This man couldn't have had a father in his life.. To act this kind of way. He has zero discipline, no respect, no shame or honor and to top it off he broke talking about she left and he couldn't take care of HIS kids. He gets chosen though and even allowed to shoot the club up.. I don't understand it.
I could feel how violent he is just from his words. I'm getting stressed watching him. No doubt he loses control and overwhelms these women into silence.
that oveer the top bombastic kind of dude, he's been carrying it around ALL four years. he doesn't kno how, nor has the matyurity and wherewithal to work thru it and let it go during 4 years (or less)
I'm so glad these two women saw what mattered and weren't at each other's throats. This man was crazy. I feel so bad for his kids and any woman who crosses his path.
If he can act like this in front of ppl GOD only knows what she was getting called and talked to in their home. I would of ran away from him and his 5 kids too‼️
She was desperate for a man and he was the first one to follow through. Her mama and daddy failed her, and this man is ABUSIVE!!!! He definitely hit her.
That's not necessarily true. She's old enough to know better. It's 2023, grown people cannot keep blaming their childhood on how they carry on as adults. There are times parents are outstanding model citizens, parents and all that other good stuff and the kids still act a up. Sometimes the parents do the best they can with the tools and resources they had.
@@GeorgiaWhisper this was filmed over a decade ago. Just A few years ago, people wouldn't even TALK about therapy. Back then in the 90's and early 2000's, you'd be called crazy for even THINKING you needed a shrink to deal with your childhood trauma.
God works in such weird ways. He really can redeem the pain we go through and help us in our hardest times. God bless those two woman and may they have a bright and beautiful future
This dude was lying his ass off, he said he would drive a cab 18 hours a shift. Why is your electricity getting turned off and you making all that money?
He said he was driving the cab. He didn't say he actually had passengers. Lol. He was probably working 8 hours and laying up with other women the other 10 hours OR he was taking care of someone else. Also in the comments I saw something about 5 kids.
This is too oooooo much! I'm not use to seeing men not knowing how to control their emotions! I don't know how she did it! He's one heck of a character, WOW!
Cheap suit Cheap jewelry Cheap 'man child' When you don't know how to act in public.......... God help his poor embarrassed children. That is their father is acting out like a five-year-old child, which is an insult to any five-year-old!!!!! THIS IS RIDICULOUS...... RIDICULOUS....! ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS!
She needs to be alone and take care of herself with family and friends that truly love and respect her. Abuse is abuse (mental/physical/psychological). Stress causes all kinds of autoimmune diseases, including lupus, multiple videos and articles on this.
Looking at this shell of a supposed to be man I am so grateful that I left my ex. This would have been my life if I would have stayed. I also packed up my ish and left his ass without a word! True narcissist THEY ONLY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES! Ladies please stay away from energies such as this.
His wife had lupus and he treated her like that?? And he’s upset she left and took dishes?? If he’s driving 18 hours he can buy more. He’s ridiculous and angry. He’s irrational as all heck!!! I can tell he’s a fool at home.
Then she don't need to be complaining about him...a glutton for punishment and can't think of anyone more deserving of all the hell he heaps upon her than THIS. dumb cluck🤣
Wow this hit home bc my mom was diagnosed with lupus. She would have her good and bad days. Just that he wasn't there for his wife bc of a 50 mile drive it just disgusting. Guess the sickness and health didn't apply.
That Defendant is crazy and is displaying signs of violence and abuse, with his verbal abusing & violent behavior towards the Plaintiffs being 2 of them. I'm so happy the ladies are no longer with him. They deserve so much better, and I hope & pray his children don't grow up and be like him.
There was more this relationship than what we saw here. Yes he was very much out of control. However, I don't believe she was entirely like the way we see her here. These two have a love/hate relationship mixed in with lack of low self-esteem , lack of self love
The wife isn’t friends with the other lady. She brought her on the show to hurt her husband and admitted to using her and if you noticed the other woman grab the wife hand and she moved her hand away.
Moved the man into her Mom's house. Some Woman can't blame anybody but themselves. This man's game was so weak but they fell for the Oakey Doak anyway. Good Going Gin
This man was highly pissed but Judge Lynn didn't make it no better and didn't let him finish on interrupted sometimes you have to let a fool finish what they need to say and then you cut them off. 🤷🏼♀️🤬☠️🤧
They both have the problem. She didn't help or contribute to the situation even when he was asking for help with the bills. When she took everything from him the first time and came back. The kids were rightfully upset. I believe she did empty the house and have employment issues but, HIM he was a bully in his own home. I'm sure the part about the kids leaving was true but cause of his anger he pushed them. He can't communicate, he is never wrong, he's controlling and not to be questioned. He needs to get help before he hurt himself or somebody and she needs to fix her character cause she wasn't a good person she just looked better cause of his personality.
The mistress wasn't thinking like a rational human being. He's driving a Cadillac and homeless. He took advantage of her. Karma knows his address. Women don't be blinded by loneliness.
Wow, I thought I was the only one who befriended an AMAZING WOMAN to make sure my ex didn’t prey on her too. He tried and she was on ready & canceled his game before he even started.
She knew all this before she married him I doubt Mr. Finn changed his stripes… we choose these men we know ain’t right but want sympathy later. Yeah he’s rude, agitated and a angry he’s no saint but It’s accountability on both parts.
Why's he so triggered ?🤣 😂 as a taxi driver I guarantee he has road rage...
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She still loves him? Loves what? He’s rude, loud, cheater, liar, immature & the list goes on.
Nacarsist
Broke, no ambition, and again LOUD!!
all of the above ....loves the drama...i would say drama queen, but she ain't no queen
Aggressive, narcissist, explosive...
This man couldn't have had a father in his life.. To act this kind of way. He has zero discipline, no respect, no shame or honor and to top it off he broke talking about she left and he couldn't take care of HIS kids. He gets chosen though and even allowed to shoot the club up.. I don't understand it.
I could feel how violent he is just from his words. I'm getting stressed watching him. No doubt he loses control and overwhelms these women into silence.
He looks like a womanizer.
This man's a jerk 😭
She said, “Flusterated” multiple times 😂🤣😆🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
It’s my new word 😂
Dude, I'm discombobulated her brain functions . Completely understandable.
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Sighhhh 😂
How is he still so angry after not seeing her for 4 yrs
Bitterness, my parents are the same way; still blaming each other for stuff and we're all grown now
that oveer the top bombastic kind of dude, he's been carrying it around ALL four years. he doesn't kno how, nor has the matyurity and wherewithal to work thru it and let it go during 4 years (or less)
When a person loses a good one they are angry for the rest of their lives. They will never get over it. Not ever.
Some people will never have peace.
@@melaninandaura9713 Did you lose a good one? Trying to find out how you know this lol
The most calm women be having relationships with the most craziest men with no chill. Idk why man.
Just the Natural order of balance sometimes. 🤷🏾♂️
I'll join you. I'd like to know why myself, and the list keeps growing longer.
He was still legally married! That wasn’t her place to help him get on his feet!
it just be's that way sometimes
I'm so glad these two women saw what mattered and weren't at each other's throats. This man was crazy. I feel so bad for his kids and any woman who crosses his path.
Typical narc!!
He's crazy,if things don't go his way he could be dangerous.
If he's not abusive, he was well on his way. I don't know how her nervous system withstood all of that misery.
If he can act like this in front of ppl GOD only knows what she was getting called and talked to in their home. I would of ran away from him and his 5 kids too‼️
This man has no self control he was suppose to be calm handling the situation
Exactly
Off the charts 😮
The man is a stone idiot 😮
😂qYb
Exactly
Ouuweee....imagine how he behaves in private.
Scary!!
He’s unhinged in public, so I can imagine he’s completely out of control in private!
Yes
He was so DRAMATIC! What a narcissist!!! 🤣
She was desperate for a man and he was the first one to follow through. Her mama and daddy failed her, and this man is ABUSIVE!!!! He definitely hit her.
I would smack her 2, I think many men would smack such a low life. Telling a man: 'F your children', that is a death sentence right there.
Agree
I'm only a few minutes in and I can tell he is violent
That's not necessarily true. She's old enough to know better. It's 2023, grown people cannot keep blaming their childhood on how they carry on as adults.
There are times parents are outstanding model citizens, parents and all that other good stuff and the kids still act a up. Sometimes the parents do the best they can with the tools and resources they had.
@@GeorgiaWhisper this was filmed over a decade ago. Just A few years ago, people wouldn't even TALK about therapy. Back then in the 90's and early 2000's, you'd be called crazy for even THINKING you needed a shrink to deal with your childhood trauma.
He’s too upset and uncontrolled for me. Ugh
If he acting like that on the show, you know he’s showing off behind closed doors 👀👀
If this is how he acts in court I can only imagine how mean he is at home... disgraceful
This man is a child.
Yes, a dangerous one!
Did y'all hear him whisper "STFU".... cause I DID @13:47 That 🥷 cussed on national TV and the network didn't even know it!
Gurl i went back and heard it . He said something us but couldnt make it out ! Lbvs
At first I missed it. As I went back to that part, ooh, I sure as hell heard it!
He sure did.
Yes ! He did 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I heard it!
OMG - OMG - OMG!!! ENUFF SAID!!! 👀🤔😖 I'm Exhausted and I wasn't in Court....
That dude was very theatrical 😂
what in the MC Hammer...Too Legit to Quit?! 🤣🤦
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Lmaoooooo
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That damn chain .... 😑🙄
"Anger lies in the bosom of a fool." The Bible
That other lady was a gem. Ms miler is a good woman.
God works in such weird ways. He really can redeem the pain we go through and help us in our hardest times. God bless those two woman and may they have a bright and beautiful future
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This brotha graduated with honors from the Ike Turner school of how to be a husband. Stay away from him!!!
Flusterated… that’s a new one lol 😂
This dude was lying his ass off, he said he would drive a cab 18 hours a shift. Why is your electricity getting turned off and you making all that money?
He said he was driving the cab. He didn't say he actually had passengers. Lol. He was probably working 8 hours and laying up with other women the other 10 hours OR he was taking care of someone else.
Also in the comments I saw something about 5 kids.
@@GeorgiaWhisper . Girl yessss 😂😂😂😂😂
This is too oooooo much! I'm not use to seeing men not knowing how to control their emotions! I don't know how she did it! He's one heck of a character, WOW!
I’m stressed out after listening to him for 2 minutes. He need to go to anger management
he's definitely a narcissist. These women need to run!
God bless those sisters.
This dude is too immature for his age, SMH
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I would fear my life living with a beast like him
That dude is VOLATILE...
Did anyone else notice how the camera zoomed in with the wife and mistress were holding hands briefly lol
“Flusterated” is my new favorite 😹 also, this guy has serious issues
When one shout one's loose it's power. And the nervous laughter shows all.
Why do women marry men who cannot provide and themselves don't want to work?
Exactly
Cheap suit
Cheap jewelry
Cheap 'man child'
When you don't know how to act in public..........
God help his poor embarrassed children. That is their father is acting out like a five-year-old child, which is an insult to any five-year-old!!!!!
THIS IS RIDICULOUS......
RIDICULOUS....! ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS!
i don't know, i might be proud of him if he was my dad (has anybody ever asked his kids what they thought?)
@@d820m True especially as he looked after their children when SHE left
13:47 he whispers stfu 😂😂 he wildin
Looks like the husband didn't have any care for his wife feelings. That's why he was gone for four years.
Just pure insanity
If that was the last man alive I wouldn’t want him.
Look up what a narcissist looks like and his pic is right there
He has anger issues sheesh
There’s nothing wrong with him that Prozac and an exorcism wouldn’t fix 🤣
After watching this, Now I'm "Flustrated"😖😖😖 to!🤣
She needs some therapy and find some good love 🥰🥰🥰 You can do this! I believe in you!!
Doubt she ever did ...an old prize is NO prize🤣🤣
Necklace.... SERIOUSLY
Ain’t no way that man would’ve had any part of me. He needs to grow up. He is a man child. Look at him can’t even control himself.
She needs to be alone and take care of herself with family and friends that truly love and respect her. Abuse is abuse (mental/physical/psychological). Stress causes all kinds of autoimmune diseases, including lupus, multiple videos and articles on this.
She got lupus from dealing with his stress
Looking at this shell of a supposed to be man I am so grateful that I left my ex. This would have been my life if I would have stayed. I also packed up my ish and left his ass without a word! True narcissist THEY ONLY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES! Ladies please stay away from energies such as this.
The two women should move in together and help one another. Or either open up a business together.
Not true
His wife had lupus and he treated her like that?? And he’s upset she left and took dishes?? If he’s driving 18 hours he can buy more. He’s ridiculous and angry. He’s irrational as all heck!!! I can tell he’s a fool at home.
This man is a very violent person, and he really got upset when his mistress decide to show up, he’s a con artist 😮😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 at ice cream truck coupled with his temper toward his soon to be x wife. Even judge had to hold that one in!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's the tapping on the shoulder for me lmfaooooo smdh ...dis ninja cray cray 😂😮😮
I don’t know how she stayed with that clown as along as she did.
cause no other man was beating down her door to get at her🤣🤣🤣
She after everything still saying she cares about him says ALOT.
They still “love” each other?! They’re addicted to the toxicity… 😐
Then she don't need to be complaining about him...a glutton for punishment and can't think of anyone more deserving of all the hell he heaps upon her than THIS. dumb cluck🤣
True talk
Flusterated interesting…..they absolutely needed to be apart
Wow this hit home bc my mom was diagnosed with lupus. She would have her good and bad days. Just that he wasn't there for his wife bc of a 50 mile drive it just disgusting. Guess the sickness and health didn't apply.
That Defendant is crazy and is displaying signs of violence and abuse, with his verbal abusing & violent behavior towards the Plaintiffs being 2 of them. I'm so happy the ladies are no longer with him. They deserve so much better, and I hope & pray his children don't grow up and be like him.
He ruined his case by being angry. I may be alone but it seems to me that she could have been irritating too
It definitely goes both ways in this episode but he has no self control
@@midnightharvest3065exactly
Wow he’s a piece of work
There must be a part II to this episode 😉
He is giving Narcissistic personality disorder and it’s scary
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That man is scary.
All that yelling and pointing oh God I just couldn't. He gives controlling and verbal abusive.
am i the only one heard him whisper "shut the f*ck up" at 13:46-13:47 ??
I can’t take him serious with that ridiculous chain lol
He got game. Met a chick on a bus, and got her to build him up. 😅
That man is as extra as a person who lies
He seems to be very much self centered
He's the devil whew...I would run to the hills!😢
He sounds like my narcissistic ex...that is why he is my ex...watching from the south east of England 🏴
There was more this relationship than what we saw here. Yes he was very much out of control.
However, I don't believe she was entirely like the way we see her here. These two have a love/hate relationship mixed in with lack of low self-esteem , lack of self love
The wife isn’t friends with the other lady. She brought her on the show to hurt her husband and admitted to using her and if you noticed the other woman grab the wife hand and she moved her hand away.
I noticed immediately! She ain't s*** either
He is loud and bombastic but I do believe she's a little bit needy
Siri please play “Separated” by Avant. “Everytime I see her I get a bad vibe“ 😂😂😂he can’t stand that woman!
✍🏾 Flusterated
He's a hotheaded man!!!
Yes! Every relationship with a con artist is doomed.
This guy is a typical hot head! I honestly hope that since this aired on TV, he got some help for his anger.
Lmao. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 5:30 I cannot stop laughing at this man
Moved the man into her Mom's house. Some Woman can't blame anybody but themselves. This man's game was so weak but they fell for the Oakey Doak anyway. Good Going Gin
I wonder how he’s doing now? Is he still coocoo?
Did he get a heart attack is the real question..
I normally don't comment, but this dude is a hot stankin mess🙄
This man was highly pissed but Judge Lynn didn't make it no better and didn't let him finish on interrupted sometimes you have to let a fool finish what they need to say and then you cut them off. 🤷🏼♀️🤬☠️🤧
They both have the problem. She didn't help or contribute to the situation even when he was asking for help with the bills. When she took everything from him the first time and came back. The kids were rightfully upset. I believe she did empty the house and have employment issues but, HIM he was a bully in his own home. I'm sure the part about the kids leaving was true but cause of his anger he pushed them. He can't communicate, he is never wrong, he's controlling and not to be questioned. He needs to get help before he hurt himself or somebody and she needs to fix her character cause she wasn't a good person she just looked better cause of his personality.
U nailed it
Flusterated
The mistress wasn't thinking like a rational human being. He's driving a Cadillac and homeless. He took advantage of her. Karma knows his address. Women don't be blinded by loneliness.
Wow, I thought I was the only one who befriended an AMAZING WOMAN to make sure my ex didn’t prey on her too. He tried and she was on ready & canceled his game before he even started.
No sir your children don't have anything because of you🤷🏾♀️👏🏾
This relationship is down a slow drain of misery like a leaky drip with no plummer to fix
She knew all this before she married him I doubt Mr. Finn changed his stripes… we choose these men we know ain’t right but want sympathy later. Yeah he’s rude, agitated and a angry he’s no saint but It’s accountability on both parts.
First he said he never saw her again after the bus meeting. THEN they went to Mississippi with her!!😅😅
If this fool don’t learn to control his anger, he’s gonna end up in jail or God forbid worse.
Rolls eyes...
I’ve got 5 dollars that says, one of these heffas will take this bum back!