Ending Homophobia w/ Ludwig & Aiden | Fear&TheYard
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- Опубліковано 12 чер 2024
- This week we have Hasan (LGBTQ Foe) & Austin (Gay) joined by Ludwig (HEAVILY questioning) & Aiden (Bisexual). Topics for this episode include confronting Ludwig for his gaybaiting, hitting the 1000lb club, me being a broke boy apparently (kinda messed up) and more. Okay enjoy love you pls sub to the patreon
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00:00:00 - The guys and the gays
00:03:28 - Always with the phone
00:04:50 - We're still the most jacked podcast
00:05:20 - Austin farms more tiktoks
00:08:44 - Ludwig's break up (real)
00:11:00 - A personal trainer is the strongest in the room
00:14:37 - Dream gets called a
00:16:02 - Can pansexual people say it
00:18:00 - I'm a broke boy.. help
00:19:30 - finally
00:19:44 - Dream clip continued
00:23:00 - The Yard name origin
00:25:08 - Hasan attempts to gaslight Austin
00:29:20 - Aiden pulls up receipts
00:30:30 - Hasans biggest flaw
00:33:40 - I wish i could kill Aiden with my bare hands
00:35:09 - Sexism test (IT WORKS!!!!!!!!)
00:36:06 - Austin vs Nick Saga Continues
00:41:30 - Show's redemption arc / real talk
00:49:10 - America sleeps France
00:49:54 - why does he speak to me like this
00:50:10 - we run France tho
00:56:27 - What happened in italy?
01:02:30 - Outro / Patreon
#hasanabi #ludwig #podcast
IT IS HOMOPHOBIC TO NOT CONSIDER BUYING A SWIPE BIDET
Remember when u played pogostuck for hours that was legendary. Thank you bro
No u.
Congrats on coming out lud ❤
I lub you man, please gib me swibe plus man
Buying one now before I’m cancelled
The new set was all the friends we made along the way
This sent me
@@carinedb Sent you where Dorothy?
@@stytler06to the new set
Hassans getting a new set (of tits)
Also the one piece
Three of the gayest men on UA-cam and Austin Show all in one room wow
true
Right, because three of them are attracted to w*men. Whereas Austin is actually a real, red-blooded, family-valuing, masculine man.
It's great to see so many community heroes
@@stoyanpetkov3853 It is kinda funny that out of the three of them I think I've heard Austin talk about starting a family and having kids the most
@@Lucarioguild7 Yeah, see?! We stan a nuclear family-making man!
We can’t get a new set because Austin keeps breaking his mic.
I suspect he is the reason
Austin keeps turning up to check it out and it just falls over when he walks in, they're working on gay proofing it
@@stytler06 I mean even Poki broke it, but Austin was right next to her so who REALLY broke it…
@@Perilloux He does have a strong and wide aura
Nah it’s cause hasan is lazy lol
Homophobia ended, homoeroticism started, heterophobia mandatory. It's a vicious neverending cycle.
This may be my favorite comment of all time. So poetic.
@@mandoloon yes this is why gays need to control it and stop letting straight telling us what we need to do and not to do.
heterophobia mandatory? ew bigot
“People want to work for 40 years?” is the least disconnected Austin quote
honestly
A true foe of the working class
and then saying normal HAHAH
Its always funny when we see him be the most quirked up liberal. Like I remember when he said he wanted michelle obama to run for president. War Crimes Electric boogaloo but as a woman president Poggers lol
Isnt everybodys goal to retire early?
Hasan: “You’re supposed to be on my side! You’re my gay”
Literally bullies Austin 24/7
What else would you have a gay for
i mean the yard bullies the shit ouf of aimen and he aint switchin
@@Mumiah862 Use your imagination
A friend called me her gay once. That did not last long.
When does he say that??
Ludwig flinging off the sweater just to flex in the muscle tank was so jock of him
but like that gay coded jock in every 70s style musical
Wow. Another openly pewdiepie fan? You love to see it.
@@DKF_olinot all of his fans became edgy weirdos luckily
His most heterosexual moment.
@@flygod916 exactly thank you lmao the photo is old as hell, i just like the anonymity of it.
All the gay archetypes are in the same room in this one
Ludwig Otter
Hasan Bear
Aiden Twink
Austin straight
just realized from left to right its Bear to twink, like a gay spectrum
@@atherisGAY NOT AUSTIN AS THE STRAIGHT-
But seroiously, Ludwig is not an otter. He is not that skinny, even with his weight loss. He is more of a jock.
@@stoyanpetkov3853stop with the Ludwig propaganda
@@stoyanpetkov3853is this QT’s alt?
As an enjoyer of the Wine About It, Fear&, the Yard trifecta, I need to confess that I love the rotating cast 🫣
Our version of the MCU
real as hell
this yasss
QT is the only part that shouldn't rotate though
gotta get a little more maya in the mix
I miss those days when Austin used to come late on every episode and used to get scolded by Hasan on every episode.
Less than a minute in and I’ll say it, they ended homophobia.
Homophobia has been real quiet since this dropped.
as a lesbian woman, i really like the bisexuality conversation! i do feel as though there is definitely bi erasure and they are seen as not being queer enough, but they’re still a huge part of the community! i appreciate that conversation and i think it’s important:)
Different but Also katya is a huge bi supporter. She talks alot about bi erasure and is loud about bi ppl. Makes me happy as a bi girl 🥹
You know damn well nobody erases bi sexual people it's just dat most bisexual identifying people are just fluid/ curious and not really like the same sex . Though they are indeed bisexual people but not as much. It's like the same rate of homosexuals ( gays and lesbians) but you can't always talk about everyone since bisexuals can still adjust very well in an heteronormative environment.
@@lillyreicks3380whos katya
i wish they had more exposure and awareness of lesbians. i love when austin talks ab his experiences as a gay man. i just started this episode but this is def going to be my fav.
We need to get away from the idea that sexuality inherently implies anything about the person. Queer people that pass as Cis are just as valid as any other queer person and deserve acceptance as much as anyone else
This facial hair on Ludwig is giving “we don’t talk about fight club” and I’m into it ngl
ive been saying he looks like tyler durden for weeks
@@virusDETECTED and you were fuckin’ right
The conversation about Aimen feeling not gay enough as a bi person is so real. especially dating a woman makes you feel like you’re stealing gay/bi valor and it’s a weird confusing thing
Is he dating a woman rn ?
@@Imetwurld_ he’s dating an ethereal zipper
@@tombfl2812 wats dat
It is super weird and confusing
Yeah i remember how guilty i felt when i started to date my current boyfriend. It is by first straight presenting relationship and It made me felt like I'm betraying the gay community. Especially as couldn't help but notice all the little ways in which it is easier to be in a straight relationship over gay one.
aiden is exactly the same flavor of bisexual that I am and it honestly makes me feel so seen, I talk to my (also bi) girlfriend all the time about how weird it is to be bi because you're alienated by the gay community and the straight community at the same time and it's really cool to see someone so comfortable with just the idea of not thinking about it and existing and being a great dude
We love to see bi and bi relationship 💅🏽
we fucking needed lud aiden and austin together
Kissing?
Fucking?
We needed lud Aiden and Austin fuckin together
hasan can join
@@Th3Vedgeno but he can watch on the cuck chair
Austin and Aiden need to start their own podcast
Gay About It
they really do
Right?! Enough straight male podcasters. Let's diversify these discussions.
And call it "Double A's"
@@tmatar6345 LMAOOO😂
HASAN CALLING FOR A PAUSE ON THE PODCAST ON A 30 SECOND TIKTOK CLIP IS FUCKING INSANE
Like he seriously must be stopped
Pausanabi strikes again!
44:23 This part made me weirdly emotional. I know Austin acts silly and everything but this part is really well-said and intelligent.
Great episode! Much love to Aiden for speaking up and asking questions. As a straight-passing bi guy, I have also asked myself if me being bisexual even matters when I've not had much trouble growing up or after coming out. Ultimately you are not defined by your struggles one way or the other. Having empathy, understanding, and a reaching out a helping hand towards others who might have had a tougher time has infinitely more weight. In Aiden's case specifically it just goes to show that honest and real representation is invaluable.
Bi people get stuck in a cycle where we don’t feel like a real queer person and don’t feel gay or bi enough to have a place in our community. And when you feel like that you’re not sure in your own experiences and are less likely to speak about them, ehich makes it really hard for us to establish our own communities. People like Aiden speaking about *his* own experience is literally exactly what we need. Plus the idea of being or being called straight passing in and off itself is so weird and such a bi™️ experience that hearing people talk about it is sure to help someone.
I think that experience is a very "American white gay" thing though. Whenever I see bi guys talk how little to no homophobia they have experienced, it's always these people in Western countries, usually upper-middle class. And like, yeah of course, but it's not because you are bi rather than gay. You have had all the rights you may need for nearly a decade and most people in your country no longer think of you as a sick deviant.
Too often ppl fall into the trap of defining queerness thru trauma but trauma is not what makes us queer, our identity is what makes us queer. I was also super lucky to not have much experience with being harassed for my queerness but that doesnt erase my queerness. I feel its also important to bring up the fact that the bi spectrum is by far the largest part of the lgbtq community n being so large makes it harder for us to form a tightknit community, resulting in many feeling like they dont have a right to the community or to speak on queer issues, but we are all integral and invaluable members of the community n have just as much claim to it as any other queer person.
@@jennifervasquez exactly, we dont need to define our identities through the lense of homophobia and even so, so many bi people say they havent experienced discrimination not because they havent but because its not the same kind of things queer people that arent bi experience and therefore think it doesnt matter or that it hasnt effected them.
Actually loved hearing the Austin/Aiden discussion about being representation. I think something to remember for Aiden is that the idea that being bi isnt that big of his identity is exactly what a lot of queer activists of the past were fighting for. The idea that it doesnt really define who you as a person. The idea that you can just be gay and not be constantly tormented or fucked with. Indifference in a lot of ways is the goal because then youre just a person, not a "gay person"
They made the new set an exact replica of the old set
the conversation on representation was great. it’s so important for queer people to see a wide variety of queer experiences just to know that they are not alone
marche you baited us with that intro wtf 10/10
to aiden's serious question, different people require different "examples" or "icon" whatever the term would be. As austin very well said it's about you existing in a world that accepts you as a queer person, those younger queers imagine a world similar for them which reassures some or at least gives them some hope to find people that would treat them similarly. It is a weird position to do good involuntarily by just existing but no, past traumas wouldn't make you a better or worse fit for that position/role
Ludwig i'm sorry but as a french none of your glazing of france was real except retirement and unemployment money which is getting harder and harder to get 💀 mais son accent s'est amélioré mashallah
For the history nerds Versailles was built under Louis the 14th with 2 very specific goals in mind: 1) flex because that's what you did back then. 2) build a gigantic, beautiful place where he could invite every powerful nobles that could conspire against him simultaneously and scam tf outta them to keep them poor enough to be unable to mount a coup against him. If you ever go to Versailles you'll hear about how nobles would pay insane amounts of money to watch the king wake up or literally take a shit 💀
I think what Aiden doesn't even realise is that even by talking about his feelings on his bisexuality in that regard - he's validating people like myself who are bi/pan (idk really know which label I prefer for myself it seems weird to pin it down to one or the other) who are straight passing or heteronormative.
Like Aiden I've not really faced that much outright homophobia really, except for like the 'regular amount' any straight dude who grew up in the 2000's early 2010's would've received for dumb shit like dressing better or something not inherent to being gay. It's something I think about decently often, that I don't really feel particularly gay, I just kind of exist doing my thing and exploring that.
I think while Aiden is talking about his experience being that person for people, he's also completely missing the point that feeling 'not queer enough' can be many people's experience being bi, and him just being him is validating to those people, myself included.
Il me fait trop rire quand il parle français mdr
Queer rep that doesn't follow the stereotypes that society at large but also the queer community expect is important. Being bi doesn't mean you have to do X or like Y or wear Z, it literally just means you are attracted to both men and women. Thats it!
The fact that Aiden feels weird about people looking up to him for being BI is exactly why we need rep like him. Nobody should EVER not feel "gay enough"
2:00 ddz 10:36 😅x4ddedfdrddd 11:45
-You’re- He’s what the French call les incompétents!
I like how both wine about and fear& had a platonic kissing conversation lol
Austin would bottom for Ludwig in a heartbeat. He is literally drooling
He would bottom for any of them. Hell, he’d bottom for any hottie; he’s just super nervous about it because he’s never done it. It’s just like how he said he used to not be into any butt stuff. He just needs a kind, gentle, (hot!) man to guide him through it.
now this is some weird shit that you felt comfortable commenting
@@blammmed you must be new here.
Who wouldn’t 🤤
The conversation about being queer and not feeling queer enough is so real. Sexuality has never been something I had put a label on until recently and I still feel like i’m not queer enough, especially as a lesbian. I liked how the topic was taken more seriously with no jokes turning away the conversation. This definitely has to be one of my favorite episodes- and i thought this week was going to be a skip without QT…
Yeah honestly it’s cool to hear them talk about different queer experiences bc as a lesbian I gotta assume the weekly dick talk isn’t as interesting for me as it is for gay guys watching lmaooo
Ludwin pulling out the g*ns not 3 minutes in, bi representation...this is shaping up to be a perfect episode
as a bisexual woman currently in a relationship with a man, i really loved the talk about queerness and feeling like you're not gay enough. i'm the exact same way as Aiden in that to me my bisexuality is not a big deal but sometimes it's so easy feel like if i'm not constantly "practising queerness" i shouldnt call myself queer even if i know that's the truth. anyways really good episode i was waiting for this !!!
Yes a million times to this. I've been in a relationship with my now fiance for 10 years, and the bi erasure is so real as a bi woman. It's cool to hear from Aiden (and Austin) about reconciling society's perception and their personal identity as queer human beings. Also cool to just see Lud and Hasan give em the floor and listen
I get that as well! I try to keep in mind that I am not here to be a performer in my own life. There isn't a certain way to be when it comes to identity.
Saaameee!! I used to identified as lesbian and was only with women for 20 years. I did realize half way through that i am actually more bi than lesbian but i wanted to spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend so it didn't matter. She broke my heart after 13 years and now i unexpectedly ended up in a relationship with a guy and i feel soooo weeeeird about it as if i lost my queerness. I even feel weird wearing my rainbow socks 😅
My boyfriend and I are both bi/pan and it's nice to be able to commiserate about this because we present as a hetero couple even though we're not. Bi men are great if you can find them. I swear I never want to go back to dating straight men.
@@surfingthedarknessKEEP WEARING THE SOCKS!
"Youre my gay, what are you doing?!?!"
"Dude, dont talk about him like a pokemon!!"
I actually spit out my water with laughter.
I don't think there was a single topic where being gay was not brought up, I genuinely don't think Lud will ever beat the gay allegations.
On a serious note, Aiden's question brought up a good conversation. I think it is important that representation is shown in both how Aiden lives and how someone who would be more overtly queer lives, because queer people aren't all the same, they all live different and complex lives. Also, you aren't more or less gay by the amount of struggle you went through in life.
Hope we see more of this grouping! Great pod ep!
Nothing gayer than liking women, very true Ludwig
We must all strike until we get the new set
Here lies the end of the age of homophobia, but a new era will arise: the Era of Misogyny: Austin's Utopia
30:28 omg austin calling hasan awkward is lowkey true. I think his adhd is so high that it comes off as awkward too 😅 I don't mean this in a bad way either, it happens to a lot of us with adhd
This new set better than i've imagined.
???😅
"are you saying Nick's not gay, he literally has sex with women" will now forever be, my mantra
Up there with "She was a gay man"
at 37:55 when Aiden said "real life lesbian" but doesn't verbally say it and all the guys saying woahhhhhh is so funny 🤭
What does dat mean ? I'm confused . Are they not lesbian irl and why did he have to whisper it like its something dirty* . ??
@@Imetwurld_*that
@@Imetwurld_they are pretending it's a big deal, like they're rare
@@ic236 lol exactly .how are lesbians rare 🤷🏽♀️
This new set looks great!
love hasan and austin's couple fits
Aiden, you reallllly represent us people who are bi and currently in a hetero relationship who feel "not queer enough". I have been in lesbian relationships for over 20 years, now with a guy, and it feels super uncomfortable and like i lost something. Hearing you talk about the "not queer enough" thing and talking with people here in the comments is sooo helpful
Why does every bi girl ends up with a guy in the end im actually curious is it bc women are harder to handle??
The way Austin was SWEATING when Ludwig took off his sweatshirt, he was the incarnation of 🥵
It’s absolutely true that Austin and aiden are “leading by example”, as a newly out lesbian, seeing someone who just exists as a queer person without it being life-ending is really important.
i think aiden feeling pressure to be more queer esp as a bisexual man makes sense. i think he might feel as though he doesn’t deserve the reverence BECAUSE he doesn’t constantly show that he also likes men, which is rooted in biphobia ofc
Ludwig comparing Fear& to Zack N Cody. This will be an intellectual gathering.
48:19 Queerness isn’t defined by our oppression, it comes from our joy, however that ends up manifesting.
Honestly i never thought about it like that, thanks that's a really nice perspective.
Just want to say to Aiden that his representation is important, because like Austin was saying, everyone is different, everyone expresses themselves in their own way, but to just have a good positive representation out there of someone LGBT+ is really nice to see. I personally am bi, with some other stuff, but I don't really see it as much of my identity either, so for me, Aiden does represent me in a way, and all different kinds of representation of queers are important and valuable. Being yourself is exactly enough.
It was so good to hear a serious and thoughtful Austin this episode. More of that please.
Yeah! Like I always appreciate the humor but I don’t mind serious or heartfelt stuff too! Altho usually will is the one coming in with the heartfelt additions haha but as a queer viewer it’s especially nice to talk seriously for a second about our experiences
I love how it's physically impossible for qt and lud to be on a podcast together
As one of the parasocial guys who messaged Aiden thanking him for his representation. I think it's beautiful how he just lives his life and is one of the guys because I think that's what a lot of bi men are afraid of losing when they come out. Ik I was scared that my male friends would see or treat me differently and it's nice to see ur relationship with the yard boys. A lot of people think of their sexual as a feature of themselves not a characteristic and I think you do a great job showing that
I'm bisexual and pretty disconnected from queer culture, and it's actually really nice being able to see and relate to Aiden
I think Austin will settle down before we get a new set guys.
losing my mind... this was truly the GAYEST episode. Ive been waiting for this since the early yard ep where aiden says austin is hot lmao
which ep is that
Pls
@@wearmeout1Austin get off your burners
Lidwig: *I am so straight*
Ludwig: *leans over to floss Aiden's teeth with a cashew wrapper*
That was so beautiful. Austin trying to make a case for why he's more gay coded than Aimen, and the two of them just out gay right over him. 😅
I never got bullied for being bi but i also still haven't come out to my family. The bigotry of the world hurts us all in different ways, but it still hurts everyone
Yeah, queerphobia impacts everyone differently and queer identity isn’t measured in suffering anyway
@miadalton3209 the worst part is queerphobia, and I guess more specifically transphobia, hurts not just queer people, but cis and/or het people as well
I’m actually glad this one isn’t the new set. QT deserves to be on the debut of the new set
For so long I taught this podcast is called "Austin Show" because of all those UA-cam shorts that appeared to my feed as a suggestion. I guess the algorithm is like, oh you're gay, you'll like cute guys like Austin. And they were right ngl. But now that I found what is the real name of the podcast, I look forward to every Monday. Also love that I discovered that Hasan is a socialist and against capitalism. True comrade. Greets from Yugoslav queer.
Shout out to Hasan and Ludwig for giving Aiden and Austin the space to have their conversation around sexuality!
Love the new set feels like the old set but newer
real talk, i loved aiden's whole segment from 43:27 onwards, as a bi woman who often feels "not gay enough" it really hit when aiden said that about himself. at the end of the day sexuality is a spectrum and life is too short to not identify the way you feel comfortable :)
Austin “I called my 14 years old nephew the f slur” Show
Austin "gamer" show
QT is seriously the only person keeping this pod on the rails
Aiden feeling bad for not being "gay enough" to be bisexual representation is exactly why we need more queer rep like him. A lot of people don't feel comfortable coming out BECAUSE society has all these ideas of what a queer person is supposed to be.
People need to learn that being queer doesn't have to imply anything else about you, all it means is you're queer.
I think its helpful for some men to see that they can be attracted to men without changing anything else about themselves
as a young queer person, its really refreshing to see adult queer people just existing in the world and leading normal lives with normal relationships!! everything feels really big and scary and being overtly queer, especially when you’re young, is scary because you dont really know where its going to lead you in life and its wonderful to just see normal people who happen to be gay just doing normal stuff, even if its not a huge part of your identity. just knowing that austin and aiden are in the queer community is great, even if they dont bring it up all the time. its just comforting!! :]
As a Frenchmen I would like it to be known that Ludwig didn’t say anything in French that was actually grammatically correct
i relate to aiden so much on the whole “being bi isn’t a significant part of my identity” thing!! i’m bisexual too, but it’s not a big deal to me? yk??¿? anyway, that whole conversation was great and hit very close to home. this has to be one of my favourite episodes so far.
god the audio sounds so good on this one we dont need a new studio now
hes the half-blood twink
this episode was really good, really appreciate the stuff aiden said about being bi, I really related to it and it was definitely guys like aiden who helped me feel comfortable enough to be myself
To be honest I love that the podcast has a rotating cast
48:10 I would say I’m one of the people who look up at aiden and I know he thinks he’s not “gay enough” to be that representation, but being subtle about his sexuality is what makes him that person, a lot of people fear their sexuality being the most significant part of their personality once they come out when in reality they just want to be their own person while still being open about their sexuality
Audio listeners, they are in the new set
The middle bit is so good as a biracial, bi/pansexual lady who’s spent time in an adult mental hospital. Jokes based on obvious lies CAN be funny. Just like how women can be funni
After the QT visit, I yearned for Lud to come back. nice
i really like what qt did with the new set, looks great!
Ludwig should have been in the tank top for the entire episode
Aimen, we like your representation because you are chill af. You show that we dont have to be stereotypically queer to be queer. We can just exist and be people. We love you for representing that for us.
I look forward to this podcast every week
Ludwig is so hilarious without trying. Love him. Also he is looking hotter than ever.
One of the biggest crossovers of the century!! Very excited for the Taylor lore this ep!!
I love that "the greatest women are men" lol
Yo the intro got me cackling. We'll get the set when we get the set
The real talk segment was a really sincere and cool conversation
YESSS i was JUST looking for something to watch at work- bless
I really enjoyed the real talk segment of the podcast, it felt so meaningful and nice to watch
I'm 20 mins in, this is already a goated episode wtf
AAAAAAAA i've never been so excited for a lineup i might cry (not in a parasocial way)
"isn't it sad a woman has to invade Libya to be recognized 😔"
ive been waitiiiing for this!!!
Austin and hasan are twinning
It's actually genius how they spent money and went out of their way to make the nee set an exact copy of the old.
great pod we need lud every quarter
The new set is looking absolutely amazing
Aiden namedropping Isobel Yeung was beautiful
I love Aiden, R.I.P. tho gone too soon
Woah I love the new set it’s perfect 😂
Great episode of The Austin Show
the amount of times fear& ends homophobia will still never be enough
They just bring it back in the Patreon episodes 🥸
I am actively holding myself back from writing a whole ass dissertation in these comments bc this is my bread n fuckin butter but i loved the discussion on queer rep between austin n aiden n god fucking damn it i wish i could be a part of it bc i have soooo much to say. Ill just keep it to this: trauma doesnt define queerness, there is no such thing as not being queer or gay enough, you are entitled to present exactly as you feel, whether that means being extremely stereotypically queer or "straight passing" or anything in between or beyond, n i encourage all queer ppl to get in touch with the culture. Learning our history n keeping our traditions n spaces alive is invaluable n benefits the broader community but also you as an individual queer person in ways you couldnt even imagine.
Yo the Austin real talk segment really hits hard; we love our gay icon, keep doing what you're doing Austin!!