3:15 ALL relationships are reciprocal. NO man, regardless of how "good" he is, will participate in a relationship where they get nothing out of it. Any man that gives everything without expectation of return is a fool (a simp), and not a good man. A good man, will not make demands, but that doesn't mean he doesn't expect you to do your part just as he is doing his. But do KNOW he DOES have expectations. And if his expectation are not met, he will most likely check out of the relationship. 7:00 Nothing Jane says here is wrong, but I feel like her focus is on the behavior, rather than refining people's understanding. I feel like understanding is more important, so people can make better choices without step by step instructions. What a lot of women don't understand, is that a men experience sex drive, in the same way that they do hunger. It's a base biological need, and imperative. For us, desire is a sexual hunger, different men have different appetites and metabolisms for sex, and therefore different needs and tolerance for deprivation. BUT NO man can survive forever without some kind of sexual release. If we don't have a partner to do it, and don't do it ourselves, our bodies do it for us in our sleep. Men, WILL release. The questions women should be asking, are where, when and with whom. A GOOD man, will NEVER force you to feed him. But if you don't feed a good man, he'll go be a good man for someone that will. A GOOD man will NEVER force himself on a woman who doesn't desire him, BUT... IF he IS a good man... WILL BE DESIRED by someone. It's a common saying that "men are dogs", and it's often used as an insult, in an attempt to shame men who want to have sex. However, most people understand they have to feed their dog. And most dog owners know if you feed your dog, and give it affection, they will be your most loyal companion for life. I'm JSUT saying... that many women treat their men worse than they would the family dog that has the same basic needs. Feeding the dog might be a chore some times, but that is part of your responsibility as a dog owner. You don't resent your dog for getting hungry, but many of you resent your husbands for deeply desiring to be with you. A good man, that has his needs met, and feels loved by his wife, will be aspirational. He will walk with confidence. He will push ahead in his career, so he can earn more money to support you better. He will be attentive to your needs and desires. He will do everything in his power to protect you (even if sometimes you don't like it). He will love you sacrificially. Meaning, he will place your needs ahead of his own, and may even compromise his health to ensure you don't have to. He will do all these things, because the love of a good woman, makes a man feel like the immortal main character in a super hero story. Dogs will fight bears for the person that feeds them. Men will fight the world. So many women ask "where have all the good men gone?". They didn't go anywhere... they're scattered around you everywhere. The problem is in your eyes, they're just mangy neglected starving dogs, that haven't been loved a day in their lives. But women expect to just find a healthy dog, with a gleaming coat, that is super loyal to them just wandering around on the street. That's not how that works. You pick one that isn't afraid of you, and you take care of it. 11:50 100%. Having respect, means you have value. When a man feels valued, he feels loved. You cannot express love to a man, if you do not express respect for a man. If you are disrespectful, it doesn't matter what else you do, he will not feel loved. I quit a job, that I worked at for 5 years, because 1 manager told me 1 time, that "We don't need you, we would be just fine without you." I quit that same day. Called the other manager, and told them I wouldn't be there the next day (for my double shift).
What you wrote is amazing ❤ you could probably be a book writer. But I think you need to spell check. SOME of your words are misspelled and one of them in all CAPS..😊 I DO A LOT OF WRITING ON QUORA AND I ALWAYS PROOFREAD BEFORE I PUSH THE FINAL BUTTON, BECAUSE WHEN A PERSON READS WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY AND THEY FIND MISSPELLED WORDS IT LOWERS YOU IN THERE ESTIMATION. So if it's possible you should edit the few words You misspelled because it would definitely make your words shine even brighter.🎉❤🎉
Heard🙏💯💖 value is in the spirit of the golden rule ✨️ reciprocity without expectation, which is automatically given when both parties are whole within themselves. Show your love 💯💖 God knows everyone, n33ds 2b shown lov3 it does not make us weak...showing lov3 makes us 💪💪💪 👑👑💯🙏💖💛💛💛👉🎁❣️ Thank God for you 👑💯🙏💖
So true Nikki… I only hope people will come to embrace their vulnerability without fear of losing their very essence be it in their feminine or masculine essence
@@JaneLawrence I salute you 👏 I pray that more people 🙏 trust themselves like God does so that they live for the people places and things that truly feed them mind body and soul bc it's the only way 2b🙏💯💖 Many blessings go hidden and left unseen by those people who are not brave enough to b true to themselves without apology for triggering anyone else who may feel bothered by the light that shines in the dark💯 Thank you 444 shining in the dark 🙏💯💖
This sounds too serious honestly, if you can sound more casual people will get the point, but it’s hard to understand the message you are trying to pass across because the tone is kind of too firm.
@@JaneLawrence thank you 🙏🏾 I am an avid follower and I have watched a lot of your videos which is why I called this one out. Felt like you were scolding me or something 🫠☹️
3:15 ALL relationships are reciprocal. NO man, regardless of how "good" he is, will participate in a relationship where they get nothing out of it. Any man that gives everything without expectation of return is a fool (a simp), and not a good man. A good man, will not make demands, but that doesn't mean he doesn't expect you to do your part just as he is doing his. But do KNOW he DOES have expectations. And if his expectation are not met, he will most likely check out of the relationship.
7:00 Nothing Jane says here is wrong, but I feel like her focus is on the behavior, rather than refining people's understanding. I feel like understanding is more important, so people can make better choices without step by step instructions.
What a lot of women don't understand, is that a men experience sex drive, in the same way that they do hunger. It's a base biological need, and imperative. For us, desire is a sexual hunger, different men have different appetites and metabolisms for sex, and therefore different needs and tolerance for deprivation. BUT NO man can survive forever without some kind of sexual release. If we don't have a partner to do it, and don't do it ourselves, our bodies do it for us in our sleep. Men, WILL release. The questions women should be asking, are where, when and with whom. A GOOD man, will NEVER force you to feed him. But if you don't feed a good man, he'll go be a good man for someone that will. A GOOD man will NEVER force himself on a woman who doesn't desire him, BUT... IF he IS a good man... WILL BE DESIRED by someone.
It's a common saying that "men are dogs", and it's often used as an insult, in an attempt to shame men who want to have sex. However, most people understand they have to feed their dog. And most dog owners know if you feed your dog, and give it affection, they will be your most loyal companion for life. I'm JSUT saying... that many women treat their men worse than they would the family dog that has the same basic needs. Feeding the dog might be a chore some times, but that is part of your responsibility as a dog owner. You don't resent your dog for getting hungry, but many of you resent your husbands for deeply desiring to be with you.
A good man, that has his needs met, and feels loved by his wife, will be aspirational. He will walk with confidence. He will push ahead in his career, so he can earn more money to support you better. He will be attentive to your needs and desires. He will do everything in his power to protect you (even if sometimes you don't like it). He will love you sacrificially. Meaning, he will place your needs ahead of his own, and may even compromise his health to ensure you don't have to. He will do all these things, because the love of a good woman, makes a man feel like the immortal main character in a super hero story. Dogs will fight bears for the person that feeds them. Men will fight the world.
So many women ask "where have all the good men gone?". They didn't go anywhere... they're scattered around you everywhere. The problem is in your eyes, they're just mangy neglected starving dogs, that haven't been loved a day in their lives. But women expect to just find a healthy dog, with a gleaming coat, that is super loyal to them just wandering around on the street. That's not how that works. You pick one that isn't afraid of you, and you take care of it.
11:50 100%. Having respect, means you have value. When a man feels valued, he feels loved. You cannot express love to a man, if you do not express respect for a man. If you are disrespectful, it doesn't matter what else you do, he will not feel loved. I quit a job, that I worked at for 5 years, because 1 manager told me 1 time, that "We don't need you, we would be just fine without you." I quit that same day. Called the other manager, and told them I wouldn't be there the next day (for my double shift).
What you wrote is amazing ❤ you could probably be a book writer. But I think you need to spell check. SOME of your words are misspelled and one of them in all CAPS..😊 I DO A LOT OF WRITING ON QUORA AND I ALWAYS PROOFREAD BEFORE I PUSH THE FINAL BUTTON, BECAUSE WHEN A PERSON READS WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY AND THEY FIND MISSPELLED WORDS IT LOWERS YOU IN THERE ESTIMATION.
So if it's possible you should edit the few words You misspelled because it would definitely make your words shine even brighter.🎉❤🎉
@@tamitatangoto5134their not there
Use your own advise
@@tamitatangoto5134 I just read what you wrote... "lowers you in there (or THEIR)...?!?!? ESTIMATION." 🤷🏾♀️
A man won't die without sex like he'd die without food. My issue is why have sex without commitment? Sex is sacred. Too many men want casual sex.
Best life coach ever! Thank you Jane! Another great video.
My sister the cover pic to this video is just rockin
Ya looking too good 🎉
🤣🤣🤣🤣That’s the plan…
@@JaneLawrence Wowo gal that’s the way aha aha we like it aha aha Al😝
Heard🙏💯💖 value is in the spirit of the golden rule ✨️ reciprocity without expectation, which is automatically given when both parties are whole within themselves. Show your love 💯💖 God knows everyone, n33ds 2b shown lov3 it does not make us weak...showing lov3 makes us 💪💪💪 👑👑💯🙏💖💛💛💛👉🎁❣️ Thank God for you 👑💯🙏💖
So true Nikki… I only hope people will come to embrace their vulnerability without fear of losing their very essence be it in their feminine or masculine essence
@@JaneLawrence I salute you 👏 I pray that more people 🙏 trust themselves like God does so that they live for the people places and things that truly feed them mind body and soul bc it's the only way 2b🙏💯💖 Many blessings go hidden and left unseen by those people who are not brave enough to b true to themselves without apology for triggering anyone else who may feel bothered by the light that shines in the dark💯 Thank you 444 shining in the dark 🙏💯💖
Happy new year in advance to you and family Jane
Hello beautiful 😍 Your channel has helped me so much ❤️
I’m so honored to be of service to you❤️❤️🥂
Thanks
You welcome honey❤️
Thank you
You welcome love❤️
Hy swdy
Am always wit u 😊
I’m glad that you are. Thanks babe❤️
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Girl, you must be speaking to some open, vulnerable men who are secure in their masculinity. They're telling you all their secrets😂
I love me a vulnerable Man. I connect more with men like that🥂
This sounds too serious honestly, if you can sound more casual people will get the point, but it’s hard to understand the message you are trying to pass across because the tone is kind of too firm.
Ohh okay.. I’m usually very casual.but it’s fine. I get the point and will do so
@@JaneLawrence thank you 🙏🏾 I am an avid follower and I have watched a lot of your videos which is why I called this one out. Felt like you were scolding me or something 🫠☹️
@@JaneLawrencehum, I guess I like firm 😂😂 Tell it to me straight! And sister, I'm hearing you! ❤
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