Hey ladies, have you ever been confused about how men fall in love? Well, today I'm going to break it down for you. Men fall in love in 7 stages and it's important for you to know this so you can have peace of mind. Stage 1: Attraction. This is the initial stage where men are physically attracted to women. It's all about looks at this point. Stage 2: Infatuation. Men start to become obsessed with the woman they're attracted to. They can't stop thinking about her and want to be around her all the time. Stage 3: Compatibility. This is where men start to look for common interests and values in a woman. They want to make sure they're compatible before moving forward. Stage 4: Trust. Men need to trust the woman they're falling in love with. They want to feel like they can be vulnerable with her and that she won't judge them. Stage 5: Emotional connection. Men start to develop an emotional connection with the woman they're falling in love with. They want to be able to share their feelings with her and feel understood. Stage 6: Intimacy. This doesn't necessarily mean physical intimacy, but rather emotional intimacy. Men want to feel close to the woman they're falling in love with and be able to share everything with her. Stage 7: Commitment. Finally, men are ready for commitment. They want to be with the woman they've fallen in love with and are willing to do whatever it takes to make it work. So there you have it ladies, the 7 stages of how men fall in love. Remember, it's important to know this so you can have peace of mind and understand where your man is at in the relationship. Stay confident and professional, and I'll catch you next time! Check out my channel for more related content
Nice one. Tips to not get played, Girls open your eyes, look into these men's eyes. the eyes is the window to the soul. don't be too caught up in the butterfly feeling, take a moment in between conversations to check on yourself, what are you picking up? The truth is always right in front of you.
😂 It's a stereotype that's been perpetuated for years, but is there any truth to it? Studies have shown that women do tend to fall in love faster than men. This is because women are wired to seek out emotional connections and intimacy, which are key components of falling in love. On the other hand, men tend to be more logical and analytical when it comes to relationships. But what about falling out of love? It turns out that women may also be quicker to fall out of love than men. This is because women are more likely to notice and focus on the negative aspects of a relationship, whereas men tend to overlook them. Additionally, women are more likely to end a relationship if they feel like their emotional needs aren't being met. Of course, it's important to remember that everyone is different and these findings aren't universal. But if you're a woman who feels like you're constantly falling in and out of love, know that you're not alone. It's important to take the time to reflect on your feelings and make sure that you're entering into relationships for the right reasons. So there you have it - women may fall in and out of love faster than men, but it's not necessarily a bad thing. Just remember to prioritize your emotional well-being and make sure that you're always acting in your own best interest. Kindly check out my channel for more related content
Here is another word to the wise know thyself and keep your feelings and emotions in check. If u have already slept with him before he calls himself in love be ready to walk away no matter what stage he is in.
Way too real 😭 I always feel it when they switch like “well, here we go again” and then I’m crying because he is a completely different person than the one that made me fall in love with him. This makes it so much more clear. I have to take a break from dating for a while to get my bearings, but this will be useful later on. Thank you
Men became a total different person once they made you fall in love with him... now I know the reasons and Have learn another new thing today.. now I know how to play my own cards.. Men let the game began....i refuse to be stupid again and get hurt at the end 😅😅😅😅😅
That's True....First of all, when I say "heart," I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. I'm talking about any kind of relationship - friendships, family, even acquaintances. It's natural to want to connect with people and form bonds, but sometimes those bonds can be toxic or damaging. That's why it's so important to be selective about who you let into your heart. You need to have boundaries and standards for the people in your life. If someone is constantly bringing you down or causing drama, it's okay to distance yourself from them. Now, I know some of you might be thinking, "But what about love? Isn't love worth the risk?" And sure, love can be an amazing thing. But it can also be incredibly painful when it doesn't work out. That's why it's important to take things slow and really get to know someone before you let them into your heart. And even then, you need to remember that you are the most important person in your life. You should never sacrifice your own well-being for someone else's happiness. If someone is making you unhappy or causing you stress, it's okay to walk away. So, in conclusion, never allow anyone into your heart unless they truly deserve to be there. Have boundaries and standards for the people in your life, and remember that you are the most important person in your life. Stay strong and stay true to yourself." Kindly check out my channel for more related content
My guy told this to me through his words and actions. Unintentionally, really. It was a mixture of him being very honest and guarded. I don't think men even know this. We still haven't slept together after 3yrs. Thank you, Mama💖
Whether u play hard 2 get or not, if u do not hv d qualities d guy needs aside d physical appearance dat maybe first attracted him he will still not fall in love. Even a play boy can be patient wit u while u are still playing hard 2 get bcoz he understands d game also. I do not say a lady shuld give in b4 he says jack robbinson. But if she play extremely 2 hard 2 get by d time she is willing 2 play d match has ended. Just know d right time 2 stop playing hard 2 get.
People needs to stop dating people who don’t like them for whatever reasons. There is no “games” or stages in love and mating. If a man sees you as someone he wants to commit to he will do it regardless. All this games works with them …of course , but you are playing with their ego, its not love nor attraction , its just ego. Once you stop playing these games he will find someone else to chase. If you have to play games for him to come to you , he doesn’t like you . If you play hard to get You might not be even fully attracted to him but to what he can do for you
Honestly this is just heartbreaking, dating and falling in love is just so filled with games! I wish it was simple…I really do. I am convinced all the people I see around me are just together just to be together because there is no way this many people can be in love! Crazy and sad at the same time. 💔
Girl you are so right. I am learning this later in my life at 59. Met a younger man and I made the mistakes you mentioned. When he first met me he said I am going to make you fall in love with me. I did not understand that statement. Now you laid it all out. I learned a hard lesson because I never knew or understood these stages. Ladies listen to what she is saying in this video it is TRUE.
💯🙏🏾 I love the way you always encourage embracing reality nature and biology. Obtaining a clear understanding of the animal you are dealing with is priceless... 😅 Thank you 🫶🏾
U didn’t explain what to do once I reciprocate the feelings . If the guy goes into considering to fall in love after this stage then what do I do once I reciprocate in order to increase the chances of him falling in love .
This is a very under discussed topic. In my opinion these are the the traits to look out for: - a man who feels like he’s been dealt bad cards in life (and vocalizes this often) - a man who doesn’t take full responsibility for his actions/outcomes, always has someone or something to blame - a man who feels like a failure and is generally underachieving (I see this mostly career/education wise) - at the same time, a man who speaks of himself very highly but believe he doesn’t have all the things he deserves. He’s always talking about how smart and superior he is but somehow his life hasn’t reflected this. - a man who discusses other people’s flaws more than their positive attributes - a man who is very critical of others (more than of himself) - a man who shows high levels jealously towards others and acts like they have what he “deserves” - a man who puts you on a pedestal but you can tell you could be knocked off it easily
It's important to recognize this personality trait because it can cause a lot of emotional damage in relationships. Firstly, what is covert narcissism? It's when someone has a grandiose sense of self-importance, but they hide it behind a facade of humility and insecurity. They may appear shy or introverted, but they're actually manipulating situations to get attention and admiration. So, how can you detect it in a man? Here are some red flags to watch out for: - They constantly seek validation and praise, but they do it in subtle ways. For example, they may fish for compliments or downplay their achievements to make you feel sorry for them. - They have a sense of entitlement and expect special treatment. They may get upset if they don't get their way or if you don't prioritize them over others. - They lack empathy and don't take responsibility for their actions. They may blame others for their mistakes or dismiss your feelings as irrelevant. - They have a tendency to gaslight or manipulate you into doubting your own perception of reality. If you're in a relationship with someone who exhibits these behaviors, it's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly. Covert narcissists can be very charming and persuasive, so it's easy to get sucked into their web of deceit. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth or compromise your values." Kindly check out my channel for more related content
@@jacsgxbxb It's important to recognize this personality trait because it can cause a lot of emotional damage in relationships. Firstly, what is covert narcissism? It's when someone has a grandiose sense of self-importance, but they hide it behind a facade of humility and insecurity. They may appear shy or introverted, but they're actually manipulating situations to get attention and admiration. So, how can you detect it in a man? Here are some red flags to watch out for: - They constantly seek validation and praise, but they do it in subtle ways. For example, they may fish for compliments or downplay their achievements to make you feel sorry for them. - They have a sense of entitlement and expect special treatment. They may get upset if they don't get their way or if you don't prioritize them over others. - They lack empathy and don't take responsibility for their actions. They may blame others for their mistakes or dismiss your feelings as irrelevant. - They have a tendency to gaslight or manipulate you into doubting your own perception of reality. If you're in a relationship with someone who exhibits these behaviors, it's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly. Covert narcissists can be very charming and persuasive, so it's easy to get sucked into their web of deceit. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth or compromise your values." Kindly check out my channel for more related content
An old man should know what he wants at this point so much so that he tells you his intentions with you that you don’t need to follow the rules of a dating game
@@kky.x be vulnerable more feminine and enjoy the moment . see it as a moment and enjoy every minute of . Don’t take it as a commitment. Naturally because is moment u will start using ur head instead of ur heart
You are so hilarious. 😆 I thought some of your videos are a bit too much to be talking about on youtube. 🫣 But I truly appreciate how you bring god and believe in how important he is in our lives and fulfilment. 😊 You are like a crazy auntie that i never had but always wished to have. And that is a compliment!
Hey ladies, have you ever been confused about how men fall in love? Well, today I'm going to break it down for you. Men fall in love in 7 stages and it's important for you to know this so you can have peace of mind.
Stage 1: Attraction. This is the initial stage where men are physically attracted to women. It's all about looks at this point.
Stage 2: Infatuation. Men start to become obsessed with the woman they're attracted to. They can't stop thinking about her and want to be around her all the time.
Stage 3: Compatibility. This is where men start to look for common interests and values in a woman. They want to make sure they're compatible before moving forward.
Stage 4: Trust. Men need to trust the woman they're falling in love with. They want to feel like they can be vulnerable with her and that she won't judge them.
Stage 5: Emotional connection. Men start to develop an emotional connection with the woman they're falling in love with. They want to be able to share their feelings with her and feel understood.
Stage 6: Intimacy. This doesn't necessarily mean physical intimacy, but rather emotional intimacy. Men want to feel close to the woman they're falling in love with and be able to share everything with her.
Stage 7: Commitment. Finally, men are ready for commitment. They want to be with the woman they've fallen in love with and are willing to do whatever it takes to make it work.
So there you have it ladies, the 7 stages of how men fall in love. Remember, it's important to know this so you can have peace of mind and understand where your man is at in the relationship. Stay confident and professional, and I'll catch you next time! Check out my channel for more related content
Wowwww… you did that?!
😂
Thank you Lydia. This was just wow!
@JaneLawrence thank you also. .. your content is enlightening
Nice one. Tips to not get played, Girls open your eyes, look into these men's eyes. the eyes is the window to the soul. don't be too caught up in the butterfly feeling, take a moment in between conversations to check on yourself, what are you picking up? The truth is always right in front of you.
SO TRUE
Women fall in love faster and out of love faster.😂
😂 It's a stereotype that's been perpetuated for years, but is there any truth to it?
Studies have shown that women do tend to fall in love faster than men. This is because women are wired to seek out emotional connections and intimacy, which are key components of falling in love. On the other hand, men tend to be more logical and analytical when it comes to relationships.
But what about falling out of love? It turns out that women may also be quicker to fall out of love than men. This is because women are more likely to notice and focus on the negative aspects of a relationship, whereas men tend to overlook them. Additionally, women are more likely to end a relationship if they feel like their emotional needs aren't being met.
Of course, it's important to remember that everyone is different and these findings aren't universal. But if you're a woman who feels like you're constantly falling in and out of love, know that you're not alone. It's important to take the time to reflect on your feelings and make sure that you're entering into relationships for the right reasons.
So there you have it - women may fall in and out of love faster than men, but it's not necessarily a bad thing. Just remember to prioritize your emotional well-being and make sure that you're always acting in your own best interest. Kindly check out my channel for more related content
Here is another word to the wise know thyself and keep your feelings and emotions in check. If u have already slept with him before he calls himself in love be ready to walk away no matter what stage he is in.
This...... doing this now😢 second go round
❤Facts❤
Way too real 😭 I always feel it when they switch like “well, here we go again” and then I’m crying because he is a completely different person than the one that made me fall in love with him. This makes it so much more clear. I have to take a break from dating for a while to get my bearings, but this will be useful later on. Thank you
read far from basyc blog archives also ladies !!
Men became a total different person once they made you fall in love with him... now I know the reasons and Have learn another new thing today.. now I know how to play my own cards..
Men let the game began....i refuse to be stupid again and get hurt at the end 😅😅😅😅😅
That’s the spirit😂
46 and learning. .
Same me! 46 this year! And learning
Me too 😂 46 learning it all over again
Never allow anyone in your heart, lesson learned.
Well first don’t allow anyone somewhere else, until they allow you in their heart ❤️
@@Apocalyptiseptical yeah positive
That's True....First of all, when I say "heart," I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. I'm talking about any kind of relationship - friendships, family, even acquaintances. It's natural to want to connect with people and form bonds, but sometimes those bonds can be toxic or damaging.
That's why it's so important to be selective about who you let into your heart. You need to have boundaries and standards for the people in your life. If someone is constantly bringing you down or causing drama, it's okay to distance yourself from them.
Now, I know some of you might be thinking, "But what about love? Isn't love worth the risk?" And sure, love can be an amazing thing. But it can also be incredibly painful when it doesn't work out. That's why it's important to take things slow and really get to know someone before you let them into your heart.
And even then, you need to remember that you are the most important person in your life. You should never sacrifice your own well-being for someone else's happiness. If someone is making you unhappy or causing you stress, it's okay to walk away.
So, in conclusion, never allow anyone into your heart unless they truly deserve to be there. Have boundaries and standards for the people in your life, and remember that you are the most important person in your life. Stay strong and stay true to yourself." Kindly check out my channel for more related content
LIFE IS A GAME!!!! WE'RE TESTED AND TRIED!!!!
Thank you...that is wisdom😊...
My guy told this to me through his words and actions. Unintentionally, really. It was a mixture of him being very honest and guarded. I don't think men even know this. We still haven't slept together after 3yrs. Thank you, Mama💖
Jane is that bestie I've never seen face to face
Thank you Jane
Oh yes they run away!
The person I met has disappeared 3 times.
Told him to leave me alone!
Whether u play hard 2 get or not, if u do not hv d qualities d guy needs aside d physical appearance dat maybe first attracted him he will still not fall in love. Even a play boy can be patient wit u while u are still playing hard 2 get bcoz he understands d game also. I do not say a lady shuld give in b4 he says jack robbinson. But if she play extremely 2 hard 2 get by d time she is willing 2 play d match has ended. Just know d right time 2 stop playing hard 2 get.
Okay way too many stages for me already, checking out 😂
Haha, me too. Anyone who wants an ego soothing relationship has to skip me
End of the video but stuck on looking good and flaunt pictures on the Internet
People needs to stop dating people who don’t like them for whatever reasons. There is no “games” or stages in love and mating. If a man sees you as someone he wants to commit to he will do it regardless. All this games works with them …of course , but you are playing with their ego, its not love nor attraction , its just ego. Once you stop playing these games he will find someone else to chase. If you have to play games for him to come to you , he doesn’t like you . If you
play hard to get You might not be even fully attracted to him but to what he can do for you
Facts. It’s manipulation. They win if they get access to the cookie. Period.
Honestly this is just heartbreaking, dating and falling in love is just so filled with games! I wish it was simple…I really do. I am convinced all the people I see around me are just together just to be together because there is no way this many people can be in love! Crazy and sad at the same time. 💔
No you just wish it were easy - but then it wouldn’t be love ❤
I was always caught up in emotions too early. Ladies don't do it. Follow her advise.
This man is in full panic mode at the moment 😂
“Life is a Game” 🎯
I’m glad I heard this 😢😊❤
YOU ARE PREACHING!!!! ❤
Your video has come at the right time for me😂, I’m glad you take the time to put these kind of topics out. 💃🏽☺️
Girl you are so right. I am learning this later in my life at 59. Met a younger man and I made the mistakes you mentioned. When he first met me he said I am going to make you fall in love with me. I did not understand that statement. Now you laid it all out. I learned a hard lesson because I never knew or understood these stages. Ladies listen to what she is saying in this video it is TRUE.
Excellent insight! Thank you.
You’re soooo smart Omgg!!!!!!! You’re completely right!!!
💯🙏🏾 I love the way you always encourage embracing reality nature and biology.
Obtaining a clear understanding of the animal you are dealing with is priceless... 😅
Thank you 🫶🏾
Absolutely true, though learning this a bit late but this useful
THANK YOU QUEEN!!
This is a lot of work. I’ll stay single lol. Thanks for the tips. Love your videos.
Great information!
Learning this too late but atleast now I know
You know you are so right I am this way always and it works
Thank you for this video , BIG REVELATION like the bible . Thanks now we can act accordingly and win the Game .
Thanks dear I have learned cause I fall in love early and I give my all but really I have learned the hard way
You gained a follower
Your video are so great !
Thank you beautiful ❤ I'm right there
Peach ❤❤❤❤ I love this
Listening👂
Men dont fall in love . They just choose who they wanna be with which isnt based on feelings of love
Your advices are precious!
I made this mistake for someone i loved ooooo ❤❤❤
Amen!
This is very interesting
Mum. I really miss ur motivates
U didn’t explain what to do once I reciprocate the feelings . If the guy goes into considering to fall in love after this stage then what do I do once I reciprocate in order to increase the chances of him falling in love .
U gonn' lorn!!!
❤
I wanna know how you know this?
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
We are just pencils in the hands of God 😂😂😂😂😂
Can you cover covert narcissism and how to detect it in a man?
Please respond tho this ma'am pls
This is a very under discussed topic. In my opinion these are the the traits to look out for:
- a man who feels like he’s been dealt bad cards in life (and vocalizes this often)
- a man who doesn’t take full responsibility for his actions/outcomes, always has someone or something to blame
- a man who feels like a failure and is generally underachieving (I see this mostly career/education wise)
- at the same time, a man who speaks of himself very highly but believe he doesn’t have all the things he deserves. He’s always talking about how smart and superior he is but somehow his life hasn’t reflected this.
- a man who discusses other people’s flaws more than their positive attributes
- a man who is very critical of others (more than of himself)
- a man who shows high levels jealously towards others and acts like they have what he “deserves”
- a man who puts you on a pedestal but you can tell you could be knocked off it easily
It's important to recognize this personality trait because it can cause a lot of emotional damage in relationships.
Firstly, what is covert narcissism? It's when someone has a grandiose sense of self-importance, but they hide it behind a facade of humility and insecurity. They may appear shy or introverted, but they're actually manipulating situations to get attention and admiration.
So, how can you detect it in a man? Here are some red flags to watch out for:
- They constantly seek validation and praise, but they do it in subtle ways. For example, they may fish for compliments or downplay their achievements to make you feel sorry for them.
- They have a sense of entitlement and expect special treatment. They may get upset if they don't get their way or if you don't prioritize them over others.
- They lack empathy and don't take responsibility for their actions. They may blame others for their mistakes or dismiss your feelings as irrelevant.
- They have a tendency to gaslight or manipulate you into doubting your own perception of reality.
If you're in a relationship with someone who exhibits these behaviors, it's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly. Covert narcissists can be very charming and persuasive, so it's easy to get sucked into their web of deceit. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth or compromise your values." Kindly check out my channel for more related content
@@jacsgxbxb It's important to recognize this personality trait because it can cause a lot of emotional damage in relationships.
Firstly, what is covert narcissism? It's when someone has a grandiose sense of self-importance, but they hide it behind a facade of humility and insecurity. They may appear shy or introverted, but they're actually manipulating situations to get attention and admiration.
So, how can you detect it in a man? Here are some red flags to watch out for:
- They constantly seek validation and praise, but they do it in subtle ways. For example, they may fish for compliments or downplay their achievements to make you feel sorry for them.
- They have a sense of entitlement and expect special treatment. They may get upset if they don't get their way or if you don't prioritize them over others.
- They lack empathy and don't take responsibility for their actions. They may blame others for their mistakes or dismiss your feelings as irrelevant.
- They have a tendency to gaslight or manipulate you into doubting your own perception of reality.
If you're in a relationship with someone who exhibits these behaviors, it's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly. Covert narcissists can be very charming and persuasive, so it's easy to get sucked into their web of deceit. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth or compromise your values." Kindly check out my channel for more related content
@@lydia_wanza this is amazing thank you. I recognize some of these traits in exes.
Is there anyway to reverse this ???
What do you mean?
Please get to your point
They aren't emotional being, 7 stages is a lot, too much work to reach there. let me just relax.
❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
What if he is an old man.. does all that apply?
An old man should know what he wants at this point so much so that he tells you his intentions with you that you don’t need to follow the rules of a dating game
Fall In love and restart with ur head . I can assure you is more than kayamata
Can you clarify?
Can you clarify?
@@kky.x be vulnerable more feminine and enjoy the moment . see it as a moment and enjoy every minute of . Don’t take it as a commitment. Naturally because is moment u will start using ur head instead of ur heart
Are you married? I ask because I want to know if your own advise is working for you?
Are you in a relationship?
U must have read seduction well
not true.
Waste alot of time....saying nothing
You are so hilarious. 😆
I thought some of your videos are a bit too much to be talking about on youtube. 🫣
But I truly appreciate how you bring god and believe in how important he is in our lives and fulfilment. 😊
You are like a crazy auntie that i never had but always wished to have. And that is a compliment!