OMG... not your circus, not your monkeys. 1. You don't owe your ex anything -- especially at the cost of your mental health, job, or anything else bad coming alone. 2. You calling her fiancé isn't going to help. She's a cheater caught texting her ex-husband right before the wedding, so there is no way he's going to believe you. 3. Why is saving her marriage the right thing to do? Even if you weren't vindictive and she was a stranger, why would you inflict this woman on any man or him on her? Maybe the best thing is they don't get married, have children, etc. Why do you want to be responsible for getting them back together? Heck, you could call him and say "Hey, I have her blocked and never got any messages from her. She had to know that so no idea why she sent them. I haven't spoken to her since X. That said... are you crazy marrying some woman who married me when she was still talking to you and who couldn't make a marriage last a month?" 4. Even if you contact him, he listened to you, and he believed you... why would he want to get back with her? She's a cheater who ruined guy? Sorry... OP, stop talking with your ex. Tell HR at work about Nina and your ex and make it clear you don't wish to be around her, alone with her, on projects together, etc.
...They are EX PARTNERS. What she does or doesn't do is no longer his concern. This is her fiasco to deal with and it was her decision to keep sending these apologetic texts when she could've just let it go after he didn't answered the first 500 texts and apologies. Keep OP out of you sh*t when it doesn't concern him which this doesn't .
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OP's ex brought it on herself though. Should've just leave OP alone in the first place. But no, she had to keep sending messages.
OMG... not your circus, not your monkeys.
1. You don't owe your ex anything -- especially at the cost of your mental health, job, or anything else bad coming alone.
2. You calling her fiancé isn't going to help. She's a cheater caught texting her ex-husband right before the wedding, so there is no way he's going to believe you.
3. Why is saving her marriage the right thing to do? Even if you weren't vindictive and she was a stranger, why would you inflict this woman on any man or him on her? Maybe the best thing is they don't get married, have children, etc. Why do you want to be responsible for getting them back together? Heck, you could call him and say "Hey, I have her blocked and never got any messages from her. She had to know that so no idea why she sent them. I haven't spoken to her since X. That said... are you crazy marrying some woman who married me when she was still talking to you and who couldn't make a marriage last a month?"
4. Even if you contact him, he listened to you, and he believed you... why would he want to get back with her? She's a cheater who ruined guy?
Sorry... OP, stop talking with your ex. Tell HR at work about Nina and your ex and make it clear you don't wish to be around her, alone with her, on projects together, etc.
With friends like Nina, who needs enemies?😂
...They are EX PARTNERS. What she does or doesn't do is no longer his concern. This is her fiasco to deal with and it was her decision to keep sending these apologetic texts when she could've just let it go after he didn't answered the first 500 texts and apologies. Keep OP out of you sh*t when it doesn't concern him which this doesn't .