Thank you for the brilliant advice. When my brother and I meet once a year, the topic of my dad’s mistakes and selfishness always comes up and deepens our wounds. This time I will stop and change the direction of the discussion and remember dad for his good deeds and forgive him as maybe he was not loved enough by his parents
The 7 secrets that parents should keep with the children are thoughtful. I was under the impression that we must be transparent to our children and should not hide anything. I realize after listening that we need to be silent on certain aspects of our life. Truly enlightening!
I am on my early 70's now with some health issues already, I spend all my hard earned money with my youngest son who suffered cancer at his adolescent years. He is now free of cancer. My eldest unmarried daughter takes care of me. Most of the time I feel so alone and just maintained my silence never complaining. Someday before my final day come I will show them this narrative of yours for them to be guided in their older life. Thank you for your statement❤❤.
I love the point about fostering independence in children and avoiding comparisons. It’s so crucial to let them grow into their own selves without added pressure.
This channel has taken me back to re-examining my life and how I have been parenting. I have learnt so much and have become so addicted. I am grateful for the opportunity to correct what I still can and accept what I can no longer change.
So True. I find it difficult to ask financial aid from my children because they have families to look after. However I appreciate every gesture they willingly offer me. Thanks, that's encouraging.
One of the best ever contemplative video(s) I have watched. Thank you so much. Your thoughts reflect my own 10/10. I never blamed my parents for my misfortunes in life. I believe, good or bad, while I was under their care, is nothing but a fruit of my own karma for which I cannot blame anybody, never my parents who always did their best keeping our best interests in mind. Thank you so much. I am 70+.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. It’s truly inspiring to hear your perspective, and it’s clear that you’ve gained a lot of wisdom from your experiences. Your ability to take responsibility and recognize the role of personal karma in shaping your life is both profound and admirable. I’m glad this video resonated with you, and I appreciate your kind words. Wishing you continued peace and fulfillment on your journey!
It is indeed a very good life experience in maintenance of our healthy atmosphere of a good family. This type of lecture will help in maintaining peace & harmony in the family in particular and widely in good governance in Nation building which means World peace.Many many for the producer of this wonderful video.
This Video is Just Superb....No words to describe it's beauty and the way in which it tackles the daily inherent and the dashing scenarios coupled with various fighting aspects with its daily ways and means of today's challenging lives of children vis_a_ vis_parents..Just a Big Salute and Kudos to your Marvelous Wide Eye Opener Breath-taking Golden video filled with golden words.Thanks Many Many....Again and Again in numberless times....
Thank-you much for these 7 points you have raised to help us especially me that will help me in my approach to my children. These I see the stepping stones to all aspects in life if we wanting smooth life and struggles brought down to our children and their children children's. Family ties will be strong and stronger as the generation moves on leaning on these rules. Thank-you.
Thank you so much, your video speaks volumes, appreciate it and would put them into practice.watching from the Caribbean Island 🏝️ of St Kitts and Nevis 🇰🇳
The first two are GOLD. At the Age of 50 I recognised about being raised by Narcissistic Mom. I learnt the dynamics and it was too much. I lost my spouse 15 years ago to Cancer and learnt that he was one too. I thought that opening up these dynamics would help my son then 23 understand these kind of people around. But instead he began to see me as the problem. He was confused and he felt it was time to leave this family for good. I am 52 and learnt my lesson. I told the TRUTH, may be he will understand some day or may be never. Hiding everything and pretending ALL is WELL is also difficult for me.
I resonate with near enough everything you have written , except mines is a daughter and my husband passed 14 years ago, and I stupidly thought I will share , but that slapped me, our children have to learn, just like we did way back . Keep Lifted Blessings
I feel so bad after seeing this. I've made every mistake mentioned in this video. I will beg my younger child to forgive me. Thank you for sharing this wonderful message. If only I would have known. No parent is perfect.
I completely understand how you’re feeling. It's really tough to look back and see the mistakes we’ve made, but the important thing is that you’re reflecting and wanting to make things right. It’s never too late to work on repairing relationships and making positive changes. Your willingness to seek forgiveness and grow is a big step in the right direction. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being so open.
Don't beg that will get thrown in your face to . We done our best, and it will never be good enough until they learn the lessons themselves. Keep Lifted Blessings
BE CAREFUL YOU CHILDREN WILL TURN ON YOU ESPECIALLY IF THERE IS MONEY ,LAND INVOLVED, SCREW THE BASTARDS AND ENJOYED WHAT YOU GOT, SPENT IT, TAKE IT FROM ME.
Thank you for your comment and for sharing the same perspective! It's wonderful to see that we both live by Christian values. I hope we can continue to inspire each other on this meaningful journey. Wishing you peace and many blessings!
Brilliant and very useful.I find that many advices suggested here are being followed by me from time I retired from service,and even before that and I am enjoying the fruits of those.Wishing everyone a happy and healthy life.
Yes but what if you had an abusive marriage and separated from your husband what do you tell your children than? The child has suffered abuse at certain extent too.
Thank you for sharing positive thoughts and good wisdom that are so beneficial to both parents and children. May you continue to share wisdom that are beneficial to everyone. Praying for your good deeds and well being of your Family. God bless you.❤
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Thank you for the brilliant advice. When my brother and I meet once a year, the topic of my dad’s mistakes and selfishness always comes up and deepens our wounds. This time I will stop and change the direction of the discussion and remember dad for his good deeds and forgive him as maybe he was not loved enough by his parents
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Bitter truth......to be noted by all senior citizens......
The 7 secrets that parents should keep with the children are thoughtful. I was under the impression that we must be transparent to our children and should not hide anything. I realize after listening that we need to be silent on certain aspects of our life. Truly enlightening!
thank you
I just realize how many mistakes I’ve made. Better later than never. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom.
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I am on my early 70's now with some health issues already, I spend all my hard earned money with my youngest son who suffered cancer at his adolescent years. He is now free of cancer. My eldest unmarried daughter takes care of me. Most of the time I feel so alone and just maintained my silence never complaining. Someday before my final day come I will show them this narrative of yours for them to be guided in their older life. Thank you for your statement❤❤.
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Great counsel here.....thanks for sharing this incredible talk.
Iam 64 yrs old and find this helpful.
I love the point about fostering independence in children and avoiding comparisons. It’s so crucial to let them grow into their own selves without added pressure.
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Yes🙏
Yes
This channel has taken me back to re-examining my life and how I have been parenting. I have learnt so much and have become so addicted. I am grateful for the opportunity to correct what I still can and accept what I can no longer change.
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world
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Thanks, same to you.
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Thank you and a blessed life to you & your family 🙏
I'm happy I stumbled into this. I'm 64 and I was greatly blessed and intend to Practice what I've just learned.
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yes this talk was very helpful to live the golden years peacefully and gracefully. Thank you!
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So True. I find it difficult to ask financial aid from my children because they have families to look after. However I appreciate every gesture they willingly offer me. Thanks, that's encouraging.
Thank you so much. I am very glad that you liked it. I wish you good luck in life.
One of the best ever contemplative video(s) I have watched. Thank you so much. Your thoughts reflect my own 10/10. I never blamed my parents for my misfortunes in life. I believe, good or bad, while I was under their care, is nothing but a fruit of my own karma for which I cannot blame anybody, never my parents who always did their best keeping our best interests in mind. Thank you so much. I am 70+.
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Erudite , scholarly and profoundly philosophical.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. It’s truly inspiring to hear your perspective, and it’s clear that you’ve gained a lot of wisdom from your experiences. Your ability to take responsibility and recognize the role of personal karma in shaping your life is both profound and admirable. I’m glad this video resonated with you, and I appreciate your kind words. Wishing you continued peace and fulfillment on your journey!
Thank you very much for the awakening thoughts you shared...May God bless you..
Very true.. No one is perfect.. Do nit judge harshly.. just give love always.
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Very great inspired message. Thanks so much indeed and God bless you.
thank you
Thank you for this wonderful explanation of growing older with patience and love. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
I am seventy five years old. I learnt some important words from you which inspired me to think about new steps for the time to come .Thank you.
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I found this talk very Motivational and helpful, these are facts we should instill in our minds as we grow older (66yrs old) thank you
Yes. Very inspiring. Your teaching is wonderful
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Yes. This made me feel So Happy. It is So True. We are such a Wonderful Family. Thank you
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Yes , 👍 indeed valuable sharing
Yes. I am glad I ticked most of the boxes in your video. God bless.
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Golden Life Nuggets. Thanks for sharing
Thank you
Very good analysis and advice. I am 74 and happy with my spouse and children.
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Yes, learnt new things about ageing. What a marvelous teaching?
Wonderful!
Yes. A very wise approach to senior age communication. Thanks very much from someone beyond 75 years.
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Great advice! We all need to be reminding and encouraging each other to follow the path of growing old with grace
Thank you! It's so important to support one another on this journey of aging gracefully.
I face so many complicated questions, better keep silent,each child God knows his or her destiny.
Thank you so much. Wishing you happiness and peace always.
It is indeed a very good life experience in maintenance of our healthy atmosphere of a good family. This type of lecture will help in maintaining peace & harmony in the family in particular and widely in good governance in Nation building which means World peace.Many many for the producer of this wonderful video.
Yes i fully agree to this wisdom..and will surely follow .
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This is utterly brilliant and beautiful
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I have a foundation which needs these comments, they are indeed useful for our generations now.
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17:20 yes was very educatived learned so much thanks.
Yes. Very beautifully articulated and explained.
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Thank you for this wisdom ❤
Yes,Well said about power of silence at this stage of life, thanks
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Yes indeed
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This Video is Just Superb....No words to describe it's beauty and the way in which it tackles the daily inherent and the dashing scenarios coupled with various fighting aspects with its daily ways and means of today's challenging lives of children vis_a_ vis_parents..Just a Big Salute and Kudos to your Marvelous Wide Eye Opener Breath-taking Golden video filled with golden words.Thanks Many Many....Again and Again in numberless times....
Thank you so much. I am very glad that you liked it. I wish you good luck in life.
This was such an eye-opening video! It’s great to hear perspectives on keeping certain things private for the sake of family harmony
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yes. Well said. Thank you for sharing such inspiring guidelines. God Bless
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Thank you so much for enlightenment. Really very valuable video ❤
@@rajitha2207 yes. Thank you
I shared this with my children even though they are 40 something. I think it is excellent advice.
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Thanks a lot for this valuable information which will assist me to protect my Children's mental health. To ensure a better future for them 🙏
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Yes, it is a masterpiece.Thank you
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Praise worthy guide- lines, pleasantly narrated.
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Nice very truly describe, this is right way to tackle the circumstances.
Thanks a lot
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This video provides so much valuable wisdom for older adults. The insights on maintaining healthy boundaries with children are truly eye-opening
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Yes, thanks.
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Thank you for sharing this awesome video ❤l will do my best not to share too much of my past experiences with my children.
Yes it gives a lot of realizations..and one can contemplate..thank you
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Yes. Very useful advices
Yes, thank-you for your advice
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Excellent understanding of relationships and ways to make it better. I can relate my life with the suggestions. Thanks
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Very appreciative message!
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Incredible video. and incredible advice! Very good!!!
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Agree with this wisdom and logic.
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Yes, this is quite clear of how we should live peacefully with our children, such a good and touching video. I have learnt a lot.
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It is so nice to hear such advice. I for sure have learned a lot from this message
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Thank-you much for these 7 points you have raised to help us especially me that will help me in my approach to my children. These I see the stepping stones to all aspects in life if we wanting smooth life and struggles brought down to our children and their children children's. Family ties will be strong and stronger as the generation moves on leaning on these rules.
Thank-you.
Thank you so much. I am very glad that you liked it. I wish you good luck in life.
This is excellent advise and well written. Thank you for sharing .
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Thank you so much, your video speaks volumes, appreciate it and would put them into practice.watching from the Caribbean Island 🏝️ of St Kitts and Nevis 🇰🇳
The first two are GOLD. At the Age of 50 I recognised about being raised by Narcissistic Mom. I learnt the dynamics and it was too much. I lost my spouse 15 years ago to Cancer and learnt that he was one too. I thought that opening up these dynamics would help my son then 23 understand these kind of people around. But instead he began to see me as the problem. He was confused and he felt it was time to leave this family for good. I am 52 and learnt my lesson. I told the TRUTH, may be he will understand some day or may be never. Hiding everything and pretending ALL is WELL is also difficult for me.
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May God be with you
@@maragaretgauci3751 Thank you
I resonate with near enough everything you have written , except mines is a daughter and my husband passed 14 years ago, and I stupidly thought I will share , but that slapped me, our children have to learn, just like we did way back .
Keep Lifted Blessings
@@karenmcardle142 Thanks for sharing. One of the most painful exp I have ever gone through. Due to all these dynamics, I am alone and isolated.
Yes this talk is real good and educative. Helps us to maintain a good relationship with our children. Thanks.
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Yes. Very educative. I'm inspired
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Suggestions are very useful. Thanks for this vlog.
My pleasure 😊
I like how you give an example for each point.
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Thank you for sharing your wisdom, it's important to let them grow their own lives, an learn from their mistakes,
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Yes. Very good advice.
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Yes! Thank you for this program, theres a lot i have learn how to get on with this life in our old age. Its good to know , and thanks again.
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Have just subscribed it's inspiring with alot o knowledge I will share with my families. Be blessed abundantly.
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Thanks so much for the pieces of advice for the old, I am in my 70 + and I have learnt alot from you, may God help our old age.
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I feel so bad after seeing this. I've made every mistake mentioned in this video. I will beg my younger child to forgive me. Thank you for sharing this wonderful message. If only I would have known. No parent is perfect.
Thank you so much. Wishing you happiness and peace always.
I completely understand how you’re feeling. It's really tough to look back and see the mistakes we’ve made, but the important thing is that you’re reflecting and wanting to make things right. It’s never too late to work on repairing relationships and making positive changes. Your willingness to seek forgiveness and grow is a big step in the right direction. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being so open.
Don't beg that will get thrown in your face to . We done our best, and it will never be good enough until they learn the lessons themselves.
Keep Lifted Blessings
BE CAREFUL YOU CHILDREN WILL TURN ON YOU ESPECIALLY IF THERE IS MONEY ,LAND INVOLVED, SCREW THE BASTARDS AND ENJOYED WHAT YOU GOT, SPENT IT, TAKE IT FROM ME.
Thanks for guiding us on right path
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Thank you for this valuable information.
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Yes quite informative. As a Christian my practice is the values from that perspective as well.
Thank you for your comment and for sharing the same perspective! It's wonderful to see that we both live by Christian values. I hope we can continue to inspire each other on this meaningful journey. Wishing you peace and many blessings!
Celebration of individuality admire creativity resilience n determination who they are
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Brilliant and very useful.I find that many advices suggested here are being followed by me from time I retired from service,and even before that and I am enjoying the fruits of those.Wishing everyone a happy and healthy life.
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Yes i am happy and tgankful listening the above message.
Sorry. Thankful.
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Yes but what if you had an abusive marriage and separated from your husband what do you tell your children than? The child has suffered abuse at certain extent too.
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Exactly one cannot hide such negativity especially when abuse happens as they watch or overhear for years.
@@sherahm.inspires9969 Thank you. Everything will be ok
The child will come to their own conclusion.
You done what you needed to do .
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VERY NICE AND POWERFUL MESSAGES. EVERY PARENT NEED TO HEAR THIS.
I HAVE LEARNT A LESSON TO CORRECT SOME MISTAKES.
GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU.
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Excellent suggestions!
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Very nice presentation for everyone.
Thanks for liking
This video is great for ANY age!!!
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Yes,well said msg & explained
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Wise advice, thank you
Yes, very educational and inspirational.
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I have my peace of mind by respecting my children's rights
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Very inspiring piece. Really thought provoking. Thanks .
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Yes very informative indeed
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Thk u for sharing. I am blessed with your sharing.
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Good worth e m ulaating.thanks
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Yes, and thanks be blessed for your time.❤
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Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
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Yes, most helpful
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I’m glad.. that I also believe in those ideas… Thank you God!!
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Very helpful in deed
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An impactful message for all married individual
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Inspiring and good advice.
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Thank you for sharing positive thoughts and good wisdom that are so beneficial to both parents and children. May you continue to share wisdom that are beneficial to everyone. Praying for your good deeds and well being of your Family. God bless you.❤
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Very inspiring. Yes it's very helpful to everyone.
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