UPDATED Found My Wife of 5 Yrs Cheating. Made Excuses & Begs for 2nd Chance But I'm Divorcing Her...
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- When we met, Wendy took pictures of everything, primarily selfies of her with others. Knowing that she must have had some pictures of us from that time, I yanked the hard drive and looked at it. It seemed okay. The problem must have been somewhere else. Wanting to surprise her with pictures of when we first started dating, I waited until she left to go visit her sister before I plugged it into a SATA cable connector to my PC.
There were pictures there. Plenty of pictures. Some were of us on dates, laughing, smiling. They brought back some good memories. But there were also others of her with different people. One person in particular I remembered. His name was "Bob" and Wendy had dated him before me. There were lots of pictures of her and Bob. I wanted to grab only our pictures, so I thought the easiest way would be to organize them by date, figuring the latest pictures would be of only us.
But when I clicked them by date, a lot of her pictures with Bob were jumbled up with pictures of us. I began to open the pictures one by one and noticed that in a few of her pictures with Bob, where they were cuddling and kissing, she was wearing a necklace/locket that I had given her as a birthday present in the second year we were dating.
STORY:
Wife of 5 years cheated and now I feel absolutely nothing for her. Nothing... and that scares me (with updates)
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FIRST UPDATE 6:42
FINAL UPDATE 10:18
Glitch?
@@calculator4482 huh 🤔
@@lgixce884 I was watching a different video when this comment appeared pinned there so I was confused 🤦
I have read many of these supposed stories. They never mention that when their wife/gf comes home they are not glowing with a self satisfied smile, which denotes definite extra sensory sex.
@@lgixce884 ]
Daaaaamn gayle is a damn savage get a lawyer like Gayle if you been cheated on
I have a lawyer friend who has two personalities, she fun and friendly most of the time, then she enters lawyer mode and becomes an unfeeling nightmare, which is as hilarious as it is terrifying. You see she 5ft 7in in heels so most people (guys, generally) don't think much of her, which is a mistake, she was a drama kid and liked playing bad guys in high school so she knows how to command an audience. Most lawyers who know about her will push for settlement rather than fight in court because they know she will crush them. It funny to me because she once got out of skipping her homework by pretending to be a hamster, and she's the woman I will give any price she asks to give me a clean divorce.
@@chaosreaver3597 "she once got out of skipping her homework by pretending to be a hamster"
You can't just throw something out like this and not tell us the story.
@@l7986 Oh, that, I guess it's a question to people who don't know. It pretty much how it sounds, she couldn't be bothered with some homework so she pretended to be a hamster, the whole squeaking with the hand paw thing and our teacher let her off because he thought she was having a mental breakdown (I'm not sure if she was or not) so he was 120% done that day because of how she was behaving and gave everyone an extra day for their homework, mostly so he wouldn't have to talk to her.
Yeah, she'll make your case a breeze.😆😆😆😆
@@chaosreaver3597 lol dam wish she had been in school with me.
Every single time I read STBX, my mind interprets that as, shitbox. 🤣😅😂😆
Freudian slip? I think not!
I can't unthink that now. LOL.
Chef's kiss!😘👌
Not just a man but a warrior. She went from wife to enemy in a flash. Focused without distraction to strike. A good exercise,both professionally and personally could be empty handed defense. As an adjunct,professionally and personally, Sun Tsu The Art of War
Thank you Redditt! And thank you Reddit commentator. Long story short I got cheated on divorced, left. 20 years later got married to s wonderful woman. I use to think something was wrong with me because when I first found out about my XW I went numb. I wasn't angry I was never sad, and thought I was just a cold calculating SOB. The way you felt then described how I felt then. The person I thought I knew, I didn't. That person was never real. I use to think I died inside. And would wonder if I really loved the woman I'm currently married too. I do love her and we work hard at our relationship. My mindset when I met her has been a work in progress everyday. I think this attitude has kept me grounded with everything I do. However this post cleared up any and all doubt about me going NC. One friend once said to me going no contact is silence. Silence is the is the preferred method of punishment for narcissists. I know I'm not. I explained to that friend that my Stbx killed my soul. Since I'm dead what would be the point of talking.
Again thankyou.
Good look to you all
Well your a better man than me you still have not learn your lesson can't wait for your story here next on the second wife it nit yours it's just your time to get it smdh
I met my husband, Nick, in college. After graduation, we spent 5 years in a long distance relationship. I stayed in New York to work and go to grad school while he went to Washington state to work on a submarine for the US Navy. He was deployed five times. This was the hardest point in our relationship. We could write emails occasionally, but other than that, there’s no communication on a submarine. But, I knew that if we could get through that, we could get through anything. And we did. We finally got married, and the Navy moved us to Hawaii. I called this our “two year honeymoon” because we were finally together, and in paradise of all places! We got to make up for lost time. I was worried it would be difficult for us to go from hardly ever seeing each other to living together, in a new place where neither of us knew anyone. But starting over like that really helped us bond. After a few years, he had to go back on a submarine. We spent a lot of time apart during those years even though we “lived” in the same place. In the military, similar to long distance relationships, the lows can be low but the highs are so high. For me, the high was visiting Nick on a port call in Guam. And there is no better feeling than that homecoming hug. I wouldn’t have had these amazing experiences without the hard parts that came with them. Now we live near Washington, DC, with our baby girl, and Nick has no plans to deploy again!” Moreover I was able to track all phone activities using TRACKANDSPYCELL🟢ORG on google Totally untraceable, cheap and anonymous. Let him know I referred you.
Are first I thought he was overreacting but then when I found out they were engaged to be married when this was happening I began to understand his reaction. It's one thing for this to happen when you're still getting to know each other but it's completely different when you've decided to make a life together.
Second year of a relationship isn't really the 'getting to know them' period. It was completely wrong either way.
"Like an out-of-body experience."
Yeah I've been there. And that is exactly what it feels like.
All the cheating spouse Reddit videos I’ve watched have just made me glad I’ve never married. I haven’t even dated this century. Between the sheer number of dirtbags out there , and my early history of letting unworthy people into my life, I truly believe I am better off with just dear friends, and a few “toys” to take care of any physical needs.
Rethoric question... Why is thay Reddit (and Life) is full of cheating wife cases?
*spouse
Fixed it for you.
this guy has everyone around him with a sigma grindset. feels bad for todd :(
There is a special place in Hell for cheaters.
"It was a mistake"
Missing an appointment is a mistake. Not taking your medication on time is a mistake. Forgetting to set your alarm to wake you up is a mistake. Seeing another man behind your husband's back for the better part of your 5 year long marriage is not a mistake, it's a calculated and active decision on your part.
The o p is lucky that his wife wasn't making him raise somebody else's bastard children. He dodged a bullet
It was a mistake because she got caught. Try understanding what she was trying to say.
Yes I agree. There are too many points where she could have come clean. I think if someone cheats once and then immediately confesses then there is some hope. A continued affair is not a mistake.
Facts
@@benry007 Facts
“He made it clear to her on the phone that if she tries to come over, he’ll set his Dobermans on her”
Absolute madlad
Friend: "Come on in! Don't worry, they don't bite."
Me: _[Call my family to say that I love them]_
Release...the hounds
that was straight Savage
😂 😂 😂
@Morgan Pierce Get the truth expose that man he makes the rest of look bad. Also hope you find peace.
Badass Brother: “I’ll sick the Dobermans on ya”
Badass S-I-L: “Yeah. I married him.”
Badass Lawyer: “Was this a mistake?”
YOOOO Get you a supporting cast like this to ride and die for you!
They are the masters of one liners
bro the entire team is getting an standing ovation from this side.
Considering how other OPs had to deal with people telling them to forgive their cheating spouses..I say this OP won the jackpot here!
Having a quick wit is a talent I wish I had.
The A team.
She playing checkers While he’s playing death note.
@Morgan Pierce did you just docs someone?
@@thefool7093 I think that is a virus link.
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD
@Morgan Pierce nice bot
For anyone who actually fell for that what happened? Was it a virus? Also how did you make it back? Different device and account?
The guy is psychologically hardwired to encounter this kind of situation.
It's a You Go Guurl culture, so anything she feels is valid. Basically, women's lib is applied narcissism.
@ʆίϯϯʆε ƒɾεδ ɓյσɾηα A leech, a manipulator, and a terrible mind. She only saw opportunities with Op in case her “real” boyfriend dumps her. I’m assuming working in law can you a ton of money, and saw a opportunity to be with a law student until he is able to get into a big position. Probably meaning Wendy is a gold digger, a type that hides her real nature and plays the long game I guess?
@Gabrielle Boilard The last part of your comment applies to your sex. None of them are decent.
@Gabrielle Boilard, used to be that society shamed cheaters. Now, wahmen are supposed to be free to chase the tingles, while their meal ticket smiles and supports them.
@Gabrielle Boilard That's the past. This is now and if you think western society doesn't go to hell qnd back to please the whim and justify the behaviors and actions of women to somehow be on the right side, then you're disingenous at best, a liar at worst. A cheater is a cheater and cheaters are scum, this doesn't change regardless of the time, but the justification and excuses for one sex or the other does.
The Anti-Simp
OP is clearly a Vulcan.
@@joeking6762 sounds like a good band name
@@joeking6762 even more powerful than the anti-life equation.
Chris Chavez some of these simps NEED the anti life equation to be honest
Believe the anti simp is called a "chad"
Imagine being Gayle's husband/significant other. Has to be absolutely terrifying to know that at any moment lawyer Gayle can come out and just absolutely wreck your shit.
Bet you anything she's single.
How would ANY guy not ghost on the first date after finding out she's a divorce lawyer?
It'd be like dating a diagnosed pyromaniac who's a firefighter.
They know how to utterly destroy you because they know what would be looked for.
She's probably married to one
In my town the nastiest, meanest divorce lawyer attends our church. She has permanent resting bitch face. I've never seen her smile. Her husband is Mort Meek and I wouldn't doubt he is the primary parent to the kids. All that said, I'd hire this lawyer in a heartbeat if I needed representation in a divorce.
If he is a good man, then there is no reason to be terrified of anything. Having said that, there is always the concern that she might one day want to screw him over 'just because'.
Plot twist: Gayle's partner is also a lawyer
Flawless Victory. FATALITY!
Idek the guy and I was so proud
FLACTORY
YAY!!
FLEXTORY!!
Supreme victory, PERFECT
Wendy: “Isn’t there a guy in your background that just gets inside your head and you can’t say no?”
SIL: “Yes, I married him”
I love this response by SIL
Gigachad SIl
Hats off to Gayle the Cobra, vicious and deadly, everyone in a position like this needs a Gayle and kudos to OP he handled the situation with dignity, and clean cutting like an expert surgeon
Reference to the movie family man?
Gayle was a Cobra Kai student under John Kreese. Strike first, strike HARD. NO MERCY
If Gayle is a cobra then his wife is a viper with that that 4 words letal byte.
I think he disassociated from the whole thing. It happened to me before when I found out my gf was cheating. Something inside me just snapped and throughout all her gaslighting I just stared at her, no tears. Nothing. Told her to leave and stone-walled any attempt at talking.
Sorry you had to go through that, I hope you’re in a better place now. Cheaters are trash. :(
Fr bro , you can just feel the love being drain away , hope u good now
Same bro. You get icy af. I lost my ability to emotionally connect or trust anyone after the 2nd time I got cheated on.
That's the shock talking.
This is pathetic on both ends
Damn Gayle went hard (Wendy deserved it though so it's acceptable)
Also, SIL is legendary wife material. I wish her and his bro all the happiness.
The definition of power couple
Poor Todd, just trying to do his job. He is another victim here.
Yeah, he got roadkilled. He still got paid at least. I hope he didn't take the case on contingency lol
@@stevenwilson5556 e
It was a no win situation for Todd.
@@cflo1386 Yeah every lawyer has to take the L sometimes, shit case shit client even if your a grandmaster chess player if you have no pieces your gonna lose.
He probably knew from the start.. didn't care the least and just thought "easy money..not much..but easy"
Hell yeah! Not a spineless SIMP who justifies the action of his cheating partner! (Which I have heard a lot from other stories). Awesome!
That dude is an inspiration lol, imagine having no feelings at all towards your cheating ex. That’s probably one of the best outcomes you can hope for.
It is like fight-or-flight. Some flee, some tremble in fear, some lose consciousness, but some fight like cornered animals.
Something I aspire to be if im ever in a situation like this.... Great outcome of out a shitty situation
I'd be willing to bet that his attitude of indifference cut her in ways that angry heated reprisal never could.
@Diego Brando I'm afraid that he'll never be able to fall in love again. The amount of shock that is needed to do such things is just too great to be comprehensible. It can literally turn a human into a walking dead, with no emotions, no feelings, and no happiness whatsoever. I hope he can recover.
He might sometimes going numb is just a response to tune out your strong feelings
She refused to give up her phone,once that happened she knew it was all over.
I don't call them cheaters. I call them traitors. That's what they really are.
traitor would admit they had any loyalty in the first place. no the woman he loved is dead and disapeared.
actually a better term for them yes
True .. It is easy to cheat and .. All those dating / cheating sites and apps. Unfaithful wives will introduce other wives to this. There is this - dolled up Selfie selfish sexy princess mentality that has been promoted by the msm and the internet. Once they get involved in this - it's pretty much over. Her husband / boyfriend will be out of her league. They'll be lusting the dick merry-go-round.
Nah cheater is the correct term because cheating is heinous, the problem word is actually "mistake" its never a mistake its a poor fully conscious depraved decision
It is already in the most correct word that defines them. ;)
Most of these stories are depressing, but its nice to hear a story from, what I assume to be, a legendary badass.
nah it just conforte me in the idea to never get married
"None of this is fair because this is all a mistake".......nope. Everytime you kissed Bob was a CHOISE, everytime you (presumably) slept with Bob while your stbexh was at work was a CHOICE. The fact that you brazenly kept pictures of you a bob together WITH pictures of you and stbexh was a very stupid CHOICE but a CHOICE none the less. You can call it a mistake till you're blue in the face but at the end of the day? Everything that happened was a result of your CHOICES.
The only possible mistake made was willfully putting herself in a position to cheat in the first place. But even then, it's all a choice.
@Green Monster Can what a load of bull.
@Green Monster Can So by your “logic”, Men should also be able to kiss, cuddle, and sleep with other women and the girlfriend or wife shouldn’t be upset by that because it’s not “intimate” or “shows signs of feelings” and they’re “just jealous and controlling” for being upset in the first place too, right?? I mean it’s basically the same thing you’re saying with the girlfriend or wife kissing, cuddling and sleeping with other men. See how stupid that sounds? That’s exactly how what you said sounds like.
@Green Monster Can That’s still mildly inappropriate to be sleeping in the same bed with someone of the opposite sex who you’re not in a relationship with. The only exception would be if you’re related to them in some way or if you put a lot of distance between the two of you but I would find it extremely uncomfortable if I was sleeping in the same bed and was pretty much snuggling up with someone of the opposite sex who I wasn’t in a relationship with especially if I have a SO because that’s a betrayal of truth as well as respect to my SO’s boundaries. I would also feel disrespected and upset if I heard or saw that my SO was sleeping in the same bed with someone else of the opposite sex who they weren’t related to and practically snuggling up with them too because that go against what I see as appropriate and is overstepping my boundaries.
@Green Monster Can It’s because sleeping in the same bed should really only be reserved for the people who you have some kind of interested in or are married with, with the exceptions being that you’re related or you both make it so you both are not right beside each other because you both made it clear that you both don’t have interest in each other and you want to respect the other person’s boundaries, but if that isn’t the case, it can lead to other things if you’re not careful, especially if you don’t completely know what the other person’s intentions are(and by that I mean if that other person secretly has feelings or is wanting to take advantage of the moment if you know what I mean). Also if the other person is younger or older then you(like you’re a teen and they’re objectively an adult or vice versa), that’s also inappropriate and uncomfortable.
"Wendy was a No" bars my guy, Gayle is a saint and protector of the innocent!
"You can't just throw away 5 years!" bla..bla..bla.. Look who is talking.. LMAO 😂😂
Sister in Law with the ultimate Mic Drop answer.
I'm sure she'd complain that she only saw Bob because her husband was "working to much," that's the usual excuse, yes?
Of course, my answer to that is Get A Dog!
There are no excuses to cheat.
I can't wrap my head around being so lonely you gotta go screw others. I've been single last ten years, and I don't go desperately searching for a lay.
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj It’s not the feeling of lonely. No matter what position I could be put in, I wouldn’t cheat. And then there are people who go out of their way to cheat. That’s just how some people are. No matter what they do, they will always cheat again
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj My husband has been buried for 14 years. I have never considered getting married again. I say that if God wants me to remarry, he will have to hit me in the head with a crowbar and say "That's the one." 14 years and I have heard nothing from God yet. I am old enough that marriage holds no compelling draw.
Cheaters are a reservoir of denial and minimizing with their excuses and gaslighting.
"It was a mistake."
"It meant nothing."
"I don't love him (or her).
"You're the only one I love."
"It was just a fling."
"I was bored."
"You neglected me."
"I don't know why I did it."
and my personal favorite....
"You work too much."
Not an exhaustive list by any means, but these are probably the most common ones.
Or she could have kept her full-time teaching job and done night classes for her masters and doctorate. That would have kept her occupied. It always seems being idle is a problem in these stories, which is one reason I'm against stay at home parents if there aren't small children in the home. It leaves too much time available for mischief.
I think the most important part of that was where she refused to hand over her phone at the settlement conference. This proves 100% that she continued cheating when she was married. To connect the dots. She wanted reconciliation that was her aim, she claimed she had never cheated during her marriage. She was offered a chance to prove her claim, this in her mind would of been a win for her Yet what did she do refuse vehemently. If she had not cheated during marriage then the phone would of contained no evidence of this It would be a win for her a chance to reconcile which she wanted. In short logically the only reason for her to refuse is if the phone contained further evidence of her cheating. Otherwise she would of been happy to let them examine it and get a chance at what she wanted.
So it proves cheater cheat if they cheat on you once they will do so again. This bloke is lucky that he will never now the extent of how much she cheated and does not care.
Yeah but burner phones exist?🤷🏽♂️
@@brado3mini195 Which proves that she could not even be bothered to get one. It is interesting that the OP seems to have no inkling that throughout the 5 years of their marriage she continued with her affair or affairs and it only came out when things were over. Many men would of considered reconciliation or at least an attempt at it believing her assertions that "She never cheated when they were married" Given that people replace their phones every 2 to 3 years or less she was continuing her cheating even to the present day.
In all honesty that would have likely been her only chance to get him to talk to her if they happened to find nothing on the phone.
@@Patrick__M Exactly and since she structured her demands at the settlement conference to achieve this if she was not continuing to cheat then she should of been eager to do so.
I have to say full marks to his lawyer for jumping on this. I do not know if he had any suspicions that she was cheating whilst she was married as he never mentions it and his motivation is the proof that she was cheating whilst engaged but it obviously never stopped.
When something like this occurs it becomes hard to dispel the once a cheater always a cheater sayings but at the end I feel sorry for his lawyer. She is obviously a great divorce lawyer but what must her attitude to marriage be like and what must her mindset be like to go straight to the well if you cheated before marriage you cheated during marriage. Kind of hard to have any relationship dealing with disgusting people like this everyday. I hope he brought her some flowers.
@Morgan Pierce Nice Free Advert given your grammar I am guessing either a low IQ or a foreign scammer. Either way why would you hire a PI who literally lives in a foreign country. Not that it matters I am guessing anyone who sent you money would never hear from you again well unless you ask for more money.
I need someone like this to legally represent me
Never marry, and you'll never need to.
@@sodone466 To be fair he never said he needed him to represent him in divorce court.
@@team3gaming749 That's fair, but still, never marry.
@@sodone466 ur name says it all 😂 and yes thats a good advice g 🥲👌
Don't cohabitate either since that would also count as living together i.e. "marriage" in some countries/states.
👏👏👏👏👏Gayle...aka shark lawyers and to OP, his brother, brother's Doberman and to SIL. Flawless execution of a divorce.
Emotional flashburn, happens to a lot of guys. It's like a mental bandage, there to protect the wound from further aggravation. It's good in that it will allow him to act without emotions clogging things up but the downside is it's unreliable, you never know when it's gonna slip off and then he's gonna emotionally meltdown. If he sticks to no-contact it'll probably hold up until something changes, like paperwork is signed or she gives up and just goes away, some emotional landscape has to shift essentially.
Happens to a lot of women also. Me included.
Basically you temporarily become a robot
@@redders6858 what an unnecessary comparison😂🤲🏾
@@redders6858 story?
Usually, when something crazy happens to me it takes a few months for me to process it and feel the feelings that come along.
That lawyer op has, is awesome!!!!!! How she put his wife lying in her place. We need more post like that.
Wendy: *gets caught cheating*
Also Wendy: How are you going to throw away 5 years of marriage!
No honey. You threw away 5 years of marriage the minute you laid with another man who wasn't your husband. And did it repeatedly nonetheless.
Yup, the relationship is already in the trash. He's just refusing to go dumpster diving to pull the broken disgusting thing out and try to salvage it.
_”Isn’t there a guy in your background that just gets inside your head and you can’t say no?”_
_”Yes, I married him.”_
Roflol, that is so epic. I wish I could’ve seen the look on OP’s wife’s face when his sister-in-law said that.
I knoooow! The SIL has all of my respect! That answer was pure perfection!
SIL a savage
where ? can you give me the timestamp ?
@@abdullahbinjahed6900 It starts at 8:44.
Guaranteed that she was trying to get a member of the sisterhood to sympathize and side with her to normalize her shitty behavior. Glad the SIL shut her down with an epic response.
“He made it very clear to her if she comes he’ll set his Dobermens on her.”
That brothers a real G
His brother wife was also awesome
Lesson of the story: get a friend like Gayle in your life.
And have a family like his lol
Correcting myself: everybody here was the damm MVP. OP's absolute transcendent state of mind, the sister's response, the brother's "absolutely pissed off guy" attitude, and the perfect and unbeatable Gayle the viper.
Wholesome
A group of fcking units!! Everybody should get a support system like them
The opposite of love is not hatred, but it is indifference. This guy may have wasted five years on the cake eater but now, he is free to heal and improve himself, not to mention that clear victory he had over the cake eater. Never take a cheater back. They are never remorseful.
Not true
A study posted on YT by alexander grace shows that the more remorseful the women is at making a certain mistake, the more likely she'd make it again.
ua-cam.com/video/VNjoc1aOGK4/v-deo.html
@@Ivellios23 that's interesting. No wonder cheaters cheat again and again.
They are only remorseful when they are caught.
She's been cheating for the entire marriage
According to a DM with the OP
You messaged the OP on Reddit?
@@stevenwilson5556 ye
I listened to this again. It got me : She was wearing her engagement ring while she was cheating with the other guy? That's cold.
Guys don't marry, even women admit there is no benefit for a guy to do so,
What if she makes more money, doe?
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj then your smv is against you, she shall at some point realise it and likely execute project hypergamy,
@@smartchip Then you get alimony.
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj hell shall freeze first,,
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj Hypergamy is like Order 66 for women.
12:00 - 13:10 Gayle demonstrated what a legal beat-down looks like.
"Flawless victory!"
Fatality 😂😂😂
KO "Perfect"
Lol...SIL's response @ 9:00 was worthy of a mic drop. 😂
Cheating on a spouse isn't just a mistake, it's a multitude of mistakes.
More accurately a series of deliberate choices which is now regretted.
Anyone who uses the term "mistake" for cheating, especially continuous cheating, they're refusing to accept their fault for the situation. It is more than a choice it is a series of choices
When I decided to divorce my first wife for her infidelity I got the same numb feeling. I referred to it mentally as her “burning the love right out of me”
I call it "broken shock" where you are in shock because of intense trauma. I called it broken cause it happens when I get "broke" and its has a certain feeling to me
Revenge is a dish best served cold and OP is a master of it without even trying.
And if I'm honest, he doesn't need to talk to her. That's for guys with unresolved feelings, his feelings seem pretty damn resolved to me.
She just needed an ATM to fund her school and life. You were nothing more than wallet while she went out to get dug out elsewhere
"Yes, I married him"
needed a second to recover from this burn myself
Alpha move
Yup she never loved him he was just a meal ticket. This is their way, if your not making enough money your not a good enough provider, if you work a lot of hours to provide then she isn't getting enough attention. Either way they will be looking for someone else. Relationships with most women are a lose lose.
True facts
Big facts
Gayle must have been in a psychic trance when she asked to see Wendy's phone; I'd have NEVER thought of that. Brilliant!
Why do cheaters take pictures while cheating? I mean...seriously!
Finally.. An actual man.
"I felt nothing"
Most Vulcans aspire all their lives to achieve this.
But seriously, I hope OP takes up boxing or lifting or some other fitness. The anger will come out eventually, best to defuse it sooner. And getting in the best shape of his life is always good. Best of luck to OP, and the less said about his trash ex, the better.
Gayle and SiL had the best clapbacks ever!
The Mass Effecf music in the background keeps me coming back... it remind me of better days subconsciously. Lol
She clutches her phone. Lul.
Myyyy preeesssscccciouuuuusssssss………
CHECKMATE!
I know reddit discougages real names / info but I think Gayle could make ALOT of clients off of this with that complete owning of the divorce case for the guy
I am really happy for this guy. Wendy doesnt know how to be faithful, she will always fail in this area. He will come out on top once the divorce is final
Best one yet😊
Cheating on someone who finished law school? Brave.
"There's a line between bravery and stupidity, General."
I've become so numb
I can't feel you there
Become so tired
So much more aware
I'm becoming this
All I want to do
Is be more like me
And be less like you
Exactly my opinion on the first story....
Gayle is a Boss!!!
"Yes. I married him."
Savage.
This guy is going to get screwed in the divorce! Full time student and part-time worker. He’s going to be paying her for years.
Edit: This guy is so lucky. Most men mope around and do the pick me dance. And they don’t have access to a top notch attorney. Glad he walked away intact.
Only in some places
Having that top notch attorney in your corner in a divorce doesn't hurt you.
Separation or revenge really goes much more smoothly when you can set aside your emotions.
Someone who's betrayed you loud and clear does not deserve your emotions. Now they are obstacles you need to overcome or neutralize.
This guy did everything by the book. Cold, methodical, and decisive just how it should be.
Too bad OP can't sue her for fraud because that is what the relationship was-from the first date to present.
I wonder if cheaters ever feel remorse.
They're only sad that they got caught and their security blanket/meal ticket got burned.
Oh some cheaters do when their affair partner turns into not being so loving or supportive after the first few months to a year. They say shit what did I do. And the bridge they crossed over was burned down. Lol. Best revenge male or female is moving on and doing much better.
The dumbest cheaters are the ones who cheat on a spouse whose a lawyer
Forget pit viper, She went full blown Titanoboa!
That was a wonderful idea getting old pictures off of the hard drive but ouch that sucks finding out like that.
I didn't cheat after we got married.! Even if that was true it's a deal breaker. Also the prove it then and her clutching her phone and saying no. I loved the part her lawyer told her she just admitted she's still been cheating and probably recently as well.
"M-M-M-M-MONSTER KILL!" /Unreal Tournament.
@Noneya Business Man, I miss those games. I used to play UT'99 as a kid, and then got hooked into 2003/2004.
Didn't have the specs for III at the time, but apparently I didn't miss much.
I love my wife. Not all the money in the world would be enough to pay me to give her up. But if she cheats on me she is gone and i would not give a dime to get her back.
This is a man who has his shit together. No drama bs, quick to ask for help and advice, quick to sort out his priorities and make a plan. He handled the situation so thoroughly and I’m so happy he’s doing better. Seeing a therapist just in case there’s any loose ends to tie up too. I have so much respect for this guy.
Lmao Wayne Gretzky VS a second string high school goalie with a slow glove hand
This guy is delusional if he thinks he's over what happened. The emotions will hit him eventually. Even if it's only anger. Otherwise, he's stone-cold. Sounds like this witch was cheating while they were dating and during the marriage. Sadly, this relationship was real only for him. Cheating is an unforgivable sin and although I've heard some have managed to stay married, I don't see how that's possible.
I'm glad OP managed to escape that bad situation, and that he's surrounded by friends and family-members who love and support him. OP deserves to be with someone who'll actually be loyal to him.
The inner warrior within me admires your cold ruthlessness.
lmao, there's always a Bob
Gave "Thot-slayer" a whole new meaning
"Gayle" is MVP dang lol XD
I'm not a hockey fan, but I loved that Wayne Gretzky analogy
'Hand over your phone and I'll have my IT guy copy all contents including contents of all logged in accounts.'
Man, that was a killer move.
Asking for her phone was an all pro move!!!
Once i was cheated hard,after that i simply ignored her..Didn’t tell her whats the cause..Now after 10-12 years she still text me,ask what was her fault😑..All i hear about her crappy marriage..Im still searching for my soulmate, but atleast im not being cheated by someone
The reason you don't feel anything, is because you are a "high functioning" sociopath. I was told I was a high functioning sociopath because during my divorce I felt absolutely nothing after 17 yrs. of marriage.As soon as she told me she wanted a divorce I just thought in my mind, if she thought long enough to go for a divorce she must really not want me. Click, I was done. Later found out she did really not want a divorce she just thought I would ask her how I should change for her. Her mother's advice was she could always marry me again if I took too long to change. Like a regular man, I don't know the rules to fricken mind games so I just walked away after the divorce. Makes for a very happy man!!!
No. Men have a switch inside them (when hit) stops emotions all together. That switch can only be flipped when a certain amount/kind of trauma hits him.
"Dont throw 5 years away over a mistake"
uh, you mean like how she threw their 5 year marriage away repeatedly? It was a choice she made consistently, but rules for 'thee and not for me', right?
I know it’s sad but i laughed at bob is a Jedi and Wendy is weak minded
I love seeing women finally getting screwed over in a separation.
It needs to happen much more often.
For equality.
Finally a man I can be proud to say has a spine and a pair. Too many times i hear these post and it's some beta male taking their wives or gf BACK, wanting to know why they cheated or wants opinion on what to do after the wife or GF banged everyone except the local dog catcher. This is a man, he ripped the bandage off in 1 move and proceeds to live a better life. TG for people like you, it give me some hope for western society survival.
I know this is one year late but... Wow! Best comment in this video... I am really sick of all those posts on reddit about "My wife/Girlfriend/Fiance cheated on me with whoever/everyone and is having an affair for whatever/many amount of time... What should I do?" If you are so stupid and need to ask what you have to do, do nothing and stay with the cheater, you deserve her... Invite the AP to your house and share her, maybe you will fall in love with AP too, who knows. No amount of love, not even children would have you to stay with a cheater, even more if it was a long affair. Disclaimer: an only a ONE time mistake that was confessed immediately and real remorse is promptly shown, might (and that's a big MIGHT) be worked on.
This of OP feeling nothing is something I have experienced before.
I guess it's when you feel an emotion to such an extreme/is too strong that it just empties you.