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27:10 "This is a true non-dual understanding.....This is the teachings of the Masters available today. This is. Awareness is always in between. If you keep your awareness in between; if you are aware of where the breath oscillates between, this is it. That's what enlightenment experiences; what people who are in this state of flow, that is what is being experienced. It's what is in between. Because in the gap everything is as it is."
Thank God we have someone who is willing to acknowledge the sacred Truth of Tantra. Our addiction to the consumption of material phenomona has had a tragic influence on our collective sexual behaviour. Including the desecration of Tantra. Our obsession with Spiritual practice is a desperate attempt to compensate for the way we have gone. Unfortunately most of us have no idea how to practice Spirituality. It has become a cultural symptom of materialism.
Yoga Namaskar is also an interesting exercise. In Tantra one hand is minus while the other is plus. If you position them behind the neck as in Yoga Namaskar you will draw the energy upwards the spine (the hand palms will function as a magnet). You can also try to lock the fingers of the hands together and put them behind the neck while standing in this exercise.
Thanks Igor. July 2020 i started nofap and zero ejaculation to rise up my frequency from the 2020 mass hypnosis. Certainly worthwhile. 2023 Im 59yrs old. I am catalyst of prosperous outcomes for my family. God life being preserved in thine vessel now co operates thine everything. Compounding each day.
The urges of the flesh are powerful, but the mind when in control of the animus is a more powerful force. I struggle with the process of controlling it. The amount of love and desire to create within my form is overwhelming. The act of intercourse and the release of that energy is an urge that we are not taught to harness in any aspect of our lives. The practice of resisting that urge and redirecting that energy has proven beneficial in my life. My marriage has seen improvement, and my vitality is slowly returning. The only thing missing is how to access this energy in the most useful ways without missing out on the act of making love with my spouse. Physical touch is a love language. Moreover, my own, and not having that intimacy, is proving itself a challenging exercise in self-love, lacking an outward expression. Do you offer any insights?
@@vivislavidaaGood questions. for myself its been 3 yrs with zero intimate partners. I was rejected and asked to leave by my last partner in 2020 for being a conspiracy theorist because I did not want the you know what 19 thing in my arm/body. Since then my luck is more certainty and predictable. At the 3yrs stage of nofap and zero ejaculation perhaps its similar to being a 3yr old child who absorbs everything in osmosis. There is nothing special regarding my daily habits. I like to remember bible verses everyday like Matthew 6:33, Romans 12:2 I believe I witness profound outcomes meditating on the word of God.
@@Liescomefromtheright I believe our possibilities have been calcified by the systems of debt, war, religion, schools, death etc...Does nofap and zero ejaculation help to decalcify areas in my psychology. After 3 years there is definitely ascension. Sexual intimacy is not priority for myself. The brain, body, mind and soul energy boosts are really cool
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Effortless technique. majestic and wholesome delivery gives birth to the whims of creativity. to practice to deliverate without theory without instruction or without chase is the electricty of the music of the fertile soil of life that gives birth to the voice of the soul of life🎉
I think this might prove to be the most important and insightful sharing of wisdom that I’ve received so far in this life. You have brought clarity to so much of what’s been perplexing me my whole life. Grateful this was suggested, and that I clicked on it. My own ham-fisted attempt at energy transmutation, I started a bunch of creative hobbies like woodcarving, sketching, carpentry, gardening, now, at 41, I’ve never had so much sexual energy in my life - total backfire 😆 I am thrilled that this is only the first video of yours I’ve seen, so much more to look forward to! Thank you.
Could you elaborate on this idea, please? Were you trying to sublimate via the ostensible process of transmuting by fostering creative/iterative powers? My creative powers have been going through many peaks in the past few years, now in my late 40s. My testosterone is lower than it was in my 20s, when I was an amateur. I find that not really caring about sexuality in any way makes it easy to spend my time on creative pursuits.
@@johngrunwell6101 if you mean did I assume that creative pursuits would be suitable conduits through which I could release creative energy, then, yes. But I think a feedback loop was created instead, by creating more, i fostered more energy to create. And because I’m happiest when doing those things I mentioned, I’m healthier, and feel more attractive (and objectively just am), so I’ve been having bellows put to the embers of my sexual energy in the form of flirtations from beautiful women (I’m a hetero dude, so that my thing). What I benefitted most from in this video, was the way Igor highlighted the fact that the wave of arousal-climax-emptiness, or rise, apex, descent, emptiness is throughout the universe, certainly not just relegated to the human sexual experience. And lived experiences are culminations of these overlapping waves of rise, peak, descent, emptiness. I’ve done a lot of audio production over the years, so i have the visual of a wave form forever in my mind, which I think has been helpful with this. Like an apple tree. The life span of the tree itself is a wave, and each season it experiences is a wave, and 3 waves exist within that wave: the growth and death of the leaves, and the flowering and bearing of fruit, which comes in 2 waves. The flower rises, has its apex, and descent, which brings forth the fruit, which has its rise, apex, and decent. The fruit bears the seed, and on it goes. And I see my error in even using the words “sexual energy”, because deeming one feeling “sexual energy”, and something else “artistic energy” is like saying water and ice are made of different things. A couple more things Igor’s thoughts brought forth for me: Sex and shame: raised Roman Catholic as I was, sex and shame go hand in hand, and that shame likes to drape itself over the emptiness that settles in after an orgasm, had with someone else present or alone, matters not. Understanding, accepting, and internalizing the knowledge that the emptiness is as natural as the arousal and climax, and not a confirmation of a “sin” committed, will be important steps forward for me. “Play the tape to the end...” is something you hear sometimes in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous, don’t ask me how I know, I won’t tell, but in this case, it came to my mind when thinking about how it is beneficial to see where and how arousal, climax, emptiness play out all around us, and how we can perhaps spare ourselves suffering by playing the tape to the end, seeing what emptiness is inevitable in a given situation, and learn to accept it before it happens... or before it happens the next time haha
I love my girlfriend so so much, when we get together we talk about sweet nothings for hours and hours on end, just being with her is beautiful and wonderful i love her so much ❤️
I am in the same situation. I am so grateful for this oppurtunity that not all men will have in their life. In my experience though the line between love and sex is very very thin. And we have to be very careful. Sex and desires can destroy us faster than our worst imaginable enemies. The energy of sex can likewise strengthen us more than anything. Right now I'm trying to find that healthy line through this wise gentleman's teaching.
This is so true.... In my experience only real Love itself and a clear mind can navigate you through desire without graving and getting atteched. But also without supressing und "killing" this precious "energy" But often its so subtil....mistakes are done so easily. It helps so much when both are willing to deal with full conciousness and care with this holy gift .
@@MrSMITCHERS You can have sex in love and then plain animalistic, egoistic sex. The one is making love and the other just lustful sex. When you want to give love to your woman through sex and not only consider your pleasure, then that's having sex out of love. Beneficial for bonding, health and spiritual alignment. In true love, having sex is done without craving it, overdoing it and without sexual phantasies. In the act of making love you are present and your mind don't drift off....totally present in the situation which is good for your partner too... If you are practicing semen retention, you can learn to have sex without releasing... Then you regulate how often you release by practicing, but orgasm, for you, is no longer the point or purpose of sex.... Masturbation is abandoned because why do it anymore? lol
You can choose to be one half of a whole or whole. Both are beautiful and have been necessary parts of the human evolution journey. It just proves that being in a relationship and not being in a relationship are both beautiful and can be massively beneficial
From what I understand, it seems that if someone raises their respect for sexual acts and treats sexual transmutation as an art. Similarly like respecting the other arts of music, painting, dancing, cooking. Of course everyone enjoys the end experience the most, the “climax” of watching the dance, tasting the food, listing to the final piece, the thrilling feeling of cumming, seeing the painting behind the frame. It’s that when we respect sexual transmutation as an art that we can enjoy everything that is included with experiencing that art, the pre seduction, the endless conversations, the infinite exploration of one another.
I already watched this. It was good. I saw the community post for comments regarding the question of other ways we use the energy to transmute for higher purpose. I am reminded of one of the more delicate essences in that practice. Although I do not know much about the subject, I think the ways in which a branch of this practice can be made into another form is through the bond with mother nature. It was satisfying to hear you mention the words "know your father, stick to mother". To cultivate the yoke through the touch with a tree or earth beneath feet and give into it the ecstatic flow of the creator union to the body and life giving force of the mother is, I think, a gentle and delicate process but in a slightly catalytic way because the ebbing wave must have a sandy shore to settle back into its own field of creation. In the untrained or the "only knows little bits of everything" type of learner, we wonder how to survive on the land by growing our own food and it's through this we notice ways to have a deep knowing about nature's ecology. A tree is old and becoming diseased but will still provide year after year. We think maybe it now needs something from me and so we give it a few jolts of the eros spark in conception. The choice between on the shelf products and the balance of the health and welfare or having purchasing power is a difficult thing to wrestle with in this time of change. To choose another accessible and responsible resource to cultivate in these day to day activities makes sense to undertake as the place to repair what was broken in our local and global homes. Thank you Igor for sharing your work with us.
So at the end is basically what he is saying is during an act of erotic nature (sex or otherwise) don’t let your awareness be consumed by desire to the point that you lose awareness of what it’s going to feel like AFTER the act? Instead one should practice keeping awareness of the desire as well as how you feel afterwards as well.
This is perfect and the question lead the conversation so it gave the way to connecting the energy to sex. It’s not about the sexual act and every action is connected to the kundalini energy. It’s an energetic experience of moving energy through the body even when not in the act of physical sex. Non ejaculation can be pleasurable and maintain and build and nurture the kundalini energy.
For real, thank you from the bottom of my heart. In my nascent spiritual endeavors, I've fallen in love with the spirit and I know myself as "father" as he so aptly puts, but I have struggled to find the right words and practices for sexual health. It seems so odd, so strange, that so many esoteric men of the past seemed equally as perplexed as me to something so basic to our form. But the simple concept of -- all is erotic, all energy is full of creative life force makes such abundant and evident sense.
A perversion of what is holy, equating creation and divine love with the erotic is a foolish game for simple minded men. No matter how esoteric they will stay in the physical and material and never understand humility of love for their Creator.
@@engineeredtruths8935 I understand your point sir, but we shouldn't be so quick to draw conclusions about what the word "erotic" means. It is easy to say that all matter is sexualized, from subatomic particles all the way through man, and confuse this with and/or justify one's own sexual appetites, but I think Igor's point here is that sexualized/polarized energy is constantly seeking higher modes of expression. It is up to to us to learn the mechanics and elevate our energy.
@@engineeredtruths8935Simple minded men? That’s quite the claim. One that I believe I would have made many moons ago when I definitely could have been accurately labeled a simple minded boy and then a simple minded man. Upon awakening it becomes very amusing to recognize that simple minded judgment for what it was…..a simple minded judgment. Oh but we certainly get a nice shot of self righteousness and superiority when we proclaim it though. That always felt good. I do hope you’re enjoying that.
@@brandonterzictrue, highest and lowest are interwoven, since both are expressions of the all pervading generative force while springing from the same causeless cause and acting in tandem within their respective kingdoms, from mortal to divine for generation's sake. Eros in it's most noble archetype is eternal, all loving, purely sacrificial, brooding, sustaining; the goddess consort "Radha" comes to mind. In contrast the lowest expressions in sexuality which are beastly in nature can bend too much towards self gratification and excess and in that excess therein lies great potential for evil done unto the vitality of the flesh and the capacity for higher thought and feeling within the soul mood. You see a practical balance must be struck between release and abstinence, bodily pleasure and higher mental stimulation. In due time such an honouring principle could be relearned en masse, hard though it may be for most
In the gap, everything is as it is. Take a deep breath, hold it for some seconds while repeating in your heart "i am shiva, i am shiva, i am shiva", meaning "i am the spirit".
The absolut is the point where one is everything and then everything flippes over to be the opposite. Stay and dwell still in this (oneness), with out answering to the outcome, thus realize how the answer gives birth of the question, without anchoring the conflict of opposites in separation and identity. Let it set roots where it pleases but stay observing in a thoughtless awareness. Answer nothing, let it all merge back again, naturally. The apparent question is merely a shade of the answer. The end (of it) is when thought manifests once at all levels, on an instant. Mind is matter.
I would suggest that for women this point of awareness might be different, in the sense that they don't experience exactly the same way, emptiness like, after the culmination of an act, in daoism it's well explained, females are advantaged here, I wonder if tantric teachings differentiate between the sexes...
@moralebooster8437 A guy can train himself to have internal they are completely different ive done it before but not to the full potential its hard to separate it from external or you unload.
@@dr5290I wonder what type of emptiness they mean if these women say this and why? When practiced right it can be a very fulfilling experience with oneself or a partner. It only seems empty if it is for the end result and not for enjoying the journey of self and partner enjoyment. It seems to be more common than not in these comments that we like the yin teachings say we would be fulfilled rather than empty feeling.
In the same way as a woman's body can be physically pregnant in the womb, a man can be spiritually pregnant in the spirit. This gestation is cosmic and it takes place in the head of the man, over a long period of time, before the man finally fertilizes the woman biologically. Just as a pregnant woman behaves passively and lets the body do its thing, the man also behaves passively in the cosmic pregnancy. It is the unborn spirit that actively participates in the entire process of the creation of the soul the man carries. A man who is aware of this can not only impregnate a woman with a soul from this place, he can also impregnate another man, so that the impregnated man can now become a biological father without having knowledge of this deep experience in life. Even other species, soil and plants can he fertilize this way. The sexual act between a man and a woman is expressed as light and vibration. In the woman, a center is activated below the waist and in the man, a center is activated in the head. The two active centers are not separate but one in form and content. The content is light and the form is vibration. The centers of the two lovers flash alternately in both of them as they synchronize time and space and the procreation in the woman's womb mirrors the procreation that took place in the man's head. The light and vibration is masculine. The result as an apperent separation of the "two" (eg. Light & Vibration, Male & Female) is Feminine. In fact it is all one and it is God and God's body, the holy spirit. As above so below.
@@Enzzo777 There are specific texts and traditiones regarding the topic, but what I describe is what I came to complete as a witness, thus realized through direct conscious integration, in respond to creation. Once this stand solid, firm and clear in ones consciousness, one recognizes this wisdom everywhere as well as in texts, confirmations which otherwice dazzles the masses. The "I"ness is both the couple of parrents in one together, of everything percieved, and the grandparents of all yet unborn (yes, one will carry them both; mother and fetus). With this awareness, giving birth carries no karmic implications. To be wake writes the book.
According to the bill His Needs Her Needs, sex is a top need for men. It’s not even in the top five for women ❤As a woman - climax is nothing compared to closeness, caring, and mutual respect.
I dont believe such Indian stories relating to Dharma and spiritual truths can or must be labeled as ' Myths ' . Everything should not be looked at through western lenses . when acharyas of sanatan dharma themselves do not regard these stories as ' myth ' then why do we force our ideas on them ? I believe the best way to describe how various Dharma Masters understood these stories from the Puranas is that they happened in a different plane of existence or a different kalpa ( cyclic time frame ) but they never consider them to be simple myths .
@@sergioaguis Sir ' Myth ' is a western word is it not ? So why wouldn't I associate the western meaning of the word with it ? Thats what my comment was about . Let us not use western terms for eastern concepts because there are many ideas in the east for which a perfect western translation simply does not exist . When the original masters of the tradition speak of these stories not simply as symbolic representations but actual facts which happened in another plane of existence then why should we interject our own words and definitions ? The Dharmic word for these stories is ' Katha ' and the closest English word for Katha is Lore ...The word Lore encompasses a more wider meaning but when we use the term Myth it almost always brings with it a sense that its fiction .
@@nightfears3005 Middle Earth just the setting of a fantasy novel ...cant be even called a ' myth ' in the western sense of the word . Its not that easy to comprehend the Puranas ...Sage Vyasa himself mentions that these texts are for those who have first understood the Vedic Darsahan . Let me give an example of what I meant in my original comment and why your dragging in of ' middle earth ' here is improper . Inthe Leelopakhyan of Yogavashishtha Maharamayana, there is an incident of a couple Leela and Padma. This incident was mentioned by Maharishi Vashishtha to give knowledge related to the world to Shri Ram. According to this incident, Leela did not want to live in separation from her husband Padma because she was very infatuated with him. Accordingly, after pleasing Goddess Saraswati, Leela asked for a boon that her husband's inner consciousness should not go out of the designated room even after death. When Padma passed away, with the help of subtle senses, Leela in the company of Mother Saraswati saw that Within this world, the world is moving separately and independently in the same way, or the order of creation exists in the same way as there is a sequential chain of stems inside the stem of a banana. Just as a dream world exists in every atom of consciousness present in the world, in the same way the creatures of infinite matter and its world are expressed in the world. In confirmation of her above statement, Mother Saraswati showed that apart from the body of Padma inside the specified room, many worlds are being manifested in this room itself, and in each world, Padma is living her life in a different body. This is just one example . Puranas explain these different planes of existence many times . In recent times we see physicists like Enrico Fermi , Frank Drake putting forward the notion .
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Yaw Very Interesting Talk, for me Sir. I'm about your age and stirred The Kundalini pot in my mid 30ty,s also.. Was at was at your Website also,,,,, Wow! Just Pray To Your God, I dont! copycat a few quotes for my New Book "I Gave Up Buddhism For Bunny-ism" I like your reference to, " Know The Father But Stay Close To The Mother" That kinda gets Deep The more I contemplate that from a Tantric Shive Shakti point of view,,, hmmm
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I don’t understand the secret, to put awareness on both the arousal and the crash? To be reminded of the totality of the act? In essence think of the consequences? Seems coded the way he expressed this.
I don't get it... he suggests to keep the attention on Arousal (Ambrosia) and satisfaction (poison) at the same time, or somewhere in between? Great comparison between Daoist and vedic tantra.
I'm going to cut through a lot of the Bullshit Igor is saying here because I can and he is only my equal.. The truth is, yes: Semen Retention is LITERALLY the Konami Codes to life. Combine SR with the Law of Attraction and your goals will manifest faster. Simple answer Igor, that's all the guy wanted.
That emptiness is exactly what keeps people stuck in the ratrace of achieving and fragmentation. That emptiness is where we need to enter to feel and heal.
Very good question ,generaly speaking we living in the world where we are rather disconected from other people and disconected from the nature as well.... so in my huble oppinion to achieve what he is talking about in this video we have to enter another level on conciousnes ,reading a book on this topic is not enough. It is allmost like a meditation and it takes practice to get there .The way we feel the way we live ,the way we think all those factors have impact on our sexual energy . When we are depresed our sexual energy is down etc ,so in other words it is all in the mind rather than body .
@@cheguevara5560 you're right. Anxiety and depression are not helping us in this journey. But here in Italy the majority of men are highliy disconnected from thier emotional part. Those who aren't have in contrast a predominant feninine part, so for me as a woman, in this case, I tend to lose my sexual drive.
@@alice-hp7dhemotional men are swept under the rug by women, and their trauma’s only ensue and worsen. Nothing good has come from emotionality on my part. Showing feelings does though but that’s different from letting one being led by one’s emotions.
I am practicing conscious sex (energy sex), and it is the most intense experience that I can handle ))) It is good to have a partner who is also in this and aware of what is going on. Unfortunately usually guys are being "interviewed" on this matter. Also there are lots of misconceptions around out there which mislead ppl towards rituals instead of pure energy experience.
I have met 2 men who do tantric sex and they’re very focused on only enhancing their sexual pleasure with no respect for the people they connect with. They have both connected with me energetically remotely and even though I asked them to stop doing it they ignored me and still connected with me. There’s no difference between physical rape and energetic rape. How do I stop people like this from connecting energetically with me at a distance? I feel powerless and unable to stop it. I don’t want to connect with people whose only interest is sexual pleasure. People like this are abusive. These experiences have been very traumatic bc they have disrespected me. I also worry about the fact they might bring into my space the energy from people they’ve had sex with. The second one has actually connected with me while having physical sex with other women. This is completely driving me mad and depressed. Are there any exercises I can do to stop abusive men like this from coming into my energy space? Thanks 🙏
The alchemy I’ve studied under Mantak Chia always has the mantra of “ladies first”. After you solve your problem with these two guys, leave whatever community you’re in. And in fact, research Karezza, which I think is the highest level.
As a woman and mother i would just like to remind all the women out there that the paradigm in which these things are discussed is both male and patriarchal. As in the story of The Fisher King and the Search for the Holy Grail, the patriarchy has appropriated female power of creation, resulting in impotence and the wasting of Nature, and fails to ask the question (or hear the answer) whom does the Grail serve? The purpose of male sexuality is to GIVE its life force to LIFE, just like a drone bee. Just like what Christ did on the cross... so the womb of the goddess (grail) is impregnated with divine consciousness. It is an act of self-sacrifice to the Divine Feminine 'Maya'.
Let's not use an open innocent harmonious conversation as an excuse to push a divisive political line. There's too much of that already out there. Let's come together (so to speak!).
Zzzz so long and tedious to explain something so simple. Have self control, make love when needed with a loved one, create, don’t waste your life force.
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@lookupEdwardBernays, “The Secret of the Golden Flower”
27:10 "This is a true non-dual understanding.....This is the teachings of the Masters available today. This is. Awareness is always in between. If you keep your awareness in between; if you are aware of where the breath oscillates between, this is it. That's what enlightenment experiences; what people who are in this state of flow, that is what is being experienced. It's what is in between. Because in the gap everything is as it is."
In between where? In between the two poles of ambrosia and poison? Can you elaborate?
Thank God we have someone who is willing to acknowledge the sacred Truth of Tantra.
Our addiction to the consumption of material phenomona has had a tragic influence on our collective sexual behaviour.
Including the desecration of Tantra.
Our obsession with Spiritual practice is a desperate attempt to compensate for the way we have gone.
Unfortunately most of us have no idea how to practice Spirituality.
It has become a cultural symptom of materialism.
Actually everything is perfect the way it is this very second. Not sure what you are talking about.
@@Kahneq Was I talking to you?
Great question buddy@@davidstrevens9170
@@davidstrevens9170 in a way you're talking to everyone here
@@davidstrevens9170are you talking to me?
This video is worth millions! Thank You
Yoga Namaskar is also an interesting exercise. In Tantra one hand is minus while the other is plus. If you position them behind the neck as in Yoga Namaskar you will draw the energy upwards the spine (the hand palms will function as a magnet). You can also try to lock the fingers of the hands together and put them behind the neck while standing in this exercise.
To who ever that guy was. Thank you for asking that question.
Which led to a precious answer 🙏
Just live in the now and have positive intentions and it will all work itself out....
True!
Or not. But you'll have inner peace which is the real win despite exterior circumstances.
Thanks Igor. July 2020 i started nofap and zero ejaculation to rise up my frequency from the 2020 mass hypnosis. Certainly worthwhile. 2023 Im 59yrs old. I am catalyst of prosperous outcomes for my family. God life being preserved in thine vessel now co operates thine everything. Compounding each day.
That’s awesome 🙏 are you in a relationship? If yes how do you connect intimately with your partner? How do you circulate it? Do you do qi qong?
The urges of the flesh are powerful, but the mind when in control of the animus is a more powerful force. I struggle with the process of controlling it. The amount of love and desire to create within my form is overwhelming. The act of intercourse and the release of that energy is an urge that we are not taught to harness in any aspect of our lives. The practice of resisting that urge and redirecting that energy has proven beneficial in my life. My marriage has seen improvement, and my vitality is slowly returning. The only thing missing is how to access this energy in the most useful ways without missing out on the act of making love with my spouse. Physical touch is a love language. Moreover, my own, and not having that intimacy, is proving itself a challenging exercise in self-love, lacking an outward expression.
Do you offer any insights?
@@vivislavidaaGood questions. for myself its been 3 yrs with zero intimate partners. I was rejected and asked to leave by my last partner in 2020 for being a conspiracy theorist because I did not want the you know what 19 thing in my arm/body. Since then my luck is more certainty and predictable. At the 3yrs stage of nofap and zero ejaculation perhaps its similar to being a 3yr old child who absorbs everything in osmosis. There is nothing special regarding my daily habits. I like to remember bible verses everyday like Matthew 6:33, Romans 12:2 I believe I witness profound outcomes meditating on the word of God.
@@Liescomefromtheright I believe our possibilities have been calcified by the systems of debt, war, religion, schools, death etc...Does nofap and zero ejaculation help to decalcify areas in my psychology. After 3 years there is definitely ascension. Sexual intimacy is not priority for myself. The brain, body, mind and soul energy boosts are really cool
I'm currently on day 45 and it feels amazing! Semen retention is the way
Brought me to tears, made me belive in love again.
To those who asked about the title of the Taoist text mentioned by Igor in his response to the question, it is called “The Secret of the Golden Flower,” an ancient Taoist text on meditation and the inner alchemy.
Effortless technique. majestic and wholesome delivery gives birth to the whims of creativity. to practice to deliverate without theory without instruction or without chase is the electricty of the music of the fertile soil of life that gives birth to the voice of the soul of life🎉
I have made it here. I m sure we r not just met unintentionally.
You understood very well 👌 congratulations to you and your Guru in India.
I think this might prove to be the most important and insightful sharing of wisdom that I’ve received so far in this life. You have brought clarity to so much of what’s been perplexing me my whole life. Grateful this was suggested, and that I clicked on it. My own ham-fisted attempt at energy transmutation, I started a bunch of creative hobbies like woodcarving, sketching, carpentry, gardening, now, at 41, I’ve never had so much sexual energy in my life - total backfire 😆
I am thrilled that this is only the first video of yours I’ve seen, so much more to look forward to! Thank you.
You got an answer from this?
Would be great to hear it.
Blessings.
@@Ben-Jembai it’s impossible for me to decipher from your comment whether you’re being serious or just being a sarcastic twat.
Could you elaborate on this idea, please? Were you trying to sublimate via the ostensible process of transmuting by fostering creative/iterative powers? My creative powers have been going through many peaks in the past few years, now in my late 40s. My testosterone is lower than it was in my 20s, when I was an amateur. I find that not really caring about sexuality in any way makes it easy to spend my time on creative pursuits.
@@johngrunwell6101 if you mean did I assume that creative pursuits would be suitable conduits through which I could release creative energy, then, yes. But I think a feedback loop was created instead, by creating more, i fostered more energy to create.
And because I’m happiest when doing those things I mentioned, I’m healthier, and feel more attractive (and objectively just am), so I’ve been having bellows put to the embers of my sexual energy in the form of flirtations from beautiful women (I’m a hetero dude, so that my thing).
What I benefitted most from in this video, was the way Igor highlighted the fact that the wave of arousal-climax-emptiness, or rise, apex, descent, emptiness is throughout the universe, certainly not just relegated to the human sexual experience. And lived experiences are culminations of these overlapping waves of rise, peak, descent, emptiness. I’ve done a lot of audio production over the years, so i have the visual of a wave form forever in my mind, which I think has been helpful with this.
Like an apple tree. The life span of the tree itself is a wave, and each season it experiences is a wave, and 3 waves exist within that wave: the growth and death of the leaves, and the flowering and bearing of fruit, which comes in 2 waves. The flower rises, has its apex, and descent, which brings forth the fruit, which has its rise, apex, and decent. The fruit bears the seed, and on it goes.
And I see my error in even using the words “sexual energy”, because deeming one feeling “sexual energy”, and something else “artistic energy” is like saying water and ice are made of different things.
A couple more things Igor’s thoughts brought forth for me:
Sex and shame: raised Roman Catholic as I was, sex and shame go hand in hand, and that shame likes to drape itself over the emptiness that settles in after an orgasm, had with someone else present or alone, matters not. Understanding, accepting, and internalizing the knowledge that the emptiness is as natural as the arousal and climax, and not a confirmation of a “sin” committed, will be important steps forward for me.
“Play the tape to the end...” is something you hear sometimes in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous, don’t ask me how I know, I won’t tell, but in this case, it came to my mind when thinking about how it is beneficial to see where and how arousal, climax, emptiness play out all around us, and how we can perhaps spare ourselves suffering by playing the tape to the end, seeing what emptiness is inevitable in a given situation, and learn to accept it before it happens... or before it happens the next time haha
Same, creative energy and sexual energy might be the same thing 🤔.
I love my girlfriend so so much, when we get together we talk about sweet nothings for hours and hours on end, just being with her is beautiful and wonderful i love her so much ❤️
I am in the same situation. I am so grateful for this oppurtunity that not all men will have in their life.
In my experience though the line between love and sex is very very thin. And we have to be very careful. Sex and desires can destroy us faster than our worst imaginable enemies. The energy of sex can likewise strengthen us more than anything.
Right now I'm trying to find that healthy line through this wise gentleman's teaching.
This is so true.... In my experience only real Love itself and a clear mind can navigate you through desire without graving and getting atteched. But also without supressing und "killing" this precious "energy" But often its so subtil....mistakes are done so easily. It helps so much when both are willing to deal with full conciousness and care with this holy gift .
@@MrSMITCHERS You can have sex in love and then plain animalistic, egoistic sex. The one is making love and the other just lustful sex.
When you want to give love to your woman through sex and not only consider your pleasure, then that's having sex out of love. Beneficial for bonding, health and spiritual alignment.
In true love, having sex is done without craving it, overdoing it and without sexual phantasies. In the act of making love you are present and your mind don't drift off....totally present in the situation which is good for your partner too...
If you are practicing semen retention, you can learn to have sex without releasing... Then you regulate how often you release by practicing, but orgasm, for you, is no longer the point or purpose of sex....
Masturbation is abandoned because why do it anymore? lol
I appreciated the question. Thanks
You can choose to be one half of a whole or whole. Both are beautiful and have been necessary parts of the human evolution journey. It just proves that being in a relationship and not being in a relationship are both beautiful and can be massively beneficial
From what I understand, it seems that if someone raises their respect for sexual acts and treats sexual transmutation as an art. Similarly like respecting the other arts of music, painting, dancing, cooking. Of course everyone enjoys the end experience the most, the “climax” of watching the dance, tasting the food, listing to the final piece, the thrilling feeling of cumming, seeing the painting behind the frame.
It’s that when we respect sexual transmutation as an art that we can enjoy everything that is included with experiencing that art, the pre seduction, the endless conversations, the infinite exploration of one another.
I already watched this. It was good. I saw the community post for comments regarding the question of other ways we use the energy to transmute for higher purpose.
I am reminded of one of the more delicate essences in that practice. Although I do not know much about the subject, I think the ways in which a branch of this practice can be made into another form is through the bond with mother nature. It was satisfying to hear you mention the words "know your father, stick to mother".
To cultivate the yoke through the touch with a tree or earth beneath feet and give into it the ecstatic flow of the creator union to the body and life giving force of the mother is, I think, a gentle and delicate process but in a slightly catalytic way because the ebbing wave must have a sandy shore to settle back into its own field of creation.
In the untrained or the "only knows little bits of everything" type of learner, we wonder how to survive on the land by growing our own food and it's through this we notice ways to have a deep knowing about nature's ecology. A tree is old and becoming diseased but will still provide year after year. We think maybe it now needs something from me and so we give it a few jolts of the eros spark in conception.
The choice between on the shelf products and the balance of the health and welfare or having purchasing power is a difficult thing to wrestle with in this time of change. To choose another accessible and responsible resource to cultivate in these day to day activities makes sense to undertake as the place to repair what was broken in our local and global homes. Thank you Igor for sharing your work with us.
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This was cool. Thanks for your wisdom!!
Always an interesting and revelatory take on a popular topic, thank you
Funny, as a woman, climax is accompanied by a sense of wholeness :) ❤
thats very interesting, puts a new perspective on the feminine and masculine philosophical aspects
Agreed
Poor guy right?
Independent wholeness also comes from inner child work.
To do the work only to performe and get unsatisfied? Uuf, this is harš. Is this happening to male body after climax, what?
«Случайно» вас нашла. У меня тоже с вами в один день - день рождения. Очень в тему!
What a beautiful full-bodied response 🤍
Great story and truth✨️💖
So at the end is basically what he is saying is during an act of erotic nature (sex or otherwise) don’t let your awareness be consumed by desire to the point that you lose awareness of what it’s going to feel like AFTER the act? Instead one should practice keeping awareness of the desire as well as how you feel afterwards as well.
This is perfect and the question lead the conversation so it gave the way to connecting the energy to sex. It’s not about the sexual act and every action is connected to the kundalini energy. It’s an energetic experience of moving energy through the body even when not in the act of physical sex. Non ejaculation can be pleasurable and maintain and build and nurture the kundalini energy.
The act of sex is a “replica” of the real deal and both can be melded. Sex alone as in by itself leaves us empty.
For real, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
In my nascent spiritual endeavors, I've fallen in love with the spirit and I know myself as "father" as he so aptly puts, but I have struggled to find the right words and practices for sexual health.
It seems so odd, so strange, that so many esoteric men of the past seemed equally as perplexed as me to something so basic to our form.
But the simple concept of -- all is erotic, all energy is full of creative life force makes such abundant and evident sense.
A perversion of what is holy, equating creation and divine love with the erotic is a foolish game for simple minded men. No matter how esoteric they will stay in the physical and material and never understand humility of love for their Creator.
@@engineeredtruths8935 I understand your point sir, but we shouldn't be so quick to draw conclusions about what the word "erotic" means. It is easy to say that all matter is sexualized, from subatomic particles all the way through man, and confuse this with and/or justify one's own sexual appetites, but I think Igor's point here is that sexualized/polarized energy is constantly seeking higher modes of expression. It is up to to us to learn the mechanics and elevate our energy.
@@engineeredtruths8935Simple minded men? That’s quite the claim. One that I believe I would have made many moons ago when I definitely could have been accurately labeled a simple minded boy and then a simple minded man. Upon awakening it becomes very amusing to recognize that simple minded judgment for what it was…..a simple minded judgment. Oh but we certainly get a nice shot of self righteousness and superiority when we proclaim it though. That always felt good. I do hope you’re enjoying that.
@@brandonterzictrue, highest and lowest are interwoven, since both are expressions of the all pervading generative force while springing from the same causeless cause and acting in tandem within their respective kingdoms, from mortal to divine for generation's sake. Eros in it's most noble archetype is eternal, all loving, purely sacrificial, brooding, sustaining; the goddess consort "Radha" comes to mind. In contrast the lowest expressions in sexuality which are beastly in nature can bend too much towards self gratification and excess and in that excess therein lies great potential for evil done unto the vitality of the flesh and the capacity for higher thought and feeling within the soul mood. You see a practical balance must be struck between release and abstinence, bodily pleasure and higher mental stimulation. In due time such an honouring principle could be relearned en masse, hard though it may be for most
@@thoughtstratum Couldn't have said it better myself brother. "Soul mood". Dig it!
Beautiful 🤍
In the gap, everything is as it is. Take a deep breath, hold it for some seconds while repeating in your heart "i am shiva, i am shiva, i am shiva", meaning "i am the spirit".
Be still, and know I am God.
What's the end result of this?
Great wisdom. 🙏 HPB once described Tantra as a dead-end.
Who is HPB? Edit: oh right, Blavatsky. Well she was full of shit so I'll just ignore her thoughts on the tantra.
The absolut is the point where one is everything and then everything flippes over to be the opposite. Stay and dwell still in this (oneness), with out answering to the outcome, thus realize how the answer gives birth of the question, without anchoring the conflict of opposites in separation and identity. Let it set roots where it pleases but stay observing in a thoughtless awareness. Answer nothing, let it all merge back again, naturally. The apparent question is merely a shade of the answer. The end (of it) is when thought manifests once at all levels, on an instant. Mind is matter.
Thank you Igor very helpfull
I would suggest that for women this point of awareness might be different, in the sense that they don't experience exactly the same way, emptiness like, after the culmination of an act, in daoism it's well explained, females are advantaged here, I wonder if tantric teachings differentiate between the sexes...
I was thinking the same thing, also we can have internal or external orgasms. I believe men usually only have external
@moralebooster8437 A guy can train himself to have internal they are completely different ive done it before but not to the full potential its hard to separate it from external or you unload.
How do we train for such things
Yes they do, from what I've read in the Mantak Chia books on Tao and sexuality. The book Tao Tantric arts for women by Minke De Vos covers this.
@@dr5290I wonder what type of emptiness they mean if these women say this and why? When practiced right it can be a very fulfilling experience with oneself or a partner. It only seems empty if it is for the end result and not for enjoying the journey of self and partner enjoyment. It seems to be more common than not in these comments that we like the yin teachings say we would be fulfilled rather than empty feeling.
the most useful way to use the energy is for good. to bring security and claim, in ecstacy, for purpose shared.
Thank you
Interesting fella
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18:00 afterwards very interesting ... eating out is therapeutic and its taoistic and makes your breath better
Do you know where i can find an explanation of the orange technique? Thanks
Thank you 🙏
Reminds me of how people say jazz is the space between the notes.
In the same way as a woman's body can be physically pregnant in the womb, a man can be spiritually pregnant in the spirit. This gestation is cosmic and it takes place in the head of the man, over a long period of time, before the man finally fertilizes the woman biologically.
Just as a pregnant woman behaves passively and lets the body do its thing, the man also behaves passively in the cosmic pregnancy. It is the unborn spirit that actively participates in the entire process of the creation of the soul the man carries.
A man who is aware of this can not only impregnate a woman with a soul from this place, he can also impregnate another man, so that the impregnated man can now become a biological father without having knowledge of this deep experience in life. Even other species, soil and plants can he fertilize this way.
The sexual act between a man and a woman is expressed as light and vibration. In the woman, a center is activated below the waist and in the man, a center is activated in the head. The two active centers are not separate but one in form and content. The content is light and the form is vibration.
The centers of the two lovers flash alternately in both of them as they synchronize time and space and the procreation in the woman's womb mirrors the procreation that took place in the man's head. The light and vibration is masculine. The result as an apperent separation of the "two" (eg. Light & Vibration, Male & Female) is Feminine.
In fact it is all one and it is God and God's body, the holy spirit. As above so below.
hey, what’s the name of the full text this came from ?
@@Enzzo777 There are specific texts and traditiones regarding the topic, but what I describe is what I came to complete as a witness, thus realized through direct conscious integration, in respond to creation.
Once this stand solid, firm and clear in ones consciousness, one recognizes this wisdom everywhere as well as in texts, confirmations which otherwice dazzles the masses. The "I"ness is both the couple of parrents in one together, of everything percieved, and the grandparents of all yet unborn (yes, one will carry them both; mother and fetus). With this awareness, giving birth carries no karmic implications. To be wake writes the book.
@@whatellerhvad Could you elaborate with her on what mind impregnation is?
@@axelasaiahmartinez613 I am not sure if I understand what you write correct?
Great insight
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Mr. Kufayev says, "Tongue!" like the Chinese "tang," which means "sweet."
According to the bill His Needs Her Needs, sex is a top need for men. It’s not even in the top five for women ❤As a woman - climax is nothing compared to closeness, caring, and mutual respect.
Sex isn't a need for men but it is a nice distraction.
To women it's a given....Men need semen retention and to desexualise their minds until they have same benefits as women...
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I dont believe such Indian stories relating to Dharma and spiritual truths can or must be labeled as ' Myths ' . Everything should not be looked at through western lenses . when acharyas of sanatan dharma themselves do not regard these stories as ' myth ' then why do we force our ideas on them ? I believe the best way to describe how various Dharma Masters understood these stories from the Puranas is that they happened in a different plane of existence or a different kalpa ( cyclic time frame ) but they never consider them to be simple myths .
They are myths. Only that you don’t know the real and esoteric significance of the word mythology. You only know the western meaning…
@@sergioaguis Sir ' Myth ' is a western word is it not ? So why wouldn't I associate the western meaning of the word with it ? Thats what my comment was about . Let us not use western terms for eastern concepts because there are many ideas in the east for which a perfect western translation simply does not exist . When the original masters of the tradition speak of these stories not simply as symbolic representations but actual facts which happened in another plane of existence then why should we interject our own words and definitions ? The Dharmic word for these stories is ' Katha ' and the closest English word for Katha is Lore ...The word Lore encompasses a more wider meaning but when we use the term Myth it almost always brings with it a sense that its fiction .
So middle-earth exists according to you?
@@nightfears3005 Middle Earth just the setting of a fantasy novel ...cant be even called a ' myth ' in the western sense of the word . Its not that easy to comprehend the Puranas ...Sage Vyasa himself mentions that these texts are for those who have first understood the Vedic Darsahan . Let me give an example of what I meant in my original comment and why your dragging in of ' middle earth ' here is improper .
Inthe Leelopakhyan of Yogavashishtha Maharamayana, there is an incident of a couple Leela and Padma. This incident was mentioned by Maharishi Vashishtha to give knowledge related to the world to Shri Ram.
According to this incident, Leela did not want to live in separation from her husband Padma because she was very infatuated with him. Accordingly, after pleasing Goddess Saraswati, Leela asked for a boon that her husband's inner
consciousness should not go out of the designated room even after death. When Padma passed away, with the help of subtle senses, Leela in the company of Mother Saraswati saw that
Within this world, the world is moving separately and independently in the same way, or the order of creation exists in the same way as there is a sequential chain of stems inside the stem of a banana. Just as a dream world exists in every atom of consciousness present in the world, in the same way the creatures of infinite matter and its world are expressed
in the world. In confirmation of her above statement, Mother Saraswati showed that apart from the body of Padma inside the specified room, many worlds are being manifested in this room itself, and in each world, Padma is living her life in a different
body. This is just one example . Puranas explain these different planes of existence many times .
In recent times we see physicists like Enrico Fermi , Frank Drake putting forward the notion .
Wow. Wow. Wow.
Best conversation ever thank you ! Break down the walls of that shy “feeling” around sex hehe let’s talk about it …. 😊❤
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I am wondering where this practice with the Orange comes from
Tao Te Ching by Laozi
@15:00 India esoteric V China taoisim
Well ism always fulfilled afterwards . Not empty but filled with expansion
Same. It is different for different sexes
What is the name of the book i can check out for practices??
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Anyone serious about transmuting sexual energy should watch a video of a Van De Graff machine continually, for days until something dawns on them.
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Yaw Very Interesting Talk, for me Sir. I'm about your age and stirred The Kundalini pot in my mid 30ty,s also.. Was at was at your Website also,,,,, Wow! Just Pray To Your God, I dont! copycat a few quotes for my New Book "I Gave Up Buddhism For Bunny-ism" I like your reference to, " Know The Father But Stay Close To The Mother" That kinda gets Deep The more I contemplate that from a Tantric Shive Shakti point of view,,, hmmm
Where is this inbetween ...
Is there an author you would recommend for the subject knowledge or for further reading?
Mantak Chia and Minke De Vos
Robert Svoboda
Ima do the orange exercise just for giggles 😂❤ I’m an amazing kisser and the second bit too 😅
Forget that orange stuff, just kiss her between the thighs, she will love it!
For me too as a man climax precedes wholenes
What is the taoist literature he is referring too?
Tao Te Ching by Laozi
I connected the dots
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Good D is medicine 🍆
Bad D is poison 🍄
This is the wisdom of the ancients. 😤
And there will always be greater D--but it will never be enough... 🎉💦😱🤯😰😵😿☠
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I’ll agree Good D is medicine.😃
DavidSmith5050 you have that GOOD, GOOD yes?😍🥵
Thanks for sharing your wisdom
I don’t understand the secret, to put awareness on both the arousal and the crash? To be reminded of the totality of the act? In essence think of the consequences? Seems coded the way he expressed this.
In my own simple understanding the real joy is in the experience rather than the result...
Think about it would you rather live in the aroused state or in the crash state?..........ofcoz between the aroused n the crashed state
I don't get it... he suggests to keep the attention on Arousal (Ambrosia) and satisfaction (poison) at the same time, or somewhere in between? Great comparison between Daoist and vedic tantra.
I'm going to cut through a lot of the Bullshit Igor is saying here because I can and he is only my equal.. The truth is, yes: Semen Retention is LITERALLY the Konami Codes to life. Combine SR with the Law of Attraction and your goals will manifest faster. Simple answer Igor, that's all the guy wanted.
Up up down down left right left right boobs ass boobs ass START!
Meow.
Keep the horse (physical energy) healthy, but learn to master it.
That emptiness is exactly what keeps people stuck in the ratrace of achieving and fragmentation.
That emptiness is where we need to enter to feel and heal.
12:15
I need some details regarding the "attention to keep in between" stuff. Please help
Where are man that are ready to live the experience of tantric and sacred love?! I've been looking for one f them for ages...
Very good question ,generaly speaking we living in the world where we are rather disconected from other people and disconected from the nature as well.... so in my huble oppinion to achieve what he is talking about in this video we have to enter another level on conciousnes ,reading a book on this topic is not enough. It is allmost like a meditation and it takes practice to get there .The way we feel the way we live ,the way we think all those factors have impact on our sexual energy . When we are depresed our sexual energy is down etc ,so in other words it is all in the mind rather than body .
@@cheguevara5560 you're right. Anxiety and depression are not helping us in this journey. But here in Italy the majority of men are highliy disconnected from thier emotional part. Those who aren't have in contrast a predominant feninine part, so for me as a woman, in this case, I tend to lose my sexual drive.
That man is everywhere. It is not possible to look for him.
@@cheguevara5560so you’re saying Descartes is still right… meh mind=body (as in brainstates and all the wiring and firing and stuff… )
@@alice-hp7dhemotional men are swept under the rug by women, and their trauma’s only ensue and worsen. Nothing good has come from emotionality on my part. Showing feelings does though but that’s different from letting one being led by one’s emotions.
Can anyone summarise what he said about sexual transmutation and how to apply it?
I am practicing conscious sex (energy sex), and it is the most intense experience that I can handle ))) It is good to have a partner who is also in this and aware of what is going on.
Unfortunately usually guys are being "interviewed" on this matter. Also there are lots of misconceptions around out there which mislead ppl towards rituals instead of pure energy experience.
I do not need any exercises though... It is very clear experience
Please play in 2x if you have ADHD geeez!
I was really looking forward to this talk, but I can’t understand it unfortunately
12:00
I heard that eris is in the air too right now😂😂😂
Steve jobs is looking good!
Did he just refuse to answer the question?
I have met 2 men who do tantric sex and they’re very focused on only enhancing their sexual pleasure with no respect for the people they connect with. They have both connected with me energetically remotely and even though I asked them to stop doing it they ignored me and still connected with me. There’s no difference between physical rape and energetic rape. How do I stop people like this from connecting energetically with me at a distance? I feel powerless and unable to stop it. I don’t want to connect with people whose only interest is sexual pleasure. People like this are abusive. These experiences have been very traumatic bc they have disrespected me. I also worry about the fact they might bring into my space the energy from people they’ve had sex with. The second one has actually connected with me while having physical sex with other women. This is completely driving me mad and depressed. Are there any exercises I can do to stop abusive men like this from coming into my energy space? Thanks 🙏
Reiki.
Are u sure u r not imagining ?.
Learn about creating energetic barriers and shielding yourself (if needed). Read "the gold book" by St. Germain,
The alchemy I’ve studied under Mantak Chia always has the mantra of “ladies first”.
After you solve your problem with these two guys, leave whatever community you’re in. And in fact, research Karezza, which I think is the highest level.
@@moonbasemonk thanks 🙏 Karezza is better than chia? I don’t know the k! I’m not in any community. These are just individuals I met by chance online
So basically he is saying to transmute sexual energy is to practice Tai Chi 😁
May I ask what exactly brought you to that conclusion? :)
As a woman and mother i would just like to remind all the women out there that the paradigm in which these things are discussed is both male and patriarchal. As in the story of The Fisher King and the Search for the Holy Grail, the patriarchy has appropriated female power of creation, resulting in impotence and the wasting of Nature, and fails to ask the question (or hear the answer) whom does the Grail serve? The purpose of male sexuality is to GIVE its life force to LIFE, just like a drone bee. Just like what Christ did on the cross... so the womb of the goddess (grail) is impregnated with divine consciousness. It is an act of self-sacrifice to the Divine Feminine 'Maya'.
Let's not use an open innocent harmonious conversation as an excuse to push a divisive political line. There's too much of that already out there. Let's come together (so to speak!).
Gibberish. Jesus didn't even exist, let alone would he understand this new age nonsense of yours.
@@nightfears3005 just because you can't understand it or think in mythopoeic ( look it up) terms does not mean it is nonsense.
as a woman climax is basically nonexistent
I can’t say I agree. I hope you experience more of that soon!
@@afroaesthete3701 a woman means me lol ….but actually i have heard the same from some other women. i congratulate the lucky ones.
Emptiness? Not for everyone. Women have fulfillment as sett stated
Such a long-winded answer. He could have just said, don't worry, it happens automatically as a man ages depending on where you awareness is.
Uncanny......
1:40 ‘used for the higher purpose other than procreation’
How vain.
I have to come back to this another time because as i'm listening to this i only hear him dodge the guys question about sexual transmutation
Hmm I agree. I was expecting him to talk about energy flows and wind channels in the body.
@@ecole1988what are wind channels?
Some people are really lost.
Alot of talking but nothing was said
The fact the don't know this, uh people, caution
Can you use your kundalini away from momma
Zzzz so long and tedious to explain something so simple. Have self control, make love when needed with a loved one, create, don’t waste your life force.
So king wassup
Solomon. Did find Eros to. Entertaining or
So did he appear. Non tempter
Enjoy the doom.
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