Men Use Women for LUST or LABOR- Decentering Men Episode 46
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Yup, men are unapologetically intentional about who they have in their lives, and if a woman doesn’t match those standards, he doesn’t pay her any mind. This is why women shouldn’t feel bad about having high standards for the men that they choose to entertain.
Right! Men will straight up divorce or dump a woman over not wanting kids etc. so why should women be settling for a guy who doesn’t meet her exact standards ?
💯💯 they want the best but we have to settle for less what kind of deal is that? I’ve been 4b lol
@@TheBlackExotical hey. You’re a mod now
Soo true, it's like these men guilt shame women for not wanting them
@@ExoticalsUnited thanks hunny 💕
Ever notice how women who are widowed do far better than men who are widowed? My grandma was widowed the last 10 years of her life and she had friends who were widowed too and they would go to the beach and would be living their best life. Even queen elizabeth the queen mother lived 50 years almost after her husband died and I never see men who are widowed really move on from their lives
@@Iam_Celene yup! Btw I just made you a mod
I recognized this so much lately that once they realize I don’t comply to either lust or labour for them they get dismissive and mean.
Omg yes ! 😂
And ghost. I say good riddance. That's why they settle when they marry. They marry the below average chicks that will do anything for them out of desperation. Then they try to chase and cheat with the fine independent ones they could never marry cause they can never handle lol.
Yesssssss
So happy we finally got another decentering men video! Thank you!
Omg yes ! 😂 sorry I was super behind on editing but I have way more of these coming up! ❤️
Yay🎉
@@ExoticalsUnitedkeep them coming!! 🎉
Yup. Love these
And Yesssss! Please analyse the Pop the balloon series! I haaattee how some women allow themselves to be disrespected by CLOWNS on that show 🤢
The women are far more disrespectful
I’ve missed Decentering Men content
The "using their sister" part reminded me of that one tik tok where a dude said he didn't "learn" (to have) empathy towards women until 18 cause he didn't have a sister like what??
Omg! 💀 That's a new one, they usually say they feel that once they have daughters. These males are so damn delayed and retarded 😂 The way so many women make them the end all be all of their lives is sickening to watch.
men are such freaks. lol
The stories I have about the men in my family making the women do all the labour! Then turn around and get jealous because we actually made it better than they ever could. Being called traitors for being hypergamous to spreading lies amongst the us to turn us against each other. What makes this even more interesting is the fact that all the women in my family that are leading successful lives are exoticals.
Omg yes! I’ve seen some men try to turn female friends against eachother etc !
@@ExoticalsUnited right! classic case of triangulation
A lot of people will say I need to look for a partner before I get too old (I’m 24 btw) but even if I did have a partner or a relationship or a marriage, when I get a wrinkle or my body doesn’t look like it does today he will leave me and so that idea just isn’t gonna hold water because a guy is gonna leave me regardless most likely when I get older or old
Ever since i started watching your channel I lost 10 lb started doing my makeup working out regularly again and have so much of my pretty privilege back that I lost
Aw omg that’s amazing! 😍
ive been objectified by most men who pursue me I think their intentions are bad and just stay away from them.
On my first week at a new job, some manager wanted me to do his work. I just ignored him and will continue to do so. He’s not my manager and should not be assigning me work HE’S supposed to do. We’re not even in the same department so why would bother myself with that. He wanted to take advantage of me because I’m new at the entry level position and thinks I don’t know any better. 😒
OMG!!! U hit this on the head!! I used to date a guy in LA, really liked him but I felt he wanted me to do too much so I left him. Fast forward 25 years and I checked his wife on FB 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Im married to an 8-figure banker and my ex still circling my wagons on Linkedin 😅.
Omg 😂😂😂
I said that in my song Cleopatra “ the more they see the more they learn, the more they see the more they earn, so my price remains sterns” 💪🏾 lol seriously though
The pictures! Yes! Even if they're not sexual. It's why I've never posted very many pics of myself. Fuck that, ain't gettin shit outta me lol it's like when dudes ask me to send them a pic. For whaaaaat?? 🙄🙄
Yes to always decentering men! 🎉 you made some valid points about labor! Us women we have to workout, get your hair done, nails done and some men don’t appreciate it and expect so much.
Right !
Sis! When I tell you how much I love appreciate your series on decentering men? Omg! It's changed my life over the past 4 weeks. I've emailed you inquiring about how I can support you. I really mean it. You're undoing the damage religion, Disney movies, romantic comedies, and our married girlfriends have done on us. I was at lunch(the museum followed) today with a happily divorced friend and I was actually quoting your talking points and your statistics on porn and only fans,. Thanks so much for another great video although I haven't watched it. I've turned off the toxic news cycle and I'm filling my head with books, great music, your content, nature, and Tom and Jerry cartoon, etc. Forget men and their gaze!!
By the way, that picture of the white guy hiding by the tree at 11:52 is EVERYTHING!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aw that’s amazing ! Please let me know what kind of decentering men content you want me to do next
@@ExoticalsUnited you got it!!
Wife’s have to take care a of in laws also
One of my exes asked me to do his hw once. I told him hell no lol i know i had the most incredulous look on my face. His teachers would've known it was not his work anyway smh
Dang hermione ❤
Crazy amazing breakdown as always. The point you made about men getting access to your attractive friends through you was an insane revelation for me! Im glad I am never fully hospitable to men! I walk away when needed even when they are tryna talk to me !!!!
Yes this has happened with my of my girl friends male friends (they tried to make friends with my friends to get to me) and sometimes guys will make friends with you so that after you reject him, your other female friends already view him as “safe” because they’ve seen him with you. So now he gets to go be a creeper on your friends too 😂
@@ExoticalsUnited So premeditated and selfish to a certain extent!
Make sure you safeguard everything you have!
Don't let these men exploit you anyway!
AMEN!
I had a guy string me along but then I got caught onto it and dropped him. He was tall and I like tall guys and I no longer tolerate a guy stringing me along in hopes of maybe a date or a relationship regardless of how attractive he is.
Yup ! Good job keeping yourself on the pedestal! 😍
I love these decentralizing men videos
Lady you are the best "decenter men" creator out there. Almost jumped when I saw this new one
Thank you so much!
You need money 💰 to look good:
Dentist 🦷
Doctor appointments
Dermatologist
Gym membership
Good quality dressing and toiletries
Good quality food
All of that cost money 💰
If XY is ugly XY has no money 💰 😅
Yayy!! You hit 20k Congrats 🥰🔥#ExoticalTax
Exotical TAAAAAAAX 🤑💅🏽
I manifested for someone to make a decentering men video and this came up😅
@@AFocusedLiving hey, I made you a mod fyi!
@@ExoticalsUnited Okay thanks
This is one of your best videos to date. So much invaluable information.
Thank you so much!
I’m already planning and saving up for another cruise for next year even though I just got off of one two weeks ago. My coworker and her husband are a childfree couple and they Love To go on celebrity cruises it’s a more ritsy not so kid friendly sister version of Royal Caribbean. The cruise goes to Aruba Bonaire and curaçao.
Did you enjoy your cruise? Did you go alone? I have always wanted to go on a cruise by myself that doesn't allow children or has a place only for adults.
@@illigirl768 no I went with my mom. We had an amazing time
one of the best videos I've seen & I've seen a lot. very informative with a lot of real life examples. waking us pretty girls up. keep doing your thing.
Ya'll
I am convinced men dont have feelings or emotions...
My Dad would do the most heartless shit to me
_ throwing house responsibilities onto me because i helped him out afew times
- putting his hand out to me for money because I paid the car gas bill once or twice
- telling me he will financially abandon me if i dont do the university course he told me to do
- calling me ungrateful and spoiled because i cried because i am stressed out.
Like... im sorry but if i cant bleed infront of my own flesh and blood. I might as well emotionally cut myself off and detach and move on like how a crab moves on from its claw.
Men are... something else. Im sorry but i am not getting wrinkles and hypertension at this young age... :/
Yes I do believe a lot of men have alexithymia which makes it difficult to pinpoint or express emotions in a healthy way.
Please, check on Sam Vaknin
And don’t become nurse 👩⚕️ with a purse 👛
I’m staring a new movement: not me problem 2024
I’m not helping
I’m not saving
I’m not feeling sorry
I am so glad women are discussing fathers and how they too can be very predatory and emotionally abusive.
Yes, please do the analysis on the pop the balloon series lol😂 I know it’ll be great
I appreciate ALLLL your videos! Whew ❤ A word has been spoken!
Would love to see an analysis of the pop the balloon series. I don't watch the series but saw the clip of the plumber gentleman. Concerning
💯 once again
YES, please do a series on the Pop the Balloon show!
Girl I have curly hair. My hair is high maintenance af. You’re preaching to the choir when you talk about the arm pain. It takes me sometimes almost an hour for me to be sure I have no tangles left after my hair is already properly saturated. And it’s especially tiresome when you have a date and you want to be sure it’s neat and properly moisturized. Sigh.
Because of your channel , I stop being hehe and haha with men. Even at work , if the communication doesn’t benefit me I stay clear away . Also thank you for sharing other channels. 🤎
Smart!
Wow this is spot on and gave me an idea for my best video ❤
Yay! 😀
@@ExoticalEpiphany hey, I made you a mod btw
@@ExoticalsUnited what is a mod ?
Men gross me out
I love the crown on Netflix it is a series about the royal family starting at the beginning of queen Elizabeth’s reign to present day. Queen Elizabeth’s sister Princess Margaret actually was in a hypogamous marriage to a man who cheated on her multiple times And so even the royal women were in marriages where they were treated horribly. I feel so horrible for Princess Margaret. There was an episode in season 6 called ritz and it was so sad to see poor Margaret suffer the way she did. Princess Margaret kind of reminded me of my grandma and they were even around the same age and so I see my grandma in the ways princess Margaret was portrayed especially in her older years. My grandma was also the life of the party like princess Margaret was 🥰😍 I wanna be like princess Margaret and own my own home in the Caribbean like she did
Princess Margaret also had an affair with a married man too. When she was younger. One day we need to have a conversation about the pickme women who don’t like to be cheated on but don’t mind being a sidechick . I’m not saying her necessarily but there are many women like that. Like any piece of a man even if he’s taken , they’ll have him rather than finding peace in being single .
Yeah I feel like I'm being used. Doing way too much labor. I'm going to start saving and dip out.
Yes indeed Sista!
A lot of my woman friends and woman relationships I've been in exploited me because they were doing to me what a black man did to them!
They should've loved me,loved on me,celebrated me,shared with me,and protected me especially since they know how it feels to be exploited but instead they just remain male centered and become evil and sneaky!
AMEN!
Loooove your content, sis. Thank you 🤍🤍🤍. Men have always been a huge burden to women, my own father is such an annoyance. I told the bastard that I was not feeling well, and even then he mentioned his needs, I never hung up faster. Super needy and I cannot stand him.
I was going to ask you to do a pop the balloon series😅 6:25
I love this video💜so much truth being told on this subject!
Congrats on 20k subscribers 🎉❤
Ive been exploited almost in everyway my whole life!
Its time to isolate myself and comeup!
AMEN!
yess keep delivering decentering men content!
🍿_(:з)∠)_ Finally I was waiting for this series to return.
I have served alot of guys unfortunately!
I didn't realize this sh at all!
Im so tire of being a black single mom and its time for me to be a good friend to myself!
AMEN!
Please do a breakdown on the pop the balloon series. I would love to watch.
Please DISSECT the pop balloon series!
Watched it today! I have a lot to say 😈
Yasss !!! More vids like this plese
You on they necks, baby!!! 😂
Girllll this oneeee was the onnneeeee 😭
Love ❤❤❤
Yessss do the balloon pop video plleeeeaaassseee😁
All true ❤
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First 😆
Yay! 😀
4:20 i had exactly this men , he pushed me to only listen to him (problem s out nowhere and it s always my fault) and never listening to me . Even i paid bills ,( he does not) i had no time to care for my self !
Fibally i got out of this and finally glow more than ever!
#allfacts👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👆🏾
So What did you think of Kiera breaugh?
Twenty thousand. Sweet.
He used me as lust and labor , find a new home , alwys listen to him , he was very jealous even i had one male worker because i know i was the only woman he gets , he even tried once s a other woman to have a raltionshipt with me. After he geht chicked out of his mama home he had no other choice to make it by his self , but i saw only once , a profilpic with his mamy ( omg , just a insecure momy boy 🤢🤮)
Looks matter a lot ❤
Sorry not sorry 😅
Your looks tell me a lot about someone’s social/economical status 😅
This is genuinely the best series on UA-cam and I love how u have videos on femininity too ur the only creator that post things like that I feel like a lot of the women on UA-cam today even the motivational women I grew up watching center their whole lives around men ☹️all the “soft girl” videos or even femininity videos are it kinda made me male centered for awhile ur channel rlly helped me with separating my femininity from men Thankyou 🫶
Yes! I do my best to discuss as many topics as possible OUTSIDE of the male gaze . Anything about the male gaze has to be behind a paywall 😂💅🏽
Yes please analyze that pop the balloon mess...my married coworker is obsessed with it and i honestly dont see the point to watching women get humiliated
I DESERVE everything I have ✨️🥹🎀
@@Iambellarayne hey, you’re a mod now
I wish my mom would have taught me this during my youth!
AMEN!