This 31-year-old Drifter Has NO DIRECTION in His Business - Social Proof HOT SEAT #23

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  • Опубліковано 9 гру 2023
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  • @seymonetko1958
    @seymonetko1958 2 місяці тому +5

    His ability to meet our people where they are mentally and inspire change is unique.

  • @jwomack09
    @jwomack09 6 місяців тому +28

    At first I was pissed. This dude was upsetting me. But now I can say the positive of the conversation is to give this brother a chance to gain perspective. Dave you’re doing hard work. Thanks.

  • @TheJennDanielle
    @TheJennDanielle 4 місяці тому +10

    That $500,000 had David HOT 🤣 This actually was a great episode. The drifting part is golden.

  • @empowermentbrands3321
    @empowermentbrands3321 6 місяців тому +13

    Social Proof literally has the best content on the internet. I feel like y’all be talking directly to me.

  • @TheHipHopVegan
    @TheHipHopVegan 4 місяці тому +9

    Paying a bill at a time for your moms is one of the realist things I've heard in a while. Thanks. I'm doing that immediately!

    • @angelicawhetstone
      @angelicawhetstone Місяць тому

      Big facts. I'll make sure my brother sees this episode. That's a great strategy he can implement for our mom.

  • @sexy7one
    @sexy7one 4 місяці тому +4

    I admire David's patience! That's it, that's all!!!

  • @cee434_
    @cee434_ 3 місяці тому +4

    "The episode dropping ten years from now" smh bless you heart dawg

  • @NHExperienceTV
    @NHExperienceTV 6 місяців тому +8

    Wow. Good to see David educate this young man. We all have to be educated on something in life.

  • @IamKingLamont
    @IamKingLamont 3 місяці тому +4

    This content is extremely important due to the impact social media has on our expectations and view of success. People THINK they are doing more or they THINK they are capable of doing more but are not committed to the actions necessary to achieve success.

    • @timestampingarmy
      @timestampingarmy 11 днів тому

      It looks like he achieved success which is being comfortable with who he is.. Dave is talking about money. People forget these young adults seen what the older generations think about money and success and they don't want any part of it and that's the look at things. Even the other communities are speaking on issues of universal income because they don't believe in that fake American dream that was told to us for so many generations

  • @Arteikah2024
    @Arteikah2024 3 місяці тому +3

    I love this video! It was great to see how patient David was while also not holding back in helping this young man. Good job, David!

  • @AshleyBdont4getheB
    @AshleyBdont4getheB 6 місяців тому +12

    GOAT you’re actually smarter than everyone who is doubting you. Your faith will continue to get you far. Life teaches us not people’s opinions.

  • @fareal207
    @fareal207 6 місяців тому +10

    Dude said
    "Yea if the dinner goes well maybe Jayz does a skit for you an it gets a million views"
    ...like how many skits have you seen jayz do? Dude said almost all the wrong things

  • @dawgfacesoldier
    @dawgfacesoldier 6 місяців тому +5

    @9:03 when this dude said "you can take a picture and it goes viral" I almost lost it. Some people hate to admit that what they say, sounds delusional.

  • @chriselliott9611
    @chriselliott9611 29 днів тому +1

    This episode should be seen in High schools and jr. High schools across America

  • @Bambamlynch704
    @Bambamlynch704 6 місяців тому +5

    I love this type of interview

  • @veeboss4853
    @veeboss4853 4 місяці тому +1

    This is definitely one of my favs ❤ so many gems and great mentorship

  • @JP-rk6ug
    @JP-rk6ug 4 місяці тому +3

    9:05 What makes you think a viral picture is going to make more money than 500k

  • @bklynpowerhouse
    @bklynpowerhouse 6 місяців тому +1

    This was a great podcast episode. Definitely took a lot of pointers.

  • @EriellOdhams21
    @EriellOdhams21 6 місяців тому +7

    Did he say get rich off a photo?

  • @Delonta1221
    @Delonta1221 6 місяців тому +2

    Great episode

  • @daynamoore4097
    @daynamoore4097 6 місяців тому +1

    This was a good episode.

  • @michaelwall8310
    @michaelwall8310 2 місяці тому

    You was in rare form David great coaching bro

  • @bklynpowerhouse
    @bklynpowerhouse 6 місяців тому +1

    What David said at @30:00 really spoke to me when he started talking about being intentional.

  • @shonr.9704
    @shonr.9704 3 місяці тому

    Wow. Bless your heart. I hope he had a whole new outlook on everything after this interview. I was yelling at the screen like if i hear " idk" one more time!😬

  • @AshleyBdont4getheB
    @AshleyBdont4getheB 6 місяців тому +3

    Don’t doubt his ambition or choice. Anything is possible.

  • @terryreese5509
    @terryreese5509 6 місяців тому +3

    I want the smoke Dave. Put me on a hot seat.

  • @terrionacowan3710
    @terrionacowan3710 4 місяці тому

    This episode was very good! U can tell that the gentleman wasn’t knowledgeable about a lot of things HOWEVER he was engaging and coachable! He will do great things!!! I believe he will take David’s advice and implement it! David did excellent coaching!

  • @Flavapodcast
    @Flavapodcast 6 місяців тому +1

    Love both those guys .

  • @thisisjaye
    @thisisjaye 4 місяці тому +1

    I like what you did with your mom’s bills. ❤ Unfortunately, much of what you said went over his head. I hope he keeps watching this over and over again to try and get it.

  • @reggeesexpressions
    @reggeesexpressions День тому

    David you be having these people scared!

  • @RobertTucker-gf4um
    @RobertTucker-gf4um 6 місяців тому +4

    "Throw Your Music to the Barber Shop Wolfing Critics" the concept of the Podcast with a Special Guest..Customer pay top dollar to be in the chair for their fade...

  • @melishawilliams8671
    @melishawilliams8671 2 місяці тому

    It’s have something to do with environment but a lot to do with where society is now. Everyone thinking they all they need is to go viral. The crazy part is some go viral and have no idea how to monetize it. Great conversation

  • @nechyimccaskill5578
    @nechyimccaskill5578 4 місяці тому

    This is powerful

  • @jasoncarnell2189
    @jasoncarnell2189 6 місяців тому +1

    7:06-7:10 was Tuff Bigg Bro
    LESSON LEARNED MONEY EARNED Salute To Twin for coming on the show and showing that transparency S/o To Bigg Bruhda for the Prep Talk #LEGENDS #UBUNTU #MEWEUS 🌊🌊🌊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @melishawilliams8671
    @melishawilliams8671 2 місяці тому

    I would love to see a follow up this was good

  • @FranzStFleur
    @FranzStFleur 20 днів тому

    Bro, the "I want to be me" should be "I want to be the evolved version of myself." He can turn his barbershop into a podcast where he interviews and cuts clients who are business owners, giving him and the audience business advice. He can call it "Cutting Success."

    • @timestampingarmy
      @timestampingarmy 11 днів тому

      I'm just not understanding how the older folks don't get this..success comes from being confident in ones own ability, this young man seems pretty confident to the point where he doesn't need to commodify all his energy chasing the carrot on the stick called success. Boys be just wanting some more paper in they pocket to pay these bills and these 304s

  • @livestreettheaters8042
    @livestreettheaters8042 5 місяців тому +2

    I really feel sorry for you to have to interview him , this young man is ruthless with the stupidity lol

  • @redheadvibez
    @redheadvibez 2 місяці тому

    Ngl , when he mentioned the picture with Jay Z that’s something I would’ve said months ago…. I love this series because I’m learning and taking notes so I can learn from their mistakes 💀😭. I’m 22 . It’s so baffling hearing someone else say it …

  • @sunnc
    @sunnc 6 місяців тому

    7:20 lmaooo facts they’re gonna tell you what you already know. Most of us already know what we need to do. We just need to do it.

  • @CajinPeach
    @CajinPeach 5 місяців тому +2

    He’s definitely a drifter.

  • @OwlEmperor
    @OwlEmperor 6 місяців тому +1

    9:00 the question is how you plan to monetize the pictures or information vs using the money and free information. Once you get the big money and upgrade your business meeting JAYZ would be a breeze no??

  • @christafeaster6624
    @christafeaster6624 5 місяців тому

    It's in the experience that will keep them coming back

  • @meatbaltaylorconsumed501
    @meatbaltaylorconsumed501 4 місяці тому

    Wow I’m not perfect and cannot judge but🤦🏽‍♂️that was heavy and David’s patience is great

  • @dw9054
    @dw9054 2 місяці тому

    How sweet he was. We need mentorship and guidance that’s all he represented this young man seems to want to do more just needs help.

  • @FranzStFleur
    @FranzStFleur 20 днів тому

    No matter how many views you get 1,millions, billions if you have nothing to sell. That's why you see a lot of UA-camrs with large followers still working a job

  • @dutchesswb
    @dutchesswb 4 місяці тому +1

    Definitely some arrested development going on...driveway is not connecting to the street at all. Hope he takes something away from this!

  • @ronjackson6082
    @ronjackson6082 3 місяці тому

    Damn I hope lil bro was just trolling 😂

  • @lindaamcgee855
    @lindaamcgee855 3 місяці тому

    You might take a picture and go viral...and you get money for that picture!
    David: 👀 👁🕳👁

  • @joshuarobinson9695
    @joshuarobinson9695 6 місяців тому +3

    First comment baybeeeeeee📣

  • @MsREALinHEELS
    @MsREALinHEELS 6 місяців тому +2

    What would he do with a powerful network if he had it?

    • @naimhasan8154
      @naimhasan8154 6 місяців тому +2

      I don’t know

    • @jk9084
      @jk9084 3 місяці тому

      ​@@naimhasan8154😂😂😂

  • @thinkingkingdommedia8688
    @thinkingkingdommedia8688 6 місяців тому +7

    David….why did you bring this man on here…I’m out

  • @showmeld3
    @showmeld3 2 місяці тому

    He said black Friday OMG

  • @richlitradio5233
    @richlitradio5233 6 місяців тому

    Yea I can’t

  • @karamcmlln
    @karamcmlln 6 місяців тому +11

    It’s wild to me that this guy said he became a barber to build relationships, yet almost every answer was “I don’t know”. What relationships are you building with nothing to offer? 🤯

  • @samray3856
    @samray3856 6 місяців тому +6

    with $500k you could afford to pay 3 or 4 mentors that will teach you for weeks/months ... he's clueless if he thinks 1 single sit down with Jay-z is worth more than that

  • @fr4shart
    @fr4shart 3 місяці тому

    with the. money to can pay for financial education

  • @abigailhollis3916
    @abigailhollis3916 6 місяців тому +6

    David Shands!!!!!! You killed it on this episode. Sharing your story about how you strategically start taking care of your mom and not just waiting for that “BIG” moment to be able to do it, GEM 💎. Your mindset is full of GOLD. (I’m not even finished watching) 😊

  • @PlatinumPAT
    @PlatinumPAT 2 місяці тому

    He should do this in his barbershop and cut the entrepreneur hair that’s a 30 minute episode and it’s different

  • @lllbailey
    @lllbailey 6 місяців тому +2

    Very good episode

  • @shameccafreeman
    @shameccafreeman 6 місяців тому +2

    9:11 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @TinaChristinaTD
    @TinaChristinaTD 6 місяців тому +7

    I love how you still found a way to speak LIFE. Amen.
    Vagabond spirit is that drifting spirit.

  • @tmthewriter
    @tmthewriter 6 місяців тому +2

    This was great! 💯💪🏿💪🏿

  • @TruthBToldOnce
    @TruthBToldOnce 2 місяці тому

    Common sense can't be taught😢🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @SassyCEO
    @SassyCEO 6 місяців тому +2

    I love this discourse but there are a lot of cognitive distortions on both ends.
    Angela Bassett was raised in the projects (ask me how I know) but attended Yale.
    Just because you’re raised in an environment doesn’t mean you participate in the activity or are of the same mindset of that environment.
    I love you for this but you’re making alot of assumptions and this is called all or nothing or black and white thinking.
    Question, is the goal of this segment to diagnose, practically prescribe or both?
    Just food for thought❤
    Keep up the good work😊

    • @RealSocialProof
      @RealSocialProof  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for your input

    • @SassyCEO
      @SassyCEO 6 місяців тому

      @@RealSocialProof you’re welcome; just food for thought. Thank you for being so impactful.

  • @taeoutdamudd
    @taeoutdamudd 6 місяців тому +3

    I watched almost every episode of hot seat thank y’all for being consistent 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

  • @realestatecoach8626
    @realestatecoach8626 6 місяців тому +2

    Everything said is so true thus far!

    • @tonyi5839
      @tonyi5839 6 місяців тому +3

      The first 10 minutes of this video are stressful 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @audriemeraki
    @audriemeraki 2 місяці тому

    This guy…a lot of learning to do.

  • @renebirdow9895
    @renebirdow9895 6 місяців тому +7

    That was good. Information that this young man and us needed ❤

  • @backpackjeff7481
    @backpackjeff7481 6 місяців тому +4

    You might could take a picture with Jay-Z and it goes Viral? Bro, what?!!!!

  • @Lipsmackingsauces
    @Lipsmackingsauces 6 місяців тому +4

    His only bar was about the streets lol

  • @solebrity409
    @solebrity409 6 місяців тому +4

    Skip the dinner with Jay-Z, take the $500k, and subscribe/tune in to the Social Proof Podcast everyday! 📈📈📈📈

  • @deemagnificent1
    @deemagnificent1 6 місяців тому +4

    I enjoyed this episode. 9:06 you were flabbergasted 😂. I think you gave him a different perspective though

  • @TonyaAnderson-hu9mr
    @TonyaAnderson-hu9mr 6 місяців тому +1

    Get credibility for authors who have made millions on books...only.
    Few and far between, but they are notable.
    Agitha Christie is a top producer as well as Stephen King.
    * 😊🎉

  • @mamaworkn3717
    @mamaworkn3717 6 місяців тому +5

    51:01 to 53:40 is the MILLION DOLLAR NUGGET HE GAVE HIM! if he didn’t take nothing from this conversation he needs to take that information and run with it.
    He gave it to HIM FOR FREE! Without the 20 thousand dinner🤷🏽‍♀️ and i don’t think he caught the gem to be honest.
    Be intentional about everything you do!

  • @jhukema
    @jhukema 6 місяців тому +4

    This is cringy! He acting slow

    • @TheGOAT2010
      @TheGOAT2010 17 днів тому

      🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @7dayweekendzz
    @7dayweekendzz 2 місяці тому

    He pissing me off

  • @psychfacts4939
    @psychfacts4939 6 місяців тому +2

    Aye he ain’t even deserve to be on there 😂😂😂😂 thts jay z conversation was crazy he just saying anything

  • @shizman8037
    @shizman8037 6 місяців тому +6

    Just cut my hair bro

    • @abigailhollis3916
      @abigailhollis3916 6 місяців тому +3

      This has got to be the funniest comment on this thread 😂😂😂

    • @puttinyadown
      @puttinyadown 6 місяців тому

      I gotcha bro push up on me 749 Moreland Ave SE Atlanta Ga 30316. Ask for HP, the guy being interviewed. lets talk in person and see if you feel the same after out convo 💯

  • @kyrietrimble3090
    @kyrietrimble3090 6 місяців тому +5

    I really appreciate Shane’s mentorship that’s one of the reasons I’ve always watched him resonated with everything he said I’d love to be on his show one day ✊🏾

  • @Caseythecoach
    @Caseythecoach 6 місяців тому +1

    David you going to get cancel by shedding all the knowledge about our mindset and how to change it. 💪🏿🔥

  • @WeGoneReachABilli1st
    @WeGoneReachABilli1st 6 місяців тому +36

    This was hard to watch I hope he learns from this conversation

    • @Petamann-hg5hv
      @Petamann-hg5hv 5 місяців тому

      Yea,this shit is hard to watch! SMH! I'm from the streets

    • @catherinesaunders9175
      @catherinesaunders9175 4 місяці тому

      Literally my thoughts for most of these hot seats 🔥

    • @wowie3000
      @wowie3000 3 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @PeezyReacts
    @PeezyReacts 6 місяців тому +4

    this has to be a free conversation.
    Buddy is not trying to listen to anything you are saying

  • @kayannthegreat
    @kayannthegreat 6 місяців тому +4

    I don't think it's apples to apples to say you'd take x over y vs paying y for x. You can know it's a 50k value and take that vs. the money when coming up with the 50k isn't possible for you right now.

  • @Flare6
    @Flare6 6 місяців тому +2

    7:50 people who would take the money have the mentality that there’s quick fix to change their circumstances when in reality they have to be the ones to put in the work to get the outcomes they desire.

    • @Flare6
      @Flare6 6 місяців тому

      11:24 Jay Z ain’t bout to be anyone’s friend 😂 in business, the purpose of relationships is to make money. That’s different from personal relationships like true friends and family.

    • @Flare6
      @Flare6 6 місяців тому

      41:10 love this! So glad this brother was able to speak with David who gives him the game without judgement. Taking consistent steps toward a vision is so powerful!

  • @s1n27
    @s1n27 4 місяці тому

    Ok, If I were offered $500,000 or a dinner with jayz I'd take the money then pay Jay $100,000 to talk to me for an hour and then invest the rest into something. Id use the info that he told me to help expand on my investment. I don't think jayz makes $100,000 an hour, so you pay him more than he earns for his hour of time. If he made $100,000 an hour, he'd be making $876,000,000 a year. He'd literally have to make $100,000 every single hour of the year to make that amount.

    • @AvantGarbs
      @AvantGarbs 4 місяці тому +3

      I think it’d be best to keep your money and actually buy books/ watch interviews from other successful people about how to invest. There’s tons of information out their for your leisure that won’t cost you $100,000 to obtain. Jay-Z isn’t the end all be all about how to be successful.

    • @s1n27
      @s1n27 4 місяці тому

      @AvantGarbs could be best but books don't build relationships

  • @demontcornelius5225
    @demontcornelius5225 6 місяців тому +1

    This kid is delusional 😂😅😅 (I'm gone, I can't take it anymore)

  • @buttaflygirl05
    @buttaflygirl05 6 місяців тому +4

    This dude doesnt know that JayZ is not a powerful person. The record execs and label ceos hold the power. JayZ is a character made to look like power. For all we know JZ could sit down and give him the same info he couldve gotten from UA-cam. Who has JayZ helped uplift? When has anyone ever heard JZ sit down and give solid advise and steps to success and that plan actually work for someone? This generation values gaining notoriety, fame and likes over stability and financial freedom. As long as they look like they have money. Which in our generation we grew up with the mindset of making as much $$ as possible. This poor guy is a 12 year old living in a 31 year old body and these are the dudes women have to chose from for mate's. Lol 🫠🫠🥴🥴🥴