Does More Experience Make You a Better Lover? | Blindest Date X Solfa EP.3
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
- created with Solfa, a blind date.
does more experience make you a better lover?
would you date someone who values their career over family?
would you want to go on this blindest date?
please leave your thoughts in the comments!
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Production || Solfa
Strategy/Marketing || Eugene Kim & Jimin Choi
Design || Seoyoung Park & Bomi Kim
내가 일방적 소개팅을 한다면 묻고 싶은 질문은???
종교가 달라도 결혼가능한가?(상대방은 바꿀생각없음)
"종교가 있으세요?"
상대방의 겉모습이 기린으로 변해도 사랑할 수 있다 / 없다
낮져밤이 vs 낮이밤져
사형제도찬성 vs 사형제도반대
개고기찬성 vs 개고기반대
안락사찬성 vs 안락사반대
고양이 vs 강아지
돈이 억수로 많지만 나이든 시람 or 돈이 없지만 젊고 아름다운 잘생긴 사람
Ok but that lady has a posture of a queen.
Masum. Tbh
얼굴도 엄청 이쁘신데 굉장히 바르게 앉으셔서 옆모습 볼 때 마다 앉은 자세도 이쁘다고 생각했는데 외국인 눈에도 그랬나보다
Fr. She is so elegant I can't.
I was honking the same thing 😭
Thinking* lmaoo
남자분 겉모습은 되게 활발해 보이시는데 진중하신듯 여자분도 매력 철철
맞아요 두 분 모두 멋집니다ㅎㅎ 여성분도 본인이 비글미 라고하셨지만 속은 진중하고 깊으시다는게 느껴지네요~
그래도 남자가 최소한 생각은 하고 사는사람이네요. 사회적인 이슈에 대해서 최소한의 문제의식등등을 자기 주관대로 생각이 있는거 보면요.
학교에서 때리면 안된다 라는 부분에서 자기의 생각도 예를들어 설명할줄알고.
(여기에서 남녀의 학교가치관을 보는 시각이 서로다르다는게 확 느껴지네요ㅎ
여자는 여자다운 시선이였고 남자는 남자다운 시선이였습니다.)
정말 놀줄만 아는 날라리들은 문제의식 따윈 없고 그냥저냥..생각없이 사는데.
솔직히 남자 잘생기고 잘놀게 생겨서 골빈사람인줄 알았는데 의외로 생각이 있어서 놀람..ㅎ
여자다운 시선은 어떤거고 , 남자다운 시선은 어떤건가요 ㄷㄷ
비꼬는게 아니라 정말 잘 모르겠어서
임건형 저도 진짜 공감해요 ㅠㅠ 거기에 또 공감이 달려 있구... 씁쓸하네요.... 또 예민한 사람 취급 당할까봐 가만히 있었는에 ㅠㅠ
그쵸 .. ; "남녀의 학교 가치관을 보는 시각이 서로 다르다는게 확 느껴지네요" 라는 문장도
잉 .. ? 그냥 A와 B가 생각이 다르구나지
왜 저기서 남녀가 나올까 싶었어요
저도 스스로 예민하다고 생각하진 않는 편인데 .. 남자 여자 투샷만보이면 남자는 저렇고 여자는 저렇구나~ 이게 좀..ㅋㅋ
두 분 다른점은 있어도 잘 맞춰나갈것 같은 느낌이네요. 분위기도 되게 잘 맞는 느낌
알파쥬 ㅇㅈㅇㅈ 두분 만난다면 너무 잘어울릴 듯 ㅠㅠㅜ
결?이 비슷한 사람 인것같아요!!
이분은 계속보이시네ㅋㅋ
이미 여친있고 저분은 유튭동료라고하셨어요
He's gorgeous but I don't agree with some of his opinions I agree more with her. I think she's too good for him tbh.
JaneySims tf ? How can u say that based on some questions stu
What? How shallow. So you can’t be open minded? You need people to have yo exact same opinion as you or they’re not good enough? That’s laughable.
Too good for him? i’m sorry but no, they’re both good in their ways, just because his opinion isn’t the same it doesn’t mean that shes too good.
Nobodys too good he has his opinions and is right in his mindset.And also people don't understand this thing-
Giving opinion and acting on them is a totally different thing i can also go there and say these ultimately pleasing things to impress somebody but in actual life scenario most of us fails.
Lemme give a good example-
One person is half dead in a street and if someone calls an ambulance then it will be too late only thing that can save him is if someone carry him/her in the car how many people will be ready to help ? I bet only a percentile of them.
Same happened to my mom in real life she met with an accident and nobody tried to save her all gathered around and did shit nothing, then a military person passing by carried her to the hospital if it would've been late she would've died .
Now make these people go into a show and ask them this question they'll say bla bla yea i would help her to get to the hospital so to hell with this, saying something and acting upon it is like fire and ice.
Well this might not even going to work once they date each other lol.
다른사람의 가치관을 존중할 줄 아는 여자분 멋있네요.
남자분도 자신만의 가치관이 잘 잡혀있으신거 같아 멋있어요~
lol i genuinely thought both of their lights would turn off
Daniella C same WAHAHAH
Same
Guys will always be down for pussy
I didn't get it so are they going for a second date or not???
zii neeb, no it's straight to the bedroom for these two
순결이 여자한테만 주어진 책임인것같다는 남자분의 말씀 진짜 동의해요
요즘세상에 순결이 왜 필요하냐 경험이많으면 서로가 좋다
@@피카츄스윙스 이건 궤변일수밖에없는게 이성이 우선시되는 현대사회에서 무조건 본능을 끌고와 일치시키려는거아님 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
암튼 페미든 반페미든 공평하게 뇌를 잘라낸듯
순결이 참 신기하다 ^^
가치관 차이인지는 몰라도
황금률에 어긋나는 가치관을 다수 포함하고있는 사상은 맞는듯 ㅎㅎ
지들이 순결을 원하면 지부터 순결하면 되지 뭐하러 쳐한데
그냥 마음맞으면 피임잘하는 조건으로 떽뜨한번 하면 되는거고 안맞으면 헤어지면 되는거고
참 그거가지고 ㅈㄹ하는 유튜브 한남이랑 문제의식이랑 설득을 할생각없이 불평만하는 넷페미나 공평하게 뇌가 잘린것같다
순결은 같이 중요하다. 다만 생물학적으로 남여의 차이는 인정해야된다. 차별이 아닌 차이.
남자일 수록 스스로에게 사랑하는 사람에대한 예의와 자격이 있는지?
무책임한 사생활이 과거라고 미래는 다르다는 믿음을 줄 수 있나. 자기합리화일뿐. 비록 순결하지 않더라도 순결한마음은 잃지않고 책임의 무거움을 가지는게 상대에 대한 믿음이고 예의고 스스로에 대한 자격이다.
여자와 남자 둘 다 순결하지 않아도 되고 혹은 둘 다 순결해도 되고 그런 걸로 이래라 저래라 페미ㅜ얘기 언급하면서 부들부들 거리지 말지 브탇이야
출연자분 욕하는 분들은 저자리에서 직접 자기가 가치관 얘기해주셨으면 좋겠네요.
그러다가 외모품평도 당해보고 이유없는 악플도 달려보고 잘 알지도 못하면서 저 사람 꼰대다라는 말도 들어보고 꼭 그러셨으면 좋겠어요. 왜 자기는 성숙한 척 하면서 남한테 상처가 될 말 함부로 하시는지?
그니까요 ㅋㅋ 여기 댓글 보면 완전 다 성인군자임 ㅋㅋ 어떤 가치관이라도 부정적으로 봄. 뭐 어떻게 살라는건지 그럼..
격공
공감합니다
공감해요!!
ㅇㅈ 성숙한 척 오짐 ㅋㅋㅋ 만나보면 연애고자들 많을거같은데
the girl is stunning and i like the way she thinks. she’s really open and seems smart. the guy is handsome but... his answers...
All answers?
@@mogroot5790 (imma keep it real for ya sista) generally, his answers were trash. I lost it when he said work is moe important than family, and putting yourself first instead of anyone. Like WTF. what happiness comes with empty success? Money, bitches, materials can only last for so long until you get sick of it and want real attachments and real people that loves you FOR REAL. Honestly this dude is really ehhhh. He was a good 8 but his ethics and morals made him a 5 LOL.
vi phan um tf, you ALWAYS put yourself before others
sunmibot I have a different opinion about that. If u care for someone that is. If that’s person’s a stranger of course imma put myself first. That’s all.
Agreed!
주위 사람들 중에 저렇게 자신만의 확고한 신념?가지고 있는 남자 잘 못봤는데 말 되게 잘하신다
김다정 깊이 있는 남자들도 많답니다~ 보통 유쾌해도 정직해서 여러 여자와 연결고리가 없을 뿐이죠. 여친과 오래 사귀죠.
즐거운하루
당연히 사람에 따라 다른건데 제가 남자 여자 구분해서 언급한 것이 잘못된 부분인 것 같아요 ㅠ! 지적해주셔서 감사합니다~!!
누구든지 확고한 신념은 있다 없어보여도
20중반부터는 연애관련한 것 뿐만 아니라 여러 가치관에 대해 확고한 생각이 없는 사람이 더 드물어요. 여자하고는 많이 얘기하고 지냈지만 남자랑은 진중한 얘기 잘 안 해보셨나보네요.
주위 남자들을 좀 돌아보셔야할듯
he's attractive but she's way too good for him
She was to good for him?
How?
Mogroo T watched this a while ago don’t rly remem but like she was genuinely sweet?? And didn’t wanna beat kids up - not saying he is terrible though
vivi kench Lmao facts
vivi kench pic oh, that’s what you meant then you shouldn’t have said he’s attractive you should’ve said he’s sweet cuz that made me get the wrong idea. like she looks too pretty even tho he’s still attractive LMAOO sorry
I wanna date her she’s so wise
You know you find someone attractive but when you learn how they think...mehhhhhhh
Your pfp is just... whew chile😍
Not her tho
Girl be cute af n quite aware actually
Yeah, gotta be patient 👼🌻
이거 누가 기획한거입니까? 진짜 상줘야합니다. 맨날 저출산이다. 남녀평등이다. 결혼해야한다. 연애해야한다. 열번 백번 얘기하는거보다 그거보다 먼저 상대방끼리 얘기해보는게 더 중요하다 생각합니다. 결국 이렇게 서로 생각이 다르신데도 잘 이루어지거나 서로 각자 갈길 가는거도 둘 다 보기 좋네요.
Chris Lee 기획은 solfa님 일꺼에요 solfa님 채널가서 영상 많이 봐주세요 ㅎㅎ
남녀평등X 성평등O
@@익명-i9u 알려주셔서 감사합니다^^
@@haru-tc6th '남녀평등' 이란 용어가 구표현이긴하나 실무노동사전에도 나와있고 '성평등' 은 유엔산하 UNDP 에서 GDI 란 개념을 만들면서 나온 말입니다. 그러므로 틀린 표현이 아닙니다.
@@HAJAGU 남녀평등('남'성을 우선 명시)
성평등(모든 gender를 포괄함,명시적 선후성 또한 없음) 그래서 '성평등'이란 표현이 더 낫다는 이야기 아닐까요? 즉 틀린건 아니지만 질적으로 성평등이 더 나은 표현으로 생각하셔서 고쳐주신 의도로 해석됩니다
두 출연자는 제작진으로부터 주어지는 질문에 답합니다. 출연자의 의견이 본인과 다를 수 있습니다. 토론은 환영하지만 단순 비방은 사양합니다.
이거 빨리 업로드 해주세요 항상 잘보고있어요 ㅠㅠㅠ❤❤❤
몰랐네요 댓글이 없었다면 갑이 낸 질문인줄..
댓글을 안보시고 영상만 보시는 분들에게는 출연자분들이 낸 질문이라고 오해할수 있는 여지가 생길 수 있을거 같아서 영상에서 어느 타이밍에서든 알려주시는건 어떨까 의견 내봅니다~
영상에 자막을 다는게 어떨까 싶네요 댓글 다 보는 사람 많지 않을텐데 ㅎ
역시 페미 온스타일
I feel like this kinda guy is dangerous. He’s extremely attractive and would make you fall for him real hard but then he’ll break your heart like a used soda can..... based on his answers, I can sense the relationship would be toxic if they ever decide to be together
That's how most women date nowadays anyway...
"extremely attractive" uhm that's a stretch
Art Lam to korean beauty standard
Attractive? Lol you'll find much beautiful men with much much more pure heart.
Pradyumna Dongare physically
She's extremely attractive doesn't even need a blind date with her beautiful personality she can have anyone
Katerina yeS that’s riGht
Exactly!
Katerina well even beautiful people struggle to find good partners
@Talha 😂 wtf not all
@Talha in a another video of this blind date there was a question about this and you should really see the girls reply 😂
I like how when she said he’s cold hearted he gave off the sweetest smile like “yup that’s me”
Peachy Jam I don’t wanna sound weird but it was actually quite hot when he did that
SaraK IKR 😂😂
Peachy Jam yeah that was creepy
I caught that. He’s not the guy for her. He definitely has a dark side
"Yup that's me" is it just me or did I here the end of 'That's so Raven' theme song Lmao
I don't really see chemistry with them. Yes, they're both really attractive; however, they seem to clash a little bit. I'm certain that physical attraction is why they chose 0, but physical attraction is not everything in a relationship (perhaps in the beginning, yes).
Something about the way their answers contrasted rubbed me off the wrong way.
And the guy is very attractive, but i wouldn't pick him based on his answers.
You guys should do a version where the faces are covered or they're blocked by a wall so they can't see each other while answering. I think you'll get more quality answers and deeper conversations when you rule out just the physical appearance.
Ik And the guy was really choosing the things I didn't want him to choose like where he said teacher should hit students 🙄 BIGGGGGGGGGG TURNNNNNNNN OFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
Well she did say she wants someone opposite of her. And in those gray areas they were able to come to an agreement
I don’t think it’s just physical attraction. you can change someone’s views if you share your own and I feel like he was able to rethink his own answer after he heard her telling her thoughts on the given issue. I think they understood each other and could accept each other’s different views, that’s why they both chose O.
korea loves appearance so that’ll never happen lol but you have a good point
That's another rule here
The guy's last answer was a big turn off
Ikr?
hmm I think it`s really important that you know about Korean education system if you wanna understand what his purpose of that question.
In Korean nowadays, offenses committed by juveniles rise a lot so many ppl bring up necessity of physical punishment. problem is that many teenagers already know they won`t go to jail even they rape someone or kill someone.
almost over 10 years ago, there are no student can swear teacher. if they did, everyone think they are really incorrigibleness garbage. and teacher can beat them to make them men.
@@piribuisaman2673 shit, that's messed up.
@@piribuisaman2673 I personnally think if you beat a kid for saying something rude or swearing at a teacher, yes they could become disiplined, but they could also be emotionally scarred if they're especially fragile people or if the beating is extreme. Also by beating children to displine them, you're indirectly implying to the child that its okay to beat other people, which it's not in any way (verbal, physical, etc.) to do such a thing in such a harsh, violent way to teach someone a lesson, at least in my opinion. By the way, I totally get the cultural aspect and I'm in no way arguing with you, I just want to continue the conversation.
The girl and the guy know they are not suited for each other but still want to date cause they are attracted to looks. Sad
dowezee Its just for mature relation 🧐
Nope. That's very human.
dowezee It goes without saying that it was the reason she picked him in the first place..although i hope it’s gonna work !
Opinions changes.
"I picked him because he looked calm" lol who is she kidding, just admit you thought he's attractive
It seems obvious that these two found one another too attractive to stand firmly on any moral high-ground. Thoughts like "well they seemed reasonable enough" or "they could change" definitely floated. I think neither wanted to miss the opportunity to be with someone they found so attractive and were willing to at least give dating a go for the chance at an opportunity. On a side note, given his interest in gender equality, she should have posed to him whether he would be okay with a male teacher slapping a female student irregardless of age. That would have been an interesting question.
wow, yes, that would have been interesting! I think this was the video I liked the most. I've been interested recently in Korean culture and I want to know how they think, but I know it's hard to judge from just a bunch of people. I was wondering if this could be scripted, could it be?
Hello there! :) Just out of curiosity, why would that be an interesting question?
I would like to know too ^^
He said it's okay for a teacher to slap a student if the student is being extreme. So the gender or the sex of the teacher or of the student wouldn't matter. If not, it would by hypocrite to say that.
It's just regardless not irregardless in the instance you stated. I also think it would be interesting to ask him about the abuse of that violence. I know Korean dramas don't always depict things realistically, but in certain instances I've seen teachers hit students imo undeservedly so and people acted like it was no big deal. Although I agree to physical punishment if the parents agree to it I would urge a contract to be made if it was my child so there would only be certain circumstances where it could happen and only with a call to me first if it can be helped. It would be interesting to hear his reply though.
my thoughts too lol they just decided to overlook the differences even tho some of them are pretty huge like the family vs work one, i feel like thats way more impactful on a relationship than how involved someone is in gender issues or other stuff, yet they decided to give it a go
He admitted to caring about himself more than others, he’s for physical punishment to children and he doesn’t want to ever go to her house but she has to be experienced in the bedroom? Run girl!!
IKR make it make sense
🏃🏻♀️
But there’s not girl has to be experienced he says just experience is not important
for reaaaal tho OML
and he doesn't want her to come to his house too, he is hiding something! lmao
Why was that guy so hung up on physically punishing students? Like you don’t teach people more violence
yea violence doesn't solve problems. There are other ways to handle the situation like sending him to higher authority and talking to the student face to face.
Its not really violence. Violence is hen you do it with a bad intent. When I was out of line or when I acted bad my dad and mom would give me a swat to set me in line. And that discipline made me who I am today. Love them and they love me and never once did I think that they didnʻt just because they slapped me
I don't think he supports hurting the students but just a temporary pain for discipline. I wouldn't support it but I get why.
Rapa Pu Paternalistic violence is still violence. The teacher or parent might think "this is the right thing to do" - but is it really? If they were calmer and more rational in the situation would they still be so willing to turn to violence? Self defense is a different issue but that was clearly not what the guy was talking about. As a teacher or a parent you should be the better person. Assault never justifies assault, and rage only starts a cycle of rage. A child who attacks others probably grew up in a household which normalized violence. But there's proven better ways to fix behaviour than to stoop to the same level as an immature child with a developing brain. That's why therapists exist.
Well I think you are misunderstanding. There’s a difference especially in Asian culture. He’s not talking about violence or abuse. He just means like a little spank to tell kids what you did was wrong like how parents do when their kid takes a cookie when they’re not suppose to. He’s not talking about just beating a kid....
보니까 여자분은 생각보다 상당히 개방적이시고 남자분은 생각했던거보다 훨씬 보수적이시네요
보수적인게 아니라 서구적인거지 멍청아
@@notthing4636 우와 똑똑하당
@@notthing4636 ???????
@@notthing4636 -찐-
not thing 와 개똑똑해 ㄷㄷ
소개팅이 아니라 무슨 면접 보는 느낌...
Her answer to the last question was eloquently explained and made perfect sense. I side with her! she spoke eloquently throughtout the whole thing by the way!
진짜 저 여자분 이쁘시고 말도 잘하시고 올바른 가치관을 가진사람같다ㅜ정말
약간 여자분은 본인주관도 있고
남자분의 의견도 듣고 수용하려하는데
남자분은 본인주관 딱 이런느낌
그게 일방적 소개팅이 추구한 바지
그건 맞는데 그래도 그 주관을 강요하진 않았기 때문에 좋은 사람이라 생각되요
저도 남잔데 이 느낌 좀 받네요. 여자가 청순한 분위기에 의외로 개방적이시고 여러 입장 유연하게 공감하는 편인거 같고 남자는 좀 자기 틀이 확실한 분 같애요.
남자분 도인같음 절제력 지릴 듯 뭔가 멋있
남성분 마인드도 얼굴도 잘생..
'올바른 얼굴값'
남자 얼굴 더블비 채널에 세명중 한명같음ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 나만그런갘ㅋㅋㅋ
이 여성분 진짜 예쁘다.
따뜻함이란온도 여성분은 그냥 프리색스 스타일이신거 같아요
이쁘기도 하지만 자기중심이 잘 잡힌 분 같아요
얼굴도 생각도
이성경이랑 손..그 우리나라 체조선수 섞은 외모시네요 ㅋㅋ
여성분도 매력 넘치시지만 남성분 진짜 요즘 보기 드문 분이신 듯ㅜㅜ 이 커플 응원합니다 너무 이뻐요
이아란 말 그대로져. 요즘 젠더이슈에 관심있는 남자 많이 없는 게 사실인데 젠더이슈에 관심도 많고 편견도 많이 없으신 분 같은데 요즘 보기 드물죠 저런 분.
@@아이엠재연 말그대로
이아란 그저 성비 말고 젠더이슈 해결을 위해서 노력하는 남자가 남성의 대다수가 되나요? 영상에서 저분은 젠더문제 해결을 위해 굉장히 노력하고 많이 공부한 걸로 보이는데, 주변 대다수 남성들은 그렇지 못하잖아요. 젠더이슈 기사에 댓글을 다는 성비만 높지 거기서 그 흔한 메갈타령 빼면 정상적인 댓글은 얼마나 남죠? 남자가 젠더이슈에 민감하고 남녀평등과 사회속에 만연한 여성 혐오에 대해 이야기 하면 너 메갈이야? 하면서 그 무리에서 이상하고 유별난 사람으로 낙인 찍고 있는 것이 지금 대한민국 남성들의 현실 아닌가요? 오로지 기사 댓글의 성비만으로는 이 영상에서 나오는 남성분과 같은 남자들이 대다수이다, 라고 이야기 할 순 없을 것 같네요.
@@규호-k1b ㅇㄱㄹㅇ 반박불가
이아란 원래 사회적문제해결은 인식에서부터 시작해나가는 것이잖아요. 영상을 보면 젠더이슈에 대해 문제의식을 가져야 한다는 생각도 알 수 있고. 실제로 저분께서 어떤 구체적활동을 하시고 계신지는 모르겠지만 그래도 편견없이 젠더문제를 인식하고 있고, 사실 젠더문제에 대해서 공부를 했다는 것 자체가 젠더문제해결을 위한 노력이잖아요.
Its okay to agree more on the girl’s opinion but calling out the guy like saying there’s something wrong with him or he’s not good enough for her are just rude. This is why comments are scary and might ruin someone’s mental health. You might think there’s nothing wrong with what you said but to the other person it might hurt them. Not everyone is as strong as you think.
i agree with this comment 100% . Thank you for saying this
aya shaff it’s an opinion afterall, everyone is allowed to agree or disagree but calling him a psycho or sick simply doesn’t make any sense. We know nothing about what he has experienced, we just saw a glimpse of conversation through a short video. Is stating an opinion deserve such resentment? :)
@@sooa2241 I agree with him about the punishment. I don't want to see students hitting teachers. I've seen too many incidents of students disrespecting teachers. Not that I wanna see teachers hitting students.
trueeee
I agree with you. It's really true that if you have nothing good to say just keep it by yourself. So sad that most people here are bashing him for his opinion that makes him look like a dangerous man which is not good. I hope people stop being judgmental, besides we really don't know who he really is.
여자분 이성경+수지 말하는것도 그렇고 성격 좋아보임
둘이 안맞는데..여자분이 남자분 되게 맘에드셨나보다...남자분은 자기 생각을 딱 말하는 반면, 여성분은 최대한 타협하고 자기의견을 남자에게 맞춰주려는게 보이네요
저도 서로 가치관은 딱히 안맞는데 외모적으로 마음에 들어서 마지막에 불을 켠것 같다고 생각했어요
원래 연애란게 타협입니다~~가치관이 딱맞는 그런 사람은 거의없죠 다르게 살아왔지만 서로의 가치관을 존중해주고 한발 양보하는게 연애 아니겠습니까
저도 그렇게 느꼈어욤 ㅋㅋㅋ
둘이 생각은 완전 반댄 것 같은데
어차피 나랑 모든 걸 똑같이 생각하는 사람은 없기때문에 연애는 서로 배려하고 타협해야만 관계 유지가 됨. 게다가 저 질문들 자체가 상황에 따라 답이 바뀔수 있기 때문에...
The girl is sooooooooo beautiful she got me when she said family is more important she’s gonna be an awesome wife/life partner
Most of Asian Girls Put Family First, born in Strict family I have seen my Korean , Chinese friends Even though M Indian, It felt Same at least in Mentality of Girls to Choose over life partner.
@@sasmalprasanjit2764 Actually nah its just that girls personality and most women in korea stands for feminism and dont think women should be the one who take care of household and most of them dont even want to get married korean girls are smart and well educated they dont want to stick in home and take care of their children and husband No offense to girls who likes to take care of household tho
The guy basically said that if a child mistreated him, he would punch the kid back without a second thought 🤣
Indeed a cold-hearted man.
shocking. Wow, in the west? I don't think that this is even a question...
In a sense of way, he's not. This is so common in nowadays in the west that kids r being spoiled too much and giving too much lean ways. Everything the teacher is to blame for nowadays even when the student isn't getting good grades. Sad changes to this society, just my opinion.
eyang7 A kid doesn’t learn from a punishment, you’re just teaching him to retaliate more. Be a good model and don’t punch the kid back and lecture him well. Kids are not bad or good, just simply amoral. Most of the time they don’t have a good guidance to take lessons from. Have some empathy, dude.
@@clarissacochon7584 have empathy? Haha this is y kids nowadays don't learn bc they think they can do whatever they want and thinking that they have the rights just bc they r kids and becomes bullies. They more u give them the easy way, they'll think they can do anything and get away with it. Guess u haven't seen enough of kids or people being bullied.
eyang7 Not hurting them physically doesn’t mean that you’re spoiling them *Face palm* You obviously don’t get my point. Bye man. Ain’t arguing with you anymore.
Guy lost me with the spanking question wtf
It's differences in culture. For instance, in most other countries, they think it's deplorable the amount of power police officers have over civilians in America. I personally agree that teachers should have the ability to punish children physically (not abuse) but that they should have training. Teachers in SE Asian countries are also held to a higher standard than the ones in America and the stakes are a lot higher (some teachers even get assaulted by parents) and can have their careers ended for doing deplorable things. In America, we have a shitty system where teachers are so hands-off that they lack any sort of empathy towards students and gain tenure and sit on their asses without actually imparting any life lessons on the students.
megamyou personally I just wouldn't want someone else hitting my son/daughter
Same I wouldn't want a stranger spanking MY OWN child. My child's MY responsibility they have no right to lay a finger on my daughter or son.
I definitely see what you're saying. I completely agree because I would teach my children to be respectful and good human beings. If anyone lays a finger on my child, who I know I raised correctly, I would be furious. However, if some other child were to assault my child, I would be furious that the teacher did nothing about the children that were not raised correctly and who need that type of discipline in the classroom. Especially if my kids were at school for 12+ hours a day as they typically are in SE Asian countries.
megamyou you should beat a kid or even hit them. It can cause emotional and mental truma, my friend gets scared and flinchs every time someone towards her in a fast motion or raises a hand near her since her parents hit her as a child for “discipline”. There is no benfits in hitting kids unless you think scaring and Traumatising them is a good thing
여기 나오신분들은 말을다잘하시네요..ㅋㅋ
권혁 저도 느꼈던 점입니다! ㅋ
Why am I so obsessed with all these blind dates series while being single af????
Chloe Lee lol. Same, girl. Same.
I totally get that 😂
Same 🙈
Wanna go on a blind date? :D
HELLO MY FRIEND! YOU'RE NOT ALONE
damn he went from sweet boy next door to lowkey serial killer
yea full 180 wtf
Just how I would describe him XD
Don't be an extreme person, he talks about his thoughts and I think it is respectable
I shouldn’t laugh at this but... 🤭🤭
yep it's all good
better than any korean criminal movie I watched lately and that unpredictable ending😉
The girl is very attractive! Not only her looks but I also like how she answered the questions, seems like a very cool person.
학교 체벌 관한거 여성분 진짜 똑부러지신다
진짜여자 진짜괜찮은듯
전 학생이 선생님께 욕설을 하고 뺨때리고 그랬다면 체벌이 가능하다고 봐요 선생님 인간이고 누군가에 부모님이고 누군가에 자녀이기때문에 마땅히 맞아야할것은 맞아야죠
선생님이 학생의 손바닥도 못때리는거임?
@@박태양-r3c 요즘 못 때리자나요
@@상이름-c5e 분명 선생님도 인간이지만 학생이 때렸다고하여 선생 당신도 똑같이 때리는건 그닥 좋지못한 교육방식이네요 체벌로 해결이가능할거라고 생각하는것 또한 구시대적 발상이죠..
앞에 영상도 다 보고 느낀 점은 아무리 여러가지 컨셉을 잡고해도 소개팅이라는것은 외모가 엄청 중요한거 같다. 외모가 자신의 마음에 들면 자신이랑 안 맞는 부분이 있어도 앞으로 잘 맞춰나갈수 있을거야 라고 긍정적인 부분만 찾아낸다는거...
여자 사고방식이 대박이다. 특히 선생님이 때려도 된다 안된다 질문에서 학교측에 그런 규정이 있으면 어떻게 생까하냐는 질문에 대한 대답은 현답이다.
뭐가 현답이야 저게 ㅋㅋㅋ 부모가 그거 알고 체벌 있는 학교 보냈다고 해서 정당화되는거냐? 맞는게 아이들이 맞는거지 부모가 쳐맞냐? 부모가 동의했으니 괜찮다고? 아이가 부모의 소유물이냐?
@@전역-u3q 이게 맞지 ㅋㅋ 뭔 현답이야 ㅋㅋ
사고방식 그냥 지적인 척하는데 전혀 아닌 사람임 ㅋㅋ
애초에 그런 교칙은 범법행위입니다. 체벌은 법으로 금지 되어있어요.
@@havewe6059 애초에 체벌이 법으로 금지되어야 하는 행위일까요? 체벌의 장점도 분명히 있는데
They sent o because the found eachother attractive. Thats about it...
Shawn San Nicolas or they liked the way they both think? if two individuals agreed on everything, the relationship would get boring, i think, they would be happy together because theyre both open minded but think in different ways, which means they could have fun discussions and see why they disagree with each other. but you’re right that they’re both attractive ^^
I think they don’t have a lot in common and by the way there faces looked when answering it didn’t see they had much chemistry
바나 They disagreed on some of the most important topics so they probably won't take each other seriously or at least they shouldn't.
i first place she chose him because she found him hot, the whole grounded thing was an excuse cuz how would she know? and you can clearly tell that his eyes lid up when he saw her, so yeah they were willing to compromise, they even admitted it when the other person was wearing headphones(its all because of the psychical attraction) cuz they clearly want to bang each other, but a relationship based only on psychical attraction wont work
And that's the type of thinking that makes it hard to have discussions in this day and age. None of their answers were related to bigotry or breach of human rights. Such minor but kind of life pivotal ideals. For example, the guy talking about "always look out for yourself" will learn as he grows up that that doesn't work at all and is not practical. That's like going on dates but separately at two different restaurants every single time because you're only caring about what you want. That's not a relationship.
Disciplining students physically, they were already reaching an ideological middle ground and when we was explaining herself, you could see him going "oh yeah" in his mind. Etc. Nothing dramatic here really.
기다렸는데 드뎌 나왔당 ㅠㅠㅠ♥
여자분 남자분 되게 잘 어울리셔요 히히
한글밖에안나오는데 외국인이 왜이렇게많아 ㅋㅋ
유준성 자막 켜면 개많아서
유튜브 자막 켜기 기능 모르시죠...
@@edmundh7151 같은 찐따들이 드립구분 모하고 급진지빠네
@뜨뜨생일 ㅇㅈㅋㅋ
와몰랐어요 감사합니당
체벌만큼은 여자분 의견에 전적으로 동의한다.
진짜 사소한 것들에도 습관적으로 무식하게 패던 선생들...
자기 자식들한테는 그렇게 안했을거다.
그거 다 무의식 중에 트라우마로 남더라.
옳은 말씀입니다
그게 그짓거리 하면서 본인들도 상처받음.
결국 하나하나 몇개를 동의를 하느냐 아니냐보다는 처음 만났을때 한 5분정도 안에 분위기나 느낌, 첫인상에 의해 결정되는 듯한 느낌이 드네요
뭔가 말하는 게 면접 보는 거 같다.. 여자분 이성경+수지 느낌 ㄹㅇ...
채수빈 진짜 인정
걍 예쁨ㄷㄷ
화사인데?
I don't think he intended to support violence, I think (and I hope) he was saying that a teacher should be able to just slap his students in an extreme case, where the only solution to calm the student is to scare him. But this young man should also know that something like that shouldn't be legalized because there will always be people who will abuse that law and will actually beat up and abuse the student. You should never make a law that even remotely supports violence. Just like the fact that guns are legal in the US. We all know the consequences that law is having.
Word :)
To be honest, physical punishments are quite effective.
RY 82 And killing a murderer is quite effective compared to have him in a jail cell.
Drexpz are you comparing naughty students to murderers?
Are you delusional?
@@ry8246 I agree that physical pinishment sometimes can be effective (obviously used occasionally and lightly) but that's a choice of the parents. And I think it's enough, i don't think it's necessary for teachers to have that power too. Can't parents teach their child how to behave in school? yes. And the cases of students who are that rebellious with their teachers are very few and a teacher can deal with it in many other ways without using violence. Plus try to imagine a teacher physically fighting with a teen in a classroom: quite educative uh?
갠적으론 차분한 남자처럼 생기지 않았는데 ㅋㅋ
사람마다 보는 기준이 다르잖아요 ㅋㅋ
@김호인 이새낀 왤케 꼬였어
@@뿡뿡-h8b 자기소개 그만..
@Chimaek 이런데 나오면 한마디도 못할분... 남까는게 삶의 낙이자 전부인 그대(물론 인터넷에서 숨어서만)
해석 : 잘생기셔서 내 마음을 차분하게 만들 수 있게 생겼다.
뭔가 둘이전혀 안맞아보이네요
하 남자분 생각하는게 너무 멋지시다..
박채린 학생 체벌 해도 된다고 생각하는 사람이 멋있어요? 제정신아니시네..
@@papajones2418 남 가치관을 그렇게 함부로 단정짓는 행동의 잣대로 들이밀지 마세요 사람마다 가치관은 다양하고 그 사람들에 가치관과 신념을 통합하여 사회를 개척해 나갔죠.. 즉 사회도 사람에 일방적인 생각을 통해 세운 곳입니다.. 그래서 저는 그렇게 생각해요 누구에겐 저게 안좋은건지만 누구에겐 저것이 좋은것일 수 있다고.. 사람들은 항상 생각하죠.. 저건 이렇게 하면 안돼! 이건 이렇게 해도돼!! 라고.. 생각해보세요.. 그것이 과연 모두에게 이득이 될 수 있다고 생각하시나요? 항상 내가 무언가를 이루려하면 또 누군가는 그걸 통해 또 무언가를 잃죠.. 사람이란건 자신한테 속해있는 단체와 나 자신 즉 개인을 중심으로 움직이는게 인간이라고 생각하거든요.. 그래서 전 누가 맞다 틀리다라고 생각하기 싫구요
Andrew Kim 말안들으면 몇대 줘팰수도있지 ㅋㅋ
와 여자분 너무 좋다ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜ가치관이 너무 제 생각을 대변해주시는 것 같았어요 제가 남자였으면 당장가서 사겨달라고 했을거에요ㅜㅜㅜ
남자는 질문 자체가 너무 도덕적인 판단과 주관을 강요하는 듯한 은근히 답정너 식이라 좀 배려나 다른 의견에 대한 수용이 부족한 듯하네요
권범주 ㄹㅇ 은근히 답정너 식임. 진보 꼰대라는 느낌
프사가 너무 매력적이에요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ우리 친하게지내요💋
@@whitedwarf-ih2tg 별게다 꼰대네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
젊은 꼰대라는 말이 딱인듯. 진보를 강요하는 진보보수...
좌좀삘 물씬남 처음만난 자리에서 개똥철학만 늘어놓고 대학교1학년 교양수업토론이나 하고있네
여자분 마인드 너무 맘에 든다ㅠㅠ 학생을 때릴 순 없어요.
너 급식이지
콜감 급식이냐는 질문이 왜 나오는지 모르겠습니다 지금 그발언은 학생들 비하발언이 되실 수 있어요 ! 그리고 어른이면 학생을 때릴 수 있다는 말이 되는건가요?? 처음보는 분한테 다짜고자 급식이냐고 반말에다가 예의 없이 말하는건 뭐죠ㅠㅠ 님이 어른이시라면 아실텐데요 요즘 초등학생들도 반모 허락구하고 하는데요^^ 초등학생보다못하신가요..?
@@hahahhaa77 왜 혼자 풀발이세요 피해의식 쩌시네 그냥 아무생각없이 물어본건데 ㅋㅋ
콜감 네? 아무생각없이 물어보신거 치고는 예의가 너무 없으셔서요 :)
체벌 금지 허용시대를 다 겪어본 사람으로서 어느정도의 체벌은 허용해야 한다고 생각함.체벌 금지가 풀리면서 애들은 선생님한테 대들면서 대놓고 조롱하는걸 난 봄.선도위원회 열려봤자 교내봉사 며칠이 끝이고ㅋ교권 추락의 1등공신이 체벌금지임.진짜 나보다 열몇살 어린애들이 인상쓰면서 대들어도 선생님은 할 수있는게 선도위원회 보내는거밖에 없음.교사가 사명감이 생길래야 생길 수가 없음.어느정도의 체벌은 필요함.그게 학급 분위기에도 좋음
She said she chose the one who is opposite to her so it's not surprising to see a lot of opposite opinions. But it's great that at the end, they actually agree with each other. Good luck both of you. :)
But i think that those 2 have very big opposing differences. The questions that were asked weren't easy to answer. He wasn't asking like what's her favourite color or food. Maybe the attraction would be enough to hold them together early on but in the end i think that those people are too different. He could've asked her better question to determine if they would get along very well.
She wants an opposite personality-wise, but they are more like opposite principal-wise.
때린다는 질문에 대한 대답 빼고는 남자 분 되게 멋있으신 것 같다... 마인드도 좋고 진중한 모습이 보이니까 사람 자체가 멋있어보임 중간 중간 여자 분 보고 웃음 짓는 것도 멋있음 ㅠㅠ 물론 여자분도 멋있음 ㅠㅠ 끝까지 보니까 안 맞는 부분은 서로 잘 맞춰갈 것 같고 잘 어울려요 ㅎㅎ
마지막에 불켜지면서 서로 쳐다보는 순간이 너무 설렌당 😵💗
I feel like both chose O because they want to hook up to be honest. A relationship will never work if you have different values and morals than someone else. She's family oriented and he's not, so that's a big issue right there.
True but she prob has hope of changing his perspective on things and help him realize what he's missing out on
Hannah Luc
He seems extremely stubborn and very into his own beliefs. I really don’t think she’s going to change him at all if that’s her plan lol
yeah, but she said she wanted someone different from her
mmaposer
You didn’t respond to me, but I also doubted her a lot when she said “I hate phrases like ‘men should be like this’” when he asked what she sides on when she talks about that. Truthfully speaking, when girls are with their friends, they will always side with their own gender. And when guys are speaking amongst themselves, they always side with their own male gender too. I don’t believe she hates phrases like that. Every woman talks about guys and what they think they should do and so does every guy about women. It’s normal and it’s natural. She just wants to appeal to him so much that it’s obvious
Edit: BUT not all women are chameleons thinking of only their “target” and creating a scheme in their head lol. that’s just maybe your warped opinion on your own experiences or on what you’ve seen in this video.
mmaposer lol no
I got a little bit scared when he said that its ok for him when teachers can beat/hit their students. I wouldnt choose him because of that fact.
actually, in Korea and other asian countries, its very common in which where the parents allow the teachers to physically hit their students as punishment. its kind of part of the culture there. however definitely now its a lot less severe in terms of physical punishments compared to the older days but yea.
also its not like that children abusement are totally ignored in Korea but this topic just touches specifically in school-related environments.
+i really dont giv a fuck it's also like that in some Latin American countries. Of course they hit some kids but they don't abuse the kid like most of these people are thinking.
this is why kids in countries like in US are such shit head because they're too protected. A few spanking goes long way.
exactly, im not saying that i agree with the whole system but they dont severely beat the kids or anything. its very minor physical punishments.
Same, it sounds like he is a person who would slap his future wife and kids. I hope this light hearted girl don't get in trouble with him. :o
둘이 가치관 엄청 달라보여서 서로 선택 안하겠거니 했는데 솔직히 띠용;;
결론 : 외모가 짱~
서로 다른 사람에게 자석과도 같이 끌리는게 아닐까요
ㄹㅇㅋㅋ
다르니까 더 재밋죠 ㅎㅎ
걍 두분 다 외모가 끌린 듯ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
hmm i sensed they tolerate their different values because they find their partners attractive.
ok white boy
Orca Gang im not white though
my bad
Thats what I think too. He was judging her so hard. And even when she called herself an idiot he laughed like he agreed. He just wants a hookup
Daniel Ginting Agree, they had pretty different values so I was actually expecting them to switch Thier lights off
가치관이 본선이라면 외모는 예선전이다. 그것도 결승같은 예선...
결승전은 섹스다
외모는 예선, 가치관은 본선, 섹스는 결승,,,시발,,, 소크라테스랑 플라톤이 여기있네
모
처음엔 외모 사랑을 하고난뒤는 전혀 안중요한거같음 사랑하는 사람은 세상에서 젤이쁜걸
I thought this was an absolute train wreck, but then at the end both of them typed O... dafuq?
Angello Castro the thing is, yes they didn’t agree on most things, but I think they both appreciated each other’s thinking and ability to express their ideas. I thought she would say X tho lol
Angello Castro that’s not true at all. Choosing different options won’t affect how much they like each other. It was fairly obvious that they really like each other but I’m sure that the last question almost changed her mind
Angello Castro right
WHAT?? no it wasnt. quite the opposite. 2 people who have an opinion? check. both attracted to each other physically? check. good level of eye contact, both clearly appreciated each others opinion.
dude, you need to learn a lot and get more confidence if you think this was a train wreck.
S E X
Kudos to them for actually having the courage to voice their opinions even though they may get hated on
여자분 뭔가 디즈니에 나올것 같이 생기심
애초에 남성분이 제시한 상황에선 '교사'와 '학생'의 관계로 볼 순 없다고 생각합니다.
그런 극단적인 상황에 이르르면 교사와 학생의 관계가 아니라
'공격당한 사람'과 '공격한 사람' 이 둘 뿐이죠.
교사로서 학생을 때릴 권리는 없지만
교사도 인간이기에
공격당한 사람으로서는 자신을 방어할 권리는 있다고 봅니다.
아 진짜네요 사람과 사람으로서 언제까지나 그런 관계가 유지될순 없는거군요...
I dont think they match. Probably they:
1. Give each other second chance
2. Just being considerate
3. Not planning for long term relationship
its 2. ofcorse!
Just a hard pounding.
For me i think its ok for them to date cause, people tend to change when they get into deep relationships.
Everyone has they're opinions interms of having a relationship but, I believe when you truly fell in love with the person you like. You actually tend to forget your opinions in relationships.
They almost didn't agree on anything😂 not gonna work
she said she wants someone opposite of her 😆
Maybe it will. It's more fun if he's/she's opposite of u. U can experience things that u haven't before and get out of your comfort zone. It won't keep things bored so it's gonna be something new everyday
남자분 여자분 둘 다 가치관 좋은듯ㅅ.... 잘어울려요ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
I applaud this woman so much. The dudes answers were kind of a turn off though.
여자분 채수빈 닮았다 ㅠㅠ너무이뻐 똑부러지고
저게 이쁘다고? 개 별론데.. 진심으로 발도 못생겼고 .. 걍 내스타일이 아닌건가 말하는것도그렇고
김2 니 여친보다 이쁠듯
시노자키 아이 닮음
와 맞네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
김2 개나대네
솔직히 성향 전혀 안맞음 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 그냥 기승전외모...
ㅇㅈㅇㅈㅋㅋㅋㅋ
딱 봐도 남자분이 생각이 깊고 가치관이 뚜렷하고 확실하신거같은데 거기에 신뢰감이 생겨서 여자분이 매력을 느끼셨을 수도 있죠
생각깊고 가치관 뚜렷한건 두분 다 그런 것 같은데..
성향 자체는 안맞는데 완전 고집 불통인게 아니라 대화하면서 얼마든지 맞출 수 있다고 느껴졌어요 저는. 저 대화에서 사실 얼마나 잘 맞느냐도 중요하지만 나와 아예 상반된 길을 걷거나 대화를 해보고싶지 않을 정도만 아니라면. 좀 더 얘기하고 서로를 맞춰갈 수 있다고 느껴지는게 좋다고 생각했어요. 제 3자인 제가 봐도 두 사람의 대화를 보고 그렇게 느꼈고. 외모 물론 굉장히 중요하지만 성향 다 안맞네 기승전 외모~라고 단정 짓기까진 아니라고 봅니다.
서로 생각이맞아야되는부분이 있고 아닌부분이 있는거지ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 그리고 단순히 대답이 중요한게아니라 이유와 생각이중요한거임
Teachers are there to educate young people and act as role models. If students see the teacher hitting his/her students, they will probably learn that using violence is ok. Also his example of using violence when the student uses violence first is super childish and makes no sense at all. Same with the example that parents hit their kids as well, but guess what? It is even for parents illegal to use violence on their own kids
Yeah he makes NO sense at all
Exactly! Physical punishment is a terrible way to teach a child. I was physically punished and that turned me into a rebel. When I was punished, all I could think about was how I wanted to hit them back and it filled me with negative emotions, hate, and anxiety.
You want to peacefully make them understand what they did wrong, why it's wrong and what they can do about it. Beating them up won't help them focus on understanding those issues.
If a kid is willing to slap a teacher and that teacher spanked them, the kid could just hit them back. There's already a ton of school shootings happening. You don't wanna anger a kid who is capable of slapping a teacher.
he scares me honestly
eh, i was physically punished and I turned out completely fine. There just has to be a line drawn on when it is too much
Amen. Finally someone said it
dam, i think they only liked each other physically cause i swear that man and that women do not think alike, and honestly that mans answers were enough to push me away, like when he said teachers should punish their students physically and that he likes to eat out than eat homecooked food. i swear i think even she felt she didnt like him but he looks so cute that she just said sure ill take him
How does almost everyone here have an EQ below 10? Until the last question was asked they were 100% going to say Yes
callmeateSobie sorry but going with someone who actually thinks that hitting students is a good thing ? There are limits. Not everybody can have the same opinion. But there are opinions that should just not be accepted such as thinking that hurting others is a good thing. If a guy says that he agreed with pedophilia, would you say « we all have different opinions and it’s less boring to go with someone with a different opinion »? 😂
@@sob9334 Let's see it this way. They go out, live their life ( let's not say they will break up.. Even though it's a total failure if the guy puts work before family as she puts family before work. She will never get his full attention and maybe the pressure on him will be to much.. Or she will want someone who is on the same side with family) but getting over it... They make it work in some way.. And they get married and have a child. Hop, there you go, another problem.. your kid comes home slapped.. Or hurt in any way the teacher wants. As she said family is important to her, and I doubt she will let her child be hurt by a stranger or agree with him to let her child be though that way. AS NO ONE SHOULD AGREE WITH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! Adult or not, child or not, women or men. No one should be hurt. Especially for a stupid reason as learning. Because if you hurt someone in order to learn instead of making him understand the beauty of it, then it is a stupid reason.
nothing wrong with going out to eat. if you can afford to do that frequently it's amazing
I dont think it particular is a problem...Considering im sure neither of them are teachers and dont plan to. They wouldn't really have to deal with that problem later... Opposites attract. You think you want someone that See's things like you but then you may be bored or get tired of them or blah blah whatever the case may be.
It's a no no for the guy. He's cold hearted (thinking abt him before others marks him down)
Mate literally 95% of people think about themselves before others. He's being honest. It's rare to see people who legitimately think about others before themselves.
You'd rather have a simp lmao
Not every guy is a perfect family man right away, how would you like it if I judged your maturity when you're still just a young adult? Come on bitch, you're not perfect either lmao the point is they liked each other enough to have an intelligent conversation.
So stop telling people to run. Lol
the girl is so beautiful. she has the looks cute and elegant at the same time.
Thank you so much for this episode! I have been waiting for this.
남자가 진보적인 척하는게 아니라 내가 보기에는 책임지기 싫어서 딱 선을 긋는것처럼 보이는데 나도 비슷한 사고 방식을 조금은 가지고 있어서 이해가 가는데 얼핏보면 여자를 위하는듯 보이지만 사실은 너는 너 나는 나 란거고 저 여자분하고 사귀면 나중에 신경 안써준다고 대판 싸우다 헤어질듯ㅋ
손천 나도 남잔데 저런 남자 기피하는게 좋음
너무 자기중심적인 사람으로 보임
나도 여잔데 별로... 여자가 힘들어할거같음
오영밍 여기에 메갈이 있구나
@@disco_cupcake 영상은 보고 떠드셈 저 남성분을 판단하는게 꺼려지긴 하는데 저 분이 직접 뱉으신 말들에는 분명히 자기중심적인 말들이 여럿 나왓다 ㅋ
아니면 젠더이슈에 관심이 많다라는 이유로 빨아재끼는건가 ㅋ
she deserves better.. the last two questions really changed my complete point of view on the dude, kinda scary lowkey.
남자분 좀 고집이 있으신거 같음 체벌거기에서 질문을 무조건 자신이 원하는 답이 나올때까지 묻는게 다보임
소리바다 잉?;; 자기가 그거에 대해서 생각했던 다른 것들을 상대방도 그렇게 생각하는지 물어보는거 같은데?? 그리고 대답이 달랐다고 해도 뭐 인상을 팍쓴것도 아니고 예의있게 잘 넘긴듯..
@@eumenauma 뭐 그렇게 생각하실수도 있는데 전 다르게 생각해요 생각차이는 충분히 있을수있으니까요
초반엔 못 느꼈는데 후반 질문 답변들 보면 어느정도 고집이 보이시긴 하네요. 그리고 소개팅을 굉장히 리드하는 거 같아 보이고요..
충분히 그렇게 느끼셨을 수도 있겠네요^^저도 여성분이 너무 호응 잘해주셔서 남자분이 고집이 센지 못 느꼈어요
이거 찍을때 사전에 좀 극단적으로 해달라고해요
솔직히 말한다기 보단 자신의 생각을 감추고 말하는 느낌이 드네요..착하게만 말하려는 느낌
저도 이건 공감하네요. 그런데 그거 외에 솔직히 저런 단순한 이분법적 사고 질문으로는 자신을 표현한다는거 자체가 불.가.능이라고 생각합니다. 애초에 저런식의 소개팅은 시간낭비 같아요. 개인적으로 말이죠. 사람을 아는데 저런 단순한 이분법 질문으로 사람을 평가하는건 멍청한 짓이죠. 이분법적 사고를 하는 사람을 만나는게 최악입니다. 한마디로 이걸 기획한 사람을 만나는게 최악이라고 생각되네요.
저렇게 생각하는 사람들이 주변에 있기 때문에 감추고 착하게 보이기 위해서 진짜 생각과는 다르게 이야기 한다는 것은 아닌 것 같아요.
저도 이말엔 동의 못함. 맨윗분도 기획의도를 잘못 파악하신듯. 서로에 대해서 최대한 짧은 시간내에 알려면 저러한 직설적인 질문에대한 토론뿐인데 그거를 사상의 이분법이다 뭐니 하는거는 좀 아닌거같아요
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여자가 이쁜얼굴임? 완전 별로 발가락도 별로고
김2 니 말투보단 예쁨
김2 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ뭘비난까지하냐 개삐뚤어졌네
@@김2-s3v 뭔 말하는데 발꼬락 냄새나냐;;
이게 근데 참 공평성이 맞는게 처음에는 남자를 고르는 여자가 갑이 되어서 자기가 원하는 외모를 고르지만 그 후부터는 여자가 을이 돼서 갑이 원하는 대답을 이해하려고 하는게 좋다.
지금까지 중에 가장 완성도가 부족한 에피소드인 것 같습니다
전혀 소개팅 느낌 나지도 않고
대부분 사회적 이슈들인데 겉핥기 식으로 하는 대화라 언급한 효과가 그리 나타나지도 않구요
마요참치 저는 1회 질문 수준이 제일 별로였는데요 이번 질문들도 본인들에겐 연인을 볼 때 중요한 질문이었을텐데 그렇게 별로인지 잘 모르겠어요
일반적 소개팅 이라는 활동 자체가 소개팅 느낌이 나야 소개팅이라는 주장을 사회적으로 이슈가 되는 것을 겉핣기 하는 식으로 대화를 하여도 소개팅일 수 있다 라는 생각을 들게하는 활동인 것 같아요. 질문의 수준이 별로라는 말씀은 삼가해 주셨으면 감사하겠습니다.
저는 구체적으로 최소한 한 가지 근거 제시도 못하고 그냥 막연히 수준이 낮다는 '형용사'만 쓰는 수준의 글이 수준 낮아 보이는군요.
마요참치 고작 11분짜리 영상과 몇십분의 대화에서 깊은 대화를 바라는것 자체가 이상한것 아닌가요? 시사프로도 아니고 소개팅이라는 틀 속에서는?
그리고 저 정도 대화라면 서로의 가치관을 충분히 파악 정도는 하지 않았을까 싶은데?
@@EZ-wm4hs 저는 이 영상에서 깊은 대화를 바라지도 않았고 바랐다고 말한 적도 없어요
그리고 영상 속 두 출연자가 서로 가치관을 확인했는지 여부는 제게 중요하진 않아요
이 영상은 두 소개팅 참여자가 주인공이 아니라고 봅니다
영상을 통해 메시지를 전달하고자 하는 주체는 영상을 만든 스튜디오 온스타일이고 출연자들은 단지 메시지 전달을 위한 매개체라고 봐요
왜냐하면 질문들을 제시하는 쪽이 온스타일 쪽이기 때문이죠
그렇기에 제가 썼던 댓글은 온스타일 측을 향해 말한 겁니다
They were really hitting it off at first but definitely had different morals. I actually thought they would both send an X.
If u think about it, they handled it well and it got better over time so it makes sense to me that both would say O
I felt the same way actually. I really didn’t share most of the opinions the guy had. especially the part with physically fending off misbehavior in children. I’m guessing that their appearance played a bigger part in their decision making. They were more open minded to discuss further and overlook “trivial” moral opinions. But well they might fit anyways, you never know from one date right?
Actually I was sure about that they will send O lol. They clicked. Even when there were different opinions, the girl was really open minded and smart. He seemed to like her answer sometimes even when the light went off. At least I think so
I felt he was really judging her but at the end he probably wants to hook up so he didnt care lmao.
Meh i thought the question meant whether they wanted another person as a date.. 😂 what an idiot
마음에 드는 사람이 있으면 그때 딱 얻고 아니면 버리고 라고 남자분이 말하시는데 사람을 물건 취급하는 느낌이 드네요..
왜 관계를 가져야만 더 뜨겁고 성숙한 사랑이고 더 많은걸 배운다고 생각하는 건가 의문이 드네요 필요가 없다는건 아니지만 그 외적인것들도 훨씬 많고 가치있다고 생각하는데
왜 관계를굳이 빼려고하는거임?
ㅈㄴ노이해
성관계는 꼭 필요하더랍니다
관계도 연애의 일부 아닌가요 서로 좋아서 하는거고 서로 하고싶어서 한다면 아무문제 없다고 생각하는데 거기에 사랑이 들어있지 않다더라도 서로가 욕구를 충족한다는 부분에서 아무 문제없다고 생각 사람의 3대 욕구중 하나인 성욕을 아무렇지 않은걸로 표현하는것 자체가 모순 사랑없는 관계를 관계가 아니라고 생각 한다면 맛이 없는 식사는 식사가 아닌게 되고 제대로 자지않은 쪽잠은 잠이 아닌게 되는건가요?
그저 3대욕구중 하나일뿐이고 배고파서 밥먹는것 잠이와서 잠을 자는것과 다를것 하나없는 거라고 생각합니다
하 난 남자말이 너무 멋지던데 아직까진 한국에선 걸레소리 듣는 게 많더라
남친도 아닌데 아무나 막자고 그러면 걸레맞지. 우리가 말하는건 정상적인 연애에서의 섹스를 말하는거고 걸레는 말그대로 걸레지.
여자분 생각 나랑 거의 일치...멋져요!
이jj 얼굴은다르잖아...;; 같이 엮일라하지마
@@히사리부리 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ?물론 당연하지 내가 더이쁘지만 자기 생각 저렇게 똑똑히 말하는게 멋지다고ㅡㅡ ㅂㅅ인가
이jj ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 본인이 더이쁘시다?
사귀자
@@히사리부리 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
꾜오
*“I have an outgoing personality,”* chooses all the answers an introvert would choose
I noticed the same thing. Lol.
she seems so extroverted tho?
being introverted and outgoing are 2 totally different things. they’re not synonymous with eachother.
What inrovert about any of her answers?
I don't agree because extroverts pick people 1st not items, money, or their careers extroverts care about people, while introverts are for themselves (and she prove herself to be an extrovert with her answers)
If I were a parent I would never let a teacher hit my kid
Except she said no as well. LMAO
Hence why Mexicans are often in prison
@@dtmt502 stop believing stereotypes you see on TV, you racist bigot.
She looks like an actress so beautiful
Although the many differences, they pretty much decided that they are willing to date each other because they found each other attractive.
I guess at the end of the day, horniness triumphant over long-term values
You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals so lets do it like they do it on discovery channel.
i dont think so. they both seem open minded and understanding despite their preferences. also those are the only questions they were asked, they could have a lot more in common too
She will be his teacher.
Kakashi0429 Absolutely love that song. Its perfect for here lol
학생을 교육할 권리를 교사가 가지고 있기 때문에 체벌이 가능하다는 입장이면 남성분이 말씀하신 예시에도 모순이 있네요 '나를 때렸기 때문에 학생이고 나발이고 때린다'는 건 교육적이지 않은 것처럼 느껴져요
@@rei5790 어디에 나를 때렸다는 영상이있지 왜 소설을쓰세요
자기가 생각하고싶은데로 생각하네
@@didbekap2 임소희님의 댓글
선생이 본인이 맞은걸 떠나서 학생이 선생을, 타인을 때렸다는거 자체가 이미 선을 넘은건데요. 그걸 예시로 든거지 저 남자의 예시에서 복수를 떠올리시는건 조금 잘못된거 같네요.
교육이고 뭐고 맞아야할애들은 맞아야지
그럼 교사가 뚜드려 맞는 법을 가르쳐야한다 이건가?
예의를 갖추는걸 가르치는게 아니고?
this guy has issues tbh. anyone who thinks punishing CHILDREN by violence is perfectly fine is not okay and definitely doesn't deserve a lady like this. i hope she leaves him after that date.
Y'all are acting like a slap to the butt is traumitising. I definitely hated it but it wasn't super painful nor did it traumitise me. It's the way it's done if
In Korea and possibly a lot of other countries as well, teachers are becoming less respected day by day. And there are lots of issues of students ignoring teachers and talking back to them. Lots of teachers are bad mouthed and treated like crap by the students because they know the teachers can't harm them. I know violence is wrong but I belive that simple slapping on the hand is quite needed.
It's how the west might think of it, but in Asian countries it's different, my parents spanked my legs until I was 3 or 4 but they never hit my face, they explain to me what I did wrong, after spank, the spank was an alarming thing like I crossed over the line very far,. When I was a teenager it's just verbal disciplinary action. In general upbringing of children here in Asia is different from the west, regardless of spank,, scolding, I still tend to have a sense of duty to respect, and take care of my parents despite those, perhaps it's also because the good they've done to me outweighs greatly the disciplinary part.
yall baffle me, this shouldn't be justified.
different cultures - she thought that parents punishing their children with violence was okay too, just not teachers
What I love about this is it encourages honest discussion. They aren't trying to put their best foot forward, they're trying to be as honest as they can so that they accurately represent themselves.