PSYCHOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE OF THE SELF

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  • @johnmarkcortez6726
    @johnmarkcortez6726 11 місяців тому +4

    Yes, I do have a tendency to mask my genuine self since that is how I go about finding the people in my life who I can trust. Once I have established that trust, though, is when I start to show my true self.

    • @RenvivOrtega
      @RenvivOrtega 11 місяців тому +1

      I agree with this one, it’s just like testing first the water to identify if it’s too hot, too cold, or just lukewarm. Observation comes first before actually and eventually indulging ourselves into a group of people or friends that we find worth trusting.

    • @JC_Calacar
      @JC_Calacar 11 місяців тому

      Indeed, showing who you are honestly means a lot of self esteem and courage to do so on you. Showing your true self is a need of lots and lots of time because it is a long run process for us to show our true self to somebody. I agree with both of you that aiming to trust is a must for us not to be easily criticize. Being observant is a well safe thing we must do before we unleash our true self.

    • @ChristinePaulinePañaCharol
      @ChristinePaulinePañaCharol 11 місяців тому

      I agree on you, there are people that will act as if they were close to us but in reality they just wanted to know some of our secrets to use them against us. Sometimes hiding who you are will make you safe.

  • @karyllaylamalhin-zu9bv
    @karyllaylamalhin-zu9bv 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have in the past pretended to be someone I wasn't. I did this because I was worried about what people would think of me and wanted to live up to their expectations of me. I believed that if I behaved a certain way, people would like me more and pay attention to what I had to say about myself. But now I see how crucial it is to stay loyal to who I truly am. I've discovered that being open and genuine not only benefits me but also improves my relationships with other people. It also reveals who I really am. Being authentically me makes me feel incredibly good, and it also makes it easier for me to connect with others.
    Yes, there have been times in the past when I've lied about who I was. Because I wanted to live up to people's expectations of me and because I was concerned about what they would think of me, I took this action. I was under the impression that if I behaved in a particular way, people would like me more and pay attention to what I had to say about myself. But now I see how important it is to remain faithful to who I really am. I've learned that being open and sincere benefits me personally and also enhances my interactions with others. It also shows the genuine me. Being truly yourself makes me feel amazing and also makes it simpler for me to connect with other people.

  • @yerame4641
    @yerame4641 11 місяців тому

    Yes, To protect myself from judgment, criticism, or harm, especially in situations where i feel vulnerable/weak.

  • @brixx4768
    @brixx4768 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I experienced hiding my true self: fear of being judged. I am different from my fam and friends. But, now I'm happy to finally exposed my true self without having a fear of judgement.

  • @matthewdelacerna-q4p
    @matthewdelacerna-q4p 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I admit that sometimes I hide my true self from the community around me just simply because I'm afraid of judgments and any other negative feedback from people. But now, I realize that I need to show up my true self in order for me to grow within the reality of life. All I need is total acceptance and by living the true simplicity of life. The best in you comes after acceptance and simplicity.

  • @jillivanmartinez-mc3lo
    @jillivanmartinez-mc3lo 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have had experiences with disguising who I really am. The reasons I do this so frequently include self-protection, societal standards, and fears of rejection or condemnation.

  • @benjiealbarico3414
    @benjiealbarico3414 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have also experienced hiding my true self for the reason that I can get along with other people and not be judged by new people I meet.

  • @doydoysales6589
    @doydoysales6589 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I do have a tendency to mask my genuine self since that is how I go about finding the people in my life who I can trust.

  • @lawrencecaduyac-xu9sf
    @lawrencecaduyac-xu9sf 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experienced hiding my true self. I often hide my true self when i'm around people I'm new to or people i'm not very familiar with. But now I see how important it is to remain faithful to who I really am. I've learned that being open and sincere benefits me personally and also enhances my interactions with others.

    • @kengabriellumbay-tz9kp
      @kengabriellumbay-tz9kp 11 місяців тому

      I agree, being open and sincere cannot only benefit you but also the one you had interactions with.

  • @marc8757
    @marc8757 11 місяців тому

    Yes, before I had experience with hiding my true self to others. It is mainly because i don’t want anyone to think that i am weak, I pretend the person which I am not to people whom im talking or along with because to always portray the social expectations that I am something to look up for, But as I grow older i realized to be much more true to self than pretending because it is another sense of relief when you are true to yourself and people around you.

  • @princeescana9625
    @princeescana9625 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I had to hide my genuine self for fear of being condemned. I'm not like my family or pals. But now I'm relieved to have finally presented my true self without fear of being judged.

  • @DJNeniel
    @DJNeniel 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, I have had the experience of hiding who I am from other people out of concern that they will criticize me for it. I once pretended to be or behave like other individuals so that I could conceal my actual identity and avoid being judged by them.

    • @andrelouatillo5428
      @andrelouatillo5428 11 місяців тому

      This is agreeable to me since I once pretended to behave like someone else to avoid criticism. It was a mechanism to gain the approval of others and for me to feel accepted by them.

  • @JHUMZLAHOY
    @JHUMZLAHOY 11 місяців тому

    Yes, i have experiencing hiding my true self sometimes when i realize that i am not belong to those group of people or sometimes when i lost my self confidence when i'm on the high class people who surrounded me but as of time goes by i realized that being with plenty group of people's surrounds you you will be more strongly to be a part of them so that you can morely know about your personal behavior with them and having a lot of friends can make you braver you can learn more through them.

  • @kimvillarubia_19
    @kimvillarubia_19 Рік тому +2

    Have you ever experienced hiding your true self? why?
    Yes, I used to pretend to be someone I wasn't before. I did this because I was scared of what others would think, and I wanted to fit in with what they expected of me. I thought that if I acted a certain way, people would like me more and listen to what I had to say about myself. But now I know how important it is to be true to who I really am. I've learned that being honest and showing my true self not only helps me but also helps me connect with others better. It also shows who I truly am. It feels really good to be myself, and it helps me connect with others because I know that I show them that I am me. I don’t care if they don't like me or judge me for who I am, but my concern is for people who really like me for who I really am.

    • @sherynsocorin3316
      @sherynsocorin3316 Рік тому +1

      I agree with you, Kim, that we should show them who we really are because, for me, it is the basis for us to find someone who really accepts who we are, and I am sure if that person comes into our lives, he or she will surely be our shoulder to cry on if we have some difficulties in life.

    • @ClarJhonHaroy
      @ClarJhonHaroy 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you bro that revealing our true selves is essential. It forms the foundation for us to connect with someone who genuinely embraces our authenticity. I am confident that when such a person enters our lives, they will be a source of comfort and support during challenging times.

    • @Charliemarlporio
      @Charliemarlporio 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you, Kim, that we should be honest with them about who we are. In my opinion, this will help us find someone who truly accepts who we are, and if that person enters our lives, he or she will undoubtedly be there to listen to us cry when we encounter challenges.

  • @DagocRodelR.-ow6lw
    @DagocRodelR.-ow6lw 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, I experience hiding my true self, especially in my problems and in situations where I have problems in life, because they don't even understand what you went through. Also, I am concerned about their impression or what they think about me; therefore, I just hide my true self in order to have this good impression.

  • @angelamonteza-r6z
    @angelamonteza-r6z 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I hide my true self sometimes because I'm worried that I am unloveable or there are things about me that people will find unacceptable. I might feel that I'd d be rejected by the people if they knew the inner truth about me. So, I hide my true feelings, actions, or beliefs in an attempt to uphold a good picture. But now I realized that hiding my true self is not good for me because perfection doesn’t exist. My true self understands I'm not perfect, there is no need to put so much pressure on myself. I accepted every aspect of myself. My imperfections are part of my individuality. Not one person is the same. If they don't like me for who I am, I don't really care I'm not born to please anyone.

  • @clarkeufemiano-kz8fv
    @clarkeufemiano-kz8fv 11 місяців тому

    The speaker acknowledges past self-hiding due to high standards, but now recognizes the importance of genuine self-expression for satisfying relationships and personal growth.

  • @kyleetv1568
    @kyleetv1568 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I've hide my true self many times in a situation where I am afraid that I might be judged by someone especially in today's generation were the standards are too high to achieve but I don't often hide my true self, I am more showy on who I really am because that is what I should act and also because that is who I really am.

  • @gelliefaithacierto-lp6vh
    @gelliefaithacierto-lp6vh 11 місяців тому +2

    Yes, I've experienced hiding my true self, specially when I'am surrounded by those people I didn't really know. Wearing my mask is not bad, because it helps me avoid judgement especially in today's generation.

    • @decerieTabor
      @decerieTabor 11 місяців тому

      i agree, because i also experience it.

    • @aldriancolezamoras
      @aldriancolezamoras 11 місяців тому

      Yes , I agree because we have secrets or things we don't want others to know.

    • @ma.gesellalcover
      @ma.gesellalcover 11 місяців тому

      yes indeed, because its not easy to be judge nowadays, one small mistake can destroy everything.

  • @andrelouatillo5428
    @andrelouatillo5428 11 місяців тому +1

    Living in this world and encountering different people was inevitable for me to hide my true self. I tend to conceal my true personality to protect myself from the prejudices and discrimination of others. I feared the most to be judged by other people since their judgments influenced me on how I perceived myself. I became a people pleaser so that they could accept me and for me to feel a sense of belongingness. Eventually, this trait of mine led me to feel drained in my emotional and mental aspects before I started to embrace who I am. I have learned that for people to accept you, you must first accept yourself. In this way, I started to have good relationships with other people and with myself.

    • @DJNeniel
      @DJNeniel 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you, that we always encounter different people and it's hard to adjust ourselves if we hide our true self of not

  • @catsstevenbatas-em3wv
    @catsstevenbatas-em3wv 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I frequently conceal who I really am in one way or another. As an ambivert, I wear a mask to blend in and prevent criticism or rejection from those in my social network. I used to think that by acting a certain way, people would like me more and pay attention to what I had to say about myself. But now I see how important it is to remain faithful to who I really am.

  • @rosemarielmelencion-vh1nv
    @rosemarielmelencion-vh1nv 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experienced hiding my true self on certain occasions. It often occurs when I feel insecure or fear judgment from others. I have learned that by embracing my authenticity, I can cultivate genuine connections and live a more fulfilling life.

    • @mheoantonio-sq6by
      @mheoantonio-sq6by 11 місяців тому

      I agree with her because sometimes we need to hide ourselves for the others because of their judgements.

  • @jenvalerievlogs4292
    @jenvalerievlogs4292 11 місяців тому

    Yes I do have an experience of hiding my true self, the reason why I often hide my true self for various reasons is that a fear of judgment or rejection, societal expectations, and as well as a self-protection. And sometimes I may feel vulnerable when revealing my true self. However, authenticity and self-acceptance can lead to more fulfilling relationships and personal growth, and it can also help you to express yourself.

  • @jamhertyronbesagas-dk7mc
    @jamhertyronbesagas-dk7mc 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experienced moments where I felt compelled to conceal certain aspects of myself. This often stemmed from a fear of judgment or a desire to fit in, which made me hesitant to express my genuine thoughts or feelings. However, I've learned that embracing authenticity can lead to more meaningful connections and a greater sense of self-acceptance.

    • @annaleahbongcales9218
      @annaleahbongcales9218 11 місяців тому

      I totally agree with your comment because if you embrace your true self you can have the freedom and can build connections.

  • @wilsonamancio-pi9ox
    @wilsonamancio-pi9ox 11 місяців тому +1

    yes, I experienced hiding my true personality because I was afraid of the judgment of other people, especially my friends and I considered them like brothers. because people judge us when we are different from them so if we don't want to be judged we should adapt to them. and sometimes putting on a mask protects us from this cruel world a world full of judgments and judgments on us.

    • @leojametulingin3893
      @leojametulingin3893 11 місяців тому

      Agree because it's relatable to my experiences as well.

    • @dotilapia
      @dotilapia 11 місяців тому

      Yes, it's crucial to recognize that keeping one's genuine self hidden can harm one's emotional well-being, sense of self-worth, and general wellbeing. Internal turmoil, a lack of sincerity, and a sense of isolation might result from it. Acceptance, inclusive societies, and supportive surroundings may all be extremely important in fostering a sense of safety and comfort for people to express who they truly are.

  • @leojametulingin3893
    @leojametulingin3893 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I hide my true self sometimes due to many reasons such as fear of judgement and the desire to fit in any social group but I manage to expose my true self little by little by participating in group activity.

  • @louisongimenez-nd4wc
    @louisongimenez-nd4wc Рік тому +2

    Have you ever experienced hiding your true ? Why?
    Yes, I experienced hiding my True self because I am afraid to be judged by other people. In every move we did the surroundings judge me immediately so this is the reason why I'm hiding my true self.

  • @JulesLagumbay-rp4yl
    @JulesLagumbay-rp4yl 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, Sometimes I hide my true self specially to those people that I don't really know because of various reasons such as Im afraid to be judged and receive negative feedbacks.

    • @CYRIELGOPIO
      @CYRIELGOPIO 11 місяців тому

      Yes I agree because it is very hard to vibe and express your true self to someone that you don't also know how they would react to you.

  • @lomongo.jay629
    @lomongo.jay629 11 місяців тому +1

    yes, I've experienced hiding my true self specially when i am with the people i didn't like in terms of attitude and specially when i am sorrounded by the people i didn't know or comfortable with.

  • @mheoantonio-sq6by
    @mheoantonio-sq6by 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, I've experienced hiding my true me especially when when I'm not comfortable with people, I'm so very talkative when I'm comfortable with people. Hiding my true me is not easy for me because I need to find someone that I can vibes through my craziest things I do.

    • @AldrenMontilla-t2r
      @AldrenMontilla-t2r 11 місяців тому

      Exactly! all just we need is those people who are safe to deal with, it is okay to have few but real ones!.

  • @davenapalcruz-ps5ks
    @davenapalcruz-ps5ks 11 місяців тому +1

    On occasion, when I'm around someone or in a situation that makes me feel uncomfortable, I do disguise my true personality to protect myself from being judged by others.

  • @NeilJohnR.Paragoso-gu4sj
    @NeilJohnR.Paragoso-gu4sj 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, I have experience hiding my true self especially when meeting new people as I don't want to be judged and criticized by them. I sometimes do this with my friends as to hide my true feelings, thoughts and even real expressions just for me to be accepted by them.

    • @keyyanaa
      @keyyanaa 11 місяців тому

      Yes, I agree! sometimes you really need to hide your true self just to fit and not be judged in to judgemental society.

    • @itsmejian5770
      @itsmejian5770 11 місяців тому

      yes , i relate and i agree with you

    • @JulesLagumbay-rp4yl
      @JulesLagumbay-rp4yl 11 місяців тому

      yes I do agree, because we can't blame other people if they are afraid to be judged or to receive negative feedback.

    • @jhonpaultuplano
      @jhonpaultuplano 11 місяців тому

      YES I AGREE BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT WE DIDNT KNOW JUDGE US

  • @LudyleneLacida-lc6ki
    @LudyleneLacida-lc6ki 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I hide myself to calm myself because I'm afraid of being judged by others.

  • @jasphermanuel9478
    @jasphermanuel9478 11 місяців тому

    Yes because sometimes we need it and i agree that for a purpose for our self to not be use of someone and for a wiser choice

  • @CYRIELGOPIO
    @CYRIELGOPIO 11 місяців тому

    Yes, in a situation where I am sad and not feeling well because I don't want others to worry about me.

  • @margarettegalang
    @margarettegalang 11 місяців тому

    yes, I hide my true self every time I meet new people because I'm afraid of their judgments and I don't want them to misinterpret me especially since I'm really shy and I have a hard time socializing and I always stress myself because of the goal or the thinking that they should make a good impression on me so I hide my true self.

  • @KylaCabanas
    @KylaCabanas 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I've experienced hiding my true self because in our generation now there are many people who are in the good in the front but when you turn your back you are the one who does bad things and we don't know what kind of behaviours we are talking about so we have to hide our true self.

  • @kharlogalve2002
    @kharlogalve2002 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experienced hiding my genuine self due to uncertainty and fear of not being accepted, particularly in today's generation. Wearing masks is one of the ways I shield my emotions and inner lives. However, it is critical to be genuine to ourselves and endeavor to show who we are, even if this means that not everyone will approve.

  • @christopherreyramoran
    @christopherreyramoran 11 місяців тому

    Yes,I have hidden my true self at times, mainly to fit in or avoid judgment. In social situations, I concealed my interests and opinions to avoid being different. Fear of rejection led to this masking. It's important to find a balance between protecting yourself and being authentic. Embracing your true self can indeed lead to more genuine connections and personal happiness. It's a journey towards self-acceptance and can be incredibly rewarding in the long run.

    • @ChuChes-e8u
      @ChuChes-e8u 11 місяців тому

      Yes i agree on what are you telling hiding your true self just to fit in.

    • @heroelecho4608
      @heroelecho4608 11 місяців тому

      yes I agree because the world is full of toxic people

  • @earljayembuscado6643
    @earljayembuscado6643 11 місяців тому

    Sometimes, hiding my true self helps me to become stronger. I hide it because for me it helps me to ease the pain that I have experienced. Whenever I feel sad I am not capable enough to tell my true feelings to others because I am used to share my feelings on myself only. Also I am not an expressive person so I used to hide my true self sometimes.

  • @irenebernadetteanosa
    @irenebernadetteanosa 11 місяців тому

    Yes, there are instances that I hide my true self because I just feel like hiding my true self. I have different personalities and I present a particular personality that depends on who I am with. I'm doing it for privacy and my sense of personal boundaries.

  • @eltonpangan-we1gh
    @eltonpangan-we1gh 11 місяців тому

    Yes, i have experienced hiding my true self, i am a person who loves to tell stories and jokes. I also have many thoughts i like to share with my close friends. I also sometimes talk too much and joke around. However, i dont feel comfortable showing my true self around new people because I'm afraid they wont like me

  • @JonelNiones-cx3fh
    @JonelNiones-cx3fh 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have in the past pretended to be someone I wasn't. I did this because I was worried about what people would think of me and wanted to live up to their expectations of me. I believed that if I behaved a certain way, people would like me more and pay attention to what I had to say about myself.

  • @JemuelIsrael-z9c
    @JemuelIsrael-z9c 11 місяців тому

    I experienced hiding my true self to others to protect my true self. I was afraid of being judged and fulminated for being who I am especially to those individuals who are expecting a lot from me and to those I just met recently. For me, hiding my true self is one of the best ways to avoid disappointments and criticism from others. Those fear and trepidation that I experience most of the times leads to low self-esteem, social anxiety and even insecurities that are really threatening when it comes to how I should accept myself honestly. Furthermore, hiding one's true self can sometimes be a survival strategy, it often comes at cost my mental and emotional well-being. However, liberating to embrace true selves can foster more genuine connections and personal happiness.

    • @kharlogalve2002
      @kharlogalve2002 11 місяців тому

      Yes I agree you should not hide your true self.

  • @ericamontadas7312
    @ericamontadas7312 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experienced hiding my true self from others at times. The reason behind this behavior usually stems from a fear of judgment or rejection. When I am unsure or insecure about certain aspects of my personality, beliefs, or interests, I may choose to conceal them in order to fit in or avoid potential conflict. It is often driven by a desire to be accepted and to maintain positive relationships with others, even if it means sacrificing my authentic self-expression temporarily. However, I understand that true freedom and happiness lie in embracing who I truly am, and I strive to overcome this fear of judgment and display my genuine self more frequently.

    • @christianjolzcanales
      @christianjolzcanales 11 місяців тому

      That's wonderful to hear! It takes a lot of courage to embrace your true self and overcome the fear of being judged. Honoring your own authenticity can lead to a greater sense of happiness and fulfillment. Remember, you are unique and it's important to celebrate your individuality. If you ever need support or have any questions, feel free to reach out.

  • @iangallegos4332
    @iangallegos4332 11 місяців тому

    Yes, hiding my true self is important to these days and in this generation because some of people will take you from granted for being kind and being genuine people will leave you when you show love to them when you genuinely love them and give them all you have thats why for me now is important to were a mask to protect yourself from being hurt.

  • @SamanthaNicoleMaureal-b7j
    @SamanthaNicoleMaureal-b7j 4 години тому

    If your are a person Have you ever experienced hiding your true self? Why?
    Yes, I think everyone has felt the same on me the need to hide their true selves at some point. It could be because of fear of judgment, pressure to conform, or simply wanting to protect ourselves.

  • @jhonpaultuplano
    @jhonpaultuplano 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I also experienced it. I hide myself because there are things that I really can't show them. Maybe I'm shy. Like my emotions, usually my inner part is different from my outer part.

  • @ChristinePaulinePañaCharol
    @ChristinePaulinePañaCharol 11 місяців тому

    Yes I have experienced hiding my true self, But not every time, there are instances in our life that we have to prentend who we are in ourder to belong a group. But for me this is very rare. I show my true self whether it is my friends, family or other people.

  • @princessacierto-yy1fj
    @princessacierto-yy1fj 11 місяців тому

    yes, I experienced hiding my true self because I was afraid that people might discriminate against me because nowadays many people are not respected because of their genders and life situations so I chose to hide my true self to avoid discrimination against myself

  • @JolzCanales-uu2sb
    @JolzCanales-uu2sb 11 місяців тому

    I've had to conceal my authentic self from others in order to keep it safe. I was worried that people would judge and criticize me for being who I am, especially those who have high expectations of me and those I have only recently met. I find that one of the best ways to protect myself from disappointment and criticism from others is to hide my genuine personality. The worry and fear I frequently feel contribute to low self-esteem, social anxiety, and even insecurities that seriously jeopardize my ability to accept myself as I am. Additionally, although disguising one's true nature might occasionally be a survival tactic, doing so frequently comes at the expense of my mental and emotional health. However, accepting one's genuine self can be freeing.

    • @shellamaesilvano-rv7es
      @shellamaesilvano-rv7es 11 місяців тому

      yes its true,because its hard that kind of situation especially in time when you are in deep sadness, anxiety and depression and your afraid to talk people because they might judge you

  • @arjiealbarico5668
    @arjiealbarico5668 11 місяців тому

    I experience also hiding my self to others, Also by hiding what on me and what the thing that should not be know by others thats why keeping my self hide is the one of my greatest thing to me.Hiding also can keep me away from critisim and dissapointment.

  • @RoilesKentAdrian-ro3ze
    @RoilesKentAdrian-ro3ze 11 місяців тому +2

    Yes, I have in the past pretended to be someone I wasn't. I did this because I was worried about what people would think of me and wanted to live up to their expectations of me. I believed that if I behaved a certain way, people would like me more and pay attention to what I had to say about myself. But now I see how crucial it is to stay loyal to who I truly am. I've discovered that being open and genuine not only benefits me but also improves my relationships with other people. It also reveals who I really am. Being authentically me makes me feel incredibly good, and it also makes it easier for me to connect with others.

  • @MichaelLomotos-ng2ec
    @MichaelLomotos-ng2ec 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experience hiding my true identity or my self because I don't want to be judged by others. Sometimes I do this because there's always someone or people cannot understand your situation that's why i hide my expression or feelings sometimes, just to join with them.

  • @christianbrigoli-ns7ws
    @christianbrigoli-ns7ws 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I experienced hiding my true self because of avoiding judgment or being uncomfortable with someone. And also to avoid conflict and to protect themselves from emotional harm, I wear mask to keep peace and make them feel comfortable with me.

    • @mikylaasmolo-e9g
      @mikylaasmolo-e9g 11 місяців тому

      Agree, it's better wear a mask of hiding true self to keep peace between you and the others.

    • @FrancisClimaJr
      @FrancisClimaJr 11 місяців тому

      I agree! Pretending that you are belong just to make a peace.

  • @RichardGlennMagdadaro
    @RichardGlennMagdadaro 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I sometimes feel the need to hide my true personality, especially when I am with people I don't know. This is because many people today judge one other quickly based on what they see and what they hear from others rather than approaching each other to solve problem. Our greatest weapon against a world full of discrimination and judgment is to hide our true selves.

    • @iraclarkcatigay
      @iraclarkcatigay 11 місяців тому

      yes i agree, because we all experienced that kind of instances and as a human we dont want to be hurt.

    • @jamhertyronbesagas-dk7mc
      @jamhertyronbesagas-dk7mc 11 місяців тому

      Agree

  • @jazzymagbanta-cb7nj
    @jazzymagbanta-cb7nj Рік тому

    Yes, i hide my true selves for various reasons, such as fear of judgment, societal pressure, or the desire to fit in. It's a common as human experience, and seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can help address my feelings.

    • @ArtDustineDumanto
      @ArtDustineDumanto Рік тому

      Certainly! we both have same views and perspective towards our psychological perspective of the self and I am glad to know that I am not alone of feeling this.

    • @baronfuertes-sx8or
      @baronfuertes-sx8or 11 місяців тому

      Exactly, all just we need is those people who are safe to deal with, it is okay to have few but real ones.

  • @LEOHJIMENA
    @LEOHJIMENA 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I've experienced hiding my true self because of judgement. I'm afraid of being judged, criticized, or rejected by others for their beliefs, values, or unconventional knowledge.

    • @jenvalerievlogs4292
      @jenvalerievlogs4292 11 місяців тому

      Yes I agree on your own experience, but don't hesitate to believe in yourself, and always think a right thing, as long as you didn't hurt others.

  • @AlbinSiarot
    @AlbinSiarot 11 місяців тому

    yes i experienced hiding my true self from the people around me except to my family because i don't want others to know who i really am because my personality is depend on their behavior

  • @lovelymagbanta-wp4jm
    @lovelymagbanta-wp4jm 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I’ve experienced hiding myself because I feel that others are quick to judge me based on my thoughts, habits, and favorite things. Hiding our true selves can prevent us from truly expressing or feeling ourselves. We may wear masks to face certain situations or hide fears and weaknesses.However, hiding our true selves can cause emotional exhaustion and mental breakdowns towards us.

    • @michaelsabuero5876
      @michaelsabuero5876 11 місяців тому

      i agree because Most of the people judge base on what they see

    • @Vanessiooo
      @Vanessiooo 11 місяців тому

      I been there too

  • @aldriancolezamoras
    @aldriancolezamoras 11 місяців тому

    Yes , sometimes I have to hide myself because I feel worried about what others might think of me. I hide my true feelings, thoughts, or even who I am because I just want to fit in or make people comfortable with me .

    • @jhonharveyvale-so6xi
      @jhonharveyvale-so6xi 11 місяців тому

      Yes i agree because hiding your true self will also help you to prevent criticism and judgment

  • @chrstnlscna
    @chrstnlscna 11 місяців тому

    Yes, i hide my identity before because that's how it is for me i don't really need to give all my information to someone that im not really close but as time goes by you need to express yourself to help yourself grow and mature

  • @rosevielarellano5110
    @rosevielarellano5110 11 місяців тому

    The self is made up of numerous ccomponents, such as
    self-awareness, self-esteem,
    self-knowledge, and
    self-perception. In order to become more socially
    acceptable in society, people can change, add to, or modify any
    aspect of theirselves.
    In the question about if I already experienced hiding my true self?
    Its definitely yes, I had a experienced in hiding yoursel in order to be fit in the society. I cannot deny the fact that I lie to myself, to people and other that I encountered everyday. It's really hard to hide who truly are.

  • @cassidyjr.semilla595
    @cassidyjr.semilla595 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, I’ve experienced hiding my true self at a very young age. Grown more maturely than others both the actions and thoughts. I believe that people all have the same reasons why they choose to hide their selves and I’m one of the few who have this kind of reason. Fear of Judgement, Emotional and Mental Health Protection, Maintaining Privacy, Self-Image, and most commonly Insecurity. These are the most common reasons I choose to hide my true self from anyone and myself.

    • @frendzelmarkcomendador-hf4mw
      @frendzelmarkcomendador-hf4mw 11 місяців тому

      I agree on you, because same as you i experience to hide my true self just to belong in judgemental society

    • @arnelmagdagasang5010
      @arnelmagdagasang5010 11 місяців тому

      I agree

    • @iangallegos4332
      @iangallegos4332 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you, because I've experienced hiding myself to protect my privacy and other things.

  • @ma.gesellalcover
    @ma.gesellalcover 11 місяців тому +1

    Everyone has been hiding their true selves for a lot of reasons. and until now, I have hidden my true self because of the fear that I might be taken advantage of by others and might be a bit different about lots of things that I might be called weird. a fear that led me to experience hiding, then became a daily habit. I have not fully understood myself, my talents, feelings, and personality, and there is a social pressure to experience the thoughts of: am I doing great for such individuals to fit in, do I deserve them, or is my energy enough and giving. Though I'm not afraid of losing anyone, they were the ones who gave me a mask on how to treat them and a personality to portray.

    • @christopherreyramoran
      @christopherreyramoran 11 місяців тому

      I experience also hiding my self to others, Also by hiding what on me and what the thing that should not be know by others thats why keeping my self hide is the one of my greatest thing to me

  • @rushelannescalona8912
    @rushelannescalona8912 11 місяців тому

    Yes, before i was hiding my true self because of the fact that i am scared to be judge by others, i dont like people say many things about me, but then i realize that whatever i do, they still have something to say. So i started not to mind them and enjoy being me.

    • @marichusantiago-b4z
      @marichusantiago-b4z 11 місяців тому

      YES I AGREE WITH YOU THATS WHAT I DO WHEN I HEAR SOMETHING SO BAD ABOUT ME ILL JUST DONT MND THEM AND BE MYSELF

  • @kengabriellumbay-tz9kp
    @kengabriellumbay-tz9kp 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experience to hide my true self just to fit in. I have many personalities it depends who's group of friends I'm with, I have different personalities around my parents, best friend, old friend, new friend, and people that I'm not close to.

  • @jayvensabior1300
    @jayvensabior1300 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I've experienced hiding my true self. Because I was afraid to reveal the truth to them. because they might just judge me and laugh at me, because I'm sad. That they'll just tell me that I'm a drama person. Being an introverted person, i always hides this from them. I just show them that I'm always happy, even if inside I'm sad.

  • @AndrieReyesBalat-bw2wi
    @AndrieReyesBalat-bw2wi 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I did in fact experience that.
    twice, there was a period of time when I
    so terrified of being judged for who I am
    especially when people dislike me
    who won't accept me for who I am
    am. But I understood that we
    we must promote who we are
    also, we don't require everyone's
    simply an improvement
    our own, but we must
    to assess how little we are
    is zone.

    • @rizasaromenez6935
      @rizasaromenez6935 11 місяців тому

      Sometimes we pretend to others even though it's hard because we're afraid to judge by other people

    • @rogergorecho4764
      @rogergorecho4764 11 місяців тому

      I agree, the fear of judgements is what really lead us to hide our true self

  • @FrancisClimaJr
    @FrancisClimaJr 11 місяців тому

    Yes, it happens all the time, I need to hide my true self because, I don't want to hear a judgement about myself, all I want is to be happy.

  • @ErickjayBitangga
    @ErickjayBitangga 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I've had to hide my true self in the past because of the high standards that our age has now, but as time has passed, I've come to understand how crucial it is to be genuine and express myself honestly when I feel comfortable doing so because doing so can result in more satisfying relationships and personal development.

  • @maryjeanefebre1718
    @maryjeanefebre1718 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I experienced hiding my real identity not to my parents but to my friend because I thought they might not like me , and don't want to became friends with me anymore. But overall I am happy, because of that first encounter of my friends And me we became really good friends right now. For now I can show my real identity to them because they are a good person and never judge you on how you are instead they cheer you up when you have a problems .

  • @itsmejian5770
    @itsmejian5770 11 місяців тому +1

    It is important to note that these perspectives are not mutually exclusive and are often intertwined in shaping our self-concept. Additionally, there are other psychological perspectives that contribute to our understanding of the self, including cognitive and humanistic approaches. By studying these different perspectives, psychologists gain a multifaceted view of the complex nature of the self and its formation.

  • @annaleahbongcales9218
    @annaleahbongcales9218 11 місяців тому

    I experienced hiding my true self against others to protect myself. My fear of being judged is so big and I don't want others to be disappointed with me with with their expectations. But being able to survive everything on everyday can be liberating and can make yourself truly happy.

  • @jorexbelizar9796
    @jorexbelizar9796 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I experienced to hide my true self to people newly met, because I am afraid to judge by them about my personality.

  • @shanearagones5924
    @shanearagones5924 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I do occasionally hide my genuine identity from people with whom I have a difficult time getting along because I'm afraid they'll reject me if they find out who I really am. But I've come to understand that it's better to be truthful for ourselves since this is who we are and it's just us.

  • @jhonardlagaras-my8jg
    @jhonardlagaras-my8jg 11 місяців тому

    Yes, There have been times when I felt the need to hide my true self due to societal expectations and fear of judgment. I get anxious thinking about being judged because in reality people judge so quickly based on what they see or what they hear. Also I am concerned about their impression or what they think about me, therefore I just hide my true self in order to have this good impression.

    • @almonte.vincelionel
      @almonte.vincelionel 11 місяців тому

      I agree with this, because I also hide my true self because of the fear of judgment.

  • @johncarlcoliano-or2bz
    @johncarlcoliano-or2bz 11 місяців тому +1

    I do, on occasion, disguise my true nature when I'm around someone or in a situation that makes me feel uncomfortable in order to protect myself from being judged by others.

  • @savannacanon605
    @savannacanon605 11 місяців тому

    -Have you ever experienced hiding your true self? Why?
    Yes, I have experienced hiding my true self in the past. Because I thought they would not like me or respect me enough if I portrayed my real self - I’d be considered too boring as I focused on prioritizing my own space over my social life. And personally I was afraid of rejection before, the feeling to be left out and to be called ‘killjoy’. For those variety of reasons, we conceal who we truly are. We will all eventually have to confront the challenge of sharing our innermost selves and secrets with others.

  • @nikkajaneheludo-jr1ht
    @nikkajaneheludo-jr1ht 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I've experienced hiding my true self because im afraid of being judged by others.

  • @iraclarkcatigay
    @iraclarkcatigay 11 місяців тому

    yes i experienced hiding my true self by hiding my attitude to others and i change my attitude if im not comfortable in my society because i dont want to be hurt and i dont want to think that i dont belong with them to keep my feelings im hiding my true self to what attitude they prefer because im afraid to be judge.

  • @luzilot6608
    @luzilot6608 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I hide my true self sometimes when im with the people im not comfortable with or should I say some people that is new because Im scared that they will judge me because of my attitude. But when Im with the persons I love I will show my true self.

  • @michaeljohnazuelo-sy7xe
    @michaeljohnazuelo-sy7xe 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have experienced hiding my true self for the reason I have afraid of being judge by the other's. So I have to pretend someone I wasn't, to hide my true self and to avoid judgement or rejected by the people around me.

    • @jhonardlagaras-my8jg
      @jhonardlagaras-my8jg 11 місяців тому

      I agree, because people's are going to judge you if they see that you are wrong

  • @alvenpacquiao-yj9jg
    @alvenpacquiao-yj9jg 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I analyze who and what I really am every day when I look in the mirror. I used to hide my true personality since there are so many judgmental individuals in our society today; no matter what you do, no matter how insignificant, they will judge you. I still hide my true self, especially from strangers, but if they get to know me well, they will see that I am a straightforward, humorous, and optimistic person. Now, however, I see that it's preferable to be open about who you are and what you stand for in order to win the love of others since, in my opinion, "How can other people love you if you can't love yourself?" I still conceal my true self, especially from strangers.

    • @heraldkim-gb9hl
      @heraldkim-gb9hl 11 місяців тому

      Yes i agree with you, about hiding youre true self to strangers.

  • @RHarveyV-09
    @RHarveyV-09 Рік тому +1

    Have you ever experienced hiding your true self?
    - Yes, I experienced hiding my true self. I usually hide my true self from people or someone I am uncomfortable with. I also hide my true self to cover my true feelings because I don't want to look pathetic and emotional in their eyes, and I believe that all of these are unpleasant to see. Being a man, it is very important for me to be observant, and hiding my true self is part of my plan for people who have a negative plan for me. I believe that there is someone who waits for the opportunity to bring us down, so I don't want to show my weakness. In that way, no one can predict my next steps.

    • @bintong9056
      @bintong9056 Рік тому

      I like your answer, that's why we need to hide our true self.

    • @simonsaren1162
      @simonsaren1162 Рік тому

      i agree my friemd😊

  • @michaelsabuero5876
    @michaelsabuero5876 11 місяців тому

    yes, i experience because i afraid of judging by others

  • @lemuellumanta-lf9yp
    @lemuellumanta-lf9yp 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, hiding my true self is something that I commonly do in one way or another. As an ambivert individual, I wear mask to fit in and avoid judgements or being rejected by the people in my social network.I believed that if I behaved a certain way, people would like me more and pay attention to what I had to say about myself. But now I see how crucial it is to stay loyal to who I truly am.

    • @GellanaCaalim-xw8lf
      @GellanaCaalim-xw8lf 11 місяців тому

      I agree, sometimes we are the one putting ourselves into a cave where we are not supposed to be in. And we are the one who can get out of our comfort zone and experience how beautiful the world is.

    • @JHUMZLAHOY
      @JHUMZLAHOY 11 місяців тому

      i agree to that because sometimes we low moral in our self to face other people.

  • @berwinvillasencio-fo1xo
    @berwinvillasencio-fo1xo 11 місяців тому

    Yes, every day I reflect on myself in the mirror to see who and what I really am. That's why I used to hide my true personality because in the world we live in today with a lot of judgmental people, everything you do, no matter how big or small they will judge you. But now I realize that it's better to show who and what you are so that other people will love you, because I believe that "How can other people love you if you can't love yourself". However, even now I still hide my true personality, especially from people I just met, but if they get to know me well, they will know that I am a simple, funny, and positive person

    • @princessjoycedondoy
      @princessjoycedondoy 11 місяців тому

      I agree, Your feedback on the importance of embracing one's authentic self and creating environments that value genuine self-expression is very relatable showing our true self help build confidence and we can understand more about ourselves if we first love oneself. PRINCESSJOYCE DONDOY BTLED 1A

    • @ellaluna5617
      @ellaluna5617 11 місяців тому

      Yes, I agree with you because like what you feel towards other people i feel it the same way too.

    • @andrebanaag-tk5zk
      @andrebanaag-tk5zk 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you we afraid what people think of us.

    • @BaguhinRhygnZyl
      @BaguhinRhygnZyl 11 місяців тому

      I agree with your statement brother because it's truly hard to find a trustworthy person in this world, thats why I don't show my true self to the people I've just met

  • @KristineMayCastaneda-xw3lr
    @KristineMayCastaneda-xw3lr Рік тому +3

    Have you ever experienced hiding your true self?Why?
    - Yes I've I've experienced hiding my true self it's not just once but a lot.For me it's appropriate to do this specially when I'm surrounded with the people that I didn't know the people that I'm not comfortable with. I've been hiding my true self because I know that even if I show them the real me they just going to judge me, like we all know that in this society many people will judge you even though you didn't do anything to them even though they didn't know you much better to hide my true self since they already judge me. I'm just going to show the real me to those people who appreciate me and can understand me.

    • @kimvillarubia_19
      @kimvillarubia_19 Рік тому

      I agree with you. Before I felt that way, I was hiding my true self because I always thought that if I showed others who I really am, they would judge or not accept me. But now I realize that it's important to show others who I really am, even if they don't like me. We need to think of people who like us, such as God and our family.

    • @jessamaecalipes641
      @jessamaecalipes641 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you! I also feel uncomfortable when i surrounded by people I don’t know because I am afraid being judged by them. Many people will judge you even though they don’t know anything about you, that’s the cruel side of our society

    • @altheamaeenghog8458
      @altheamaeenghog8458 11 місяців тому

      I agree. Even me i hide my true self just to fit in.

    • @yerame4641
      @yerame4641 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you 💯

  • @chairanicoleballares6944
    @chairanicoleballares6944 11 місяців тому

    Throughout life, there are moments when individuals feel the need to hide their true selves. This could be due to various reasons such as fear of judgment, societal expectations, or a desire to fit in. Personally, I have experienced hiding my true self on several occasions. One reason for hiding my true self is the fear of judgment from others. Society often imposes certain norms and standards that may not align with one's authentic self. For instance, I have concealed my passion for writing stories because it was seen as unconventional and not valued by my parents and they says that I don’t have a future for that. I tried my best to do everything I can but it seem so useless. I felt like i struggle for an air. The pressure is always within me and meeting their standards makes me more insecure.

  • @mariaellahbartiquin7184
    @mariaellahbartiquin7184 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, there are instances that I hide my true self because I believe it is what I must do. But not entirely hiding my true self but just adding a layer that serves as barrier for people not to see my true self. Sometimes it depends on a person I am with such as friends, classmates or family. I hide my true self out of anxiety and as precautions. I am afraid to be judged for who I am.

  • @JEPOYMILLAMA-ez5ey
    @JEPOYMILLAMA-ez5ey 11 місяців тому

    Yes, sometimes I hide the real me, when i meet people i don't know very well or when i feel uncomfortable around a person and also i try to hide it because i don't want to let the other people know my true attitude. But when i'm with my cousins i often show the real me.

  • @LaurenceOuano-c7s
    @LaurenceOuano-c7s Рік тому +1

    Have you ever experienced hiding your true self? why?
    - Yes, I can totally relate to that. There have been times when I felt the need to hide my true self, whether it was because of societal expectations or fear of judgment. It can be challenging to show your authentic self, but it's important to remember that being true to who you are is what truly matters. Embracing your uniqueness and individuality can lead to more fulfilling relationships and a greater sense of self-worth. It's a journey that takes time and courage, but it's worth it in the end.

    • @nheancaballero2714
      @nheancaballero2714 Рік тому +1

      Yes I agree you should not hide your true self . You should be proud of who you are.

  • @jaylora6460
    @jaylora6460 11 місяців тому

    yes, I experience hiding my true self because I'm afraid of being judged by other people.

  • @clarkstephenmacas-jt1bx
    @clarkstephenmacas-jt1bx 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have occasionally concealed who I really am, mostly to blend in or escape criticism. I covered my interests and viewpoints in social settings so as not to stand out. This masking was caused by rejection anxiety. But I've discovered that embracing honesty encourages sincere friendships, which makes me less likely to conceal my true self.

    • @kirbymorales-nn1kd
      @kirbymorales-nn1kd 11 місяців тому

      Agree

    • @michaelbagit
      @michaelbagit 11 місяців тому

      I can relate to your experience of hiding your true self to fit in or avoid criticism. It's something many of us do. It's good to hear that you've found that being honest can lead to better friendships. Thanks mate for sharing!

  • @jairusannbituin2954
    @jairusannbituin2954 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I often hide my true self when I'm around people I'm new to or people I'm not very familiar with.

  • @BaguhinRhygnZyl
    @BaguhinRhygnZyl 11 місяців тому

    Yes, I have tried to hide my true self to belong on a group of friends and because I am afraid to show my true self in order to protect myself from people that may use it as my weakness

  • @kirtjohnpurisima-ye5lm
    @kirtjohnpurisima-ye5lm 11 місяців тому

    yes.I experienced hiding myself specially when I'm not comfortable with that kind of person. I'm scared of being judge of people around me or their thoughts about my personality causing lack of confidence to socialize in this judgmental society.

    • @KenDexterDalisay
      @KenDexterDalisay 11 місяців тому

      I agree, because now in our time judgemental society is so common, like all people judge u by what they see.

  • @denbertboadilla1131
    @denbertboadilla1131 Рік тому

    I hide my true self for various reasons, such as fear of judgment, societal pressure, or self-protection.conforming and masking emotion

  • @ChuChes-e8u
    @ChuChes-e8u 11 місяців тому

    Yes i experience it many times hiding my true self because i am scared how people will see me and react the way i interact with them and i am shy on letting someone to open up for who i am.