Colorism Content Has Turned into Femcel Swirling Content.
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We should be strategic with men ALWAYS regardless of the color.
exactly. save yourselves!
I agree
A lot of youtube channels really just profit off of selling dreams. No financial freedom exists like the one you can build for yourself. A soft life has to be built by you and only you. Everyone should stop looking for a savior. This is why I like your channel EU, you actually keep it real.
exactly! if someone is going to talk about hypergamy, can we at least get some FACTS along with it? STATS? at least Shera7 is real and basically talks about sugaring.
I am so happy someone is exposing Chrissie and colourish channels. It did irreversable damage in the 2010s and should be spoken about. Time to let go of self hate its only holding them back
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Chrissie has brain rotted so many black women ...
I went through a time of my life where I was listening to a lot of femcel content and it was making me feel like I was a femcel I was mad all the time for no reason. I ended up losing weight, toning up, started taking care of my type 4 hair, changing my diet clearing my skin and boom I’m literally either being negged by men all the time or asked out atleast twice a month. And I’m noticing girls that I though was my friend stop liking and interacting with me on social media.
oh wow thats amazing!
I think I need to have a think about what I’m consuming online also. I’ve never been a hater but I’m starting to get bitter so I can relate.
This is the typical pretty girl experience.. men manipulate more... women don't want to hang out with you because you soak up the attention ... and you're always getting offered on dates/public events for arm candy
It gets lonely over here
The soft life is not real if you rely on someone else to make it happen 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly 😂
Shit yes it is. In my culture and others a man has to provide to get a woman.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTVMost men are poor and can’t provide for women.Most married women work outside the home.
@AmaLoveGoddessTV what's your culture
@@Shelby-s2w East African, Native American, Brazilian (Amazonian)… we practice within all three cultures in my family and they all go by that plus our faith in Yeshua teaches that too.
I'm a light skinned Afro Latina, and my boyfriend is Italian, German, and polish. I do notice whenever we go out in public, a lot of UADSW give me nasty looks, even the ones I see with their white men. I agree with what you said about how a lot of them are male centered, especially since they seem to be desperate for the white man gaze and being upset for not being a non-black man preference. I stopped watching those colorism yt channels a long time ago. I'm not about to feel bad about being light skinned and having pretty privileged. Sorry not sorry 💅 This is why I love this channel because it is about working on your self-love, confidence, and healing for yourself and not what a man wants.
Uadsbw cannot stand it when us exoticals get with wm or any non bm, they’ll go insane
What most women who are with a man of means always fail to share is how often this man will remind you HE is the one who makes all of this happen and how easily he can make it all go away.
Right! Since every woman online is supposedly rich etc- where are the examples ? Like, who are these women aspiring to be like? Why aren’t there any examples of these mythical “high value” men? because If Joshua Jackson is an example, he’s a bad one .
@@browneyedgirl26 I don’t exactly agree with you on that. What’s really going on is the man of means, is reminding you that he has other options other than you. This is especially true if you’re not married to him.
Man gets money and more beautiful women start looking his way. Men with money have an air about them that attracts women to them and make men envy them with the “ that nigga ain’t shit, he’s probably gay” just because a brotha knew his father grew up in the suburbs, and went to USC.
THATS JUST THE WAY IT IS.
@@LONDONHARRISMUSIC All the more reason for women to have autonomy and make their own money. That way you avoid living an existence where you are constantly being reminded how expendable you are as opposed to just being appreciated by the man you are building a life with.
2:48 I’ve said this so many times. Not everybody has to find you attractive and that is okay.
You being a DSBW doesn’t mean people owe you likability, representation, or praise.
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What does DSBW stand for?
@@CreationSGame01 Darkskinned black woman
@@Chocolatechocolate7224 but they should learn to keep their opinions to themselves
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup because their parents didn’t teach them that in the first place
This video is pure gold. I hope it goes viral. They all need to hear how delulu they’ve been for so long.
Covert narcissism is at an all-time high with this swircel community.
This is going to be their reality check once and for all! None of that so-called divestment content transpires into real life. The swirlcels aka divestors will be the laughing stock on the internet.
I have to compliment you on your title game.
The titles of your videos are so good. You could probably get into the UA-cam Shorts game tbh cause you're really good at summarizing complex issues (that would usually take others ages to explain) into a couple of sentences.
I have noticed the worship of bm and wm. It makes me not want to get involved.😁
Yup 😂
Especially on tiktok
Girl yes! 😂
The Divestopia video series from L.E. is a prime example of limerance. These UABW swirlcels need to be realistic when it comes to dealing with non-black men. If they are with WM, they're not being provided for, despite what UABW say online. They're going 50/50 on the bills and the Brads they're with are not high quality nor attractive. None of that divestopia BS transpires IRL with them.
Yes most of them are not 100% provided for by an attractive man etc. it’s all a show for the internet .
They really do sound childish. I think this is an issue for a lot of people nowadays and it's not surprising why so many marriages and relationships fail.
Being detached(in a healthy way) and not getting caught in the trap of idealizing people really is the way forward to success in all types of relationships.
Right !
There was a dark skin black woman on twitter who’s a Christian I was talking to. She goes to a primarily white church I guess, and wants to be married. I told her maybe go to a more multi cultural or more black church because white men especially in conservative church circles, absolutely want white children with a white woman. I wasn’t trying to hurt her I was just telling her the reality of her situation. I don’t think she’s ugly at all and she seems really sweet but I just think she would have a better chance of marriage if she married a man who met her standards within her own demographic.
I hate to say it but many black women that want to date out don’t really know how to approach dating out. Non black men are brought up differently. I tell black women all the time that dating out requires slight changes. Weight is a perfect example I feel like. You will find way more black men willing to date bigger women. White men..not so much. There’s many things holding black women back from being more successful with dating out. I can’t explain it well in text honestly.
I'm mixed - and you are right. The white people in my family WANT white children or VERY VERY VERY light-skinned children that "pass" as white.
This is bad advice. Black women are being murdered by Black men at alarming rates. She is literally safer around men from outside of her demographic.
Or she could marry someone who cares about her, regardless of race
@@melodysafo5437 yeah, there is that...
Great talking points , I also want to add that these women like to use white men now as a social status for dating and it’s weird af.
Yes it’s very weird as someone who comes from a diverse background. White people are humans just like everyone else . It’s weird how they’re fetishizing white men over there
@@ExoticalsUnited Nailed it
YES! Omg this has been so popular lately. They hate on mixed, multi racial, and exotic women. It is so sad!
This needed to be said, regardless of how much it hurts.
Plus this fictional rich white guy has to NOT be selfish… be totally selfless and loving and passionate. He also has to be free thinking and not mind his wife working or owning her own business if she wants to… and be so faithful and not even look at another woman. So she’s the only woman that exists to him. And he has to LOVE her family and most women want children so he’d have to also want children with her and take care of the child both inside and outside of the home when he’s not working his corporate high-earning job. 😂😂😂😅
🤣🤣🤣 sounds like my billionaire romance novels
That’s basically every wattpad male lead. 😅 Makes me nostalgic. 😭
@@Mstorrance I wanna read it too!! 🙋🏽♀️🤣
@@Mstorrance 🤣 i like this fantasy novel 🤣🤣🤣🤣
WOW that Monogamy Spectrum was fascinating, never saw that b4. I've been celibate for many years + came 2 the conclusion a long time ago that the soft life rests in my hands fully. I finance my own vacations + romanticize my life on my own without seeking men. I'm biracial and my wyt dad was absentee hence I grew up already knowing that wyt men are not perfect + know that they have flaws just as much as men of other races. Growing up with an absent wyt father made me realize that wyt men can be just as bad if not worse as other races. The way uabw make these wyt men seem like gold makes me cringe bcuz "not all wyt is good wyt", that's a common saying/thing in "creole communities". I grew up in a mainly wyt neighbourhood and went to school w' mostly wyt + east asian ppl. The wyt guys treated their own wyt women a bit badly sometimes. I almost felt bad for my wyt girl friends but a lot of them were male-centered, heavily male-centered so that adds to their problem. Most wyt ladies I knew got married asap and tried to start their family early, they would put up with a lot from their wyt husbands but would say well I have the ring so even if he cheats I'm still legally bound to him thru marriage...that was basically how they saw things. They know men have always had a reputation for cheating but they would stick it out for the "wife" benefits, financial benefits, etc. I suppose its saving face in a sense.
I have nothing against wyt men btw, but tbh they are not some mythical unicorn and some of them can def have bad manners and be nasty ppl as with hispanic. I've had positive experiences with asian men when I used to date + put myself out there. They are not perfect but they treated me more in a human-like way, genuinely enjoyed my intellect and didn't give me jungle fever vibes the way that wyt men who were interested in me would as a biracial. I also stay away from wyt men a lot bcuz male-centered wyt karens always feel threatened, start competing and being rude and I have no interest in jeopardizing my safety, mental health/peace by putting myself in a line of fire where no one is going to protect me. Men of all races feel entertained when women. compete + fight over them... and I would say some of those include those "Wealthy Men top 11%, top 1%... if they can dangle a carrot and string multiple women a long fighting for some $$$ they have all the means to do so. Wyt men a lot of the time will side with their own at the end of the day and I think that's fine, I don't think everyone should mix out and pursue interracial relationships. Tolerance also doesn't mean true love or true acceptance so I've been validating myself outside of all racial groups and pouring into me my hobbies, my passions. While I am ok w' wyt tolerance of someone like myself, I don't need it to feel fully confident and accepted in myself or accepted by society. I validate and honor who I am on my own without external groups or races of ppl.
Yep, I feel the same way.
I’m surprised they aren’t dating Asians they have the money I was told.
I think it’s because they care more about social status than the highest amount of cash possible. Dating/Marrying someone of any race is neither a flex nor a badge of shame _(I say this as a woman in interracial marriage)_ but they pedestalize the white man’s perceived social status so they think it’s the biggest flex to be picked by a white man with money than anyone else with money 🙄
Yeah I agree because they’re Asians who come from generations of old money. But with these same Asian families, want to keep their money with their own kind so these families strongly discourage their kids from dating out unless the non asian person comes with a lot of money ie old money.
They don’t want us. HAHA
@@miracle-pi5wsThey like y'all too. ❤
Honestly as someone who’s open to dating outside my race, the older I get the more I’d rather be with someone that’s a poc. Nothing against white people but the white person would have to be culturally relatable for me. But then I have certain beliefs that white people commonly believe and I end up in their spaces online so finding a black man with similar beliefs is a bit of a struggle so I end up with white guys anyway.
22:00 Everybody's rich and everybody's an exotical now 🤣🤣
😂😂😂 and everyone has the hypergamous interracial relationship of their dreams all of a sudden
I remember watching a livestream where women were going on about how black women are the ideal match for white men, that they’re a powerhouse together, because black women’s hustle mentality match a white man’s industriousness or something like that. I can see what you’re saying about that being limerence.
Achieving the soft life (present!) is HARD (discipline, consistency) work, but its not a HARD life. // It's pretty easy (lazy) to slip into a HARD Life. // I've never been harder than when I centered a man's approval to validate me. It is purely laughable now, knowing what I know (most men are 1. gay for pay 2. downlow 3. broke 3. don't care for themselves well 4. want sex like getting snickers from a vending machine, not as a by-product of commitment, trust and partnership)
This !!!
Been there, done that. Too much fetishizing projected onto me. They treat me like a doll. I rather the man be some ratio of black for me. Less stress and I noticed I have expectations with them and noticed I see the bar is lower when I look outside that. I didn't even realize it until months later. Happy for others that want whatever race and mixed race. It just doesn't 100% work for me long-term. Love them as friends though.
I grew up in a diverse upper middle class suburb with a big East Asian population. Growing up the overwhelming majority of guys who flirted with me and gave me attention were white and Hispanic. I always wore my natural 3c4a hair and believe it plays a role in my beauty making me unique from the hundreds of other white girls. They even used to ask me how they can get their hair like mine😂😂From what I’ve seen, playing into your exoticness is not wrong or weird. They’re not fetishizing, they find our unique features beautiful and want to appreciate and I welcome it :) Asian women I saw growing up weren’t afraid to use their looks and beauty to access high quality guys. As someone who always got romantic attention from nonblack men I’ve always found their content weird. I didn’t have to try to get their attention, they just always came to me lol
yup, my hair was in a lions mane the other day at the park and a random guy complimented it 😂
Omgosh this is so valid! Thank you for sharing. I have a budding new romance with a single, childless Jewish doctor and though it's still early on, I wonder what the long term implications are for our relationship. I could just be being fetishized, I don't want to believe he wouldn't "choose me" because I'm not white. Something tells me I'll discover within the next coming weeks.
good luck ! i hope you get your exotical tax either way! i have videos on how i have navigated dating so that even if the relationship doesnt last, i still got something positive from it! also, most divestors would kill to attract a jewish doctor 😂
Jewish men stick with other jewish people especially the ones who want children.
Your content on decentering men has helped me so much and has transformed the way I see men and dating
Yes! Believe it or not it will actually make dating easier IF you even decide to still date . It makes it easier to weed people out
As an ambiguous mixed person I used to watch chrissie and I had to stop because I felt so offput about how she talked about people who look like me and I’ve always just wanted to feel accepted and confident as a mixed person , years later I’ve found your channel and I wish it was around when I was 15-18 I’m now 25 but this content is still very beneficial to me because I don’t have any ambiguous friends
I think my favorite genre is when you call the divestor/swirlers out 😂😂
I'll never get tired of it
It's the reality check for me 😂😂😂😂😂
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22:15 girl HECK YES! I was just thinking this
Why is everyone rich online ... 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
Most people in real life are poor
I may do a video on this 😂
This title has me laughing so hard.
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It reminds me on how Wheat waffles channel defines it. He called it blue pill media. In a way I agree, because many people try to display their wealth on tv or social media, but realistically most people are middle class.
Also why would someone like Mr Grey character would want an average woman, if he can literally get supermodels or movie stars as girlfriends?
Maybe it is delulu, but sometimes you gotta be delulu, I’m white and my husband is Asian and he makes over 100k a year, maybe that was unlikely to happen, but I thought that I could and I did, so delulu is the solulu sometimes, so if you want a rich white guy as a black woman than go for it.
Yes I agree , my bf makes over 100k as well, I just don’t consider 100k to be rich.
Great points! Much needed video to wake us up!
I'm not your target audience but I'm glad I came across this video. I started noticing a couple of yrs ago that most bw empowerment spaces are obsessed with interracial dating and nothing else. Im glad someone is speaking on it.
Yes it’s cringey
Im a BM who Tends to check on these online movements from time to time to see how successful they are. glad i came across this video.
I guarantee you she is the product of a single mother, how do I know this, because if she had a father in her life she would not be doing this.
Why because if she had a daddy he would love his daughter and tell her how beautiful she is and give her that confidence that she needs
My first husband was Italian, pulled $250k on a good year, and I was "his type" (he liked BW with dreadlocks). Hey, some people win the lottery! I wasn't looking to land someone like him. He sorta fell in my lap. We met while I was pursuing my passion for making short documentaries. That lottery was a Mexican one because it wasn't worth as much as it sounds. He was nearly 20 years older (I was 25 when we met), had bratty children in their late teens/twenties who hated me, his family was toxic, and he was a predatory, selfish, liar who was ONLY capable of flashing money, which he often did to make people think he was richer than he was. I'm considered an exotical, but my point is this... Even if you manage to get a unicorn, chances are there's still going to be a lot of crap to put up with and many more surprises that you didn't sign up for. You're right... Best to just get your own bag!
Omg I am obsessed with Italy too. Once I do have the money to do it I would love to go with my family on a 3 week trip to the south of France and take the train into Italy 🇮🇹 😍
Go for it! Italy is so fun and beautiful.
Also Italian isn’t that hard for English speakers to learn. I took it in HS/Junior HS instead of Spanish
🎯Femcel Swirling Content is the best explanation I've heard to date.
Don’t kill me😂 22:17
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First 😊
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You sound like Anonymous Tea ….
Ooooooooooooo EU , u bad lol
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omg i been saying this
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These dustvestors don't want to listen.😂