Is She The One Or Just A DISTRACTION?
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- Опубліковано 1 сер 2023
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You will lose money chasing women. But you won’t lose women chasing money
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Chase a check never Chase a b*tch don't Chase no b*tch. Future
Nah you definitely gonna get more bitches chasing bitches
I did I chose focusing on my career instead of giving her as much attention so she left
@ULT619 Yeah, fshow, I will it just annoying cuh she betrayed me, while over here hurting staying up at 3am tryna go to sleep but can't, she over talking to another nigga for attention( All them lies she told me) but I can't wait to get my get back
I’m single 26 and an engineer. Talking to women has been easier
When you financially stable, have a car, house, ect all this material stuff that comes with being on your purpose women will either flock or be receptive to you
No matter how holy or unholy a woman is they will always share common behaviors, mentality, and emotions.
Be assertive, respect women and be on your purpose. Chasing or following the lead of a woman will lead nowhere that is why you MUST lead and they know this subconsciously. Also, never give your strength or ‘full’ self to her
Stay on your purpose, conquer, and achieve your goals
Either she falls in line or gets left behind
Well said! this need to be pinned.
PRE🙏🏾CH‼️...💪🏾😎
@MajinXeno444 your comment is perfect timing. God bless my brother 🙏🏽
Respect a whore that has Onlyfans or sells herself to the highest bidder?. You need to stop using the stuff.
I feel all of that. I’m 37 and have experienced several successes like yours. Never get too comfortable.
Once you adopt the mindset that there’s a “one” you also put yourself at risk of developing oneitis towards a woman. The reality is there are many women on earth who you will connect and be compatible with. Just enjoy the ride and have a great time with no hard feelings. Be at peace.💯
Perfectly worded 💯
Now that's a major key💯
so marriage out the picture huh
@@LifeChangingPicks in western countries yes
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“You know why the communication suffer bad? It’s because it increased somewhere else” Damn lol 🔥
Bars 🎯🔥🔥
Just let go of my girl because of social media. She needed attention & validation over my attention and I said to hell with that. Not saying marriage, but I Thought she was gonna be around for a long time. Turns out she was just a small time distraction. STAY ON YOUR PURPOSE FELLAS!!! 👏
Women will love you until they don’t…Life
It’s literally not a big deal. Life is long asl and you’re gonna come across so many wonderful women along the way. Soon, you’re gonna have another one, and after that you’re gonna have some more. That’s just the cycle of life, detach your feelings and vibe with the world. 🧘
@@josephadewale5971infatuation is what this is…..it’s not love I just found out recently
I agree with all of you brothers
@@richporter238yeah eventually you just wanna settle down. I'm so tired of just coming across many women it's ridiculous
I’m only 23 years old young and learned a lot but by the time a man reaches 30+ year old he shouldn’t be this lost when it comes to dealing with a woman. We gotta focus on becoming better men and earning more money and stop letting females have ya looking dumb as hell.
facts
facts man.. if we get this message out to enough of us young folk, we can really change the trajectory of the future .. from another young 20 yr old, best of luck out there 🫡👊🏽
@@camvalence most definitely brotha! It’s a uphill battle and failure is not an option, let’s keep pushing the message to the best of our abilities
I’m 30 and just now getting it. Sad thing is My mom taught me all this stuff Steph,Kevin Samuels and others been saying.
She was rare and gave me raw game saying “I know women and my baby not going be a fool, a Bitch, or used by women”
I never let what she taught set in.
My mom passed 2013 motorcycle accident. I took my self out the dating and life for long time.
I told myself I need to uphold my mom values she taught I am her son
Then all of Sudden we Kwami Brown NBA situation with him sayin he his mom son
Then everything she ever taught me has been talked about now from KS,Steph, being woke in the matrix ,taking care of self and value, and so many other things
Long story short it’s like God has given me a wake call “Stop being a Bitch remember what your mom taught you and grow from that”
With all these people like Steph and KS giving the game she have. It’s sinking in more and I’m not sure if it’s because their man and/or have finally got tired of being weak beta and now I’m letting it sink in.
I feel like as a man if you already have that instinct that she ain’t the one you should follow that because 9 times out of 10 your probably right.
No such thing as the one
Nothing to see here kids. The man just has a case of Oneitis. We all been there. Steph has prescribed the meds.
NEVER let a woman distract you from being on your purpose!!
As many men have observed, the wrong woman can ruin your life if you let her in it. There are women out there that will add value to your life - if you keep the wrong ones out.“
-Rich Cooper💯💊
But guys let her in based on his hornyness,weak dudes don't look outside her body,she knows this that's why she like men who chase what she present..
Just in time for the gym session, gotta love Steph’s content. Stay grinding guys!!
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Just left the boxing gym💪🏿
Shit i fell off had to tap back in💪🏾
I've seen a psychology study say that most women dream about a lesbian fantasy, why is this exactly from a redpill point of view ??
21 years Old. Been watching Steph, Ams, etc since I was like 16. Got a trade. Moved out my parents house @18 and Got my very own mortgage. Just dropped a 24 year old chick who I was seeing because she was flaky for over a month and a half and now all of a sudden after dry texting me she came back telling me how she miss me and want 3 to 5 children in the future and wants a relationship, pretty much giving me an ultimatum after not being consistent. Mind you she’s 24 and doesn’t have a a job. Not even part time and lives with mom and dad . ….. Fuck no😭🤣
Never take her back bro you on the right track trust bro women are just an accesory you the prize
@@darkvader2012 damn right. 💯💯
We gotta get colder
Fax homie!
Steph back on the consistent UA-cam drops 🔥
Oh my God, this guy is literally me two years ago 🤣🤣🤣 how do we be going through the exact same shit. Either way, when she breaks his heart, he’ll become better for it so yea, I’m happy for him, his life bout to get better🤣
Man 😂😂
The "One" is a mentally and emotionally distorted concept. The real question you should ask yourself is - Am I the One? and your answer should be I am Him and the woman that gets with me will be now special because of it. Her relationship with you establishes her value not the other way around.
Nothing but thuth bro
Truth*
“I know she don’t like me, she just want my validation”💪🏾💯. I stop looking at chics at work when I walk by and now I can feel them staring at me out the corner of my eye smh😂
Damn bro fr?? Why is that?
Man I used to work at Walmart n they wanted the attention so bad bro used to follow me around foh 😂☠️💯
Yup… all the nurses at my job b doin the same shit wit me all cause ion acknowledge they ass😆
@@Sirspinnaz Doing what? What they be doing?
@@Sirspinnazdon’t be too much in your head. U don’t really know if they’re gawking at you if supposedly don’t acknowledge them.
The stuff he talks about is true just listen. I was 16 when I found out about the red pill. Now I’m 18 fit heading into my freshman year of college with hell of game and understanding of female nature. All thinks to Steph I used to be fat asf and beta at 16
If she focusing on herself why not do the same fellas 😂😂😂 Don’t chase her it’s a lost cause her path leads to distraction and chaos
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As man deep down we know when it’s time it’s just hard to accept it.
A wise man told me to research NRE relationship. I googled what that meant. It hit me when I did! After that he told me that if he could rewind the hands of time, he’d switch women every 3 years. That’s the max life in most relationships. After that they get comfortable and it’s downhill from there. Thanks to that stranger for those wise words. Be safe out here!
Much like "limerence."
Damn… sold that man a whole dream
she really did.
She not the one I’ve seen multiple dudes post the same girl on girlfriends day and they ain’t even know it
Lol damn
Damn 😂😂☠️
No such thing as the one . When are you going to understand
"communication suffered bad, because it increased somewhere else"
Cold hard 🥶 truth
We gotta cold G, they ain't no other way
The question you asked is very profound and one that every man should ask themselves. The follow up question is how can you know if she is a distraction or a contribution? U addressed that well. Men; still focus on your goals, workout, work smart, take care of your health, peace of mind, get some me time etc. If she disturbs this in a negative way it’s not worth it.
You know if she complements your masculinity,because she see your purpose,she know when you weak,she judging your every move by performance,when she like you she value every thing you do....
A woman like her is a siren they bait you make you fall all in love and leave you want more of her which she isn’t ready to give. My advice is to block her and pretend like she doesn’t exist
Damn a Siren?
Sirens are crazy. They are exciting but dangerous 😂
@@jc3858 😂😂😂 They are fun that is true but their damage is long lasting.
@@losmit2194 yep
@@jc3858 why u say that they are dangerous?
They are depreciating assets no matter what. Don’t waste your time until you are in a position in life where you can waste time.
Even then, you still may be wasting your time or your time and money.
When a woman says she is done doing something know that that’s just with you that never stops her from talking to dealing with and sleeping with other men this why never look up to any women never treat a woman special understanding women nature is a must because what women say and what they do is 2 completely different things and under no circumstances is a woman ever truly yours it’s just your turn it all comes down to who the best man is they don’t care about your personality they don’t care about how you treat them and they don’t care about your problems they care about who’s the best less is more and nice guys finish last 💯
Man this sh*t craaazy. Women really be always talking to other niccas behind your back, doesn’t matter how good you treat her.
Dont make it a gender thing. So are men! Lets be real
On goddd
cold world 😂
Mathew 7 :21-23 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
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THANK YOU PASTOR STEPH!!!
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Your content just helps add more knowledge to my game. Appreciate the consistency with the videos and always dropping 💎!!!
He liked her too much … he fked up such a turn off when you really like them lmfao
Damn I wonder why is that?
@@losmit2194
Because many of them prefer a dude that doesn't really care about them.
@@rgw1380rw And if you care about them like showing it not telling them but showing it what happens??
@@losmit2194 women are biologically programmed to be less attracted to men that are more into them then they are into the man themselves… I mean i could go into depth about it but it’s a phenomenon programmed into their nature🤷🏾♂️ this is why all the women want to date the same few elite men
@@rgw1380rwu def right on that lol that’s why they stay with dudes who beat on them 😂😂
I think she meant pound town not down town 😂😂😂
Wrd 😂
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The minute she chooses anything (work, moving/staying somewhere that ain’t where you are,etc) move on. If you a relationship minded dude there’s plenty out there willing and ready to quit that job, move to your city to be w you, and work from home
Bro the burp at 13:02 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 shit reminded of me lmao gotta let that shit out
Steph !!!!!! You are the most Genuine Coach on UA-cam and Coach Adam Gregory. Please always be you. This world need people like you bro. Big thank you
She can be a distraction for your purpose but you can set a balance between both. Work by day, her by night. Everything in the universe has a balance. That's why there's good and evil, positive speed force and negative speed force. Batman and Joker etc.
That’s what I’m learning and as a man if you balance the women’s gonns like that and follow. The reason there’s so much red pill and dudes getting hurt because they put everything into a woman
@MajinXXX17deep!!!!
That only works if your grind and work are limited to conventional hours. If you're starting a business, you will probably be working flat-out, pulling all-nighters, 24 x 7, until the business has reached break-even status. If the woman doesn't understand that, then you have to choose as to what's more important. I've been in this situation, and thank goodness, I somehow could muster the courage to juggle both, but more so because she was in on the venture - she could see what the end goal was and the moments I could spare to give her attention, she took them seriously because she understood what the plan was. Those limited R&Rs were precious to prevent burnout. Her feminine side came out so strongly that I didn't need to ask for a cup of tea or sandwiches, etc. She just knew what to do as a supportive woman. She also got involved in typing, making calls, and financials., and didn't have free time to be bored and muck around places like IG. As she would say in the early days before the business became profitable, "All that's important to me is your presence near me even if you're immersed in the work," - and her ACTIONS *attested* to that. And when she'd drag me to go and eat food, dessert was always us going binary together, meaning a lot of pretty intense s3xua1 encounters per week, without losing time to build the business . That way, everything worked. Some women won't be able to handle that long-term view. I must say it wasn't easy, but once we developed a systems-based approach to it, things fell into place.
A veteran sophomore in college should learn how to keep his zipper close and establish himself as a man in education and financially. Before making some random female his baby momma. Why he never felt more like a man is because she solved some of his childhood drama..."healing." Now he all googly eyed vowing to a female who ain't his and she telling him to kick rocks. He's not the first nor the last. It should never take a female for a man to be a man -- in my book. Misplaced priorities. I do wish the brotha good luck.
Soon as she obtained that new job, she was gone.
These guys be so damn emotional they just ignore the most obvious signs God could throw at you
I realised one thing from watching these types of videos it made me insecure and I hate my self for that sometimes its hard to focus these videos their not all wrong but when you start to think too deep in to it thats when its a problem
Yessir 2 Videos Back The Back That What im Talm Bout Get Back Consistent Wit It Steph 💪
The way I see it if she doesn’t say nothing about having faith in Jesus Christ she’s a distraction. Godly woman knows how to treat a man. Same vice vera for a godly man💯
Wrong godly women are just as bad don’t be a dumb simp
You got it messed up, fam. The church is filled with "godly women" who are devilish when they meet that dude they been looking for. A hearsay character can't make you do anything you can or can't do on your own. The non believer may be more commendable than some of these religious for show types out here.
Doesn't matter if they believe in Jesus christ or not. It's people who don't believe I jesus and still are good women. Life does not hinge on jesus
14:07 thats the truth most don't like to admit
Steph just keeps it a buck 🤙🏾
He tells it like it is
Mate guarding 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Steph burping was legendary😂😂
Focus on yourself and get you some new hoes….Word Hommie💪
Been a minute bro since I tuned into your videos, still appreciate your insight brother. Keep pressing. Peace
The reality is there are so many women on earth that you can connect with. Just like that saying goes… “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” and it’s true! You’ll be just fine, enjoy life with no negativity.
Eventually you just wanna settle down. Life gets a waste when your just going from woman to woman
Stepth be mad funny yooooo!!!
Just as I was binge watching your vids that’s when you dropped, Just in time 🤝🏾
I be overthinking to much but I tested this girl loyalty and said I didn’t get paid yet she paid $150 for Ubers and $50 for food this might be my second real relationship shit just took time
Imagine being WEAK AND CHASING WOMEN 24/7 AND NOT REALIZING YOU ARE THE PRIZE I know this because I used to be a beta and fat ASF at 15 now EVERYBODY SAYS OMG LOOK HOW BUFF YOU ARE and I’m 17 NOW🔥🐐💯
Have fun with them, not feelings with them!
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23 came to the realisation this week ive been way too polite to my girl and shes been taking advantage of me. funnily enough she came on to me first, partly why i let my guard down, besides the fact i told my boys about her and they said some bullshit about making my intentions clear 4 months in. broke the golden rule of never tell a woman you love her first. ugh
very stupid of me. this week im giving her some space and much more, maybe 2 or 3. i got a restraining order on my last crazy ex yet she still tells me "her body is mine only" and tried pulling me back with sex a few times, i ignored her.. so i realise my current stupidity but will make sure things are dealt with from now on.
@jordonpollock1550 And? Did you fix things bro?
@@trapped-ion nup. she preempted my breakup plans by dumping me via text. I will admit it hurt but a month in now I really don't give a fuck rofl.
said goodbye, shut the door and haven't said a word since. thankfully I got a booty call immediately so the jokes on her lol. honestly can't believe I put myself through that mess for 8 months.
within 2 weeks of breaking up and an hour of talking to a friend of mine she was sucking me off on a park bench, before long we were naked in the back of my car. more burning desire from her than I ever saw from my ex girlfriend throughout the entirety of it.
that easy, despite the fact I was taking it slow with my ex since I was her first relo. i almost treated that relationship with no edge or assertiveness to see what happened. nothing good lmaooo! she woke me up and made me realise most women are the same, they don't give a fuck about you just how you make them feel. I knew that but she was attractive enough I crumbled. I'll be stronger next time around guaranteed
I work for the govt now in my dream field, hitting gym again, feeling better every day, whereas I know she might feel good now but it'll tear her mind to shreds 6 months from now when she realises she fucked up.
It still hurts a bit especially when im reminded of her, but we move on. Wouldn't be surprised if I leave her on read if she ever reached out to me again, considering how she made me feel pulling that through text. Fuck her LOL
She is gone. Women will never come straight out until they mad but sounds like you are good dude she don't want to hurt. Move on but 32 is not 22. You don't need 10 women a month now so that's OK. Do you and find that one person.
Another thing too 9 times out of 10 she will reach back out to him years later after he leveled up most good dudes gonna go thru this that’s apart of life so we can grow so I guarantee she gone spin the block on him
She for the streets... you can't control anyone else... If she looking around, then she going. It is what it is
This was situation from last April until earlier this week. My second favorite video of yours steph…this guy was me💯🙏🏿😮💨😂
As a female i completely hate attention and validation I don't even care about it but if a woman makes decisions like moving or picking a certain job without thinking about how it will affect what they have going on with you
Big red flag move on she don't care about you so don't show her that you care about her or what she's doing she is not worth the mental stress (technically no woman is besides your own mother)
The first sentence~Me when I lie.💀
@@DaBwoyKnows sorry to burst your joke but I don't do attention nor do I seek look or ask for attention and validation I don't even notice when someone is validating me or giving me a compliment both of them make me uncomfortable
@@nikkijones5648Me when I double down on the lie.💀
@@DaBwoyKnows you assume just because of my gender that this topic is true for all women but oh sadly you meet the one female that is unlike the rest the number 1 way of seeking validation and attention is through social media I have 2 Instagrams and 2 Facebooks none of them have a picture of me wearing or showing anything provocative sexual or inappropriate and I can prove that 100% attention seeking and looking for validation will never be something I do
@@DaBwoyKnows oh and I have a tik tok too which has nothing on it
Never save your self for a woman
The best thing that guy with the inquiry can do, is to let her go and live her life and he live his…cause if she really cared about him, she would’ve made more of an effort to be a part of his life! No matter how much you water weeds, they will never turn into flowers…so the best thing he can do for himself is to let her Go! Hats off to you Steph, fantastic video!
A man with options always can make woman compete. All you gotta do is do you and sit back and watch.
He’s lost her and doesn’t even know
These bros acting feminine like females and females acting masculine. James Bond is now a woman.
Cause they always come back 😁 - classic Steph line
13:54 men need to understand having a career woman isn't the way to go. I don't care how much money she makes I like to walk back home seeing my wife inside the house not in a office.
But nah the barking from 11:10-11:13 took me out but heard you Steph. Appreciate the game as always!
Stay consistent Steph you’ll be a billionaire one day if you want to you got it all charisma motivational inspirational comedic genius serious grinder etc 🐐
“Not even entertaining the idea of having anybody visit” that was it for me
FIRST AND I NEEDED THIS MESSAGE
same bro
20 Seconds in man speaking to the heart
"Why would you do that?" Bro I died
Keep a stoic mindset at all times.💯
facts
“suffered BADDD” 😂😂😂
Distractions move on bro
Keep leveling up
Follow your purpose & once you accomplish it or close to it The most high will send the one . Plain & simple . Follow the righteous path, don’t have sex (The act of sex itself is marriage) & everything will work out fellas .
Thank you brother
Ain't no most high going send the one. It's not going happen buddy. Please stfu with all this. Its people who pray and never find a partner. You gotta look for a partner a fictional god not just going magically send a mate
@NsoWill not really there's no such thing as the one. Keep thinking like that you going be 60 or 70 yrs okd single
@NsoWill you gotta go out there and meet people. God not just going magically send you someone out of nowhere
@NsoWill not really man god doesnt send women. You have to go out there and meet good women and socialize. Women are just not going come to you. That's definitely not the only trust man. I dont believe in none of that crap. It's the only way in you opinion
@Let her go cuz they always come back” faaaaacts
He is thinking exactly how she should be thinking 🧐
Your biggest mistake was "falling in love". That was the beginning of the end.
I like how you broke that letter down bro. These lil guys out here need to hear it and get colder.
It's plain and simple if you're not cold hearted you will always get let down in the end, as steph mentioned he shouldn't of got rid of his hoes that ain't his wife and in this day in age its more likely guaranteed that she got some back up dudes
My way of seeing things makes me interpret being "cold hearted" a bit differently. From my bad experiences and observations, my idea of being a man with a cold heart is straight to the point.
A cold hearted man has no pause button, he's openly disloyal, plus he'll laugh at hurting a woman's feelings with his words and actions. Since I have been put through it when it came to women, I observed what worked for the guys they chose. In my opinion, those guys were a joke. I refuse to be those guys because that's not my style, nor do I view their style as the type of person I can truly be. I'm just mistaken for a sucker because I refuse to be the sucker. People truly dont want exactly what they are asking for. They'd rather deal with the watered down cold hearted guy, then complain about the ways of a joker. Hopefully, you understand how I think, fam 🤔!
Rlaaaammhhhhaaaaa!!! Lmao You’re noises are hilarious bro. Keep it up, great content as always!
Another Cold Video🔥🙏🏾We As Men Gotta Stay On Top of Thingz Or We Will Lose Track🐐
Don’t fall for their bullshit tac ticks trust me focus on ya self by all means
Stay on that bag while u out here
I don't take the ladies serious take yourself serious and your goals
Fellas you know what we gotta do 🥶💯
last week i went to Puerto Rico, first night I met this girl, instant chemistry.. my heads by consumed by her since then.. I needed this😭
Don’t play yourself…
@@Nge7stars ik man but shits harder than it seems
@@rafaelgutierrezivit’s not stop simping
@@Wisestomatoe easy for you to say when you don’t kno the circumstances lol im not simping
this is a really deep question I must say. Most of the answers and story's are childs play but his one hit different he better listen to Steph
Harsh but necessary truths📈Stay up brother
Awesome content as always bro. You gotta do a video about the Lindsay and Robert Shiver situation. WILD
I had to learn this the hard way recently smdh
I gain so much by keepin women out my life cuz deep down they all gone cheat if given the chance
22k views in 15hrs. Steph u on another level gang
The loud belch was shocking, but it made the statement even more real🤣🤣😅
He needs to cut his ties…a real “queen” will follow your lead if that’s what she’s choosing to do, till the end of time. She won’t risk jeopardizing losing any of that. Make no vows unless you are married.
If your woman extremely hypergamus please don't commit too these woman have options at all times. If they willingly lie cut her off.dont think about it.
I MISS THESE VIDEOS!
Classic Steph!
NEEDED THIS
I’m gone talk to ninjas 😂😂😂