This really resonated with me a lot, especially the isolation part. Being 17 and possibly the only one aware of how unhealthy and destructive our family dynamic is feels really isolating at times, but it makes me feel a bit better knowing that what I'm going through isn't something new and that some people are breaking out of it, in which i can possibly break out of it as well. Thank you for this video Inayah, your channel is my safe place 🫶
omg i relate to this soo much as someone who is also 17 and is in therapy for some unhealed trauma and is also starting to realize how unhealthy my family dynamic is too and honestly im even shocked my parents let me do therapy again (sorry for trauma dumping a bit in the comments hope it doesn't make people uncomfy😭
I’m 17 too, and is it just me or did we all suddenly become fully aware and conscious of the trauma and abuse at this age 😭 I used to not care so much about anything and I wasn’t as insecure, but when I turned 17 it’s almost like all the trauma and stress and doubts in my life came all at me at this age
I'm 53 and still working on healing generational trauma. It's an ongoing process. You made some very good points. You were upfront and honest. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
its so strange feels like this girl lives in a different place and culture, speaks different language but seems she is more related with me than most people around and talks about things carefully me. thank you for this. honestly im not alone right now
It’s weird that I’m only 14 and already came to the realization that my generational trauma is not ok. I find it kind of lonely sometimes, because not a lot of people my age have the same perspective that I can relate to, so it can be harder to make friends at school. However, I am so extremely grateful that I get to have the resources to find amazing people like you that I look up to and other people on UA-cam.
17:10 this is such a big thing for me. i am so so aware of the unhealthy patterns (and at times emotionally abusive) that have continued to go on in my family. it makes me feel insane sometimes trying to communicate these very obvious issues but not being listened to, even when providing solutions. i’m tired of trying, i’ve continued to work on myself in therapy and through my own research and will not stop trying, i refuse to carry it on, but it is fucking hard. especially being stuck in that environment which is lacking so many boundaries and care. i cannot wait until the day i can move out and create safe spaces for myself
Watching your content truly helped me to reflect on the reality that I live in, and to continue being proactive in dealing with generational traumas. There's something I've never heard elsewhere, where as an Asian, I can relate to how we can't always adopt Western values despite the fact that it might be healthier. I really love everything about this video!
Now I'd love to know all your favorite youtube & podcast channels so that I'll get to enjoy them as well... 🥺✨️ Much love from here to you Inayah & thank you for your every word (I LOVE YOUR ENERGY & I deeply resonated with everything you said ❤️)
I'm grateful to experience and live during these times where humans are genuinely trying to help each other. Of course there are snake oils out there, but there is also many gems like this channel that motivate people to heal themselves. That is how you create a better world! Thanks for the inspiration and motivation to do stuff on my own Inayah!
I am super grateful that my parents are not your "typical Filipino" parents that couldn't help but pass down ideas of toxic positivity and other cyclical ignorance. But I do hear stories from other 2nd or 3rd generation adults who had to endure years of emotional and mental abuse. I love that you called out the common idea of enduring abuse from their parents under the guise of resiliency. Whether its defined as resiliency or not "true resiliency" isn't the point, but that its just not healthy regardless. I love the kind of videos you're putting out !🖤
You’re my current favorite youtuber and I’ve been watching so many of your videos. I genuinely love your content and in the future I’d love to do so as well. Im glad I came across your channel❤
Posthumous Forgiveness is very dear to my heart and the fact that (from what I know about it) my father seemed to be very similar to Kevin's one in many details makes it that some of the lyrics hit very very different for me lmao, it is such a beautiful song
Thanks a bunch to you! I felt relieve to listen from you nd you're such a nice person just be like this I mean forever.. And next time I hope you will make a video about how to build a confidence like in every situation how to handle it nd how we can overcome our insecurity.. I'm sorry but perhaps you're also maybe trying to overcome your insecure but you can share your thoughts because I like how you talk with your cameras or with us it's a big thing to express anything like even most of us don't know to express our thoughts properly.. I hope you get it what I want to tell. So yeah all the very best nd keep uploading like this kind of motivational videos and people will inspire from you.. ❤
Hello! Thank you for your videos, I subscrabes recently in order to study english (train listening). I like the topiks you voice). I wish you success in developing this channel💟
Well I came across the videos and I have to say yes coming what I been tho in life I think it still a work in progress and I would like to thank you for the information
I have paranoid schizophrenia and paranoid personally disorder it has been hard to trust people I am leaving how to trust again thank you are worthy and you are loved you are very pretty.😻😍🌹🌺
This is my contribution to the world of emotional health. I wrote this song for all those that suffer from C.P.T.S.D. This song is about my triumph over the tragedy of this affliction that plagues our society. I hope this gets out to those that need it. ua-cam.com/video/sM87ZDkLsZk/v-deo.htmlsi=dXfxlsklVUEZ8Z39
what? Muslims can touch dogs first of all, Muslims just believe that having a dog at home brings bad luck but isnt even haram. And so what she can do whatever she wants, idek if shes muslim but it doesnt matter
This really resonated with me a lot, especially the isolation part. Being 17 and possibly the only one aware of how unhealthy and destructive our family dynamic is feels really isolating at times, but it makes me feel a bit better knowing that what I'm going through isn't something new and that some people are breaking out of it, in which i can possibly break out of it as well. Thank you for this video Inayah, your channel is my safe place 🫶
I relate so much. You got this, be patient with yourself. We are doing it together! Sending so much love
omg i relate to this soo much as someone who is also 17 and is in therapy for some unhealed trauma and is also starting to realize how unhealthy my family dynamic is too and honestly im even shocked my parents let me do therapy again (sorry for trauma dumping a bit in the comments hope it doesn't make people uncomfy😭
I’m 17 too, and is it just me or did we all suddenly become fully aware and conscious of the trauma and abuse at this age 😭 I used to not care so much about anything and I wasn’t as insecure, but when I turned 17 it’s almost like all the trauma and stress and doubts in my life came all at me at this age
"These wounds are passed down from people I didn't even get to meet" HEAVY!!!!
I'm 53 and still working on healing generational trauma. It's an ongoing process. You made some very good points. You were upfront and honest. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
We’re doing it together ❤️
its so strange feels like this girl lives in a different place and culture, speaks different language but seems she is more related with me than most people around and talks about things carefully me.
thank you for this. honestly im not alone right now
Thank god the internet exists!!! Girl, I needed to hear ALL of this.😭
It’s weird that I’m only 14 and already came to the realization that my generational trauma is not ok. I find it kind of lonely sometimes, because not a lot of people my age have the same perspective that I can relate to, so it can be harder to make friends at school. However, I am so extremely grateful that I get to have the resources to find amazing people like you that I look up to and other people on UA-cam.
Wow! So proud of you. You always have a community here, keep it up ❤️ we’re here for you 💗💗💗
17:10 this is such a big thing for me. i am so so aware of the unhealthy patterns (and at times emotionally abusive) that have continued to go on in my family. it makes me feel insane sometimes trying to communicate these very obvious issues but not being listened to, even when providing solutions. i’m tired of trying, i’ve continued to work on myself in therapy and through my own research and will not stop trying, i refuse to carry it on, but it is fucking hard. especially being stuck in that environment which is lacking so many boundaries and care. i cannot wait until the day i can move out and create safe spaces for myself
I love herrrr ❤️ she makes me feel like I’m not alone
The educator and healer, inayah loving the pups and the peoples.
Even the doggos felt the good energy of the speech and wanted to contribute themselves
Watching your content truly helped me to reflect on the reality that I live in, and to continue being proactive in dealing with generational traumas. There's something I've never heard elsewhere, where as an Asian, I can relate to how we can't always adopt Western values despite the fact that it might be healthier. I really love everything about this video!
Now I'd love to know all your favorite youtube & podcast channels so that I'll get to enjoy them as well... 🥺✨️
Much love from here to you Inayah & thank you for your every word
(I LOVE YOUR ENERGY & I deeply resonated with everything you said ❤️)
I’ve literally been binge watching inayahs videos for the past two days
I'm grateful to experience and live during these times where humans are genuinely trying to help each other. Of course there are snake oils out there, but there is also many gems like this channel that motivate people to heal themselves. That is how you create a better world!
Thanks for the inspiration and motivation to do stuff on my own Inayah!
I am super grateful that my parents are not your "typical Filipino" parents that couldn't help but pass down ideas of toxic positivity and other cyclical ignorance. But I do hear stories from other 2nd or 3rd generation adults who had to endure years of emotional and mental abuse. I love that you called out the common idea of enduring abuse from their parents under the guise of resiliency. Whether its defined as resiliency or not "true resiliency" isn't the point, but that its just not healthy regardless. I love the kind of videos you're putting out !🖤
you're such a comfort to the world. thank u so much for being here ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful!
You’re my current favorite youtuber and I’ve been watching so many of your videos. I genuinely love your content and in the future I’d love to do so as well. Im glad I came across your channel❤
I’m so glad you’re here ❤️ sending you so much love
This is really well told, thank you angel. I truly needed this🤍🫶🏼
THIS IS A BANGER
i loveeeee thisss also thank you for making my work shift survivable
heyyyy I love that
@@inayah0
Your video even inspired teenager from south korea. Thank you
I’ve done publicity research on aces and generational trauma. thanks for being the macrophone of the research, u really something!
love the way you speak. thank you for sharing ❤️
This video really resonated with me on a personal level. Thank you so much for speaking up on these sensitive topics.
your every video is a gem, I am glad I found you
ok you get a cookie for this video because it resonated HARD as an immigrant first gen daughter
this made me feel so genuinely seen, i've always felt so isolated with others not understanding what this feels like so thank you for this video 🙃❤️🩹
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Posthumous Forgiveness is very dear to my heart and the fact that (from what I know about it) my father seemed to be very similar to Kevin's one in many details makes it that some of the lyrics hit very very different for me lmao, it is such a beautiful song
never feel insecure you are so great i’m your number 1 fan. love from the cayman islands
THANK YOU ALWAYS FOR YOUR MUCH NEEDED INSIGHT
your channel found me at the perfect time
i love your mindset
Thanks a bunch to you! I felt relieve to listen from you nd you're such a nice person just be like this I mean forever.. And next time I hope you will make a video about how to build a confidence like in every situation how to handle it nd how we can overcome our insecurity.. I'm sorry but perhaps you're also maybe trying to overcome your insecure but you can share your thoughts because I like how you talk with your cameras or with us it's a big thing to express anything like even most of us don't know to express our thoughts properly.. I hope you get it what I want to tell. So yeah all the very best nd keep uploading like this kind of motivational videos and people will inspire from you.. ❤
loved this video ❤ well spoken ! also how do you edit your videos .!?? The filter looks so good
Giiirl youu aree amaaziingg!!
Just the way you are!!!!!!😁
Feels like I’m listening to ‘The Midnight Gospel’, I love it
You are a true gem
Hello! Thank you for your videos, I subscrabes recently in order to study english (train listening). I like the topiks you voice). I wish you success in developing this channel💟
Thank you for not running a ton of ads on your videos
Thank you for this video ❤
I love this #mood 캠코더로 찍은 것 같아요 ❤
I found your channel only yesterday and I love your content
Thank you for your video and topic ❤
Well I came across the videos and I have to say yes coming what I been tho in life I think it still a work in progress and I would like to thank you for the information
I have paranoid schizophrenia and paranoid personally disorder it has been hard to trust people I am leaving how to trust again thank you are worthy and you are loved you are very pretty.😻😍🌹🌺
23:55 fav part
Which camera do you use for recording your videos?
Ommmm my goooosh I LOVE YOU
Beautiful
What camera she use, always looks amazing
No that's her beauty bro..
which creators that you talked about helped ?
This is my contribution to the world of emotional health.
I wrote this song for all those that suffer from C.P.T.S.D. This song is about my triumph over the tragedy of this affliction that plagues our society. I hope this gets out to those that need it.
ua-cam.com/video/sM87ZDkLsZk/v-deo.htmlsi=dXfxlsklVUEZ8Z39
Real rap per usual I’m afraid
11:23
count me into your community
i love you! you’re a blessing inayah
what? Muslims can touch dogs first of all, Muslims just believe that having a dog at home brings bad luck but isnt even haram. And so what she can do whatever she wants, idek if shes muslim but it doesnt matter
wait ur asian?