HARASSED because of My Natural Hair | Why I Quit My Job

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  • @chalseywilder937
    @chalseywilder937 6 років тому +75

    I really wish companies and businesses got penalized for this senselessness.

    • @caribbeanraised6084
      @caribbeanraised6084 6 років тому +1

      Chalsey Wilder they all want us dead!!

    • @chalseywilder937
      @chalseywilder937 6 років тому

      kim thomas not dead exactly, they just want the most money, and get us sick to do so. It's not just one thing, a lot of this stuff is all connected, cancer treatments are expensive and leave you infertile. Crazy asf. I'm mostly bothered people are comfortable with being poisoned because it's hard to get away from it. Should not have to be this way.

    • @gatestimonymiracle1302
      @gatestimonymiracle1302 5 років тому

      They now do in New York and California

  • @evangelinewtts5420
    @evangelinewtts5420 6 років тому +91

    That so true! All the kids that were "cool kids". They ended up strippers and dead beats. They did nothing. Just be the best you can be and be successful for you. Also, if you are natural show your confidence in your natural hair and you as a person. That will make them ease up.

    • @cynthiag5110
      @cynthiag5110 6 років тому

      Is that Lupita on your pfp?!

    • @evangelinewtts5420
      @evangelinewtts5420 6 років тому +3

      Yes it is! I love Black Panther. She is Beautiful.

  • @ChrisChris-bp2tu
    @ChrisChris-bp2tu 6 років тому +47

    The day i asked the question was then one of my teachers looked at my hair like it was crazy. Later during the day she asked me to braid my hair and said that it looked messy.... I live in South Africa I ignored her but thanks for answering my question
    I have type 4 hair and me wearing my natural hair out in an afro encouraged other black girls to wear their natural hair out.

    • @toricurly886
      @toricurly886 6 років тому +12

      hey girl South African male naturalista here
      ....I feel you hey... don't worry you'll be fine..but I'm glad our black sisters are open to this trend of going natural although the system doesn't agree with us....stay strong babe

    • @ChrisChris-bp2tu
      @ChrisChris-bp2tu 6 років тому +2

      Thank u for your inspiring words

    • @babsie3235
      @babsie3235 6 років тому +1

      I wish I felt this confident when I was in high school & knew most of what I know now. DAMN I really wish I knew most of what I know now when I was still in primary school or even at Creche. Self-love and acceptance is something that should be ingrained in a child as early as possible. My afro was beautiful but natural-hair wasn’t very big back then. I had some white classmates trying the pencil test on me, I felt so uncomfortable and some of fellow black sistas with the “piece” weave (we called it “piece” back then) felt the same. I guess it was a defining moment of who we are, what we are, where we come from and where we currently stand. I am really loving this natural hair movement especially here in South Africa. I see some women with weaves and I think to myself “yaz your natural hair would’ve been so much better”. Straight is not better or more beautiful than the kink. It’s about time we FEEL comfortable with our hair and understand that it’s not a mess that needs to be relaxed or straightened. Keep it up sista, am so proud of how you handled that teacher. #Green_lights

    • @content144
      @content144 6 років тому +2

      Christie-Ann Dinthe when I was in high school. I legit never seen any girl wear their fro out. And the only girls that were natural only wore their hair in ponytails and buns. I was The first in my school to wear afros. At first. I was looked at like a clown. Then out of nowhere. Everywhere I turned, another queen had her fro out. I loved it. And we'd always complement each other hair.

  • @Princess0ftheLight
    @Princess0ftheLight 6 років тому +37

    Your title is clickbait-y... I thought it was story time. I did not expect a Q+A.

  • @tenadefiant
    @tenadefiant 6 років тому +5

    I'm a year and half natural. I've had a few comments from a family member, but I quickly told him idgaf, I like being natural. People can joke all day long, but I'm still gonna do me. #defiant

  • @jessicamarie6448
    @jessicamarie6448 6 років тому +5

    I went natural in 2016, and have been ever since, before I went natural pretty much every black girl except 1 or 2 girls with 3a/b hair had relaxed hair, so when I went into school with a big high puff it was NEW for pretty much everyone, I got both positive and negative comments, mainly positive, but I honestly didn't care about the negative and continued flourishing, after I went natural I noticed that more and more of the girls who were previously relaxed started to go natural, some big chopped and some are transitioning, but I love it because we are finally embracing our natural hair. And people always come to me for tips too which I gladly tell them! I just wanted to say this to anyone who reads this, wear your natural hair in confidence because it is beautiful, don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

  • @emptynester547
    @emptynester547 6 років тому +2

    They hate because this is one thing that they can't copy or steal.

  • @queeninkim9733
    @queeninkim9733 6 років тому +10

    Title is addressed at 21:00-- pay me later :)

  • @TheMissionOfSubmission
    @TheMissionOfSubmission 6 років тому +3

    I think you got harrassed because people are jealous of your crown, sweetie. You're beautiful, and your hair is unique. 😫😫😫✊

  • @Stephaniealicianaturalhair
    @Stephaniealicianaturalhair 6 років тому +9

    Thank you for this :) Good advice on going natural ! :) I have been natural for 10 years and love it. February 2008 was when I had my relaxed ends cut and I talk about my journey in some of my videos.

  • @valeriebyrd6373
    @valeriebyrd6373 6 років тому +2

    Natural hair isn't low key unprofessional, a lot of the staff in corporate America, are low key jealous, I believe, of your beautiful looking, voluminous, curly hair.

  • @Cassandraborketey
    @Cassandraborketey 6 років тому +13

    "im suprised your scalp didnt fall off" dkm

    • @princess__blueberry1775
      @princess__blueberry1775 6 років тому +2

      Cassandra Borketey
      LOL I just had a conversation with the most stupidest person on the planet and I highly doubt that she's a black woman, she told me that you don't have to cut your hair off if you're going to go natural, and if you are transitioning from perm hair to natural hair you also don't have to cut it off which doesn't make any sense because you're going to have to cut it off that hair can no longer curl up... It will be permanently straight once you put chemical on it.

    • @Cassandraborketey
      @Cassandraborketey 6 років тому +1

      im over here dying of laughter but im sorry you wasted your breath on that fool

  • @brea1659
    @brea1659 5 років тому

    Beautiful! and I am 100% with you on intentional dating. Always encouraging when others share that perspective :).

  • @heartofqueens124
    @heartofqueens124 6 років тому +10

    Thank you for the advice! I'll start trimming my ends.😊 I love your earrings btw where did you get them?

  • @eversmile8946
    @eversmile8946 6 років тому +7

    I must say you look pretty with no ore less make up💚

  • @ifeojo9948
    @ifeojo9948 6 років тому

    I love this girl and her hair is so beautiful. Always speaking truths keep doing what you doing 💖

  • @ashleymatthews228
    @ashleymatthews228 6 років тому +6

    Your earrings are beautiful and I love your puff. Ty for sharing

  • @evangelinewtts5420
    @evangelinewtts5420 6 років тому +4

    Your focus goals in life are awesome.

  • @eversmile8946
    @eversmile8946 6 років тому +1

    I am 4b /4c and i was bra strap but I just trimed so now i am on shoulder and my fro lools good as well. But it s tru that too many people think that natural hair is neglect or nasty. We have to keep work on it with our girls!

  • @jessicawashington2727
    @jessicawashington2727 6 років тому +2

    Just found your page and I love you already!!!!

  • @tanji2936
    @tanji2936 6 років тому

    Great vid, love the puff and earrings(found me a few pair of similar earrings at my local beauty store)😊

  • @olyviajazzmyne7633
    @olyviajazzmyne7633 6 років тому +4

    No u dont ever have to put scissors to ur hair to go natural .it grows right out on its own . Takes years on years but it happens . Happened to me

  • @kharikhy-ree2242
    @kharikhy-ree2242 6 років тому

    You are beautiful, omggggg. Thank you for uplifting young Black Girls. You are #BlackGirlMagic 💎❤💎

  • @georgettewilliams115
    @georgettewilliams115 6 років тому

    I just realized I've been pinning your hair pictures on Pinterest...my Afro Shero ❤❤❤

  • @its_your_girl_nbme_7026
    @its_your_girl_nbme_7026 6 років тому +1

    my brother told me the same thing. those friends you know you aint gonna see later

  • @godsprecious6884
    @godsprecious6884 6 років тому

    First time viewing your channel and love it!!

  • @nyccidarlin3655
    @nyccidarlin3655 5 років тому

    You’re only 24... take you time by the time you’re 30 your life will change DRASTICALLY (mentally and spiritually)😁 I’ll leave it. You’re awesome!

  • @inapurpleworld
    @inapurpleworld 6 років тому +3

    This whole time I thought the song said new life, new money smh. It's a nice song though

  • @moneyjar4606
    @moneyjar4606 6 років тому +1

    I think I've got it to my chin. Yay.

  • @rushiaj1222
    @rushiaj1222 6 років тому +4

    Hey girl!!! 💖 ur channel

  • @evangelinewtts5420
    @evangelinewtts5420 6 років тому +7

    Amen! Proverbs 27:17

  • @anayamarie003
    @anayamarie003 6 років тому +5

    First notification gang 🤘😝

  • @shathegem
    @shathegem 6 років тому +1

    notifcation squad!!

  • @shaunalevy3347
    @shaunalevy3347 6 років тому

    yasss NOTIFICATION SQUAD

  • @synaptol1
    @synaptol1 6 років тому +1

    Forgot to mention my hair is bra strap length

  • @moneyjar4606
    @moneyjar4606 6 років тому

    My mom refused to allow me to cut the ends so I transferred without it. Been three to four years since my perm and about two to figure out what to do. I'm 16 now. Life sucks.

  • @jhssmith2004
    @jhssmith2004 6 років тому

    good for you for staying home and taking your time moving out. if you were my daughter I would be so proud of you. take your time sweetheart. blessings to you.

  • @miaalexander1703
    @miaalexander1703 6 років тому +6

    Notification squad😜😜😜!!!

  • @Aliciadoriety
    @Aliciadoriety 6 років тому +4

    Where you get the earrings I want a pair how much. I live in boulder so we don’t have black things here , just all white stuff that I don’t like hillsong Australia is my favorite Christian music.

    • @yahschild1533
      @yahschild1533 6 років тому

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey
      Etsy.com sells those earrings just look up African-American earrings

  • @Aliciadoriety
    @Aliciadoriety 6 років тому +12

    I don’t get it. I don’t know what your talking about , I thought you were talking about quitting your job because of your natural hair. People hate me because of my natural hair when I did have a fro especially white people they hate our hair . Help me through this I don’t understand why they hate our hair so much . Why do they feel better when we straighten our hair.

    • @leilanidru7506
      @leilanidru7506 6 років тому +12

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey it's gonna be people of all types hating ur hair. Ur gonna get a lot of ignorant comments from people who aren't used to it, don't understand, or feel threatened by it. (It's sometimes seen as a political move) A lot of older generation blacks hate natural hair too. And some "naturals" still have a relaxed hair mentality. I'm sorry ur going thru this; this is the way u were born and they're gonna have to get used to it. Learn to be confident in ur hair and the background noise won't matter so much:)

    • @leilanidru7506
      @leilanidru7506 6 років тому +5

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey my own dad told me to comb my hair once while it was in a puff😪🤦🏾‍♀️..but u know what I didn't care😂 all I could think about was that I got my hair into a cute, huge puff for the first time😍 I had never been able to do that before and I was so happy😭 so yea, be able to genuinely see the beauty in our hair, wear it proudly, confidently, and beautifully. So when someone has some BS to say tell them to bite u🖕🏾

    • @AlexusCrown
      @AlexusCrown  6 років тому +1

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey i have a video coming today that will help you!

    • @deaionbanks4784
      @deaionbanks4784 6 років тому +3

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey They get scared that their brain washing is wearing off that we are waking up and in result will rise up

    • @saaraah9790
      @saaraah9790 6 років тому

      Jealousy~~~~

  • @alisagrant1308
    @alisagrant1308 6 років тому

    Your hair is beautiful. Just saw your channel today.

  • @jonaedarrel8203
    @jonaedarrel8203 6 років тому +1

    3 rd notification squad ❤️😝

  • @shardaesheis1081
    @shardaesheis1081 6 років тому

    I have to listen to GLO! Have you ever heard of DC Talk? Old school lol but I love them so much!

  • @cynthiag5110
    @cynthiag5110 6 років тому

    Oh my gosh, that's so cool, I live in fort worth!

  • @ericgreen2264
    @ericgreen2264 6 років тому

    Shalom sister lol

  • @nylawells21
    @nylawells21 6 років тому

    How does your scalp fall off that’s just dumb

  • @lacecocoa6272
    @lacecocoa6272 6 років тому +4

    is your hair 4c or 4b? your hair is beautiful

    • @panditown6807
      @panditown6807 6 років тому +1

      Lacedra Minor i think she said she has like a 4 a texture

    • @lacecocoa6272
      @lacecocoa6272 6 років тому

      +Panda Town I knew it my mom has a 4A a texture I think it's because her Grandpa which is my great grandpa is biracial and then her grandma was 25% white and then her mother had 4C hair which is my grandma and she was like infected but my mother is dark complected with for a hair it's so weird how genetics work but I know a girl that is from Africa and she has no white DNA at all now that I know of but I don't think so I think she's all the way African she's from Sudan and she has 4A hair and both her parents are dark skin 4C hair then I mixed it also has text you just depends on who you are because me and all my siblings have different textures of hair my sister has four see my brothers have 4B 4C + 4A in my dad has 4Z and I have 4c and a lot of people do not know that 4z is the tightest curl pattern in the world I used to think it was 4C lol that's crazy I've been natural for only a year-and-a-half and it's hard for me to work on doing my hair I'm still getting the hang of it

    • @exaggeratedswagger7485
      @exaggeratedswagger7485 6 років тому +11

      Lacedra Minor You don’t have to be biracial or a family member doesn’t have to be biracial to have looser textured curls

    • @salonegal4024
      @salonegal4024 6 років тому

      Lacedra Minor 🤯

  • @godsprecious6884
    @godsprecious6884 6 років тому

    Thanks for the Christian music!!!

  • @zvezdoblyat
    @zvezdoblyat 6 років тому

    I started my natural hair transition in November-October. I've done two big chops, once in Nov-Oct and again in late March. I didn't braid it or anything but my hair is split and breaking and it's not even an inch yet. I deep moisturize and shampoo my hair once a week. My hair really ain't growing. What should I do?

  • @adiaratoucamara1
    @adiaratoucamara1 6 років тому +1

    I subscribed you you channel and Notification is on

  • @sarahclay2279
    @sarahclay2279 6 років тому

    Hi Alexus, I'm a 13year old and I want to go natural. How should I go about this?

  • @evangelinewtts5420
    @evangelinewtts5420 6 років тому

    Sorry I missed the first notification.

  • @synaptol1
    @synaptol1 6 років тому

    Not true transition for 18 months did not clip my ends and i a fully natural with no straight ends

  • @Memphisgirl-jk5tq
    @Memphisgirl-jk5tq 6 років тому

    Honey, your hair is AAHHMMAAZZNNN!!!!!

  • @nephtaliebottoms3247
    @nephtaliebottoms3247 6 років тому

    You could use a spray on dye

  • @chelseakoenders3170
    @chelseakoenders3170 6 років тому

    Wow your hair looks cute

  • @antoiniah5753
    @antoiniah5753 6 років тому

    I live in Dallas

  • @michellicious7812
    @michellicious7812 6 років тому

    your earrings are cool

  • @mumtahinahcakirlar698
    @mumtahinahcakirlar698 6 років тому +1

    intro song someone please help!!

  • @kimtrust8389
    @kimtrust8389 6 років тому

    💜💜💜

  • @infiniteturtlesenses2177
    @infiniteturtlesenses2177 6 років тому

    What the intro song called. I can't find it

    • @mblount9300
      @mblount9300 6 років тому +1

      Infinite turtlesenses she said it in the video.....😂😂

    • @mblount9300
      @mblount9300 6 років тому +1

      Infinite turtlesenses GLO - new things

  • @denise1823
    @denise1823 6 років тому

    Those earrings

  • @shellyreynolds8948
    @shellyreynolds8948 6 років тому

    No you'll need to do your due diligence regarding this. If hair that was relaxed remained permanently straight as you say. Then you would only need to relax your hair ONE time. There would be no need for a retouch, another relaxer etc. My Aunt is a Licensed Cosmetologist so I'm telling you the reality. She's helped MANY clients transition from the creamy crack to natural. NEVER did they need to cut their hair in order to do it. That whole big chop crap is not necessary to become natural. As long as you no longer add relaxer to any part of your hair. Eventually it will go back into its natural state. I mean that's what its doing when you find you need to relax it again... So do the research, because what your saying is incorrect.

  • @XCocoaCutieX
    @XCocoaCutieX 6 років тому

    I thought i was going to see a video about why you quit your job. Why u lying, misleading title???? Clickbait, not cool

  • @smadden3933
    @smadden3933 6 років тому +1

    2nd!

  • @gl0ire
    @gl0ire 6 років тому

    You should take an Ancestry test👀💯😂

  • @lacecocoa6272
    @lacecocoa6272 6 років тому +1

    5th

  • @Aliciadoriety
    @Aliciadoriety 6 років тому +2

    Your beautiful and dark and I love you 😘. Help us dark skin women because I get so upset and cry and I feel like I wanna be a racist to them . I just want white guys to like me, because black guys don’t like us .

    • @hopec284
      @hopec284 6 років тому +9

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey what type of mess did you type and press send on

    • @dicaripeanfoodie8615
      @dicaripeanfoodie8615 6 років тому +1

      Hxpe .-. 🤣 waa just about to comment she sounds ridiculous

    • @LoveNaisa
      @LoveNaisa 6 років тому

      Woah slow down weirdo

    • @beloveddaughterofjudah5583
      @beloveddaughterofjudah5583 6 років тому

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey ....
      Sis love yourself first and you will have the love to sustain yourself. Be that beacon of light so that that handsome Hebrew brother will find you. Prayfully.
      Peace ; )

    • @yahschild1533
      @yahschild1533 6 років тому

      Alicia big chop 2018 My hair journey
      Pray and ask God for a mate. He knows what type of man is best for you. Let Him figure that out for you. God will give you a man that will treat you like a queen. Just wait on God to send you one. HAVE FAITH AND BELIEVE

  • @bimboodekunle4296
    @bimboodekunle4296 6 років тому

    Laurel or Yanny?

  • @eversmile8946
    @eversmile8946 6 років тому +2

    I must say you look pretty with no ore less make up💚

  • @eversmile8946
    @eversmile8946 6 років тому +4

    I am 4b /4c and i was bra strap but I just trimed so now i am on shoulder and my fro lools good as well. But it s tru that too many people think that natural hair is neglect or nasty. We have to keep work on it with our girls!