Has anyone ever noticed how mean women can be to guys they're not attracted to? They will insult them, call them "incels," and speak negatively about them to their friends, even though they are all about muh "body positivity" and "accepting everyone." It's not creepy if the guy's hot. Women only want good-looking men to approach them. Always remember this, buddy boyos, Everything stems from lookism. Racism, sexism, bullying, etc... Being good-looking surpasses it all.
As a bald and unattractive man of 42, I'm already invisible. You get used to it. Although from time to time you have to suppress the need to be close to someone. And then it hurts.
I'm 48, and back when I was coming up in the 80s into the early 90s, it was pretty easy to at LEAST get your looks match. No problem at all. The challenge was getting a girl that was a click or two above your looks match. And even THAT wasnt an impossible feat. As long as you were good in other areas. Tall Height has always been preferred, but back then it wasn't a big deal whatsoever. Again, as long as u were good in other areas. Gym maxxing would get u far because not many guys, aside from athletes, were lifting on a regular basis. I feel for you younger dudes.
Tell me about this. Being young in this era sucks big time. Jobs pay you little to no money, everything is super expensive. All these tech giants are ruining the society, destroying moral fabrics of society and now we need to soon deal with metaverse?¿. On top of these, we can't even get laid. This is literally so bad that I am so angry I was brought to this stupid world. It wasn't my choice and nothing is fun. You wanna get laid? Go to gym, self improve, be funny, charismatic, positive and all that for what? You can't even get your looksmatch. Enjoy -2 SMV girl. I am so sick of this world order. This is literally a distopia. Enjoy wageslaving and sleeping with girls way below your looksmatch. This is unreal
I'm 52. In our day we could occasionally date women who were SUPER hot even though I was maybe a 7 or 8 at best. Now, a 7 or 8 can't find ANY date. Even 4's give a 7 an "as if" attitude. It's truly a tragic thing.
Also, back in the 80s, when a girl "liked you" that meant you had like a whole year to mess it up. If you kissed a girl you were almost guaranteed a date. Today, even though I can get girls to make out on the spot half the time, I never get the sense they need or appreciate a man. Also, it's a one strike and you're out policy so they are rude and demanding. That said, I still manage to get pretty 21 year old women to have a crush on me. The 30-40 year old women are tattoo covered monsters mostly.
Gave up at 29. Won't say I am "glad i did" like most people say. But i had to stop trying for my own sanity. I don't have the energy to try dating anymore.
Gave up at 14 without ever even trying tbh, its not even like i was rejected or something, straight up analyzed what dating is and determined it wasnt my thing
I gave up at 26. Tried five times and then I decided to call it a day. I focused on improving my self-esteem listening to skinhead music (Oi! and heavy metal), doing exercise and the things I like and stopped caring about other people's opinions (the ones that came from people that don't care about me). I'm free to do what I want to, when I want to and with whom I want to since 2023. I also became a voluntary celibate
@@crispycruiser4654 Honesty, I think it will come around this decade. People like Andrew Tate are getting popular around young men.We will see new masculine figures as the world goes crazy. As for the current world order, their time is up. They have grown decedent and arrogant, too blind to see that they are making their own biggest enemy. Hard times are ahead my friend, but if we manage to storm the weather, I promise you, we will have everything we ever desired.
@maxlostchild7187 if you manage to storm this fictional apocalypse, you still lose. No assets, no network, no skillsets. Instead of pitifully hoping for nuclear holocaust, log off and get some damn counseling.
@@happysaladd8951bro it is you are right, i'm not that bad looking, i eat clean, i work out, got my sh*t together for the most part, and have sharp jawline but they still think i'm not good enough. I gave up and do not want to deal with women ever again in my life
Invisible in 5 years? it's already at 90% now, I dread to think what the future will look like for young average men. My prediction is that it will be extremely common for chad species and top 5% men to have 10+ girlfriends at the same time and they all know about each other.
When the government tax the average man to keep women happy, so then afterwards those same women say I will rather shared a Chad with 10 other women than o settled with a men equal or below me, plus women know daddy government got theirs backs, women dont need men and first world countries...
I decided to be blackpilled because all my life I've been treated horribly by females. Now i talk to none and it's fine like that. The only times i would have to interact with a female is when they're a cashier at a store or a receptionist at an office. Otherwise i stopped trying to talk to women after being called ugly and a lot of bad shit in my life. Obviously they don't owe me anything but i don't owe them anything too.
You know why they treated you that way? Not only because of their horrible nature, but because the Pumper Dumpers have made them believe that they are the only sexually worthy social strata. Their narcissism and unapologetic narratives make women believe they can't be wrong, and that they have peak 'masculinity' when in fact they are nothing more than predators. Women side always with the victor. The psychopaths have convinced them that they are the winners and people like you and me are losers, even if we earn more, are willing to raise families, and treat them fairly. Those men owe you something, their blood.
What an excellent explanation. Chads get all the experience early because they are attractive, so now they also know how to talk to women and are confident because of their past success. Meanwhile normies and sub fives not only look worse, but because they had little to no success in the past, they now lack experience not to mention confidence after being rejected over and over again. So the chads get more and more socially apt while the rest of guys just fall further and further behind. What an absolute nightmare.
You might think chads don't fall into womens' traps, but they easily do. They don't know how to deal with womens' anxiety, get into marriage and then pay alimony, being divorced. It's not like they're immune to mistakes. Also, socialising isn't something you might train through dating only. There are lots of social interactions and groups where you can master. You can get actor's or rhetoric classes, and get way far than any chad. It still doesn't mean success with women, but will improve your social skills. So don't get upset, thinking only chads can be good at communicating. They are not necessarily good at it, just people take their piss as manna from heaven
i wouldent say this would be a nightmare even though its unfortunate. sure it sucks for the normies at least but at least now bad genes arent continuing to be passed down to future generations. But like i said, if only good looking people pass their genes on their wont be enough of a population to maintain civilization so it sucks for the normies
The one disadvantage that Chads have, is not being able to distinguish between a kind and compassionate woman, and a horrible nasty one. Basically all women will be nice to them, so they don't know. And they could end up marrying an absolute bitch. Ugly guys- if women are nice to them (co-workers etc) then they know these women are decent people.
I think hypergamy to extreme levels always existed. And that is precisely the reason why vast majority of major religions enforce monogamy or at least polygamy is allowed under strict conditions. That way, when a chad finds someone he wants to be with, he is out of the market. When everyone agrees that people should have one partner, people stop pursuing taken people and focus on the available ones instead. This won't stop occasional fantasy about a giga chad or super hot girl, but it will keep people in reality for vast majority of time. But what has happened recently? People are turning away from anything that restricts us. Nobody stops for a moment to think if that rule was in place for a reason. This goes for se x, we ed, relationships and so on... To clarify, I am atheist, but I think that world truly had a need for religions, regardless if god is real or not. Probably still has.
Yes. This is spot on. Monogamy was a trade off to provide women security and resources in exchange for them not acting on their hypergamous instincts. The problem is we men don't have much to bargain with anymore. Women can (more easily) make their own money, or at least get men/society to take care of them (via taxes/welfare), and life is fairy easy and safe compared to how it was throughout most of human evolution.
even if there was a strong cultural focus on monogamy. I would still try to sleep around and so would many others. not everyone wants to be in one life long monogamous relationship.
@@samueldawkins yeah, and in islam you would get stoned. Risky thing sleeping around if you get stoned if caught. i am pretty sure christianity had some punishments also. and in germanic culture, which had nature religion, women/men were banished if they slept around, which was almost a death sentence.
I started internet dating ~ 2011, I noticed by 2020 there was a huge shift in the dating landscape, it’s as if the universe shifted. Women overall became more pickier, arrogant, more self entitled, delusional and only targeted the the top 10%. It was the final nail in the dating coffin.
From an evolutionary perspective, it’s actually kind of a good thing. Multiple women can share the top men which will ideally lead to reproduction and the low tier men can be weeded out.
@@joshdelagarza231 Not so sure about that. Having the supposed top tier guys basically just consumed with getting pussy and not having children and weeding out guys that could have a lot more to offer than a good looking face doesn't sound great.
Do people even realize the dangers of a society where 90% of men will be deprived of love and intimacy, some of the most important needs humans have? It’s like the famous saying: the most dangerous men are those who have nothing to lose. Or this african proverb: the child who is not embrace by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.
@Red Pill Satori nope. The answer is to burn the village down. You will achieve the male scarcity that you wish for, while at the same time resetting society to a more natural social state.
@@andgray I said *fewer* males--not zero males. Funny, because that's always the push back I get. People act as if I don't understand men's utilitarian value, and then proceed to straw man what I'm saying. If we had half of the men we do now society would chug along just fine
i see my self as a 5-4 and nothing and no one will ever convince me in using most of my time,energy and money into getting better at dating just to have a CHANCE of success,i'm better off feeding my hobbies and passions that i know will give me joy at any time and will never betray me.I choose dying alone but content rather then an empty shell that had tons of experience
Yeah it's not worth it, especially when most women are so vapid and exhausting. Not worth all the effort just to have a slight chance at having some "fun" or dating. Better to just do what you enjoy.
Don’t give up man. With that attitude, of course you’ll get no one. There are women out there that truly want guys that are ambitious and have a lot of positive traits and values. At certain ages, it is proven that women care less and less about looks and more about status and security. If anything going to other places of the world that have average to below average women will give you a chance.
Maybe you can make lifting a new hobby of yours... And a byproduct is better looks. Once you reach about 3 weeks of lifting you become addicted to it in a good way
If you want to demoralize a nation, this is the best way to do so and has been done since the 1920s. And if you want to depopulate the face of the earth without overt violence, this also is the way to go.
I gave up with 25. I had already never a big chance because of my looks so i saw early to just get over it. Today, i feel pretty good. I am happy i escaped the whole dating scene. People didnt want to believe me when i told them that social media destroyed the dating market for especially men. I looked for new ambitions and new goals and today, i would never want to go back. Sure it hurts sometime when you see a happy couple (at least it looks happy from the outside) but i am more sad because it has come to this. Not that I never was part of this in life but sad that the dating scene has changed so much to the worse. Even women are not happy with it. But those moments sadness are short. Maybe for a few seconds.
Another point to make about the snowball effect for Chads, they're able to commit "social norm violations" with less social penalty and usually some approval, with people interpreting it as humorous or endearing. That naturally leads the chad to overcome any social anxiety they may be harboring early on, like in high school. So their confidence is where it needs to be when they hit college.
Yea. People generally love them for just existing. Conversely I recall in some college settings certain unattractive guys being sneered at or called "stupid" just for raising their hand and asking a question. Some of those girls and Chads would execute ugly guys on sight if they had the chance.
Can relate. I'm average at best and recently made a subpar joke around some female acquaintances and got crickets. My 6'5" friend essentially repeated my joke minutes later and got loads of laughter.
Since I 'm already invisible , I don't give a fuck ! Life has given way too many problems, so I prefer to spend my free time alone than trying to convince ANY woman to be with me. Peace of mind is underrated
Is it possible to improve yourself and change things? I don’t know. Just asking. I got in great shape and women started chasing me. Before that I was getting minimal attention. Not sure how old you are. If you are over 30 you might think about getting on testosterone. It makes a huge difference if you workout while on it.
I mean a 250 lb woman with 2 kids by 2 different baby daddies could technically always demand what she wants in a partner, it's just they weren't ignorant enough to believe anybody would listen before. Now they're so narcissistic they don't care if anyone is listening, they just want to hear themselves talk.
I have a theory about this... If 90% of men don't have the option to find love and start families, they have nothing special to look forward to in life. Then what would be the point of following the laws and rules of society. I mean what is there to lose? Something you weren't going to get anyways? If it keeps going like this, it's just a matter of time before groups of discontented men will unite to bring chaos and destruction.
That's exactly what happened at the end of stone age when men introduced the concept of marriage, declaring it a taboo for women to have zero or more than one man to ensure that almost all men could get a wife and a family, otherwise no man would have risked his life in the army or worked 12 hours a day in the mines. The same might happen again, with the difference that KI is becoming better and better and will eventually replace a majority of jobs.
Because we live in a police state at least in the United States and people generally like the freedom of movement and not to be put in cages for years on end. I wish we didn't live in a police state or that I lived in a country like Norway where a stay in prison is basically a free 3 star hotel. Then you'd see a lot more men risking everything. But prison is awful in North America.
There was a time I worked out, was as fit as I'll ever be, had money, had a pretty nice car, and a good job. Even then, w/ all that, I was still invisible to women. Went out clubbing, had a great time solo, was social, still ignored, whether it was for one night stands or a relationship. Yes, I'm telling on myself but I've only had 6 g/f's my whole life. At this point, in my mid-late 40's, I've given up on dating, being in a relationship. Just trying to enjoy life as much as I can till I keel over. What else can you do?
@@mikeprice8307 it does get boring my friend, already had some relationships where my main focus was "okay, how do i get out of this situation back to my peaceful life?"
@@mikeprice8307 Not really. Women just aren't that interesting, besides the obvious, at least not compared to my male friends, who have hobbies, interests, goals, humor, wisdom, etc.
@@xmangle5382 you don't have the right companion. It takes the right companion. Im Sure you're here for the same reason most of us are-we can't obtain the companion we desire nor need.
Take it from some of the guys here like me who are in their 30s, 40s, and beyond… I understand you may be upset with your lack of dating success. But the fact of the matter is, the “prize” of landing a female is not likely to be all that great. Most modern women are whores who don’t offer much, except for baggage and headaches. They initiate divorce the vast majority of time. Even if you land a female and marry her and stay married, you’re unlikely to be all that happy anyway. So many guys fixate on females, who ultimately are very likely to not make you happy anyway.
I agree sir, but as a nearly 30 year old virgin fellow, I know the trouble and disruption that they bring along, at least as much as can theoretically be understood. Hence, I am sternly anti-marriage, and not interested in any exclusive relationship. But, I do desire physical intimacy with at least ONE FREAKING WOMAN in my community/society that I find desirable! F*cking hell, this is preposterous, whatever's going on!
Only you can make yourself happy and fullfilled, but there are women in ore traditional countries that might offer good companionship, once you are done with school and building yourself
As a 5-6 young man living near a big city I can also say that the older you get the harder it is to find someone of your level, back in high school it was much more easy now, im college student and even mid women here get so much men attention that being below 7 here means you're nothing, this helps focusing on my goals better though, but still makes you feel like shit sometimes
That's because even the average girls your age look amazing compared to the damaged goods my age... Really though, single women in their thirties are all suspect and if you meet her in her late thirties she can't even give you a family. They do still want a wedding though but wtf would you do that for, you'll have to pay her to leave...
It was even impossible for me in High school! In the last year I was like 8/10 man and I thought younger girls had crush on me, because during this time I made really good gains and become very lean, also I cared about my look - clothes, hairstyle, parfume. But actually no one girl had interest into me.
I'm 41, I've got a torn meniscus in my knee, a bad shoulder, and currently my back is tweaked. All this Rugby talk has me a little envious. I can also confirm dating was much simpler 10 and 15 years ago. I feel bad for the young men today.
The globalization of the dating market through social media, dating apps and other areas of the internet are ruining everything for most men, and it’s only getting worse
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 Honest question, wwyd if a sex robot came into the market at this point in time, and do you thinl other guys would do the same?
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 lets be realistic. a robot will never replace a real woman. You realize that men aren't only desiring sex right? They want emotional companionship and children. It is impossible to get emotionally close to a robot, much less to breed with one.
I’m not an incel but I appreciate you bringing this content to the mainstream. I have a couple blue pilled friends who get rejected on a weekly basis but are doing absolutely nothing to improve themselves, thinking the right girl will come along. I know if I said anything to them they would just ignore it, it’s sad how manipulated people are nowadays.
The biggest problem with being average, is the fact that it is the only portion of the looks scale with a large amount of subjectivity, some may find you ugly some may find you cute or meh. This means a women who does somewhat like your appearance will be easily swayed to ditch u when she shows u to her female friends and they may or may not think your ugly. The only thing better for a woman than dating chad is making her friends jealous of her catch of said chad.
I only knew one chad. He was 6’2, big with muscle and had the gift of gab. He went on a double date with a friend, a nice avg guy. His friend did not want to sleep with his date the 1st night meeting her so, the Chad slept with his date and his friends date.
Freaking wow!! Guess how many women will he get to impregnate for 'free' and and how many times🤣🤣, in case he chooses to go down (pun intended) that path!
Sorry to tell but a "friend" who sleeps with your date is not your friend. Damn have some fckn standards abt people arpund U.
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I mean… I always decline offers of threesomes as that's not my cup of tea but you can't really fault the Chad in that situation. If the woman was horny and her date wasn't interested in satisfying her but the Chad and his date were willing to… I see nothing wrong with that. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I actually think A.I could help redress the balance here. It will diminish women's power because simpy men will just choose A.I girls instead of real ones, and it may give the guys who actually want a real relationship a chance to practice their skills with "women" without needing to be a Chad first.
Sure thing. But society will crumble if that happens, watch Bladerunner 2049 it will be like that Japan is close to being that and the west will follow
This brings up two problems, would men want women that only turned their way because they ran out of gas and would men even want to give real women a chance when their fake reality with an A.I is always going to be more appealing
today in the gym, i was in the sauna, and there were some older gentlemen in there about 40 - 50 odd, talking about modern dating, modern women, feminism, and how they felt sorry for the young men of todays generation, because a lot of them are the reason modern women are able to have such a high sense of entitlement and privvilage, these old boys were basically saying young men need to go their own way an not put up with this female fuckery, i got so excited that we were on the same page even though we like 20 - 30 years difference in age lol, i politely sat there listening to this older generations wise words whilst sweating to oblivion.
I understand what you mean , but isn’t it irrelevant if the guys that “go their own way” don’t ever meet the criteria? 90% of the male population in 2023 doesn’t even register on the radar for the modern average ☕️
@@DontYield they dont register on their radar for ralationships or seggs, butthey always register for spending their money, time attention on them for free, i.e. simping.
@@nax1807well it's them who voted in feminism and messed things up for us in the first place. They are not "wise". They got to experience the good times but also now they reap what they sow
@@DontYield and at least they'll have their dignity and self respect, but you can do whatever you like, if you want to be a simp, go be a simp. If you want to have some standards, mgtow all the way.
I used online dating for about 15 years. I really enjoyed it. Met loads of women. Women were friendly back then. Now they're distant. They don't want to know the average guy. I stopped online dating after not having any messages for TWO YEARS. On various dating sites. So I gave up.
I am 49 with Aspergers. While my dating is still pathetic, I feel it is probably better than 30% of the bottom millennial and gen z men. I could have done even better if I had the knowledge I had now. Dating has gone the same way as UK car boot sales.
As an older man, dating is not as important to me as in my younger years. I can do without dealing with the succubus that are out there. Just focus on your dreams, goals and aspirations. You will derive more pleasure from those three things than chasing the modern woman. Please look into stoicism, yoga and meditation. I wish I started all three in my twenties. I would most likely have retired by forty-five with a high seven figure portfolio.
As stated before up the standards on them. Too many Tattoos, 6 figure student loan debt, roommates, high body count, abused and emotional damage, poor financial management, kids, high waist hip ratio, low bust size, poor posture, no back arch, lacking large estrogenic cheekbones, overweight, poor diet, etc
I have to tell my parents that no matter how good they think I look I have to focus on self improvement first before continuing. They are shocked to learn how competitive dating is these days compared to theirs.
Apart from the Ice Age ( where you had a risk of dying daily ) , you literally today have to deal with the most amount of competition your bloodline has ever seen
@@missfaztudo9312 If you mean by the ancient days in prearranged marriages? Sure. But we're long gone from that in most cultures compared to past decades.
I'm 76 so really just interesting to me to understand just how far society, in terms of mating behaviors has declined. When I was 20... mid 60's... the average high school girl was looking to be married up, that is have her meal ticket, within 3 to 5 years from graduation. Marriage and having a man pinned was about security first. Yeah looks and status mattered, but not as much as now. The difference now is that girls/women don't need men anymore. The meal ticket thing is gone and they can obsess about getting their Chad and letting their raw appetites run. Its about 'fun' They've got their advanced degree in something that pays them well; they don't need no man. And if they do decide they want a kid, having a man around to raise it is not that important anymore, and they don't have to be fussy about who the bull daddy is. Even thugs will do. Single mothers with 'darker toned' kids really common now aren't they? The human scale consequences are going to be enormous. Literal population collapse is imminent. The "Z" generation thinks this is all so humorous. And men, of course, not important at all. Those single moms, well their boys are all going to be doctors and lawyers aren't they? OK. Wait until their roof needs replacing, their car needs to be fixed, the streets snow-plowed. Women aren't going to be doing those jobs. The new social Gods are not going to be lawyers. They are going to be the extremely rare man that can actually do things.
Well, at least you will not stick around for long to see full consequences of that. Every civilization has to end some time, I'm 26 and future looks grim. Even sadder for younger men that are being fed various lies from the start just to discover what is being hidden from them when they are adults. The single best thing any man can do is to spread the knowledge to anyone willing to listen.
@@Blade_runner-dh4dw Actually most would not be virgins, but most had been with maybe one or two guys in some longer relationship. They didn't go around getting it on with three dudes a week. They'd be considered round heeled 'brown cow coolers' and be totally un-marriageable.
@@kamsko5957 I do feel sorry for younger guys now. But I'd advise looking into going to find work in some third world country. Poor women really still appreciate men believe me. That is what I did at age 20, went to Tanzania in East Africa, as a Peace Corp volunteer and stayed for 3 straight years, no return home. Best thing I ever did, changed my life. Not only getting rid of all the social/sexual bs but developed a lot of confidence which got me a long way when I eventually returned home, both in dealing with women and life/career. Confidence is the key, women really can sense it.
@@jimlambrick4642 appreciate it man, I think best time where some where around 30’s to 50’s for marriage and have family at least from what I heard But seems like 60’s was heaven compared to now lol
The snowball effect is also probably why a lot of the best comedians aren't also the best looking. They have to start from a social deficit in nearly every situation, so they have to adapt by being extra funny in order to maintain friendships at an early age.
Fuck jestermaxxing. Ive seen old men who been jestermaxxing their whole lives. It makes you insecure with weak foundations. As a man you dont want to be seen as a clown. Back in the day the clown would entertain the king to keep him busy before the dinner feast💀
yep, that's why I became the class clown, I didn't have much for looks, very little social skills and no social status whatsoever. But if you can make people laugh, that's a kind of social currency. You really have nothing to lose in that situation.
This is the main topic that ALL those who call themselves "coaches" get wrong: They say: if you can't get a GF, get a social circle to help you. They forget that if he's struggling, he will as well struggle to have a decent social circle. it's harder than getting a girl randomly every now and then. At best he can have an inc*l group of struggling men like him, which will lead to nothing at all. being rejected or cast-away is not only related to women's opinion.
Exactly, and even if somehow he is accepted into a social circle with some decent looking women he still is unlikely to score with any of them. Because they will just use him as a tag along guy. I have seen it MANY times. He tags along while the same 3 Chads in that circle bang EVERY single girl in it.
I've worked with females for years (essentially something of a social circle) and none of them have ever shown interest in me or introduced me to any friends of theirs. I'm invisible. Warm approach being better is a myth. Looks is everything.
@@Krelian4400 Typically females will put themselves in your path if they are interested, if not they will just ignore you regardless of the environment.
All I hear everyday just be confident have confidence and be yourself it will happen when you least expect it.? I'm 42 years old and nothing is coming except the same old same old. Welcome to the world of involuntary celibate..
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Oof, I'm sorry for your struggles, my guy. I don't know what to say other than I wish it would turn around, even though it's not very likely.
It's the same if it's voluntary celibacy, don't fret. I have several options at the moment and usually do, two of them have been extremely aggressive of late... And the answer is no. Drives them nuts. But I've been through the ringer with women. What I'm saying is, switch to a _voluntary_ celibacy mindset. It just isn't worth it and you are exactly where you need to be until the storm passes
Dating nowadays can be resumed like this: you will have to sweat and bleed in order to get laid with a 6/10 roastie who has been with at least 20 guys and is currently talking with 100 more. Just give up. Not worth it.
@@wilfredv1930 No, a real 6, no jokes. However, I am a 7 (could get to an 8.5 with a rhinoplasty and jaw surgery), however, I am very picky, specially with behaviour. For me, virgin or nothing. And at least my level of appearance. That's why Im ranting right now, is MISSION IMPOSSIBLE to get a long term relationship with a virgin, traditional 7/10, you might think Im crazy and very demanding, but this was not nowhere as crazy in the 2000s or before. Shit has gone mad over the last decade, is just a shitshow.
This means that many many men are going to have lonely lives. It also means 90% of women will end up alone with their cats when they get older. Sad all the way round. At least all those cats will have a happy future.
1) Save your money. Do whatever it takes. 2) Research moving to the Philippines and get your game plan together. 3) Move here, marry a beautiful, faithful Filipina. 4) Live happily ever after.
¿And what happens to the men in that country? Hahah is like an NBA player ( financial overpower) go to a minor league to play basketball. 😅 stay in your league( financial)
Being short, ugly and nerdy, it was terrible trying to date 35-40 years ago. Worse yet, I was jammed full of blue pills by my sister, mother, TV and the movies. It was light hunting bear with a fly swatter. I can't imagine it being worse today, unless women declared outright war on ugly men.
Basically, being a short or unattractive guy finally getting a chance with a girl is like being a soccer defender that finally gets into the opposition's penalty box with a chance at goal. He'll probably put it into the stands.
And to think this is just the beginning, their standards just keep getting higher and higher. Soon even average guys are going to be in the same boat us ugly/short guys.
I’m sure you know this wheat (since you’ve mentioned it before) but the scale for attractiveness isn’t binary, i.e. “just be top 20% bro.” It’s exponential, somewhat approximating a quadratic function. A top 1% man has 10x the options of a top 5% man, who had 10x the options of an average man, etc. We are accelerating towards a time where nearly all men (except the very top) are disregarded. This is a natural consequence of a technologically developed society.
Odds are it isn't quadratic, and instead is exponential. Exponential distributions is where the 80/20 rule comes from, and also exponential functions come up much more in nature and society than quadratics. That being said I'd love to see some decent statistical analysis on this.
You know what else is the result of that? Societal instability. Extreme inequality in the distribution of resources and partners produces extreme reactions in most men. It's the end of the world, my dudes. Next 50 years we will see unprecedentedly fast and significant changes to our world. It's gonna be like world of warcraft with uglies and normies on one side and chads and their harems on the other, lol. Civil war over the women and over stuff.
@@MrHav1k if every year it gets worse and worse, what are the ways out of this crisis? Rollback to feudal society? A complete rejection of 60-70% of technology and a total ban on free time for the majority of the population?
it's a natural consequence of a decaying empire in which the demographics are suicidal. most western countries are on a path to halve the population in a few decades, or be replaced by Africans. if you want your society to keep existing, you'd better realize timothy 2:12 is not a suggestion.
i felt semi chad in my 15-25 then skiped the beta and its dead for 15 year now. 25-40 is dead. its over. 8 foot biliinaire 300 iq 10-10 facial trait or 0 chance beta provider
True lol. I myself am one of those guys who would have gotten left behind no matter what. Ngl, seeing the majority of men go through the same is kinda soothing, because at least I'm not the only one now.
@@DancingaFlame321 They say it's because women will always have more options and higher standards than men. Just because she herself is unattractive, doesn't mean she's into unattractive men.
What alot of people forget and even people with in this community ( yes wheat did talk about this) is the experience gap, once you manage to luckily get your looks match she will have so much more experience than you, she'll expect you to be picking up on hints like her past partners did and will think there is something wrong with you when you dont. Even passing the looks threshold doesn't mean success will occur since most of you struggling guys dont know what to do or how to escalate, thats why I would say its HTN or over at least when you're at that looks level you can leverage your looks for the lack of experience.
As a mildly autistic tall guy with good looks, this is absolutely spot on. Even though I lack the charisma and ability to pick up on social cues, I still get many chances to talk to women whenever I go out simply by my looks, which is not often as I have little social energy. I have learned through trial and error what not to say, how to act, how to be more attractive to women and I get access to sex relatively frequently, even though flirting doesn't come naturally for me and I'm the biggest nerd. I have not had a successful long-term relationship yet because it is very hard work for someone like me, but red pill content has greatly improved my attitude and success in this regard, and the best thing is, it is even easier to not take women as seriously than it is to!
This honestly sounds a bit like my dad. He’s a 100% Chad with looks 8-9/10 but has Asperger’s. His Autism is moderate but he never struggled to get attention from women, or from my peers crushing on him when I was in school. He didn’t have a relationship until he was 24 though and has had three girlfriends (including one wife) in his life. But he always gets tons of initial attention from women, even in his 60’s. Game didn’t matter until it did. When my parents got divorced, several mums at the school wanted to date my dad. Things only cooled off because of his Autism and him not realising all these women were into him. He got a reputation as a player for leading these women on but he genuinely didn’t know what was happening lol. My dad also doesn’t date looksmatches for relationships. He dates normies only but gets attention from very attractive women. I don’t know if this is because of his Autism. For me it’s a conscious choice, because my dad is the only decent male (personality wise) that I have met in our looks range. I simply never trusted non-Autistic Chad men because my God father (dad’s best friend) is literally the worst player. I avoid people like him completely.
@@Jenny-vm3yu Yeah it sounds similar to my experience, I've also only had three girlfriends because almost every time that I got a positive response from a woman I was attracted to I would crush too hard too fast and drive them away. This is why I say red pill content has helped me greatly to have a better mindset, instead of imagining a future wife, kids, and everything and giving all my attention early on, I take things easy and keep my options open.
I’m ADHD, 29 and I guess my looks are generally considered attractive, I mean… I literally get called tall dark and handsome at work (majority women colleagues), at 16 a women in her 40s was getting me drunk and wanting to do sexual things with me and at 17 a 29 year old man was trying to groom me, these are fucked cases but a therapist told me that people value youth and good looks so they objectify others. Apart from those people behaving inappropriately towards me, I’ve always had attention from All sexes, I’ve always been a social butterfly because I’m really good at matching peoples energy. I’m super nerdy but also super active which means I have a fit bod 💪 I’ve also worked since 16, my school results were enough to get further education to get a job in social care. I never aimed to sleep around but I’ve always had intimate moments with women, so I’ve had girlfriends long term and short term, longest relationship was 7 years and now currently in a 3 year relationship which has had the best version of myself since it begun at an age where I learnt so much about myself (26). Ive had some cool experiences that I know I wouldn’t have gotten into if I was overweight, had skin issues, lacked a tooth or two, balding hair etc because there 100% is a judgement value. But I’m not a Chad personality, I’m goofy but also try to be considerate and kind. But yeah what I look like has definitely influenced my path in life.
Great video. Not having options on dating apps will cause lack of experience, and finally, after months of swiping and trying hard, maybe you will get your first online date, but you won’t know what to do and you will mess up the opportunity.
First of all, you won’t know how to read her body language to figure out if she is into you or not.Secondly, chances are that you will be awkward and nervous in the interaction, and the girl will receive the vibe, perceiving you as inexperienced and weirdo. Thirdly, you won’t be able to flirt and to escalate properly, because those things require some minimum level of experience. Fourthly, while being on the date you will have a scarcity mindset, and this is normal, you had got a shot after months of trying or even years… we’re humans not machines. Women have crazy instinct and they can smell inexperienced and non confident guys from miles away, and this is a huge turn off for them. On the other hand, Chads they know how to handle every situation on dates, because for them dealing with women is a daily routine. And as Wheat Waffles explains, this is one of the main reasons why in the dating market the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
If just 30% or 40% want this they can do it or even 20% if they are sincer work together . But they seem have no interst in that they other brainwashed by woman or they they think that changing the current reallty is bad or they just lost any hope .
@@surajhawaleedu8336 It will decline what ever they do thing or not . Do you think socity go beter by woman fuck with chad or by hardwoking men bulding the socity and woman choose from those who work beter for the socity . There is a good reason why the ratio of male , female almost equal .
This is never going to happen and certainly not in 5 years. Most women are not interested in being a side chick to some Chad. While 20% may say that they find polyamorous relationships morally acceptable among consenting adults, most of them agree to this for others, not for themselves. More often than not, polyamorous relationships end in drama and messy breakup.
I'd prefer to stay single myself. Yes I'm average and yes I've had plenty of women wanting relationships with me. I've been married and divorced twice and I'm just no longer interested. I'm making 6 figs and living life on my terms and I love it. If someone can't get on board with what I do then I'm just not interested.
The men of the past had this figured out. They enforced monogamy through Christianity, so the Chad's couldn't date all the women. If a Chad started being promiscuous, the men beat him or ran him out of town. Men used to know what to do about this.
I’m 40 and had lots of success in my 20’s, but nothing in the last 6 years. Have never paid for sex before, but since women want to make the game like this, I’m just gonna pay for it and enjoy the financial and practical freedom of life. Plus paying for it is cheaper than a relationship.
@@barbellsamurai8014 yeah it depends on your looks unless you’ve trashed yourself. Was in the top 10% in other areas, but not looks, which doesn’t help with age.
And we’re just gonna allow it to happen. I’ve talked with enough men to realize most of us are too stupid/bluepilled to stop the progression towards warlord harems. They’ll just continue to cope until their bloodline is extinct.
your right, most men are bluepilled or redpilled leaning. most men cant ever accept the blackpill, so we wont see men change society. we will be lucky if only some powerful man changes society himself
That famous mouse experiment foretold this. On basic levels, human behavior is not different. We peaked and so many become irrelevant and invisible, especially post-industrial and tech revolutions. Endless growth is not possible, desirable or sustainable, as the structures in place would have us believe by the importation of other populations, which in the long-term is not beneficial. I encourage those who have had no success to leave the west, which will bear the full effects of the inevitable mouse population collapse, as soon as they are financially and otherwise able. There is no saving it with so few sound minds and its unnatural state.
Interesting theory and it definitely affects things like sexual performance/skill. A woman will reject a guy who is bad in bed even the first time, which leaves him unable to practice. And thats AFTER he did all the work and attraction to get there in the first place. Probably the best bet is to get long term experience early in life to develop the skills that will take you through adulthood
@@joshswanson0 why is it humiliating to have sex with slightly below your looksmatch? I understand that if you're a 2 and have to bang 1.5s with Spina bifida in electric wheelchairs then it's gross, but beggars shouldn't be choosers. You are hypergamous.
I'm a 32yr old virgin. This is my greatest fear 😨. I keep thinking senerios in my head like, if the opportunity arrives, should I lie about my no experience or tell the truth. Or will she even notice my lack of experience and after the deed is done then ghost me because she knew my performance was bad. If that happens I don't think I would mentally and emotionally recover 😨. In addition to Performance ED is always a possibility as well.
This matrix is turning many young man into homosexuals because they get frustrated dating or trying to even go on a date with women . I already have a gf in Colombia that I go visit every 3 months and I’m going to retire to Colombia next year . I’m 23, and I have a few businesses already producing enough income to live in a cheaper country very good .
Dark for everyone involved. Dark for the lonely men. And dark for the hedonistic rich man and shallow woman with no love in their hearts. What hurts men, hurts women, and what hurts women, hurts men. In the long run.
jordan peterson calls it the matthew principle "or whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them" (matthew 25:29) also known as the pareto principle. economics 101. karl marx said this was the problem with capitalism. what karl marx failed to realize is that this is the problem with every economic system.
I have two chads among my friends. We are 40 now. They have bedded 1000+ girls thanks to technology. Never married: they just don't see the point and are addicted to novelty.
As a believer in Christ, I was thinking about this issue. Like I also know such guys, especially one guy who is a clear alpha male, handsome, athletic super confident outspoken and he just get women more than he changes the socks so to speak and you can clearly see that he is enjoying his life, always smiling always confident, seems like he is always full of fun. So, I was thinking about it from Godly point of view, why would God create this immense injustice and unfairness and I cannot get an explanation, it makes no sense especially for all this injustice to continue for such an immensely long time. The only thing that I do receive is that yes, it was God Himself who made this world to be horribly unjust and unfair and that eventually everything will be equalized.
I stopped believing in God because of this. I was born with horrible veins on the face, weak chin, VERY early balding and several skin problems. Even the (very rare) girlfriends I've had were actively trying to (and some managed to) sleep with my better looking friends. Life as a < 2/10 is already hell on earth@@nikokapanen82
This is an awesome concept! It's sparked an interest for identifying snowballing vs diminishing returns skills in other areas of life. Great job coming up with a new way to look at the world.
Dudes who get laid don't spend time studying game theory and successful people don't read self help books. You either have it or you don't and you just can't get there from here.
this dude is right. i have been single for a long time as i am ugly (allegedly) and it sucked for a while but seeing what women have become makes me glad and i am not interested in anybody. social media will be the downfall of humanity so that is how technology attacks by turning us all against each other.
This is why "game"/PUA is (for the most part) only useful for the men who don't really need it. Game/PUA is useless if you never get the chance to interact with the woman; because she swipes left, classifies you as a "creeper" , accuses you of harassment, etc. All because you don't look like the 6-foot, six-pack, six figure salary Chad; who also meets a list of requirements longer than a Best Buy receipt. It's like the chicken or the egg... You need game/PUA to get the opportunities that Chad/Tyrone gets based on his inherited traits; such as far above average natural good looks and height. But you need traits like natural good looks and height, just for women to interact with you, so you can use game/PUA. This is why you don't see sub-5's or average guys making videos or selling programs about game/PUA now days. All the game/PUA gurus are above average in looks, height, income, status, etc.
Отвечу по - русски, так как боюсь допустить много ошибок, если буду писать по - английски. Мой папа тоже считает, что найти женщину крайне просто, так как он легко встретил мою маму в середине 80х. Моя мама гораздо красивее его и еë образование гораздо лучше. Просто в те времена у мамы не было других, более красивых и более достойных кандидатов. Если бы они жили в наше время, мама бы на него даже не взглянула. Ему тяжело понять, насколько легко было их поколению мужчин общаться с женщинами без конкуренции, пришедшей из интернета.
@@trueteller929 Вот-вот, совершенно точно. Я не верю что у меня будет хоть какой-то успех на этом поле, а родители совершенно не понимают, для них это выглядит так будто я просто не хочу.
@@pc_suffering6941 достаточно симаолично, что с момента твоего комментария прошло 7 месяцев. Сколько свиданий за это время было у средней девушки и сколько у тебя?
@@trueteller929I'm Portuguese but I used translator to understand you. I though in Russia it was not that bad since it is a bit detached from the west and because its more conservative. I met a Ukranian girl which said the first time she knew what an homosexual is was when she was 17... and I assumed that in Russia and Belarus it would be similar.
@@Icefrostmiguel даже ещё хуже, чем на западе. Женщины в России традиционны во всём, что касается их ожиданий от мужчин. Типа, надо нести ответственность, платить за них, ухаживать, дарить подарки. В остальном они за западные ценности - рано начинают заниматься сексом, курят и пьют, любят тусовки, делают татуировки, терпеть не могут, когда мужчины им что - то запрещают. Например, выкладывать слишком о кровенные фото в соцсети, общаться с непонятными друзьями и так далее.
I’ve just had an apiphany; Most people with confidence fall into one of two categories: 1) a false sense of confidence created reactively from insecurity 2) a genuine sense of confidence born from a genuine emotion. Most people when they claim to be confident get their boosts from the first option. Whenever someone who isn’t genuinely confident feels attacked, they reflexively act confident as to no appear weak. But they never passively feel the emotion of confidence. Genuine confidence is not so much an emotion as a mental state, you understand everything you do is correct so you know you don’t have to question yourself. While this often leads to blind arrogance, some people who are genuinely kind or able to receive criticism without letting it get them down in any way while still understanding that the criticism is wholeheartedly kind will foster genuine confidence, but pretty much everyone to some extent will be affected negatively by personal slights and the such, which may cause them to be less confident in the future. This leads to only the most popular people developing true confidence, the rest of the world just kinda forced to develop a poor, insecure, reactionary expression of confidence. Anyone who does achieve true self-confidence will most likely be successful as it takes some success in order to be confident in the first place, but in general this means more attractive people generate genuine confidence leading to an even bigger disparity.
@@4bidden1 no, I believe there are lots of people who delude themselves into feeling confident constantly, they perhaps were not reprimanded as a child and then naturally took everything they did as the correct response without checking for bias. For normal people what you said is true tho.
Couldnt agree more with this vid. I was always thinking this how good looking ppl have easier but never really said it loud because you would be labelled as pathetic looser. Well, luckily I turned this fact into my adventage. Knowing, I am going to waste my time in rigged game, I shifted my time into selfimprovement, saved a lot of money and reinvesting it now and will be able to retire early, shopping and not checking price labels, just enjoying spending money on the things that makes me happier. We as a men, I believe, can get over it, refuse to play always loosing game and get back to the real world without fantasy that bring us nowhere.
Your example made me recall my own school rugby experience. I was a successful attacking scrum half in the second team. I got promoted by merit to the first team and put in a full-back defensive position, and no longer improved (and lost interest in the game). Different skill set, and an example that just because you are successful in one scenario, it doesn't mean you will be in another!
Women only find 20% of men attractive in general, however it's even gotten harder with Tinder showing only 2% of men get all the attention on their app. Women want Tall, Rich, and Handsome, you have to have 1/3 to even compete, and then you're battling men that have 2/3 or 3/3. And despite what some men think that money is a powerful attracter, its not because if you look at Sugar Baby websites you are competing with other men with money so looks once again is deciding factor, many Sugar Babies say that having a physical attraction to you is very important so money alone will not do it, you need 2/3 Money & Looks to get a Gold Digger.
It's not 80% of men that was an okay cupid study It's definitely not representative of the whole world we also have to consider other factors like the type of men on the study were they all normies, sub 5,in the middle have they all improved their looks?
Nope you have to just outright dismiss every slightly naked or trashy looking female untill it starts giving you the ones that aren't waste of time. Otherwise stop using apps go out more.
Why pay a dating site when I can be ignored in public for free?
brilliant
💯
the discount is higher if you don't buy, after all
I am a woman and even I agree to that statement. I also get ignored on dating sites, as well in public
@@mizulightblueyou are only getting ignored by the guys you want to date
Has anyone ever noticed how mean women can be to guys they're not attracted to? They will insult them, call them "incels," and speak negatively about them to their friends, even though they are all about muh "body positivity" and "accepting everyone." It's not creepy if the guy's hot. Women only want good-looking men to approach them. Always remember this, buddy boyos, Everything stems from lookism. Racism, sexism, bullying, etc... Being good-looking surpasses it all.
Men can be just as horrible to women they don't find attractive.
This why I never take any of them serious. They only say that stuff because men in charge allow them to
Good observation.
Men can just as cruel to ugly women.
Men treat ugly women no better. I’ve seen it. Goes both ways, both genders are shallow
As a bald and unattractive man of 42, I'm already invisible.
You get used to it.
Although from time to time you have to suppress the need to be close to someone.
And then it hurts.
I know that feel bro
Stay strong bro, sending virtual hugs
@@Krelian4400
Good to know I'm not alone. Thanks bro 🙂
@@J5o7h9n1A3
Appreciate it. Sending hugs back at you 😉
@@cordfortina9073 Can you narrow it down a little?
Guys it’s not 5 years. It’s NOW. And it’s 95%.
Bruh honestly stop exaggerating stuff
Agree. vertical integration on steroids
@@tiisetsomohaka9680 Seek professional mental health help for your cranial rectal inversion. Stat✔️
Yeah you are not wrong. Is actually already 90% especially if u live in the US.
100% correct. It's 95/5. 95% are starving.
I'm 48, and back when I was coming up in the 80s into the early 90s, it was pretty easy to at LEAST get your looks match. No problem at all. The challenge was getting a girl that was a click or two above your looks match. And even THAT wasnt an impossible feat. As long as you were good in other areas. Tall Height has always been preferred, but back then it wasn't a big deal whatsoever. Again, as long as u were good in other areas. Gym maxxing would get u far because not many guys, aside from athletes, were lifting on a regular basis. I feel for you younger dudes.
Everything has to matter now. Even nonethic races are judging cock sizes and dismissing.
Tell me about this. Being young in this era sucks big time. Jobs pay you little to no money, everything is super expensive. All these tech giants are ruining the society, destroying moral fabrics of society and now we need to soon deal with metaverse?¿. On top of these, we can't even get laid. This is literally so bad that I am so angry I was brought to this stupid world. It wasn't my choice and nothing is fun. You wanna get laid? Go to gym, self improve, be funny, charismatic, positive and all that for what? You can't even get your looksmatch. Enjoy -2 SMV girl. I am so sick of this world order. This is literally a distopia. Enjoy wageslaving and sleeping with girls way below your looksmatch. This is unreal
I'm 52. In our day we could occasionally date women who were SUPER hot even though I was maybe a 7 or 8 at best. Now, a 7 or 8 can't find ANY date. Even 4's give a 7 an "as if" attitude. It's truly a tragic thing.
It's over
Also, back in the 80s, when a girl "liked you" that meant you had like a whole year to mess it up. If you kissed a girl you were almost guaranteed a date. Today, even though I can get girls to make out on the spot half the time, I never get the sense they need or appreciate a man. Also, it's a one strike and you're out policy so they are rude and demanding. That said, I still manage to get pretty 21 year old women to have a crush on me. The 30-40 year old women are tattoo covered monsters mostly.
Gave up at 29. Won't say I am "glad i did" like most people say. But i had to stop trying for my own sanity. I don't have the energy to try dating anymore.
The most harmful thing to a man's psychology is rejection, better not play than risk losing dignity
@@Walid.Hammas not even just that buddy. Most of these women are not worth it anymore either and when you realize that it makes more sense
Gave up at 14 without ever even trying tbh, its not even like i was rejected or something, straight up analyzed what dating is and determined it wasnt my thing
I gave up at 26. Tried five times and then I decided to call it a day. I focused on improving my self-esteem listening to skinhead music (Oi! and heavy metal), doing exercise and the things I like and stopped caring about other people's opinions (the ones that came from people that don't care about me). I'm free to do what I want to, when I want to and with whom I want to since 2023. I also became a voluntary celibate
It’s why I got out too bro., it’s so exhausting 😅 been 8 months, never been happier and more financially stable
A society that disregards most men is a society that is doomed to fail. If nothing changes, expect everything to come crashing down.
Personally I can't wait.
@@crispycruiser4654 Honesty, I think it will come around this decade. People like Andrew Tate are getting popular around young men.We will see new masculine figures as the world goes crazy.
As for the current world order, their time is up. They have grown decedent and arrogant, too blind to see that they are making their own biggest enemy.
Hard times are ahead my friend, but if we manage to storm the weather, I promise you, we will have everything we ever desired.
Lol not gonna be until 50yrs later at least. Even countries in South America where 70% of birth are from unwed mothers are still running to this day
@@hanalala3164 that is an insane stat
@maxlostchild7187 if you manage to storm this fictional apocalypse, you still lose. No assets, no network, no skillsets.
Instead of pitifully hoping for nuclear holocaust, log off and get some damn counseling.
I'm invisible now and have been for 20 years.
See if you can get an acting role in a big Hollywood movie, they'd pay top dollar for someone who's actually invisible.
Go to Asia and you will be visible again. I'm In Thailand.
😢
@@Oh_So_Based it'd be funny to have a reboot of The Invisible Man but it's just some shmuck with glasses trying to talk to women.
Once a man >age 50, he'll find out he's too young for Medicare and too old for any 👩 to care.💯
Bro at this point when someone tells me looks doesn't really matter or only matter in dating, I straight up think they are stupid..
7+FACE 6FT+ 6FIG+ 6INCH+ You need all these 4 rules plus good shape to not be an invisible man in todays dating culture
@@adama3350 stop exaggerating. A chad doesn't need 6 figures and girls don't know your dick side until you fuck em
@@SK-kh2rs Age matters like I said from 18-25 no after 30 women want and think they are entitled
That's just straight up BS. I've proven it many times that face is primary aspect in dating.
@@happysaladd8951bro it is you are right, i'm not that bad looking, i eat clean, i work out, got my sh*t together for the most part, and have sharp jawline but they still think i'm not good enough. I gave up and do not want to deal with women ever again in my life
It’s not that it’s over, it never even began.
brutal
Cringe
Correctamundo ✔️
But in my heart it was so real. And you even spoke to me and said, "if you're so funny, then why are you on your own tonight?"
I can relate buddy, the struggle, internal or external, is real.
Invisible in 5 years? it's already at 90% now, I dread to think what the future will look like for young average men. My prediction is that it will be extremely common for chad species and top 5% men to have 10+ girlfriends at the same time and they all know about each other.
hillarious
It's already there.
Time to start Chadmaxxing then
such system will fall apart in it self
When the government tax the average man to keep women happy, so then afterwards those same women say I will rather shared a Chad with 10 other women than o settled with a men equal or below me, plus women know daddy government got theirs backs, women dont need men and first world countries...
I decided to be blackpilled because all my life I've been treated horribly by females. Now i talk to none and it's fine like that. The only times i would have to interact with a female is when they're a cashier at a store or a receptionist at an office. Otherwise i stopped trying to talk to women after being called ugly and a lot of bad shit in my life. Obviously they don't owe me anything but i don't owe them anything too.
You know why they treated you that way? Not only because of their horrible nature, but because the Pumper Dumpers have made them believe that they are the only sexually worthy social strata. Their narcissism and unapologetic narratives make women believe they can't be wrong, and that they have peak 'masculinity' when in fact they are nothing more than predators.
Women side always with the victor. The psychopaths have convinced them that they are the winners and people like you and me are losers, even if we earn more, are willing to raise families, and treat them fairly.
Those men owe you something, their blood.
TRANSLATION = It never even began 😒
@citrosoda5370😂
Just pick better parents next time bro
@@Woeisme2or surgery
What an excellent explanation. Chads get all the experience early because they are attractive, so now they also know how to talk to women and are confident because of their past success.
Meanwhile normies and sub fives not only look worse, but because they had little to no success in the past, they now lack experience not to mention confidence after being rejected over and over again.
So the chads get more and more socially apt while the rest of guys just fall further and further behind. What an absolute nightmare.
Yea if girls are completely ignoring you at 15 then then the future doesn’t look great it all starts from school.
You might think chads don't fall into womens' traps, but they easily do. They don't know how to deal with womens' anxiety, get into marriage and then pay alimony, being divorced. It's not like they're immune to mistakes.
Also, socialising isn't something you might train through dating only. There are lots of social interactions and groups where you can master. You can get actor's or rhetoric classes, and get way far than any chad. It still doesn't mean success with women, but will improve your social skills.
So don't get upset, thinking only chads can be good at communicating. They are not necessarily good at it, just people take their piss as manna from heaven
@@topproductreviews7565 bruhh but I'm being homeschooled for high school, I guess I'll never know my future now 😕
i wouldent say this would be a nightmare even though its unfortunate. sure it sucks for the normies at least but at least now bad genes arent continuing to be passed down to future generations. But like i said, if only good looking people pass their genes on their wont be enough of a population to maintain civilization so it sucks for the normies
The one disadvantage that Chads have, is not being able to distinguish between a kind and compassionate woman, and a horrible nasty one. Basically all women will be nice to them, so they don't know. And they could end up marrying an absolute bitch.
Ugly guys- if women are nice to them (co-workers etc) then they know these women are decent people.
I think hypergamy to extreme levels always existed. And that is precisely the reason why vast majority of major religions enforce monogamy or at least polygamy is allowed under strict conditions. That way, when a chad finds someone he wants to be with, he is out of the market. When everyone agrees that people should have one partner, people stop pursuing taken people and focus on the available ones instead. This won't stop occasional fantasy about a giga chad or super hot girl, but it will keep people in reality for vast majority of time.
But what has happened recently? People are turning away from anything that restricts us. Nobody stops for a moment to think if that rule was in place for a reason. This goes for se x, we ed, relationships and so on...
To clarify, I am atheist, but I think that world truly had a need for religions, regardless if god is real or not. Probably still has.
Yes. This is spot on. Monogamy was a trade off to provide women security and resources in exchange for them not acting on their hypergamous instincts. The problem is we men don't have much to bargain with anymore. Women can (more easily) make their own money, or at least get men/society to take care of them (via taxes/welfare), and life is fairy easy and safe compared to how it was throughout most of human evolution.
unironically religion would have been the way to reduce this problem.
even if there was a strong cultural focus on monogamy. I would still try to sleep around and so would many others. not everyone wants to be in one life long monogamous relationship.
@@samueldawkins yeah, and in islam you would get stoned. Risky thing sleeping around if you get stoned if caught. i am pretty sure christianity had some punishments also. and in germanic culture, which had nature religion, women/men were banished if they slept around, which was almost a death sentence.
Excellent analysis George. You are spot on!
I started internet dating ~ 2011, I noticed by 2020 there was a huge shift in the dating landscape, it’s as if the universe shifted.
Women overall became more pickier, arrogant, more self entitled, delusional and only targeted the the top 10%.
It was the final nail in the dating coffin.
Me you and most people have noticed the same.
From an evolutionary perspective, it’s actually kind of a good thing. Multiple women can share the top men which will ideally lead to reproduction and the low tier men can be weeded out.
@@joshdelagarza231 Not so sure about that. Having the supposed top tier guys basically just consumed with getting pussy and not having children and weeding out guys that could have a lot more to offer than a good looking face doesn't sound great.
@@joshdelagarza231 in sick society only sick ones are on top not strong, that only will lead to further degeneration
Its really done to eliminate organic humans, replace them with synthetic humans, for reasons i cant tell you!
Do people even realize the dangers of a society where 90% of men will be deprived of love and intimacy, some of the most important needs humans have?
It’s like the famous saying: the most dangerous men are those who have nothing to lose.
Or this african proverb: the child who is not embrace by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.
@@redpillsatori3020 who would pay taxes for the fee fails who want all the free stuff?
@@redpillsatori3020 collapse of society
@Red Pill Satori nope. The answer is to burn the village down. You will achieve the male scarcity that you wish for, while at the same time resetting society to a more natural social state.
@@andgray I said *fewer* males--not zero males. Funny, because that's always the push back I get. People act as if I don't understand men's utilitarian value, and then proceed to straw man what I'm saying. If we had half of the men we do now society would chug along just fine
It's time to organize and burn the village down.
i see my self as a 5-4 and nothing and no one will ever convince me in using most of my time,energy and money into getting better at dating just to have a CHANCE of success,i'm better off feeding my hobbies and passions that i know will give me joy at any time and will never betray me.I choose dying alone but content rather then an empty shell that had tons of experience
Yeah it's not worth it, especially when most women are so vapid and exhausting. Not worth all the effort just to have a slight chance at having some "fun" or dating. Better to just do what you enjoy.
Every cope has an end, buddy boyo, don't forget that, what now is fun and fulfilling will eventually be stale and empty.
Don’t give up man. With that attitude, of course you’ll get no one. There are women out there that truly want guys that are ambitious and have a lot of positive traits and values. At certain ages, it is proven that women care less and less about looks and more about status and security. If anything going to other places of the world that have average to below average women will give you a chance.
@@princetubby7814 that's why i can't feel connected to girls my age(24)
Maybe you can make lifting a new hobby of yours... And a byproduct is better looks. Once you reach about 3 weeks of lifting you become addicted to it in a good way
If you want to demoralize a nation, this is the best way to do so and has been done since the 1920s.
And if you want to depopulate the face of the earth without overt violence, this also is the way to go.
Exactly. This is happening all over the World
The Joooz gotta get that global population down to 500 million somehow
Cope
KGB
Small 🎩s
I gave up with 25. I had already never a big chance because of my looks so i saw early to just get over it. Today, i feel pretty good. I am happy i escaped the whole dating scene. People didnt want to believe me when i told them that social media destroyed the dating market for especially men.
I looked for new ambitions and new goals and today, i would never want to go back. Sure it hurts sometime when you see a happy couple (at least it looks happy from the outside) but i am more sad because it has come to this. Not that I never was part of this in life but sad that the dating scene has changed so much to the worse. Even women are not happy with it.
But those moments sadness are short. Maybe for a few seconds.
Its sad to give up brother, im bad looking and im in extrem loneliness i feel really sad about that i dont know if i have to give up😕
@@ForHonormeme looks only matters for 5 minutes brother, don’t say ur lonely. A relationship exists only for looks that’s lonely af
You sound like a native Spanish speaker, is this a problem in Latin America too?
Get your money up, get your passport, get yourself overseas.
Im about to do the same by Feb
You won't discover the black pill.
The black pill will discover you.
By the time it usually happens....well it's already been over and too late to even matter.
lieutenant virgin
That's usually the case with immensely uncomfortable truths. You don't accept them until you can't ignore them.
you won't discover MGTOW. MGTOW will discover you.
@lordsergifromspain1299 this is so true...
Another point to make about the snowball effect for Chads, they're able to commit "social norm violations" with less social penalty and usually some approval, with people interpreting it as humorous or endearing. That naturally leads the chad to overcome any social anxiety they may be harboring early on, like in high school. So their confidence is where it needs to be when they hit college.
Yea. People generally love them for just existing. Conversely I recall in some college settings certain unattractive guys being sneered at or called "stupid" just for raising their hand and asking a question. Some of those girls and Chads would execute ugly guys on sight if they had the chance.
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High IQ
Horn Effect and Halo Effect
Can relate. I'm average at best and recently made a subpar joke around some female acquaintances and got crickets. My 6'5" friend essentially repeated my joke minutes later and got loads of laughter.
@@mikesquashborn2440 I hate those guys. I'm always like "why are the girls laughing so much, he's not that funny"
Since I 'm already invisible , I don't give a fuck ! Life has given way too many problems, so I prefer to spend my free time alone than trying to convince ANY woman to be with me. Peace of mind is underrated
And once you do convince her to see you she is texting other men right in front of you ,then if you get pissed she says,Are you jealous!
Is it possible to improve yourself and change things? I don’t know. Just asking. I got in great shape and women started chasing me. Before that I was getting minimal attention. Not sure how old you are. If you are over 30 you might think about getting on testosterone. It makes a huge difference if you workout while on it.
A pity...you are attractive
@@koschmx
That’s really gross man. You really want to have sex with a robot? Very sick and twisted.
@@koschmx Can't wait
Only in modern dating can a 250lb woman with 2 kids by 2 different baby daddies can make demands in what she wants in a partner.
Excellent insight on modern dating ! 👌
She can make demands and no one will care because she is used up.
I mean a 250 lb woman with 2 kids by 2 different baby daddies could technically always demand what she wants in a partner, it's just they weren't ignorant enough to believe anybody would listen before. Now they're so narcissistic they don't care if anyone is listening, they just want to hear themselves talk.
They practice wishful thinking, like a Disney fairytale.
Because there's always going to be a bunch of pathetic simps waiting in line for it.
I have a theory about this...
If 90% of men don't have the option to find love and start families, they have nothing special to look forward to in life. Then what would be the point of following the laws and rules of society.
I mean what is there to lose? Something you weren't going to get anyways?
If it keeps going like this, it's just a matter of time before groups of discontented men will unite to bring chaos and destruction.
That's exactly what happened at the end of stone age when men introduced the concept of marriage, declaring it a taboo for women to have zero or more than one man to ensure that almost all men could get a wife and a family, otherwise no man would have risked his life in the army or worked 12 hours a day in the mines. The same might happen again, with the difference that KI is becoming better and better and will eventually replace a majority of jobs.
beta uprising?
Because we live in a police state at least in the United States and people generally like the freedom of movement and not to be put in cages for years on end. I wish we didn't live in a police state or that I lived in a country like Norway where a stay in prison is basically a free 3 star hotel. Then you'd see a lot more men risking everything. But prison is awful in North America.
@@SonyCamry yes
Maybe that is what the elite wizards behind all of this want...
There was a time I worked out, was as fit as I'll ever be, had money, had a pretty nice car, and a good job. Even then, w/ all that, I was still invisible to women. Went out clubbing, had a great time solo, was social, still ignored, whether it was for one night stands or a relationship. Yes, I'm telling on myself but I've only had 6 g/f's my whole life. At this point, in my mid-late 40's, I've given up on dating, being in a relationship. Just trying to enjoy life as much as I can till I keel over. What else can you do?
When you stop living in lust, you suddenly realise how ordinary and boring women truly are. All they give you is headache and no peace. 😊
That's bc they don't have interest in you. It would be the exact opposite if you found a girl you like that mutuallyiked you the same.
@@mikeprice8307 Yeah but eventually it'll be the same when you guys know each other well.
@@mikeprice8307 it does get boring my friend, already had some relationships where my main focus was "okay, how do i get out of this situation back to my peaceful life?"
@@mikeprice8307
Not really. Women just aren't that interesting, besides the obvious, at least not compared to my male friends, who have hobbies, interests, goals, humor, wisdom, etc.
@@xmangle5382 you don't have the right companion. It takes the right companion. Im Sure you're here for the same reason most of us are-we can't obtain the companion we desire nor need.
Take it from some of the guys here like me who are in their 30s, 40s, and beyond…
I understand you may be upset with your lack of dating success. But the fact of the matter is, the “prize” of landing a female is not likely to be all that great.
Most modern women are whores who don’t offer much, except for baggage and headaches. They initiate divorce the vast majority of time. Even if you land a female and marry her and stay married, you’re unlikely to be all that happy anyway.
So many guys fixate on females, who ultimately are very likely to not make you happy anyway.
Bl00dline ended
I agree sir, but as a nearly 30 year old virgin fellow, I know the trouble and disruption that they bring along, at least as much as can theoretically be understood. Hence, I am sternly anti-marriage, and not interested in any exclusive relationship. But, I do desire physical intimacy with at least ONE FREAKING WOMAN in my community/society that I find desirable! F*cking hell, this is preposterous, whatever's going on!
Only you can make yourself happy and fullfilled, but there are women in ore traditional countries that might offer good companionship, once you are done with school and building yourself
We need a revolution
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As a 5-6 young man living near a big city I can also say that the older you get the harder it is to find someone of your level, back in high school it was much more easy now, im college student and even mid women here get so much men attention that being below 7 here means you're nothing, this helps focusing on my goals better though, but still makes you feel like shit sometimes
Completely agree. That's why I go younger. I don't really have any other choice.
That's because even the average girls your age look amazing compared to the damaged goods my age... Really though, single women in their thirties are all suspect and if you meet her in her late thirties she can't even give you a family. They do still want a wedding though but wtf would you do that for, you'll have to pay her to leave...
I’m 44 and I can’t even land 35+ single mothers. Not like I want them but it shows you how incredibly bad things are.
It was even impossible for me in High school! In the last year I was like 8/10 man and I thought younger girls had crush on me, because during this time I made really good gains and become very lean, also I cared about my look - clothes, hairstyle, parfume. But actually no one girl had interest into me.
It’s time for you to move
I'm 41, I've got a torn meniscus in my knee, a bad shoulder, and currently my back is tweaked. All this Rugby talk has me a little envious.
I can also confirm dating was much simpler 10 and 15 years ago. I feel bad for the young men today.
I have been invisible to women for my whole life.
… so far. Things can always change :)
Only if I win the lottery!
@@carlgreene538then you'll be a target for exploitation.
...just think of all the 'bullets' you have dodged and how much money you have saved!
Yes there's always a plus side.
The globalization of the dating market through social media, dating apps and other areas of the internet are ruining everything for most men, and it’s only getting worse
no
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 Honest question, wwyd if a sex robot came into the market at this point in time, and do you thinl other guys would do the same?
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 lets be realistic. a robot will never replace a real woman. You realize that men aren't only desiring sex right? They want emotional companionship and children. It is impossible to get emotionally close to a robot, much less to breed with one.
@@deji2379 no
I’m not an incel but I appreciate you bringing this content to the mainstream. I have a couple blue pilled friends who get rejected on a weekly basis but are doing absolutely nothing to improve themselves, thinking the right girl will come along. I know if I said anything to them they would just ignore it, it’s sad how manipulated people are nowadays.
You will be an Incel in about 5 years :)
Tell them!!! Whether they like it or not. That’s leadership. You’d be doing them a favor!
'I'm what you guys would call a chad'
Stay whitepilled my friend. This channel has many good points, but the moment you take the black pill is the moment you lose
@@louisl9741 yup lose. Lose BIG
The biggest problem with being average, is the fact that it is the only portion of the looks scale with a large amount of subjectivity, some may find you ugly some may find you cute or meh. This means a women who does somewhat like your appearance will be easily swayed to ditch u when she shows u to her female friends and they may or may not think your ugly. The only thing better for a woman than dating chad is making her friends jealous of her catch of said chad.
This is underrated
I only knew one chad. He was 6’2, big with muscle and had the gift of gab. He went on a double date with a friend, a nice avg guy. His friend did not want to sleep with his date the 1st night meeting her so, the Chad slept with his date and his friends date.
Freaking wow!! Guess how many women will he get to impregnate for 'free' and and how many times🤣🤣, in case he chooses to go down (pun intended) that path!
LOL. universal story
Sorry to tell but a "friend" who sleeps with your date is not your friend. Damn have some fckn standards abt people arpund U.
I mean… I always decline offers of threesomes as that's not my cup of tea but you can't really fault the Chad in that situation. If the woman was horny and her date wasn't interested in satisfying her but the Chad and his date were willing to… I see nothing wrong with that. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
bruh plenty of us have been almost similiar situation
prior to dropping out treuly
I actually think A.I could help redress the balance here. It will diminish women's power because simpy men will just choose A.I girls instead of real ones, and it may give the guys who actually want a real relationship a chance to practice their skills with "women" without needing to be a Chad first.
Sure thing. But society will crumble if that happens, watch Bladerunner 2049 it will be like that Japan is close to being that and the west will follow
More likely bottom 50% will stick with an AI girlfriend while things will keep getting worse
This brings up two problems, would men want women that only turned their way because they ran out of gas and would men even want to give real women a chance when their fake reality with an A.I is always going to be more appealing
Cope
Women are happy that normies and sub5s get AI gf
They don’t have to deal with them after all
@@FromTheWombTotheGraveBut they want sub 5 and normies after they hit the wall so they can beta buxx
today in the gym, i was in the sauna, and there were some older gentlemen in there about 40 - 50 odd, talking about modern dating, modern women, feminism, and how they felt sorry for the young men of todays generation, because a lot of them are the reason modern women are able to have such a high sense of entitlement and privvilage, these old boys were basically saying young men need to go their own way an not put up with this female fuckery, i got so excited that we were on the same page even though we like 20 - 30 years difference in age lol, i politely sat there listening to this older generations wise words whilst sweating to oblivion.
I understand what you mean , but isn’t it irrelevant if the guys that “go their own way” don’t ever meet the criteria? 90% of the male population in 2023 doesn’t even register on the radar for the modern average ☕️
@@DontYield they dont register on their radar for ralationships or seggs, butthey always register for spending their money, time attention on them for free, i.e. simping.
@@nax1807well it's them who voted in feminism and messed things up for us in the first place. They are not "wise". They got to experience the good times but also now they reap what they sow
@DontYield It may be irrelevant to the female, but it may be the right choice for the male.
@@DontYield and at least they'll have their dignity and self respect, but you can do whatever you like, if you want to be a simp, go be a simp. If you want to have some standards, mgtow all the way.
Only two options for 90% of men:
1. self improvement (or COPE the favorite word of a lot of blackpillers)
2. "give up" (whatever it means to you)
They are both copes though.
Or just be a good bf n not cheat
@@Traumatised311 how can someone be a good bf when hes not even in a relationship?
@@Randomguy45678 🤣🤣🤣no i meant good
Bf material
Like a loyal genuine simp respectful guy
Self-improvement is cope, Looksmaxxing is also but only one gives you better odds with women.
"Just be in the top 10% and take showers bro."
Surely you could put yourself into the top 10%?
🤣
Yeah i know another one.. just be superman, mount your cape and fly away 🤦♂️ Like if it so easy to be a 10% dude.
"Just work out and put on weight and you'll fuck 10's." I hate these people.
Well... Couldn't you though?
You should be hitting the weights and doing a combat sport anyway
Why not optimise yourself?
I want to see this world burn either by my hands or see it be done by somebody else
How about we do it together?
@@NBackTA yes
Count me in
I'm with you gentlemen
@@sithistheking1276
If you consider Sith to be the king, it will be you burning sooner or later like it or not.
I used online dating for about 15 years. I really enjoyed it. Met loads of women. Women were friendly back then. Now they're distant. They don't want to know the average guy. I stopped online dating after not having any messages for TWO YEARS. On various dating sites. So I gave up.
現在女人可選擇的太多了
@@陳方糖 True
same
You had a good run!
Dating apps now are women validation apps .
I am 49 with Aspergers. While my dating is still pathetic, I feel it is probably better than 30% of the bottom millennial and gen z men. I could have done even better if I had the knowledge I had now. Dating has gone the same way as UK car boot sales.
As an older man, dating is not as important to me as in my younger years. I can do without dealing with the succubus that are out there. Just focus on your dreams, goals and aspirations. You will derive more pleasure from those three things than chasing the modern woman. Please look into stoicism, yoga and meditation. I wish I started all three in my twenties. I would most likely have retired by forty-five with a high seven figure portfolio.
As stated before up the standards on them. Too many Tattoos, 6 figure student loan debt, roommates, high body count, abused and emotional damage, poor financial management, kids, high waist hip ratio, low bust size, poor posture, no back arch, lacking large estrogenic cheekbones, overweight, poor diet, etc
I have to tell my parents that no matter how good they think I look I have to focus on self improvement first before continuing. They are shocked to learn how competitive dating is these days compared to theirs.
Yep. Then they use the old, tired, boomer line "when are you going to find a girlfriend"... Clowns
Apart from the Ice Age ( where you had a risk of dying daily ) , you literally today have to deal with the most amount of competition your bloodline has ever seen
Because back then women were sales by their parents. They never had a choice.
@@missfaztudo9312 If you mean by the ancient days in prearranged marriages? Sure. But we're long gone from that in most cultures compared to past decades.
BECAUSE THERE ARE NO LOVE NOWADAYS BUT S,E.X ONLY
I'm 76 so really just interesting to me to understand just how far society, in terms of mating behaviors has declined. When I was 20... mid 60's... the average high school girl was looking to be married up, that is have her meal ticket, within 3 to 5 years from graduation. Marriage and having a man pinned was about security first. Yeah looks and status mattered, but not as much as now. The difference now is that girls/women don't need men anymore. The meal ticket thing is gone and they can obsess about getting their Chad and letting their raw appetites run. Its about 'fun' They've got their advanced degree in something that pays them well; they don't need no man. And if they do decide they want a kid, having a man around to raise it is not that important anymore, and they don't have to be fussy about who the bull daddy is. Even thugs will do. Single mothers with 'darker toned' kids really common now aren't they?
The human scale consequences are going to be enormous. Literal population collapse is imminent. The "Z" generation thinks this is all so humorous. And men, of course, not important at all. Those single moms, well their boys are all going to be doctors and lawyers aren't they? OK. Wait until their roof needs replacing, their car needs to be fixed, the streets snow-plowed. Women aren't going to be doing those jobs. The new social Gods are not going to be lawyers. They are going to be the extremely rare man that can actually do things.
Well, at least you will not stick around for long to see full consequences of that. Every civilization has to end some time, I'm 26 and future looks grim. Even sadder for younger men that are being fed various lies from the start just to discover what is being hidden from them when they are adults. The single best thing any man can do is to spread the knowledge to anyone willing to listen.
wise words gotta ask how much was a chance that girls under age of 25 -20 being Virgin back in 60's?
@@Blade_runner-dh4dw Actually most would not be virgins, but most had been with maybe one or two guys in some longer relationship. They didn't go around getting it on with three dudes a week. They'd be considered round heeled 'brown cow coolers' and be totally un-marriageable.
@@kamsko5957 I do feel sorry for younger guys now. But I'd advise looking into going to find work in some third world country. Poor women really still appreciate men believe me. That is what I did at age 20, went to Tanzania in East Africa, as a Peace Corp volunteer and stayed for 3 straight years, no return home. Best thing I ever did, changed my life. Not only getting rid of all the social/sexual bs but developed a lot of confidence which got me a long way when I eventually returned home, both in dealing with women and life/career. Confidence is the key, women really can sense it.
@@jimlambrick4642 appreciate it man, I think best time where some where around 30’s to 50’s for marriage and have family at least from what I heard
But seems like 60’s was heaven compared to now lol
Conclusion: It´s over
Never even began.
Just get haircut and wash Ur teeth , maybe one day U find person would like u
@@gokulevrai1026 "Nope" CGA💯
@@gokulevrai1026 Cope
For humanity: yes
The snowball effect is also probably why a lot of the best comedians aren't also the best looking. They have to start from a social deficit in nearly every situation, so they have to adapt by being extra funny in order to maintain friendships at an early age.
Fuck jestermaxxing. Ive seen old men who been jestermaxxing their whole lives.
It makes you insecure with weak foundations. As a man you dont want to be seen as a clown.
Back in the day the clown would entertain the king to keep him busy before the dinner feast💀
Jester Max?
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Otherwise known as clown game...
@@deaniedean248 Drop game
yep, that's why I became the class clown, I didn't have much for looks, very little social skills and no social status whatsoever. But if you can make people laugh, that's a kind of social currency. You really have nothing to lose in that situation.
This is the main topic that ALL those who call themselves "coaches" get wrong:
They say: if you can't get a GF, get a social circle to help you.
They forget that if he's struggling, he will as well struggle to have a decent social circle. it's harder than getting a girl randomly every now and then.
At best he can have an inc*l group of struggling men like him, which will lead to nothing at all.
being rejected or cast-away is not only related to women's opinion.
All the men in the social circle will also go for the limited amount of girls available.
Exactly, and even if somehow he is accepted into a social circle with some decent looking women he still is unlikely to score with any of them. Because they will just use him as a tag along guy. I have seen it MANY times. He tags along while the same 3 Chads in that circle bang EVERY single girl in it.
I've worked with females for years (essentially something of a social circle) and none of them have ever shown interest in me or introduced me to any friends of theirs. I'm invisible. Warm approach being better is a myth. Looks is everything.
@@Krelian4400 Typically females will put themselves in your path if they are interested, if not they will just ignore you regardless of the environment.
@@Krelian4400 my g
All I hear everyday just be confident have confidence and be yourself it will happen when you least expect it.? I'm 42 years old and nothing is coming except the same old same old. Welcome to the world of involuntary celibate..
Oof, I'm sorry for your struggles, my guy. I don't know what to say other than I wish it would turn around, even though it's not very likely.
It's the same if it's voluntary celibacy, don't fret. I have several options at the moment and usually do, two of them have been extremely aggressive of late... And the answer is no. Drives them nuts. But I've been through the ringer with women. What I'm saying is, switch to a _voluntary_ celibacy mindset. It just isn't worth it and you are exactly where you need to be until the storm passes
Dating nowadays can be resumed like this: you will have to sweat and bleed in order to get laid with a 6/10 roastie who has been with at least 20 guys and is currently talking with 100 more.
Just give up. Not worth it.
a 6 who is not a real 6, is a 4 converted to 6 through makeup
Jawohl, mein Kaiser!
@@wilfredv1930 ..or gaslighting by society to make others believe she's a 6
@@wilfredv1930 No, a real 6, no jokes.
However, I am a 7 (could get to an 8.5 with a rhinoplasty and jaw surgery), however, I am very picky, specially with behaviour.
For me, virgin or nothing. And at least my level of appearance.
That's why Im ranting right now, is MISSION IMPOSSIBLE to get a long term relationship with a virgin, traditional 7/10, you might think Im crazy and very demanding, but this was not nowhere as crazy in the 2000s or before.
Shit has gone mad over the last decade, is just a shitshow.
@@arturoroldan4839 Uh huh, it's as insane as the chicks who want nothing but the chad, so atleast you are learning to live like a woman
So the collapse is inevitable.
This means that many many men are going to have lonely lives.
It also means 90% of women will end up alone with their cats when they get older.
Sad all the way round. At least all those cats will have a happy future.
I wished someone told me this when I was a teenager. Now it's too late
1) Save your money. Do whatever it takes. 2) Research moving to the Philippines and get your game plan together. 3) Move here, marry a beautiful, faithful Filipina. 4) Live happily ever after.
Thailand is a good option too.
That is my plan.
Honestly. Fuck race mixing.
¿And what happens to the men in that country? Hahah is like an NBA player ( financial overpower) go to a minor league to play basketball. 😅 stay in your league( financial)
@@Zero-0o0250 Don't think that every man put carrer in the first place.
Being short, ugly and nerdy, it was terrible trying to date 35-40 years ago. Worse yet, I was jammed full of blue pills by my sister, mother, TV and the movies. It was light hunting bear with a fly swatter. I can't imagine it being worse today, unless women declared outright war on ugly men.
They have declared
I think it's because 40 years ago at least short/ugly men like you had a least *some* options, and the risk for divorce was much lower then.
It may not be worse for ugly guys but for average guys it's much much worse today.
we need swimmingpool only for incels,woman hate swimming with strange ugly men in the pool.
They already declared war, it's called the #MeToo movement
I have no idea i will end up being a black pill. WE ARE DOOMED
Basically, being a short or unattractive guy finally getting a chance with a girl is like being a soccer defender that finally gets into the opposition's penalty box with a chance at goal.
He'll probably put it into the stands.
Fuuckin' brilliant mate, and I haven't even watched and played soccer in years🤣🤣.
And to think this is just the beginning, their standards just keep getting higher and higher. Soon even average guys are going to be in the same boat us ugly/short guys.
@@ForeverShadowBanned I'm already there mate. It never even began, will soon touch 30.
I’m sure you know this wheat (since you’ve mentioned it before) but the scale for attractiveness isn’t binary, i.e. “just be top 20% bro.” It’s exponential, somewhat approximating a quadratic function. A top 1% man has 10x the options of a top 5% man, who had 10x the options of an average man, etc. We are accelerating towards a time where nearly all men (except the very top) are disregarded. This is a natural consequence of a technologically developed society.
You’re spot on. But I would say the cut off point between “having options” and “not having options” falls somewhere around the top 10-20% of men
Odds are it isn't quadratic, and instead is exponential. Exponential distributions is where the 80/20 rule comes from, and also exponential functions come up much more in nature and society than quadratics.
That being said I'd love to see some decent statistical analysis on this.
You know what else is the result of that? Societal instability. Extreme inequality in the distribution of resources and partners produces extreme reactions in most men. It's the end of the world, my dudes. Next 50 years we will see unprecedentedly fast and significant changes to our world.
It's gonna be like world of warcraft with uglies and normies on one side and chads and their harems on the other, lol. Civil war over the women and over stuff.
@@MrHav1k if every year it gets worse and worse, what are the ways out of this crisis? Rollback to feudal society? A complete rejection of 60-70% of technology and a total ban on free time for the majority of the population?
it's a natural consequence of a decaying empire in which the demographics are suicidal. most western countries are on a path to halve the population in a few decades, or be replaced by Africans. if you want your society to keep existing, you'd better realize timothy 2:12 is not a suggestion.
It's cool. I never had a chance in dating before all this crap happened either. I've spent my life training for this scenario.
i felt semi chad in my 15-25 then skiped the beta and its dead for 15 year now. 25-40 is dead. its over.
8 foot biliinaire 300 iq 10-10 facial trait or 0 chance beta provider
True lol. I myself am one of those guys who would have gotten left behind no matter what. Ngl, seeing the majority of men go through the same is kinda soothing, because at least I'm not the only one now.
Question: Why don't unattractive men try to pursue other unattractive women on their level
@@DancingaFlame321 Good question
@@DancingaFlame321 They say it's because women will always have more options and higher standards than men. Just because she herself is unattractive, doesn't mean she's into unattractive men.
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awe bra
We now have an army of angry fat women who sneer at men who are in the 8-9 range.
Only Chad benefits.
What alot of people forget and even people with in this community ( yes wheat did talk about this) is the experience gap, once you manage to luckily get your looks match she will have so much more experience than you, she'll expect you to be picking up on hints like her past partners did and will think there is something wrong with you when you dont. Even passing the looks threshold doesn't mean success will occur since most of you struggling guys dont know what to do or how to escalate, thats why I would say its HTN or over at least when you're at that looks level you can leverage your looks for the lack of experience.
Lmao women just are .
Nail on the head
Yes, true, good addon
Factual
@@michapark7794 if you are a good looking person then yes
The dark FUTURE? This stuff is happening right now In the present day
Nothings changed always been like that it’s nothing new
In five years? I've been invisible for 35
It never began
Snowballing definitly is on point. Its easy to be confident and relaxed around women when you have had dozens of successes already.
As a mildly autistic tall guy with good looks, this is absolutely spot on. Even though I lack the charisma and ability to pick up on social cues, I still get many chances to talk to women whenever I go out simply by my looks, which is not often as I have little social energy. I have learned through trial and error what not to say, how to act, how to be more attractive to women and I get access to sex relatively frequently, even though flirting doesn't come naturally for me and I'm the biggest nerd.
I have not had a successful long-term relationship yet because it is very hard work for someone like me, but red pill content has greatly improved my attitude and success in this regard, and the best thing is, it is even easier to not take women as seriously than it is to!
This honestly sounds a bit like my dad. He’s a 100% Chad with looks 8-9/10 but has Asperger’s. His Autism is moderate but he never struggled to get attention from women, or from my peers crushing on him when I was in school. He didn’t have a relationship until he was 24 though and has had three girlfriends (including one wife) in his life. But he always gets tons of initial attention from women, even in his 60’s. Game didn’t matter until it did. When my parents got divorced, several mums at the school wanted to date my dad. Things only cooled off because of his Autism and him not realising all these women were into him. He got a reputation as a player for leading these women on but he genuinely didn’t know what was happening lol. My dad also doesn’t date looksmatches for relationships. He dates normies only but gets attention from very attractive women. I don’t know if this is because of his Autism. For me it’s a conscious choice, because my dad is the only decent male (personality wise) that I have met in our looks range. I simply never trusted non-Autistic Chad men because my God father (dad’s best friend) is literally the worst player. I avoid people like him completely.
@@Jenny-vm3yu Yeah it sounds similar to my experience, I've also only had three girlfriends because almost every time that I got a positive response from a woman I was attracted to I would crush too hard too fast and drive them away. This is why I say red pill content has helped me greatly to have a better mindset, instead of imagining a future wife, kids, and everything and giving all my attention early on, I take things easy and keep my options open.
I’m ADHD, 29 and I guess my looks are generally considered attractive, I mean… I literally get called tall dark and handsome at work (majority women colleagues), at 16 a women in her 40s was getting me drunk and wanting to do sexual things with me and at 17 a 29 year old man was trying to groom me, these are fucked cases but a therapist told me that people value youth and good looks so they objectify others. Apart from those people behaving inappropriately towards me, I’ve always had attention from All sexes, I’ve always been a social butterfly because I’m really good at matching peoples energy. I’m super nerdy but also super active which means I have a fit bod 💪 I’ve also worked since 16, my school results were enough to get further education to get a job in social care. I never aimed to sleep around but I’ve always had intimate moments with women, so I’ve had girlfriends long term and short term, longest relationship was 7 years and now currently in a 3 year relationship which has had the best version of myself since it begun at an age where I learnt so much about myself (26). Ive had some cool experiences that I know I wouldn’t have gotten into if I was overweight, had skin issues, lacked a tooth or two, balding hair etc because there 100% is a judgement value. But I’m not a Chad personality, I’m goofy but also try to be considerate and kind. But yeah what I look like has definitely influenced my path in life.
U hv to enquire trails to make mistakes. Thats the point
It actually feels like it gets harder every 2 months or so...
Is it because the population of steroid taking guys is increasing?
That's because your face is burnt lol.
me too!
i m not alone to feeling that
Decline is exponential. Not linear.
Great video.
Not having options on dating apps will cause lack of experience, and finally, after months of swiping and trying hard, maybe you will get your first online date, but you won’t know what to do and you will mess up the opportunity.
First of all, you won’t know how to read her body language to figure out if she is into you or not.Secondly, chances are that you will be awkward and nervous in the interaction, and the girl will receive the vibe, perceiving you as inexperienced and weirdo. Thirdly, you won’t be able to flirt and to escalate properly, because those things require some minimum level of experience.
Fourthly, while being on the date you will have a scarcity mindset, and this is normal, you had got a shot after months of trying or even years… we’re humans not machines.
Women have crazy instinct and they can smell inexperienced and non confident guys from miles away, and this is a huge turn off for them. On the other hand, Chads they know how to handle every situation on dates, because for them dealing with women is a daily routine.
And as Wheat Waffles explains, this is one of the main reasons why in the dating market the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
If 90% of men become invisible. We. Might as well all band together and flip whole society upside down.
If just 30% or 40% want this they can do it or even 20% if they are sincer work together .
But they seem have no interst in that they other brainwashed by woman or they they think that changing the current reallty is bad or they just lost any hope .
Then how do you think societies are destroyed
@@surajhawaleedu8336 why should we all suffer in shit society? We break and start again
@@surajhawaleedu8336
It will decline what ever they do thing or not .
Do you think socity go beter by woman fuck with chad or by hardwoking men bulding the socity and woman choose from those who work beter for the socity .
There is a good reason why the ratio of male , female almost equal .
do everything in your power to generate this type of sentiment. we will get what we want if we can make a change in america.
This is never going to happen and certainly not in 5 years. Most women are not interested in being a side chick to some Chad. While 20% may say that they find polyamorous relationships morally acceptable among consenting adults, most of them agree to this for others, not for themselves. More often than not, polyamorous relationships end in drama and messy breakup.
I'd prefer to stay single myself. Yes I'm average and yes I've had plenty of women wanting relationships with me. I've been married and divorced twice and I'm just no longer interested. I'm making 6 figs and living life on my terms and I love it. If someone can't get on board with what I do then I'm just not interested.
as it should be. Nobody should feel forced to date
@@momov4060 I think he ment fig Newton's get it.6figs
Would you prefer to be a 40 year old virgin in the same situation?
become a mentor, young men need guidance
The men of the past had this figured out. They enforced monogamy through Christianity, so the Chad's couldn't date all the women. If a Chad started being promiscuous, the men beat him or ran him out of town. Men used to know what to do about this.
Good point. Wheat has already shown that in Africa and the middle east this is still the case.
people in real life: hey how's it going man?
Fellas, there is no woman out there more beautiful than Your Peace & freedom
-Cheek Slaying Gospels💯
I go to that same church.
I’m 40 and had lots of success in my 20’s, but nothing in the last 6 years. Have never paid for sex before, but since women want to make the game like this, I’m just gonna pay for it and enjoy the financial and practical freedom of life. Plus paying for it is cheaper than a relationship.
yep, despite what a lot of gurus claim it is not all sunshine and rainbows for men approaching middle age, men age like wine is bs
@@barbellsamurai8014 yeah it depends on your looks unless you’ve trashed yourself. Was in the top 10% in other areas, but not looks, which doesn’t help with age.
Should have found a good woman and gotten married.
Instead of sleeping around try and find wifing material
@@ultimatevictory6522 found the tradcuck, tell us more about jesus brother
And we’re just gonna allow it to happen. I’ve talked with enough men to realize most of us are too stupid/bluepilled to stop the progression towards warlord harems. They’ll just continue to cope until their bloodline is extinct.
@@graig578 “we’re living in the most peaceful time bro, just accept the extinction of your genes and be happy” 😃
@@jokerpilled2535 wait, you would like to as a sub5 ugly male to bring child into this world?
@@graig578 The "just be happy bro" is insanely common among normies, it's comical beyond belief
your right, most men are bluepilled or redpilled leaning. most men cant ever accept the blackpill, so we wont see men change society. we will be lucky if only some powerful man changes society himself
That famous mouse experiment foretold this. On basic levels, human behavior is not different. We peaked and so many become irrelevant and invisible, especially post-industrial and tech revolutions. Endless growth is not possible, desirable or sustainable, as the structures in place would have us believe by the importation of other populations, which in the long-term is not beneficial.
I encourage those who have had no success to leave the west, which will bear the full effects of the inevitable mouse population collapse, as soon as they are financially and otherwise able. There is no saving it with so few sound minds and its unnatural state.
Interesting theory and it definitely affects things like sexual performance/skill. A woman will reject a guy who is bad in bed even the first time, which leaves him unable to practice. And thats AFTER he did all the work and attraction to get there in the first place. Probably the best bet is to get long term experience early in life to develop the skills that will take you through adulthood
no man you can practice on women under your value. getting sex is no problem
@@spirittouchrecords2785 if you're a 5 and willing to humiliate yourself by banging 3s for experience sure
@@joshswanson0 why is it humiliating to have sex with slightly below your looksmatch? I understand that if you're a 2 and have to bang 1.5s with Spina bifida in electric wheelchairs then it's gross, but beggars shouldn't be choosers. You are hypergamous.
@@-whackd it's humiliating, he is right. If you agree to bang a 3/10 you basically have no self-worth.
I'm a 32yr old virgin. This is my greatest fear 😨. I keep thinking senerios in my head like, if the opportunity arrives, should I lie about my no experience or tell the truth. Or will she even notice my lack of experience and after the deed is done then ghost me because she knew my performance was bad. If that happens I don't think I would mentally and emotionally recover 😨. In addition to Performance ED is always a possibility as well.
This matrix is turning many young man into homosexuals because they get frustrated dating or trying to even go on a date with women .
I already have a gf in Colombia that I go visit every 3 months and I’m going to retire to Colombia next year . I’m 23, and I have a few businesses already producing enough income to live in a cheaper country very good .
hahahahaha
@@nicedoppy2077 update. We are married , and I retired in Santa Marta
@@Davidmendeztvff ....i dont believe u!! buuuut just in case u r honest about it, all the best with your significant one over there in Colombi...
@@nicedoppy2077 don’t believe me , I’m living my life .
Dark for everyone involved. Dark for the lonely men. And dark for the hedonistic rich man and shallow woman with no love in their hearts. What hurts men, hurts women, and what hurts women, hurts men. In the long run.
Just another symptom, a sign of the last days.
The world has a few decades tops.
This channel is HILARIOUS!!😊
So it’s like the rich gets richer and the poor get poorer but apply to dating/intimate relationships
jordan peterson calls it the matthew principle "or whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them" (matthew 25:29)
also known as the pareto principle. economics 101. karl marx said this was the problem with capitalism. what karl marx failed to realize is that this is the problem with every economic system.
I have two chads among my friends. We are 40 now. They have bedded 1000+ girls thanks to technology. Never married: they just don't see the point and are addicted to novelty.
@GrandMuppet some people wipe their ass with money or they are fat as fuck, and some people are dying of hunger
As a believer in Christ, I was thinking about this issue. Like I also know such guys, especially one guy who is a clear alpha male, handsome, athletic super confident outspoken and he just get women more than he changes the socks so to speak and you can clearly see that he is enjoying his life, always smiling always confident, seems like he is always full of fun. So, I was thinking about it from Godly point of view, why would God create this immense injustice and unfairness and I cannot get an explanation, it makes no sense especially for all this injustice to continue for such an immensely long time.
The only thing that I do receive is that yes, it was God Himself who made this world to be horribly unjust and unfair and that eventually everything will be equalized.
I stopped believing in God because of this. I was born with horrible veins on the face, weak chin, VERY early balding and several skin problems. Even the (very rare) girlfriends I've had were actively trying to (and some managed to) sleep with my better looking friends. Life as a < 2/10 is already hell on earth@@nikokapanen82
Is that a vague threat?
@@nikokapanen82Im Muslim and i gotta say, God did nothing wrong, he created the world, he didnt turn it into what it is today, we did
This is an awesome concept! It's sparked an interest for identifying snowballing vs diminishing returns skills in other areas of life. Great job coming up with a new way to look at the world.
Losing all hope is then key of all freedome
Dudes who get laid don't spend time studying game theory and successful people don't read self help books. You either have it or you don't and you just can't get there from here.
Legalize the "sex" trade now! It's over for normies!!
If prostitution was legal I wouldn't be a 32yr old virgin lol 😅
@@JKRuc you can go too Nevada or fly over seas for escorts
Prostitution is legal in many European countries, such as Germany
this dude is right. i have been single for a long time as i am ugly (allegedly) and it sucked for a while but seeing what women have become makes me glad and i am not interested in anybody. social media will be the downfall of humanity so that is how technology attacks by turning us all against each other.
This is why "game"/PUA is (for the most part) only useful for the men who don't really need it. Game/PUA is useless if you never get the chance to interact with the woman; because she swipes left, classifies you as a "creeper" , accuses you of harassment, etc. All because you don't look like the 6-foot, six-pack, six figure salary Chad; who also meets a list of requirements longer than a Best Buy receipt.
It's like the chicken or the egg... You need game/PUA to get the opportunities that Chad/Tyrone gets based on his inherited traits; such as far above average natural good looks and height. But you need traits like natural good looks and height, just for women to interact with you, so you can use game/PUA. This is why you don't see sub-5's or average guys making videos or selling programs about game/PUA now days. All the game/PUA gurus are above average in looks, height, income, status, etc.
My bluepilled dad says "just date down", as if there's a lot and they don't want a hot dude themselves
Отвечу по - русски, так как боюсь допустить много ошибок, если буду писать по - английски. Мой папа тоже считает, что найти женщину крайне просто, так как он легко встретил мою маму в середине 80х. Моя мама гораздо красивее его и еë образование гораздо лучше. Просто в те времена у мамы не было других, более красивых и более достойных кандидатов. Если бы они жили в наше время, мама бы на него даже не взглянула. Ему тяжело понять, насколько легко было их поколению мужчин общаться с женщинами без конкуренции, пришедшей из интернета.
@@trueteller929 Вот-вот, совершенно точно. Я не верю что у меня будет хоть какой-то успех на этом поле, а родители совершенно не понимают, для них это выглядит так будто я просто не хочу.
@@pc_suffering6941 достаточно симаолично, что с момента твоего комментария прошло 7 месяцев. Сколько свиданий за это время было у средней девушки и сколько у тебя?
@@trueteller929I'm Portuguese but I used translator to understand you. I though in Russia it was not that bad since it is a bit detached from the west and because its more conservative. I met a Ukranian girl which said the first time she knew what an homosexual is was when she was 17... and I assumed that in Russia and Belarus it would be similar.
@@Icefrostmiguel даже ещё хуже, чем на западе. Женщины в России традиционны во всём, что касается их ожиданий от мужчин. Типа, надо нести ответственность, платить за них, ухаживать, дарить подарки. В остальном они за западные ценности - рано начинают заниматься сексом, курят и пьют, любят тусовки, делают татуировки, терпеть не могут, когда мужчины им что - то запрещают. Например, выкладывать слишком о кровенные фото в соцсети, общаться с непонятными друзьями и так далее.
I’ve just had an apiphany;
Most people with confidence fall into one of two categories:
1) a false sense of confidence created reactively from insecurity
2) a genuine sense of confidence born from a genuine emotion.
Most people when they claim to be confident get their boosts from the first option. Whenever someone who isn’t genuinely confident feels attacked, they reflexively act confident as to no appear weak. But they never passively feel the emotion of confidence. Genuine confidence is not so much an emotion as a mental state, you understand everything you do is correct so you know you don’t have to question yourself. While this often leads to blind arrogance, some people who are genuinely kind or able to receive criticism without letting it get them down in any way while still understanding that the criticism is wholeheartedly kind will foster genuine confidence, but pretty much everyone to some extent will be affected negatively by personal slights and the such, which may cause them to be less confident in the future. This leads to only the most popular people developing true confidence, the rest of the world just kinda forced to develop a poor, insecure, reactionary expression of confidence. Anyone who does achieve true self-confidence will most likely be successful as it takes some success in order to be confident in the first place, but in general this means more attractive people generate genuine confidence leading to an even bigger disparity.
There’s no such thing as someone being confident..only times you can be is bc of your past successful experience.
@@4bidden1 no, I believe there are lots of people who delude themselves into feeling confident constantly, they perhaps were not reprimanded as a child and then naturally took everything they did as the correct response without checking for bias. For normal people what you said is true tho.
@@RigoVids you just proved my point of past successful experiences..which includes not being reprimanded..
Couldnt agree more with this vid. I was always thinking this how good looking ppl have easier but never really said it loud because you would be labelled as pathetic looser. Well, luckily I turned this fact into my adventage. Knowing, I am going to waste my time in rigged game, I shifted my time into selfimprovement, saved a lot of money and reinvesting it now and will be able to retire early, shopping and not checking price labels, just enjoying spending money on the things that makes me happier. We as a men, I believe, can get over it, refuse to play always loosing game and get back to the real world without fantasy that bring us nowhere.
Your example made me recall my own school rugby experience. I was a successful attacking scrum half in the second team. I got promoted by merit to the first team and put in a full-back defensive position, and no longer improved (and lost interest in the game). Different skill set, and an example that just because you are successful in one scenario, it doesn't mean you will be in another!
What an amazing story
This is a very well thought out video.
6) Chad is forgiven far more often for errors that would get non-Chads in trouble.
Women only find 20% of men attractive in general, however it's even gotten harder with Tinder showing only 2% of men get all the attention on their app. Women want Tall, Rich, and Handsome, you have to have 1/3 to even compete, and then you're battling men that have 2/3 or 3/3. And despite what some men think that money is a powerful attracter, its not because if you look at Sugar Baby websites you are competing with other men with money so looks once again is deciding factor, many Sugar Babies say that having a physical attraction to you is very important so money alone will not do it, you need 2/3 Money & Looks to get a Gold Digger.
When even Chad has to pay for poon it's gigaover, best to just forget women entirely at this point.
It's not 80% of men that was an okay cupid study It's definitely not representative of the whole world we also have to consider other factors like the type of men on the study were they all normies, sub 5,in the middle have they all improved their looks?
I would say that the average isn't that attractive to the average women like 60/40
Also don't for get this is online dating study the ratio of men to women are skewed
Nope you have to just outright dismiss every slightly naked or trashy looking female untill it starts giving you the ones that aren't waste of time. Otherwise stop using apps go out more.
it’s over boys. just gotta hold out hope for AI girlfriends
That’ll be the only thing we can get for intimacy with women:(
Bladerunner 2049 was right about society. F no! We are doomed🤣😭
Damn I feel bad for you all, I'm a Muslim so I don't have to deal with all the dating stuff, it's nice.
Dating was cancer 10 years ago. I can't imagine what it's like now.