THEY DO!... NARCISISTS ONLY CHOOSES THE BEST !(EMPATH,KIND, RESPECTFUL,LOYAL) SOMEONE THEY WILL NEVER BE. THAT'S WHY THEY PICKED YOU THEN TRICKED YOU INTO BELIEVING THAT YOU ARE WORTHLESS SO AS TO HAVE CONTROL! ENVY IS AT THE HEART OF A NARCISIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The "narcissist" don't miss you. They miss controlling you. They miss the good you have done. Cut them off in silence and make your move of what you're getting ready to do.
Narcissistic people can play with you but once you call them on their bs it's the end of the world. Best revenge is walk away and stay away. I can forgive from a distance but reconnecting not in my future. I always send love&light 🙏🙌
I just caller block them without announcement the first sign of a second red flag. I'm not going to lie, I get immense satisfaction that they think they're going to breadcrumb me and then POOF--access denied!!I always believed in the golden rule. (Western Society has tried to drill into our heads "I'm okay, you're okay, and everyone's okay!") I'm not really talking about romantic relationships here as much as even or family situationships with siblings. I'm not going to suffer a third red flag from these people anymore! Let's just say I wipe the slate clean. The red flag violations has been reset the zero. They are on thin ice for me. It might just take an orange flag even and I go back to the Golden Rule. A yellow or orange flag could be a strike one out of 3 strikes. They sure as hell are not getting a strike 3 on my soul again
Your right. I dealt with one, and I cut him off in silence. Oh when I tell you he was highly upset. He called so much I had to put my phone on do not disturb, It was going to voicemail for him but the people who were important to me were able to reach me. This stung him bad. But I NEVER looked back once I left, I kept silent but continued to live my life. N there’s was nothing he could do about it. I felt so good when I cut him off. My life has never been better. I thank God everyday for exposing him.
Ohh well you can see bullshit from mile away when you do self improvement you can see. If just they don't have morals or standards for themselves. I did the same thing to an so called friend who never reach out to me unfortunately.. sometimes protection is necessary for both party to grow.. keep trying to do you Victoria.. that what I am doing honestly
@@heather4089 yeah it's tells you something is off I left a so called friend until this day she never put forth the effort to even call me or text me keep in mind I didn't do anything's to her . Keep in mind I live super close to this girl . Mexicans think they have it all but they really don't ..
When you change your number and you don’t respond to their social media, they will have other people friend you on FB or whatever and try to find out what going on in your life. It never ends but the best thing you can do is remain silent and never give in. Don’t allow one word or a text to go from you to them. You won already, you have nothing else to do but live your life.
ah yes, their flying monkeys as it were. the best thing to do is, particuliarly if they are mutual freinds, i did this with 2 times this happeend. i never even mentioned the person. acted like we were not even talking about it. but i also was told if they press tha tyou simply tell someone that this is not something you discuss, you have personal reasons and htat is that. and if the persist, you cut them off too
in fact, not too long after i cut this wackjob creepy neighbor who is defintely a narc, a mutual freind asked me , or tld me that the guy was "worried about me" now this other gy an di always discussed specific thigns we always discussed prior to him knowing o rme knownig we knew the same person. and we talke dabout it. so when he brought that ugy up. i did not respond. i just simply responded to whatever he said before he mentioned the narc as thought he never asked the question
WOW..... My own mother ! My mother messed up somethings in my life growing up tht follow me through my adult life. When it was time to fix the problems, she ran from it. I had to stand up & fix it & still fixing it. She's a coward. I been treated bad my whole life. I took care of my grandmother sense age 16 now I'm 35 . my mother didn't like it. She treated me bad because of it. She messed all her kids up. I broke out of tht shit, My brother & sister is brainwashed. I'm so happy . I been woke up sense a child. I have very good memory. I'm now married to a good man who loves me & my children. She hates tht. Now she telling my sister to get married. My sister ain't ready for no marraige. I was born ready, My grandmother taught me everything. Thts why they mad! #Blessed! If I would not have went through all tht. I would not be who I am. Family is the one's tht will destroy u 💯💯💯👏 I learned from ytube my mother is a narcissist Jezebel spirit!
I am sorry to hear that girl. Hope God is finding you happiness in the long run .. God is protecting you from such demon's people who are vampires sucking you high and dry.. my prayers are with you. Stay strong babygirl.. you got this
My mom she is a narcissist too is sad but it is and I love her because she is my family but she just doesn't care and criticize everything every single time is very annoying.......
I can definitely relate! Mother is a stone cold narcissist! I’m also divorced from one & just ended a shituationship with yet another 😓. I need a repellent ASAP!!!
@@venuscrystallight5813 I just wish they were better than this , but have to except wht they or. We or not perfect far from tht , but I was expecting more from my mother.
All of this is true, and I've been through this mess. In their sick minds, THEY are supposed to be the ones who do the ghosting... not us! If they can't get their "fix" from us, or anyone else, they go crazy and start stalking, blowing up phones, etc. They just can't handle facing themselves, their demons, and the self-loathing. And they have no one to take it all out on. Go contact and STAY no contact!
YES! That's EXACTLY what they'll do! It's like what the hell is wrong with you! I've been consistent in leaving you alone for YEARS but yet here you are 🤦🏾♀️ leave me alone!
You are so right Tyler! The Narcissist is an actor or actress. They never love you but will always hurt you. Your video is right on time. My ex-wife (narc) came to my work today. What a joke she is anymore. Blessings my friend!
Preach it Tyler! Cut people off like that especially if it's all about them. I rather be alone than in the wrong company w/people (or a person) that drains my energy & uses me for their own purpose.
@Love 1980 Music Yes Amen I Had to Learn The Hard Way I Would Jump When Family Memebers Would Ask me For Money & Stuff And Come to Find Out I was Being Talked About Bad up Under My Clothes By a Cousin in my Family who I went Out of My Way For it Hurted so Bad I Cried And Prayed And Left Her Alone Then She Popped up at My Apartment Trying to Talk to me & I Cut That Shit Very Short Cause I Move in Silence But I Pray Nothing but Goodness on Her Life & Im Pretty Sure Karma Done Got Her Ass Right About Now 👏👌
@@bettabelieveit34 Pray for them & wish them well bc that's all you can do with people like that. My father use to tell me you can also forgive someone in silence, but don't have to be in their lives. If she comes unannounced to your apartment again, (just suggesting) I wouldn't answer the door or if she catches you off guard, then there's no choice but to be blunt. Narcissists come back after a while and like to act like nothing happened. Keep doing what your doing & stay strong. God Bless 🙏😊👍
@@LoveMusic-dv4sl Yes Ma'am That's Exactly What She Did She Came to My Apartment Unannounced Girl And I Peeped out My Window I seen Her But she didn't see me Looking at Her Out The Window And I Let That Bitch Stand out in The Heat Knocking & You said a Mouth Full Nasty Ass People Do Good People Wrong And Then Try to Come Back Around Like Aint Shit Happened But Yessss You Are Telling The Truth Pray Nothing But Goodness Upon People Like That.🙏🙌👏👌💯
I’m glad to hear my ex is in torment. Eight months after I ended it, he reached out to me by email (he’s blocked everywhere else). I didn’t reply to him. Two weeks later, he tried again, apparently upset that I didn’t reply. I still didn’t. If he’s having a miserable time because of this, it’s what he deserves after the way he treated me. He will never realize that he’s his own worst enemy.
That's the best way to do it is to move in silence w/o giving explanations. Good for you! That way you can be happy & be around people that are positive w/o draining your energy & have a peace of mind.
I changed my number. My narcissist who was my dad called my building. I had to get an attorney on him to notify him to stop stalking me. It is against the law. And he could get arrested.
They have this habit of saying I'm blessed in highly favored, and Playing like they Happy in front of you 🤣, then one day when u confront them softly & personally about something they get very defensive really fast and go behind closed doors to someone and talk about the situation as if u done something Really Bad to them! I don't understand bruh 🤣. That's why I don't talk anymore to the person.
Their ego is more important than you~they don’t have sincere emotions and all their tears is one of two things: First, for supply loss, Second, nothing but crocodile tears. Sadly so.
12 years of dealing with a narcissistic husband and barely have friends or family to turn to.. its emotionally physically and mentally devastating when they show you in your face they dont care about your feelings especially when the feelings are concerning them. Silence is a key to getting over. Thanks alot
They don’t apologize period. My ex even called me from his country (he deported himself to his country), after three years of not hearing from him. I ignored him and right after blocked him.
7:17 !! Yes they only miss what you add to their life. They drain all your good energy all while putting you down. I'm so happy to be free from negative people!
I swear this just happened to me a few days ago😂 I been talking to this guy for a year and he betrayed me time and time again. In the beginning it was all normal but then the energy draining started. The last month he hurt me really bad with his actions and when I expressed that it hurt me and also that I was crying and he had bo emathy at all and even put the blame on me. The last call we had he had betrayed me again and then I just said I deserve better and hung up and from then on I'm completely silent. He is not used to that bc before it was always me begging him to stay. My reaction made him go just like you said, texting me all confused and it hurt his ego. Everything you said in this video is 100% true. They take your time and make you feel exhausted. The best thing to do is to go silent.
I am doing well. I am strong on my own. I have a copycat and I have admirers. I am an Empath who loves others. So! This is the best revenge I have on the narc lol
@RAJPUT King this is just my two cents, but you need to go no contact so that you can recover from all the confusion and brainwashing and undue influence you went through with this person. Then after you're recovered, you can proceed with what seems like the obvious thing to do.
I feel like my son's father is a narcissist but people love him sooooo much. He checks on me every now and then but he doesn't remember my work schedule that's been the same for over a year. So much more. He literally makes me crazy and always says its me or apologies but still does the same thing again.
Thank you Tyler for this video it help me a lot I myself grew up with a narcissistic mother a very toxic person eventually managed to poison all my other siblings. I managed to get out of the abuse after 20 years by moving out and then I reapplied to school now I’m taking my teaching degree and yes it’s just as you said I had to change my phone number more than once - to find peace of mind. I’m leaving the city after graduation. Just wanted to say thank you 🙏🏻 and pls keep making tomorrow of your videos they motivate people like me a lot
It's crazy.. the narcissist will never apologize. They always just say they would never do such a thing. Or "I didn't know " but the whole time they do.
Oh my god- thanks for bringing up the physical aspects. Got to the point that my (dangerous)ex-friend was SO draining, he’d keep me up 24 hours straight, I’d pay for everything, my apartment would be a MESS, and I’d be literally throwing up by the morning… to have him just shrug and walk out. My body started telling me before my consciousness kicked in. He’s since literally almost ruined my life, in ways I can’t explain. But move in silence is correct: they win the short game, but the long game is crucial. Methodical, quiet and prayer is my game plan. I don’t plan on disappearing for what he did ~ sorry not sorry. I can’t let this go, I hope karma kicks in first.
Great discussion, Tyler💪😊 You always speak the authentic truth. That is why I've been subscribed to you while enjoying your content for a very, very long time!💯😉👍👍👍👍👍👍 Thank you all you do🙏💙😌. Cutting the b❕❎🚫🚮 off in 2016 is one of the best, beneficial decisions I've made thus far. I've been much happier, better, plus more successful ever since cutting them off!😁🙌🌟✨ When you do that, it also puts you in a position to not tolerate nor accept 🐂💩from anyone else or any organization ever again, regardless of their title, stance, relation, position, so-called expertise etc! I know from experience. Man, it feels good standing up for myself while setting all those boundaries.😊✊
My old manager always treated me like shit and laugh and smile at every one else. He looks at me angry and treat me like I'm crazy. He never apologize and I reported him to HR and my job move me to a different work station with another manager. Now he's running around all over the place looking for me looking stupid as hell. if he's gonna act like he doesn't care about my feelings and be arrogant and prideful. Then why the hell is he looking for me and want me back?
💯 facts block them delete them, block their gang stalkers and back ups and supporters, level up glow up go to the gym open up that business stunt on them flex on them show them that they didn't stop shit at the end of the day not for them but for you always move in silence, never let anybody know your next move.
Yeah I could definitely understand that and I definitely listen to that and I agree completely because I had a couple people well several people per se and they drain me out completely I have tried being nice to people and this is what they do and these people are very arrogant very ignorant a lot of stuff and I had an old guy in my life he contact me almost two years later looking for problems I cursed him out I told him I moved on and that's it I'm in a relationship now that I had them for a year now he doesn't look for me 24/7 but he does look for my boyfriend he tries to get his way with that but my boyfriend does not allow it those two don't see eye-to-eye and they don't get along I doubt my boyfriend's going to fall for that my boyfriend is too smart the guy is not happy that I moved on he's trying every think he can but he does little to actually nothing is possible he cared only about him his feelings I say screw his feelings I don't care but he's also like the Wiz that computer every time we try to change whatever we change I don't even put my name on my Facebook page because of this he tries to hack into my Facebook page and does whatever he be doing and look for problems even destroyed my boyfriend's Facebook page and post whatever he wanted on it that guy is like the wiz in the computer my boyfriend was really upset about it me and my boyfriend we had to do things our own way so I keep my mouth shut I cut the boy off and I keep staying with my boyfriend we don't let nothing get in our way I cut whoever I can cut off cuz I had more than one person do that to me and they only care about them and what they do to people and then they want to talk about their feelings and how my brother tried that with me I stopped talking to him and I really don't like him for that reason he's no brother of mine and I want nothing to do with him so I'm still watching a video because I like what I hear and that makes me think and make better choices but this boy Davide he really irritates me and I get allergic reaction because the aggravation and he drained me out completely I have nothing for him I did whatever I do I don't want to deal with it and because I don't want nothing to do with him I'm too happy and I'm not going to let nothing take that away from me
Tyler is your podcast about narcissist too? I need more advice on how to deal with narcissist . I’ve been watching a lot of your videos. Where are you from? Peace and love. We are blessed to have you in this lifetime ❤️
My mom she blows my phone all the time , and guess what I live with her, 😞😞😞😞 I love her , but my dream is to move to another place alone with my daughter...
Dude's channel's been blocked by UA-cam since like December, basically for keeping it all the way real. The truth hurts those who benefit on peoples ignorance
@@Stoic-ds4so That's so strange. Only thing is similar and even truth exposing channels don't get blocked, why his ... maybe a narc he knew with connections ? strange
One thing i find funny is God has and is already allowing their punishment. I am dealing with these people right now and its staggering what they have lost that they chalk up to “bad luck”. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and I truly believe that is random, like a tsunami or forest fire. Other times their sentence has begun in this life and will continue into the next
a narcissist will never see a person's worth
@C RD They pick people who are talent, confident, empath, (they LOVE empaths with a passion.)
@1400baby X word
facts
THEY DO!... NARCISISTS ONLY CHOOSES THE BEST !(EMPATH,KIND, RESPECTFUL,LOYAL) SOMEONE THEY WILL NEVER BE.
THAT'S WHY THEY PICKED YOU THEN TRICKED YOU INTO BELIEVING THAT YOU ARE WORTHLESS SO AS TO HAVE CONTROL!
ENVY IS AT THE HEART OF A NARCISIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@thediabolicalempath7246 they can't love.
The "narcissist" don't miss you. They miss controlling you. They miss the good you have done. Cut them off in silence and make your move of what you're getting ready to do.
likewise, i know when cutting them off, i tend to miss people. however, i don't miss them, i miss the person i mistakenly "thought" they were
Narcissistic people can play with you but once you call them on their bs it's the end of the world. Best revenge is walk away and stay away. I can forgive from a distance but reconnecting not in my future. I always send love&light 🙏🙌
DeAm By K&S I had a incident with my old friend I had to cut his ass off for the last time after many failed tries but I’m good now 🧞♂️
Hey sis sasa, ghai this people are everywhere tho, once you've dealt with a few, you'll spot them out and RUN for the hills.
I just caller block them without announcement the first sign of a second red flag. I'm not going to lie, I get immense satisfaction that they think they're going to breadcrumb me and then POOF--access denied!!I always believed in the golden rule. (Western Society has tried to drill into our heads "I'm okay, you're okay, and everyone's okay!")
I'm not really talking about romantic relationships here as much as even or family situationships with siblings. I'm not going to suffer a third red flag from these people anymore! Let's just say I wipe the slate clean. The red flag violations has been reset the zero. They are on thin ice for me. It might just take an orange flag even and I go back to the Golden Rule. A yellow or orange flag could be a strike one out of 3 strikes. They sure as hell are not getting a strike 3 on my soul again
They do not care about your goals..its all about them
Bingo
Your right. I dealt with one, and I cut him off in silence. Oh when I tell you he was highly upset. He called so much I had to put my phone on do not disturb, It was going to voicemail for him but the people who were important to me were able to reach me. This stung him bad. But I NEVER looked back once I left, I kept silent but continued to live my life. N there’s was nothing he could do about it. I felt so good when I cut him off. My life has never been better. I thank God everyday for exposing him.
Ohh well you can see bullshit from mile away when you do self improvement you can see. If just they don't have morals or standards for themselves. I did the same thing to an so called friend who never reach out to me unfortunately.. sometimes protection is necessary for both party to grow.. keep trying to do you Victoria.. that what I am doing honestly
Victoria Gold i went through the same . Left him and never looked back.
Camille Warren I’ve learned the same. I smell it from miles
@@heather4089 yeah it's tells you something is off I left a so called friend until this day she never put forth the effort to even call me or text me keep in mind I didn't do anything's to her . Keep in mind I live super close to this girl . Mexicans think they have it all but they really don't ..
I'm proud of you
When you change your number and you don’t respond to their social media, they will have other people friend you on FB or whatever and try to find out what going on in your life. It never ends but the best thing you can do is remain silent and never give in. Don’t allow one word or a text to go from you to them. You won already, you have nothing else to do but live your life.
ah yes, their flying monkeys as it were. the best thing to do is, particuliarly if they are mutual freinds, i did this with 2 times this happeend. i never even mentioned the person. acted like we were not even talking about it. but i also was told if they press tha tyou simply tell someone that this is not something you discuss, you have personal reasons and htat is that. and if the persist, you cut them off too
in fact, not too long after i cut this wackjob creepy neighbor who is defintely a narc, a mutual freind asked me , or tld me that the guy was "worried about me" now this other gy an di always discussed specific thigns we always discussed prior to him knowing o rme knownig we knew the same person. and we talke dabout it. so when he brought that ugy up. i did not respond. i just simply responded to whatever he said before he mentioned the narc as thought he never asked the question
The Greatest Revenge us Nothing!GOD will do it!
Total nonsense
@@carmineruocco3768 ikr
WOW..... My own mother ! My mother messed up somethings in my life growing up tht follow me through my adult life. When it was time to fix the problems, she ran from it. I had to stand up & fix it & still fixing it. She's a coward. I been treated bad my whole life. I took care of my grandmother sense age 16 now I'm 35 . my mother didn't like it. She treated me bad because of it. She messed all her kids up. I broke out of tht shit, My brother & sister is brainwashed. I'm so happy . I been woke up sense a child. I have very good memory. I'm now married to a good man who loves me & my children. She hates tht. Now she telling my sister to get married. My sister ain't ready for no marraige. I was born ready, My grandmother taught me everything. Thts why they mad! #Blessed! If I would not have went through all tht. I would not be who I am. Family is the one's tht will destroy u 💯💯💯👏 I learned from ytube my mother is a narcissist Jezebel spirit!
I am sorry to hear that girl. Hope God is finding you happiness in the long run .. God is protecting you from such demon's people who are vampires sucking you high and dry.. my prayers are with you. Stay strong babygirl.. you got this
My whole family is narcissist
My mom she is a narcissist too is sad but it is and I love her because she is my family but she just doesn't care and criticize everything every single time is very annoying.......
I can definitely relate! Mother is a stone cold narcissist! I’m also divorced from one & just ended a shituationship with yet another 😓. I need a repellent ASAP!!!
@@venuscrystallight5813 I just wish they were better than this , but have to except wht they or. We or not perfect far from tht , but I was expecting more from my mother.
All of this is true, and I've been through this mess. In their sick minds, THEY are supposed to be the ones who do the ghosting... not us! If they can't get their "fix" from us, or anyone else, they go crazy and start stalking, blowing up phones, etc. They just can't handle facing themselves, their demons, and the self-loathing. And they have no one to take it all out on. Go contact and STAY no contact!
Shay4YourMind81 Yess
YES! That's EXACTLY what they'll do! It's like what the hell is wrong with you! I've been consistent in leaving you alone for YEARS but yet here you are 🤦🏾♀️ leave me alone!
@@nubianqueen0913 they’re obsessed
You are so right Tyler! The Narcissist is an actor or actress. They never love you but will always hurt you. Your video is right on time. My ex-wife (narc) came to my work today. What a joke she is anymore. Blessings my friend!
Preach it Tyler! Cut people off like that especially if it's all about them. I rather be alone than in the wrong company w/people (or a person) that drains my energy & uses me for their own purpose.
@Love 1980 Music Yes Amen I Had to Learn The Hard Way I Would Jump When Family Memebers Would Ask me For Money & Stuff And Come to Find Out I was Being Talked About Bad up Under My Clothes By a Cousin in my Family who I went Out of My Way For it Hurted so Bad I Cried And Prayed And Left Her Alone Then She Popped up at My Apartment Trying to Talk to me & I Cut That Shit Very Short Cause I Move in Silence But I Pray Nothing but Goodness on Her Life & Im Pretty Sure Karma Done Got Her Ass Right About Now 👏👌
@@bettabelieveit34 Pray for them & wish them well bc that's all you can do with people like that. My father use to tell me you can also forgive someone in silence, but don't have to be in their lives. If she comes unannounced to your apartment again, (just suggesting) I wouldn't answer the door or if she catches you off guard, then there's no choice but to be blunt. Narcissists come back after a while and like to act like nothing happened. Keep doing what your doing & stay strong. God Bless 🙏😊👍
Bingo
@@LoveMusic-dv4sl Yes Ma'am That's Exactly What She Did She Came to My Apartment Unannounced Girl And I Peeped out My Window I seen Her But she didn't see me Looking at Her Out The Window And I Let That Bitch Stand out in The Heat Knocking & You said a Mouth Full Nasty Ass People Do Good People Wrong And Then Try to Come Back Around Like Aint Shit Happened But Yessss You Are Telling The Truth Pray Nothing But Goodness Upon People Like That.🙏🙌👏👌💯
Forget those “narcist” in my Tyler voice 😂🤣😅
I’m glad to hear my ex is in torment. Eight months after I ended it, he reached out to me by email (he’s blocked everywhere else). I didn’t reply to him. Two weeks later, he tried again, apparently upset that I didn’t reply. I still didn’t. If he’s having a miserable time because of this, it’s what he deserves after the way he treated me. He will never realize that he’s his own worst enemy.
That's the best way to do it is to move in silence w/o giving explanations. Good for you! That way you can be happy & be around people that are positive
w/o draining your energy & have a peace of mind.
Amen!!!
I changed my number.
My narcissist who was my dad called my building.
I had to get an attorney on him to notify him to stop stalking me.
It is against the law.
And he could get arrested.
They have this habit of saying I'm blessed in highly favored, and Playing like they Happy in front of you 🤣, then one day when u confront them softly & personally about something they get very defensive really fast and go behind closed doors to someone and talk about the situation as if u done something Really Bad to them! I don't understand bruh 🤣. That's why I don't talk anymore to the person.
amen,sounds too familiar,and I stopped talking to him,feel much better since I did it.
Explained that perfectly!
Number changed!!!!! I'm shutting down my IG already shut FB down. Received comfirmation all around. I'm on the track. Thank you Tyler.
I did the same onces you leave they will know..!! They out there still having fun and doing the same thing
5 years without it and it’s been amazing! I have sc but it’s reserved for just the very few and of course YT.
@@weesebowski8651 keep calm and peace .. focus on yourself
My cut off game is silent and deliberate.
Ctrl alt delete
Their ego is more important than you~they don’t have sincere emotions and all their tears is one of two things: First, for supply loss, Second, nothing but crocodile tears. Sadly so.
The part where he says, “you will feel soo good” got me.
12 years of dealing with a narcissistic husband and barely have friends or family to turn to.. its emotionally physically and mentally devastating when they show you in your face they dont care about your feelings especially when the feelings are concerning them. Silence is a key to getting over. Thanks alot
Reshma Sambeharry I’ve had similar issues. How long did it take to get over it?
They don’t apologize period. My ex even called me from his country (he deported himself to his country), after three years of not hearing from him. I ignored him and right after blocked him.
my x narc did but it was all a trick
You always upload the right message at the right time.
yes
This brother is spitting straight facts!!!
So true ,God forbid a narcissist break their precious pride!!!lol 🙏🏾💯
Yes they are very draining. Waste of time. Leave and stay gone!!!!!
You told the straight truth !
Best revenge is self love and healing and get married I can’t wait the pain will haunt her for rest of her life god will always win
Stand up and have a real talk.. str8 facts
7:17 !! Yes they only miss what you add to their life. They drain all your good energy all while putting you down. I'm so happy to be free from negative people!
I swear this just happened to me a few days ago😂 I been talking to this guy for a year and he betrayed me time and time again. In the beginning it was all normal but then the energy draining started. The last month he hurt me really bad with his actions and when I expressed that it hurt me and also that I was crying and he had bo emathy at all and even put the blame on me. The last call we had he had betrayed me again and then I just said I deserve better and hung up and from then on I'm completely silent. He is not used to that bc before it was always me begging him to stay. My reaction made him go just like you said, texting me all confused and it hurt his ego. Everything you said in this video is 100% true. They take your time and make you feel exhausted. The best thing to do is to go silent.
I am doing well. I am strong on my own. I have a copycat and I have admirers.
I am an Empath who loves others.
So! This is the best revenge I have on the narc lol
Saw this on my news feed know I'm not a narcissist but dealing with one in my cousin. My family full of it. RECOVERING from narcissistic abuse
I have a family member who is a narcissist worst person ever but karma got them. Could you make a video about the dismissive avoidant Thank You
Thank you so much ❤. What is Dissmive avoidant
@RAJPUT King this is just my two cents, but you need to go no contact so that you can recover from all the confusion and brainwashing and undue influence you went through with this person. Then after you're recovered, you can proceed with what seems like the obvious thing to do.
🗣🗣FACTS!!!!💯🔥🔥🔥🔥
My Mood and face expression at 8:30-8:36 When I cut the narcissist offf‼️‼️‼️😂💀🤣🤦🏼♀️
They might be possessed by marine spirits!!
Amen
yesss!!!
Possibly a Python too?
They are
I feel like my son's father is a narcissist but people love him sooooo much. He checks on me every now and then but he doesn't remember my work schedule that's been the same for over a year. So much more. He literally makes me crazy and always says its me or apologies but still does the same thing again.
MasterGlam I got the same issue with my daughter father.
He’s a narcissist for sure! They’re never wrong 🤦🏿♂️
They NEVER meant the apology in the 1st place.
Run 🙋🏾♀️😅
I feel good, I feel great!
Never looking back! Thank you Tyler for your words of wisdom.
Everything you said is true!
Thank you Tyler for this video it help me a lot I myself grew up with a narcissistic mother a very toxic person eventually managed to poison all my other siblings. I managed to get out of the abuse after 20 years by moving out and then I reapplied to school now I’m taking my teaching degree and yes it’s just as you said I had to change my phone number more than once - to find peace of mind. I’m leaving the city after graduation. Just wanted to say thank you 🙏🏻 and pls keep making tomorrow of your videos they motivate people like me a lot
It's crazy.. the narcissist will never apologize. They always just say they would never do such a thing. Or "I didn't know " but the whole time they do.
I loved this video man, that was a good one! would love to see more of these topic related videos in the future
Oh my god- thanks for bringing up the physical aspects. Got to the point that my (dangerous)ex-friend was SO draining, he’d keep me up 24 hours straight, I’d pay for everything, my apartment would be a MESS, and I’d be literally throwing up by the morning… to have him just shrug and walk out. My body started telling me before my consciousness kicked in. He’s since literally almost ruined my life, in ways I can’t explain. But move in silence is correct: they win the short game, but the long game is crucial. Methodical, quiet and prayer is my game plan. I don’t plan on disappearing for what he did ~ sorry not sorry. I can’t let this go, I hope karma kicks in first.
I have a ton of Tyler vids to binge. Ain't seen this channel in a minute.
This is true my brother 💯!
Yes Tyler, you're right upon it. Just cut their Azz off in silence ! You Don't Owe Them A Damn Thing ! Keep It Moving !
Thank you, Tyler
YASSSSSSSS!!!! Great on Tyler!! Nothing but FACTS 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Appreciate this wisdom.
Thank you 😊
Amen! They is so Disrespectful
Thank you Tyler, it is very painful when the narassict is your only son😢❤
So many narcissist..my ex,naming one..hey Tyler thanks for your videos ,I always enjoy listening to you.. blessings🙏🏾 I swear you can read my mind lol
Exactly
I'm fixing to get ready to make my moves.. you my dude Tyler
Been with 2 ex narcs and whatever u r saying is so so so correct,happened to me💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Shut them down like a defense on a football field.in the words of tylerjti 😂😂😂😂😂but no seriously.ppl are ridiculous
These people really get joy out of playing others but don’t fret they punishment is that no one will stay ever
Thanks for inspiring me to leave my Narc wife. I really like your serious video.
Thank you my dear brother.
Amen, well said
Great discussion, Tyler💪😊 You always speak the authentic truth. That is why I've been subscribed to you while enjoying your content for a very, very long time!💯😉👍👍👍👍👍👍 Thank you all you do🙏💙😌. Cutting the b❕❎🚫🚮 off in 2016 is one of the best, beneficial decisions I've made thus far. I've been much happier, better, plus more successful ever since cutting them off!😁🙌🌟✨ When you do that, it also puts you in a position to not tolerate nor accept 🐂💩from anyone else or any organization ever again, regardless of their title, stance, relation, position, so-called expertise etc! I know from experience. Man, it feels good standing up for myself while setting all those boundaries.😊✊
Be happy that gets them at the core
Blessing to you Tyler ! always right..
I Just Found Your Channel Yesterday & I LOVE IT ❤️
They also steal physical items of yours
Thank you so very much you helped me more then you know. Thank you Tyler 😊
That's the Truth Tyler, you are so right about that!!!💯💯💯👍🏾👍🏾
Dismissive avoidant is an attachment style there is secure. Anxious. And disorganized attachments styles
I Blocked my Narcissist , Best Decision I ever made . .
I needed to hear this thank u👍🏽 love ur channel. Thank u for knowledge & wisdom 💯👌🏾
I’m so glad I found you today! I was already going to give up. But your videos help me remind me of my worth. Thank you 🙏🏼
You're talking about my step-mother! She likes to put on this front to impress my dad but I see straight through her! Karma is here 😁
Same here
100% True.
I cut a couple narcissist but when I cut them off I change my fone number they be stalking at me but they won't do shit I'm focus on my life path
They stalk at me but they won't do shit all they do is talk.
this man is very good teaching very like
Omg each word of urs💯💯💯💯💯💥💥💥💥💥keep growing😘😘😘😘
Straight to it, no sugar coating. Subbed.
This is excellent insight! Thank you so much for this video.
My old manager always treated me like shit and laugh and smile at every one else. He looks at me angry and treat me like I'm crazy. He never apologize and I reported him to HR and my job move me to a different work station with another manager. Now he's running around all over the place looking for me looking stupid as hell. if he's gonna act like he doesn't care about my feelings and be arrogant and prideful. Then why the hell is he looking for me and want me back?
💯 facts block them delete them, block their gang stalkers and back ups and supporters, level up glow up go to the gym open up that business stunt on them flex on them show them that they didn't stop shit at the end of the day not for them but for you always move in silence, never let anybody know your next move.
Good video Tyler.
Yeah I could definitely understand that and I definitely listen to that and I agree completely because I had a couple people well several people per se and they drain me out completely I have tried being nice to people and this is what they do and these people are very arrogant very ignorant a lot of stuff and I had an old guy in my life he contact me almost two years later looking for problems I cursed him out I told him I moved on and that's it I'm in a relationship now that I had them for a year now he doesn't look for me 24/7 but he does look for my boyfriend he tries to get his way with that but my boyfriend does not allow it those two don't see eye-to-eye and they don't get along I doubt my boyfriend's going to fall for that my boyfriend is too smart the guy is not happy that I moved on he's trying every think he can but he does little to actually nothing is possible he cared only about him his feelings I say screw his feelings I don't care but he's also like the Wiz that computer every time we try to change whatever we change I don't even put my name on my Facebook page because of this he tries to hack into my Facebook page and does whatever he be doing and look for problems even destroyed my boyfriend's Facebook page and post whatever he wanted on it that guy is like the wiz in the computer my boyfriend was really upset about it me and my boyfriend we had to do things our own way so I keep my mouth shut I cut the boy off and I keep staying with my boyfriend we don't let nothing get in our way I cut whoever I can cut off cuz I had more than one person do that to me and they only care about them and what they do to people and then they want to talk about their feelings and how my brother tried that with me I stopped talking to him and I really don't like him for that reason he's no brother of mine and I want nothing to do with him so I'm still watching a video because I like what I hear and that makes me think and make better choices but this boy Davide he really irritates me and I get allergic reaction because the aggravation and he drained me out completely I have nothing for him I did whatever I do I don't want to deal with it and because I don't want nothing to do with him I'm too happy and I'm not going to let nothing take that away from me
True story true facts 💯 percent
Man you're the best. This is so important information for everybody 🙏
Well said Tyler. Excellent videos.
Preach Tyler Preach 🙌🙋
Thank you for this!!!!
This narc told me he need my undivided attention, when i was talking to him and doing something else. Lot of nerve
Only thing they miss is abusing you their evil
Evil and vindictive! Extremely abusive.
Tyler is your podcast about narcissist too? I need more advice on how to deal with narcissist . I’ve been watching a lot of your videos. Where are you from? Peace and love. We are blessed to have you in this lifetime ❤️
My mom she blows my phone all the time , and guess what I live with her, 😞😞😞😞 I love her , but my dream is to move to another place alone with my daughter...
A Narcissist don't even like you...they are jealous and a hater.....they are users...👿 Right ...cut them off....No contact... 😡
my parents & brothers are jerks.. they treat me like i’m a dead egg smh
Aint no functional communication with a narcissist. They are not good communicators and unrational
I don't fool with them they Crazy.
crazy that is strategic and genuinely frightening
@Tyler JTI this is so true man. I was with one for three in a half years married.
Hi Tyler!! It's KeySón From B-Lo!!🗝️
Hey mr tyler . Idk why it's not letting me subscribe to your channel , it is saying unknown error
Dude's channel's been blocked by UA-cam since like December, basically for keeping it all the way real. The truth hurts those who benefit on peoples ignorance
@@Stoic-ds4so That's so strange. Only thing is similar and even truth exposing channels don't get blocked, why his ... maybe a narc he knew with connections ? strange
going through that now
Tell the TRUTH!
One thing i find funny is God has and is already allowing their punishment. I am dealing with these people right now and its staggering what they have lost that they chalk up to “bad luck”. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and I truly believe that is random, like a tsunami or forest fire. Other times their sentence has begun in this life and will continue into the next
Thanks for this message
Yep. My ex just came back, and I felt all that
You speak nothing but the truth.. My god!!! My god!!! You better speak...