I spent my young adult life putting aside things that I needed to do for myself to help others every time they needed it. When I got older , I realized how unfulfilled I was in my own life because I had done so much for others and so little for myself. I started to say no to people and found that people had gotten so used to me just dropping what I was doing to help them , that they hated me for saying no. Now I have no friends or family who will talk to me anymore because they say I'm selfish. In reality, they're the selfish ones because they never once helped me or cared about my needs.They tell me they can't even remember me helping them or what I ever did for them. I sure was important to them when they needed my help but as soon as their needs were met, they soon forgot how important of a part I played in making their wishes come true. Nowadays I feel like a fool for having given up so much of my time to ungrateful people but thankful that I'm now living a more fulfilling life for myself.
Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰
Thanku.. Needed those words at this moment and eventually found those at right time. I literally needed good wishes for my luck, if my luck favours me this time, my whole family life will change.plss pray for my good luck.
Can relate. I hope you learn to take care of yourself and set boundaries. It can be hard but if they don't respect you , then withdraw. Maybe watch some videos about toxic friends and spend some time taking care of yourself ...like positive affirmations, going for walks , Journaling, etc . If you're religious like a Christian then pray because God cares even if it doesn't seem like it .
I am so glad you've made this video. It's good to teach children kindness as this will bring joy in their lives too, but teach them to be protective of themselves too. I've Liked this video, hoping it will help the algorithm to spread this message. Thank you again.
I spent my 30 years of life helping friends and unknown persons so many times but I lost so many things like money and time some people cheated me different times I didn't realise at that point So kindness and love make us blind sometimes Be cautious about how the things going on !!
To Donald in the comments a very, very similar thing happened to my husband and myself. I understand your situation completely and on top of that I went through a spiritual awakening through Covid. I basically speak to about three people in my life right now and I’ve never been happier, people are just so oblivious to what you do and mean to them it is just unbelievable to me and exported almost drove us into poverty actually sent us an invitation to his snotty son‘s wedding today. I cannot wait to send it back ASAP. Of course we’re not going but the audacity of this family to even think that we would want to even go to this wedding is just so unbelievable to me. It just shows the narcissism of people, yes it took me also a very long time to realize this. All of a sudden I realized I was not very happy but everybody else around me was go figure what was I doing wrong? Exactly what you were doing wrong but don’t worry because God is a comeback God he will make up for everything that you fail you lost. He truly will just keep the faith that’s what I’m doing slowly but surely my husband and I are regaining everything that we gave away. Amen. Everyone have a blessed day.
God thank you for the people that were truly there for me when they could not be in person. Even if I don’t seem to fit this scenario, it has been me at times. And it sucks. But God I send gratitude to the one’s who have defended me. So I’d like to think.
The first fight to win is within yourself. But when you’re strong enough, you can defy those who take advantage of other’s weakness. This , is the way for the strong.
As a giver I have come to learn that the one to be wise is the giver and not receiver. Yes it is more blessed to give then to receive but receivers do not have limits , they build themselves at other people’s expense and become entitled in most cases. They are takers and don’t care what it costs you.The giver must be wise and set boundaries otherwise you will just be building others and not yourself, in the end you start holding grudges and being resentful towards those you helped, as you help others do the same with yourself. You only have one life to live and must enjoy it🙏🔥❤️
This is very helpful for me, since I’m learning to be more assertive. I’ve unfortunately had toxic friends in the past who tried to give me advice, but in a harsh tone and doesn’t respect my boundaries
This is wisdom. Religion , especially Christianity, often teaches us to be a Good Samaritan, but it can get you killed if 'the wrong person encourages you to "help' them. Discernment and boundaries are the key.
The ability to say No is always very important because you need to protect your peace by all means, people really do not care until they need you for something, so please take your time to use these words Yes/No.
Kidnapper pretends to be blind man to get kind hearted kid to help bring him home where a gang in ambush lie await to kidnap kids. Not everyone out there has good intentions and you need to protect yourself. Being kind is important but you shouldn’t let others take advantage of your kindness. Learn to say no when necessary and set boundaries with others. Be kind and strong. Find balance in life. "Kindness makes us better human beings, yet in this world, both good and bad people exist. It's crucial to remain cautious, as some may exploit our kindness for their own gain.
While not the same thing, i can sort of relate to Tim a bit here i always find myself encouraging others to be the best they can and don't be so hard on themselves. On the flip side i never do the same thing to myself and often struggle to make time to myself or find motivation and joy with things.
This is the first time I've written this down: I met a 12th level angel recently while trying to assist a man who had had an accident. The farmer had cuts that required stitches on his face. I tried to take him to the hospital but, as the saying goes, 'You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.' So, he wouldn't go. The night before, the angel told me afterwards, I had acquired a malevolent entity while helping a German man passed out on the sidewalk. The angel extracted the entity from me, and gave me energy. Having learned my lesson, I saw an incident just two days ago where something unfair was happening on the street. I just walked away from it because I want to retain my health and well-being. I praise God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit because I have been lucky. Naivety is a subtle thing.
Tim's lucky, the people accepted his change in attitude. In the real world, somebody who allows everybody to take advantage of them would immediately be accused of being unreasonable and selfish, the first time they stand up for themself.
I’ve lost many friends that way. Once I stood up for myself, they were cold and distant towards me, and didn’t want me around anymore. My parents call me “disrespectful” too, when I stand up to their rude behavior or disagree with them. And I’m 43! 😅
Standing up for yourself is good, standing up for others is good. Doing both is great. Knowing when to do each one is godly. The story resonates with me because it's basically just my story. Most will take this as a story of balancing kindness and strength but there are two other factors that also need to be balanced: I needed to make sure my kindness didn't become associated weakness, and I needed to make sure my strength didn't become associated with cruelty. Once I realize kindness is not weakness it made it really easy to intuit that strength is not cruelty. They kindness and strength, are tools and like any tool you need to properly assess the problem to know which one is appropriate.... And that part just takes trial and error... And error and error and er- OH S*** I GOT IT RIGHT THIS TIME 😂
Sometimes you dont know who the people you help, in expecting that bad people would change for the better. (To set a good example) In the other hand.. To the kind hearted if fooled can also change them to b "cold" and not care. "Maybe" this world is sometimes not meant for 😇 Until the kind❤ ones will go to Heaven where everthing is GOOD Just take care.
It will depend on what is your mission to the freedom, which path will lead you to your freedom by serving others with no expectations, You are responsible for your own happiness and Noone else is also not responsible for your happiness and fulfillment. You are also not responsible to make others to be happy. But you are responsible to make a choice to give with what you are willing to give with no expectations.
I still get kicked by life. I help people and they get settled. But when I need help I fall into more problem. I rise from a hole only to find my self slip back into another hole. At times I feel to get real rude in life but again I can't. Can't decide at times should I be good or rude. Life at times place huge joke with me.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
These AI apps you used to create these images are built on the uncompensated work of real people. Making it worse, they undercut the jobs of these human designers and artist, all while using their own work to do it!
Luisa Madrigal also needs to stand up for herself and set boundaries. Luisa from encanto is constantly sacrificing her own needs, happiness and wants to help others. Luisa allows everyone to take advantage of her kindness and take her for granted. Everyone tells Luisa to do them favors, and Luisa always does what people want her to do, and even though she needs a break, she is too afraid to stand up for herself. Luisa is a submissive doormat and people pleaser who lets everyone walk all over her and doesn’t take care of herself this video reminded me exactly of her
While i understand the message the video wants to convey, it is a bit confusing. The story's turning point is not relevant to one context (kindness). Being kind is one thing and being cautious to be able to make good judgement is another thing. But yes, key point is to find balance in everything we do and to add in a little caution upon our kindness .... not to limit the kindness OR not to stop helping everyone as the title mentioned it.
OK, but if you consider a video like this important enough to make, why not get a real reader to read it? The silly mistakes auto-generated voices make are terribly distracting and as a result it very difficult to take any message seriously.
I spent my young adult life putting aside things that I needed to do for myself to help others every time they needed it. When I got older , I realized how unfulfilled I was in my own life because I had done so much for others and so little for myself. I started to say no to people and found that people had gotten so used to me just dropping what I was doing to help them , that they hated me for saying no. Now I have no friends or family who will talk to me anymore because they say I'm selfish. In reality, they're the selfish ones because they never once helped me or cared about my needs.They tell me they can't even remember me helping them or what I ever did for them. I sure was important to them when they needed my help but as soon as their needs were met, they soon forgot how important of a part I played in making their wishes come true. Nowadays I feel like a fool for having given up so much of my time to ungrateful people but thankful that I'm now living a more fulfilling life for myself.
Same thing happened to me. Its wild
Most people are selfish, greedy and full of jealousy and the kicker is it’s usually people closest to you.
Very true …I had the same experience
Same
plz follow me
Crazy how the Whispers of Manifestation book on Borlest isn’t all over the place. People are seriously missing out.
The only thing that we often need after giving is appreciation ✅💯💙!!
Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰
Thanks🤗 same to u✨ love from India🥰
Thanku.. Needed those words at this moment and eventually found those at right time. I literally needed good wishes for my luck, if my luck favours me this time, my whole family life will change.plss pray for my good luck.
This is happening to me right now...some people really do take advantage of kind hearted people. I appreciate the clip.
Amen.
Yes😢😢
I raise my hat👒 for people like Tim I wish there were more of him in this world🌍
I enjoy this video very much then. We must try too be kind to animals and people to then.
Because of kind heart I was always being hurt by my old friend
We share the same story.
Can relate. I hope you learn to take care of yourself and set boundaries. It can be hard but if they don't respect you , then withdraw. Maybe watch some videos about toxic friends and spend some time taking care of yourself ...like positive affirmations, going for walks , Journaling, etc . If you're religious like a Christian then pray because God cares even if it doesn't seem like it .
@@KianWendt A, very good advice. Thankyou.
@@KianWendt❤👍🏻
Those who hurt you were never your friends
So don’t get hurt and don’t be over friendly
I am so glad you've made this video. It's good to teach children kindness as this will bring joy in their lives too, but teach them to be protective of themselves too. I've Liked this video, hoping it will help the algorithm to spread this message.
Thank you again.
I am 58 and. I spent my life helping me people but no one was there to help me.
Me the same. I am 72.
Same 60
So sorry about that. God will surely put a smile on your face soon for helping others.
Kindness is very important but it is right be careful to help each other becuase not everyone around is kind. And same your good heart.
I literally just asked for a sign with a situation and this video popped up 🥰
Tim's lucky he learned this lesson so young! Took me till my early 30's!
It's unfortunate that there are many users in this world who only want their needs met but aren't available to reciprocate.
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I spent my 30 years of life helping friends and unknown persons so many times but I lost so many things like money and time some people cheated me different times I didn't realise at that point
So kindness and love make us blind sometimes Be cautious about how the things going on !!
Wisdom to the creater for this super content
To Donald in the comments a very, very similar thing happened to my husband and myself. I understand your situation completely and on top of that I went through a spiritual awakening through Covid. I basically speak to about three people in my life right now and I’ve never been happier, people are just so oblivious to what you do and mean to them it is just unbelievable to me and exported almost drove us into poverty actually sent us an invitation to his snotty son‘s wedding today. I cannot wait to send it back ASAP. Of course we’re not going but the audacity of this family to even think that we would want to even go to this wedding is just so unbelievable to me. It just shows the narcissism of people, yes it took me also a very long time to realize this. All of a sudden I realized I was not very happy but everybody else around me was go figure what was I doing wrong? Exactly what you were doing wrong but don’t worry because God is a comeback God he will make up for everything that you fail you lost. He truly will just keep the faith that’s what I’m doing slowly but surely my husband and I are regaining everything that we gave away. Amen. Everyone have a blessed day.
The moral of the story: Make sure the guy is blind before escorting him home. 👍
Now that's funny and very insightful
Youre so funny 😂😂😂😂
Yes we should also learn from it
BALANCE is key! 🔑
A point ❤
Correct
God thank you for the people that were truly there for me when they could not be in person. Even if I don’t seem to fit this scenario, it has been me at times. And it sucks. But God I send gratitude to the one’s who have defended me. So I’d like to think.
God will always help you find the balance.Pray to Him and he will give you the wisdom on how to live ❤
😊
Love the story and it helps me to improve my listening skills, keep going 🤩🤩
a very good awareness 🎉
The first fight to win is within yourself. But when you’re strong enough, you can defy those who take advantage of other’s weakness. This , is the way for the strong.
Love your neighbor AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF it is said. First INWARD JOURNEY and then only outward journey ❤
I had always suffered as a teenager... Trusting people... Trusting friends(called to be).... Still @30 can't get off the habit.
My life,my story as long as I keep my limits.Thanks ❤
As a giver I have come to learn that the one to be wise is the giver and not receiver. Yes it is more blessed to give then to receive but receivers do not have limits , they build themselves at other people’s expense and become entitled in most cases. They are takers and don’t care what it costs you.The giver must be wise and set boundaries otherwise you will just be building others and not yourself, in the end you start holding grudges and being resentful towards those you helped, as you help others do the same with yourself. You only have one life to live and must enjoy it🙏🔥❤️
Absolutely, i think this all suits me...
I also pray people stop using me. Or I hope to meet genuine people in the future.
If you become known as the person who tends to help people, eventually people will start using you. So just don't do it, man.
This is very helpful for me, since I’m learning to be more assertive. I’ve unfortunately had toxic friends in the past who tried to give me advice, but in a harsh tone and doesn’t respect my boundaries
how to be assertive i tried but failed
Be kind but also be cautious yet not suspicious or paranoid.
This is wisdom. Religion , especially Christianity, often teaches us to be a Good Samaritan, but it can get you killed if 'the wrong person encourages you to "help' them. Discernment and boundaries are the key.
FACTS
Christianity also tells us to be wise as serpents so I disagree.
The ability to say No is always very important because you need to protect your peace by all means, people really do not care until they need you for something, so please take your time to use these words Yes/No.
😊
Very wonderful story ❤🙏👌
Thank you so much 🌷
This is so true nice story ❤️😊
This is very helpful for me, thank you so much ❤
The most important message in life to learn not just as a human but as a soul.
It’s honestly wild how no one is talking about Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest. This book is next-level.
Wow. Interesting. Very inspiring
Kidnapper pretends to be blind man to get kind hearted kid to help bring him home where a gang in ambush lie await to kidnap kids. Not everyone out there has good intentions and you need to protect yourself. Being kind is important but you shouldn’t let others take advantage of your kindness. Learn to say no when necessary and set boundaries with others. Be kind and strong. Find balance in life. "Kindness makes us better human beings, yet in this world, both good and bad people exist. It's crucial to remain cautious, as some may exploit our kindness for their own gain.
Beautiful ❤️ it's my fault and my story. Thank you for this beautiful vedio
What a beautiful video. I've learnt something very vital
Nice guys never wins dude! Even in relationships!!!!
Yes, they do in relationships. I love nice guys and HATE bad boys
While not the same thing, i can sort of relate to Tim a bit here i always find myself encouraging others to be the best they can and don't be so hard on themselves.
On the flip side i never do the same thing to myself and often struggle to make time to myself or find motivation and joy with things.
One should not help to the extent of foolishness but good deeds surely rewarded
Amazing History!!!
Nice and informative
Thank you 🙏
Really very nice story.
Nice story
great content !
Very true😊
I love this kindnis
Good work
.....And so the moral is, DONT DO SHIT FOR ANYBODY! Be Selfish, make people earn YOU.
Lol u didn't understand
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
This is the first time I've written this down: I met a 12th level angel recently while trying to assist a man who had had an accident. The farmer had cuts that required stitches on his face. I tried to take him to the hospital but, as the saying goes, 'You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.' So, he wouldn't go. The night before, the angel told me afterwards, I had acquired a malevolent entity while helping a German man passed out on the sidewalk. The angel extracted the entity from me, and gave me energy. Having learned my lesson, I saw an incident just two days ago where something unfair was happening on the street. I just walked away from it because I want to retain my health and well-being. I praise God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit because I have been lucky. Naivety is a subtle thing.
Hello, what do you mean by a 12th level Angel?
I help people...But I notice the manipulative ones....
Tim's lucky, the people accepted his change in attitude. In the real world, somebody who allows everybody to take advantage of them would immediately be accused of being unreasonable and selfish, the first time they stand up for themself.
I’ve lost many friends that way. Once I stood up for myself, they were cold and distant towards me, and didn’t want me around anymore.
My parents call me “disrespectful” too, when I stand up to their rude behavior or disagree with them. And I’m 43! 😅
This is very true 😢😢
Standing up for yourself is good, standing up for others is good.
Doing both is great.
Knowing when to do each one is godly.
The story resonates with me because it's basically just my story.
Most will take this as a story of balancing kindness and strength but there are two other factors that also need to be balanced:
I needed to make sure my kindness didn't become associated weakness, and I needed to make sure my strength didn't become associated with cruelty.
Once I realize kindness is not weakness it made it really easy to intuit that strength is not cruelty. They kindness and strength, are tools and like any tool you need to properly assess the problem to know which one is appropriate.... And that part just takes trial and error... And error and error and er- OH S*** I GOT IT RIGHT THIS TIME 😂
Understand dear
Amen 🙏
❤❤❤❤❤
3. In the pass years i was on the under pressure stress . 4 days ago
Tim stated balance kind and standing 3:31
It’s shocking how little attention the Whispers of Manifestation book on Borlest is getting. This is the real deal.
Sometimes you dont know who the people you help, in expecting that bad people would change for the better. (To set a good example)
In the other hand..
To the kind hearted if fooled can also change them to b "cold" and not care.
"Maybe" this world is sometimes not meant for 😇
Until the kind❤ ones will go to Heaven where everthing is GOOD
Just take care.
Right.. today's time don't help anybody because if you help them they will try to down you....
Time hi kharab chal rha he Aaj kl.
👍👍😊
Big Mistakes par of life But I still No Second Chances Never 💯
❤
🙌
Hell I’m trying to help myself as well.
It will depend on what is your mission to the freedom, which path will lead you to your freedom by serving others with no expectations, You are responsible for your own happiness and Noone else is also not responsible for your happiness and fulfillment. You are also not responsible to make others to be happy. But you are responsible to make a choice to give with what you are willing to give with no expectations.
in this world nothing is bad nothing is good its pure balance
How do you find bad people?
learned this the hard way 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤘
I still get kicked by life. I help people and they get settled. But when I need help I fall into more problem. I rise from a hole only to find my self slip back into another hole. At times I feel to get real rude in life but again I can't. Can't decide at times should I be good or rude. Life at times place huge joke with me.
it's kinda crazy how nobody is talking about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest
NICE
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
These AI apps you used to create these images are built on the uncompensated work of real people. Making it worse, they undercut the jobs of these human designers and artist, all while using their own work to do it!
So 😢 what should we do ?
All blind men trying to get home wept at this story.
The old woman told her parents 2:52
If A.I. is going to take over the world and destroy humanity, it needs to start working on basic pronunciation.
Tim is me :')
Luisa Madrigal also needs to stand up for herself and set boundaries. Luisa from encanto is constantly sacrificing her own needs, happiness and wants to help others. Luisa allows everyone to take advantage of her kindness and take her for granted. Everyone tells Luisa to do them favors, and Luisa always does what people want her to do, and even though she needs a break, she is too afraid to stand up for herself. Luisa is a submissive doormat and people pleaser who lets everyone walk all over her and doesn’t take care of herself this video reminded me exactly of her
While i understand the message the video wants to convey, it is a bit confusing.
The story's turning point is not relevant to one context (kindness).
Being kind is one thing and being cautious to be able to make good judgement is another thing.
But yes, key point is to find balance in everything we do and to add in a little caution upon our kindness .... not to limit the kindness OR not to stop helping everyone as the title mentioned it.
1:44
This is me 😢
🙏🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍🤗🤗🤗😌😌😌
1:43 going to school
Stop helping everyone
Nice story, the AI reader is crap.
Totally agree. AI reader sucks
lol true
yup.
Write small letter
OK, but if you consider a video like this important enough to make, why not get a real reader to read it?
The silly mistakes auto-generated voices make are terribly distracting and as a result it very difficult to take any message seriously.
Check your AI’s pronunciation
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