- [00:00] Thomas introduces DJ Terrarium and kicks off the discussion by asking him what it’s like to be himself, prompting DJ to share insights about his frustrations, sadness, and moments of melancholy. - [02:42] DJ reflects on feelings of melancholy tied to unmet expectations, despite having a fulfilling life and a soul-bonded partner, leading to a discussion about grief and emotional processing. - [04:18] DJ mentions how a lack of sleep impacts his emotions and personality, while Thomas shares his prioritization of sleep as a vital self-care routine, emphasizing its benefits. - [06:19] The conversation shifts to existential reflections, with both discussing their thoughts on death, acceptance, and fear of pain associated with dying. - [09:30] DJ recounts a surreal hospital experience, describing a moment of near-detachment and how it shaped his perception of death, revealing vulnerability and acceptance. - [15:52] DJ shares a transformative experience involving a mantra of acceptance during a marijuana-induced panic, emphasizing its profound effect on his perspective on mortality. - [19:57] Thomas introduces a theological perspective about meekness and acceptance as sources of power, speculating on how embracing reality can bring strength and comfort. - [26:45] The discussion turns to moral judgment, as DJ admits biases when judging people in power versus others, and Thomas explores the nature of contradictions in personal beliefs. - [33:50] Both delve into the concept of acceptance, using metaphors like pendulum swings and stoic principles to navigate challenging emotions and situations. - [43:57] DJ reflects on the evolution of public figures’ reputations, like Paula Deen and Michael Jackson, acknowledging the complex nature of legacy and societal judgment. - [46:24] DJ shares how discovering dance became a newfound passion, highlighting the joy of embracing new interests and self-expression. - [54:48] The conversation touches on emotional growth and the ability to experience love deeply, with DJ recounting his journey of self-reinvention and newfound connections. - [59:14] Thomas contrasts his earlier superficial experiences of love with a deeper, more nuanced understanding rooted in self-awareness and acceptance. - [01:08:22] Both discuss the challenges of feeling understood and the importance of genuine connections in fostering love, acceptance, and engagement. - [01:22:25] They explore the role of engaging projects and self-awareness in combating existential dread, emphasizing the importance of listening to personal passions and needs. - [01:25:23] The discussion concludes with insights into finding purpose through grassroots, meaningful engagement, and focusing on personal growth rather than external validation.
Demoralized is the word! Sadly I just looked it up again and they’ve changed the definition or criteria for this term all the sudden. (Demoralization syndrome) The mental health professionals used to suggest it’s a condition adjacent to depression that can’t be treated with meds or cured because it’s occurs when reality doesn’t match the social programming or what we were told to expect. Now they’re saying it’s an existential crisis. Which seems like an accountability transfer to me…
I once saw this movie, where a person runs up a set of stairs while carrying a gun. Trips in the stairs, falls and shoots himself in the head accidentally. Ever since that this has bothered me, dying accidentally. Think about that, dying by walking on an icy road and accidentally tripping or some other utterly idiotic way of dying.
We have a phrase “psychopath stupid” that we use in a self deprecating way when we do something really stupid that basically only psychopaths do, like forget to fly to France as we had planned to do
My brother 35 tell me you aren't an sociopath (ASPD) at all, that you're more of an attention seeking narcissist who want validation. He said you're not intimidating, you don't have cold aura, he's saying you're a joke and edgy, attention seeking neurotypical giving false information about ASPD lol. He is diagnosed by 3 licensed pschologist with ASPD and schizoid. He also said he can read his own breed who truly has ASPD. This give me question mark... Are you really an sociopath 😐 If i compare to you and my brother, my brother is very intimidating, he have predatory ublinking stare, he is emotionless, don't blink much and don't follow society rules, being impulsive...I mean he made a good point...Sociopaths are intimidated, you're not intimidated at all 😐
- [00:00] Thomas introduces DJ Terrarium and kicks off the discussion by asking him what it’s like to be himself, prompting DJ to share insights about his frustrations, sadness, and moments of melancholy.
- [02:42] DJ reflects on feelings of melancholy tied to unmet expectations, despite having a fulfilling life and a soul-bonded partner, leading to a discussion about grief and emotional processing.
- [04:18] DJ mentions how a lack of sleep impacts his emotions and personality, while Thomas shares his prioritization of sleep as a vital self-care routine, emphasizing its benefits.
- [06:19] The conversation shifts to existential reflections, with both discussing their thoughts on death, acceptance, and fear of pain associated with dying.
- [09:30] DJ recounts a surreal hospital experience, describing a moment of near-detachment and how it shaped his perception of death, revealing vulnerability and acceptance.
- [15:52] DJ shares a transformative experience involving a mantra of acceptance during a marijuana-induced panic, emphasizing its profound effect on his perspective on mortality.
- [19:57] Thomas introduces a theological perspective about meekness and acceptance as sources of power, speculating on how embracing reality can bring strength and comfort.
- [26:45] The discussion turns to moral judgment, as DJ admits biases when judging people in power versus others, and Thomas explores the nature of contradictions in personal beliefs.
- [33:50] Both delve into the concept of acceptance, using metaphors like pendulum swings and stoic principles to navigate challenging emotions and situations.
- [43:57] DJ reflects on the evolution of public figures’ reputations, like Paula Deen and Michael Jackson, acknowledging the complex nature of legacy and societal judgment.
- [46:24] DJ shares how discovering dance became a newfound passion, highlighting the joy of embracing new interests and self-expression.
- [54:48] The conversation touches on emotional growth and the ability to experience love deeply, with DJ recounting his journey of self-reinvention and newfound connections.
- [59:14] Thomas contrasts his earlier superficial experiences of love with a deeper, more nuanced understanding rooted in self-awareness and acceptance.
- [01:08:22] Both discuss the challenges of feeling understood and the importance of genuine connections in fostering love, acceptance, and engagement.
- [01:22:25] They explore the role of engaging projects and self-awareness in combating existential dread, emphasizing the importance of listening to personal passions and needs.
- [01:25:23] The discussion concludes with insights into finding purpose through grassroots, meaningful engagement, and focusing on personal growth rather than external validation.
Second comment! I hope you get all of the love that you deserve on here for your acts of kindness to all of us!
I've BEEN wondering where I can find u I'm glad u have a channel
Demoralized is the word! Sadly I just looked it up again and they’ve changed the definition or criteria for this term all the sudden. (Demoralization syndrome) The mental health professionals used to suggest it’s a condition adjacent to depression that can’t be treated with meds or cured because it’s occurs when reality doesn’t match the social programming or what we were told to expect. Now they’re saying it’s an existential crisis. Which seems like an accountability transfer to me…
Interesting! What do you mean an accountability transfer? From society to the sufferer?
@ I mean from something that requires the world to change, to one that requires the sufferer to yeah.
I once saw this movie, where a person runs up a set of stairs while carrying a gun. Trips in the stairs, falls and shoots himself in the head accidentally.
Ever since that this has bothered me, dying accidentally. Think about that, dying by walking on an icy road and accidentally tripping or some other utterly idiotic way of dying.
Do you really care what you will look like after you die?
@@alex6161 I dont think you understood what i was describing here, and instead projected something of your own into it.
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Do you and your partner make psychopath jokes? Like, are you going to kill me today?😂
We have a phrase “psychopath stupid” that we use in a self deprecating way when we do something really stupid that basically only psychopaths do, like forget to fly to France as we had planned to do
@m.e.thomas7901 😅 that's a different kind of forgetting haha
My brother 35 tell me you aren't an sociopath (ASPD) at all, that you're more of an attention seeking narcissist who want validation. He said you're not intimidating, you don't have cold aura, he's saying you're a joke and edgy, attention seeking neurotypical giving false information about ASPD lol. He is diagnosed by 3 licensed pschologist with ASPD and schizoid. He also said he can read his own breed who truly has ASPD. This give me question mark... Are you really an sociopath 😐 If i compare to you and my brother, my brother is very intimidating, he have predatory ublinking stare, he is emotionless, don't blink much and don't follow society rules, being impulsive...I mean he made a good point...Sociopaths are intimidated, you're not intimidated at all 😐
Psychopaths blink up to six to seven times less per minute. The gaze is fixed and it is difficult not seem strange.