6 Signs Your Breakup IS NOT Permanent

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  • @esthergloria
    @esthergloria 4 роки тому +533

    I am in a stage where I honestly don't care anymore..if he wasn't made to be mine then he can go to hell for all I care. Probably God has a better person for me so I ain't settling for less...if he's mine he'll come back without me chasing after him if not then he better get lost. It's been 2 months now..I loved him but he played with my feelings and after a small argument he walked away and moved on...leaving me in shock and disappointment after 2 years of being together and even starting preparing for our traditional wedding. He has lost a rare treasure for sure.

    • @esthergloria
      @esthergloria 4 роки тому +26

      @@assielhallaniofficial3915 no love, I don't beg for love and I don't have to consult people in order to get a man back I'm not that cheap...if he is to come back then he will come back by himself in his own will not me forcing..I've already moved on

    • @kellakay4723
      @kellakay4723 4 роки тому +19

      @@esthergloria proud of you my dear. Also on the same shoe with u. Chasing someone who doesn't want you makes no sense . They did the dumping so let them do the chasing if you re important to them

    • @enobongekpo9777
      @enobongekpo9777 4 роки тому +2

      Yes baby

    • @melizago684
      @melizago684 4 роки тому +2

      Related much

    • @renchen831
      @renchen831 4 роки тому +9

      Oof. My husband of 3 years (together for 7) did the same! But said he had been thinking about a divorce for a year now...even though we've been making plans of finally starting a family next year. It's been two months since we've been separated and I keep going back between, if it's meant to be it'll be, and God probably has better plans for me. I just want the pain to go away 😥

  • @HapsMbambs
    @HapsMbambs 3 роки тому +162

    Just move on... what’s meant for you... will find its way back to you. 🙌🏽✨
    Don’t force yourself into doing things you won’t manage in the end people.

    • @danielmorg8155
      @danielmorg8155 3 роки тому

      Hello are you planning to get your ex back in a Cheaper and better way why dont you try dr Ominimini he was the one that help me get my ex back

    • @danielmorg8155
      @danielmorg8155 3 роки тому

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    • @michaelgay6186
      @michaelgay6186 3 роки тому +1

      My Ex and I been together for over 30yrs. She calls seems whenever she needs things.
      She claims to be in a rebound relationship.
      But she spends time with me more and i am confused. Especially when she mentioned she done with me.

    • @HapsMbambs
      @HapsMbambs 3 роки тому +2

      @@michaelgay6186 Stay away from her.

  • @ashleyyyluvsu100
    @ashleyyyluvsu100 3 роки тому +81

    My husband and I broke up like a year and a half ago for 3 months and although I got him back and we’re married now and have a daughter on the way I still watch these videos idk why 😂😂

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  3 роки тому +25

      Because they're great?? Haha! Glad you and your husband worked things out and congratulations on you baby girl!

    • @ashleyyyluvsu100
      @ashleyyyluvsu100 3 роки тому +3

      Chris Seiter haha you’re right! ☺️

    • @projectf025
      @projectf025 2 роки тому +2

      I hope I can get my ex fiancee back we already have a child, I hope she comes home to us I pray everyday that she does

    • @lindseycruz813
      @lindseycruz813 Рік тому +1

      @@projectf025 has she came back. ? I feel your pain. I hope my guy comes back to me and our son.

    • @projectf025
      @projectf025 Рік тому

      @@lindseycruz813 no she has not and I'm glad she didn't she had hidden agendas to actually use me and got what she wanted

  • @lebe6863
    @lebe6863 4 роки тому +181

    1. Time and energy consistently or flip in and out texts calls in person.
    2. Meaningful positive responses
    3. A year has not passed yet
    4. Randomly call you asking for a meet up.
    5. Doing poorly without you.
    6. Drools over you from afar.

    • @bosa5315
      @bosa5315 3 роки тому +12

      Move on start dating, don't waste your time waiting.

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Рік тому +7

    I had none of those signs with an ex who mutually loved and wanted to marry but I still decided to reject him and move on. I realized I could value myself and that I deserved better. I got better with another man - my husband Frank.

  • @blueskies7574
    @blueskies7574 3 роки тому +37

    I'm glad I NEVER get back to my exes. I'm a kind, affectionate person but I don't beg -ever!

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      @helenaandrew545 3 роки тому

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    • @helenaandrew545
      @helenaandrew545 3 роки тому

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      @bauerwilliams5628 3 роки тому

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  • @Malignantt1
    @Malignantt1 3 роки тому +117

    When they reach out during no contact, DO NOT IGNORE THEM. BAD BAD ADVICE, WHY WOULD YOU IGNORE THEM?? THEY ARE REACHING OUT TO YOU FOR A REASON!

    • @MrExDArte
      @MrExDArte 3 роки тому +30

      Because if they are suffering from a breakup, by contacting you in small doses they overcome the fact that they miss you. If, however, you ignore them, they might start to miss you more and start to doubt their decision even more.
      At least that's one way to look at it. Everyone's different, and nobody knows your ex better than you.

    • @ashleyyyluvsu100
      @ashleyyyluvsu100 3 роки тому +10

      As someone who got my now husband back and did the no contact thing when he contacted me I did answer by simply saying “hey I’m sorry I just need some time to get over this before I can talk to you again” makes them really think you’re going for good but that you will reply and have care for them and then they can continue to miss you 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @madisonjh
      @madisonjh 3 роки тому

      Lindsay Davis say no

    • @mae88b.16
      @mae88b.16 3 роки тому +1

      Lindsay Davis no hook up with ex. U can hook up with other guy but not ur ex it will just prolong the pain.

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      @ivetahuck5537 3 роки тому

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  • @Peekarica
    @Peekarica 3 роки тому +7

    I'd remember last year when an ex from the past searched contact with me after ten years. I had a very little relationship with that girl when I was 14 years old. Nothing really special happened. But it surprised me that after ten years, that person stood up and contacted me. It is never too late for some other people.

  • @mariapsarrou2240
    @mariapsarrou2240 3 роки тому +28

    I totally agree with that after 1 year since the break up I went on a date with my ex back in August and he couldn't take his eyes off me he was happy and asking me a ton of questions and he wanted my to sit next to him in the cafe, he even drove me home which he has never done when we were dating. We continue to talk and thought he was being a but flirty with me I am usually the one initiating and I don't know what to do I want him to initiate but Chris I felt so amazing being with him on the date it felt like the first time 1 year ago.

    • @karrenmorgan6032
      @karrenmorgan6032 3 роки тому +1

      The fire still there cause you still love him, thats why you will have to make sure you keep him to yourself , I know of a man who can aid you the way he aided me, I'm with a baby bump right now and I'm engaged , I'm sure Dr dayo will be of great assistance to you in your relationship

    • @drdemko1
      @drdemko1 8 місяців тому

      wow this give me so much hope

    • @youtubeaccountserio2633
      @youtubeaccountserio2633 9 днів тому

      Block him avoidants are cheaters prolly his last relationship didnt work

  • @UnknownGamer-gd6kh
    @UnknownGamer-gd6kh 4 роки тому +31

    Man just move for good don’t need to waste time

  • @mgsol3316
    @mgsol3316 4 місяці тому

    Excellent advice! Loved it. Everything you said makes so much sense.

  • @wendydaniel1110
    @wendydaniel1110 5 місяців тому +2

    Some ex's need to experience " The one that got away" to learn hard lessons in life.. If he's looking for a fantasy in your connection move on, he's not living in reality so he'll never appreciate the "real " you....❤

  • @albertodeulofeu5277
    @albertodeulofeu5277 3 роки тому +16

    It’s way easier for girls to get their ex bf back than vice versa

    • @peachblossom.phlox3403
      @peachblossom.phlox3403 3 роки тому +4

      So far I don't think so. My ex boyfriend hasn't shown any sign of coming back since he broke up with me two months ago

    • @youtubeaccountserio2633
      @youtubeaccountserio2633 9 днів тому

      Avoidants womens tho find it easier to discard you

  • @user-wr3gy7el2h
    @user-wr3gy7el2h 3 роки тому +3

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  • @karissasha392
    @karissasha392 3 роки тому

    Thanks this is my first time seeking for advice on social media like this 💞💞😘

  • @wyattandwill12
    @wyattandwill12 4 роки тому

    I think I need time with her in person and a few other things to happen before these signs can start to show.
    First of all, I'm only on almost day 5 on no contact and the most I've had was two weeks (long story but she got mad at me for leaving her on read so I reached back out). Second of all, I gotta get a job, license, car and hopefully my own place because I was 18 and didn't have those, now I'm 19. She's 16 and was 15. We broke up three months ago after being together for right over a year when her mom called mine because of the way I treated her.
    I'm in no contact right now after she left me on read (so she might not think I'm supposed to reach out) and while I'm in it I'm working towards my goals previously mentioned. The cool thing is that those goals aren't just beneficial to us getting back together -- they help me, my family and friends, etc.

  • @EggsTV
    @EggsTV 3 роки тому +6

    I love this video. Thank you so much. I needed this.

    • @illuminatipowerful7006
      @illuminatipowerful7006 3 роки тому

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      @illuminatipowerful7006 3 роки тому +1

      He was the one who help me bring back my ex three day ago

    • @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs
      @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs 3 роки тому

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    • @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs
      @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs 3 роки тому

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      @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs 3 роки тому

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  • @soph.studios21
    @soph.studios21 8 місяців тому

    I gave a positive message to my ex bf before I move on with my life. Explaining in a mature message for either change in the relationship or make amends. He chose change, I let him be and hope for the best to both of us to think on our own. Told him you can count on me as a friend. And a grateful response in saying thank you to me twice in taking space. Let my time take its course and to him.

  • @mariamnantale4701
    @mariamnantale4701 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks alot nice advies

  • @monica386
    @monica386 4 роки тому +3

    chris, could you do a video on maybe what to do if your ex is still angry at you after the nc period? and keeps saying things about how he doesn't wanna be with you anymore? very stuck & interested in your thoughts on it.

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Monica, so if you have completed a successful NC where you do not break it early, do not stalk your ex online and your first reach out is not emotional then you get a response from your ex like this, then it means they are not ready to talk with you at this point. Which would mean you need to do another 30 days NC and then reach out with a text from my videos about how to hook your exes interest

  • @laylenhope9327
    @laylenhope9327 4 роки тому +13

    What if he blocked me on everything over something I didn’t do? Someone told him I’ve been spreading lies about him and I never did. He didn’t give me a chance to defend myself.

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +9

      When he is less angry you will be unblocked, just allow time to pass

    • @laylenhope9327
      @laylenhope9327 4 роки тому +1

      Joseph Oamen Who? I’m still blocked and he’s now telling people things that are complete lies and things I never did or said. At this point it seems like he wasn’t just told false things by someone but is also making stuff up to gain pity from others.

    • @trinityrose3489
      @trinityrose3489 4 роки тому +1

      Vanessa Hope: Living to Love FORGET HIM. He obviously doesn’t respect you as a person, if he’s not willing to listen then maybe he was just finding some, maybe any reason to end the relationship. now that he is spreading more lies for pity from others really shows his character and is very unacceptable but at the end of the day you know what you did and if him or your friends or other people still don’t believe you after you explained yourself then FORGET THEM TOO. Life’s way to short to be dealing with simple minded people who aren’t willing to listen or to accept you. Obviously they showed their true colors that they are not going to change their mind and believe whatever lie someone else has to say and you should remove yourself from being around those people and find a better friend group or people in your life. it’s not a problem finding new friends and a new healthy partner. 7 billion people in this world. you got this! good luck!!! and i’m so sorry to hear this

  • @JeepbabyB
    @JeepbabyB Рік тому

    Spent over a year together, filled with fun, laughter and amazing adventures. The day before my birthday after an amazing dinner..he suddenly gets upset on the way home and iced me for the past week. I am a Leo so .. I did spout off and said things that I now regret . I know he has a lot of love for me but I fear I have pushed him away for good . 😞I did write him a letter of apology for the horrible things I said. He accepted my apologies but unfortunately he said he needed to step away from the relationship and needed time to clear his thoughts.

  • @mohinderkaur7867
    @mohinderkaur7867 4 роки тому +1

    Very good thanks

    • @mohinderkaur7867
      @mohinderkaur7867 4 роки тому

      @@alisonwalker6349 i like your advice thanks it is nice

  • @MykelMcd
    @MykelMcd 4 роки тому +8

    Hi Chris. So my ex and I were together for almost 4 years and lived together for about 2. We’re both 22, so we were probably too young to be living together because we were facing a lot of things we aren’t mature enough to face yet. About 2 weeks ago, he came home and said he can’t do this anymore and packed up and left (the night before us birthday of all times). He told me “I’m not your person” and stuff like that. The problem is that I would get annoyed at him for dumb things like his fidgeting and other little quirks, but it didn’t mean that I didn’t love him. I wasn’t perfect by any means, and there are times when I should’ve just bit my tongue. I’m so broken because we were best friends. We had a lot of good in our relationship, even though we had some problems. But I didn’t think it was anything worth breaking up over. What’s weird is, he’s still sharing his location with me but he removed me from Facebook and Snapchat after I changed my profile picture and posted a Snapchat selfie. I downloaded bumble a few days later too and he was on there. I texted him out of hurt and anger, which I regret now. I said things I shouldn’t have said. But I haven’t talked to him since then. I know we could be so good together if he had his own place. I just got a new job and am trying to learn how to be independent. How do I get him back? He seemed so done with me. But his friend messaged me and told me he’s drinking and trying to distract himself. Idk what to do. Help :(

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      @judyjames729 4 роки тому

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      @judyjames729 4 роки тому

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    • @drfredoliver3343
      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

      Hello dear! I had same experience like yours before

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      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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  • @blademusiq8764
    @blademusiq8764 4 роки тому +3

    Me and one of my ex broke up 6 years ago and that ex wants me back right now begging me to be back with her and saying she regret leaving etc

  • @bcrera
    @bcrera 4 роки тому +2

    We have made love twice ( during break up ) & we are currently in a small 3 day no contact. I think the best thing to do now is set up a date & ask her to be my gf again or should I do this on the third date. We were together 4 years & it’s been 3months since the break up. I didn’t cheat but things got boring & I almost had a rebound which hurt my ex to see😬.

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +4

      I would suggest that you allow things to develop organically if the time feels right then you should consider asking

    • @bcrera
      @bcrera 4 роки тому +1

      Chris Seiter thank you

  • @mohinderkaur7867
    @mohinderkaur7867 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing things ok thanks do much

  • @FinestOmar
    @FinestOmar 4 роки тому +8

    is this supposed to happen during the no contact rule? or when is this supposed to come into play? I'm very confused about this bc alot of this seems like someone has been friend zoned

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +3

      This can be from the moment you break up, or once dumpers remorse sets in

    • @FinestOmar
      @FinestOmar 4 роки тому +1

      Chris Seiter thank you!

    • @janellchelliah5981
      @janellchelliah5981 4 роки тому

      @@chrisseitercoachingHi Chris, Im debating purchasing a one on one session with you but i have purchased your ex recovery program products.. can you help me out with my situation hrre so i can decide if i want to purchase a session?

  • @jadensvlog7574
    @jadensvlog7574 4 роки тому +16

    how about to other people he said im sexy now and beautiful..it is a sign

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +2

      It shows he is still attracted to you, but maybe he isn't in the right place for a relationship

    • @josephbenard7537
      @josephbenard7537 4 роки тому

      Yes is a sign

  • @sreach93
    @sreach93 2 місяці тому

    You mean how Craig Kenneth says that some dating coaches make quizzes up. You mean that kind of making stuff up ?

  • @diamondyemon3219
    @diamondyemon3219 3 роки тому +1

    But what if next month will be a year since you guys split, and tomorrow they are moving across the country? I may never see or hear from them again 🥺

  • @miryamishot
    @miryamishot 3 роки тому +4

    Why would you want to go back to an ex? Usually a breakup happens because it was NOT meant to be. If you go back it always ends up an even worse breakup, more feelings invested. Better to breakup block number and social media and move on.

    • @abmedlouise9448
      @abmedlouise9448 3 роки тому

      Ne ver you give up on the perso n you really love, either strive for it and make a good impa ct

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      @abmedlouise9448 3 роки тому

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      @abmedlouise9448 3 роки тому

      Get in tou ch with him via Wha tsApp

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      @abmedlouise9448 3 роки тому

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      @abmedlouise9448 3 роки тому

      He'll gon na help you out

  • @renzcamacho5789
    @renzcamacho5789 4 роки тому +8

    hi Chris , I posted in my story "who can tell me if the corniche park is open now for walking / judging?" he replied on this & gave me some places to go for walk.... is this a sign that he still think about me? other thing I said thank you to him for the info & he replied I probably go for walk later at 7pm..is this a sign that he is trying to invite me indirectly to go for walk with him? please reply

    • @pablight20
      @pablight20 4 роки тому

      Yea def is

    • @lovefamily8227
      @lovefamily8227 4 роки тому

      I know of a man who can help you like he helped me to get my ex back to me within 48 hours

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      @lovefamily8227 4 роки тому

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  • @asmrsleep3079
    @asmrsleep3079 Рік тому

    What if he watches Instagram and snap stories but doesn't like any Instagram posts??

  • @hannahfaye3680
    @hannahfaye3680 4 роки тому +2

    Me and my boyfriend are giving each other space (i pressured him and he ended up not knowing what he wants). It's been 2 weeks since then. After a week, i tried to message him saying i want to see/talk to him (because I want to tell him I'm sorry for pressuring him), but he just sends 1/few words messages and can't meet up with me. I feel that things will be better if i get the chance to say sorry instead of going through no contact. How can we reach these stages if i do go through no contact (30 day rule they say)? I'm afraid he'll slip farther away since I can't talk to him and remedy our situation.

  • @sammonsterenergy1982
    @sammonsterenergy1982 3 роки тому +3

    So 45days after she hadn’t responded to my text I reached out and she sent 2 texts the 2nd one was out the blue asking to meet up as wanted to get out the house and be good to have a friend to talk to...best to build rapport somewhat before we meet so as I’m not deemed as just another male orbiter?

  • @jessicahurley5251
    @jessicahurley5251 3 роки тому +6

    Sadly all these signs sound like me.. but I’m the one hurt and wanting him back. I guess maybe he don’t want me though he’s told our daughter he would “think about coming back” which I hope he’s not getting her hopes up because my kids are going through so much pain.

  • @toms81162
    @toms81162 4 роки тому +1

    So I initiated text contact three times after NC. She was very responsive, told me about some of her life, kidded around, etc. Past week I asked for a phone call today, 5/2. She texts me earlier, can you get your stuff, I have a freezer coming. You can come up, obviously. Then she says we can talk on the back deck. I dont know if getting my stuff is an excuse to talk, or she is just being nice. Hopefully this is going to lead to bigger and better things and a renewed stronger relationship in the future.
    As far as #2 on this list I think no matter the situation the What happened response is normal and not necessarily a blow off.

  • @priscillarodehorst420
    @priscillarodehorst420 Рік тому

    What if 3 yrs goes by and they tell you they just had an intimate dream about us?

  • @dianakenneally5083
    @dianakenneally5083 3 роки тому +5

    Could "watching from afar" mean he wants to stay in contact everyday

    • @AlexGonzalez-ye9pc
      @AlexGonzalez-ye9pc 3 роки тому +2

      Yes but also could mean he is just curious and can't help but peep on you.

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      @paulhardy2248 3 роки тому

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    • @paulhardy2248
      @paulhardy2248 3 роки тому

      What sapp him

  • @aleeshamorgan691
    @aleeshamorgan691 4 роки тому +7

    yes but if we never texted how would we know

    • @delisia_j3220
      @delisia_j3220 4 роки тому +3

      You shouldn’t text... I was really confused. If he broke up with you and you’re still texting him, you’re doomed. Don’t do that, No contact is the solution... always. Trust me. Do things for yourself.., workout buy new clothes, do things you enjoy but also improves you. He’ll come back.. they always do. If by chance he doesn’t, that’s great!! You weren’t meant to be and that’s it. Never pursue a man... that’s crazy. You need to know your worth and and tax!!!!

  • @estherting9613
    @estherting9613 4 роки тому

    hi chris, so me and my ex broke up because he told me he love me but he doesn't love me "romantically" (which is what he wanna feel in a relationship). We were on and off for the past few months and im always the one who pleaded him to stay but few days ago i got really tired and sad because i felt like no matter how hard i try our relationship just hit the bottom and i knw that he has stop trying so i decided to just break up even though i DO NOT want to break up. I was really sad and i did scolded him on why he did this to me but after that i just dissapeared and apply the "no contact rule". Im in day 4 now and yesterday midnight he did texted me and asked "are u ok..", but i choose to ignore and today i kinda texted him because we are currently sharing a netflix account and we are separating the bill so i need to text him and told him i alrdy paid for this month and inform me if there is any additional charges. all he said was "thanks". im a little nervous wondering does he move on so quickly already? i honestly hv no idea what is goin thru his mind now and it kinda makes this no contact a bit more tougher, pls tell me shud i continue this NC period? ps:i never answer him whether im ok or not btw

  • @Jedrakrenz
    @Jedrakrenz 2 роки тому

    Chris, my ex and I were together for 2.5 years, have been best friends for 25 years and have always coparented each other's kids. I had mental issues that manifested as physical intimacy ignoring of her needs. She broke up with me 1 week ahead of my first therapy appointment. That appointment immediately figured out and solved my block. No contact isn't an option for us due to working together and coparenting. She's in a new relationship and has high NRE with him, but admits she sees many red flags. He big issue for us is a lack of faith that my issue won't return if we're together again, but we're having regular sex and have those meaningful conversations. Do I have a true reason to hope?

  • @jackcommonman1381
    @jackcommonman1381 4 роки тому +96

    my ex's ex got her back after two years of us being together

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +20

      Sorry to hear that Jack

    • @jackcommonman1381
      @jackcommonman1381 4 роки тому +23

      @@chrisseitercoaching no biggie in the long run..sure it hurt.. probably the worst heartbreak I've ever been through but I learned a LOT

    • @briangarcia5439
      @briangarcia5439 4 роки тому +14

      Bro how does that happen ? Was she going behind your back? I’m sorry bro

    • @kalilahrania
      @kalilahrania 4 роки тому +17

      Because she obviously didn’t get over her ex. She probably fell in love with you, but never fully got over him, even though she tried that long. Maybe he is her twin flame, don’t know. I have to say I couldn’t be with someone that long if I didn’t get over someone, as it is the case now. But maybe she believed she got over that relationship. She obviously tried hard. Can’t blame her. It is really hard and we all know that. A lot of times I thought I got over that one guy. I truly believed that I wouldn’t even answer the text. But life proofs me I actually didn’t fully move on. Life it is

    • @kalilahrania
      @kalilahrania 4 роки тому +5

      Kelvin Max Thank you, but I don’t need it. Right now I’m truly grateful where I am. Everything happens for a reason. And when you really understand some things, you just move on. I can attract him whenever I want, but I can never attract the relationship that I want with him. So, there is no point. I’m not stupid. You can’t fool me. I want the best for myself

  • @johnnymac3263
    @johnnymac3263 3 роки тому +3

    I dont think my ex wants me back... she straight up told me she doesnt want to be friends. That actually killed me a little

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      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

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      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

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  • @coreywicks6035
    @coreywicks6035 4 роки тому +1

    i told my old girlfriend..i wana see her again

  • @cypresse1620
    @cypresse1620 3 роки тому

    We are not even talking... how is he gonna invest time in me!?

  • @rhirhix6377
    @rhirhix6377 4 роки тому +8

    Right. My ex left me 5 months ago, unfriended me on social media ect. Nooow, he's been telling his friends that he wants to be friends with me but he thinks I hate him...now he needs to talk to me about something in person???
    Edit: we broke up again last week 💔 and he has feelings for someone who he won't tell anyone who it is, after saying to me that he doesn't find anyone attractive...

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +1

      Hey Rhi I would suggest that you reach out to him with a friendly text and see where it goes if you have been out of contact for over 30 days

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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  • @amy_clips
    @amy_clips 4 роки тому +5

    Hey Chris,I always watch your video because your videos are interesting.We broke up 2 months ago.I did the no contact rule for 24 days.My ex always contact me in messenger but I didn't respond to his messages.He video call many times.I asked him why he wants to video call with me.He said he miss me and I am always on his mind.I didn't respond to his message because I'm confuse.What does he mean? Sorry for my grammar I'm not good in English

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +4

      Hey there so it sounds as if your ex could be interested in reconciling, but you would have to have that conversation with him, be sure that you do not agree to friends with benefits. Start dating again and build your relationship up slowly and securely

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      @matthewcoworker633 4 роки тому

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  • @lesliereyes7211
    @lesliereyes7211 3 роки тому +2

    My ex send to me a message angry saying he knows what I did... I know he's taking about I took his cellphone and block a female friend. He says I have your birth certificate if you want it come for it , I'm not going to send you. ... I'm ashamed about what I did. Everything's lost??

  • @SamytheBullFitness
    @SamytheBullFitness Місяць тому

    get over it and meet someone else...life is short, live it up

  • @thecrochetlady
    @thecrochetlady 4 роки тому +3

    what if your ex has no social media?

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +2

      Then you need to be sure you are Ungettable with your texts and use the sphere of influence if you have mutual friends

  • @Joe-jy8dw
    @Joe-jy8dw 4 роки тому +3

    Hey Chris ive been watching your videos alot lately my ex left me 2 weeks ago yesterday and shes already fuckin another dude but still tells my sister she loves me and wants me to work on my self and try it again later is this a rebound relationship going on or should i just give up

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      @mariados4394 3 роки тому

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      @mariados4394 3 роки тому

      Chat or call him on whatsAppi

  • @rachelmarie5300
    @rachelmarie5300 4 роки тому +2

    What if I was the rebound relationship? 🥺 Does anyone have any advice for me? It actually lasted 5 months like you said and now he’s going through the grieving stage for his ex. But he knows his ex and him wont work out because hes the one that broke up with her. She lives in a different country and wants different things. He said he still wants to stay friends with me but I want more than that. I want another chance with him when he’s over the grieving stage and healed again. Hes a great person and we never had any problems in the relationship, he just became emotionally unavailable at one point and we broke up. I dont want him to go out and try to find another girl to try and fill the gap again because then it will be the same cycle as mine. I want him to know he has to be healed before he jumps into another relationship even if it’s with me. How can I get him back? Thanks 😣

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 9 місяців тому

    Why does my ex act like I'm the worst person in the world? 😞 He's so cruel. Even ignoring someone is cruel. Someone you USED to say you cared about. Someone that would constantly talk with me, call me BABE, and I called them Honey or Dear, etc. Future Building, etc. to nothing and to even saying he doesn't/can't love me. Calling everynight and texting every morning too. So crazy yet sad.

  • @lady8818
    @lady8818 4 роки тому +5

    Im on day 5 in N.C. since June 3. The last time we chatted which was on June3 ended not so great. He usually contacts me but now he didnt. What does that mean?

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +2

      It just shows that he agrees your last interaction was not a positive one. I would suggest that you complete your NC without breaking and then work on yourself in that time

    • @lorahgeorge1235
      @lorahgeorge1235 4 роки тому

      Wow we are on the same page. The last time we chat was on June 3rd as well..Ever since we haven't chat, I did the no contact rule and just two days ago he booked me off social media. Probably my number too. I miss him

  • @thalialeicher773
    @thalialeicher773 4 роки тому +13

    My ex called me after 30 days of no contact, told me he misses me and wants to meet up, then blocked me again? What is that? What should I do?

    • @smiths698
      @smiths698 4 роки тому +12

      He isn't mature, move on with your life.

    • @pizzylee1978
      @pizzylee1978 4 роки тому +7

      It means he has a gf probably. Blocked you so she wouldn’t see. You’re gorgeous don’t sweat one guy. You can be picky

    • @AjithAjith-qi7km
      @AjithAjith-qi7km 4 роки тому +1

      I think he want you to chase him. Don't chase him. Let him chase you. Untill you wait for him. All the best.

    • @AjithAjith-qi7km
      @AjithAjith-qi7km 4 роки тому +2

      Keep trying no contact rule.

    • @katerinm153
      @katerinm153 4 роки тому

      screw him , he doesn’t deserve you

  • @mrright4714
    @mrright4714 3 роки тому

    I dated a girl for a yr, it was a online dating , I dated her for a yr, she was from diff religion. But we loved each other like romeo amd Juliet . We cried, smile and everything. But two months back she went my insta amd told me why u like this girl pic , this bikini model pic and kater told me to breakup and told she found someone and she want someone in her own religion. I still didn't know what happened to her. She said she hates me, told me to die . I been depressed till then , lost 15 kgs and don't know what to do with life

    • @scottirving1319
      @scottirving1319 3 роки тому

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  • @bargelaperera2149
    @bargelaperera2149 2 роки тому

    When i reach out. She ignores me and tells me i used to do the same. I feel the break up is dramatic

  • @darceysaffron-marygetty9626
    @darceysaffron-marygetty9626 4 роки тому +4

    My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he was sick of arguing all the time and he said he loves me and maybe me and him can get back together in the future but then he’s horrible so what do I do? 😭

    • @skyus1Mache
      @skyus1Mache 4 роки тому

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      @lovefamily8227 4 роки тому

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    • @auds_e7
      @auds_e7 2 роки тому

      Same issue for me too

  • @rampagenelson9658
    @rampagenelson9658 4 роки тому +80

    He checks my snap alot like never misses a story 🤪

    • @Jw-pg8ue
      @Jw-pg8ue 4 роки тому +7

      Yeah mine starting looking at my stories too, when before he would never ever look at them, so maybe a good sign?

    • @marcossantiago6160
      @marcossantiago6160 4 роки тому +5

      @@Jw-pg8ue Honestly my ex only looked at my insta story once. It may only mean that they are just curious what are you up to. Just focus on yourself. I kissed my ex today and had a wonderful time with her. If the love is real he will come back eventually. Just focus on yourself. I recommend doing no contact for at least 1-2 months. Block him on everything

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      @peggydawson5923 4 роки тому

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      @peggydawson5923 4 роки тому

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  • @SupriyaKumari-zp8oz
    @SupriyaKumari-zp8oz 4 роки тому

    Hey Chris,
    Me and my boyfriend brokeup a month back. He said he doesn't love me anymore. I love him a lot. I applied the no contact rule and still there is no response from him. I really love him and want him back in my life. Please tell me what should I do?? How can I get him back?

  • @tonyculwick8224
    @tonyculwick8224 4 роки тому +1

    Why does your ex one minute hating you then liking you and keep checking upp on you social media

  • @anniefavour1423
    @anniefavour1423 4 роки тому +4

    My fiance blocked me yesterday and unblocked me today because I was trying to make things right. This is our 4yrs now in relationships. Please what should I do?

    • @drfredoliver3343
      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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  • @lizcoronel8346
    @lizcoronel8346 4 роки тому +7

    hey chris, me and my boyfriend broke up because he said he was stressed because of family stuff and how our arguments were stressing him out more so he broke up with me, it’s been a month and we haven’t talked but i’m so confused because before he broke up with me he’d say i love you back and then i begged him but he said he was done with me and he asked for space and i’ve been giving it to him and like 2 weeks after he unfollowed me on instagram but i didn’t and he keeps posting polls that say “hit you up ?” and idk what to do😣

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Liz, so first thing you need to do is stop watching what he is doing on social media, spend some time on social media and then from there you can reach out with a short positive conversation

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      @matthewcoworker633 4 роки тому

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  • @elibenjamen8729
    @elibenjamen8729 2 роки тому +1

    sign number 5 seems telling. my ex is living with her current bf at his parents house for the passed 7 years. and she provides him 1 of her 2 cars because he doesnt have one mean while ive been working on myself, i have a stable income, a secure income at that, i own my car, i have my own apartment, im saving get a house one day. His goal is to be a heavy metal bassist in a band. i dont understand how that is more attractive. the nly thing i can think of is im just that dam ugly lol fml
    When i do get a house, and all of a sudden shes trying to make contact with me, ill have to tell her to piss off. you dont get my successful results if youre not going to be by my side and take this journey of growth with me

  • @goodheart1817
    @goodheart1817 4 роки тому +2

    Hey chris he said he has no feelings for me right now. He has some family issue, carrer issue and our fight makes him more stressful. But didn't confirm our breakup. He just ignores my texts and calls. He rejects all my calls. He has left social media. Whenever i call him he either rejects it or switches off his phone. What should i do?

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому

      Hey GH, I would treat this as he has broken up with you and follow the program starting with a No Contact

  • @Karina-dd7hs
    @Karina-dd7hs 4 роки тому +6

    Hi Chris how can I contact you, I have so complicated hard break up. 😥

  • @lingardtiktok5260
    @lingardtiktok5260 4 роки тому +2

    My ex and I living together and he wanted to involve someone else and I didn't agree to it and one simple argument then next day he said he's not ready for a relationship but he's with another woman and he ask me get a work build myself and go then he said I must leave quick then he says build myself up and go am confuse but we live together hes barely here but when he comes home I feel to break down but i fight my best to be strong

    • @lingardtiktok5260
      @lingardtiktok5260 4 роки тому

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    • @lingardtiktok5260
      @lingardtiktok5260 4 роки тому

      @dignity Italy its getting real worst I just feel like giving up .. but will give this lady a try .

    • @lingardtiktok5260
      @lingardtiktok5260 4 роки тому

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      @mariados4394 3 роки тому

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      @mariados4394 3 роки тому

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  • @Claudia48898
    @Claudia48898 4 роки тому +1

    What if he still has personal stuff at my place? Clothes, cologne

    • @bosa5315
      @bosa5315 3 роки тому

      If you do not hear from him in 3 months donated it to charity,

  • @simmeongaskin1114
    @simmeongaskin1114 3 роки тому

    Is there any tips or info for men going through losing the woman they love and are in love with?..

    • @desmondrex4946
      @desmondrex4946 3 роки тому

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      @desmondrex4946 3 роки тому

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  • @roxanareyes5733
    @roxanareyes5733 3 роки тому +3

    I’m going on week 3 of a break. We talk 1 or 2 a day through text 🤷🏻‍♀️

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      @dallasfreduthman3761 3 роки тому

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    • @paolanamuncura8879
      @paolanamuncura8879 3 роки тому +1

      So confusing

    • @roxanareyes5733
      @roxanareyes5733 3 роки тому +1

      Paola Namuncura I don’t know how long the break is for lol.

  • @SHAYERIMITRA
    @SHAYERIMITRA 4 роки тому +9

    My ex posted on social media that he found himself breaking up with me

  • @Sarahh_
    @Sarahh_ Рік тому

    He broke up with me 2 months ago and we went into no contact. We still had each other on Instagram. He’s been watching my stories and yesterday I posted a pic of me and a close friend who’s like a sister to me and he viewed it, then randomly unfollowed me and took me off his list too. His profile is public now.
    What does this even mean ? So confused

  • @karissasha392
    @karissasha392 3 роки тому +1

    Wat if my ex sees the same video and does the same thing lol like the no contact rule won't we ignore ourselves for decades 😢😢

  • @Soulbonyyt
    @Soulbonyyt 4 роки тому +5

    Hey chris i am one of you biggest follower, watched most of your videos but i am too stuck here, me and my ex had a breakup 9 months ago, i did NCR then we started to talk, took it slowly, in the process i become clingy and needy again(reason of break), now we both just argue on call and now call take place twice or less in a week, should i do NCR again to work myself a betterment version so that this problem mai never occur, but i am afraid i could lose her, should i try NCR 2 again and yes then for how long, please do tell

    • @mikeleongrosch5274
      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

      Hey bro! I had same experience like yours before

    • @mikeleongrosch5274
      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

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      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

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      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

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      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

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  • @xriotx3005
    @xriotx3005 3 роки тому +4

    I blocked her on everything because after 2 weeks of a breakup shes in a relationship with a new guy going on dates kissing him like our 3 years were nothing to her, ik I have to move on and its killing me, so I blocked her number socials to help me move on, saying she wants to be friends with me, like no that's not happening, this depression and sadness is eating me up, and it sucks, but I just have to heal it's been 1 1/2 months now, shes been with him for a month, and I just cant believe it, but I accepted it, I dont want to feel hurt no more

    • @danielmorg8155
      @danielmorg8155 3 роки тому

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      @danielmorg8155 3 роки тому

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    • @IHaveASadderDay
      @IHaveASadderDay 3 роки тому

      That sucks man. Kinda how I feel rn. How are you holding up?

    • @xriotx3005
      @xriotx3005 3 роки тому

      I posted that 4 months after the situation it's been 8 months now, and I still miss her and think about happy times, but her actions and wrong doings help me push forward, it's hard to let go but the way I was raise I'm not gonna stay in one spot, I have improved, and accepted what happened, her actions helped me move on, I hope you feel better sir or ma'am with this situation, it sucks but it does get better trust me

  • @mikeneff832
    @mikeneff832 3 роки тому +1

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  • @bhagyeshtrivedi6896
    @bhagyeshtrivedi6896 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Chris it's been 3 months of our break up and I am still blocked even her friends have blocked me too. There is no way of communication at the moment. I don't know what to do now.

    • @meosoukasene820
      @meosoukasene820 4 роки тому +2

      You be ok man . .. Time to find your purpose in life level ☝. If she doesn't want to grow with u now u might not need her later. .

    • @monica386
      @monica386 4 роки тому +2

      i think it's time for you to move on, dude.

    • @cchis1672
      @cchis1672 4 роки тому +1

      Her loss bro move on

  • @princessbrigettelabadan5574
    @princessbrigettelabadan5574 4 роки тому +4

    we decided to have a break up, bcoz of ldr but we still love each other.. he still sends messages in me.. what will i do..?? its so hard.

    • @rachelmarie5300
      @rachelmarie5300 4 роки тому +1

      princess min jung I’ve had 2 long distance relationships with them being in Korea while i live in the US, they were both long term so I know how you feel 😭. My advice would be that if you can’t see a future with each other or if it’s just too hard for it to work out, it’s not healthy to keep hanging on. It hurts too bad and one or both people will have a hard time living their life normally again. It takes time to heal from relationships especially long term because theres usually much more emotion vs an in person relationship. But sometimes loving someone means letting them go because thats whats best for them and best for you. Now I am on the other side. My boyfriend (Actually ex now, we broke up a few days ago) We dated for 5 months. He broke up with his LDR relationship 2 months before meeting me. I was his rebound relationship and I got hurt in the end. He wasn’t healed yet and he became emotionally unavailable and we broke up because i gave so much energy for the relationship and he couldnt yet. He still cares and misses his ex because they were best friends, but he knows they cant be together. Hes having a hard time and I know he can heal, but they are still talking and its making it harder and more confusing so hes having a really hard time. In the end keeping the contact makes it worse because it’s hurting both people. But if both people want the relationship then they will stay. But when they start wanting different things, then it’s only respectful to know when it should end and i know thats so hard to accept😭 Ive been on both sides so I know 😖 im sending you a virtual hug😭 I hope we can both heal 🥺 if you want to talk more you can dm me on instagram 🥺 @rachelmareep

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      @dannyllawrence8023 4 роки тому

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  • @IncredibleMay
    @IncredibleMay 3 роки тому +6

    My ex has already blocked me saying that he doenst love me anymore... I guess thts a permanent break up?

    • @sterlingforbes3872
      @sterlingforbes3872 3 роки тому +4

      Brutal, sorry to hear that. That hurt I'm sure. Personally I don't understand the whole blocking thing. My gf told me she was falling for me, I told her I am in love with her and she ghosted me like 4 days ago. Why are relationships such a pain the ass...

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      @danbie86 3 роки тому +1

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  • @marywilkins8679
    @marywilkins8679 3 роки тому +2

    I got back with my ex 7 years after are divorce. And didn’t have contact with him for 5 years.

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      @paulhardy2248 3 роки тому

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  • @darshini5669
    @darshini5669 4 роки тому +2

    Hey Chris, my bf break up with me on Feb 2020...He left me because he said he is not ready for a relationship plus he doesn't want a relationship. I applied the no contact rule but he doesn't block me in any social media..He even sees my Instagram stories. At end of March, i text him.It was a casual text like...Hey,how's life going?hope everything is ok. He replied but it was like one word replies. then i didn't text him after that.But I had my birthday recently.Surprisingly he send a text of a birthday wish. I really love him so much..I want him back...What should i do???

  • @DianaMartinez-kq6tj
    @DianaMartinez-kq6tj 4 роки тому +6

    I was with my bf 3 years. He told me he needed space this is like our first break up (he does work two jobs has kids) things did change over time. He did state he wasn’t throwing anything away he just needed time to sort problems out. He also stated I never said I didn’t want to be with you I just need time. But yet towards the end we were just arguing . I did make the mistake to chase him at first so I stopped for 5 days already Im doing the no contact rule. What do I do?! The last time time we hung out we watched a movie ate pizza etc and kissed and that’s it. He hasn’t blocked me on social media he has seen my story . What do I do? Should I contact him or wait

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    • @Jw-pg8ue
      @Jw-pg8ue 4 роки тому

      Hopefully space is all he needs, I was with my bf for three years too! It's so hard to not talk to them, that's first time my ex and I took a break I didn't stop chasing him and I think that's why we broke up again because he never had that space, hopefully you're doing okay!

    • @DianaMartinez-kq6tj
      @DianaMartinez-kq6tj 4 роки тому

      J w 3 weeks and I haven’t heard from him ...I’m sad but I decided to do no contact

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    • @mikeleongrosch5274
      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

      My dear! I had same experience like yours before

  • @iheartyoux29
    @iheartyoux29 4 роки тому +7

    Lol we went no contact for almost 2 months after I begged and humiliated myself when I didn't do anything in the first place (which now I see was wrong on my part) but he was always the first one to watch my story...recently he had been commenting on my pictures again and 2 weeks ago he tried sending me a snap. Since I didn't give him the reaction he wanted he got mad and blocked me everywhere 🤦🏻‍♀️ What do y'all think? Will he come back? 🤔

    • @drfredoliver3343
      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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      @drfredoliver3343 4 роки тому

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  • @lukedavies2406
    @lukedavies2406 4 роки тому

    Yo my ex left to get some space since we live together. She asked for something to "remind me of you" to pack for her, and alongside this reminder item she took love letters I wrote and asked me to send all the cutesy love stuff to her for her to read over Facebook. The issue being she believes that'll help her issue of not feeling anything for me right now since she got into another sexual relationship 1 week after our 4 year relationship ended. During this break she is eager to text me and Snapchat me, you know those classic selfies, funny faces and filters people do? yeah, those kinds of snaps. This does sound like an incredibly good chance of getting her back does it?

  • @_Lazare
    @_Lazare Рік тому

    Hmmm , 2.5 yrs now !
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  • @stephblenheim4283
    @stephblenheim4283 4 роки тому +5

    I don’t know what to do... my ex contacted me after a week of NC and I caved in as he asked an important question. I made a mistake to reply and got talking and then he still said he doesn’t want me back. He ended things because he is much older and says we are on different timelines. I ended up begging and pleading and arguing. I have pushed him further away. I try starting the NC again but he keeps texting me and commenting on my Instagram and liking my pics. Will no contact work a 3rd time round? Please help.

    • @jazeeallure2151
      @jazeeallure2151 4 роки тому +1

      Oh yes it will. As soon as you give the impression that you have moved on, or has gotten busy he'll see you in a different way. He knows you are needy and you will possibly do anything to have him back. Give him the opportunity to chase you and don't give in easily, quit responding to his text. After your 30 day no contact review his behavior, if there's no change another 30 will work just fine. Beat of luck

    • @mikeleongrosch5274
      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

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      @mikeleongrosch5274 4 роки тому

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    @queenxravencake985x 4 роки тому +6

    I have a question what happens if my ex said I’m too good for him what do I do ?

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      @aroojaziz 4 роки тому +1

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  • @carlathompson9308
    @carlathompson9308 3 роки тому +1

    Yeah we talk to each other over a long period of time almost everyday

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      @cyferwayne9100 3 роки тому

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      @cyferwayne9100 3 роки тому

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  • @eunicemartinez5001
    @eunicemartinez5001 4 роки тому

    My situation is a little different. I broke up with him two weeks ago and it's been 2 weeks NC. Usually he always contacts me the same day or the next day every time we've broken up in the past (we were together a little over a year) we've had our fair share of fights and I broke up with him due to emotional abuse. I want him back tho because I feel like we can work through our problems and I feel like he really does love me. Since I'm the one who dumped him. So my question is if I broke up with him due to this reason, I feel like he should reach out to me first?? I'm kind of lost when I watch these videos because honestly I feel like the dumpee as apposed to the dumper. I feel like I've been dumped because he hasn't reached out to me. Does all this still apply when it comes down to no contact and who should contact who? I feel like I'm the prize because I've done so much for him and I want him to feel the loss of me enough to contact me but he's stubborn as hell. Please help!

    • @jasonallred1936
      @jasonallred1936 4 роки тому

      you broke up with him. if you want him back contact him and ask to meet up. in my un biased opinion he's probably trying to work on himself and move on, so... it's up to you

  • @Motivational_lines_daily
    @Motivational_lines_daily 3 роки тому +6

    i am confused if she will come back or not as our breakup happened when we get distant from one another .....means long distance relationship...

  • @ginacarrano50yearsago15
    @ginacarrano50yearsago15 4 роки тому +5

    She was watching all of my story’s and never missed one then out of the blue just unadded me after no contact for 2 weeks. What does that mean?

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +5

      It could be an emotional reaction to seeing you doing well without them. It happens often dont worry

    • @ginacarrano50yearsago15
      @ginacarrano50yearsago15 4 роки тому +1

      Chris Seiter is it a good sign no contact is working?

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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      @sarumanjoy7547 4 роки тому

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  • @creativejay-db7261
    @creativejay-db7261 3 роки тому +1

    relationship sucks! I don't want them anymore

  • @abbiemullins6321
    @abbiemullins6321 4 роки тому +1

    What if he blocked me and isn't answering calls or texts??

    • @AjithAjith-qi7km
      @AjithAjith-qi7km 4 роки тому +1

      Use law of attraction. Let him go and stay calm. He will definitely come back to you.

  • @jacquesyu8571
    @jacquesyu8571 4 роки тому +3

    How about ldr? we just broke up lastnight🤣and i blocked him😔

  • @angelobright4003
    @angelobright4003 4 роки тому +4

    Me and my ex been broken up for 5 1/2 months and he was invested we text talked hung out he took me places and everything but soon his gf found out he found other ways to communicate with me and found other ways to see me
    2 weeks ago she gave him an ultimatum and he disappeared on me sneaked me a message telling me to use our hidden email

  • @keturahjackson4479
    @keturahjackson4479 Рік тому

    Hi! Me and my ex broke up at six years. I ended things and four months later he’s moved on to someone new. And didn’t say happy birthday to me. However I expressed that I want him back but he’s not willing to b back with me. He blocks and unblocks me. He never texts me first I always reached out first. What should I do!

  • @jcgal3647
    @jcgal3647 3 роки тому +2

    Ive been in a long distance relationship with my lesbian partner for almost 2yrs. We just met 2 weeks and the rest was long distance. Evrything was so fine we were so madly inlove i thought we were. The way she tells me that she love me so much and it always i believe in that. But a month a go. She bacame cold, she distant herself from me. Then i asked her whats wrong she just said she she wants to be alone coz that time she has a lot of problems regarding to her family, her career and to herself. When we celebrate our 2nd anniversary i thought she was okay coz she texted me that she was happy having me all this time in her lif, that she was thankful that i am willing to wait for her. After 2 days of our 2nd anniversary she broke up with me😭😭 she told me that she tried her best to save our relationship but she's not happy anymore. Yes she love me but she's not inlove anymore. Is there any chance that i could have her back?i know there's no one invlove. Its just that she just want to focus on her career to her family to her goal without me. But i still told her that i'm always here waiting for her, that i still love her despite of everything happend between us. Then she just say thank you and let us focus our different goals for each of us. She doesn't even say that i will wait for her. Like she wants me to look forward without her. Can i still have her back? Its been almost a month since we broke up but still i am in pain and misses her a lot. But i think she really mean it what she say that she wants to focus for her self only😢😢😭 it NO CONTACT RULE will works for us????

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      @ryancoal1109 3 роки тому

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    • @tecktonalex
      @tecktonalex 4 місяці тому

      how undertanding were you? did you know that her emotions were reallly important to her? maybe she needed some time alone and having alot of time together got her exhausted? maybe she is an Avoidant type or even Fearfull avoidant. undertand what is going in her mind before doing anything. do not be a crybaby. be a strong wall. be emotinally stable and have a clear mind.

  • @terrelladams2905
    @terrelladams2905 4 роки тому +15

    Today makes fifteen months so I called it quits............

    • @chrisseitercoaching
      @chrisseitercoaching  4 роки тому +3

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    • @terrelladams2905
      @terrelladams2905 4 роки тому +1

      @@chrisseitercoaching shes in another rebound relationship so I rather leave it be.

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