

      Very true👌❤❤❤❤

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 9 місяців тому +1

      @@MySpiritualFreedom2.0 Yes very true.

  • @thembinkosidube3918
    @thembinkosidube3918 11 місяців тому +29

    "Let go of your,cruelity but I did not mean for you to abandon your responsibilities"-Lord Bhuddha.
    God bless
    Thank you 💕...

  • @BuddhistInsightsforPL
    @BuddhistInsightsforPL 3 місяці тому +1

    Such an inspiring message on peaceful living through Buddhism. Thank you for this!

  • @cynthialobo1500
    @cynthialobo1500 10 місяців тому +46

    Most of the time people take my kindness and forgiveness as my weakness.

    • @pinkifloyd7867
      @pinkifloyd7867 10 місяців тому +1

      Its ok love them anyway for taking your bad karma from you 😅

  • @Nikolatesla7386
    @Nikolatesla7386 11 місяців тому +75

    WHENEVER I FEEL DISTRACTED WHILE STUDYING I USED TO WATCH YOUR VIDEOS

    • @gunajothisekar5053
      @gunajothisekar5053 11 місяців тому +4

      Which is also a distraction

    • @AkshayKrmishra
      @AkshayKrmishra 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@gunajothisekar5053 and the time which u are commenting is also a distraction

    • @EC-yd9yv
      @EC-yd9yv 11 місяців тому +5

      Taking a moment to gain wisdom, while in a moment of distraction, can indeed be wise.😉

    • @EC-yd9yv
      @EC-yd9yv 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@AkshayKrmishra😑

    • @VideosWithR
      @VideosWithR 10 місяців тому

      ua-cam.com/video/1oqh0UptpZA/v-deo.htmlsi=voZJPhdfzy4eQwst

  • @ManishKushwaha36
    @ManishKushwaha36 11 місяців тому +30

    setting boundries is imp so that people will not be able to take the advantage they are looking for.
    thank you for the lesson.

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому

      You said it correctly. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @alphasuperior100
    @alphasuperior100 11 місяців тому +36

    Buddha was so wise this applies to me sometimes I am too kind and people take advantage of me. I use to be more assertive when I was younger maybe I should go back to that state to some extent.😊

    • @smilingrose89
      @smilingrose89 11 місяців тому +1

      I wish you all the best in it 🤩🤩

    • @officialmed5537
      @officialmed5537 10 місяців тому +1

      Sometimes it looks like being too kind doesn't always fit

    • @discountmorty213
      @discountmorty213 10 місяців тому +3

      careful who you are kind to.Once a China emperor was too kind and forgiving and lost his life to traitors

    • @vinnysing1324
      @vinnysing1324 10 місяців тому +2

      I was too kind to help and that person scammed me.

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 9 місяців тому

      Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @i_love_tibet7001
    @i_love_tibet7001 9 місяців тому +3

    Beautiful story......If all the people of this world practice Buddhism, then Our world will be a very beautiful and peaceful place...... it will benefit all the future generations. Definately far from the current suffering, unrest and chaos. The Nature and Animals won't suffer too. Buddhism is treasure to all mankind. Namo Buddha 🙏☸️🪷😇❤️🌈

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому

      Its truly a beautiful story. Please allow me to interrupt. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @JustMeB729
    @JustMeB729 10 місяців тому +7

    It's always been my mantra and I'm 60 years old. Don't take my kindness for weakness 😊.

  • @johnlowe-tq6ey
    @johnlowe-tq6ey 9 місяців тому +2

    I am grateful for your help and kindness....you have taught me to be compassionate and to be nice to everyone.

  • @kantavekaria7085
    @kantavekaria7085 10 місяців тому +31

    Even family take advantage of kindness. Now I have changed and learned to give what I get. It has really shocked people ..!!❤❤❤

    • @user-fs5lc2dl7t
      @user-fs5lc2dl7t 10 місяців тому +5

      Yes... I can't remember where I read it but it was... "we teach people how to treat us"... and sometimes that can be a bit painful to admit... but it is true.

    • @karinweynen4270
      @karinweynen4270 10 місяців тому +1

      Good for you!! I still struggle with it, but getting better with my boundaries. 😊

    • @MySpiritualFreedom2.0
      @MySpiritualFreedom2.0 9 місяців тому

      😮😮😮😮

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому

      Yes, even the family takes advantage for kindness. Please allow me to interrupt. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you. Thanks.

    • @BuddhasTeachingsHT
      @BuddhasTeachingsHT 3 місяці тому

      What if meditation wasn’t just a short escape from stress, but a journey that leads to profound self-realization? How could viewing each meditation session as a step toward enlightenment shift your daily perspective, and what deeper insights could you unlock by embracing this practice with a new mindset?"

  • @karizkimuliati5706
    @karizkimuliati5706 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow...I am so grateful that universe show me this video, thank you for this lesson

  • @birdbrainsolutions6112
    @birdbrainsolutions6112 10 місяців тому +5

    What I especially like about this video is that you actually read it yourself, not text to speech. Thank you for you that

  • @wesleycs859
    @wesleycs859 11 місяців тому +23

    Be a good person,but not a foolish one!!!

  • @user-fs5lc2dl7t
    @user-fs5lc2dl7t 10 місяців тому +4

    Always a timely message and important to remember to maintain balance for all.

  • @srishtiiiii806
    @srishtiiiii806 10 місяців тому +5

    This background music that plays along with your moral stories: It encourages me from within, it gives me a very good feeling….😊

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому +1

      I didn't notice the background music. Please allow me to interrupt. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you. Thankyou.

  • @buddhabloomvn
    @buddhabloomvn 3 місяці тому

    Understanding karma from this perspective really helps me reflect on my actions. Thank you!

  • @ganashok9817
    @ganashok9817 7 місяців тому +2

    Very good story. This is needed in today's world. I learnt from this story

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому

      Yes, stories like these are needed in this world. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you. Hope you understand.

  • @jerseypooh4664
    @jerseypooh4664 9 місяців тому +1

    Being kind doesn’t mean being weak. I’m shifting the balance slowly, it’s about not putting up with rubbish or being walked over.

  • @jothidrop2656
    @jothidrop2656 3 місяці тому

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @Cklim_steve
    @Cklim_steve 10 місяців тому

    i totally agree. i can show empathy towards other but not abandon my responsibility and those who took my kindness as my weakness. Buddha is the best teacher. Amituofo

  • @TheBuddhaWithin-s3d
    @TheBuddhaWithin-s3d 3 місяці тому

    6:48 ✨ Gautama Buddha’s teachings remind us that kindness, while essential, must also come with wisdom. Sometimes, being too kind can lead to our own suffering and even exploitation 😔. This video highlights the need for balance - being kind doesn’t mean saying 'yes' to everything or sacrificing ourselves. 🧘‍♂ True compassion means knowing when to set boundaries. Just as Buddha taught, we need to care for ourselves first to truly live in peace and offer genuine love to others. 🕊💫

  • @spirituallightwisdom
    @spirituallightwisdom 3 місяці тому

    The video is truly meaningful, and I feel so relaxed.

  • @helenpk237
    @helenpk237 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you kind Buddha for your very wise words xx I too have been taken for granted, but not any more , I don’t visit too many times now , or do too many shopping for others who, don’t pay me back ,once or twice it happened but, now I’ve stopped visiting, I could phone these people but, somehow I might feel guilty enough to start visiting again , but, the Lord Jesus , like you dear Buddha , have wise words & spiritual strength to help me . Thank you xx Helen xx

  • @MohanArun-t6d
    @MohanArun-t6d 11 місяців тому +3

    Whenever i feel guilty about my studies i watch your videos
    The content is really nice keep it up and put a video for how to be confident while communicate with others and introvert to extrovert.

  • @khoivinh3402
    @khoivinh3402 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing the story.

  • @Iranger555
    @Iranger555 11 місяців тому +1

    Even if this is a re-upload. It feels so amazing. I would like if there will be same stories again in short to make myself aware of teachings I had forgotten these years❤❤

  • @manishkhobragade6321
    @manishkhobragade6321 10 місяців тому

    Buddha's teachings are immortal. Even they are applicable in modern era. Namo buddhay

    • @Pccpy
      @Pccpy 9 місяців тому

      It applies to all living things, don't matter what era it is.

  • @jasminyulo4713
    @jasminyulo4713 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much buddha wisdom🙏

  • @andikamiharja7700
    @andikamiharja7700 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this I forget for whole years what Buddha told to us. But now I know what should I do in future

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому +1

      Buddha keeps an eye on us. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @MrsCaranAmy
    @MrsCaranAmy 11 місяців тому +1

    I appreciate this lesson today. Thank you. Namaste 🙏✨️🕊🪷

  • @RyanPerrella
    @RyanPerrella 10 місяців тому +2

    WONDERFUL, Thank you for producing this

  • @SoniaAGranados
    @SoniaAGranados 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful! Thank you!🙏🙏😇😇🕉🕉🕉

  • @jamessteven9709
    @jamessteven9709 10 місяців тому +6

    Never be so kind you forgot to be clever. Never be so clever you forgot to be kind.

  • @ezanamelekot6796
    @ezanamelekot6796 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the story Shalander.

  • @SnowyMountainWildlife
    @SnowyMountainWildlife 3 місяці тому

    thank you

  • @deepakshrestha6713
    @deepakshrestha6713 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video i was so lost . After watching alot video of budhha god and Krishna god i became became overly kind which lead me to lost myself whenever i do something wrong or hurt someone even if it a small i keep on feeling bad regret and guilty i would overthink about this all the time and as i am a more than average student so classmate come to me and ask for help and i am very okay with that but the time i entered in class they ask question in on going class like all the time over same question i was so tired of this i want to yold them please do not disturb me or etc but i start to feel like i am becoming egotistic person who don't help others when they in need . But i guess from this video i will set boundaries it is hard for me as i am an introvert and overthinker but will try for sure thank you for this beautiful video.

  • @zaidsiddiqui7481
    @zaidsiddiqui7481 10 місяців тому +1

    Very nice video Buddha's teachings are very good

  • @boonraypipatchol7295
    @boonraypipatchol7295 9 місяців тому

    ..... 4 Noble Truth.......
    ...... Buddhism............

  • @user-gu9qz5ns7v
    @user-gu9qz5ns7v 11 місяців тому +5

    Good 👍☸️🙏namo buddhaya

  • @WadeWoodruff
    @WadeWoodruff 10 місяців тому

    From the 3 rd to the 5 th Rise UP with GOD 🙏😇🙏 Keep up with your high positive frequency vibration energy 🌎❤

  • @vishalgowdha2041
    @vishalgowdha2041 10 місяців тому

    Good explanation. I learnt a useful thing today😊. Combining kindness with strength, the latter was lacking in me.

  • @Lovelynature625
    @Lovelynature625 11 місяців тому +1

    We trust in God. 🙏🙏
    Your blessings. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @BSKingfficial
    @BSKingfficial 11 місяців тому +6

    Everyday I look your speech from love South Garo hills State Meghalaya in India Country ❤

  • @PSRaghothamRao-zi3cc
    @PSRaghothamRao-zi3cc 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you I learnt what you feel is true. Do that.

  • @ghoshbabu1532
    @ghoshbabu1532 5 місяців тому +339

    there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

  • @lightmystic3792
    @lightmystic3792 10 місяців тому +4

    I remember one of my new friend become rude with me in front of others and start disrespecting me for no reason as i was always nice and soft with him.....and one day i felt bit angry for his misbehave and blasted on him in front of others and he was shocked to see my that side. but after that he stayed away from me....and spoke very gentle only :)

  • @Lovelynature625
    @Lovelynature625 11 місяців тому +1

    Amazing thought 😮😮
    Gratitude 🙏🙏

  • @sujathareddy974
    @sujathareddy974 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you

  • @Lovelynature625
    @Lovelynature625 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much 🙏🙏

  • @koolkatfelix9500
    @koolkatfelix9500 10 місяців тому +2

    Forgiveness is taken as a weakness!

  • @brianmcconnell1817
    @brianmcconnell1817 10 місяців тому

    “You can only teach so much with kindness.” Alfred Hitchcock

  • @TinaNalim-s9i
    @TinaNalim-s9i 10 місяців тому

    Beautiful story ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marydoccuvi9871
    @marydoccuvi9871 10 місяців тому

    FOREVER GRATEFUL.🤲

  • @goldendiamon
    @goldendiamon 11 місяців тому +6

    Being kind is different from being a pushover

  • @naren84
    @naren84 9 місяців тому +1

    I remember reading this snake story in a book where Ramakrishna Paramahamsa narrated to his disciples on how to handle evil people. Good one though .

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 6 місяців тому

      I also remember the story. But its a Buddhist story. Please allow me to interrupt. I feel Buddhists should know this. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @MichaelTeoh
    @MichaelTeoh 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank You for this inspiration!

  • @ivarhakuse8572
    @ivarhakuse8572 10 місяців тому

    Very very true!!! Happens to me all the time.

  • @boonraypipatchol7295
    @boonraypipatchol7295 9 місяців тому

    Don't do bad,
    Do good,
    Purify own.....

  • @alfredjeevandsouza6643
    @alfredjeevandsouza6643 11 місяців тому +1

    Nice story ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @KA-yz2ld
    @KA-yz2ld 9 місяців тому

    Thank you.

  • @VanessaFloyd-tt7yg
    @VanessaFloyd-tt7yg 10 місяців тому

    A delightful video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @VanessaFloyd-tt7yg
      @VanessaFloyd-tt7yg 10 місяців тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach her?

    • @VanessaFloyd-tt7yg
      @VanessaFloyd-tt7yg 10 місяців тому

      valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive Thank you for this

  • @ZenMaster-v9u
    @ZenMaster-v9u 6 місяців тому

    very wonderful tkan you

  • @trillioncrowns
    @trillioncrowns 9 місяців тому +19

    wrong... every time someone hurts me, attacks me, makes fun of me, hates me! i let them go.... i turn the other cheek! why you ask? because 100% of the time they will pay... i dont create reality! this is not my world! someone or something is watching it all.... and no one! i mean no one gets away with anything.. you must learn this... let the universe unfold! be good to people who hate you! bless those who curse you! and you will will see yourself! you will begin to fell sorry for those people...even death will follow them! but dont become them!...

    • @lokesh30592
      @lokesh30592 6 місяців тому +1

      I agree , be kind anyway, universe is watching every move

    • @De_Toro
      @De_Toro 3 місяці тому

      That leads to suffering, you didn't understand

    • @trillioncrowns
      @trillioncrowns 3 місяці тому

      @@De_Toro fear leads to anger.. anger leads to hate.. hate leads to suffering... ps have someone ever wronged you so bad? And you let it go.... and then they suffer without you getting involved! No one gets away with anything...

    • @De_Toro
      @De_Toro 3 місяці тому +1

      @@trillioncrowns fear, anger and hatred are all mental states, the video is not about being mistreated and reacting impulsivity as you say but about paññā and Karuna (wisdom and compassion) balanced. And yes, we all know the law of kamma

  • @universalconnection5087
    @universalconnection5087 11 місяців тому +1

    So inspiring 😊

  • @Venky.k
    @Venky.k 11 місяців тому +2

    I used to watch ur videos before my board examinations❤

  • @ananyakundu8280
    @ananyakundu8280 8 місяців тому

    Too lovely

  • @Dmitriy_D
    @Dmitriy_D 11 місяців тому +4

    "Hissing" doesn't always work too, sometimes you have to "bite".

    • @deanyanko3326
      @deanyanko3326 11 місяців тому

      I've "coiled " restrained aggressive opponents without meanness when attacked. totally in control.

  • @friday6426
    @friday6426 10 місяців тому

    Sometimes it is hard to find someone else is exploiting your kindness.

  • @JourneyofSpirits-qi8nb
    @JourneyofSpirits-qi8nb 10 місяців тому

    so great, thanks

  • @TheExplorer_76
    @TheExplorer_76 11 місяців тому +2

    Love your videos 🥰

  • @manasakm927
    @manasakm927 10 місяців тому +1

    So nice video.. learnt so much!!

  • @wolfgangleander.K
    @wolfgangleander.K 6 місяців тому

    Don't do anything good and nothing bad will happen to you. 😊

  • @ghostleopard570
    @ghostleopard570 9 місяців тому

    Yes being to kind will lead you to be used and abused by others, draw a line in your kind deeds. Offer then advice instead of solving the problems for them only then you'll learn to lessons required to maintain your own life..... you don't necessarily need a religion to teach you this. It is a state of mind.

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 11 місяців тому +1

    Good advice, thanks!

  • @peterdkhar2007
    @peterdkhar2007 7 місяців тому

    Very true we must be gentle as a dove and clever as a snake 😁

  • @buddhaexhumed9922
    @buddhaexhumed9922 9 місяців тому

    Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @najmulsk900
    @najmulsk900 11 місяців тому +1

    So nice video.. i am looking forward to getting this video..

  • @hgsgknnnmmlolb
    @hgsgknnnmmlolb 9 місяців тому +2

    All pet animals deserve kindness!!

  • @mwj5368
    @mwj5368 10 місяців тому +1

    In 1973 I was unemployed and an unemployment counselor lied and said Job Corps was a great thing. I joined and encountered a lot of mistreatment. Another corpsman, a guy from the Philippines whose Grandfather was 106 and still working his lifelong trade of evaporating seawater to harvest the salt. I think he inherited his grandfather's ways. He said to me that I was so nice I was "gooey nice" and that I could not go through life that way and succeed. I of course went on in life being nice to others because I had been that way so much I let it dominate me just because I felt it was the right thing, the right way to be to all. I went on to be ill treated in many of the minimum wage jobs I worked all of my life, and in my day to day life of those around me. I also failed in many ways except for when I returned to my hometown and took care of my aging mother and also helped my father who lived 4 miles away as they had divorced when I was in high school. I consider it my greatest achievement in life. So where am I now? Alone on a rock and a universe away.

    • @siyarakb5305
      @siyarakb5305 10 місяців тому +1

      Being treated unequally at work, family taking us for granted, society using our kindness as a weakness. List goes on & on. All I can say is you are not alone, all kind hearted people are in the exact same position. We are few in this universe , so yes we don't meet many of our kind. No one has our back, but God will lead us by our hand 🙏 Have faith in yourself.

    • @AliAkbarAfghan123
      @AliAkbarAfghan123 10 місяців тому +1

      Be kind to those that deserve you are kindness. But i believe you have to stand up to vicious bullies that exist in every facet of society but at the process not lose you are identity and become something you were not. So balance of everything is key.

  • @DebashisMalik-s2c
    @DebashisMalik-s2c 5 місяців тому

    The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

  • @BuddhismBliss-eng
    @BuddhismBliss-eng 5 місяців тому

    Being kind is great, but don't forget to prioritize your own needs too.

  • @Clone_47
    @Clone_47 10 місяців тому

    If we all were too kind all problems would be solved. I know where it comes from but. That path leads to resentment

  • @stoicpeacewarrior4174
    @stoicpeacewarrior4174 11 місяців тому +1

    I need this video 🙏❤

  • @williammwando3308
    @williammwando3308 11 місяців тому +2

    Wise words

  • @edwardy3299
    @edwardy3299 10 місяців тому +3

    Don’t be weak, speak up

    • @AmitKumar-56001
      @AmitKumar-56001 10 місяців тому

      Check my account sir 😄😄😄😄

  • @ganashok9817
    @ganashok9817 11 місяців тому +2

    Very good

  • @larry-om9tg
    @larry-om9tg 10 місяців тому

    Good story.

  • @Lovelynature625
    @Lovelynature625 11 місяців тому +1

    We inspire. 😮😮

  • @JonathanDgenesis
    @JonathanDgenesis 11 місяців тому +1

    True story

  • @MustAfaalik
    @MustAfaalik 9 місяців тому

    "Make peace, be kind, be gentle with others AND yourself". Even in Shaolin Temple, the motto is Avoid rather than check, Check rather than hurt, Hurt rather than break, Break rather than kill. Don't be a Victim! Unless you a a highly trained Bhikkhu/Bhikkhuni on the path to be fully enlighten.

  • @sibymathews182
    @sibymathews182 10 місяців тому

    Tell this story to Nursery kids...

  • @meditationthien1662
    @meditationthien1662 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @blackisbeauty4210
    @blackisbeauty4210 11 місяців тому +4

    I can be very nice but I have another side I'm unpredictable to some I have days where I'm nice because I know how to and let go of negativity remarks and I have days they don't wanna see.

    • @smilingrose89
      @smilingrose89 11 місяців тому +2

      I guess it's normal haha your mood fluctuates, that's ok! Just do your best to controle yourself, it may cause confusions to people when you suddenly go stricter haha there is probably a balance to find, it will happen slowly, don't worry!

  • @IslavathKusuma-eb7vg
    @IslavathKusuma-eb7vg 11 місяців тому +2

  • @leelee8816
    @leelee8816 10 місяців тому

    🙏🏻❤️

  • @YVYANGEL16
    @YVYANGEL16 10 місяців тому

    Yes I should learn 1st.

  • @wensjoeliz722
    @wensjoeliz722 10 місяців тому

    NO SE PUEDE CAMBIAR CUANDO ES SU NATURALEZA

  • @LiangHongWei
    @LiangHongWei 10 місяців тому

    As an individual whom study Buddhism, my advise will be, do not be over reliant on words in any story.
    Also, Buddha will never advise any individual to protect their own land. As its obvious that lands belong to every being. It doesn't belong to anyone in specific forever.