as martin said, when a friend asks for money just either give it or dont. also cut off people that are just lousy in general. amazing how so called friends can hold you down, intentional or not
an old teacher told me "friends and money don't mix- if you lend money, do it expecting to never get it back. if you get it back, that's just a nice thing that happens" lol
I loaned someone $90 when I was a broke college student because a friend projected to me that he was desperate. He never paid me back. While it wouldn’t mean too much to me now to be out of $90, it meant a whole lot to me back then and I never forgot. It’s all about context.
Whenever people ask to borrow money from me I always tell them "you don't want owe money from me. I will annoy the shit out of you if I don't get my money back."
@@rascoehunter3608 True. It's a bad thing to acclimate yourself too. Sorry to say some people look at it as a weakness, and the day you don't give them, they think they can threaten you.
I let my family borrow 4k from me once. When I asked my dad about when he was planning or repaying me back, he tried to stab me. He said that because he raised me all these years without asking anything back, he didn't owe me shit. That was the last straw. Parents and siblings were asking me 50 here, 100 here, and I gave in because they're family. But I also have bills to pay, stuff I want to buy or places I want to go to. I do that on top of managing my own finances when they don't because I always bailed them out, so I decided that I had enough. No more Mr. Federal Reserve, wish them well but that's it.
If I borrow money, I try my best to pay back. If I can't pay the full amount, I would do what Martin suggested at the end pay back a portion or something until it fully gets paid back.
Sorry you're going through this, Julian. I've been this asshole and I've lost friends to behavior like this too. Life lessons, man. Learned how not to treat people and how not to be treated.
I let a girl use a spare ticket i had for a concert and she agreed to pay me $50 for it which was cheaper than what it cost, but she couldn't pay me that day so she said she would pay in about a week. A month passed and when I asked about it she wouldn't respond. It wasn't a big deal but it was just knowing she lied, so years passed and I messaged her to test her. I was like "Hey! How have you been?" and she seemed really happy and nice. So I said "I'm guessing you still don't have that $50 for the concert? lol" and she replied "ARE YOU SERIOUS?" then she said "I'll call the police and say you're harassing me" LOL I want to do that anytime I owe the bank.
You never heard of free form dreads/locks 🙄 smh , it's a personal choice y'all colonizing mindsets don't understand 😤 How you know his mom not black? What about Corey's mother, his grandma? Shame on you
When my dad lends money he doesn't bring it when he sees whoever borrowed from him because then they won't ask for more and that's a good idea. Someone owes me over 300 dollars I didn't give them a specific date to payback though but they won't see anymore until I see what I lent before.
i put in $115 to bail a “friend” out of jail 4 years ago. Havent seen that money since, & he delcared he not paying anybody back. The way i see it, i paid $115 to see who my real “friend” is.
Court for 135 dollars you'd be better off enlisting that person to work off the money. When I call your a$$ answer the phone and you better come. If he can't pay it back he should be willing to work it off in some way to make it whole. That's what friends do.
If anything just be careful to who you lend money to. You can still lend money to friends and family but make sure first they are the type of people to pay it back.
I'm never ever lending anyone money EVEN FAMILY (SORRY) if they want something from me, they gotta: A.) Be there with me! B.) Gotta be worth exactly (or less) than what I originally was offering you or what you asked! Anymore than you owe me, owe me, owe!
I have a contract with everyone that I lend the money out to and if I don't have a contract I never expect to get it back. I will expect the lawyers to come out with anyone involving my insurance or things of that nature I just do not dick around. I am currently fighting my insurance due to them not wanting to pay on a dash cam recorded act of sabotage and a person punching out my window because their car "touched for a brief second" which to them automatically nullifies my comprehensive coverage. Thankfully my lawyer doesn't see it that way
If you lend money, charge them a 5% fee on top of what they are asking for. Set a day when the loan will be paid back in total and for every day they are late, charge them an additional interest of 20% (or whatever you prefer). Record the details of the agreement and them agreeing to the terms and conditions on camera, upload it to the cloud because if its up then its stuck. Everybody will either never ask you to lend money again or you get that big bag if they don't pay it back. Treat me like a bank, and I will treat you like a lick.
For me it’s if you still owe me you aren’t getting any more money from me My cousin owed me 40$ so I don’t give her money Also if it’s a lot of money I usually ask for something to make sure they pay back. You’ll remember to pay me back every time you’re looking for your car keys
I just kind of find it so strange that guys like Corey and especially other high-end UA-camrs like Doug DeMaro can just say certain amounts of money could just be thrown away like it's nothing. I get it it's UA-camr and entertainment plus all those sponsors can make hundreds of dollars seem like nothing at the end of the day. But even somebody in the medical field like I am I'm sorry I still remember a time struggling as a college student for five plus years and $100 is a lot of money
The point is the hassle of trying to get that money back isn’t worth $100. It’s best to forget it, never lend that friend money again, and find some other way to make that $100, which can be done by credit card churning, doing odd jobs, investing etc. Plus he doesn’t have to pay for a court case.
No. Black people have a culture of building relationships outside of it needing to be blood related. We have "cousins" ," brothers" , "sisters" and "moms" who just so happen to open the door to us
well korey wouldve beat somebody up over it in his day yea and he mightve got ass beat tryin to get his own money back plus korey probably a lot bigger and can fight better than you dont try to be like me. just let the 100 bux go lmaoooo
Don't ask me to "borrow" money if you're my friend when you know you can't pay it back. Depending on how I feel that day I'll just give it to you without the expectation of getting it back.
Korey and Martin acting like older uncles to their nephew. Teaching valuable lessons.
as martin said, when a friend asks for money just either give it or dont. also cut off people that are just lousy in general. amazing how so called friends can hold you down, intentional or not
I love Martin so much😅 w/that _A Bronx Tale_ reference
My motto is never lend what you can’t afford to lose, just know if you don’t pay you will be able to borrow again.
Good motto 😎.
Yup. I learned this the hard way. That’s a one-time mistake, tho😌
You will be? Lol
Yeah you the type to get done for the money! You high writing this
an old teacher told me "friends and money don't mix- if you lend money, do it expecting to never get it back. if you get it back, that's just a nice thing that happens" lol
I loaned someone $90 when I was a broke college student because a friend projected to me that he was desperate. He never paid me back. While it wouldn’t mean too much to me now to be out of $90, it meant a whole lot to me back then and I never forgot. It’s all about context.
U was supposed to break some knee caps 😂
Korey's son has found himself in a "Deep Fried Frenz" situation
Lesson is:Never lend money to friends or family,otherwise they'd take advantage of you.
Whenever people ask to borrow money from me I always tell them "you don't want owe money from me. I will annoy the shit out of you if I don't get my money back."
@@rascoehunter3608 True. It's a bad thing to acclimate yourself too. Sorry to say some people look at it as a weakness, and the day you don't give them, they think they can threaten you.
@@eyeprops5422 that phrase that I use actually works. People who know me personally hear that and decide not too ask again.
I let my family borrow 4k from me once. When I asked my dad about when he was planning or repaying me back, he tried to stab me. He said that because he raised me all these years without asking anything back, he didn't owe me shit. That was the last straw. Parents and siblings were asking me 50 here, 100 here, and I gave in because they're family. But I also have bills to pay, stuff I want to buy or places I want to go to. I do that on top of managing my own finances when they don't because I always bailed them out, so I decided that I had enough. No more Mr. Federal Reserve, wish them well but that's it.
If I'm your friend or family I'll just take it anyway lol y'all gonna lend to strangers and not me. Hell no
Oh wow i like that “i give, not loan to my friends”
If I borrow money, I try my best to pay back. If I can't pay the full amount, I would do what Martin suggested at the end pay back a portion or something until it fully gets paid back.
I also don't borrow unless the money is already made and I'm waiting on my check
Sorry you're going through this, Julian. I've been this asshole and I've lost friends to behavior like this too. Life lessons, man. Learned how not to treat people and how not to be treated.
At least you’re honest 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️and feel bad about it.
Depends, what does the guy need money for. rent or for a xbox. Big difference.
Damn for $35 I could actually buy me a nice bottle for that nothing too expensive but a good bottle of liquor.
I'll raise a glass to that. Cheers.
It's your mom, get her damn money.
If you lend money to a friend, just be prepared to never see either again
Real friends pay people back or say dont worry about it. Thats your experience bruh...
I let a girl use a spare ticket i had for a concert and she agreed to pay me $50 for it which was cheaper than what it cost, but she couldn't pay me that day so she said she would pay in about a week. A month passed and when I asked about it she wouldn't respond. It wasn't a big deal but it was just knowing she lied, so years passed and I messaged her to test her. I was like "Hey! How have you been?" and she seemed really happy and nice. So I said "I'm guessing you still don't have that $50 for the concert? lol" and she replied "ARE YOU SERIOUS?" then she said "I'll call the police and say you're harassing me" LOL I want to do that anytime I owe the bank.
Jillian need to meet some black women so they get his hair right
He looks like a racist anime character lol.
Jillian? 😆😆
You never heard of free form dreads/locks 🙄 smh , it's a personal choice y'all colonizing mindsets don't understand 😤
How you know his mom not black?
What about Corey's mother, his grandma?
Shame on you
At least he has hair 😞
I think he’s intentionally trying to attract white women with the hair
It was $20 in the movie a Bronx tale
When my dad lends money he doesn't bring it when he sees whoever borrowed from him because then they won't ask for more and that's a good idea. Someone owes me over 300 dollars I didn't give them a specific date to payback though but they won't see anymore until I see what I lent before.
i put in $115 to bail a “friend” out of jail 4 years ago. Havent seen that money since, & he delcared he not paying anybody back. The way i see it, i paid $115 to see who my real “friend” is.
I agree with Korey, lol
My ex owes me at least 1k and I had to choose between writing it off or getting bitter and depressed 🤷🏽♀️ You think 4 months is bad? Try 2 years 😂
only cost $135 to know him.
When I loan, in my mind I don’t expect to get it back because I gift it…. Within reason… I ain’t out here giving up racks.
Plain and Simple
Court for 135 dollars you'd be better off enlisting that person to work off the money. When I call your a$$ answer the phone and you better come. If he can't pay it back he should be willing to work it off in some way to make it whole. That's what friends do.
If anything just be careful to who you lend money to. You can still lend money to friends and family but make sure first they are the type of people to pay it back.
Can somebody explain the relationship Julian and Korey have lol? Is that like his adoptive son or something?
More like a mentor.
Julian is the new Allen but with more L's🤣😒
I'm never ever lending anyone money EVEN FAMILY (SORRY) if they want something from me, they gotta: A.) Be there with me! B.) Gotta be worth exactly (or less) than what I originally was offering you or what you asked! Anymore than you owe me, owe me, owe!
I have a contract with everyone that I lend the money out to and if I don't have a contract I never expect to get it back.
I will expect the lawyers to come out with anyone involving my insurance or things of that nature I just do not dick around.
I am currently fighting my insurance due to them not wanting to pay on a dash cam recorded act of sabotage and a person punching out my window because their car "touched for a brief second" which to them automatically nullifies my comprehensive coverage.
Thankfully my lawyer doesn't see it that way
If you lend money, charge them a 5% fee on top of what they are asking for. Set a day when the loan will be paid back in total and for every day they are late, charge them an additional interest of 20% (or whatever you prefer). Record the details of the agreement and them agreeing to the terms and conditions on camera, upload it to the cloud because if its up then its stuck. Everybody will either never ask you to lend money again or you get that big bag if they don't pay it back. Treat me like a bank, and I will treat you like a lick.
Is that really his son
Yep
For me it’s if you still owe me you aren’t getting any more money from me
My cousin owed me 40$ so I don’t give her money
Also if it’s a lot of money I usually ask for something to make sure they pay back. You’ll remember to pay me back every time you’re looking for your car keys
I just kind of find it so strange that guys like Corey and especially other high-end UA-camrs like Doug DeMaro can just say certain amounts of money could just be thrown away like it's nothing.
I get it it's UA-camr and entertainment plus all those sponsors can make hundreds of dollars seem like nothing at the end of the day. But even somebody in the medical field like I am I'm sorry I still remember a time struggling as a college student for five plus years and $100 is a lot of money
135 dollars for an average adult is nothing. This isn't from some super rich perspective. Yeah it sucks bur come on
who borrows money from college students? we all know yall broke! lmao!
The point is the hassle of trying to get that money back isn’t worth $100.
It’s best to forget it, never lend that friend money again, and find some other way to make that $100, which can be done by credit card churning, doing odd jobs, investing etc.
Plus he doesn’t have to pay for a court case.
I was just saying something similar about how that’s a lot of freakin money when you’re a broke student
Is julian Koreys son???
No. Black people have a culture of building relationships outside of it needing to be blood related. We have "cousins" ," brothers" , "sisters" and "moms" who just so happen to open the door to us
Hashtag “podcasting while black”
Does this kid's family think paint chips are a delicacy?! Fuck that "heart" shit! Get up in the dude's face and show them you mean business.
Is Julian Koreys son for real or are they just playing?
well korey wouldve beat somebody up over it in his day
yea and he mightve got ass beat tryin to get his own money back
plus korey probably a lot bigger and can fight better than you
dont try to be like me. just let the 100 bux go lmaoooo
Korey has a son what the fuck, since when?
I mean he is almost 50 lol
That’s his “son” like Robin is Batman’s son.
It’s not his real son. It’s just a running joke.
@@FdotStizzy wym a running joke? How do you figure that? He IS his real son.
@@yahmicah4294 no he’s not.
Don't ask me to "borrow" money if you're my friend when you know you can't pay it back. Depending on how I feel that day I'll just give it to you without the expectation of getting it back.