Guy Explains Why He Won't Date Hot Women

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  • Опубліковано 12 кві 2017
  • Dan Rochkind says that personality now means more to him than swimsuit models. Ana Kasparian, Brett Erlich, and Aida Rodriguez, the hosts of The Young Turks, discuss. Tell us what you think in the comment section below. www.tytnetwork.com/go
    “When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.
    “I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair. “I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.”
    He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks - he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.
    “Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says. “Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.”
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  • @SeanBryantHayes
    @SeanBryantHayes 7 років тому +439

    Divorce in 5... 4... 3...

    • @emmmanueeel
      @emmmanueeel 7 років тому +2

      2...1...

    • @averygump
      @averygump 7 років тому

      OC...? +Emmanuel Scrive

    • @davidgarner3668
      @davidgarner3668 7 років тому +1

      RANGERS!!! IN SPACE!!!

    • @The_Awsome_Alchemist
      @The_Awsome_Alchemist 7 років тому +5

      GONE!

    • @HKHK-ue2ry
      @HKHK-ue2ry 7 років тому +1

      I could almost swear I liked your comment on the JRE Theo Von vid the other day? It's a small world or I'm going crazy. Likely the latter.

  • @georgie9303
    @georgie9303 7 років тому +1048

    the reason why I won't date hot women is because I can't get hot women

    • @jaxie4878
      @jaxie4878 7 років тому +13

      Well, you are Palpatine after all so...

    • @sayuas4293
      @sayuas4293 7 років тому +8

      You can... you just have to be a jerk

    • @MrLM002
      @MrLM002 7 років тому

      YUP! Quite a disgusting world we live in.

    • @MrTLsnow
      @MrTLsnow 7 років тому

      or for me.... any woman... lol but idgaf :P

    • @snap_drama346
      @snap_drama346 7 років тому

      Sheev Palpatine the reason I don't date hot women is cause I look better in the morning

  • @AJ-ut8cz
    @AJ-ut8cz 7 років тому +492

    he acts as though its a loss to them

    • @samholik8127
      @samholik8127 7 років тому +1

      jaskoe1 Wow, that was so edgy. Work on your trolling. You should be more subtle in your trolling.

    • @DyingBreed8
      @DyingBreed8 7 років тому +1

      Aj Brandt well, extremely strong guys like him can get the hottest women.

    • @jaskoe1
      @jaskoe1 7 років тому +1

      sam holik: Lol, look at the snowflake getting all triggered baahaha. Do you need a diaper change?

    • @midatlantic09
      @midatlantic09 7 років тому +3

      +Aj Brandt If he's a wealthy guy, it's objectively a loss to them.

    • @samholik8127
      @samholik8127 7 років тому

      jaskoe1 lol, no. The only thing I am offended by is how you feel the need to be edgy but can't actually commit to it

  • @worf7271
    @worf7271 7 років тому +345

    I'm a virgin by choice. Not my choice, but choice nonetheless.

    • @Chris-vs6ll
      @Chris-vs6ll 7 років тому +7

      Khan Singh so, not by choice

    • @theopkingdom3433
      @theopkingdom3433 7 років тому +14

      lol. funny.

    • @TheColin63
      @TheColin63 7 років тому +6

      Boom! you are seriously funny!

    • @optimusprime7412
      @optimusprime7412 6 років тому +1

      LMMFAO!

    • @mannyghotra8415
      @mannyghotra8415 6 років тому

      I have a question about your profile name. How are you a Khan and a Singh at the same time? Both are last names m or "Family Names" . and belongs to diffrent ethnicities as well as complete opposite religion.

  • @malachiowens3423
    @malachiowens3423 7 років тому +72

    Nothing worse then a hot male/female with a horrible personality. SAD!

    • @M0ebius
      @M0ebius 7 років тому +13

      Malachi Owens Not true. An ugly male/female with a horrible personality is worse.

    • @ohhhSmooth
      @ohhhSmooth 7 років тому +4

      except hot male/female with a horrible personality, who are being worshiped by millions...

    • @johnnycto7576
      @johnnycto7576 7 років тому +3

      just ask Melania

    • @TheColin63
      @TheColin63 7 років тому +1

      Don't you talk about ana kasperian like that. some guys love morons like her.

  • @KELLSONIC
    @KELLSONIC 7 років тому +226

    Translation
    "Hot women won't date me"

    • @Zaprozhan
      @Zaprozhan 7 років тому +5

      So he says.

    • @elenaduran5174
      @elenaduran5174 7 років тому +5

      @ Rhet O Rick: so he says. I want to know the names and see pictures of him with them. Otherwise, just talk.

    • @Releasethezazen
      @Releasethezazen 7 років тому +1

      You want him to photo document all the women he dates? Shallow much?

    • @KELLSONIC
      @KELLSONIC 7 років тому +3

      +Rhett O Rick Well sure, but were they hot?

    • @colasalz2
      @colasalz2 6 років тому

      that doesn´t make sense. If you are

  • @Mrmigo8703
    @Mrmigo8703 7 років тому +305

    I will say one thing attractive people don't have to try as hard to get into relationships.

    • @davidcharles3871
      @davidcharles3871 7 років тому +26

      True, and some beautiful women think nothing of breaking up with you since it's just a non-issue for them. The point is there is a price to pay if you pursue a super-attractive person - it's a reasonable thing to point out. But, and you can see this from the comments here, when you do point it out it gets misinterpreted.

    • @hazyhalfmoon
      @hazyhalfmoon 7 років тому +22

      alex karleusa There are a lot of attractive single people because many attractive people are insufferable, spoiled brats.

    • @skullsaintdead
      @skullsaintdead 7 років тому +22

      I don't think so, people tend to just use them for sex, aren't interested in a relationship or even friendship.

    • @littlemissdimples88
      @littlemissdimples88 7 років тому +4

      alex karleusa they may just wanna be single. Some are too self-absorbed to wanna be in a relationship--but I guess this can apply to unattractive ppl too :p

    • @WalkingthroughNYC
      @WalkingthroughNYC 7 років тому +7

      He_Who_ Ceases attractive young women looks for older wealthier guys to take care of them. I work with some. they don't work hard at all. they all have a guy that's 15-20 years older that they don't take serious but the guy is enamored with them. this guy is 100% correct about the good looking women in NYC. 10000% in fact

  • @twentyonepilots7057
    @twentyonepilots7057 7 років тому +80

    So he would date the Kardashians 🙂

  • @maggiesmith2600
    @maggiesmith2600 6 років тому +16

    What makes this guy think hot women would date HIM ?

  • @whitemalefeminist998
    @whitemalefeminist998 7 років тому +53

    Such a disgusting materialistic society

    • @unitedjt345
      @unitedjt345 7 років тому +1

      This.

    • @ongobongo8333
      @ongobongo8333 7 років тому +2

      EMPEROR OF THE SJWs a major problem with women

    • @shadowranger937
      @shadowranger937 7 років тому +2

      no, such a disgusting gynocentric society.

    • @nazcarcup
      @nazcarcup 7 років тому

      EMPEROR OF THE SJWs Exactly

    • @kerem121
      @kerem121 7 років тому +1

      EMPEROR OF THE SJWs how many genders exist?

  • @Hedgehog4real
    @Hedgehog4real 7 років тому +18

    the premise of this article is so laughable. it's like some people don't realise beauty is catastrophically subjective. i wouldn't mind it in a teen magazine, since teens are still mostly shallow. but grown-ass women and men? daaamn this silly

  • @IXIONblue
    @IXIONblue 7 років тому +36

    the effects of capitalism on human relations are really depressing...

    • @machida58
      @machida58 5 років тому

      Stop blaming capitalism.

    • @SuperLucylola
      @SuperLucylola 4 роки тому

      @GrassFedMeats it is it makes people view people as objects for heir ego

    • @SuperLucylola
      @SuperLucylola 4 роки тому

      @LEO2001 no such thing as sexual freedom. liberal women are damaged. wearen't built for casual sex like men can do.we have a lot or risks in every way.

  • @AJ-ut8cz
    @AJ-ut8cz 7 років тому +63

    if he's mediocre then I'm hideous

    • @LGDarksteed
      @LGDarksteed 7 років тому +4

      Aj Brandt I was thinking the exact same thing.

    • @sinsandkarma6987
      @sinsandkarma6987 7 років тому +3

      Aj Brandt I don't find him attractive but he's not hideous. But he's definitely mediocre m

    • @killcat1971
      @killcat1971 7 років тому +1

      According to women possibly, 80% of women only find 20% of men attractive.

    • @AJ-ut8cz
      @AJ-ut8cz 7 років тому +1

      killcat1971 that's not encouraging

    • @jacindapeters2303
      @jacindapeters2303 2 роки тому

      He's repulsive

  • @zeusmasterson4117
    @zeusmasterson4117 6 років тому +5

    I remember an old song that went “if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.” I guess he took that to heart.

  • @mendoh5935
    @mendoh5935 7 років тому +10

    "I respect women so much I completely stay away from them".

  • @kokigami5492
    @kokigami5492 7 років тому +29

    When ana did that thing with her hair I nearly lost my shit

  • @AtlanticZealot
    @AtlanticZealot 7 років тому +12

    Am I the only one who thinks people are overreacting to this guy? Sounds like he struck a nerve for some people

  • @u235u235u235
    @u235u235u235 7 років тому +21

    Ana needs to value the opinion of other panelist more. She's a little self focused.

    • @Chris-vs6ll
      @Chris-vs6ll 7 років тому +3

      u235u235u235 absolutely. All she cares about is her, and her looks.

    • @bradleysmith681
      @bradleysmith681 7 років тому +2

      u235u235u235 To say the least. And she has to be right always.. Usually a sign of some deeper insecurity...

    • @adrianramirez1746
      @adrianramirez1746 7 років тому

      Ana seems to be the Stubborn type, so I doubt it'll have any effect on her whatsoever.

  • @LibsRockU
    @LibsRockU 7 років тому +7

    People constantly seem to convince themselves that what they think is 'attractive' (or smart or ?) is what everybody else thinks or feels. THAT'S bizarre.

  • @shaykespeeer7040
    @shaykespeeer7040 7 років тому +4

    Society is effing ugly. So judgemental. If we were all blindfolded when we first met each other, maybe we'd judge people on their personalities, instead of just on looks. What an effed up, sick, shallow society we live in.

  • @MomocloCloverZetto
    @MomocloCloverZetto 7 років тому +70

    I love that guys pretend to care about "conversation".

    • @Evelyne571
      @Evelyne571 7 років тому +40

      he got tired of the hot girls talking about themselves instead of talking about how great they think he is.

    • @firedemon43
      @firedemon43 7 років тому +14

      You probably couldn't carry the conversation yourself

    • @immanuelkh
      @immanuelkh 6 років тому +2

      Talk to me. I love conversation

    • @crashbandicooch2786
      @crashbandicooch2786 6 років тому +2

      Évelyne talking about yourself is just as condescending

    • @leonidassabr9197
      @leonidassabr9197 5 років тому +1

      I love that a asain girl pretends to care about conversation

  • @erinkat999
    @erinkat999 7 років тому +3

    I love how they think they're super attractive and their partner is so lucky and its literally the other way around

  • @Charles-pf7zy
    @Charles-pf7zy 7 років тому +2

    As a guy I can officially confirm that we have two kinds of "hot". There's sexy "hot" which is high on the bangable scale but low on the dateable scale. They usually dress provocatively, wear lots of makeup, and spend lots of time on their body.
    Then there's "cute" hot which is the type of girl that you would take home to mom. Dresses more conservatively , less liberal with the make up and just in decent shape.
    Runway models are sexy hot but not cute hot, guys tend to go for the sexy ones for the thrill at first but when they get older they rather settle for cute

  • @AmethystEyes
    @AmethystEyes 7 років тому +7

    For the first guy: it's hard to carry a conversation with your date when it's just your hand. Oh!!!!
    ...I'll leave now... lol 🚪🚶

  • @KwandiePower
    @KwandiePower 7 років тому +3

    As someone who studies Korea, I can tell you that the majority of the time a foreigner is getting stared at because they are foreign. The beauty standards Korean people place on themselves a lot of the time are not placed on foreigners. Usually you're being stared at because you don't look like them and you stand out; not because they think you're ugly.

  • @tropicallivingoverseas5202
    @tropicallivingoverseas5202 7 років тому +4

    I won't look twice at the typical hot girl who's all dolled up because I assume I will have nothing in common with her. We're basically different species. I don't value appearance in a way they seem to.

  • @SDwilly
    @SDwilly 7 років тому +4

    This is all a load of bullcrap. It's easy for the women to read this article and say " I would NEVER date such a douchebag!" but obviously this guy has had a full dating life, so MORE than enough women have been doing it. Why? the money. so lets get real.

  • @everybodysgramma5657
    @everybodysgramma5657 7 років тому +6

    I knew a ver chubby woman who went to Egypt. She got stares. She thought she must be hideous but as it turned out, chubby women are considered super attractive there. She got a marriage proposal from a very high ranking and rich official. She said she never felt more beautiful in her life. It's a cultural thing. In the states we are so influenced by the media, it's just pathetic.

  • @viejachancletuda
    @viejachancletuda 6 років тому +3

    After watching this video and reading the comments, I'm so happy I have had the confidence, intelligence and open mind to find, appreciate and love someone for the wonderful and kind person he is. He is not rich or " classically attractive, but I would choose him over any gorgeous model any day. He treats me like a queen and loves and respects me for who I am. And that is what relationships should be about. Too bad most people are shallow and too stupid to appreciate genuine beauty.

  • @daguy5680
    @daguy5680 7 років тому +8

    For another side to this type of story: I met a woman years ago that I fell head over heals for at first sight. Several days later we met to talk more. Later in our conversation she opened up to me on some difficulties she had due to what others also perceived as her extreme beauty. She said she was kind of uncomfortable around others. Guys she'd go out w/would get angry at her for other guys hitting on her. If she went to someone's house for a party or gathering the guys would do their best to b noticed or even hit on her, constantly stare. Their wives &/or girl/woman friends would give her the cold shoulder & not want her around quite often because they didn't like that their husband or boy/man friend would do stuff for her to notice them more. It seemed to me she almost considered her beauty a curse, not a gift & felt kindof alone. I never saw that side of beauty til Dawn made me aware of it. I guess it's kindof like a rich/wealthy person; do u love me for who I am or just my money, in her case it's: do u love me for my beauty or who I am? I use the word (love) but it's more likely (pretend to love) in a lot of cases. The guy in this story sounds like a possible pretender?

    • @dougn2350
      @dougn2350 6 років тому +1

      Dude, you dont fall in love at first sight. What you felt was infatuation.

  • @BlackLabelSlushie
    @BlackLabelSlushie 7 років тому +3

    I used to hire multi-lingual people for a global company. When Americans say they speak "7 languages" you'd be amazed how often they barely speak 2.

  • @TheThizzelle
    @TheThizzelle 7 років тому +8

    so why is Ana fronting like she doesn't know what this guy is talking about? It clearly strikes a nerve with her and proves this guys point too. haha

    • @LukaDonesnitch
      @LukaDonesnitch 5 років тому

      Ana is Triggered and so is most of the comments section. BTW the woman on the left has no room to talk about anybodies looks.

  • @fawaziqbal7996
    @fawaziqbal7996 7 років тому +3

    Anna needs to seriously stop acting over the top. It seems as though her response to every story is either a sarcastic smirk or fake outrage. I don't mind people being passionate, but I can barely get through a video without getting annoyed by her. She's got to tone it down a bit.

  • @ng38477
    @ng38477 7 років тому +3

    A lot of men think like this. They all have different reasons but, the recent on I've heard is that if you date a homely woman then you don't have to worry about other guys wanting them. While I understand what he was saying in a way, it struck me as the thought process of an insecure person.

  • @kevinhodgson2764
    @kevinhodgson2764 7 років тому +1

    Ana: "I really hate to comment on peoples looks"
    *Proceeds to comment on the looks of anyone she doesn't like*

  • @alexiatr
    @alexiatr 7 років тому +3

    she is not a bikini model? she could have fooled me, she is beautiful.

  • @joesaiditstrue
    @joesaiditstrue 7 років тому +3

    Saying that this guy's fiancée is "gorgeous" is about the least accurate statement that I've seen today. she's aight, gorgeous she ain't tho

  • @kazzuo32
    @kazzuo32 7 років тому +5

    Thats the thing now days every body think they are so hot and beautiful. naaa calm that you ain't all that.

  • @KCsFunHouse
    @KCsFunHouse 5 років тому

    I 100% agree with Ana’s point at the end regarding social media. For at least the past year I have refused to use apps like FB, Instagram and Twitter for that exact reason. In my life offline I’m not a fan of fake people, I’m sure many people feel similarly. I really started noticing that most people exclusively post how wonderful things are in their lives. With everything fro
    extravagant vacations to Christmas trees overflowing with gifts. I knew damn well some of these people had real struggles going on and felt like they were damaging their own psyche by attempting to make everything sound like kittens and rainbows. I thought about my own posting history and decided I didn’t want to self sabotage my own life. Since then I feel like I’ve been happier and honestly more engaged in my daily life. I go on my social media accounts maybe once a month now and it was one of the better decisions I’ve ever made. As far as this article, I’m curious as to who thought this was a great idea. I would love to see a follow up to it however, only from the significant others side and how seeing what their partners truly think of them made them feel. IMHO I think over confidence is an ugly trait, self confidence and loving yourself is very attractive, but going as far as those in this article makes them ugly.

  • @justinmillette9110
    @justinmillette9110 7 років тому +1

    It's important to note that the line 'Why I won't date hot women anymore' wasn't said by Dan 'Full Head of Hair' Rochkind, it was written by Christian 'Clickbait' Gollayan. So many commenters have judged Rochkind to be a douche because of that line, but he never actually said it!

  • @obione69
    @obione69 7 років тому +28

    ana is taking this a bit personal, one might think she considers herself some kinds of super beauty. and just because you think your partner isn't a super model doesn't mean you love them less. fact is the more attractive a person is the more likely they are arrogant, sheltered and superficial. very attractive people live their life being told by everyone how perfect they are and it makes them unbearable, they are almost never challenged in anything they say and become super arrogant.
    the guy is not wrong in what he wrote, maybe he wrote it a little condescending but doesn't change the valid point he made. its not his fault our society judges people on superficial qualities, he only pointed it out.

    • @Chris-vs6ll
      @Chris-vs6ll 7 років тому +4

      Joe Doe yeah and she got a nose job and no guy probably ever talked to her before that

    • @obione69
      @obione69 7 років тому +2

      Chris Salvatoriello I am also curious if the butthurt they feel is because they picked their partners based on aesthetics and not on personality. Fact is normal people have this thing called humility and loyalty, something that is severely lacking in very attractive people. So you want a super model wife/husband, fine but don't be surprised when you catch them banging the tennis coach or if they married you for the money.

    • @BJ-fr5ls
      @BJ-fr5ls 6 років тому

      Joe Doe - I totally agree

  • @MrLoobu
    @MrLoobu 7 років тому +2

    If a woman told me she thought she was better looking than I, I would leave the room in a classy way and then never call her again.

    • @cooliofoolio8872
      @cooliofoolio8872 7 років тому

      What Happens If She Was Just Joking And Apologizes To You Would You Reconsider Taking Her Back

    • @MrLoobu
      @MrLoobu 7 років тому

      I Stand With The Poor And Downtrodden Im 23 years old and have had a girlfriend for 3 years, I get laid all the time there young buck. What they taught you in school was all wrong lol.

  • @PSlo0over
    @PSlo0over 7 років тому

    Can someone please link me the video that Brett was talking about at 8:00? Tried looking for it and couldn't find it :/

  • @mendoh5935
    @mendoh5935 7 років тому +8

    If you're in a relationship then that means you're partner is the best you can get. Like Corey Holcomb said, "your bf is one job interview away from finding out how he really feels". Meaning the more money a man has, more options he has.

  • @apope06
    @apope06 7 років тому +17

    The chic is not 'fine'. shes hot. and the attractiveness of a guy according to women is their confidence rather than their looks. I don't really see anything wrong with what he says. This guy knows the game. beautiful and sexy women want a successful guy with money. he knows he offers that compared to the 60 year old greying bankers dating 40 years younger. The guy is cocky and confident. is he an asshole? yes. But he is being honest. There's NOTHING wrong with what this dude has said. oh and by the way... Hot chics are often shallow and can't hold a deep intellectual conversation. Its sooo true!

    • @mendoh5935
      @mendoh5935 7 років тому

      There's a reason that beautiful women are not CEOs...they don't have to be.

    • @mendoh5935
      @mendoh5935 7 років тому +1

      There's always exception to the rule but because some of us cannot relate does not mean it is not truthful.

  • @alexdavinci9533
    @alexdavinci9533 7 років тому +11

    He must be DT's love child.

    • @x-man9473
      @x-man9473 7 років тому +2

      Alex da Vinci Trump is married to a super model.

    • @alexdavinci9533
      @alexdavinci9533 7 років тому +2

      X-man
      Super old.

    • @WordsofHarmony
      @WordsofHarmony 7 років тому +1

      X-man melanoma is not a supermodel RUDE!

  • @angelagraves865
    @angelagraves865 7 років тому

    My husband and I have talked about a similar topic with regard to each other. Sometimes he'll shave his mustache off and I won't notice for days, and I'll do things to myself that he often won't notice. When we talked about it we realized that we were seeing each other beyond what we show on the outside. It's not like we never notice each others looks, but that's not the first thing that we notice about each other. It's nice.

  • @dschonsie
    @dschonsie 7 років тому +1

    he is absolutely right, it's not advisable to date women when they have fever

  • @mendoh5935
    @mendoh5935 7 років тому +3

    This argument has been discussed on the Tom Leykis show numerous times. He even has the women that hate him call in and discuss why they hate him. UA-cam search Tom Leykis. I'm sure Ana hates him too. Instead of laughing listen to the other side of the argument.

  • @obiwankenobi661
    @obiwankenobi661 7 років тому +26

    ana, step outside your bubble for a second..
    1. women - esp in NY, of all places - will date anyone with cash. his looks are exactly 1% relevant to his dating life.
    2. being a model shouldnt be the highest complement for a woman (thought you were a feminist?) so naturally, saying your wife doesnt have runway-model-qualifications shouldnt be any more insulting than saying she doesnt have nfl-quarteback-qualifications. (again, where your feminism at?)
    3. not being a model =/= less attractive. i find most runway-models unattractive. not because they have the curves of a 10 y/o boy, but also their face and personality.
    lastly: beauty =/= attraction. you can be attracted to a person for literally anything, from looks over personality over social status to money. and it is 99% cultural.

    • @Shakor77
      @Shakor77 7 років тому +5

      Ana is a massive hypocrite.

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. 6 років тому

      Have you ever actually spoken to a woman? If you can't find one who will speak to you (perfectly understandable given your comment) watch a few storytime videos on yt. We've all been out with a few rich guys. Money is no substitute for physical attractiveness or a decent personality. The only time a woman will throw everything else out for money is if she grew up in actual poverty and needs someone to be rich in order to feel safe with them.

  • @markotark
    @markotark 7 років тому +1

    You know why i don't put that much stock into the way people look and prefer to look for matching personalities?
    Because no person is responsible for the symmetry of their bone-structure. To judge someone based on that is to judge the pairings formed by their parents, grandparents and further ancestors.
    So, while i can appreciate the beauty of certain people, they didn't do anything to achieve that, so they shouldn't get treated differently for it.
    Now, of course because this is coming from a less than average looking male, it could be said that this is just me trying to justify my own shortcomings...

  • @rachelweiss7972
    @rachelweiss7972 7 років тому +1

    Yikes, this is what happened to me, as far as being out of someone's league. People STILL ask me why my husband divorced me. He divorced me because he thinks I'm a douche bag: He married me because I was beautiful (and funny).

  • @jessyjulie5506
    @jessyjulie5506 6 років тому +3

    Some beautiful women have great personalities.

  • @nutsaboutnames3805
    @nutsaboutnames3805 7 років тому +12

    The "merely beautiful" girlfriend of the first guy is 5 foot 2, but in the photo he doesn't look much taller than her. Even if she's wearing heels, he looks like he's quite short. Maybe he's suffering from Short Man Syndrome. Obviously not all short men suffer from it, but he seems like he is - putting others down to raise himself up.

  • @sanchayansarkar2953
    @sanchayansarkar2953 Рік тому +1

    For claiming themselves as non-judgemental, these people in the panel are also super judgemental.

  • @girletherial
    @girletherial 6 років тому

    I wonder if this article originally appeared across from an ad for the movie "I Feel Pretty."

  • @VictorGyo
    @VictorGyo 7 років тому +3

    Lots of young people in the comments who don't understand that any moderately wealthy guy who isn't butt ugly can get any woman he wants. If you're actually rich forget about it LOL

    • @VictorGyo
      @VictorGyo 7 років тому

      Don't get me wrong, the guy is pretty douchey but get real.

  • @nigen
    @nigen 7 років тому +3

    you know, I doubt anyone in a content relationship would even notice or CARE about the subject of this article. this is just rich people flaunting, as always.

  • @marcduperron6062
    @marcduperron6062 7 років тому

    Well I got to say that this video just made me reflect on things, introspect.
    Thank you very much for posting that!

  • @cadegurley3530
    @cadegurley3530 7 років тому

    Anyone else have the video mess up at the end?

  • @DJDocsVideos
    @DJDocsVideos 7 років тому +9

    I'm 40 (in 3 month) that dude looks like my 72 years old father on a bad day.

  • @crobinson2624
    @crobinson2624 7 років тому +5

    Well how old were these "beautiful swim suit models"? 22? 24? See that was his problem.

  • @hellocyrax
    @hellocyrax 7 років тому +1

    Why is she reacting so much to this, seems normal to me.

  • @gmon7940
    @gmon7940 6 років тому +1

    "Ugly bitches need love too."

  • @PlanetCharnBaby
    @PlanetCharnBaby 7 років тому +19

    Never really understood the whole "supermodel" ideal of beauty. Most supermodels are abnormally tall, have small breasts, undefined hips and boyish bodies in general. They also tend to have very sharp, almost reptilian facial features. Most of those physical characteristics have not been considered femininely beautiful throughout human history. Until now.
    And this might sound a little homophobic to say this, but could there be some truth to the idea that our modern sense of female beauty has been heavily infuenced by gay male fashion designers? That the physical traits they find most sexually attractive in other men, may be informing their preferences when they choose women to model their clothes?

  • @ObsidianRadio
    @ObsidianRadio 7 років тому +8

    No offense but did this guys stattement strike a nerve with Ana and Aida? They're both above the age of 30 and they both seem to be getting VERY defensive about this guys statements! :-/
    4:44 He knows how to do all that and is that accomplished and has no right to talk shit about himself?
    5:16 Ana you're misunderstanding. He's talking about the WOMEN he's dated! He's not talking about ALL attractive across the board! That should be easy to understand.

    • @TheRapUpHaven
      @TheRapUpHaven 7 років тому +2

      If the shoe fits then wear it I'd say lol, maybe the shit he is saying applies to them lol.

    • @unitedjt345
      @unitedjt345 7 років тому +7

      Accurateaf. That's what I'm getting from this video ana's insecurities

  • @nzrider8676
    @nzrider8676 7 років тому +2

    OK. I need the country where beautiful women consider a broke, overweight, prone to addiction, unemployed and broken man is considered wildly attractive. Which country is that one? Oh and I have a full head of hair.

  • @iversonmatthew
    @iversonmatthew 7 років тому +1

    No shortage of stupid in our country.

  • @annatar6453
    @annatar6453 7 років тому +6

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone is beautiful to someone.

    • @lilyeakle
      @lilyeakle 6 років тому +1

      Said the blind man....

    • @darkworld9850
      @darkworld9850 5 років тому

      Yes, except the eye never gets fat.

  • @humanparadox
    @humanparadox 7 років тому +91

    They are dissing his looks, but men with great jobs get their pick of the litter

    • @hazyhalfmoon
      @hazyhalfmoon 7 років тому +10

      Gage Acosta Necessarily.

    • @WalkingthroughNYC
      @WalkingthroughNYC 7 років тому +6

      humanparadox Yea until they get bored. you are used for the cash buddy.i work in real estate in NY and see these couples every day. your girl with looks and doesn't pay a dime in anything but has a super successful whipping boy.

    • @darcyrobbs6866
      @darcyrobbs6866 7 років тому +2

      Baldheadslck look up huMAN. And look up Sandman.

    • @jxsilicon9
      @jxsilicon9 7 років тому

      Not really? Lets see who models,miss worlds and actresses married Rich guys.

    • @espenhs7387
      @espenhs7387 7 років тому +3

      He is also above average looking for his age. Have you seen the average 40 year old? Looks much much worse. Having a full head of hair at that age is rarity, too.

  • @Klaratchi
    @Klaratchi 7 років тому +2

    I do think that beauty can play a role in how difficult it is to date.
    Guys that lack in confidence have a lot of issues dating women they perceive to be "out of their league" in terms of attractiveness. Relationships with them can quickly become toxic.
    From my experience, guys often need to feel superior to their girlfriend in one way other another. If for instance, the guy you date feel smarter than you, then the fact that you are perceived as more beautiful is less likely to be so much of an issue.
    I have this issue of being pretty intelligent, and attractive too. I often feel guilty for being smart, and feel pressure to dumb myself not to hurt guys' egos. I think it's stupid that I feel this way, and I do not want to subject myself to that. Maybe I am lucky to have ADHD and Dyspraxia which at times make me appear stupider than I am because I have issues verbally expressing my thoughts coherently.
    Perhaps, it's also a blessing that guys more often than not just assume that they're smarter than you because you're a woman. It's true. You're never given the benefit of the doubt, you always have to prove yourself; and even if you do, you're not credited for your own wit.
    Nevertheless, it does become problematic when there are very few people that can truly outsmart you (or at least, are near your intellectual level), and have enough confidence in themselves not to go crazy because they feel like there is so much competition out there. There isn't really.

  • @Yupitsmehi
    @Yupitsmehi 7 років тому +1

    "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. Take from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you!" ...love that song.... goes great with the story

  • @ObsidianRadio
    @ObsidianRadio 7 років тому +130

    Wait let me get this straight. A guy wants to date women for their personality and people are attacking him???
    So all you people really believe that us men are that shallow and that all we care about is looks only??? Smh!
    _"“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of
    themselves,” he says. “Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with
    them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.”_
    Umm excuse me. This is actually pretty common. Dudes get their life together, want to settle down and unfortunately have to put up with women who are stuck in a high-school mentality! Why is this so hard to believe? Wtf is wrong with you people?
    Do you WANT men to be mindless sex addicts in order to fulfill your shallow stereotypes of male sexuality??? :-(

    • @johndellacontrada9947
      @johndellacontrada9947 7 років тому +17

      I think you're reading too much into this.

    • @listenbuddy1318
      @listenbuddy1318 7 років тому +6

      Obsidian- Radio Yes, because they are libs.

    • @ObsidianRadio
      @ObsidianRadio 7 років тому +12

      To Listenbuddy1 : That unfortunately is the vibe I'm getting here. They seem to be triggered and are having their liberal bubble popped by a guy and his particular experiences. Which from my understanding is fairly common.
      _"HOW DARE YOU go against our infallible female narrative. HOW DARE YOU!!!"_ :-/

    • @ObsidianRadio
      @ObsidianRadio 7 років тому +2

      To Name: Unknown : Am I???

    • @futurestoryteller
      @futurestoryteller 7 років тому +8

      You're really great at nuance...

  • @StevienickS21
    @StevienickS21 7 років тому +3

    he didn't say he was God's gift to women, all he said was that he has a muscular build and a full head of hair. His wife is very attractive but he used to date models who have no substance, it's his story about his life. I don't see what the outrage is.

  • @saininj
    @saininj 7 років тому

    I saw this on Facebook and immediately thought it was an article from The Onion. I'm surprised it wasn't.

  • @Falcone45
    @Falcone45 2 роки тому +1

    I can't believe the girl on the left was thought of as ugly in Korea. God she's a beauty like Ana!

    • @masonkanterbury3007
      @masonkanterbury3007 Рік тому

      They're always saying that zhit to encourage people. Did they ask every guy in Korea if they thought she was hot? Some people think Ann Coulter is ugly but I would go for it.

  • @Canoneosmiami
    @Canoneosmiami 7 років тому +13

    He's rich and he's got choices,stop hating...

  • @humanparadox
    @humanparadox 7 років тому +8

    If instead of this guy, this was a woman who said that she used to date rich guys, she decided to marry a regular guy, people would be praising her

    • @yashagar4443
      @yashagar4443 7 років тому +2

      humanparadox yes cause that makes sense

    • @Iveystolemybike
      @Iveystolemybike 7 років тому +6

      Did you watch the video? There was a narcissistic woman as well :)

    • @WalkingthroughNYC
      @WalkingthroughNYC 7 років тому

      humanparadox they will divorce because he doesn't make enough.trust me.she will see the lifestyle she is living can be better and will opt for that

  • @TCt83067695
    @TCt83067695 7 років тому

    aida's right shoulder @09:05 in that lighting is perfection

  • @athifma9073
    @athifma9073 7 років тому

    the way tyt and their hosts approach articles of this nature is fun entertaining and i enjoy watching it
    but sometimes i feel it becomes little more towards non-analytical and ridiculing side where making fun becomes the prime objective then understanding the story and seeing the take away. not so specific to this video but in general
    anyway enjoying the content had this in my mind for a while

  • @malachiowens3423
    @malachiowens3423 7 років тому +4

    1:12 OMG I have to make a gif out of that.

    • @IgnarHusky
      @IgnarHusky 7 років тому

      Malachi Owens LOL right? I was stoned when I saw it live initially and I was just GONE.
      On the floor, Spleen in Defcon 4, balling my eyes out 😂😂
      Starting to like Brett more over time.

  • @linux750
    @linux750 7 років тому +8

    it's vids like theses that make it hard to take TYT seriously sometimes. It's certainly true that Anna got *_TRIGGERED_* over this, but this is just a non-issue so I don't care that much. No one else should either.

  • @uriustosh
    @uriustosh 7 років тому +1

    In general, people who focus their time developing physical appearance spend less time developing their mind. It's uncommon to find people with image obsession that have vast intellects. This guy makes some fair points about physically attractive people receiving large egos from continuous positive reinforcement. Particularly problematic if happening in an obese society like America where objectively attractive people are a definite minority. The beauty and brains type is a minority within that minority. In other countries, diets and culture changes these equation. When it comes to dating, that can make it difficult as image is what first attracts us to a person. It is better to not settle though, and keep the standards high and just wait for the person that is ideal. Beauty without brains is like a Ferrari without an engine.

  • @FREEDOMFORUKRAINE2024
    @FREEDOMFORUKRAINE2024 5 років тому

    Beauty isnt the most important thing, but no one wants ugly kids.

  • @quaxk
    @quaxk 7 років тому +81

    the more attractive the girl, the less she'll earn her stay in your bed!

    • @moralitycheck6715
      @moralitycheck6715 7 років тому +6

      quaxk Gorgeous girls don't give head?

    • @MrMlbfan6
      @MrMlbfan6 7 років тому

      Morality Check some not all of them

    • @moralitycheck6715
      @moralitycheck6715 7 років тому

      carlos ortiz I feel like the gorgeous ones crave it

    • @ObsidianRadio
      @ObsidianRadio 7 років тому +1

      To quaxk : Apparently so do fat chicks!

    • @Ladygothii12
      @Ladygothii12 7 років тому +2

      quaxk huh?

  • @aditbhiday
    @aditbhiday 7 років тому +14

    Ana is getting more irritating by the minute.

    • @sintjagos
      @sintjagos 7 років тому +4

      She is very self righteous and judgmental. Smart woman but what an awful segment.

    • @moo.johnference869
      @moo.johnference869 5 років тому

      @@sintjagos ana is one of those crazy girls you need to stay away from...far away !

  • @jaccrazy21
    @jaccrazy21 7 років тому +2

    Brett absolutely in a fit of laughing totally cracking me up.

  • @erzan
    @erzan 7 років тому +1

    "You're like King Kong" Brutal. If I ever go to Korea I'm wearing my thick skin!

  • @darcyrobbs6866
    @darcyrobbs6866 7 років тому +8

    m g t o w

  • @mikeSmith-sr2bn
    @mikeSmith-sr2bn 7 років тому +3

    Ana is making it about herself. Anna if you don't know it yet, you are not exactly hot. 6/10 maybe.

  • @Arcexey
    @Arcexey 7 років тому

    I enjoy listening to Ana so much when people finally *don't interrupt her. * She brings more energy and entertainment, but ffs everybody else constantly interrupts her.

  • @iloveyoumadhuri
    @iloveyoumadhuri 7 років тому

    "Why men should care about their looks" is what the article headline should've read.

  • @cisco3111
    @cisco3111 7 років тому +17

    Because he's a Beta Male?

    • @futurestoryteller
      @futurestoryteller 7 років тому +17

      Just to be clear, it's because he's an "alpha" male. Like all the UA-cam commenters...

  • @MrMlbfan6
    @MrMlbfan6 7 років тому +3

    Why so many dislike 🤔🤔

  • @kwams26
    @kwams26 7 років тому +1

    Aida Rodriguez: "when she messed her hair, somebody at home is like, she's so sexy."
    Me: Get out of my head!

  • @SafeTopps
    @SafeTopps 3 роки тому +1

    He's right. 10's are probably snobby along with 8's and 9's. A 7 will treat you better

  • @katsam4457
    @katsam4457 7 років тому +24

    Ana is a 6.5/10 tops. She should not be judging others people's looks

    • @Chris-vs6ll
      @Chris-vs6ll 7 років тому +3

      nature giver she got a nose job. She would still be hideous if it wasn't for medical science. That alone makes her hideous to me

    • @bradleysmith681
      @bradleysmith681 7 років тому +2

      Ana is cute, not hot.. At least to me.. Hopefully, her husband thinks she is beautiful....

    • @adrianramirez1746
      @adrianramirez1746 7 років тому +2

      Nah, she's more of an 8 because of the make-up; probably a 7 average. It's her attitude that's off-putting.

    • @matthewmaguire71
      @matthewmaguire71 6 років тому +1

      Wise up. Ana is a solid 8.

    • @shirleybertrand7890
      @shirleybertrand7890 6 років тому

      She's barely a 6 bc her off putting personality, no curves, reliance on plastic surgery

  • @rachelweiss7972
    @rachelweiss7972 7 років тому

    The person on the Left always has half a screen of moving graphics, after the host, and the other person don't. The beginning always makes me dizzy. I want to see faces, but I have to only listen, and wait for when it is safe ( I have to guesstimate) so I miss a bunch of visuals.

  • @BeholdenProductions
    @BeholdenProductions 7 років тому

    One thing I've noticed a bit... To the point about the photo of the first guy's GF - the narcissists in this article who think they're super hot likely take 20 times more photos of themselves than other people. Then they pick the best ones to post on social and in their dating profiles, and it is that process that often results in them aggrandizing their view of themselves. Being photogenic and being attractive aren't always the same thing, and the majority of secure average people who are reasonably attractive don't have as many photos of themselves because they aren't fueling the need to feel super hot with photoshoots and multiple selfies.

  • @cloroxbleach9612
    @cloroxbleach9612 6 років тому +1

    THE CAPTIONS