Mom Guilt, Toddler Clothing Haul, and Home Renos | DITL of a WFH Mom
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- In today's DITL of a WFH mom we're chatting mom guilt, DIY home renos, and sharing a fun toddler clothing haul!
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I think so many people are watching your videos and thinking “I wish I was as good of a mom as Megan” or “I wish I looked like her”. So it’s kind of mind blowing to hear that you have mom guilt and body image issues too. I think what it really says is that these things are just universal for moms/women (at least in our culture) no matter who you are, what you do, or how you look.
Megan, you inspire me so much! I find motherhood way harder than I expected it to be, but you remind me to find the beauty and joy in the everyday. Thank you!
It's such a coincidence that you talk about mom guilt for taking time for your work, because just yesterday I totally broke down to my husband because I felt so guilty for NOT working and not contributing to our family that way! It's so easy to focus on what we think our kids aren't getting rather than what they are getting from whatever arrangement works best for your family. Working moms, WFH moms, and stay at home moms all give so many good benefits to their kids
It’s so insane how much guilt we all feel! Just means we care, right?!
Motherhood is the biggest "damned if you do, damned if you dont" trip Ive ever been on in my LIFE. I never expected to struggle with mum guilt as much as I do, although Id heard of it before becoming a parent. It is really hard.
I hope you know that your mothering (what you show us) & homemaking is super inspiring to me, your children are beautiful and thriving, and SO ARE YOU! ❤️❤️ Sending love to you and your family today 💕
I'm a full time SAHM, and feel really guilty that I'm not the "fun parent". Tidying up, doing laundry, making food ... All of that stuff that needs to be done, but takes me away from the games can make me feel like I'm not enough and then make me feel all the more guilty when I want and need some grown up conversation or activities.
Thanks for sharing your own experiences and acknowledging all the feelings that motherhood brings. ❤
When my girls were little I was a stay at home mom. They were my job. Around the time my youngest started pre-k full time my husband and I decided to start our own small business. And I don't regret that decision at all. For the longest I did feel guilty that I stayed home full time with my oldest but didn't with my youngest since she was only 4. But you know what, she had a fantastic pre-k year that set her up to rock kindergarten. So in hindsight, I'm finally at peace with my decisions. I now have been working full time for almost 4 years and it's super sweet for my girls to see my success. And know that just like barbie, mommy too can be anything with hard work and dedication. So what I'm trying to say is yes, feel your feelings but shrug them off. Your doing an amazing job as a mom. Don't let guilt rob you from the joy of your success. ❤
Even stay at home moms feel guilt over the things we have to do vs the attention we put towards our children. ❤ You’ve got this! It’s all a balance.
I love your hair color! It fits you so much!
And also your dress ❤
Love the realism of a project taking so long. That's how it is with a busy life and kids!
I know 1000% I am a more present and healthier wife and mom because I am able to work full time! I need the mental stimulation and interaction with adults to keep my days going. Our toddler is in daycare, and I know he gets so much more there than we would be able to provide at home. It also makes our time together in the evenings and weekends so much more special, and I do not feel any less connection with him because of work/daycare! I totally sympathize with the feelings of guilt, but just try to remember that you cannot pour from an empty cup- if your work brings you joy and fulfillment, keep doing it!
Thank you for the reminder 💛
You are so talented & resourceful! Teach me your ways!
Look at all you got done! Mom guilt sucks & you’re not alone, but everyone’s circumstances and life are different ❤️ I think you’re blending things beautifully.
We like to hit up the different Small Threads consignment stores on the Eastside. It's like an in-between Childish Things and Kym's with brands and quality. Their online scheduling for consignment is also super easy.
Megan, I just bought a 100 yr old baby book from an antique store that was filled out by the mother, it has been my favorite treasure seeing the love she poured into it, just had to share, add pictures of your home/their hospital/addresses/your family tree, photos of each holding your babies (just things she added that I adored!)
You are a terrific Mom! Megan, it is obvious in watching your vlogs that you have a "Beautiful Relationship" with your children. Keep in mind that today's cost of living requires a (2) income household! Absolutely love watching your vlogs! Thank you for sharing your family with us!
Love the baby book idea! I have yet to start my sons baby book and he was born the same day as Juni. Second kid problems… I’m determined it will get done though!
You can still do it! You’ve got this!
How do you like the subo feeder thingy? Contemplating getting one
Mum guilt is so real- no matter what you do I think it’s just one of those things you have when your a good mum- it’s just because we care so so much ❤
It’s awesome. Saving a ton on prepackaged stuff. Works great for yogurt and applesauce.
@@Matt_Acuna awesome Thankyou Matt :)
The mom guilt is real. I try to remind myself that I want to model to my child that I have a purpose outside of motherhood with work that brings me joy and is fulfilling. What a great example to set for them. As a result my time with them is more quality. I choose quality over quantity.
Also, I try to keep in mind one word -- presence. Be fully present when I am in my work flow so that when I am with my kid I can be fully present too. You're doing wonderful, Mama!
Yess mom guilt is so hard I work full time I’m at work for 9 1/2 hours 5 days a week but my job gets benefits and I do like working (sometimes) but I think part time would be so much nice but I don’t like part time jobs but I would love to spend some more time with my baby
I don't think our system is designed to make it easy for mom's to work. That's why, back in the day, most moms didn't work and they were the "housekeepers" in addition to constantly being around their children. I also think that society nowadays really emphasizes the term "busy" and the go-go-go lifestyle. Now people feel pressured to keep up with strangers that they don't even know. Life wasn't like that 50 years ago. Times were simpler and not as overwhelming (or as expensive) like they are today. Also, I think some people forget that when you become a mom and you also have a job/career -- you are now going to be working two jobs. Being a parent is a never-ending job that doesn't go away. It makes not being a parent truly look so easy.
Its really important to NOT feel like we need to choose between ambition/careers and motherhood. It is ok to be away from the kids for long or less to achieve whatever one needs to and be fulfilled.
I have a full time office job and need to feel less guilt about daycare too.
I also found it was difficult to find bigger clothes for my daughter as she gets older as well I find Facebook is best people sometimes sell in bulk and I just purchase that to get whatever I can, I live in Canada though so it may be different
I finished feeding with morning and night feeds only, then dropped to just before bed, it was a nice way to finish off
Yep. I work part-time, similar to your schedule. And there are days I feel bad too…mom guilt is real, it’s so strange! No matter what situation
We have a store called Once Upon a Child (Midwest region). I’m not sure if you have one in your area but it’s a resale store for everything baby and toddler and kids. It goes up to kids sizes for kids that are in late elementary school to early middle school I think. You definitely have to spend time weeding through to find the gems because there are some very odd choices that they have, but it does make finding the gems that much better. I hope you have one in your area!
We don’t have one but we have a Kid to Kid!
@@MeganAcuna We don’t have a Kid to Kid in our area but I’m guessing it’s probably similar! Good luck finding a good place to thrift for older kids sizes!
I was very lucky to stay home with my first daughter then 2 years later I had my second daughter and she has CF. Her (Cystic Fibrosis) CF doctor said it was not a good idea to be in daycare. We were very lucky that my husband could pick up overtime. When the girls were 4 & 2 I went to work three days a week and my dad watched the two girls. I was at work for almost a year and found out I was pregnant again. I had my third baby girl and she also has CF. I didn’t go back to work till my girls were older 15,13, & 10. I did feel like I was missing out with time and memories.
Aren’t you afraid of mold behind your shiplap in the bathroom? I am in the middle of a renovation and I would love shiplap but I am afraid that high humidity and shiplap don’t go too well together
Everyone gets mom guilt no matter their situation. My daughter just turned a year and I’ve been away from her less than 24 hours in total her entire life. I get major guilt that I’m not as present as I should be and I feel guilty for wanting so badly to get away from her sometimes.
Oh man! It really is universal. You’re doing great.
How much was the baby book when you ordered it?? They are definitely cute baby books 😊😊
I've got two boys (7 and 4 years), and yes, they do destroy everything. 😂 learning how th mend knees has helped with hand me downs, but everything is stained or worn though especially once preschool age hits. My daughter has not destroyed anything yet, but she is only 10 months old, so give her time . . .
Agree, once they get to 3-4 they wear through things faster especially boys and their knees. I had older worn clothes i kept for pre school as they just get trashed and kept nice stuff for weekends and outings.
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Did you give her yoghurt in a bottle? This is genius! Trying this tomorrow!
Its a special bottle for yoghurt, she talked about it in a previous video.
Childish Things and Kim’s Kiddie Korner! Childish Things is definitely more of a *fancy* consignment shop (pricing is closer to Target and not thrift prices) but they have some really nice high quality stuff. A lot of Quincy Mae, Jamie Kay, Kate Quinn, Northface, Patagonia etc. Older boy stuff is hit and miss but the girl stuff is 🤌🏻. Kim’s Kiddie Korner pricing is less than Childish Things but still slightly more than a typical thrift shop.
Can you share what paint color you painted the shiplap in your bathroom? 🥰
It’s Swiss Coffee by Benjamin Moore!
@@MeganAcuna thank you!!
I feel guilty as my kids are older and i have chosen to be a part time worker and be a pick up/drop off mum. Im definitely in the minority and feel judged and guilty as maybe i should work more. People always ask when im returning to work more hours. I think no matter what we do we second guess ourselves as a mum.