3 Reasons Why People Hate You
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- Опубліковано 16 чер 2024
- There are always going to be haters in your life. That's an undeniable fact. However, there are only 3 main reasons why they hate. In this video, Daniel Ally will show you what these reasons are and what you must do to respond to your haters appropriately.
3 Reasons Why People Hate You
1. You Threaten Them
2. They Hate Themselves
3. They Want to Be Like You
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Daniel Ally OMG number 1 happened to me so many times. So I toned myself down as I thought it was me. Thank you for sharing this.
💛
Tell me how to deal, with haters who turned out to be my siblings!!!!
Daniel Ally, I have a friend who had started to become passive-aggressive and I asked him what's going on with him, but he said that he is as before. I have also told him that I had observed him for a long time and that this is why I came to the conclusion that he had become ignorant, but he now just doesn't respond anymore.
The message that did hurt me and pierced my heart was something on the lines of how important he is and that he doesn't have time for ignorant, needy, vulgar and hopelessness people. This did hurt me very much because I had taken him as an example and because of my depression it is true that I had became hopelessness but the fact that hurts the most is that he used this to hurt me.
This is what happens when you open up too much to humans. But, I can't help it, I have tried to ignore him back but I feel like a hole inside my heart and I have discovered that for the ones that I care, if I don't love them back regardless of their attitude, I will feel a hole inside my heart.
I know, I have opened too much here as well but I have come to the conclusion that it's better to love and be back stabbed than to not love at all.
The fact that you want to open to others, and that they can use it against you, it scares me, and it makes me to lose faith in humanity. I have lost my faith that I will not do this as well.
I want an objective opinion from you guys but please don't judge the person after mentioned as he still is my friend but I just want to wake him up.
I agree
My dad told me one time; "you are lucky if you find one true friend in your whole life". My dad was so right.
My dad said almost the exact same thing to me...I’ve never forgotten what he said.🤔☝️⛄️
Yes yes!!!! I have yet to find one
Very true. I had one true friend in the 1970's. Unfortunately he was killed in a motorcycle accident in 77. The rest of my so called friends all stabbed me in the back in the worst way. I became a radio DJ and walked away from my life. I became a different person. A different kind and way of life. I'm 65 now, and still have never found anyone else like G.probably never will. I've never trusted anyone else since then.
Don't know why I'm telling you all of this. Sorry to have wasted your time...
Good night and good luck...
🚬👓...
@@captainjohn7833 You did not waste my time. I am sorry for your loss of your good friend.
@@captainjohn7833 you didn't waste my time, I lost my bf too. And I have some so-so friends, but I guess I'll never find a real friend again. I deal with it tho.
1. They see you as a threat.
2. They hate themselves. They see you living up to your potential and know they're not.
3. They want to be like you.
I don't hate him but I don't like Daniel at all. Mainly because I know we have nothing in common (I'm intuitive) and I hate this kind of video because it's 4. annoying and employs a lot of 5 overgeneralizing and wants us to feel others who hate us have little reason to do so and they hate themselves. Just a very positive guy and knows you should try to turn the other cheek. But he has little to say to us, repeats himself ad nauseum. And this guy assumes others rarely have a point in they hate. He has little self-insight. He talks about "imaginary god" and the "divinely created". Science has no evidence for this nonsense. Sure there could have been a Big Bang creator.
Imaginary God was a vindictive as hell and some of us hate him. And Jesus is more punishing than bastardy god. He believed and liked the idea of eternal punishment or never spoke out against it. His criteria for getting into heaven is contemptible, disgusting - believe in me, that’s all it takes. I believe what is written about Jesus was written long after he died and isn't representational of what the man did say; most of the bible is bs with bad deeds and dogma (well the Old Testament is really bad there).No Jesus didn't want to just beat people up, he wanted those who didn't believe in the Son to really feel a lot of eternal pain and there is no proof of him being a god or compassionate; there is great doubt among the greatest scientists who learn to be skeptical.
A close reading of the Old Testament is filled with horrendous lessons on how to treat people. A god that kills almost everyone on Earth in a flood: that’s pretty crazy. A god that commands Joshua to murder all the women and children except for the young girls, who can be taken as sex slaves: That’s horrible though tempting. The 10 commandments tell you that working on Saturday is a sin and the first four commandments are vanity plate for god. God eventually goes into great detail about how to deal with cattle thieves, isolating women on their period, and which fabrics to wear at the same time; but nowhere in those ten commandments, or in the six hundred and three that come after it, does it say “Don’t abuse children,” or “Don’t enslave people,” or “Don’t rape.”
If the girl married someone other than her rapist however, and was found to not be a virgin, she would be executed. There is nothing remotely moral about any of this. The Abrahamic tribes who wrote the Old Testament simply came up with a set of laws that favored those already in power, and then claimed those laws were dictated by god and that questioning them was punishable by death. Children who talk back to parents can be stoned and killed by parents or a non-virgin on her wedding night should be stoned and killed by her new non-virgin husband.
Jesus is a would-be eternal tormentor of mostly nice or OK people who won't find salvation because they find it impossible to believe he is god. Some bad behavior comes from reading the bible. The bad dogma and deeds of the bible plus advanced the reasoning and logic of today logic and knowledge of science we have today all will contribute to the downfall of religion with its stranglehold on the more naïve. The worst terrorists never took torture within a gazillionth of that gory galaxy. Thinking people of today know that the major determinants of mankind is evolution, genetics, environmental forces that limit free will or the ability any of us have to believe or not.
Daniel is a slick salesman type and intelligent and teaches some of us to think more positive and there is good advice here. I might like him more is he was more realistic but unfortunately Dan can only be Dan and not me or others who are more open-minded and more humble. Sorry if I am not humble in all ways and not ignoring my dislike of Daniel.
@@oppothumbs1 Why does it annoy you though? What does "annoying" mean?
I hate people because of #2. However, most people have low IQs nowadays; mostly I can't put up with incompetence.
Because I hate myself, #3 comes into play a lot too. Thou shall not covet.
Makes sense to me!
4. I never wanted to be like them!
@@annewilkinson9611 because Daniel triggered him/her with the truth
When you have high vibrations, people with lower vibrations automatically hate on you. I'm going to keep shining and avoiding those lower vibrations. Period.
Facts!!!
Totally - it took me decades to see this
We can never impress people who hate you.. the harder we try.. the more they hate you.
That's it brother. I've learned this after so many bruises. But now I don't, I just cut ties
WHEN YOU ARE DIFERENT THEY ARE JEALOUS
Yeap!
YES they hate change in CHRIST!
Yeah example your cool there really jealous of me if i get my food they want to be like me they dont have any money and i have money when i eat my food ham G.I.V.E M.E T.H.A.T M.Y F.O.O.D
ME:WHAT!!!i dont have any money
Classmate hates: ill kill you out side
Everyone isn't jealous on me it's just that everyone hates me. I born with this condition that people will hate me. I just don't understand why I created I just wish I could die
@@breadboysgang5516: i just wish i could die
God: so you have chosen death
If people hate you it's usually because you've got the courage to speak out and make a stand.
So true!!
The story of my life. However I don’t speak up to be hurtful or cause trouble I’m just the boss of my life.
Exactly! I promise “ITS ME”. I’m going to speak up and make a stand when necessary. But everybody can’t handle you because of that. Oh well!!!!!
Yes
I needed to hear this
Most people would rather hate on the successful than learn from them!
What I learned from years of experience is that most people are not worth my time. Brutal reality.
I had no haters when I was fat and didn't keep up with my appearance. NONE. But as soon as I got slim, starting to really focus on self love smiling, being happy, and being kind that's when many people all of a sudden had a problem with me. Going from unattractive to attractive really opens your eyes to the jealousy and insecurity of others.
You’re an amazing person! I feel honored to relate to your story as well
Healthy body = Healthy mind. It's because you changed as a person Amethyst but you cannot see it as it happens so slowly, you became more Confident and you stopped kissing their ass as a result. It's what happened with me when I lost weight, I lost all my baggage, not just what was around my waist People don't like change.
That's true I've found that myself. Once I got punched hard in the face just by walking past a girl who was angry because of how I looked. The crazy thing was I thought she looked better than me , however I didn't hit her .
Thats just like when I was in middle school and was extremely shy and going through an awkward stage no one bothered me,threatened me, made fun of me, or bullied me. When I became more outgoing and dressed nicer I was bullied non stop!
People are stupid
I've always heard that if people hate you THEN YOU MUST BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT.
Debra DKT death threats are a badge of honour
Debra, yes I believe that too. And the hell with the haters.
Truth
Facts 💯💪
@@iamasmurf1122 Lol death threats=badge of honor
"Let your hustle whisper! & Your success ROAR"!!! 💯
Yes Daniel, you’re so right. I’m retired now but I can honestly say in 30 years of working I made a lot of enemies. I never fit in , it took me along time to realize it’s their problem.
I'm 53 and still working, but my problem on almost every job I've had is that I can't do things that other employees can do and get by with it. This isn't necessarily about anyone "hating", but I seem to get picked on at work for various things. Long story short, I feel like the redhead step child almost every day. I've been paged back to my work station when I have 2 minutes left on lunch break. While others can stretch it 10 or 15 minutes and management says nothing nor calls them back to their work area. That's just some of it in a nutshell
My dad is a ROCKSTAR and America is mean.
@@QueenAlexis556 Same and I'm 36
I'm retired after 40 years. I have 1 friend who I never worked with. My co-workers didn't bother with me. Ha,ha..They probably didn't like me. Ha, ha...GOOD, I'M BETTER OFF!
@@QueenAlexis556 Did you ever try to address it head on? They say life gives us the same lessons over and over until we learn from them. Maybe yours is to stand up for yourself and not allow double standards.
most people who hate you start with members of your own family sadly 😫
julie robinson true and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother
Your own friends could feel like a family to you more than your real family
😳😳😳...Im tryna figure out why folks still THINK I’m passing out free money 😂😂😂 Rude awakenings on the RIZE 🙌🏽👩🏽⚖️
So true.
Absolute truth
1: They can't be you.
2: They can't control you.
3: They can't be accepted by you.
Patent jealousy folks.
The vast majority of hate comes from jealousy and insecurity of people around you.
The more people have a go at you, the more it indicates how much better they think you are when compared to them.
Don't be offended, it's actually a backhanded compliment.
I concure
Facts 😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks, that made my day!
Regular, generic, "normal", hateful humans are fkn trash! :D "Normal" humans usually hate others who are different than them, simply because they're jealous and they lack the spine to be themselves and be creative. People who go out of their way to fit in are not only big ol' bitches, but they lack individuality and are cowards. So they run their "Normal" human mouths and try to tear you down to bring down their bullshit generic level. As the old saying goes "misery loves company"
They don't know you, especially
I was in management for 20 years and experienced plenty of hate for all these reasons. I’ve started my own business because I’m done associating with the 🤡s in the 🎪. Once they destroy an individual, they immediately move into the next victim. This system collapsing will be the best thing that’s happened in my lifetime for sure.
What system?
@@gaberoski7343 Financial. The fake a$$ fiat currency is the source of most of our problems. Stop using their money, and it all ends.
People today will like you as long as you can do something for them. I hear it all the time. "Surround yourself by people who are positive and successful". So, if they see you as average and unable to do anything for them, they won't hang around you. It's true!
You will be called "Crazy" if they cannot manipulate You
Yes I have Exsperience that.crazy. delusional. Lier all kinds of names
So true!.
@@shyonalthea1100 well o guess I will be crazy
Facts 💯
@V S you don't know unless you walked in the shoes of there victum
When someone you don't even know hates you, that's when you know you're the BEST 😁😎
Sib, drs, nurses and dentists are hated, especially by me, because of their evil affiliations and paychecks for dirty deeds, so sometimes it is not that a person is doing something right, but VERY WRONG! Agree that often it is that you are doing something right.
What about when they keep taking sneak peeks at you when they think you don't see them?
Facts
@@queenl734 what you mean sneak peek 🤔
People hate their capable & sincere collegues so if someone of your colleague hates you then be prowd of being capable to be hated then not to be.
I have probably lived fifty years longer than you and yet you have vocalised everything I have ever experienced. You have empowered a lot of people with this, well done. 👏🏻
I have had to deal with this most of my life and im 58 now so this never stops throughout your life. Sometimes you just have to accept that your light shines too bright for most people and you need to develop a thick skin and be ready to brush those haters aside. What people think of you is none of your business.
So true
You have addressed THE most pressing social problem affecting America today - growing hate, disregard, nonchalance, judgement, and lack of empathy. How it got to this point I don't know. Born in 1960, I had a wonderful childhood until I turned 10 - that's when my eyes, and my heart began to "see". I wish I could ignore or redirect my thoughts when I encounter hate in action, which is in some form every day now, but it's so pervasive across all spectrums of society, all I want to do is be alone. I'm losing hope and struggling with my faith.
Hi Lyn, I have felt that way occasionally. I had a stable childhood. I can tell you this much from experience. Most people are not even aware what influence drives them to do what they do. It helps to make time for yourself and be with nature or around animals. I don't meant pets, but if you have space to take a trek on a trail, or fix a picnic basket and head to a secluded spot with your favorite music, that can help heal from the stupidity around. At times others, or even those you think love you may not understand, but hang in there. There's enough goodwill to go around, at a minimum.
I invest time in things I like doing, even if it seems like passive absorption (a movie of choice, music, art, swimming), and I avoid unnecessary social contact at such times. For you it could mean meeting friends or family who are non-judgmental.
Wishing you well.
Indeed!
Same here. I used to be sociable, helpful, friendly and outgoing towards others for over 36 years. I did my best not to be an asshole and I longed for people to like me for who I am. But unfortunately I only had backstabbing, racist, lying, manipulative, thieving, evil individuals around me in class, in my own family, in my neighborhood, in my social life and not to forget in my love life. That hurt me a lot. So now it has been 4 years since I disappeared and cut contact with EVERYBODY I once knew. I quit my job, changed my number and since then I work as a profitable trader at home where there is only me, myself and I. I just can't stand the hypocrisy, the fakeness and the tiredness that comes with dealing with society. I rather prefer to be alone than to lose time with those sociopaths.
Yes amen
Yes amen
Been hated all my life
Even as a child. I was also bullied. There's adults who hated me as child. ADULTS! Now when people hate me I just don't care . I don't cry over it. Not worth the salt in my tears.
So true you express what I was thinking a couple of days a go
Wow now that's confidence people
I CAN RELATE MY CHILDHOOD FRIEND'S MOTHER(RIP) CALLED ME A B-WORD WHEN I WAS 10 YEARS OLD BECAUSE SHE READ THE LOCAL NEWSPAPER AND SAW MY NAME ON THE HONOR ROLL LIST ABD HER DAUGHTER MY THEN BEST FRIEND'S WASN'T IN THERE! I RAN HONE CRYING AS WITH A CHILD WOULD DO IF A GROWN ASS WOMAN CALLS YOU A B-WORD!!!! ALL I DID WAS STUDY HARDER THAN HER DAUGHTER AND MADE GOOD GRADES AND MADE THE HONOR ROLL! THAT'S ALL! ABD IF THAT'S NOT HATE, THEN WHAT IS IT?! NOT TO DISRESPECT THE DECEASED THE WOMAN IS DECEASED NOW!
@@janellarogers1117 ohh
Wow I can relate. Always felt like an outsider all my life. Now I embrace and love being a loner. Those who are close know I’m nothing but genuine and loving. To those who chose to hate me (for whatever reason) are the ones on the outside looking in. 🤗
Never dim your light to satisfy someone else....
And I’d done exactly that for toooooo many years . Even my direct family obviously despised me , just because I was popular with others . How sad when it’s you’re own parents and sibling. So, both parents now passed away....and sister all but blocked out .it’s MY time to shine ...even at age 60. 💜
@@lifeslessons9889 I know that's right ,shne,shine like a ⭐⭐⭐
Sucks when your married and Hubby treats you like crap. Then turns around and tells you that you've imagined it. WOW!
@@rosannacharves2764 Sorry,you're dealing with that but you know that's called Gaslighting ..
So true,. Thanks....
Bless you
People hate you but because you are a reflection of themselves, and everyone hates being trapped in the void alone.
A wise person might say, "I know wisdom when I hear it." And this is very wise. Thank you Daniel.
If people hate you, you are doing something right.
My life didn't take off until I moved to another state, away from my familys unsupportive comments that I listened to my whole life. I should have moved earlier. They always made me feel inferior. When they visited me they saw how my life had blossemed without them. They treated me differently. Those closest to you can be your biggest enemy.
I know exactly how you feel!
@@JohnMurphy-dw6ml Sometimes you need to love from a distance and make your best interest a priority.
@@rosearning9974 That disgusting lack of support makes you feel absolutely like shit inside!
I can relate, I wish you were wrong !
@@Middleground2022 Believe me, I wish I was wrong also!
Ive been hated all my life - on site even. If I talk I’m hated. If I don’t talk I’m hated. If I lol I’m hated but praise God I LOVE MYSELF 🙏🏽🤗
Oh my gosh you have described my life in a nutshell. I'm pretty convinced I've killed my own confidence because I've blamed myself over and over and over for what people do to me. I'm so glad I found your video. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Come on Catherine you can do this, you can get your groove back.
You are nice bro , I love you ❤
When you are born beautiful, graceful, intelligent and kind, you're already attracting haters.
All these things take work, and everybody has the right to do so.
No one is born like that
@@boonch9103 See you don't want to admit some people Like Dr. Mike Varshavski on UA-cam
@@boonch9103 I was born so ugly my father couldn't believe I was his and had DNA done.
@@boonch9103 not so.
When u quit worrying about what people think, u have reached a awesome level of freedom!!!
Exactly
Amen
Amen to that 🙏 🙌 👏
Absolutely!😊
Lol this is such bs
Oh my real God ! Im 61 and i needed to hear this 47 years ago ! Thank you mr. Ally . Yes !!!
Being attractive is isolating. I have no friends. Being single makes it worse. Married men DEFINITELY do not like me around their wives.
I never flirt with any of them. Just how it is.
I have been hated ,from the day I was born ,but that never stopped me from being the person that god wants me to be .
ME TOO!!!!! ESPECIALLY ON MY JOB....
ASSOCIATE TOLD ME, I WOULD ALWAYS HAVE PROBLEMS ON MY JOBS, BECAUSE OF MY LOOKS.... AND HE HAS A PHD IN PSYCHOLOGY......🤔🤔
Same they are nothing but a pile of microbes.
I was born to be a microbiologist.
1. Insecurity, 2. Lack of self-esteem, and 3. envy (or covetousness).
Fear
I work in the restaurant business as a manager & have worked at 4 locations within the same franchise, these past six years. I've come to find that I only click or have one person at either restaurant that I end up being cool with. Everyone else either hated me or played my friend momentarily. In close knit working environments people socialize & people have their packs. Alot of people talk mad crap about others & will play buddy face to face. I can't stand that crap. I'm a confrontational person by nature, this encompasses mature light hearted confrontation to full fledged confrontation. There is a lot of hypocrisy in this world, & telling the truth or true to ones self are absolute reasons to be hated. And when you have clicks of haters they become blindly biased to the point of idiocy. For just an example, when I bought my BMW I had sooooo many haters (friends & coworkers) talking crap about my car & telling me how dumb I was & I'll regret it. Or how I have to pay premium gas or parts to be replaced. I get 27 miles to the gallon & every part with labored added (at a mechanic shop is expensive). I've had my car three years now I still have it & still don't regret it. Meanwhile, these haters have gone through vehicle after vehicle in these three years. I dunno how I may come off towards people just being me, or as to say, how people see me, but haters are a plenty. I'd rather be hated honestly than be surrounded by fake people who say they're my friends. Literally had to learn this the hard way.
Yes i been with a company for a month only i see haters around me because like you said they see me as threat . They gang up and always gossip practically a toxic environment. Its stressful trying to ignore their bullshit
In my experience there are really only 2 different types of people
1. Those with a conscience
2. And those without one
@Miss Madison Stone
True
@Pedro Ivan Sanchez I'm sorry that you live in such a brutal place, the world is on it's way to hell. 'But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come, for men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God'
2 Timothy 3:1-4
Great point
Truths!
I've reached the age where i do not care anymore it is their loss not mine
Yep! The best people make it in life and other people just hate on you because they ain’t doing the very thing you work so hard to obtain!
@@tauruspatton1458 that sounds exactly like my brothers
Well said 👍
Agreed
I even want to start these because I don’t care anymore
Yes! thanks for helping me to understand why people in my workplace sometimes treat me bad for no reason.
Ive known all this for years, but never really been able to properly explain it. This video hits the nail on the head. Very accurate and very concise!
Someone who hates you sees you in 3 Things: see you as a Threat, hates themselves or they want to be you
All three possibly?
Oh how true ❤️
@@Mason-sg9zf I don’t bother nobody & I stay to myself. 1 thing I learned is that You’re not going to please everyone. Someone somehow somewhere will attack your Character no matter what you. It’s nothing personal, 95% of the people that hate don’t even got a personal problem with you. They just hate the fact that you’re doing what they can’t do
The last one is the most dangerous. I've encountered this and it's weird and scary.
Man you said a mouth full !! Ima have to use this for my fb status today 🙌🏽☺️
This is why I don’t have many friends, people that I once thought where my so called friends ended up being my enemy, due to the fact of me excelling in life.
Man they be trying to troll me in my face I just ignore them
What is this the group of Hate
Candice Osborn their is an old saying people want you to succeed in life, but just not past them. Once you succeed past certain people they tend to change on you.
I'm not your enemy real don't judge me before you no about me please
Please don't in Claude me in that read on I have tryed to exsplain
Pretty but not vain. Clever but not arrogant. A high achiever but modest.
I was born shy but I have a lot of reasons to be hated it seems. It took me years to work out why so many people hated me, even on day one of a new job before anyone knew me. I played small so that I wouldn't be noticed, but I always was. My need for self protection came across as being aloof apparently. Now I'm not shy but still hated by so many people who I have never done any harm or said a cross word to or about. This includes my own daughter, her husband, his family, my family and many more. I have quietly helped so many people who are bullied, lack confidence or feel lost, even to the point of saving their lives because I recognise their pain. I hold onto to this in my darkest moments. Reading people's comments on here helps me feel I am not alone in this and takes the pain away for a few minutes. I am 65 and it still, always hurts.
YES!, You are exactly right on all your points. Thank You for validating my own theories that evolved over experiencing people in my life. It’s a growth process. We should want to be the best person we can be for ourselves as well as for others around us. 1 more point I’d like to add to your three: don’t just write the other person off as a person that is negative, or envious, or whatever negative attitude they have about you personally - just take a big deep breath and think deep within yourself as honestly, & objectively as possible and ask within yourself, “What role have I played, or action expressed to create this situation ?” Sometimes you may find you are a contributory factor or slipped right into an area that triggered the person who is filled with so much animosity toward you, and YET they didn’t or don’t know you at all! We all have our roles in life, and yes even for some we haven’t met yet. They see you and watch you and in order to appease the rising angry lion or green eyed monster they try to boil you down to a stereotypical’whatever’, superficial trait they want to focus on in order to reduce your impact on the shared surroundings. Regardless, be true to yourself, extend compassion toward all, but especially that person who is suffering because their dislike for you is the mirror image of their self loathing. You know what else I have observed over the years their self loathing has handicapped them from being the person they really want to become. The truly awful reality is: They didn’t do this to themselves it was done to them by someone else whom they trusted, while the trusted one spent time & energy diminishing that person’s ideas, thoughts, and any contributions they tried to make. There’s the source of the handicap right there. So, please be kind to people even if they seem to show you only animosity toward you. You never know what horrible road they’ve traveled on to get here. You don’t have to be their best friend or even spend time with them. Negativity is contagious. But don’t be another negative log on top of their already raging inferno of the internal bonfire 🔥. Peace ☮️ & 💕
1. You threaten them
2. They hate themselves
3. They want to be like you
For the people who have no time
Life and absolute/potential threats go Well Beyond 3 little dream world criteria.
@@HighSpeedNoDrag what do you mean
@@gabrielguzman6018 In my opinion, there are more than just merely 3 reasons a person and or persons can hate a person.
@@candiceosborn7097 They? Who? I do not understand the question.
@@HighSpeedNoDrag which is
When people hate on you, kill them with love every chance you get. This will frustrate them causing their own demise.
@@newtigom9460 In that case stay focus on your daily task and do it flawlessly. Always remember the company's mission and why they hire you. From there, moving forward everything will be even keel.
So true...
@@newtigom9460 Did you retire because you reach the age?
I did, and it worked. Ironically, it wasn't long after the "change for the good" that I realized I really didn't want to have anything to do with them, they were boring and superficial. I am happier without them in my life.
Good for you jojo D, I'm glad it worked out for you.
thank you for your timely message. i have been dealing with backstabbers at a new company i work for. it was really starting to get to me as i have made every effort to fit in there. Most employees i dont have a problem with . however there are some that hate me for no reason. i have never done anything to them to make them treat me that way. I was starting to think maybe i was the problem, but now i realize its them. your video was just the shot in the arm i needed. thank you so much. I feel like God knew i was hurting and knew i needed some encouragement. Thx again.
Man you're right on. I was always all smiles helpful even got some of my haters hired on . My boss said before I quit worry about what I say not what they say. I couldn't work no longer with those I thought were on my team. Was a great job and haven't got another one since . Really crushed me . Thanks for this video . I'm subscribing. God bless
Jealousy of a personality they cannot match with a natural energy for happiness , kindness , and warmth
That Message Came From The Universe You Are In Divine Energy. Peace
😍
Strength Knows Strength
Facts!
100% correct
My great grandmother used to tell my mom, “don’t worry if they’re talking bad about you. It means that they’re leaving some other poor soul alone!” 😂
I have always remembered these wise words.
Love it! lol
Yeah. It's an old one, but a good one
Mine too, if they are talking about you they are leaving someone else out.
Personally I think it's best if they leave every poor soul alone and work themselves out.
@@iwasanMBTInerd Of course that would be best, but sadly I don’t think that will happen. There’s always one bad apple. ☹️
I'm on the same journey.
I'm authentic, transparent and speak my mind up every time. I'm not competitive at my work place at all. Just being myself and authentic with everyone.
I have goals and well prepared.
It's strange people are like that.
I'm learning to understand them.
It's very informative from you.
Thank you for this.
Thank you 🙏🏾 for this video. People have hated me for simply existing. It’s been like this since I was a child 👧🏾. 🙏🏾❤️🩹
Same for me.
Jealousy
Insecurities
Envy
It's normal, expect it.
Then they back stab you
@@lyrae9454 Yes, there are backstabbers out there. But I don't worry about what people do to me, cuz I know God's got my back. It might look like they're getting away with it, but they really aren't. It will come back to them, one way or another.
Yes they are
Yes I love yur video so trew thank yu
Inferiority complex
I just don’t care. If people don’t like me I just keep being myself. God bless them.
Uh, you may not want to Bless Them given the situation and or threat.
@@HighSpeedNoDrag I understand in what you saying but if you bless them God will honor that and He will deal with them accordingly. He said vengeance is mines so basically keep it moving the Lord will deal with them
Maria Luisa Cardenas I don’t even have the confidence to be my self even when I try people dislike me more, I have very bad anxiety
Maria Luisa Cardenas beautifully said
Me too. Waste of time to care what others think
Envy is the most sincere compliment a man doesn't know he's received.
Daniel I needed your strength tonight and there you were! I'm glad you're in the world.
This is part of why I've always distanced myself from people. I swear it's as if this is my secret, super power: The ability to make people hate me by like...existing.
They are miserable with themselves that is a start for them hating on us. I have had a supervisor and she hates me and I have no clue as to why and even tried to get me fired 😱.Luckily I was able to negotiate 😇🙏💖. But for how long is the question. I just go in and do my work . Ever since I've discovered this sudden hate after coming back from covid lockdown of all things, I avoid as much as possible and still careful to make sure I act unaffected by it though it did mess with me some as I couldn't figure out what is going on and why the sudden hate . I wish you the best . Not everyone hates on others . There really needs to be a group of people who get together and share these similar situations and are supportive and uplifting of one another.
@Solitary I just read my comment and realized it did little if anything to alleviate . I want to tell you it is not you it is them . Don't feel for a moment that it is about you it is not. I used to feel that all I had to do was exist to get hate from others too some days still do but we must realize others take their misery out on us. So don't take it personally. Especially these days when there is a trend amongst the shallow ,emptyand superficial and they think it is so impressive to hate on others and be nasty and evil. I would have thought that the pandemic lockdown would have made people be kinder to one another when we returned . Yes alot were and that many more were not. Plus there is another factor to consider the highly charged political motivation to hate on others.It is mindless and I never let politics or other things get in the way of how I treat other people. I believe in treating others as I wish to be treated myself and also the fact that it is incredibly great feeling to make another person feel good and smile to uplift another human being make their day so on. We are all human and have feelings and should be kind to one another,respect one another,love one another and help one another for more fulifillment and joy in life.😇🙏💖may God bless and protect you always and bring you prosperity and happiness. All the best to you.
@Solitary stay safe,healthy and happy all the best to you and be happy enjoy life and do what you love and the rest will come life is short don't cheat yourself because of the attitude of other people. Much love and happiness to you. The right people will come into your life if you let them. Don't give up on interacting with others and know that if someone acts badly towards you it is not you it is them . Either they are miserable overall ,following the latest trend of how empty and shallow one can be or if there is alot of people around they are seeking an audience for attention and to impress they are that unsure of themselves. Be well and consider the source. Feel good about yourself because there is nothing wrong with you . Know that when people act negatively on you it is their insecurities and hatred of themselves and those are not the kind of people you want in your life anyway. Stick to those whom are positive and genuine there are still alot of those out there and how you find them is by loving and appreciating yourself and being your own best friend &do what you enjoy like a hobby whatever makes you feel good that does not involve bad for your health stuff because that will only make things worse than they are. It never improves the situation if we do things to mask our pain. The attitude of gratitude being thankful for what we take for granted like the roof over our heads so on is a start in the right direction. Find groups online that share a hobby you have and discuss that and you will find more in common then you ever imagined as you get to know them or find locally if there are people whom share your interests as you will be amazed at how much more you have in common with others and you will make lots of new amazing friends . fyi ignore the trolls there is one in every group online it seems these days . Here is to your happiness foreevermore .😊💖
ME TOO!
@@kimberlywalbridge7416 MY LAST 3 JOBS GURRRRLLLL YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
I was a forklift driver once. My coworker repeatedly undermined me by not training me...and allying with my boss (friends) who was passive aggressive and neglected my training, and sabotaged my job to get me fired. Why? Because I was GOOD, and threatened both of them...they needed a lackey they could control. Someone who did just the right amount of work...no more, no less..so THEY looked good, not me.
Haters.
OMG! Now I realize more why those women wouldn't train me except a few minutes of it and treated me like I was stupid. They had time to teach me since we had days with nothing happening at our restaurant to prepare for our opening. I was so bored while they just talked and I wanted to work and learn. They said I did things very well but neglected me nor spoke to me. I did poorly and was horribly reprimanded and they did well.
I can relate to being that good..
@@SA-ud9nf these are all losers at low level jobs. I’ve been there many times. Best thing to do is find a job where you’re not treated badly
@@joshuablair252 yes. A culture of mediocre pervades
your delusional--get fired from a forklift? loser
Yes! And the video was encouraging; thank you bunches. What I don’t understand is when you are working for a company and through hard work and perseverance with your coworkers you get so much done that your company store becomes #1. and all it takes is one hater that doesn’t even work in the first place. through gossip and drama the managers ask you to forgive the negative person and you do only to find she sabotages the workplace over and over again. Why does the company save the dead horse over the thoroughbreds then complains when production tank’s?🤷🏻♀️
Being 60 yrs old, I'm still a go getter.
Being highly motivated my entire life, I am still that way to this day. I've always had the attitude of, When it comes to work, just get it done. Don't play around, just get it done and outt of the way. Something that could take the average person a few hours to do, I will hustle and get it finished in half that time. If feels good too knowing I did all that in that little time, then the rest of the day it is mine, i can relax. That's the reward of it all and it's a good feeling knowing at my age I can still move as I do. I'm talking physical work as well. Some people who live near me love to watch me constantly, that's in a gossiping way I'm referring to, hate me bc it makes them look bad and they know they can't, won't move as I do to get the job done. Especially those who are at the same age as I am, hate me bc of it.
To each is its own! This way is and has always been my way. You don't have to hate and gossip on me bc you can't do something as I do.
Some people have truly lost their way.
I am truly blessed! 🙏
My mother's advise to me was "the person that delivers the ugly thing someone says about you, is more to blame than the person that said it. Because the gossip or ugly thing someone else said about you, could have stopped with them". Please ponder that. I have found it to be very true, and I have not ever, since she told me that, done it.
You do realize all the bragging you do on yourself right.....who would like someone like that....you just put others down like your better....well good for you 🙄.
@@lindsaythomson3687
Sorry you feel that way. Bragging is not part of my vocabulary. People get so offended right away anymore today.
Have a nice day Lindsay ♥️
@@percussionist48 not offended what so ever.....but it was Bragging , you put others down to put attention on yourself....have a good day 🙂.
As soon as you start progressing in life your "friends and family" start dropping out quickly then sniff around when you've got what they want.
Exactly!
"Progressing...?" in and/or toward what?
Everyone loves you until you become competition!
Amby is Best not to have friends at all, just your mum and dad
That its me
Three reasons why people hate you: 1) See you as a threat; 2) They hate themselves; 3) They want to be you.
So true💯💜
Seeing this video reallly helped me out, I just couldn’t understand for the life of me why everywhere I went and every person I’ve met disliked me when I literally never held a real conversation with them. Or even with family. I am the first to break a lot of generational curses and watching this video revealed that there’s a lot of envy because of this. It sounds weird but I actually feel bad for them. Your that miserable that you want somebody to feel the same way? Thank you so much for pointing these things out!
You, young man, are a great speaker, knowledgeable and argumentative! I hope more young people listen to you and learn from you! Great job!
I've experienced this my entire life. No matter where I've worked, I've always had to deal with haters and backstabbing co workers. That's bad enough but worse still is when this comes from my own family. My own cousins have always been envious of me for certain reasons. They've sabotaged my relationships, turned other family members against me, and imitate me in certain areas of my life. We were close once and then they began to show their toxicity towards me in numerous ways. Best thing that ever happened was to cut all ties with them. Being related to them was just an unfortunate accident. Being blood related doesn't mean that we need to be close.
That's exactly how I feel.
no one in my family is my friend except a single female cousin so I created my own family out of friends. much better....
Hi there,
You spoke exactly what happened to me. It’s hard and I am so sorry. Better to cut them off. God Bless!
No one is my friend lol. And they want me to visit them during the summer. H*ll no… Troll exist to put these haters in their place even if trolls do the same thing for a rectoon
A lot of females here always take their side bc toxic ppl are alike. And these outsiders think it’s cute to walk right in front of me in a huge group and almost push me out of the way. And they do this when other people aren’t nearby lol I’m very skinny but I don’t move out of their way at all. If the haters push me I might try walking a dog and see if they want tobully the dog in a cowardly way too
Who cares if people hate me. I'm not on this earth to impress people. If people hate me that's there problem not mine.
Agreed sister, whoever hate u then let them hate U n just love them for our father who is in heaven is love n God Said to love ya brother before U love our father who is in heaven. thanks ladies n gentleman
Thanks for the great speech ! 👏 That's nice you believe in god .
@@margaretbatson83 yes my sister but that speech come from our father who is in heaven. Thanks ladies n gentleman
@@safewalker2158 ok ! Lol !
I totally agree with you my boyfriend friends don't like me. And he try to make me jealous of them. He put them before me
I needed this ! I have major haters or issues right now , this is still good to use , because you never know what tomarrow brings .
Thank you for making this video. Very helpful. Never change your kindness into anger just because of people who hates you 🙂stay positive everything will work out🙂
I wasn’t born to fit in I was born to stand out💪🏾💯🤷🏽♀️
That’s right mama 💖🪄
👏🏻🎊
I totally agree with that I stand out and I have two standard poodles who also stand out and believe me if you don't have some self-esteem you will be prayed on. This is good thank you
YES!!!
@@newtigom9460 I recently moved to a different country - England ! By god’s grace and my hard work theres an improvement in my personality with a bit of media recognition which is helping me to grow in my profession. But my friends who’re still there keep talking behind the back being sweet on my face. Until recently when they purposely try to pull me back to their comfort zone. They don’t want to evolve or work hard or come out of their comfort zone. It’s hard for me every time to go to their comfort zone feeling demotivated from my targets losing my personality! My goals are very competitive and I need to be in a different state of mind! Gradually loosing a few friends coz of this!
My mother used to tell me , " your friends are not your friends". I thought everyone meant well. I was so young & thought "she can't know what she's talking about." She knew alright. It took me years to figure out not even some family members mean well. Smile in your face & never meant well for you.
Friends are the people most likely to screw you over.
Your mom was right, I can relate, I was so happy go lucky and trusted everyone, then I found myself working with someone who was stealing from work, she stole money out of my purse, it was an expensive lesson for me but I learned. She could not be trusted, soon I started seeing the same qualities in other people.
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Bring out the best in others. Find something positive about them that stands out, and encourage and love them.
You have wisdom and deep insight, for a young man, Daniel. I've experienced much the same with certain unhappy people: some in my own family, with a few others who are supposedly close friends, with some neighbors, and in at least two different jobs that I had before I retired. While the majority of people are ambivalent to your positivity, or even respond in a positive and appreciative manner, there will always be those few who are unhappy with themselves, have petty jealousy issues, and / or are fine, and possibly clueless, to their own wrong thinking. It probably took me to when I was in my 60s, before I fully reasoned out why people are the way they are, but better late than never. I've experienced these types of negativity and ignorance for pretty much my entire life, from time to time, and I am 68 now. Your video here was a much-needed, like a breath of fresh air balm, this early Monday afternoon, so, bless you for that. I'm subscribed. Please keep on keeping on your good work. Thank you !!
He’s right. I’ve had haters all my life. I’ve learned to just ignore them. I don’t want negative energy in my life. I want to be surrounded by people who care about me.
Amen Brother.
💯 facts
Same here. I have been accused of thinking that I’m better than others. That’s so NOT me. I just pick and choose very carefully who to be around because it’s hard enough trying to stay positive on your own.
Preach the gospel my brother!!!! Facts 💯
wendall parker ...isn't it funny how haters can really piss your day off . Jealousy and resentment are two really unattractive emotionally .
It's kids playground stuff.. They need to grow up
I do not understand why some peopl dislike this video because he is absolutely saying the truth.
They are obviously haters
They’re the miserable, insecure haters
Once i clicked by mistake on dislike button by touching unwillingly my screen. Till today im looking for a way to undo it because the video disappeared suddenly the fact is i don't even know the title of the video any more.
Because we're living in a pussy generation.
BECUZ THE TRUTH HURTS!
Thank you. I’ve noticed that positive, outgoing, talented and charismatic people who share my zest for life reciprocate the love and light and send their way, while, talentless glass half empty, sad, bitter lonely heated people who keep themselves closed off hate, block, attempt to antagonize and belittle me for seemingly just living. It all makes sense now. I get it.
This is the most awaited ANSWER I needed in yearsssss... THANK YOU SO MUCH!
If They Hate Me That's Their Problem Not Mine
Hate can be a protective measure as well.
Yeah, until one of them gets hired as your supervisor. Then, it's brush up the resume and update your LinkedIn profile...cause HR will back them up and your reputation and 'quality of work' will decline in rapid succession.
Exactly!!
"Critics make you do it better
Haters make you do it faster"
-Daniel Ally
Yes!
Facts!!!
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Yes, as one of my managers said. She is a good worker, piss her off she works faster. I said, HELL!! 'I do more in one day than any of you do in one week.. And you want me to work faster!! Cause you bosses find a good work horse and try to work it to death. Meanwhile being soft on everyone else. Next time you get me pissed, my ass is gone.// Managers are the biggest problem. They are sucked in by the lazy evil workers and loose the one or two good ones. Then they give a bad report onto your work history and to your next potential employer. There are more of them than they are of us. Their lies & slanders distroy us. So now good companies are left with shit workers. I can see why our elites are planning population genecide.
4th reason : They are unsure of themselves and don't know quite who they are yet and they see you as being someone who knows who you are and sure of yourself.
Also, people who want your attention but don't feel like they need to put in any work to get it. People with an inflated self of self importance are often a reason that people find a reason to hate others.
Wow, this stuff is so true. It’s just hard to understand this without ever hearing it. I had these gut feelings but thought, isn’t it just egotistical to think this? I always felt great, secure, happy, and focused on my own life. I love all people, life, and feel deeply blessed just to be alive and well. Many people just hate someone who is happy! Thanks for verbalizing this. I just couldn’t verbalize it or believe it even. Thank you, really!
I think some ppl hate on others cause It's a constant reminder of their own failures. They refuse to evaluate themselves and face facts.
Funny things is if you actually point that out to them they laugh and mock you. They never admit the truth. I once asked a coworker why he disliked me if I had wronged him and he had no answer just stood in silence no courage to tell me what's on his mind.
You hit the nail right on the head!! 👍 👍 👍
The narcissist doesn't want to do the internal work on their own soul. Because they are darkness who cannot comprehend the light
That is very true saten has them
I'm having to stay with one right now yuck
My X HUSBAND WAS NARcissistic
Either can some one preoccupied with Hate
True !!!!!
I’ve had Haters All My Life. Thank You for breaking down the Heater’s with the (3) reasons. You’ve helped me Greatly.
Thankyou so much for this advice daniel. I am now dealing with a serious hater in my life in a religious environment that i didnt even know has this feeling towards me. Its gotten to be so much hate that its spilled over from the religious environment into my social life. I honestly dont know what to do at this point and i never imagined it would get this far without me directly influencing these feelings in the first place. Im glad I came upon your video it has at least given some form of peace from your personal insight.
"They'll either want to kill you, kiss you or be you."
Life goes well beyond 3 types of people, Wow, Really?
That’s extreme.
@@JAZZY2REALZ Nope! Not at all. You're just having a hard time comprehending the metaphors. Lol! The statement may be too deep for you. 🤔🤪
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 PREACH!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
And all three could have consequences,fool☣️
It hurts to be hated by people I thought to be friends, but after shedding some tears I'm over it. They inspire me in an odd way.
The more u care, the more it hurts. Focus on the ppl that matter. The ones who has your best interest at ❤️ matters. (Be a best friend to yourself 1st)
@@drinkwatereatmelons7048 so very true
People I loved truly hate me and I had to distance myself. It does hurt so much to be hated and ignored like you don’t exists, especially by people I called family. People don’t understand me. I’m so much better after the distance
You are so right, stranded. I too have learned from my "so called friends" that are not in my life any more. They lied and had me feel more and more negative, while they secretively were so jealous and insequire. Some, i didn,t even know at all or very slightly, but their comments hurt and cofused me. The worst one being my sister-in-law whose great jealousy caused me to loose my home and become bankrupt. I haven,t seen my brother in 18 years due to her lying and envy. This was a good video and hopefully everyone can learn that self-love is all we need. Happy new year to you and all my best wishes💞🍷🍾
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I've developed the attitude of just not giving a crap. I go to work, stay to myself, do a good job and go home. I stay away from people as much as I can and I am fine with it. If anyone has a problem with this, then that person has the problem not me. I'm not going to be fake just to make people like me. I just started a new job about a month an a half ago, and already there's evil looks and hatefulness coming from a few of them. I'll speak to you one time, and if you refuse to speak back, I won't waste my breath the next time or ever again with you. I am kind, I'm not antisocial, but I prefer to just do my job and be left alone. Is that a problem? If so it's not mine. It is very difficult being black, Christian and conservative in a warehouse pack with young and other blacks who don't have your same views. I got tired of going from job to job facing the same problem; so I now have the "I dont give a crap" attitude and it works for me. As long as my supervisor is fine with my work ( though he might be the same as the others) I'm fine. You just gotta stop caring who likes you or not. Who cares!!!
Your co-workers are not friends. Only acquaintances. I've dealt with this so many times. Glad to be retired now. Don't have to deal with it amymore.
@@rtopalovich For me it's some family members also. I've become content by just keeping to myself. I really don't even want a relationship. I just savor the little peace that I do have.
Amen! I needed this. Thank you! God Bless!
I learned when I was a little girl: If someone hates me, there’s nothing I can do about it. Just keep going.
I’ve been hated on my whole life.
Are we There yet Right there jealous .
Me too
You are not the only one. We are many.
Real talk
Me too. Even when I was a baby. I don't get it
Yes!!! I need more of these videos. Thank you for making it.
Yes.
There is too many haters and not enough love and encouragement towards others. Thank you for your videos.
"I rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not" Kurt Cobain
And where are you now, Faded🎶
True
Jealousy and resentment are two major unattractive emotions that wreck people's life's .
If someone hates you, you should be flattered. Just keep shining your light maybe one day they will want the light.
Yes! Absolutely marvelous video. Thank you such much, Daniel Ally, for discussing this topic. I know and am experiencing exactly what you're talking about. Here's a conclusion i came to a few years ago.. the more people hated on me, the more convinced i became that i'm on the right track! (so long as I'm doing good things of course, which i am). Not many folks can write and publish their own amazing science fiction books, and sell every single copy they've printed up.. i have. And, i get no love for these endeavors at all from Americans.. not even from my so-called friends! One friend i've known for 35 years, and who i invested my money with (he's a financial advisor) - refused to recommend my books to anyone he knows. His argument? "I don't recommend books to anyone". Utter b.s.! He recommends movies and music.. so why not books. Needless to say, i stopped doing business with him. I do not reward disloyalty! I'd like to add to your most excellent talk, that apathy (people who just don't care about you/me either way) - are almost as bad as the haters. Because, people like that, you just don't know which way they're going to go.. so I've learned to simply assume they're against me. You gotta remember.. humans by and large, seem to more readily find reasons not to like someone.. versus reasons To like them. Folks can always find those reasons not to like, if they look, cause we're all human, eh? I look at the human being (me, you, everyone) like this: We were created perfectly; but sometimes we express ourselves imperfectly. In your video, Daniel, your self expression was spot on!
In the year of 2020 their hatred is no longer in secret, 😂 I've seen the most evil people expose themselves for who they really are...
Yesssss omg I’ve experienced this too
Same here...
Yep. they show who they are. Even if they don't want to fully admit it.
All can say i will kill them with it let them hate that means i am carring something important to them and for them prosecute me of hate they will be unhappy with themselves but god say rejoyce with extremely joy and gladness in it❤❤❤🔥🔥💃
same
Many hate because it's easier than truly praising or accepting another person for who they ARE.....🤔🤔🤔
Yes we are scratching the surface DANIEL!.
Right some people hate me and they still don't accept me for who I am a future Navy SEAL a soldier fighting for everything he believe in 🤘🇺🇲
@@williamvaughn2237 Keep striving for your goals and don't pay attention to the naysayers!;!!...
@@williamvaughn2237 So proud of you! God Bless you and thank you for protecting our Country!🙏🇺🇸👍
Stop comparing
Start preparing 🙌💯
Have everything I need to succeed 😁
Thank you 😊