I WENT VIRAL...

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024

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  • @nellarose4758
    @nellarose4758 Рік тому +287

    You are amazing. I want the best for you always. And Thank you for putting my studio on your channel I really appreciate it ❤️🙏🏾

  • @Cherrypopissweet
    @Cherrypopissweet Рік тому +966

    Dainá I think one reason that your story blew up so much is cause you did such a good job over the years of making him look good. People who have followed you over the years were shocked at how foul dude actually was. We also listened because as you told your story, we could pinpoint certain vlogs from the past where you were in the thick of it and and we knew something was "off" but we didn't know what at the time.

    • @ByLuuley
      @ByLuuley Рік тому +57

      This is so true. I think it's one of the reasons I stopped watching. Something felt so off and was hitting me diff because I was in a similar position. So glad things are better for her now

    • @niqueee77
      @niqueee77 Рік тому +6

      Thissssss!!!!

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 Рік тому +7

      I always had their videos reccomended but I never really watched their content consistently.I think I watched a couple of their videos but that was about it. From those videos I could tell she had a great personality

    • @destinyspirit1
      @destinyspirit1 Рік тому +4

      I agree

    • @melitzam7914
      @melitzam7914 Рік тому +4

      Facts!!!

  • @msgigglesbaby
    @msgigglesbaby Рік тому +474

    Them doors starts flying open when you get rid of the dead weight dont they! I am so excited for these new blessings coming your way Daina. YOU DESERVE!!! Thank you for taking us along your new journey. Shout out to everyone giving our girl the opportunity to speak her truth. Thank you💞

    • @PatriceDestiny
      @PatriceDestiny Рік тому +22

      Let me tel you!!! When I broke up with my ex I got promoted at my job and it’s just been blessings on blessings. When you drop dead weight, whether it be a significant other or friend, life changes for you in such good ways

    • @KarlaBedminister
      @KarlaBedminister Рік тому +3

      Yh. I put on weight after in the right places and got lots of sleep so I began to look younger and ppl were complementing me left and right. I was glowing and began saving a lot. I also moved and built my own home in months not years.

  • @fitbodybycoco
    @fitbodybycoco Рік тому +403

    Emotional Abuse is not spoken about enough. Narcissist really do a number on your mind, body, and soul. Glad you got out ❤❤❤

    • @livingart.series5358
      @livingart.series5358 Рік тому +1

      And they tend to get away with it often bc they have everybody fooled. Its an epidemic

    • @manifestingqueen3026
      @manifestingqueen3026 Рік тому +19

      I agree 💯 took me years to get over the ptsd

    • @HookedOnGlitterTanyaSanders
      @HookedOnGlitterTanyaSanders Рік тому +14

      Yes. And it happens really often to young women.

    • @iamtreasured
      @iamtreasured Рік тому +5

      Emotional abuse I feel is one of the worst.

    • @3domreigns
      @3domreigns Рік тому +1

      Narcissist are a nightmare, and they never change. Thank God you didn't have children.

  • @SaloomysDiaries
    @SaloomysDiaries Рік тому +82

    Last year I left my marriage for the same and more reasons as you. And for the longest I’ve been so scared to talk about it but watching you has given me so much strength to embrace the trauma and help others through my story . Praying for you too ❤

  • @karmellla
    @karmellla Рік тому +238

    Absolutely love the fact that you can get your hair, lashes, nails, massage, facials etc done by black women! 🥰 I’d move down to London for that!

  • @nadzalln
    @nadzalln Рік тому +471

    I love how Daina supports and promotes black businesses on her channel🖤👸🏽🥂

    • @IndigenousExotical
      @IndigenousExotical Рік тому +49

      Back in the day, she would feature other youtube channels at the end of her videos. She featured my channel in one of them 🥹😭 It made my week!!!💕💖💕💖

    • @nadzalln
      @nadzalln Рік тому +9

      @@IndigenousExotical that's so good 💗

    • @Hannah-sg4sr
      @Hannah-sg4sr Рік тому +2

      Her videos are getting more views now

    • @ehnylatiye
      @ehnylatiye Рік тому +1

      Literally my thoughts ♥️💯

    • @fifia4618
      @fifia4618 Рік тому

      @@IndigenousExotical you are STUNNING. soso cute!!

  • @sarahm8464
    @sarahm8464 Рік тому +126

    I love how Nella came through with all the gifts, such a sweetheart ❤
    The embodiement of how friends are supposed to be

  • @ClementineSimbaranda
    @ClementineSimbaranda Рік тому +459

    I am so proud of you Daina, for being strong and for not losing yourself in the whole process.

  • @olikah4667
    @olikah4667 Рік тому +86

    Narcissistic abuse gets traction on YT because a lot of us have experienced it and some are actively in it. Tell ur truth, Daina ❤❤❤

  • @shadowless2109
    @shadowless2109 Рік тому +134

    If someone doesn't want their dirty laundry aired, then they should be a good person.

  • @MiaaBeee
    @MiaaBeee Рік тому +64

    I used to be in looovveee with Dianá during her tootsie time era. I am sooooo glad she made it out of this situation and is getting back to her true self chasing her passion ❤️

  • @GIVECRAFTLOVE
    @GIVECRAFTLOVE Рік тому +62

    I proper loveeee how things are just falling into place for you. Like for real. You’re actually an OG! been watching you and following your story since I was probably 22. I’m 31 now, so I’m sooooo happy for you! ❤😢

  • @claudeseymour
    @claudeseymour Рік тому +38

    And soon YOUR MUSIC is gonna be on BBC too! I'm calling it. The day one Dons already know what the music is hitting for! Daina to the MOON!!!! 💥

    • @msgigglesbaby
      @msgigglesbaby Рік тому +4

      It's only a matter of time and I'm so excited!!!

  • @Onebigblessing
    @Onebigblessing Рік тому +36

    It’s so sweet when you get excited to go on these influencer’s podcasts. Daina you’re an OG. It’s like Patricia Bright not being recognised for the talent she is. You need to start believing more in your sauce and walk into these rooms like you are who you are! Own this new chapter. I love it for you ❤

  • @wonitahandrew5227
    @wonitahandrew5227 Рік тому +237

    Thank you for being so honest and open about what you went through, you are helping more people than you know ❤

  • @diashavlogshomehemodialysis
    @diashavlogshomehemodialysis Рік тому +10

    Sis I just found you a week ago and I love you and your accent. I am from USA Atlanta GA. I thank GOD you have been lifted from your sunken place. You are worthy of all the blessings that GOD will bestow upon your way. I love your videos. I have been binge watching them. You have the cutest niece and she has the most beautiful aunt- You😍 if you ever come to Atlanta I will be your personal guide❤️😍🥰

  • @yvek6031
    @yvek6031 Рік тому +64

    I always watch u from way back but never comment but I am loving this and feel proud of you as if you was my friend. Keep pushing hun Well done to you.
    Proverbs 31:16-17. "She surveys a field and acquires it; from her own resources, she plants a vineyard. She works energetically; her arms are powerful." The Good News: If a woman sets her mind on something, she will get it done - no matter what.
    Keep your mind focus and keep growing and being happy.

  • @Londiwe.B
    @Londiwe.B Рік тому +67

    I'm so happy and proud of you Daina! You are letting women know that, life can still go on and be more beautiful after leaving a toxic relationship

  • @portiarose6914
    @portiarose6914 Рік тому +34

    34:53 “i think this entire weekly vlog has been self care.” and i’m loving it! loving this season of you taking care of you. 💅🏾😌

  • @Kanyin.O
    @Kanyin.O Рік тому +22

    When you said you didn't realise it was abuse, I had a flashback to a story time you did about your relationship with your dad and I was like 'damn'. This self adornment/reflection journey you're on suits you so much 💐

  • @SammiLaRo11
    @SammiLaRo11 Рік тому +43

    I just wanted to say thank you Daina for being so transparent with what ur going through. You turn ur lemons into lemonade and i love that for you. I’ve been following you for years and it’s definitely empowering to see u pick urself ❤

  • @gabbyyates9351
    @gabbyyates9351 Рік тому +5

    I am from the new viral wave!! I think your story is the most eloquent and entertaining cheating/break up "story time video." After your video I watched a few others on Instagram, and nobody had the same energy as you. You are such a genuine and kind woman and I think the audience sees that! Your personality along with the story is why it’s so powerful.

  • @renryssen3485
    @renryssen3485 Рік тому +23

    Aww.. nella is so sweet for that.

  • @akeshaminnifee2539
    @akeshaminnifee2539 Рік тому +16

    After watching her recent videos, its nice to see people gifting and treating Daina to nice things

  • @BeautyToTheMax99
    @BeautyToTheMax99 Рік тому +73

    The way I’ve been bingeinggggg your videos girl!! So happy to see you thriving and living ya best life! You deserve it all sis ✨

  • @Katice634
    @Katice634 Рік тому +23

    I feel you, realizing that what you went through was abuse. I went through it too. It’s a weird feeling. But I’m ok now. You’re ok. This was a lesson & a blessing.

  • @ThatsEunice
    @ThatsEunice Рік тому +2

    I love how you are teaching your sister an amazing skill that will make her money in the future. I love how your relationship has come full circle.

  • @naturallynajiyyah
    @naturallynajiyyah Рік тому +12

    You turned your pain into purpose!!! We love transparency keep going Dainá 💕💕

  • @jusTOOfresh
    @jusTOOfresh Рік тому +19

    Daina, you should win an Emmy for ur recent storytime series ‼️ Can you look into pursuing this/ how you submit for it??? (A UA-cam vlogger won in 2010!)

  • @gowithdflo
    @gowithdflo Рік тому +9

    I would love to hear your friends and family's perspective on supporting you through that relationship.

  • @greytab7027
    @greytab7027 Рік тому +12

    I'm so hooked on your videos because it's incredibly insightful. People , mostly celebrities, write books about these things. I hope your videos reach the women who really need to hear it❤

  • @anointedoneac8748
    @anointedoneac8748 Рік тому +27

    Congratulations 🎊, seriously when you drop bad energy life tends to open up. Always speak your truth- it sets you free and maybe your ex too.

  • @beneisha808
    @beneisha808 Рік тому +26

    Going through the last few videos, I just want to say Im proud of you Daina. Been a fan since Tootsie Time video reactions and to see you go through this journey and the growth! Wow! I pray God will just continue to be your comfort throughout this process. Can’t wait to see where this new chapter will take you🙏🏽

  • @ninajustice9535
    @ninajustice9535 Рік тому +14

    This whole vlog is telling me the importance of taking timeout for self care, I work so much and forget about me. I plan on doing better for myself.

  • @renryssen3485
    @renryssen3485 Рік тому +17

    Yesss..Nella top notch.

  • @hollaatthekid1796
    @hollaatthekid1796 Рік тому +10

    Yes, ma’am, booked and busy with the interviews and self care. You deserve it. Thank you for sharing.

  • @ArielUpshaw
    @ArielUpshaw Рік тому +24

    I know that's right!!! The walk in to the camera. She DIFFERENT!!!👠
    Yesterday's price is not today's price.💅🏾

  • @laylaali222
    @laylaali222 Рік тому +10

    One thing I admire her work ethic

  • @OneJoyfulNoise
    @OneJoyfulNoise Рік тому +39

    I love how much dainá puts into black businesses.

  • @CreativelyWriting
    @CreativelyWriting Рік тому +4

    Your EP was amazing "Pains the only way to describe this"... whenever I hear those words like wow I go back to my days. I would protect my ex, I'd take him back because our mums would convince me, I'd defend him and his boys would call me names etc. They take strong women and just break you, until you become dependent on them. I remember reaching a point where I felt I'd give my life for him. Enjoy this time learning to be happy by yourself it is liberating and will continue to open doors for new opportunities which are soooooo deserved ❤

  • @theohsospontaneous
    @theohsospontaneous Рік тому +9

    Nella is a sweetheart for that, that’s extremely thoughtful and I’m definitely going to check out her studio soon!

  • @SweetTeek
    @SweetTeek Рік тому +66

    I'm so happy for you Daina! ❤ Thank you for sharing your story. I was watching you for so long and we were going through some of the same things. Obviously I had no idea then, but I'm so glad you're getting so much love. You never know what people are going through.

  • @RooRassy
    @RooRassy Рік тому

    You spent a long time covering him so well - while he uncovered and betrayed you in your private life. He stayed abdicating his role of protection over you for a very long time. So now you need to do you and walk in your truth. I’m proud of you. Woman of strength! Lessssgooooo freedom! ❤

  • @Callmesuz
    @Callmesuz Рік тому +16

    I’m glad you finally felt comfortable enough to tell your truth and side of your story. I found y’alls couple channel about 5 years ago. Ppl really looked at him as the perfect husband and looked down on you. But you never seemed like a rude or mean person around others so figured there was more to the story. Ppl really watched 10 minute videos and think they knew your whole relationship and leave the rudest comments smdh. Glad ppl are seeing him for who he was all along. Although I didn’t go through something like this, the information you shared let’s me know what red flags to watch out for. Thank you for that. I started watching bc of y’all together but I stayed for you🫶🏽

  • @chanelrobinson4089
    @chanelrobinson4089 Рік тому +8

    So crazy how your experience of pain which is the rain, is assisting you in creating avenues into to sunshine. Love that for u Daina❤️

  • @FinestDia
    @FinestDia Рік тому +4

    We’re out here in America ready to go to war for you mama , I connected with you the most in old videos and now…YOU are a TRUE inspiration girly! 💕🫶🏾

  • @myakoluvsmakeup
    @myakoluvsmakeup Рік тому +28

    Your path has been made clear.. some ppl can’t go where your going..Love this for you !Expansion! 🫶🏾

  • @MyToni72
    @MyToni72 Рік тому +4

    I found you channel by watching Fumi ‘s video about you. I have to tell you I had to watch your videos in person. I must say you’re not alone unfortunately. When you have a good person with good qualities attracts all kinds of people. I’m glad he didn’t change you . All he did was made you aware that would like him exist. I had to support you by subscribing and watching your videos

  • @nikio1975
    @nikio1975 Рік тому +10

    It’s good that you are talking thru your experience, that’s the best way to heal so you can move forward. Emotional & verbal abuse is worse than physical in a way because most bruises, bones can heal but the verbal, emotional, mental abuse stays forever. I can remember every negative thing a man has said to me, the mind games, the put downs, manipulation. It doesn’t bother me like it used to, I just still remember and I can’t forget how bad it made me feel about myself. It’s also good others are talking thru their experiences so we can also heal & move forward. Sometimes it’s easier talking to a stranger with similar experiences than it is to friends or family because your ashamed, scared, don’t want to be judged. You’ve made women comfortable in opening up & that is a good thing.

  • @JasmineAhnie
    @JasmineAhnie Рік тому

    I love the massage with the affirmations! I've never had that while getting a massage. 👌🏽

  • @TouMuchMediaFM
    @TouMuchMediaFM Рік тому +1

    She’s def talking about that white dress. Iconic!

  • @andye.3960
    @andye.3960 Рік тому +29

    Taking care of yourself and flourishing. So happy for you.

  • @suevelasco1916
    @suevelasco1916 Рік тому +12

    Daina you have been killing it with the UA-cam videos/ vlogs! 🔥🥰❤️
    You are glowing!!! I love these long vlogs and videos 😍 watching you get your nails done and pamper yourself makes me want to do the same! 💕love you Daina!

  • @Zedmelia
    @Zedmelia Рік тому +9

    Awww to you Daina! So sweet the gifts! That melted my ❤️ You deserve it girl and triggered all us women with your life story - as I’ve said before 🤗

  • @crazyfrog4326
    @crazyfrog4326 Рік тому +2

    I absolutely loved watching you record voice overs. Such an eye opener to how it all works! Also love the guy you’re working with having no idea of intention behind the notes 😂 xxx

  • @ShayLodge
    @ShayLodge Рік тому +62

    I’m so proud of you girl, keep pushing.

  • @shaunak6961
    @shaunak6961 Рік тому +8

    Big things are coming to Daina this year I can feel it 🙏🏼🤍

  • @MsMystique29
    @MsMystique29 Рік тому +13

    Gwan Daina, I'm so proud of you. You deserve the best!

  • @darkfemme4914
    @darkfemme4914 Рік тому +17

    I am so happy for you. I watched you years ago as Tootsie and now you are growing and glowing up. Congrats

  • @meetmonique
    @meetmonique Рік тому +12

    I wanna say I did find u from the videos of u talking about your ex husband but I really love you, your music and your personality so I'm here to stay & support 🤞❤

  • @theohsospontaneous
    @theohsospontaneous Рік тому +7

    So happy for you Daina! So glad to see your spirits high and can’t wait to see you even happier! And so cool that you do the voiceover for pressed , and then you were invited as a guest. God definitely has a sense of humour lol.

  • @breeflowerbomb7751
    @breeflowerbomb7751 Рік тому +4

    You are so right, I’ve just gone through something similar. Was in a relationship as long as you and it didn’t seem that bad (even though deep down somethings felt wrong) but in hindsight it was really bad. Just be glad you got away without children x

  • @Caljay213
    @Caljay213 Рік тому +7

    We are proud of you for speaking your truth! You are taking your Power back!

  • @allgemini05
    @allgemini05 Рік тому +7

    Affirmations during a massage is so dope!

  • @karmellla
    @karmellla Рік тому +17

    Nella rose is such a sweet heart for that 😊❤

  • @kyraflshd
    @kyraflshd Рік тому +1

    The viewers and comments are BACKKKK and I'm here for it! You light was dimmed for too long now it's your time to SHINEEEEEE now!

  • @karlagaskin5964
    @karlagaskin5964 Рік тому +7

    Yes Daina Selfcare is A Must!!!...BLESSINGS ON YOUR MANIFESTATIONS!!!...IT IS SO WONDERFUL TO SEE YOU SUPPORT BLACK BUSINESSES !!!❤❤❤

  • @1mythri
    @1mythri Рік тому

    The way I love you Diana! You are my kindred spirit!! I love your personality and your energy! And the way you refer to your coffee as your crack! 😩😩🤣🤣 I relate! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @chrissytapu8253
    @chrissytapu8253 Рік тому +3

    Omgggg!!! I watch nella and adeola too n im gassed that u know each other 😍😍😍 im feeling like everything going up!!! LASSFKNGOOOOOOO!!!!!!

  • @RENbby
    @RENbby Рік тому +2

    Such a blessing. You deserve it. You helped a lot of people!! ❤❤

  • @kamaylarogers8580
    @kamaylarogers8580 Рік тому

    Love this thank God u are here to tell us your story u are beautiful but now the bad is in the past for u thank God for your blessings because you are truly glowing ❤

  • @RueAnn
    @RueAnn Рік тому +4

    Killing it!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 also I just love all the positivity in the comments. I hope she sees them❤

  • @HahaBabby1
    @HahaBabby1 Рік тому +4

    Also Big up Kiyante!! what a blessing to have a talented lil sister to help you, big moves

  • @Becka.T
    @Becka.T Рік тому +2

    Yaaasssss my lovely luv, honey, girl child, grown woman, lol I am soooo in love with everything you are doing and saying, all the self love and care is such a must for a lot of us out here and I’m praying, hoping and wishing all the best best best for you stepping forward into all your heart desires. Love, blessings, positivity and prosperity always x

  • @TravMenace
    @TravMenace Рік тому +2

    Daina this was so interesting to watch!!! had no idea u done BBC voiceovers that's so hugeeeeee. love to see the constant growth regardless of the past 💕

  • @rawminimalist9043
    @rawminimalist9043 Рік тому +2

    I'm glad it went viral, so many of us deal with or have dealt with this in private. These people need to be seen for what they are....

  • @FT-lf7gs
    @FT-lf7gs Рік тому +12

    Thank you for sharing your story, that was incredibly brave of you to be so transparent ❤

  • @jennasmilz
    @jennasmilz Рік тому +11

    I love to see things work so smoothly for you!!!🖤🖤

  • @icemendez1945
    @icemendez1945 Рік тому

    Daina I'm extremely happy for you. You deserve it all! Wealth, Prosperity, Abundance. From here on out i never met you in person but from what I've seen here on UA-cam for several years you are such an amazing loving person. Keep killin it!

  • @ItsDeejae
    @ItsDeejae Рік тому +14

    I literally just left from checking your channel for a new video and I got the notification as soon as I hit the home page button 😭😂 love you Daina! ❤

  • @becksx6568
    @becksx6568 Рік тому +6

    Your energy is amazing. I love your channel, well done, girl, keep moving 💪

  • @naumeb5922
    @naumeb5922 Рік тому +31

    👋🏾 come through with the long vlog 🎉 this hairstyle really suits you 💜

  • @gloriinher40s
    @gloriinher40s Рік тому +5

    This was an oddly informative vlog. It gave us insight into the behind-the-scenes of social media work and showed me, yet again, that I could NEVER do this shit. Props to y'all that do it for real. I'll stay in my lil office job that underpays me lol. It's way too many people I'd have to schmooze and make small talk with to keep my career going. It seems exhausting. I'm an undiagnosed autistic, so that's a HELL no for me. I'm legimitaly impressed by folks like you who can do all that so smoothly.

    • @gloriinher40s
      @gloriinher40s Рік тому

      @@Audenim that's true, never thought of that! It's definitely not for me.. plus, I value my privacy WAY too much. People think they're entitled to know everything about an influencer's life. Shit, they damn near think they own the influencer, period. I'm good with all that. Glad you got out in the nick of time!

  • @foxxybrown291
    @foxxybrown291 Рік тому +35

    You are not responsible for his consequences from his actions 💓💛💓 xx

  • @lauriedolne7430
    @lauriedolne7430 Рік тому +9

    I’m like so proud of everything you’re accomplishing on your own. Big ups to you !!❤️❤️❤️

  • @bukkysonubi2431
    @bukkysonubi2431 Рік тому +9

    Proper loving these week-long vlogs ❤ Nice to see you looking after yourself!
    *Sidenote*: I think that Cerave SA smoothing cream is mainly for the body, which is why it probably feels so thick and clogging on the face. Maybe just try a salicylic acid serum separately instead, and a different moisturiser.

  • @waadm133
    @waadm133 Рік тому +6

    Dianá girl how I pray for you to be successful after everything you’ve been through!🥺♥️

  • @chi-chimonroe3661
    @chi-chimonroe3661 Рік тому +4

    Keep working hard and grinding Daina❤ you go girl

  • @cmisya
    @cmisya Рік тому +1

    I LOVE how much self care was in this vlog!!!!! And all the manifestation was manifestationING!!! 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @krisjackson6567
    @krisjackson6567 Рік тому +3

    I truly believe that God allows us to go through tests in order for us to have a testimony to hopefully help others who may not have the knowledge or bravery yet to get out of their own troubling situations. Like you I’m sure your ex has his own story or his own feelings he needs to work through and God Bless him but now is your time. Congratulations on claiming it and walking forward. Even though I know this probably wasn’t your plan you have still managed to inspire those around you and that is a true testament of a warrior. ❤

  • @ShakiraDeija45
    @ShakiraDeija45 Рік тому +3

    I listened to the Pressed Podcast & then I heard your voiceovers in there 🤣 Love that

  • @cooperedith958
    @cooperedith958 Рік тому +2

    Peace and truth looks beautiful on you! Keep living keep thriving! ❤ Looking beautiful!

  • @Laura-sg6ss
    @Laura-sg6ss Рік тому

    You gonna be on C&T 😩✨️ I love MADAME JOYCE ahhh😭🥂 cannot WAIT!! CCAAANNNOOTTT WAIT!!

  • @Jaden370
    @Jaden370 Рік тому +8

    I'm so proud of you girl!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾love you sis🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @Mini-rt8bm
    @Mini-rt8bm Рік тому +4

    Loveeee that your videos gone viral. Love that for you!

  • @kleec6078
    @kleec6078 Рік тому +2

    I’ve been watching since 9th grade and I graduated college last year lol. Your one of the og UA-camrs that still make content

  • @GraceAnastasia
    @GraceAnastasia Рік тому +9

    Aww I’m so happy for you!! Well deserved hun 👏🏽

  • @cocochanes
    @cocochanes Рік тому +7

    Getting used to these 1 hour long vlogs/storytimes ❤

  • @lisadawson2652
    @lisadawson2652 Рік тому

    It’s soooo beautiful to see u smile and happy doing things for yourself and because u are amazing u still work it so we all can enjoy the things that makes u happy ❤❤