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  • Опубліковано 24 гру 2023
  • On this episode we take a look at the resolutions we made last year and see if we stuck to them or not…
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 90

  • @Wtrrx5478
    @Wtrrx5478 7 місяців тому +129

    omg seeing Anna cry made me so upset, One thing i'll tell you guys is your future lies in your daily routine. Sending Anna lots of love and hugs, love you both

  • @jsjsjdjfhjdjsjajshdhfheh
    @jsjsjdjfhjdjsjajshdhfheh 7 місяців тому +63

    the fact that hearing a resolution involving your partner has brought you to tears is enough please the cycle will kill you stop trying to make people better or change if the fundamentals of you relationship are to different. don’t settle anna inshallah. it’s hard to let go of what your familiar with but there is someone for everyone you deserve someone who will compromise and makes you feel good and makes you want to be better who is calm and what’s to do the little things you want to i hope the last episode of 2024 you will be happy and healthy ur sister too i love you guys ur heart deserves to be at peace 💗💗🫶🏾

  • @18kayyy82
    @18kayyy82 7 місяців тому +59

    Inshallah Anna and Mandi will both get their happily every afters in 2024

  • @jodi_leigh5246
    @jodi_leigh5246 7 місяців тому +75

    We’re not getting bored of hearing the same thing, if anything it makes me realise we’re all the same. To 2025 ladies 😂🥂

  • @user-oc2it6tz9e
    @user-oc2it6tz9e 7 місяців тому +47

    Anna If you have seen all the old podcast episodes, you’ve been saying you're not happy with your relationship with Cowlick for so long. I recently watched them all again, and you said when you're 31 you’ll leave him. I love you, but I'm not going to lie. I can see you're very unhappy in your relationship, and that’s what’s making everything worse for you. I just hope you break up with Cowlick because you deserve better, and whatever is bothering you now will bother you once you're married. You might as well save yourself now!

  • @Stacey14608
    @Stacey14608 7 місяців тому +76

    Girl, this podcast has been such a comfort to me every Tuesday during a rough year. Thank you so much for doing it and I hope 2024 is both of your years ❤️

  • @user-vd4zl9bg9b
    @user-vd4zl9bg9b 7 місяців тому +13

    Having a resolution about your partner and knowing you deserve better says it all… you know deep down your worth and what you could have but are too scared. Stop holding onto that smidge of hope you have and I hope you have the strength and courage to do what is best for YOU and your happiness in 2024…

    • @marianevin4784
      @marianevin4784 7 місяців тому +2

      For sure you can tell by their tears that they know they should leave

  • @IsseyJ559
    @IsseyJ559 7 місяців тому +31

    omg seeing anna cry made me cry, listening to your podcast this year gave me the strength to get out of my toxic relationship. its all about self love. wishing you both all the best 😘

  • @user-eo5qp2li5f
    @user-eo5qp2li5f 7 місяців тому +24

    If someone brings out the worst in you then they are not for you

  • @taniakhan5070
    @taniakhan5070 7 місяців тому +33

    I am obsessed with Anna ! She’s so real.
    I wish you didn’t suppress those feelings , a lot of us are going through that shit. Hurts to let go but also to stay.

  • @HS-kt8mi
    @HS-kt8mi 7 місяців тому +11

    Take the bold step Anna! You know what your gut is telling you so you need to follow it, look back in ten years and say - I got myself here. No one can decide for you x ❤

  • @Shootingstar91
    @Shootingstar91 7 місяців тому +12

    Anna and Mandy you deserve so much more and time is so precious you would hate to look back 4 years from now and be like ‘I wish I acted back then’ I know it’s easier said than done but you can it’s possible! ❤ wishing and praying for you

  • @cookielicious82
    @cookielicious82 7 місяців тому +18

    I saw Mandy by chance walking near me and she is not fat at all… I am not sure why she feels that way…. And she is just as pretty in person. As for guests, hmm I like your chemistry but maybe it would be fun too.

  • @jsjsjdjfhjdjsjajshdhfheh
    @jsjsjdjfhjdjsjajshdhfheh 7 місяців тому +17

    mandis resolution at the end were she compared her partner hurting her feeling to cheating or violence to make it seem less bad is actually sad to see. this is from a place of love babes i love you guys don’t settle don’t downplay your emotions it’s okay to feel but feel then move on don’t dwell. men don’t tolerate SHIT honestly u guys are the prize actions are a reflection of them not you obviously but those actions are done because they KNOW they can get away with it don’t tolerate be stand on BUSINESS bro ur not the one to play with don’t cry for 7 hours don’t let them have that much control over you. standing on business in 2024🙏🏾

    • @marianevin4784
      @marianevin4784 7 місяців тому +4

      Yes I think comparing to a worst case scenario isn't healthy

  • @Faith-sr8zw
    @Faith-sr8zw 7 місяців тому +9

    The minute I made my health and long term happiness as a goal the weight loss was just a consequence. But tbh I genuinely don’t assess or judge my weight fluctuations…I now care more on how fast and strong I am

  • @bamboo437
    @bamboo437 7 місяців тому +5

    Anna seeing you cry made me cry too, you both deserve so much more and I pray 2024 brings you so much happiness and growth In’sha’Allah

  • @bubblefun4564
    @bubblefun4564 7 місяців тому +6

    No guests pls. Everyone does that and is so boring. The dynamic between you is so beautiful and flows so well, keep it as it is plsss ❤❤

  • @summaiyarobi4915
    @summaiyarobi4915 7 місяців тому +4

    All our lives are shambles this is why we watch you :) your so real

  • @angeltaylor223
    @angeltaylor223 7 місяців тому +10

    Babes, rewarding good behaviour and “training” is for dogs and toddlers. These are fully grown men, with real world experience, if they wanted to be doing things, they would be. Doing this and hoping things will change, is only going to hurt you. Don’t waste your time x

  • @ldales95
    @ldales95 7 місяців тому +5

    Hope you guys are ok you can really see in your eyes that something is hurting you both ❤ sending love

  • @jemmaevans8206
    @jemmaevans8206 7 місяців тому +7

    My advice is to just let yourself get upset and feel the emotions, then move on. I feel like advice these days focuses on hiding or invalidating emotions, but that just causes people to run away from problems. Wishing you girls the best 2024 ❤

    • @bubblefun4564
      @bubblefun4564 7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely 10000% right. In psychology for young children it says that in order to grow resilient and healthy adults you must validate your children’s feelings no matter how unrelatable or small it may be, this will give them the confidence to identify and express themselves better as an adult. So first rule for adults is understanding that their at times irrational feelings are valid and they come from somewhere in order to heal you have to look bk at its origin- understand and self soothe them. The person that hurt you won’t be the one that heals you - only you can heal you 🩷💕

  • @chard3582
    @chard3582 7 місяців тому +9

    You ladies are so incredible, completely relatable...this allows everyone to literally feel human. We don't always meet all our goals and we shouldn't beat ourselves up about it. Let's keep going, sending you ladies so much love and happiness in 2024 ❤

  • @zezehzazi6641
    @zezehzazi6641 7 місяців тому +6

    can we talk about how Anna looks AMAZING 😍🔥+ seeing her obviously not happy about her current relationship really broke my heart I really want to see her happier I’ll pray for that 🙏

  • @estherappiah2105
    @estherappiah2105 7 місяців тому +6

    You girls have honestly made such an impact on me this year. You have reminded me time and time again that it’s okay not to have it all figured out 💖 thank you 💖

  • @abes2758
    @abes2758 4 місяці тому +1

    My therapist says ‘having chemistry with someone, does not mean you have comparability’
    It’s so hard I know, but it’s so true. ❤ sorry you are upset Anna. But also love how vulnerable you both are xo

  • @lusciousmakeup143
    @lusciousmakeup143 7 місяців тому +16

    Thank you for this podcast. Love you girls and all the advice and fun laughs you have shared with us ❤ Big supporter

  • @amaragrey9795
    @amaragrey9795 7 місяців тому +11

    Anna needs to big up herself, YOU ARE ANNA EFFING VAKILI

  • @dfsx7934
    @dfsx7934 7 місяців тому +7

    discovering this podcast this year was the best thing !! pure entertainment

  • @smh8414
    @smh8414 7 місяців тому +2

    YOU DONT NEED GUESTS! watching both of u is so entertaining and i love how real and honest u are, everyone else is fake . So just stay as u are love it

  • @AA-qb7ni
    @AA-qb7ni 6 місяців тому +1

    Seeing you girls cry made me so sad. You're both so strong and you CAN achieve your goals. Just keep prioritising yourself and make it a good year ❤❤

  • @user-tg8qv4ei3i
    @user-tg8qv4ei3i 7 місяців тому +4

    Love how you both are generally so happy for each other 💕

  • @NuraM444
    @NuraM444 7 місяців тому +10

    I hope the less emotional side of you is not because you're desensitised to the bullshit from your partners as they don't ever change so you've given up crying and instead deal with it

    • @marianevin4784
      @marianevin4784 7 місяців тому +1

      I think they are slowly losing interest in their bfs

  • @SelmaaC
    @SelmaaC 7 місяців тому +2

    I’m so proud of you guys for working part time as a pharmacist and lawyer, and keeping up with the knowledge instead of only relying on the influencer career💪❤️

  • @marianevin4784
    @marianevin4784 7 місяців тому +4

    I think the fact that ye are both crying about how your relationships havent changed when Anna was getting upset shows that YE KNOW ye deserve better and that you need to leave. Your tears are coming from your gut feelings coming out and because ye are both in not great relationships ye feel for each other

  • @heyeveryone
    @heyeveryone 6 місяців тому

    I'm sorry that you were crying over the state of your relationship. I hope this year brings more happiness and even more wonderful experiences!

  • @demipapas123
    @demipapas123 7 місяців тому

    You girls give me so much comfort every episode you make. Your videos are like my therapy. Never stop pls ❤️

  • @RS-eq9tl
    @RS-eq9tl 7 місяців тому +4

    I love the matching all black looks so gorgeous 😍

  • @nastystyle9280
    @nastystyle9280 7 місяців тому +3

    Don’t let men drag you down ❤

  • @Selsieh
    @Selsieh 7 місяців тому

    Absolutely love you both and how real you both are! Keep up the great work and can’t wait to see more ♥️🙏🏻

  • @izaahc173
    @izaahc173 7 місяців тому +1

    Sending you ladies so much love and duas. In sha allah 2024 will be 10x better. Thank you both for making these videos you really got me thru this year.

  • @susua1144
    @susua1144 7 місяців тому

    Thank you both so much for this podcast! I really hope 2024 is your year and your wishes come true!!! Really looking forward to the podcast next year and on Patreon!!! HNY xxxx

  • @taylarconrad7454
    @taylarconrad7454 6 місяців тому

    Not me crying with you both!!! So proud of you ladies!! You are such an inspiration & your supporters LOVE you.

  • @DaniellaJoyFitness
    @DaniellaJoyFitness 7 місяців тому

    I wish I could meet you ladies out and about! Your podcast is doing amazing! Love Patreon! I am still watching the ad video 😅 but I’ve been listening to you ladies since long before UA-cam! Broke my heart seeing you both cry but this is your chance to make it happen for yourselves!!! You deserve to be happy ❤❤❤

  • @jsjsjdjfhjdjsjajshdhfheh
    @jsjsjdjfhjdjsjajshdhfheh 7 місяців тому +1

    just a tip that helped me when it comes to proving that ur right is that at the end of the day not everyone’s intelligence is on the same level and they genuinely aren’t smart enough to understand and that has helped me take a step back and realize theyre just never gonna get it

  • @user-li4gy5ew8g
    @user-li4gy5ew8g 4 місяці тому

    Omg I love you guys, seriously so refreshing finding funny people these days

  • @sophiaboukersi3687
    @sophiaboukersi3687 7 місяців тому +2

    This was so refreshing so different from the UA-camrs that try to pretend to have it all together with the “that girl pressure” this is real life. Normal pressure of being a woman in 2023 thank you for the realness

  • @Nomad332
    @Nomad332 6 місяців тому

    Recently started getting obsessed with this podcast, I just love how raw you both are, nowadays people aren’t as authentic as they used to be
    Need to get on the patreon so I’m a part of the group chat, not gonna lie I feel left out

  • @Cielito333
    @Cielito333 7 місяців тому +1

    I love this so much you’re not alone and I’m glad you have eachother

  • @imaan2612
    @imaan2612 7 місяців тому +4

    nah dont care about guests. you lot are entertaining enough

  • @av1136
    @av1136 7 місяців тому

    please never stop making podcasts, love you guys

  • @kaylaarends201
    @kaylaarends201 7 місяців тому

    Love you guys. Always wishing you guys the best ❤

  • @jjsita3879
    @jjsita3879 7 місяців тому +1

    happy new year wishing you both the best in life

  • @Sluxlife
    @Sluxlife 7 місяців тому +6

    Love the episode girls ❤️you should try the challenge 75 hard it’s a mental discipline challenge and I did it’s life changing xx

  • @DemiPapaDemzoxo
    @DemiPapaDemzoxo 6 місяців тому

    Omg when Anna cried I cried 😭 I hope 2024 is beautiful to you both

  • @jamaicarestauro5991
    @jamaicarestauro5991 7 місяців тому +1

    I love your podcast!

  • @habiba-__-27
    @habiba-__-27 5 місяців тому +1

    i feel like you guys could be wayyy better when it comes to instagram this year 😭 like post more, if you create a better base there ppl might come to ur podcast more too. like us we love you guys, we’re not leaving, but you could so create a bigger group of besties by branching out on other platforms like creating content on tiktok and instagram that’s not just podcasts clips, create more content. (i’m saying this bc i love you guys i want you to be millionaires xoxo)

  • @user-dr3jb6ly2h
    @user-dr3jb6ly2h 6 місяців тому +1

    Anna u need to leave this relationship if this does not serve you anymore. I’m 35 right now last year march I left my ex fiancé after 3 years. I had all these worries about I need to marry and have kids. Less than 1 year later I am married with a whole new person and expecting my first child in march. You never know about your blessings around the corner. Don’t waste more time and leave. Your prince is out there. Good luck ❤

  • @TashaPeak
    @TashaPeak 7 місяців тому

    I wanna do the fast too! Pls do it and vlog ur experience if u can. Would be great to watch how it went! Xx

  • @aaliyah.1z183
    @aaliyah.1z183 7 місяців тому

    My fave podcast 🩷

  • @safa108
    @safa108 7 місяців тому

    May 2024 be our year ❤😂 I think you should host a live show for 2025 resolutions 🎉

  • @reffatkausar1
    @reffatkausar1 7 місяців тому +2

    I totally feel myself saying the same thing. I will do much better

  • @eshanebidduth
    @eshanebidduth 7 місяців тому

    Ladies please you need to do a live show in London! I’d go solo ❤ love your podcast so much f

  • @SantaRozeDelvadoress
    @SantaRozeDelvadoress 7 місяців тому +3

    I also used to think that money can solve all my problems and then I can become happy, finally!!!!!!!
    But sadly it cant! It fucking cant, and it is such a shame! If you are not happy with what you got, you never will be happy no matter how much money you will have! I think its a fantasy escaping ye of thinking, what i often use my self! To be happy in life in general you have to work on your self every fucking day, get rid of your childhood traumas what is extremely painful, be grateful, be positive and always ready to start over, be strong etc.
    Being happy is a never ending job, you got to work on it every day.
    Obv money is extremely important, especially the way the world is set up these days and makes things easier and more accessible

  • @emilythompson9894
    @emilythompson9894 7 місяців тому

    I literally watch all your episodes on reeepeaaatttt I actually don’t think it’s normal

  • @jonathancurrington6707
    @jonathancurrington6707 7 місяців тому +1

    Love your videos always makes me lol on a bad day can’t wait to watch more in 2024

  • @HS-kt8mi
    @HS-kt8mi 7 місяців тому

    Please please start a reality show. Mandi is main character energy 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @imaan2612
    @imaan2612 7 місяців тому +1

    Guys forget the 3 day fast. Just do 16 hours fasting a day , water only. 3 days is a stretchhhhhh just stick to daily fasting it’ll change your life

  • @Hannahsyeed
    @Hannahsyeed 7 місяців тому

    icl best epe

  • @somtochijohnny-chukwu
    @somtochijohnny-chukwu 7 місяців тому +2

    I know you guys didn’t ask , but please leave your boyfriends-both of you.

  • @taniakhan5070
    @taniakhan5070 7 місяців тому +3

    Anna 💔🥹

  • @TheRemigija
    @TheRemigija 7 місяців тому

    for the fast, you need to ease into it. First do 24 hours, then wait a couple of weeks, then do 48 hours and wait a month, and then only do 3 days. Even if you try doing 3 days now, you will not make it

  • @LeightonReiley
    @LeightonReiley 7 місяців тому

    😭😭😭

  • @kirichiarella
    @kirichiarella 7 місяців тому

    Aren't all of your vids catch ups tho??

  • @Simonendmam
    @Simonendmam 7 місяців тому

    I think it’s ‘reactive abuse’

  • @Faith-sr8zw
    @Faith-sr8zw 7 місяців тому +1

    Not sure why Anna was analysing Mandis weight but I guess they’re extremely unfiltered with each other

    • @izzy3436
      @izzy3436 7 місяців тому +2

      yeah they are which is why Mandi was fine it bc she’s the same with Anna. Thats how it is with some siblings.

    • @SmileG333
      @SmileG333 7 місяців тому +2

      Yup that's how a lot of siblings are.

    • @luckystone2293
      @luckystone2293 6 місяців тому

      It's because we genuinely want the best for them. I'm like this with my sister too. And I always ask her to be honest with me.

  • @Anastasia-le4iu
    @Anastasia-le4iu 7 місяців тому +7

    Mandi you just need Law in your life to stream this argumentative energy into! It’s a hidden talent haha🤍

  • @bekkyveal4334
    @bekkyveal4334 6 місяців тому

    I love you both 😌💖realest gals to actually listen to and take the best advice from 🥰