8 Hard Skills that Pay Off Forever

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  • @ritarosa6824
    @ritarosa6824 2 роки тому +576

    For me: COOKING is the most important skill. It is a survival skill. It's a financial skill. It's a health skill. It's a social skill. It's a family skill. A single skill. It is really important not matter where you are in life.

    • @kestrel09
      @kestrel09 2 роки тому +23

      Definitely, and it’s something we need every day and multiple times daily. It saves money, can improve your health, and is wonderful human connector. I’ve alway enjoyed cooking and it’s a life lesson. My greatest lesson was cooking for large groups of people in a Buddhist community. It taught me to cook efficiently and cooking for my family after this experience has made it easier. It’s an art form and is continually recreated with the knowledge you’ve gained previously.

    • @zimprince9664
      @zimprince9664 2 роки тому +6

      Push comes to shove the cook stays😁

    • @sobean9309
      @sobean9309 2 роки тому +1

      @@kestrel09 could you share some tips you’ve learned from cooking for the Buddhist community?

    • @kestrel09
      @kestrel09 2 роки тому +2

      @@sobean9309 Prior to cooking for the community as ‘Tenzo’, I had always enjoyed cooking. Cooking for a large group is on another level and somewhat different. Large quantities cook differently. Slower to start and harder to halt when going. In my case, the meals were quite simple, soups, curries and salads. Every retreat we would cook a vegetarian lasagna for dinner at the end of day 3 of 7. This was the hardest day generally for the participants and would provide great comfort. My main tip is to keep it simple. When I was more ambitious, I would stress more and it would show in the food. Employing several ‘choppers’ also assisted well. There’s a book written by Dogen, Instructions for The Cook. It speaks about the state of mind when cooking. Funnily, as I became busier in the kitchen, and unable to sit in Zazen as much, I found that I was meditating just as much in this work. I recommend a few books which I drew recipes from: The Tassahara Recipe Book, The Zen Monastery Cookbook by Cheri Huber, and 3 Bowls. These also speak about community cooking practice. _()_

    • @sobean9309
      @sobean9309 2 роки тому +1

      @@kestrel09 thank you! really interesting to hear :)

  • @amanjotkaur674
    @amanjotkaur674 2 роки тому +2578

    8 skills in video are as follows:-
    • Risk assessment and decision making
    • Self analysis
    • Public speaking
    • Time management is life management
    • Personal finances and accounting basics
    • Self-soothing toolkit
    • Meta learning
    • Basic legal skills
    -Rights as a consumer
    -Rights as a worker
    -Rights as tenant
    This is just summary of video. Kindly watch the whole video for explanation of each point. She explains it really well. Thank you so much Mariana for such an amazing video

    • @SaiDinesh752
      @SaiDinesh752 2 роки тому +16

      Thank u so much for taking time to explain this in a nutshell😊❤

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +9

      Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @abdisajak1344
      @abdisajak1344 2 роки тому +6

      thanks for the summary

    • @amanjotkaur674
      @amanjotkaur674 2 роки тому +10

      Thank you so much for appreciation. It means a lot. People like you matter.

    • @ubiquitous9105
      @ubiquitous9105 2 роки тому +12

      Thanks for the notes! Makes it easier for the brain to process. Cheers
      PS. "Kindly" is incorrect English, do consider using "Please" or "Consider watching.."

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +1182

    Public speaking is such an underrated skill and so important to help with networking and getting out of your comfort zone. Love this list 💛

    • @vandermonke4178
      @vandermonke4178 2 роки тому +37

      I am really bad at this, my brain freezes everytime I talk to people. someday I'll get it right

    • @yj2754
      @yj2754 2 роки тому +36

      Honestly you deserve an award for watching every self-improvement/development related video, i see you everywhere-

    • @philippezevenberg1332
      @philippezevenberg1332 2 роки тому +11

      u everywhere

    • @whoreforcaffeine
      @whoreforcaffeine 2 роки тому +10

      What even is your daily routine? Using yt 24/7 😭

    • @rangtaluck
      @rangtaluck 2 роки тому +17

      @@yj2754 award for you too.... You've seen her everywhere cos you're always there too🤣🤣
      God bless you

  • @oxysoxos
    @oxysoxos 2 роки тому +389

    I would also add cooking. Especially healthy cooking. I know it doesn't exactly fit in this list since it is more of a very practical skill.
    But knowing what's good for you and how to get it on the table for you and your family will absolutely improve your health and quality of life.

    • @xanhinojosa2904
      @xanhinojosa2904 2 роки тому +13

      I know it's so important and it's mostly neglected by USA at least
      I wish my family ate healthier heh

    • @TheArtOfJerry
      @TheArtOfJerry 2 роки тому +7

      Cooking healthy is important

    • @dsstudio76
      @dsstudio76 2 роки тому +5

      It should be number one! 🇧🇷😌

    • @ritarosa6824
      @ritarosa6824 2 роки тому +3

      I was going to post the exact same thing! It's one of the most valuable skill in life, anywhere anytime.

    • @mitchellbaker4806
      @mitchellbaker4806 2 роки тому +2

      I would put this under personal finance. In my experience people don't know how to shop effectively for a good diet, without a lot of food waste.

  • @abyteofgeek
    @abyteofgeek 2 роки тому +323

    I would add negotiation, it's so important at work and in everyone's private life.

  • @neehara653
    @neehara653 2 роки тому +355

    1. Risk assessment & decision making 1:03
    2. Self-analysis 2:15
    3. public speaking 3:05
    4. Time management 3:47
    5. Personal finances & accounting basics 4:28
    6. Self-soothing 5:06
    7. Meta-learnig 5:53
    8. Basic legal skills 6:34

  • @euelianamaia
    @euelianamaia 2 роки тому +278

    Basic legal rights and personal finances should be part of every school curriculum definitely!!

    • @xanhinojosa2904
      @xanhinojosa2904 2 роки тому +3

      Yeah but it's not because education is just another business that doesn't care!!!!
      I am being pessimistic :]

  • @YOUAREAWSOMEBRO
    @YOUAREAWSOMEBRO 2 роки тому +8

    Hi I just wanted to say that at the begging of the year my teacher encouraged me to participate to a public speaking competition I didn’t know what it was and I’m an introvert after a lot of hard work I’ve done I won the first place 🥇🤩🥳

  • @a_rendelucci
    @a_rendelucci 2 роки тому +18

    Juro que não tava esperando vc falar em pt hahahaha amei! Vídeo maravilhoso, obrigada

  • @fruitfulbeing
    @fruitfulbeing 2 роки тому +50

    Loved this video, lots of helpful content. Time stamps to help you get back to particular topics you are looking for.
    1.06 - risk assessment & decision making
    2.18 - self analysis
    3.07 - public speaking
    3.50 - time management
    4.29 - personal finances & accounting
    5.08 - self soothing
    5.55 - meta learning
    6.36 - basic legal skills

  • @Growwithzeel
    @Growwithzeel 2 роки тому +7

    *Self Analysis is what helped me realize my needs for self improvement and Productivity start my UA-cam channel all based on that*

  • @bunnyfrosting1744
    @bunnyfrosting1744 2 роки тому +41

    I had to run away from home at 17, I’m 22 and life still feels relentlessly confusing, extremely difficult and like I’ll always be drowning. I’m disabled so it feels extra hard, teaching myself everything I wasn’t taught growing up. I hope I can figure out a way to make this things possible for myself

    • @kasaijinloe8524
      @kasaijinloe8524 2 роки тому +3

      You can do it !! -a disabled 24yr old feeling the same way and showing support !!

    • @musiclearner6799
      @musiclearner6799 2 роки тому +1

      You are strong

    • @stephaniearevalo3698
      @stephaniearevalo3698 2 роки тому +1

      Hi just don't give up, try and try 💛✨

    • @asharawat486
      @asharawat486 Рік тому

      I'd give you a hug if i could. Don't give up. You can do it, i promise. Find a way out.

  • @Mubarakaahshakirah
    @Mubarakaahshakirah 2 роки тому +61

    1- Risk assessment & decision making
    2- Self-analysis
    3- Public speaking
    4- Time management
    5- Personal finances and accounting basics
    6- Self-soothing 😭
    7- Meta-learning
    8- Basic legal skills

  • @daniqsaa
    @daniqsaa 2 роки тому +30

    Love how grounded this is. I feel like it's not often we find this kind of content on youtube 💯

  • @onkarHINDU
    @onkarHINDU 2 роки тому +8

    1:07 risk assessment & decision making
    2:17 self-analysis
    3:06 public speaking
    3:51 time management
    4:29 personal finances & accounting basics
    5:08 self-soothing
    5:55 meta-learning
    6:36 basic legal skills

  • @xKejt
    @xKejt 2 роки тому +17

    I know it’s probably the least important thing about the video, but I love the little Elsa moment 😂 your doggo is the cutest! Very useful skills, we can all benefit from them, despite our different paths in life. Thank you 🙏🤍

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому

      hehe riight so adorable! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @hotlineoperator
    @hotlineoperator 2 роки тому +40

    Learn how to learn is good, but there is still one skill what I struggle to master - how actually do things, even when you know how to do them there is some procedures what help to organize workflow and motivation - but I have not yet learn that.

  • @vanessamano5523
    @vanessamano5523 2 роки тому +4

    The best part is she talking in portuguese with the dog. kkkkkkkkk So swet! I'm brasilian and watch you for pratice. I love all the videos! Thanks!

  • @KingaGorski
    @KingaGorski 2 роки тому +2

    Definitely not the skills typically shared in these types of videos-honestly these are all so critical. The ability to self-soothe will, by itself, change a person's life.

  • @TheMavenDojo
    @TheMavenDojo 10 місяців тому

    One that helped me a lot from my teen years moving forward was typing "the correct way". Ever since I learned it, like 15 years ago, I've had a 70-80 words per minute average when typing.
    So helpful when taking notes and just writing in general.

  • @MaizaHyodo
    @MaizaHyodo 2 роки тому +6

    I was wondering where I knew that accent from until I saw you scold the dog in Portuguese 😂 Muito sucesso Mariana, também sou brasileira e é muito bom ver o pessoal daqui produzindo conteúdo de qualidade 🥰

  • @ayeshaali2324
    @ayeshaali2324 2 роки тому +20

    I love how original your content always is! Another informative and well presented video! Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @meharbrar3132
    @meharbrar3132 2 роки тому

    from my experience : drawing, cooking, driving, exercising, yoga, meditation, studying, writing, reading and time management

  • @ndumi-light
    @ndumi-light 2 роки тому +2

    Knowing how to calm your dog so you can be productive is a very important skill. 👌🏽💛

  • @WEEDobite
    @WEEDobite 2 роки тому +1

    Self soothing is so important. Tough times in life are guaranteed, I wish I learned breath work earlier.

  • @EzzyDT
    @EzzyDT 2 роки тому +19

    Thanks for the video. I love the information you provided. Could you please make a more in-depth video on each skill individually. Thanks again

  • @fruitfulbeing
    @fruitfulbeing 2 роки тому +21

    Really helpful video Mariana. Lots of skills here that are not taught @ school, but are critical for living life well 😀

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому

      yes thats so true! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @ayaaharras9386
    @ayaaharras9386 2 роки тому

    I'm so grateful because Public Speaking is my gift 🤗

  • @ntrovertsdiary
    @ntrovertsdiary 2 роки тому +3

    Self analysis no doubt that it is an amazing and highly important skill. Thanks 👍

  • @serenade723
    @serenade723 2 роки тому +5

    Chester was a risk you couldn't have planned for 😂 This is a lovely video, thank you 💕

  • @AdrianMark
    @AdrianMark 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this video. I especially loved that you talked about self soothing, in the context of people who do not necessarily have access to professional help. It is such an important skill to be able to manage your emotions in stressful situations and in daily life. Ps. I absolutely agree with basic legal skills being a necessity. That's why I took my law degree as a working adult.

  • @Londonlamborghini
    @Londonlamborghini 2 роки тому +1

    This is so affirming because I literally have all these skills and use them daily

  • @RevenueRocketeers
    @RevenueRocketeers 2 роки тому +1

    Meta - learning & self- soothing is just great

  • @diwashrai
    @diwashrai 2 роки тому +2

    Please make a follow up video on these skills on how to master them.maybe some books you would recommend.

  • @Improvemypronunciation
    @Improvemypronunciation 2 роки тому +1

    I can definitely say public speaking is definitely a useful skill to learn and is used so often throughout our lifespan.

  • @suleimanabubakar2525
    @suleimanabubakar2525 2 роки тому +1

    I subscribed within the first 5 seconds of this video. And it's my first time on this channel.

  • @descongestionante_nasal
    @descongestionante_nasal 2 роки тому +6

    Eu assistindo o vídeo pela primeira vez no canal aqui e de repente: chester já passou, dorme hahahaha adorei!

    • @sleekyissleepy
      @sleekyissleepy 2 роки тому

      Né kkkkk

    • @juliosilvacoutinho
      @juliosilvacoutinho 2 роки тому +1

      Ela fala ingles tão bem que eu fui pego desprevenido quando ela falou Português 😂😂😂

  • @LaurentRodriguez19
    @LaurentRodriguez19 2 роки тому +4

    Can you make a video on the basic rights we have as a consumer, worker, and homeowner?

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому

      that would be interesting! hey btw laurent, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @yasminbarrow7563
    @yasminbarrow7563 Рік тому

    Até me assustei quando começou a falar português, não havia notado nenhum sotaque!
    Eu amei a lista! Muito obrigada 💜

  • @rajitspdstr
    @rajitspdstr 2 роки тому

    Add cooking in this list along with Energy management(Food, Sleep, Exercise)

  • @justbeingfrank6342
    @justbeingfrank6342 2 роки тому +1

    Phenomenal content. Glad this popped up in my feed.

  • @YasinNabi
    @YasinNabi 2 роки тому +2

    if you are not making money while sleep then you are in the bad situation, just you feel numb and don't feel it. a fellow creator

  • @estuchedepeluche2212
    @estuchedepeluche2212 2 роки тому

    Listening (or pretending how to be a good listener) is a great skill to develop relationships.

  • @francis2728
    @francis2728 2 роки тому +2

    I can’t believe I’ve been watching this channel for 6ish years now

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому

      it’s crazy how fast time passes by😅 hey btw francis, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @Omar-rb9jb
    @Omar-rb9jb 2 роки тому

    I love the dog providing their input ❤️❤️

  • @thebioexplained
    @thebioexplained 2 роки тому

    I would also add touch typing! Best skill i ever learnt!

  • @Nicoleliestsogerne
    @Nicoleliestsogerne 2 роки тому

    Chester! I loved that interruption!

  • @essexitagermeng5504
    @essexitagermeng5504 2 роки тому

    I’d add writing and communication in general, probably #1 for me

  • @thesofianotes
    @thesofianotes 2 роки тому +8

    _Wow, what an informative and well-made video! You must put so much effort in to your videos Mariana!😊_

  • @samyakkasliwal3887
    @samyakkasliwal3887 2 роки тому

    Your voice is so soothing.

  • @sindypetronella
    @sindypetronella 2 роки тому +1

    Love this

  • @queenniegulle9537
    @queenniegulle9537 2 роки тому

    This channel is a blessing!!!! I love you!

  • @ThisisFit
    @ThisisFit 2 роки тому +1

    loved the one about meta-learning!

  • @panichapetrzela4705
    @panichapetrzela4705 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much. This is all I need for now.

  • @blackhairducationbybeebo
    @blackhairducationbybeebo 2 роки тому +1

    Just the video I needed. Thank you.

  • @ATasteOfBeauty
    @ATasteOfBeauty 2 роки тому +3

    Will you be making videos to address these skills in depth, particularly the legal items?

  • @amylikesthestars
    @amylikesthestars 2 роки тому +1

    Mariana! Love your content and I noticed the sound quality is superb in this video ❤️

  • @gabilopes9931
    @gabilopes9931 2 роки тому +7

    o CHOQUE de descobrir que você é brasileira quando você falou com o cachorro haha
    (primeiro vídeo que vejo)

  • @raelimec
    @raelimec Рік тому

    Adorei seu conteúdo e melhor ainda em inglês, parabens pela coragem

  • @ProjectSkrillexNL
    @ProjectSkrillexNL 2 роки тому

    this video contains so much inspiration

  • @isirlasplace91
    @isirlasplace91 2 роки тому +1

    It took a bit of actually reading instructions 😅 but I figured out how to get Nebula and CuriosityStream yearly subs!! I'm always looking for new things to watch and I love learning new things so this was a deal to good to pass up 💕💕

  • @jairosouza7994
    @jairosouza7994 2 роки тому +2

    Muito bom! Estou um pouco longe de aperfeiçoar todas essas habilidades, mas um dia chego lá.

  • @programmercoder3000
    @programmercoder3000 2 роки тому

    1. Risk assessment and decision making
    2. Self analysis
    3. Public speaking
    4. Time management
    5. Financial knowledge
    6. Self soothing - positive psychology
    7. meta learning
    8. Basic legal skills ? Knowing ur rights

  • @demidevil496
    @demidevil496 2 роки тому

    YOU'RE BRAZILIAN?! For some reason i was really chocked, but happy about that

  • @TibraAli
    @TibraAli 2 роки тому +3

    Chester is so cute!!!

  • @ella2411m
    @ella2411m 2 роки тому

    I didn’t know how hard it is to speak in front of an audience until I had to do a presentation at work in front of about 100 people. I got on stage and forgot every word I know. It’s nerve racking when a hundred faces are looking at you silently!

  • @no_preference0073
    @no_preference0073 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this!

  • @rajasthankaladka7529
    @rajasthankaladka7529 2 роки тому +2

    Wow very help full this video in my life 🙏🏾

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому

      i agree! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out

  • @raissa7046
    @raissa7046 2 роки тому +11

    Wait, are you brazilian? Do you talk to your dog in portuguese? O choque de você mudar de língua e eu continuar entendo, adorei

    • @mariana-vieira
      @mariana-vieira  2 роки тому +14

      Sou portuguesa!

    • @gelsonfilho8609
      @gelsonfilho8609 2 роки тому +4

      Né hahahah mas deu pra perceber o sotaque!

    • @MIKESTUBE40
      @MIKESTUBE40 2 роки тому +1

      @@mariana-vieira I scroll down just to find the dog comment. 🤓👍🏾.
      (I absolutely love this channel thanks for all your help. Thanks for helping me with studying and bullet journaling.)

  • @madeleinechen7741
    @madeleinechen7741 2 роки тому

    Wow, just wow!

  • @vinaypal3537
    @vinaypal3537 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing
    Love from India 🇮🇳

  • @andile5945
    @andile5945 2 роки тому

    These are seemingly great tips. Thank you.
    please help with references in the future.

  • @palesaramphisa8357
    @palesaramphisa8357 2 роки тому +3

    All the way from south africa
    I love you ❤❤❤

  • @shannonnefra9738
    @shannonnefra9738 2 роки тому +2

    Chester 😹took a risk and it paid off, thank you for sharing!

  • @_dansilverio
    @_dansilverio 2 роки тому +2

    eu amo teu sotaque português!!!

  • @foodmadewithlove324
    @foodmadewithlove324 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @MyGhini
    @MyGhini 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you, this was so interesting! I definitely want to learn more about Meta learning. I can’t ant wait to do some research. 🤓

  • @joyleenstrozier4295
    @joyleenstrozier4295 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Mariana's Corner, I like your content. I love watching your videos.

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому +1

      me tooo! hey btw joyleen, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @d3monition
    @d3monition 2 роки тому +1

    That intro got you a sub

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd 2 роки тому +9

    If you are happy with where you are in life, nothing else will matter.
    If you aren't, everything will seem to matter!

  • @victoriousjay97
    @victoriousjay97 2 роки тому +2

    Very helpful skills that impact a lot. Great video!

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 роки тому

      totally agree! hey btw victoria, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @thuriaramadan7336
    @thuriaramadan7336 2 роки тому

    Thank you goodness

  • @chueyv9080
    @chueyv9080 2 роки тому +2

    Hello from California !

  • @nidhiverma3945
    @nidhiverma3945 Рік тому

    The first one itself a soft skill

  • @gabriellamoda7753
    @gabriellamoda7753 2 роки тому

    my favorite part was when you said dorme to the dog
    my dog does the same 😂😂
    video espetacular, vou tentar aplicar os teus conselhos

  • @personalbranding292
    @personalbranding292 2 роки тому

    Time Management and Energy Management

  • @kartikasari8496
    @kartikasari8496 2 роки тому

    your dog barking put a smile on my face

  • @tatianal4563
    @tatianal4563 2 роки тому +2

    Mariana thank you for the video. Could you recommend some readings to do on the points you are speaking about in your video? Thank you!

  • @bert1913
    @bert1913 2 роки тому

    Being mechanically inclined has saved me thousands of dollars

  • @sanamuhammad97
    @sanamuhammad97 2 роки тому +7

    Omg És portuguesa!!
    Por um momento achei que estava a ouvir coisas quando falaste com o cachorro 🐶 lol
    Anyway, I loved your video, very informative. ☺️

  • @rocio2917
    @rocio2917 2 роки тому

    Thank you for the time line.

  • @xpresstv7689
    @xpresstv7689 2 роки тому

    Recently somebody told me the best thing you can do is to understand law and boom this video pops up.

  • @yuanjyechong8834
    @yuanjyechong8834 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video

  • @VikashKumar-nb3nd
    @VikashKumar-nb3nd 2 роки тому

    Very informative thanks

  • @raginald7mars408
    @raginald7mars408 2 роки тому

    ... as a German Biologist - this is a Genetic Phenomenon of Conditioning PAIN - Reward patterns. The Image of Pain - and how to get the next BIG Reward. Paradoxxically - nobody becomes “RICH” - with the strong wish to become “rich” - it is the second by second action, inter action, the way we deal with LIFE each second. The pattern of action versus consume and no action. You can see that instantly when You meet a person. How active they are all the time. To the extent of being rude to You - when You steal their TIME - which is Action. The stream of constructive action and constructive regeneration creates the accumulation of events - that enhance further actions and reactions. This makes any successful person so difficult. When a person is relaxed and has plenty of time - even for YOU - he will ruin even your life... like all those Dope Pushers of Mind Opiates...

  • @zhibeizhou7646
    @zhibeizhou7646 2 роки тому +1

    Gread video! Mariana could you share the BGM at the begining of the video, please? That was so peaceful.

  • @GarciaGamercanaldefifa
    @GarciaGamercanaldefifa 2 роки тому +1

    Tomei um susto quando você começou a falar português. Muito bom video. Keep it up

  • @jessinra2947
    @jessinra2947 2 роки тому

    very great content, so eyes opening that there are so many things you can improve on

  • @backupboy8427
    @backupboy8427 2 роки тому

    The dog was so funny 😆 really made sure I was focussing. Anyways thank you so much for these tips

  • @Hugo14319
    @Hugo14319 2 роки тому +3

    The worst part of having self analysis skill is when you realised how much time you've successful wasted being a master procrastinator.