letting go of your victim mentality

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2024

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  • @inayah0
    @inayah0  2 місяці тому +9

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    • @suryamurari
      @suryamurari 2 місяці тому

      I really really fallen in your word or ❤❤ from INDIA

  • @starryamity33
    @starryamity33 2 місяці тому +57

    _"Cynicism isn't wisdom, it's a lazy way to say that you've been burned. It seems, if anything, you'd be less certain after everything you ever learned." - Nana Grizol, Cynicism._

  • @s0_men
    @s0_men 2 місяці тому +111

    This just arrived at the perfect time…

  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths 2 місяці тому +49

    Moving away from a victim mentality allows us to reclaim our power and take proactive steps toward creating the life we want.

  • @rain2646
    @rain2646 2 місяці тому +41

    Being the hopeful lamb with the swords hovering over it

  • @wadecodez
    @wadecodez 2 місяці тому +9

    Part of me forgot what it was like to be grateful, and I think this video actually lifted my spirits. Cheers!

  • @leannecampbell4551
    @leannecampbell4551 2 місяці тому +20

    There are no victims, only creators!

  • @noahgutierrez8433
    @noahgutierrez8433 2 місяці тому +4

    beautiful message coming at the perfect time. A nice reminder that the bad things that happen to us are opportunities to learn and grow and its our own responsibility to save ourselves.

  • @mearii.chaan99
    @mearii.chaan99 Місяць тому +4

    i love the energy of your friend 💗✨

    • @ansebin111
      @ansebin111 Місяць тому

      그녀는 다른 친구를 의식하고 그 또다른 사람들하고만 어울리고 또 다른 사함을 이렇게 판단합니다

  • @RougeBlisters
    @RougeBlisters 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful message and video. This arrived to me at the right time. I left an abusive relationship, and got arrested all in 1 year and it’s been a tough ride but I know I’m strong and will continue to live an amazing life of love and magic

  • @thomasklock3r
    @thomasklock3r 2 місяці тому +7

    idk how this got on my feed but you’re incredible and I’m obsessed with your energy. down to the fucking font choice :0

  • @AZERTY7152
    @AZERTY7152 2 місяці тому +1

    I just had that conversation with myself yesterday and I arrived at the same conclusion, can't wait to listen to your perspective

  • @issaayoo
    @issaayoo 2 місяці тому +2

    ill watch this as many times as i need to

  • @chrukfux
    @chrukfux 2 місяці тому +4

    Really love the long ending with the jazzyness and black background... bravo!

  • @rqseblood
    @rqseblood 2 місяці тому +6

    ugh I hope you accomplish many things in life, which you will and it will all be deserved. It’s really scary putting your emotions, notions and thoughts out there for others to look upon and I would feel so reluctant doing it so major props to you. I’m as well working on writing and poetry (I read yours too) but it’s so scary just showing it and putting it out there lol. I’m still trying but your videos bring life to my confidence in having my work be seen. Thanks a ton 🖤

    • @wadecodez
      @wadecodez 2 місяці тому +1

      feelings of revision are the worst! recently I've been intentionally posting more incomplete work because I'm tired of wrestling with those thoughts.

    • @rqseblood
      @rqseblood 2 місяці тому +1

      @@wadecodez aww, I hope it passes as soon as possible for you 😖 it is the worst

    • @karleyj9706
      @karleyj9706 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm not very eloquent, but I'd like to share a thought. One of my favorite people (who I can't imagine would ever make bad art) once shared this meme on how to be an artist:
      Step one: make art
      Step two: stare at it until I hate it
      I think this can be applied to any kind of artist lol, we are always our own worst critic. Good luck with everything ✨️

    • @rqseblood
      @rqseblood 2 місяці тому +1

      @@karleyj9706 I really love this and it really makes so much sense lol. Thank you by the way!

    • @wadecodez
      @wadecodez 2 місяці тому

      great. a conversation. you Must hate your art lol

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince 2 місяці тому +12

    Imma tell y'all's future kids that this is Reverend Mother Lady Jessica arranging flowers in Caladan.

    • @biteofdog
      @biteofdog 2 місяці тому

      Wasn't she that Lady who exploited decades of prophecy propaganda that the Bene Gesserit have planted on Arrakis to exploit the Fremen?

  • @najaaredzuan
    @najaaredzuan 2 місяці тому +5

    i need u on spotify podcast

  • @ajaoneal6499
    @ajaoneal6499 2 місяці тому +14

    wow I've been watching your vids all day as i clean my depression room I can't believe I'm this early!

  • @supportcanadian126
    @supportcanadian126 2 місяці тому +2

    I dont know if you've talked about this already, but I would love to hear you talk about fault vs responsibility because it's something I struggle with so much. Hearing your different perspective would help a lot.

  • @Fiedhaj
    @Fiedhaj 2 місяці тому

    YOUR POSTS ARE ALWAYS SO ON TIME!

  • @AngPMira
    @AngPMira 2 місяці тому +1

    You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this. Thank you so much, Inayah.

  • @lynachiheb4814
    @lynachiheb4814 12 днів тому

    it was so beautiful and inspiring

  • @ionageman
    @ionageman 2 місяці тому +18

    You are neither victim or predator .. you are what you choose to be .. be neither is my recommendation

    • @starryamity33
      @starryamity33 2 місяці тому +4

      Yeah, both are positions of ignorance that deny the other half of reality.

  • @makicasanova
    @makicasanova 2 місяці тому

    thank you so much for this, i REALLY needed to hear it all

  • @babyblueskyexo
    @babyblueskyexo 2 місяці тому +1

    you and your sis are such a light , made me wanna cry

  • @hibakami6303
    @hibakami6303 2 місяці тому

    I love this video so much! My heart and eyes are happy and so greatful ❤

  • @jzzlynmay5787
    @jzzlynmay5787 2 місяці тому

    I absolutely love you inayah!!💕 You've been my big sister for awhile😊

  • @Dionysius-s6s
    @Dionysius-s6s 2 місяці тому

    Inayahh makes me happyyyy

  • @India-tt2pr
    @India-tt2pr 2 місяці тому

    I love you, thank you for this

  • @BamBamPewPew
    @BamBamPewPew 2 місяці тому

    needed. this. thank you!

  • @johndoe-rq1pu
    @johndoe-rq1pu 2 місяці тому +2

    Oh gosh, they're even coming for my mentality now.

  • @Lauraselinaz
    @Lauraselinaz 2 місяці тому

    What a wonderful video !!

  • @Jijujujimom09
    @Jijujujimom09 2 місяці тому +1

    You and your sister are born to help people!! The mindset of you guys are marvelous. Thank you❤

    • @vatsalaykhobragade
      @vatsalaykhobragade 2 місяці тому

      Her sister?

    • @Elah8888
      @Elah8888 2 місяці тому +1

      They're not actually sisters lol they're best friends. But yes

  • @mcthejeanjeanie
    @mcthejeanjeanie 2 місяці тому

    Also yall should do podcasts! Just an idea. Thanks for the video😊

  • @mcthejeanjeanie
    @mcthejeanjeanie 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m kinda curious about both of yalls take on toxic positivity

  • @jeniLee5
    @jeniLee5 2 місяці тому

    Babe how you make the audio sound so gooooood?💗😭

  • @SyfyKnightKoi
    @SyfyKnightKoi 2 місяці тому +2

    Have fun with the vtubers girls cheers 🍺

  • @mauritsbol4806
    @mauritsbol4806 2 місяці тому +2

    Therefore I believe I'm Cheesus. It is the non-lactose free version of Jesus.

  • @EleanorRoseKreamer
    @EleanorRoseKreamer 2 місяці тому

    I have been influenced to make a scentbird purchase

  • @fairyfarms
    @fairyfarms 2 місяці тому +3

    how dare you assume i have a victim mentality?

    • @fairyfarms
      @fairyfarms 2 місяці тому

      this is a joke btw! ^_^

  • @alaniacotic3706
    @alaniacotic3706 7 днів тому

    Does anyone know the name of the plant?

  • @arabianqueen603
    @arabianqueen603 2 місяці тому

    Where can I find these type of video aesthetic?

  • @witchcraft222
    @witchcraft222 2 місяці тому +2

    hello !!

  • @Anni-vx3pd
    @Anni-vx3pd 2 місяці тому

    Could you let me know which model of camcorder you’re using to shoot videos?😊

  • @Hrissle
    @Hrissle 2 місяці тому +2

    Good evening

  • @billkenz4371
    @billkenz4371 2 місяці тому

    what kind of camera that you used in vlog? tks

  • @the-comments-poet
    @the-comments-poet 2 місяці тому

    Broken chains
    I remember the warden and the lock and the keys
    I remember the chains
    I’ll give you my time if you feed me
    I’ll give you my soul if you give me hope
    And I’ll forgo friends and family
    While you make merry with yours
    And I will not sleep
    And I will not laugh
    And I will not ask when and why
    For I know my place
    These chains I have broken
    I’m free now, but I remember
    I remember your hold
    And your rules and your ways and your authority
    And I remember how I bowed obediently
    But now I’m free
    The keys are mine and the chains broken
    Am I then to become a prisoner of my own freedom
    As this you once foretold
    I remember the warden and the lock and the keys
    So today I will sing and not be quiet
    So today I will dance and be silly
    I will laugh with friends
    Share tears of joy and pain with the ones I love
    And if one day I should forget
    If I forget the warden and the lock and the keys
    I pray I never forget my chains
    My freedom was born of these broken chains

  • @BreeetX0
    @BreeetX0 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello

  • @فاطمهناصر-ح6ب
    @فاطمهناصر-ح6ب 2 місяці тому

    How old are you.❤

  • @bewitchedbylena
    @bewitchedbylena 2 місяці тому

  • @trixieybanez1994
    @trixieybanez1994 2 місяці тому

    I love your voice. Your mouth looks like lady gaga's. 🥰

  • @ansebin111
    @ansebin111 Місяць тому

    너도 피해의식 갖고있는거 같아

  • @kdtumaoti
    @kdtumaoti 2 місяці тому

    shared joy

  • @seduless
    @seduless 2 місяці тому

    just yesterday i was doubting myself about what i can achieve in this life and had a little nervous breakdown so this really came out at the perfect time 🤍 thank you.