The Joe Budden Podcast Episode 678 | Love Bomb
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
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In the latest episode, the JBP starts by recapping their Thanksgiving (15:43) before turning to Dolly Parton’s halftime performance at the Cowboys game (38:40). A number of additional lawsuits were released to the public throughout the past week (46:05), a debate takes place over the term ‘love bombing’ (1:13:37), and Lupe Fiasco has started to rap over André 3000 flutes (1:32:17). Also, the room debates Sexyy Red’s new song (1:34:58), Kanye West & Ty Dolla $ign drop ‘Vultures’ (1:40:53), God Shammgod responds to Ish (1:54:07), Jeff Teague says Michael Jackson can’t sing (2:06:36), Hall & Oates are in a legal battle (2:18:08), and much more!
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0:00 - Intro
15:43 - Thanksgiving recap
38:40 - Dolly Parton’s halftime performance
46:05 - New lawsuits
1:13:37 - ‘love bombing’
1:32:17 - Lupe Fiasco & André 3000
1:34:58 - Sexyy Red’s new song
1:40:53 - Kanye West & Ty Dolla $ign new song
1:54:07 - God Shammgod responds to Ish
2:06:36 - Jeff Teague vs Michael Jackson
2:18:08 - Hall & Oates are in a legal battle
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Mel dropped the ball with the love bombing segment! So love bombing came about when people do abusive behaviors towards someone, then AFTER comes a wave of affection to essentially reel u back in. Picture an old school sour patch commercial- essentially that is love bombing. Not courting since there wasn’t any abusive behavior prior to the courting.
This makes more sense cus I’m listening to her explain like wtf is going on 😂😂😂
I literally came to the comments to find this! Sometimes she just doesn’t hit the mark. Identifying a love bombing is based on the actions prior and after love bombing. They are thinking of love bombing as a consistent things occurring during a prolonged time frame ie. dating and/or courting. Yeah she def did not explain this accurately.
Lol She tries but they are mad ignorant. Even based off what she said, it's not that difficult to comprehend what she meant. Ish especially is so intellectually inept that he wasn't even trying to understand, but only interested in bashing her. It's not hard to imagine a dude being super nice in the beginning only to move in with the chick, and starts beating her ass and taking her car while she's at work. That's been a character in every Black community since before everyone in that room was born. How they didn't get is beyond me.
@@BaldwinFanonGarveyTureShakurX because that was a terrible explanation. Mel explained courting someone you’re interested or even simping. Hell even the way she explained it made it sound like the man was getting taken advantage of.
@BaldwinFanonGarveyTureShakurX Mel made no sense she even stopped at times cause she was confused herself and try explaining again and it got bad for her. She tried sounding top notch and smart on the love bombing but failed the usual 😂
The look on ish's face when Mel asked him if his girlfriend was polish, ish was thinking wtf. 😂😂😂
17:15 I’m dying 😂
She must be Hella white
Ish ignored her ass
😂😂
Mel being shady she know his girl ain’t polish 🙄💀💀😂😂😂😂
Mel forgot to mention that love bombing normally comes after the ass beating. It's not just an introductory. They hurt you then love you back until they beat cho ass again. Mel missed this one.
I was saying this!
I don't think the guys understood that love bombing is a part of an abuse and control pattern. I believe whatever Ish read was a poor description of love bombing.
@@hitmanswife1125but he "did research" 😂🤦🏽♂️
She miss every shot she take lol
Ok, you made way more sense in a single sentence than she did during the whole convo
When everyone got on the couch when Mel started talking 😂😂😂
Watching Mel fumble the love bomb conversation is killer.
Cause it’s not a real concept
@@user-ee1jc2sd1g I respectfully disagree
@@user-ee1jc2sd1g. something tells me "concept" is a big word to you. 🤫
@@user-ee1jc2sd1git is she’s just an airhead 😂
Parks is a low key comedian and a sniper lol i love his comedic sense/ timing.
Flip never fails to tell Ish that he trying to look young every pod 😂
Fax, and it is getting old.
😂😂😂nah it’s still funny. “You look good” 😹😹😹
Flip jealous he look like the old drunk uncle with hoop dreams 😂😭😭
I look forward to it 😂😂
You always gotta point out the old nigga tryna be young it’s just what we do 😂😂😂
The "love bomber" starts pulling away when they notice that the victim has fallen in love. The victim is now left confused as to what happened, and this can cause cognitive dissonance. A narcissist will usually use this to their advantage and make the person believe they did something wrong and have them "work" for it to be like it used to be, ie have control over the relationship... The sudden pulling away is a clear indicator! Telling you a lot about themselves but without details, and asking you a lot of personal questions "getting to know you" in order to use it against you.... It´s intentional manipulation, the opposite of organically falling in love
BINGO! YOU HIT THE NAIL RIGHT ON THE HEAD WITH THIS ONE!!!!
@@Live.Laugh.Love05And you took the words right out of my mouth....agree 💯 facts!!!!!! Nailed it on the head!
Sounds like the basis of an excellent strategy.
Yes, this is the best explanation in my opinion in the comment section. The pulling away part and making people confused and making them ‘work’ for receiving 5 % of what they got in the beginning is the important part
What if, just what if....the person stopped liking you, fell out of love etc etc. What the guys' point is, is that in regards to actions, there is no separation btw "love bombing" and being loving. Cause you described it based off what they did after the "love bombing ".
Flip: "My Aunt came from VA..."
Joe: "I wasn't done with my family." 🦃 😂😂😂😂😂
Melyssa dropped the ball on that “love bomb” convo lol
Mel couldn’t land that love bomb plane for SHAT!! 😭😅 they know exactly what she was saying. She meant the demented, evil, purposefully manipulative people who use emotional tactics specifically for personal gain (mental control, sex, “wifey” mindset) with no intention of true connection or growth as a couple. It’s generally known that women are more emotionally wired than men so it appears more towards one gender but anyone can experience love bombing from someone with NEGATIVE INTENTIONS. Not people who genuinely like the person they are courting and showing their positive intentions of building longevity. There’s a clear difference. Has nothing to do with the person it’s happening to. Just because they don’t do it themselves doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist. Stop being willfully ignorant and condoning weird behavior.
Basically love bombing if you reserve the right and regret what you did in the past with that person women are Fuking dum and make no sense
Whew.... thank you for landing the plane. These dudes seem to have Mel so spooked that she tiptoes through subjects.
@@km-qc3iv she doesn’t tiptoe that’s just how she speaks. She doesn’t wanna step on nobodies toes s she’s a people pleaser that’s no one’s fault but hers
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
👏🏾👏🏾 she was giving me a headache with her terrible explanation and they made it 10 times worse purposefully trying to invalidate the concept
I think what Mel was trying to articulate about “love bombing” is that it’s usually accompanied by abuse. That’s the difference between courting vs love bombing. Like when someone hits u but afterwards showers u with gifts & attention. Thts what keeps victims locked in tht cycle of abuse.
Exactly the definition
Mel did a bad job explaining; however, these dude know what love bombing is and the difference.
No it actually just doesn't make sense, it's someone looking to be a victim
Mel is always holding back because they group up and attack her. Look at how joe reacted when she started reading the definition .They always dismiss her takes thats why she second guesses alot of things. i bet they will read the comments ,come back next week and say that she got them in trouble lol .
Exactly. I miss the old Mel that first was introduced to the pod. When she didn't hold back. I hate the discomfort you can literally see on her face every episode. They try to play dumb like they don't understand. Diddy was predatory he messed with her with the intention of manipulating that girl. Beat her and then buy her gifts!
That fakeout introduction of Mel😂😂😂😂
Kamala cackle
I need to start a documentary on how I'm trying to survive this era of this Sexy Red trash
It’s really easy I would have never even heard about it if they didn’t mention it on the pod and imma forget about it real fast
Women rap dominating and it's the first year rap has been on the biggest decline it's ever been on. Go figure. Common denominator is the female rappers being pushed to forefront makin nonsense. Rap is truly done. I don't anticipate any rapper or rap album. Genres is going extinct
You’ve survived trash rap culture this entire time, so you’ll be aight. 😂
I refuse to listen to it. Even our generation's "trash" at least had some type of talents
They did Mel dirty AF in that Love Bombing conversation 😂😂😂
😂😂
They don't understand the meaning of it and she didn't do a good job in explaining it to them. A missed opportunity
When everybody sat on the couch I died 😂
Joe looking way more relaxed now that survivors act window closed 😅
Joe like 😮💨😮💨
Salute for the post and your email😂😂
Oh shit fam 😂
😂😂😂
Nah now that just more than diddy is being accused it’s not so much in him lol
"Ish has been sick for at least 2 months and doesn't believe it."😂😂😂
That's most men tbh. We don't have time nor do we care that we're a lil under the weather unless we are shaking in a sweat or broke something
Facts though. He done had a cough for months now. How you don’t think that’s something bigger?
@@nofreehooksa cough? He’s supposed to jump out of skin and fish for pity bcuz he got a cough?
@@ez6888 you think it’s normal to have a “cough” for months on end? lol go to the doctor homie.
Joe Budden saying Hall & Oates sampled Duck Tales had me crying. 😂😂
Where Would We Be Without The JBP 💪🏾
Lost yo
I appreciate the holiday content my brothers and Mel, love yall
“is she polish???”
“uggggghhhh”…
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
and parks saying “the fight … oops-WAR” 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I searched all platforms and the JBP is hands down the best 💯💯💯
Yo! Ice is officially my favorite. Being a defendant at Thanksgiving dinner is crazy! 🤣🤣🤣
And wantin to pop Martha Stewart 😂😂
When Flip gets serious, he probably asks the best questions on the pod
I’ve been saying this. That’s why I love the brother. Silly usually but when he gets serious and talks about deep subjects, he genuinely invokes thought. I like his perspective. I’m a fan of everyone on the pod but my favourites are between Flip and Ish.
This pod makes me smile every morning I wake up. I always have a blessed and productive day. Thanks to the jbp
2:20:20 love when the pod breaks out into song 😂😂😂. Always so funny singing the classics
Thank you Joe for the extra podcasts great weekend full of laughter .😂😂😂Were would we be without the JBP 😂😂😂
The best way to start your day is watching The Joe Budden Podcast. 💯
I agree
This
This podcast is the funniest best most refreshing form of entertainment thank you guys JBP
BIG UP Ish on saying ALL victims deserve to be compensated beyond statue of limitation!!
Mel was wrong the way she looked at him saying she's surprised he feels that way. I'd be so insulted.
She thought he would say no because he doesn't stand with the "Me Too" movement@@effective_cmpote
A new listener to the podcast and love it! You guys are having fun, being respectful and insightful. The ideal podcast. Good job everyone 👏🏾👏🏾
That Drake take was full of salt! It came and went but got you ready to rap all of sudden 😂😂😂 and for 15 minutes??? And the stooges agreeing. That was whack 😂😂
Hell yeah lol.. and idk what tf ish was talking about saying it was quiet…hate is just louder than something being praised.. if were all agreeing its fire nobody is really debating or going back n forth about it..
Yet they talk like Sexxy Red really got heat that was absolutely pure salt
This pod is very well put together...it's crazy that I'm just realizing it
FYI :Daryl Hall is the blonde guy and John Oates is the guy with the black hair . Also Hall did most of the lead singing.
Exactly....I was like "what". Defer to Mel for actors and movies...never music.
Right!! Don’t know what she was talking about.
The problem with that term love bombing is a term that speaks on the action from a person in the moment but love bombing can only be recognized in hindsight
Wrong. Love bombing is done by someone with intent to manipulate.. to capture a victim... like. Cult leaders - pimps - true narcissistic people... they give the victim what they "need" with the same intention as a piece of cheese in a mouse trap... it's veery simple
Exactly!
Flip at the very beginning...
"Yo can we leave at a reasonable time today please?" ⏲️ 🕐 🏃🏾♂️ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Overworked and underpaid" sub? 😅
Joe and ish are so wrong about scary hours 3.. the love is just more quiet than the hate.. there’s nothing bad to say about so it seems quiet but the shit was fire
They gettin cooked on it so duh they hatin. 6/6
They lying
This is the only pod I know that has episodes in the cut ready and willing to put them out back to back to back🤯😇
Love bombing is when you do all those things at first to get them deeply invested in the relationship then stopping it and tricking them into thinking the giving person is really you when it’s not
OOOOOR, Maybe they just lost their job or decided to stop doing it reasonably.
@@GDSprodify😂😂 is this anecdotal
I think it starts with that but another component is when they try to use the way they treated you as an excuse when they start doing fuck shit.
@@GDSprodifythat’s not love bombing then fool. 😂😂😂
Thank you they make everything personal😂 “2 things can be true”
THE FIRST TEN MINUTES OF THE SHOW IS THE REAL PODFATHER AT HIS BEST NOT THE NONSENSE WE HAVE BEEN GETTING IN RECENT TIMES.
I'm glad Mel is on here👊🏾
Repeating “I ain’t gonna play today what kind of pod we having” over and over ?
@@SticksAandstonesBozoright lol
Man! Make a proper drop for the whole cast sir. ✅️
what's the point if Flip is talking about leaving
Sometimes I wish Melissa wasn’t the only woman on the couch so when she can’t articulate the definition of certain lingo like “love bombing” correctly she could have someone there to help her. Love bombing is typically a manipulative tactic used by abusers and is typically accompanied by gift giving following the abuse. For instance, a man beats tf out of his gf and then the next morning he showers her with gifts, like a car and a vacation so she could forgive him. That’s an example of lovebombing. Another example is when the guy is extremely nice to you in the beginning when he’s trying to peruse you but once he traps you (in either marrriage or with a child) he shows his true colors and becomes really abusive. Think of the movie Enough which stars Jennifer Lopez. This guy is introduced as a knight in shining armor who helps her from this slimy man preying on her, just for her “knight in shining armor” to be a complete devil once he marries her. He uses his money and power over her head and showers her with gifts after any of his abusive wrong doings. As far as the timeline Mel is referring to, it does happen very fast..like a whirlwind romance that sounds too good to be true and unfortunately in some cases it truly is.
I understand, but then you're also saying women are easily fooled by meaningless trinkets. Accepting anything from a man after he's abused you is very telling and is giving Stockholm syndrome vibes. Deciphering a man's character without becoming blinded by material gifts and trips should be the only goal 100% of the time. Same with men. Does she like me or what I can do for her? Is she verbally abusive and when I pull back does she use vagina to reel me back in only to get a bag. Works both ways mama, respectfully.
@@ApoetsPoet I never said loveboming only affect women. I just used women as an example since the conversation on the pod involved a woman’s point of view as an example. Lovebombing and manipulation can occur in both genders. Now respectfully fuck off. 😌
The love bomb conversation was frustrating. I was waiting for Mel to actually make the definition make sense…maybe all the over taking was confusing her and causing her to give a confusing definition? Idk. But love bombing put simply, is when a person- man or woman, INTENTIONALLY plays on your insecurities by constantly (and usually very early on in a relationship) tells you they “love you” and uses their “love” for you as a reason for you to forgive their mistakes and wrong actions. They hit you “but I love you so much, you’re the only person in the world for me”. They stalk you “I’m only popping up on you because I love you so much”. A person that love bombs is usually, eventually abusive, and possessive. And early on in their relationship, they use “love” as a reason to isolate you from others so they can have more control. After a week, they want you to move in. After two dates, they wanna fly you out somewhere to take you on a vacation. Just too much, way too soon.
A love bomber is usually hella obsessive, very early in. And to a more healed person, this is a turn off so it doesn’t work as well. But a love bomber intentionally preys on a person that hasn’t experienced “love”, or is very insecure, so they’re more likely to fall for it.
It’s all about the intent, a person that’s love bombing DOES NOT actually love you. They are only doing these things for the purpose of manipulating a partner. That’s it. It’s not that difficult of a concept to understand lol.
Remember when Martin asked Tommy to explain to Pam and Gina what love is? Tommy's explanation=love bombing.
Right! I didn’t understand why their conversation was so all over the place. Mel didn’t do well to explain and then for her to say that love bombing can’t be applied to Cassie and Diddy situation just goes to show that she really didn’t what she was talking about. They were all over the place for something that’s not difficult to understand.
Thank you for this. But Joe understands it. He has done this. The rest of them are not trying to understand it at all. 😢
Thank you! I felt the same way listening to her explain it, and honestly, it’s evident to me that whenever she’s put on the hot seat, she struggles. Most of the time, she’s echoing others’ points if she’s not being antagonized by the men. I want to shake her and let her know she got this, she can hold her own as long as she doesn’t get distracted. She could learn from Ish and Joe on this, ‘cause they’re excellent conversationalists when it comes to staying on track and keeping the discourse going.
You don't know what the other persons intent was. A lot of girls just throw this term around so loosely because their relationship didn't work out. At some point there needs to be some accountability on the girls if you're falling for that type of behavior.
I love how Joe acts like he’s not in the same category as Mel & Ish. You’re there too Joe! Surprise!
Thanks parks
Thank him for each time he don’t show up on camera
@Stockboy929 you on his 🍖
Word.
@@Stockboy929this hate
@@Stockboy929that’s crazy😂😂
😂 Joe's face when he gets called out is out of bounds 😂
What Mel is saying is; The ONLY person that knows from the gate that they are “love bombing” is the person doing the love-bombing. He/She knows what their TRUE intentions are. They know that they are doing all of the things only to have the upper hand/control in the end. Women can do it too.
Flip is the Podder of the Month!🔥
Him & Mel need their tag music.
Coming and going 😂 best line of the pod
Ayyyoo that whole Dolly/Martha convo was out of pocket😂
I love this podcast
I literally lost it at “Oh and they sampled Duck Tales”😂😂😂😂
I SWEAR ONE OF THE BEST THINGS, IS SEEING A NEW EPISODE UP! LETS GOOOOOO 💯👍🏽
“Me too Movement” is awfully quiet 🤫
Somebody please tell Mel "I'm too smart for my own damn good" Ford that the Flu is not prescribed or treated with the use of antibiotics...girl please 🙄
Actually u can take a zpak which is azithromycin when sick
A bacteria 🦠 and a virus are different. Typically, you have to wait it out with a virus. Antibiotics treat bacterial infections mostly.
My son just brought it home from daycare and it seems worse than the flu , we had this heavy cough with mucus for weeks our doctor said it was the flu but then it went away and then came back harder and the symptoms totally change from flu like to stomach virus 🦠 when we went back we had to get in nebulizers and a steroid the antibiotics did absolutely NOTHING idn what’s going around but it don’t seem like the common flu be safe out there❤
@@charmainewilliaz-pack doesn’t stop a virus from spreading.
Everyone is seriously coughing mucus coughs everywhere like everywhere
Using love as a tactic with no intentions of actually loving.
To be clear. Love bombing is a tactic used by manipulative and controlling people. Its a way to bait someone. The end result is always some form of abuse (emotional, mental, physical, spiritual or financial). In general, it is difficult to know whether anything you experienced with a narcissist is real or not. It’s difficult to know whether they were ever being genuine, or whether it was always just a game. That’s part of what makes it so traumatizing.
You have to make yourself believe it wasn’t real, because it never is with a narc or abusive person. Not genuine in any way, always for gain. Don’t traumatize yourself, just accept it and move on.
Mel is basically saying that most of the guys that love bomb initially turn out to be abusive or crazy. However, if you love bomb and don't turn out to be toxic or anything related, then its not considered love bombing. In my opinion.
💯, if there was never any abuse or manipulation it's not love bombing
Exactly, idk what’s hard to understand about that.
FINALLY PPL BEING HONEST ABOUT MFN SEXY RED
“Wake me up when it’s over” was crazy 🤣🤣🤣
I think the main difference between love bombing and courting /dating is the complete disregard for boundaries or intentional, pushing of boundaries. Wanting to text, talk to someone on the phone , go on dates, give gifts here and there and spend time together taking into account each other’s schedules etc is understandable. Where as with love bombing the person who is the love bomber wants to text you throughout the day , talk to you on phone all the time , lavish you with money or very expensive gifts and wants to spend all their time with you without regard to your schedule whatsoever . The love bomber gets upset when you decline and there’s no room for compromise, or any sort of life outside of this person you’re supposed to always be available for them in any way they want you to be it is hard for women to see the difference between this and what is called applying pressure/ showing interest because they can be similar. And women don’t want to be seen as standoffish or playing hard to get when in this type of situation, so they may be receptive to it, and as it escalates that’s when the woman has to make the decision, whether or not to stand up for themselves and assert their boundaries or stop talking to that person altogether. Oftentimes the love bomber will ghost or go find an easier target once they realize the person has boundaries and is sticking to them.
This 🎯 is one of the better explanations on here. It’s the breach of boundaries with the objective to make the person fall in love (quickly), lower their wall so they can penetrate, violate, then discard/abuse. The victim will be left confused, try to vie for affection they once felt while love bombed. Abuser will love bomb again to draw the victim back in and trigger the loop again. They will usually keep doing this cycle as long as it works. It’s a counterfeit way to draw their victim in.
I love this podcast sooo much !
Ice really found his voice. He's the 2023 JBP MVP 🏆
23:06 I told you bout your hands 😂😂😂
I’m dead !!!
"Shut up, you've been "love bombed"" Was hilarious! 🤣
Mel got that 50 year old smoker laugh😂
She was laughing like she smoked a backwood with chief keef before the pod 😂
She's actually 47.
She is sick. Everyone everywhere got this cough.
Stop!! Mel's laugh is sexy
@@juombe48
Love bombing is real. I agree with Melissa. What she's trying to say is some men who have negative hidden motives for the soul purpose to JUST manipulate, control and be abusive, they will love bomb you at first, to present themselves as this great guy. I feel like the men on the panel only hear that there's a problem with men being nice at the beginning of the relationship. They're not highlighting that love bombing pertains to men who are only there to be abusive. The difference is whether a man is being genuine or whether one is only love bombing just to have complete control of a woman. I hear you Mel, I hope this made sense.
They way Joe looked when they talked about change was funny af!😂
2:14:09 "When you're expecting "MEL" that's when you check the "BOX" 🤦🏾♂️🤣🤣🤣 Accidental BARZ
Bruh Mel confidently saying John Oats was the lead singer is giving me an aneurysm
She be loud and wrong about everything lol a know it all that barely know anything
Video been up for literally 1 minute and I'm already here 😂😂😂😂
Same lol
@@im4rmapple😂😂😂😂
1:49:25 FLIP TO MEL: “YOU SENT YOUR DOG TO GO EAT”🤣😂🤣😂
Thanks for the HOLIDAY episode 🍗🥧
Gotta be honest when it comes to these SA cases against artist people always ask “why would you settle if it was true” I think the answer is that there is a price for your trauma and we as people don’t want to admit it morally, we’d like to think it’s priceless to stand on some moral high ground (not to say that it’s wrong to have a moral high ground to some extent) for example if I got in a car accident that really fucked up my back, I can still do day to day activities but my body is in pain always to some extent, if I sue the guy that hit me and he hits me and says “yo I’ll give you 500k to not take this to court I have a reputation to uphold” that’s already worth more than my car and I could maybe live with said pain not to mention I wouldn’t have to worry about losing a case potentially because every case is loseable imo im gonna take that shit (scales may vary)
GREAT SHOW! I LOVE FLIP & HIS POINT OF VIEW AND REALNESS
He barley be saying shit 😂
THE BEST POD IN THR WORLD! Thanks Joe.💪🏽
I enjoy reading the comments when the pod first starts. So when it gets to a funny part mentioned, it's even funnier.
1:10:15 Ish explained that very well. Mel could've kept the idea that Ish would think otherwise to herself.
She could've actually doubled down. His usual argument would be that if it's not proven in court then the victim isn't a victim and deserves nothing. Mel just let's things go without pressing the issue. Probably because she's just there to collect the check and doesn't care enough to set the puers straight.
@@BaldwinFanonGarveyTureShakurX Don't get me wrong in some situations I feel she can double down more but also Joe gets to turning on the elevator music when they get to talking in circles so I get why she doesn't too...With the lovebombing topic, she could've doubled down more because she actually had a point
She really should have saved it, or framed it better. I feel like what she really believes is that the burden of proof for Ish to believe that someone is a victim and therefore deserves financial compensation is so high that many actual victims would be excluded. And is conflating that with “He wouldn’t support victims getting financial compensation”
@@BaldwinFanonGarveyTureShakurX No
What does a car say before it blows up? Puff 💨🤣🤣
Lmaoooooooo wtf 😂😂😂
Im not sure why there is so much laughter during the segment about the law suits….but Im not surprised.
…those Loubs M4 got on is flames 🔥🔥🔥🔥…they’re sleek yet bold aesthetically”
ICE on Point on This Pod, more positive more happy… we Need more of this, Salute fam
Agreed
Can’t believe they dint review Wayne and Chainz new project that’s crazy
He really trying to make us forget about that Diddy pod😂😂
Nah that sow your royal oats definitely needed a pause 😂
Mel was cooking when she was talking about Love bombing. Shordie is the only one on here that consistently brings facts and gets hated on for making too much sense. Very wild.
Yes!
“Love bombing” is showing an amount of attention and affection that seems over-the-top for a beginning of a relationship. You’ll also notice abrupt shifts in attitude and emotional manipulation.
Lol good luck deciphering that from just showing interest and being persistent. I'm sure you would be completely wrong at least half of the time
@@sinez999 Yeah, of course it’s easier to realize in hindsight. But I would say that we need to be careful about whirlwind romances in general. If you’re someone who just wants the date for a short time, perhaps it doesn’t matter. But people who are looking for something more long term could be more judicious about spotting the red flags, with love bombing being one of many.
@@MF-pk2gf Meh, I'd rather be an optimist and find someone who also thinks that way. Should we focus on building our woman to be mentally strong enough to leave any situation where there is abuse or manipulation? I think so. But that's not the easy solution. "Men bad" will always be the go.
@@MF-pk2gfIn my experience, coming into a potential relationship expecting long term or a relationship at all is damn near Love-Bombing levels of disingenuous behavior.
Because why expect long term from someone you do not know yet to determine if they even make relationships with anyone like that.
@@GDSprodify I think that’s the point. Some people go into relationships knowing that they aren’t ready for long term (it’s purely hooking up). Some people have controlling tendencies which manifests in their romantic relationships (maybe you know people like that). And others, like maybe yourself, are genuine so it’s a moot point anyway.
Ish’s timely sip on the yeti was too perfect
“Your grandpop had the same hand problem” 😂😂😂
Mel dirty as hell for saying she was expecting Ish to be against sexually abused women being able to get their justice
Am I the only one that understood Mel’s lovebomb explanation perfectly fine?😭
Yes
She poorly defined it. You probably understand due to experience
@@user-bg6uf4fo5u definitely understood because of experience, I was thinking that was why as well.
I love this I know we aren’t gonna get this many uploads regularly ❤
lmfao " you eating at chilis now? "
Listening to the grown men on the pod not understanding the term ‘Love Bombing’ was difficult to watch. Gentlemen, please understand the concept of showering someone with words of affection, gifts etc with the sole intention of controlling their every move thereafter. That is all…Salute, Mel 👊🏾😎
You can tell Ish is so fcking annoyed with Mel. When she first got there, it was all good. I bet you anything he wouldn't touch her if she wanted to smash!
The love bombing part was fuvking hilarious 😅😅😅 great pod!!!
9:09 "He took me to a play and it got weird" Joe is funnyyy 😂😂😂
Scary Hours only went under the radar because its like a deluxe album…those 6 songs sound better than the whole FATD
Also it was really nothing to hate on about it so people not debating or going back n forth about it.. if it was bad the hate would’ve def been loud
Mel low-key be hating on ish 😂😂😂
Frfr am surprised he let her off like that calling him a r**e apologiest
41:47 LMFAOOOO “ y’all niggas podding “ JOE CANT BELIEVE THIS !! 😭😭😭
I appreciate this!