The Clothes You’ll ALWAYS Regret Buying | Anti Haul 2023
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- The Clothes You’ll ALWAYS Regret Buying | Anti Haul 2023
I love fashion and fashion trends but I'm equally as passionate about not wasting money on clothes you don't get enough wear out of. Of course I've made mistakes in the past buying pieces for all the wrong reasons and I'm hoping today's video will help avoid you falling into the same trap. As I mentioned this video is inspired by the lovely Christina Mychas here on UA-cam and I'd encourage you to watch her video after this one. She has a great channel focused on intentional fashion and minimalism and her content always inspires me. Anyway, I'd really love to hear if you resonate with any of these "regrets" and please let me know of any fashion and trend regrets you have in the comments below. I'd love to hear where you may have slipped up so I also don't make the same mistake. Anyway, thanks SO much for watching and I will see you in the next one.
Leonie
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I don't necessarily have to wear a piece often to feel it has value in my wardrobe. I do have at home clothes for cooking, cleaning, and gardening. I am not going to wear my "good" clothes which will probably get ruined for these activities.
Absolutely. I won't wear good clothes to feed the animals or groom the dog.
Wearing a cute apron for such activities would be better suited in my opinion. I have different ones for cooking, gardening and while grooming my pets 🤗
@@theMalteseCarnivore I love that idea!
I will have paint from crafting, thread from sewing, or food from cooking stuck to my clothing that I wear around the house. For those saying an apron is the answer, ya'll must be much more tidy than I am, that just won't protect my sleeves, or knees. I keep my house on the cool side, and I wear a fleece jacket over my clothing. I just try not to answer the front door with it on. 😉
@m: Totally agree but do appreciate Leonie as when comparing her to some other fashion influencers, IMO she reigns as one of the most knowledgeable, realistic and genuine.
Oh my goodness - it's so true, about shopping for the fantasy self. A few years ago, I began following religiously a bunch of fashion content creators, and I'd find myself looking at a dress or outfit in a shop and think, "Well this would be lovely for a garden party/Sunday brunch/girls' weekend away, etc." I do NONE of those things, as dreamy as they all sound. Thankfully, I typically shop at thrift stores, so it wasn't too expensive of a lesson, and I've calmed down and been realistic in my shopping.
Thanks for sharing!!
My fantasy self has a yacht off the coast! 🤣😂 I don’t live an “elevated” life, and some of those pieces just aren’t worth having for me. I’m becoming much more realistic about who I am, where I live, and what I do. I also live in a smaller home now. I don’t have space to waste.
Exactly right! Also some other hints:
I use really worn or rubbish clothes for gardening, and cleaning up mess. That's something people forget to keep, and this causes better clothes to get ruined or worn out too rapidly.
Also if an item is looking a bit tired, I soak it in nappysan or similar then iron it with spray on starch. It's incredible what this does!
Suddenly your item really starts to sing again! It works for jeans, which you should always wash inside out and with the button and zip done up to minimise stretching at the waist.
Avoid clothes with elastine stretch in the fabric, inevitably the stretch atrophies and they look saggy and awful. Stretch is an excuse for bad tailoring and cheap production.
Just don't do it, or if you must, keep it to a small amount. Iron inside out, it reduces shine and most mistakes are not fatal to the garment. Always have a good haircut and colour, that's essential and keep your shoes nourished and clean. Maintain them with a cobbler they're worth their weight in gold if you can find a good one. I've had heels cut down its saved shoes that weren't comfortable before, and various measures extend life. Many things a cobbler can do, but you must buy the best shoes you can afford, get them in sales and get the basics first.
PS Ihear you on the fantasy life...but it's always good to have one or two outfits for special occasion dressing, bjust in case you get invited to some thing but no more than that! IMO
@@deborahcurtis1385 I love these tips! Does the Nappysan work for all/most fabric types?
@@neon-heart Yes but use the guides. I don't use nappysan anymore but I'm in Australia and you won't have the same branding, just use oxygen-generated activation it will work. I just cleaned a bag with woven fabric straps and dipped them into a sink of it diluted...gave it a little scrub, rinsed and voilà! Fantastic result!
My fantasy self is this Boho person. But in reality, I always feel uncomfortable or like I am wearing a costume when I try to dress for my fantasy self. I am more of a minimalist in terms of style and that’s when I feel most comfortable in my clothes. But when I see those dresses from Anthropologie , I imagine myself in the field picking flowers which is Not really me, but I can’t seem to let go of it.. There is another Content creator, who says that when you’re trying to dress for a fantasy self it is a result of wanting something that is lacking in your own life. So I’m thinking maybe I just want more for nature, even though I dressed like a minimalist.
That’s an interesting thought 💭
In my experience it does feel like you're wearing a costume when you try to change everything all at once.
You could try introducing one thing at a time (maybe like a boho scarf with your minimalist outfit). Once you get used to it and feel comfortable you can add another thing and so on
Thank you for this! Things i regret buying; button up shirts, white anything or anything that is high maintenance. I have always hated button up shirts. I do not care how much thy are “on trend” they are a hard pass for me as i never reach for them. I look sickly wearing the color white. I am guilty of buying too many knits. I love them!
I feel exactly the same about button ups!!
I hate white 😂
Thanks for sharing 👏🏼
Happy to find more button Up haters 😂
My "wear around the house" clothes are ones I don't mind getting stained or snagged, etc and don't have to worry about. I feel limited in my activities at home I'm worried about ruining my clothes.
Dressing nice at home is a pass from me 😅 I have cats and they are cuddlers. I don’t want my nice things full of fur or being at risk of getting damaged by a nail pull or something. My home wear has to be super low maintenance for my peace of mind and I have to be able to tumbler dry them. I put on my “outside” trousers literally just before leaving home 😅
Everything else I completely agree and have made those costly mistakes as well. Live and learn 😅
I agree with this for a different reason. I don't have pets but the number of nice clothes I've ruined by bleach or similar disasters still haunts me.
I have three Breton striped tees, and I wear them all. Frequently. I'll probably buy a couple more if I see ones I like. In the winter, jeans, striped tee, and cardigan is practically a uniform.
Love the Breton stripe shirts. They are classic & will never go out of style. In fact, ordering 3 more now - boatneck, v-neck & crewneck with differing sleeve length & colours for variety!
I always think it’s so great that you give credit to the people who gave you the ideas to your videos. 👍🏼Some people on UA-cam just copy others’ ideas, and at times even the video covers.
Thank you x
I live in a hot and humid city. I have my walk the dog clothes, ( usually old, worn or oudated)then others for quick errands where I dont have on makeup and jewelry but a step up from walk the dog pieces...then my totally clean, fresh and pressed wardrobe for my going out to eat, shopping, visits, etc. When I have my hair and makeup done well, jewelry and nice accessories used. I cannot imagine cooking and cleaning daily in my nicer clothes.
Really loving these anti haul videos from sustainable style influencers. It makes you appreciate what you already have.
I totally agree! I love watching them and making them for that very reason x
I always have “down graded clothes” to wear at home. I’m always doing something messy, we live kind of in the country and our yard always needs something done to it. I have ruined some of my favorite clothes in the process of being messy. My favorite downgraded fall/winter outfit is an older cashmere sweater and black joggers.
I absolutely can't tolerate a cluttered closet... It's hard to wear what you can't see, and I need for my closet to have order... Also, I remember when I bought three items that an influencer shared... Those items weren't for me... I spent around $300 for them, and I donated them... I truly believe that if you don't love an item, let it go... It doesn't matter how much it costs... Make room for your new special pieces...😊 Thanks, Leonie... This is a great video...👏👏👏
Thanks for watching Linda 😊
Thanks for another great video! It struck me that many of these rules could equally apply to one's love life: don't just grab the easily available, make sure they're lifestyle-compatible, walk away if you're on the fence and above all, no matter how good the fit, if it's high maintenance, forget it!!😁
LOL, sooo true. And maybe, if everyone had such quality standards especially when it comes to procreation, we wouldn't have more than 8 billion people on earth. I did not expect to come across this idea watching a fashion channel.
Absolutely!
For many years, I've photographed a lot of my clothing, handbags, and footwear items and store the photos in files on my MacBook Air. That way I know what I have. Plus, I also photograph the inside of my closets and also wheeled clothing racks to keep inventory. I seldom end up repeating items while out shopping. Also, a lot of the times I have the photos with me while shopping as I store them on a camera card and I always carry my tiny Canon pocket camera in my tote bag.
I don't do photos on a cell phone. I do them on the Canon and then when I get home, transfer the fashion item photos to my MacBook Air. Before laptops, I had a handwritten journal. But, due to the laptop era, I also type fashion info notes and store them.
When I'm out and about, I take a photo of me in whatever I'm wearing and then store those photos as when it's time to come up with a quick outfit in the future, I can just go through the photo images and select one. Organization in the beginning, saves a lot of time in the end. I've always been very organized.
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The number of times I've bought an "essential" item...a blazer, a white shirt...just things I've finally worked out are not my style at all. Would love to find an influencer who doesn't recommend a blazer in their capsule wardrobe!!
Yes that’s the problem with capsules - they all look very different for everyone. There is no one size fits all I’m afraid 😧
I’m with you on the button ups vs knits! But I like to layer, and you may do better with a cardigan or heavier shirt instead of a blazer. I grew out of and miss my black casual blazer, made me feel put together for any gathering with family or friends.😅
@tam regarding the blazer - an influencer I follow dresses her blazer up and down - she paired her boyfriend blazer with a slim flitting hoodie underneath and it looked really good. She’s in her 40s for reference- maybe that style might suit you?
Also I know what you mean about the white shirt and they are always those plain, unisex white shirts - they just remind me of school and the 14 years of wearing white shirts! 😂 If I’m to wear a white shirt I like those feminine, white, vintage, lacey-type ones that Sezane do.
@tinacinnamon good suggestions but time and experience have shown me I just hate button up shirts and collars in general..After spending a lot of money on different styles, feminine cuts,silk, lace etc. I do love the idea of a slim hoodie under a bf blazer but in reality, I never reach for the outfit. I'll find a non-blazer-promoting influencer one day 😂
@@tamverdier5001I'm with you! I have a blazer that I had worn once (I feel like a free spirited country girl trying to look like a serious business woman when wearing a blazer...). White shirts make me look like a corpse. However, there's a navy velvet blazer that looks very tempting. I hope I don't fall for the temptation.
My mom loved to sew, or at least I think she did. She had six kids; she was either in the garden, out in the field helping my dad, milking cows, or sewing. (Really didn't like cooking or cleaning.) For me, this was great! As a 5-year-old, I started looking at the pattern books and the fabrics, and we were always going to the fabric stores, and started my clothing designing career then. My mom could sew absolutely anything. If I told her I wanted "most of the dress" from Pattern A, but I wanted the sleeves from Pattern B, and the hem to look like Pattern C, she didn't even need the other patterns, just the main one.
For my mom, she just couldn't stand the idea of going to a thrift store and buying and wearing something someone else had worn. (She also couldn't stand anyone other than a family member touching her hair, giving her a perm.) I got to be good enough at sewing that I could make my three kids' clothes when they were little, and then when they got older and I worked more and didn't have time for sewing, we went to stores.
Now most of my clothes come from second-hand stores. I've given up on patterns and fabrics. Prices are just too high and I have no time or patience for that anymore. I can mend, though, and if I really had to, I could sew a garment. I think the last thing I actually sewed was a deerskin dress -- that I punched every hole by hand, stitched it together with sinew by hand, sewed on all the beads by hand, and wore that to powwows for years.
By the time I was a first-grader, I knew a quality fabric and what pattern it would work best with. It was awesome, having new handmade clothes all the time -- and the only way I could have had clothes, because I was a "chubby" and couldn't buy clothes in stores.
Fabulous story and life! I grew. up in remote Australian bush and learned to sew at school, and kept myself entertained for many hours making things. Being able to alter an item of clothing or mend it is invaluable; your mother is really talented. I agree fabrics are terrible these days but you can buy what's known as 'dead stock 'excess designer stuff from wholesalers/manufacturers. I have a making do mentality and it's part of my philosophy of not compulsively shopping but rather, filling gaps in my wardrobe and fixing things.
As a result I have few 'failures' of things I bought but didn't work out. I have most things I need now, this year I just bought some linen shirts and one dress for summer. I'm really really careful and try to keep my things for many years. This is respecting the thing that I own, thinking of the person who made it, and respecting the earth to not throw things out. I'm astounded at people who throw clothes and shoes away in the garbage! Why not donate them? I have no words for. manufacturers who deliberately destroy unsold items to keep them
'exclusive' so they don't have to sell at reduced prices. They maintain ridiculously high prices that way.
This is great! I have definitely had regrettable retail therapy.
And once and for all I declare to the world… I can’t wear denim jackets. They are anti my style and I’m tired of trying 🤪
My style is very classic with hint of edge. For me a fitted dark jean jacket reads more “put together”-fitted is the key. I got mine from Old Navy years ago. I pair it several ways, for a more dressed up look I do some kind of top, a jean shirt looks nice too, closer fitting sweater or t shirt, and a trouser pant- black, charcoal gray. -green and burgundy look nice too-boots, loafers or low heeled mules. For casual, the same top as above and a pair of trouser jeans. I got mine from J Crew. My go to outfit this fall is a fitted light weight navy sweater, a close fit, slightly cropped dark jean jacket and trouser jeans-slightly dark with multiple shoe options. Add jewelry to your tastes. I dress very minimalistic so I do a less is more approach. This outfit receives positive comments, even from strangers.
I’m this way with white button down shirts. They remind me too much of my server days.
Perfect 🤩
That’s me in regard to blazers. They make no sense in my life
I was raised to always go to the sale section 1st, so that is super relatable. I do go through the sales rack. I do it with an idea of what I’m looking for, and I, don’t usually find on the sale rack.
Thanks for sharing!!
Bingo! I finally realized I didn’t need a button front white shirt because I never wear them! Wish I figured that out many shirt purchases ago.
Perfect! Better late than never x
Love how you said getting trapped in someone else's "essentials" that wouldn't suit your lifestyle or your personal style in general.
👍🏼
I watched Christina's video and the 'fantasy self' resonated with me too! Thank you for more great tips; I agree that one needs to be 100% before an item is purchased. I've learned it needs to be a resounding "Yes!" before I buy it.
It was such a good video right?
I sew and have made several pieces I love and wear. I also purge my closet regularly of items that don’t fit, don’t inspire me, don’t make me happy. Some purchased items I love and will tailor to fit so I wear them. I’ve tried to get rid of a lot of my ‘fantasy self’ clothes as they are just not practical for my daily life. I also find my tastes change and I will box up items I love and see if later I still do and if not I donate or sell them. The 2 things I always wear - jeans and dresses.
Love that!
Time to get real! I get caught up with my fantasy self and the clothing I love. If you love something enough to be excited about it, why not wear it? Some people do just that. They have the courage to wear the piece they fantasize about. If you feel good in it, why shouldn't you wear it? I'm just here to encourage people to be their fantasy self. Why not? Life is short. Be all you want to be and be daring. If you aren't going to wear it and you know you wouldn't, don't get it.
I love that and it’s great to be your fantasy self - it only becomes a problem when that fantasy doesn’t fit your lifestyle and you end up not wearing the clothes 👍🏼
I’ve finally figured out my fantasy vs. reality self. It took a while and some expensive lessons. One thing for me. If I find pants that are the right length and fit great, I do usually buy at least two in the most neutral colors. I’m very short and it is extremely hard for me to find pants. I’m finally now at a point where I love everything in my closet and wear it all pretty much equally. That being said, it is a very minimalist closet and very neutral.
Love that!
Trying to find pants in the " perfect length " is like a silly Easter egg hunt. Find a good tailor.
I used to buy multiples of the same item. But then I always felt like I didn’t have anything to wear because I had too much of the same thing and not enough variety.
I thought it was a good idea to buy 2 if you like the style, I would often wear only one of them. Good point, probably didn't give me variety. Know better do better 😄
New to your channel, wow purchasing items for a lifestyle I don't have and someone else's essentials really hit home for me. I just decluttered these items and it sure feels good. It makes me be more creative when I plan an outfit, thank you for the inspiration.
Great list, I would also add anything that you are desperate or anxious to buy, my best purchases are when I feel a sense of calm certainty about the item
My take on formal wear is - dress it down so you can enjoy it more! I got tons of compliments when I wore a trendy hoodie over my fancy floor-length dress and wore it with sneakers for a recent house party!
Yes, you hit it on the head. I can see myself doing all of these at sometime. It’s taken quite awhile to train myself to not make these purchases or do these saves. 😊
This is such a good video…thank you. I agree with you on not wearing clothes you don’t love around the house. If it’s not flattering on me in general then when I see myself in the mirror at home with it on then I am reminded of why I should get rid of that item…I’m actually just accumulating unwanted pieces at that point…such helpful tips…great job! I love and value your work on here. ❤
Many a fashion regret over here partly related to a feeling of scarcity from being plus size and not having many fashionable options in my youth. However, one thing I now try to be more aware of before purchasing something is asking myself if I have the right footwear for it. I’m not someone who wears heels for example as I’m already six feet tall. Shoe comfort and lifestyle are also big factors when making purchases…or at least they should be. 😉
That is such a great point - shoes maketh the outfit. Thanks for sharing 👏🏼
I'm tall too and shoes are a never ending search....II tend to fix my older ones up and keep them....for instance just having the lining fixed on some slides, they are still terrific even though I bought them in 2002. Just need the lining done because it's bunched up. They are red slides and look great with pretty much anything. I'm a big fan of the mule shoe as well. Plus Italian made flat boots, or with a small heel, they are great!
So true! Never buy if you are down or bored! Thank you again for a great video!!!
So true!
Great advice. I have a number of perfectly good pieces in my closet that are going to be purged because I don’t absolutely love them.
Love that!
Since I shop thrift,even when I make an emotional buy,I’m not out too much.Also I can afford really good clothing if I buy them second hand,garments that I could never,ever afford to purchase if new.
Such a good point re not grabbing something you hadn't especially been thinking about just because you come across it on sale.
I find I do best from buying pieces i already wanted (or those from a cut I was already after) that I find are now affordable.
Leonie, there were some real gems in this one. I fall for the fantasy lifestyle purchases and the sale items both of which collect dust in my closet. 😂🤣
Glad you enjoyed this one ☝🏼
Sooo true the enemy fantasy self or in my case the many fantasy projects 😮 because I am a passionate sewer & upcycler… charity shops really tempt me as I buy clothes often just for the beauty of the fabric…
So this over buying over shopping obsessive behaviour is something we all have to rationalise and constantly question & reassess if we really NEED and really what the intense feeling of WANT is all about… 🧐❤❤❤
So true!
I adore striped tees.I have to make myself wear other things in my closet so I don’t wear mine out and have to replace them all the time.
Great video and on point! I literally just bought a black lace dress from Zara that I dont have any event to wear to. Just thought, “well it looks great and maybe I’ll have a wedding or party to go to”. Never mind that I have not been to either in almost 10 years and don’t know anyone getting married ! 😂 I follow Nischa and she says “never spend money on future events”. Good advice I seem to forget 😊. Checking now to see if I can still return the dress. AND I confess to having no less than 10 black t-shirts, 5 striped button downs and 16 black sweaters. On the fence about the advice regarding around the house clothes. As a gardener I have a wardrobe dedicated to working in the dirt, etc. I wont ever wear my “A” clothes for this as I’d be ruining them and buying new constantly.
I agree. I have a tendency to buy black everything. If it’s in black I’ll buy it. My closet is full of black clothes. But I wear them all.
That info hit the spot. You even mentioned seeing pieces I don't like when they done. You have great insight and knowledge
I appreciate that!
You with your menagerie of striped blouses had me rolling. 😀 It's like me with black t-shirts...
I know right!!!! x
I had an old teammate tell me I looked like a grandma with my pearls about 10 years ago. I always thought they were timeless. Haha well she got blocked.
Fair enough too - who has time for negativity?
I imagine if you can sew well enough to make your own clothes you certainly can make something you like !
Well, sometimes, you had a different body years ago, so nothing looks right on you now.😢
I sew my own clothes. Sewists can fall into similar traps, such as sewing for a fantasy self and being influenced by what everyone else is sewing and showing on instagram.
I buy both sale items and other pieces that could be considered overpriced , but the color, fabric and fit are perfect for me.
Kryptonite - hahaha, I love that! I also love the idea of wearing the clothes you love when you are home. I don't feel good about myself if I am wearing sloppy clothing at home. Great suggestions!
So true!
Love cashmere joggers & matching cardigan for winter in house wear.
Perfect timing as I am purging my closet of anything that is fantasy lifestyle and not my actual lifestyle. Something that I do, is create a wishlist on my computer and just save whatever I am into at the moment on there instead of going shopping. I go back a few weeks later and usually I don't even want the item anymore, which means most of us buy impulsively without much thought. As for the hat situation, I realized my collecting hats over the past few years is ridiculous. I am not a hat person, but was buying hats just because... for what exactly? I have a few that are great, and a few that need to be donated asap!
Love this video, the "fantasy self" is a great description! Congratulations
Glad you enjoyed it! Wish I could claim fantasy self but it was the lovely Christina who coined that term. It's a goodie right?
Great video & perfect timing ~ right before the holidays, when I’m especially susceptible to all these things. Thanks, Leonie!
Glad you enjoyed this one ☝🏼
I love the direction of the content in this video. I listen to Sustain This Podcast with Christina and watch her videos. I would really like to have more information from you regarding the performance of specific clothing pieces. There are lots of videos on natural fibers and "quality" brands, even so, I still end up with a lot of cat hair stuck to me. 😄 I have one black cat and one white. That pretty much a guarantees their hair will be seen no matter what color I am wearing.
I wish clothes were made with a tweedy black and white with one added color. Can you imagine how much pet hair could be hidden!
Very good video,as always! I do agree with all that you said.Thank you for reminding me!
Thanks for watching!
Agree with you on most. Loved the jewelry 💍 dislike plasticky faux leather ugh. Have a lovely weekend ❤
Thank you! You too!
I should watch this at least once a week! I’m guilty of all of these traps.😢
🙊😂
This resonates on so many levels, I need to watch it once a week.
I'm pleased it resonated with you x
I’ll LOVING your sweater and under-layer, so beautiful!
Thank you x
This vid is so much me! Bought pieces that “were not particularly thought out” and my “fantasy self.” They never were worn! They were in my closet NWT for years but now they are being sold on Poshmark.
Well hopefully you recoup some of the funds to spend on pieces that suit your real self 🙏🏼
This is why I thrift mostly, and keep in mind what I'd do with each piece. I do have a few very fancy gowns I've never worn, and some fancy heels I have barely worn, but they are so pretty and make me feel happy 😅. I'm not normally a shopper who does that, but the dresses are second hand ✋and my guilty pleasure. I can't personally afford to put aside large amounts of $$ for a few pieces of high end, quality clothing.
Things I don't buy anymore: scarves, belts, hats, necklaces, earrings, super trendy items that have a short life in the fashion world, anything from low quality brands, shoes for a specific occasion/highly uncomfortable shoes that are cute
I’m definitely guilty of buying things on sale. Some I’ve worn a lot I haven’t but I do donate.
Fashion regret’s definitely can get costly.. guilty of it myself. But working on decluttering and really focusing on buying things that I know Ill get used out of. Shoes are my guilty vice lots of shoes that dont get worn because they hurt my feet they just look pretty.. I still have those beautiful stilettos that I think Im gonna wear.. ha!
Thanks, this is perfect! You are always so helpful!
I'm so glad!
Finding ways to make something work is part of the creative process. Tons of times I've thought something isn't working, when all I needed to do was to style it a bit differently or adapt it with some alterations. Or if it's a colour that isn't flattering to my facial colouring, wear it separated by a colour that is.
Our egos in the West are pretty colossal, pumped up by a false sense of grandiosity, ('because you're worth hit' blah blah blah) and that's what makes us vulnerable to flattery of shop assistants and friends, and to ego gratifying purchases which are unwise.
Develop a deep appreciation who you are, regardless of your clothes, and then they will occupy their rightful place. If something is grossly unfashionable I relegate it to the back of the wardrobe or in a suitcase and stash it away. Then it gets rediscovered. I have bought quite a lot of blue and white this year, but that's a function of my lifestyle these days which is more casual. This is happening with a lot of people. I have 3 hats, 2 of which are on high rotation the other is a special occasion hat, that's it.
Evening wear I have only one dress and it's not a long one. The other items are separates they are easily broken up into more casual settings. I don't worry about recycling I've been doing it for decades now. 2 black leather skirts one A-line and one in softer leather with a slight ruffle or organza netting on the hem.
I give stuff away, sell it (rarely) or throw it out (even more rarely). But generally I keep it. This is a n natural brake on spending as you only have so much room in your closet.
Loved this video! Such great advice❤ I agree with all of it!
Glad you liked it!!
The rule my friends and I have is that if one buys a new item then something we already have has to move out. Sometimes though I can’t find anything I can bear to let go! Only human.
Fair enough too 😊
I have A-list clothes and B-list clothes, ones I wear out of the house, and ones I wear at home, for a very specific reason: I have cats. Very cuddly cats. I try not to sit down after I get home from somewhere, before I change clothes. As soon as I am sitting, the cats will be in my lap. Not only are they shedding, but they are climbing all over me. That is when snags can happen. I have more than a few sweaters, etc., that went from being A-list to B-list in a few seconds. So I learned my lesson!
Ahh that makes perfect sense 👏🏼
Same. I LOVE high quality pieces but I also love babysitting my granddaughters. I don’t ever want to be mad at them for ruining a nice item. I don’t wear rags, but do choose items that wash easily and that, if they do get paint, dirt, etc on them, I don’t feel guilty for getting rid of them
When you don't buy sale items you save more money than when buying them 😁
This is an excellent and hit home, I bought a 300 sequin Houndstooth trench wore it once! Then I have tons of hats, I realized I but they are same thing in different colors 😅
Always happy seeing a new Video from you❤❤❤
Yay! Thank you!
Love these types of videos. Right on point.
Thank you x
I just cleaned out my closet. And I give most of my clothes to my granddaughters. Two live close and can wear my shoes, clothes and sweaters.My oldest granddaughter lives in another state. And she just came and went through my clothes and sweaters. She can’t wear my shoes. I had a few boxes and bags that went to Goodwill. But I got rid of a lot of things. Then I went through what no one took, and kept a few things. I have nice clothes and clothes for not wearing in public. I live in the country, in Georgia. I have three small dogs who have ruined many of my clothes by getting mud all over me. And the orange clay mud doesn’t come out. So they make a lot of my nicer things into things I only wear around the house real quick. I used to just buy whatever I saw, and thought I needed. I’m getting better. I still buy. But I have slowed down. I only buy particular things I want now. I have run out of room in my closet. And I have things in the guest room closet.
I'm famous for 'if I like it, get it in multiple colors.'.
teasing us with those closet views! would love a closet tour......xoxo
It is a gift to be able to sew one's own clothes creations or an attempt of others designs.
Absolutely!
I sew. Generally people that have sewn for a while create a muslin made from inexpensive material to ensure style and fit is correct. You can adjust seams, lengths, darts for fit and then transfer to an adjusted pattern and create with more expensive fabric.
Pieces I don’t like go to my painting and grunge work box.
It is difficult to sew for others because they’d have to be available for fitting. And sewing takes a long time so the person you sew for will more likely be a good friend or relative.
I’ve got a pair of black pants from Cos that attract soooo much fluff. I really liked the fabric in store until I washed them and wore them. Big regret! Also guilty of dressing my fantasy self. 🙄
Hi Leonie I really liked this video, that black top you wore in this video is beautiful and looks great on you
Thank you so muchx
Interesting video. I agree with most of the points. Thumbs Up!!
loved this video as always :) Thank you!
So glad!
A great thoughtful and helpful video. Thanks. No hats for me. White shirts are my problem.😊
Glad it was helpful!
I listened to her last week, good advice.
Thanks for listening
I relate to all of the above😢. My biggest problem is keeping things things that i no longer need or wear. I’m retired now and don’t need half of what i purchase. Also as you said i keep biting the same items (white shirts, beige sweaters and oh another is black, 18:13 short winter jackets. 😢. I’m in trouble😅
Well at least you know what you're doing. That self awareness is the best place to start making changes x
So helpful video. May I ask where is your top from? It is amazing!
I have three pairs of black shorts that I love wearing but all them are made from cotton that attracts lint. It’s so annoying! I have a navy pair of one of the same shorts and that pair doesn’t attract lint and the fabric appears smoother than the black pair - weird!
I sew and I found I was making things I was inspired to make but not wearing them. I now pay more attention to the colours, fabrics, styles and design lines of what I make to ensure they suit me and fit into the rest of my wardrobe. I’ve been wearing everything I make since changing this habit.
I also sew much of my own clothing and quickly came to a similar realization.
On your thumbnail, I noticed you have a striped sweater/top crossed off. I had to smile at that and it made me curious about the rest of the video. Striped tops are so classically French and can so easily be dressed up or down. I love stripes and of course have several and even a pinstriped summer dress. Baseball caps, I absolutely hate them. I never pay attention to designers and in fact avoid anything advertising their logo, be it belts, bags or clothes. If I purchase a designer piece it is because I love it...with an eye on price, of course. My personal style is between classic and elegant but often casually elegant. Except Sundays when I go no makeup and am in my gardening/work clothes.
I appreciate what you said about wearing B level pieces around the house, but that's something I have to do lol. I DESTROY everything I wear around the house (or my kid does). My sisters have the same problem. So for me, it does actually work to wear B level pieces around the house, because it's the worst feeling to destroy awesome pieces of clothing you love, hahahahaha. Thanks so much for this video. I'm actually planning on NOT buying new clothes for 2024, so I'll be reviewing this video and others like it pretty frequently to help motivate me to NOT buy new clothes (unless absolutely necessary). I bought entirely too many clothes in 2023, and my closet needs some breathing room (as does my budget)!
Oh, yes! I am sometimes SO guilty of doing this!
Very useful, thank you :)
I dislike fur and lint on most of my clothes but can’t seem to get rid of!!!😊
Ahh is it the type of fabric perhaps? I def find some fabrics are real lint magnets!
I have purchased dozens of hats at high price points. I used to love wearing them but now rarely wear. I regret buying so many.
Oh no!
Honestly I regret all of it😆fashion is like the wind always changing
Sale regrets! That’s a big one!
Yes I'm sure a lot of us can relate to that one :(
I regret a pair of caovilla shoes: they are obviously stunning but I didn't wear them because the wedding for which I bought them didn't happen due to pandemic. in my lifestyle I don't have other occasions to wear them and also for the wedding, they were rather too much. I don't know if sell them or wear them sometimes (eventually with an outfit more relaxed).
All your hats are so cute!!!
Thank you x
Thank you! Where is the gorgeous slip silk dress you're wearing from?
I have the same issues with scarves that you have with hats.
To avoid clothing i regret i always try to keep things in my cart for a couple of weeks to avoid that habit of impluse buying
So odd? Had to watch this on my iPhone. For some reason tv was not picking up sound on this video? Anyhow, great video as always!
Oh no! I really don't understand why that's happening sorry. But phone seems to work ok for some random reason!
I love hats...evertime special look
Great advice!
Glad you think so!
Yup. Stripes are my downfall, whether knits or button up shirts in different fabrics. Have way too many.
Same!
My kryptonite was black pants! Weirdly have recently retired and decided I don't want to wear black!
Fair enough too x