In my twenties my boyfriend slapped once and it was over he didn't believe he sent people to beg me I said NO I will never be a punching bag for anyone .After sometime we meet he said to me "ngempama nje" I said YES if I forgive you next time you will kill me and that was it it I never went back to him I'm married for 26yrs when I met my my husband the first thing I told was the day you lay your hand on me I will be GONE and will never come back
🙏 🙏🙏!!! This is honestly the best way to react in these types of circumstances, because once you stay, they will do it over and over again…and one day it might even go too far. The other good thing about this response is that you probably taught the man a lesson too, that if you do such you will lose out on people you love, I hope he took that lesson and didn’t lay his hand on anyone else moving forward. Thank you for the comment, I hope it helps someone.
@@mpumelelomandi1518 Exactly my Sisi I don't even want him to shout at me we're all human beings if there's problem let's sit down and adress it period
Ayi I give up Madoda, I will never lay a hand to my wife,coz I know she is the prescious gift I got from my ancestors,we joke,we Lough,we hustle,we pray together.we fart and Lough(o love her so much)no matter how angry I am I control myself not to say words I'll regret saying,I don't even think of hitting her,the only time I enjoy seeing tears on her eyes it's when she is happy and crying. Let's love abafazi bethu.
The saddening part is that police officers came to investigate the scene and did not notice anything wrong, in South Africa perpetrators have 99% chance of getting away with a crime 😭😭💔
Ladies please remember that your family didn't raise you to be abused by some strangers child. They spent money, love, emotions, mental, psychology and physical energy in raising you. In their plans they never planned that some man will one day come and abuse you. So think about this whenever a man disrespects you and abuses you. You are an investment to your family and such an investment needs to be treated with love and care. Ladies you are a precious commodity who needs to be adored at all times.
Children are NOT a "commodity" or "investment". This view is SO wrong! With this backwards way of thinking I'm not surprised that South Africa has so many interpersonal issues.
I love this comment -Everytime I meet a man and later find out he’s mean, I remember the fact that I was born in love and raised with love - I won’t let my parent’s sacrifices be for nothing by staying with an abusive partner. They don’t deserve me - I left a man for calling me stupid and he couldn’t believe it. Any sign of contempt I’m out.
Can we as women normalize not staying in toxic relationships the moment we realize that's the kind of relationship we in? There are many of these stories for us to learn from.
@@Anele_Mchunu No, they don't kill you after leaving the first time or second time they hit you, they kill you after you've allowed the toxicity for too long and then, allow them to enjoy that power dynamic for too ling and then after that say you want to leave. How many stories have you heard of a woman that was hit once by a lover, left and got killed? That's why I said normalize "not staying" y'all stay too long and allow the abuser to get used to the dynamic of being a god over you, they never want to give up that power hence they kill y'all. Don't give them that power to begin with. This is how it normally ends, with you dead. The first time he hits you f* out of that relationship! You're not going to be the exception chances of you changing that man are zero. Don't try to be a savior, leave and let that man be.
@@Thankgot continue making yourself a victim, you'll end up in the news. There's a pattern to this and I'm telling you normalize leaving " the moment" you realize the relationship is toxic. How many women you heard of who were killed after one or two incidents of abuse? It's the "staying in these toxic relationships too long" that gets you killed eventually. But you not ready to take responsibility for your life, go on with your victim hood mentality. You'll be a statistic, but know this you're not hopeless, you can leave the "very moment" a hand is laid on you and you'll save your life.
@@Anele_Mchunu I understand you Sisi but tell your brothers or cousins to warn him after you dumped him when I got married my younger brothers speech to my was "the day you lay hands on him ei be the death of you"
Hitting a woman to show ones masculinity is very very barbaric, worse than stupidity. If i'm angry i lock myself away for a minute n come back sober n apologise for any sort of misunderstanding. I love my wife so much.
Some people can't handle power. They just end up destroying themselves. I mean this guy had it all; a beautiful family and a career in politics. He just destroyed it over nothing.
I won’t lie, I’m going through all these abusive relationships that get all posted here and I’m a subscriber….I watch each Uploaded video and I fear for my life. I just hope God keeps me with the love and respect I show to this man.I’ve also realised that each time these women try to escape, that’s where the damage is done😢😢. Love the content❤
You need an intervention of your mind and soul! Please get help for your safety and your loved ones. If this is a filthy lie, you are an evil mess to those who are suffering! Just my options 😌.
18 month old? This baby saw everything. She was subjected to the most horrific last memory of the only comfort and security she knew. Her mom who spent 24/7 with her. My 3rd baby is that age now and as I was typing this he came looking for me. At this age babies can read and express emotions. I’m watching this for the second time as I watched it the first after you posted it. That poor baby. I hope her brain blocked that incident out. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is becoming all too common here in South Africa nowadays. Be very vigilant especially the young ladies. If you feel in any way abused, just leave because it will only get worse if you turn a blind eye. But be wise and leave safely and make sure you have people to help you.
@@ayandanjodo3311 this is the 100th time he almost got away with it until he locked his own children 🙄🙄other than that they was no evidence sies the audacity
@@ayandanjodo3311 in question here is the calibre of comrades or cadres you have within the organization so it is not a matter of blame game it is more about the organizations image.
Thanks Sis. May God Almighty expose every details of what really transpired on the day in question. Lovely Family; 🙏🏽& be 💪 till the decide about the future of the kids.❤️🇿🇦
Toxic and abusive relationships.... I wish our sisters can recognize them early and choose themselves and leave before it's too late. This is too much 😭😭
Bathong guys! It's the fact that there should be a "safe" way to leave an abusive relationship for me that makes this whole GBV thing real and so sad. You cannot just decide that you're done 😢😭.. And imagine having to not only protect yourself but your little ones too.. It's a lot 😭
They are not supporting him but the victim and family. All structures of the ANC in North-West welcomed the arrest and stand with the victim and family and they did this openly.
You are amazing! I love how you articulate yourself girl, you make me proud of us!🇿🇦 I am so happy he's in jail 😭 he is so arrogant I just cannot stand him standing in that court house faking a speech like he does in Parliament I hope this man never finds peace. I pray for healing and strength to this family and these beautiful children I pray God rewards them with a life that will take away all this pain 🙏🏾 💔 May our beautiful sister's soul Rest in Peace 🙏🏾
I really wanted to move back home to my country but damn the violence against women, the corruption, AKA death, HIV rates and my generation dying and not making it to 50 is just too much. I’m grateful I left as a child and the universe placed me in a country outside SA because what’s going on in SA is shocking. It’s sad because the country is beautiful 😢
Please cover that incident that happened at Tembisa Hospital last year somewhere in, were the husband shot his wife who was a nurse at Tembisa Hospital
Keep up the good work. Your channel is absolutely saddening cause of the context but the way you narrate truly makes it so intriguing and interesting. You well spoken and your voice is absolutely contingeous. Wish this channel more subscribers and greatness. ❤️
I wish all the beautiful South African women would do better and love themselves more than these men that have absolutely shown them that they not worthy of them. May God be will all you beautiful ladies.🙏🏽❤️
That poor baby witnessed something so traumatic and heartbreaking.I hope and pray Jennifers family and kids will heal from this and the animal that murdered her will rot in prison where he belongs.
Unfortunately, his success went to his head, and he forgot that they had grown up together with his wife. The devil got the better of him and robbed him of his joy and peace and love for his family😢
Ntokozos story is so painful they're both from Newcastle attended the same high school here in town and the boys stays 3 houses away from my house in Madadeni it's a township I wonder what happened to him he grew up a very good boy he must rot in prison
Sadly the baby who was present will live with this trauma...that she may not be able to articulate due to her age but she is forever scarred...an evil and wicked man 😢
My dear sisters you all know what happen in an abuse relationship, how it ends most time what I don’t understand is why you keep on around someone u know can cause u pain (physically,emotionally) I think instead of posting verbs on social media terminate the relation for ur safety.that’s what makes we think that woman consider money than their lives coz they like spending and commodities do u know how it feels when someone got a protect order against u and u have to stay away from a house u built or u paying ? Please sisters stop giving yourself excuses and safe your life !!!!
Whenever I come across such videos the questions I keep asking is: why do these men turn out to become monsters? Did it start from their childhood? How did their fathers treat their mothers? How can this circle be broken? Am afraid until something drastic is done to avoid such gory stories, this chain of violence will continue to spread without an end in sight. Its so sad😭
Watching these gbv videos all i can say, we need to teach our girl kids self love, respect, worth, independence (please stop depending on men demanding gfriend allowances) . I guess these are the building block to get rid of gbv.
I know independent women who are with abusive and entitled husband's. We need to teach men to love themselves and love women properly. Women get all the training but still
I guess as woman we must have the guts to leave abuse must not happen for the second time. Once is enough we really really . Other wise our children are the ones who suffer the most. ...
You cant reason with an abuser. You can’t tell them you are leaving. They must just find you gone. Don’t tell relatives / friends who can tell him where you are.
I feel sorry for all these ladies I went thru hell on my 7 yrs marriage...Beaten blue black there after raped while bleeding 😢😢i don't wanna say more but God rescued me and im thankful
With all due respect to our elders,friends and culture, at times they enable this behaviour. Women get abused and go back home but the parents and unfortunately mostly women encourage you to go back and they tell you it’s normal. Bekezela, soldier on! For what, because tomorrow the man will kill you. We have to change the narrative, no violence should ever be justified. Not having a husband is not a sin. We should say NO to Marriage at ALL costs. Let’s encourage our girls to protect themselves and know that they are enough on their on. If a man is abusive, leave before it gets worse.
Hope you will cover some of the brutal farm attacks and murders. It must also be public to the world. You don’t see anything in the news about the brutal brutal way farmers and there families are being killed.
Such a young life taken so early in life...we need harsh punshment for these murderers...what happened to our beautiful country so much killing of young women...future leaders. 😥
Thank you for taking your time and really unpacking for us these stories. I have to say that when you share can you please refrain from calling people especially men that you have already judged and sentenced stupid. We have a deep problem in this country of men that are violent, this cannot be normal. There’s a deep rooted problem that we need to address as women by covering our husband, brothers, fathers and sons in the intercession of prayer. It’s clear that they cannot do this alone, we need to come as a collective for this. When we call them names, it’s making things worse because the mouth speaks life or death. This comes from a caring place.
So the dude is out on bail and still insists he is innocent. #JusticeforJennifer If he walks free it will be so sad. Every August winens month and every December we need an update on this GBV case from Parliament
In my twenties my boyfriend slapped once and it was over he didn't believe he sent people to beg me I said NO I will never be a punching bag for anyone .After sometime we meet he said to me "ngempama nje" I said YES if I forgive you next time you will kill me and that was it it I never went back to him I'm married for 26yrs when I met my my husband the first thing I told was the day you lay your hand on me I will be GONE and will never come back
🙏 🙏🙏!!! This is honestly the best way to react in these types of circumstances, because once you stay, they will do it over and over again…and one day it might even go too far.
The other good thing about this response is that you probably taught the man a lesson too, that if you do such you will lose out on people you love, I hope he took that lesson and didn’t lay his hand on anyone else moving forward.
Thank you for the comment, I hope it helps someone.
Ntombazaneeee♡ We all need this mentality
Good for letting ur Husband at first hand.
@@mpumelelomandi1518 Exactly my Sisi I don't even want him to shout at me we're all human beings if there's problem let's sit down and adress it period
I LOVE YOU 😘💯
Ayi I give up Madoda,
I will never lay a hand to my wife,coz I know she is the prescious gift I got from my ancestors,we joke,we Lough,we hustle,we pray together.we fart and Lough(o love her so much)no matter how angry I am I control myself not to say words I'll regret saying,I don't even think of hitting her,the only time I enjoy seeing tears on her eyes it's when she is happy and crying.
Let's love abafazi bethu.
May you start something to groom young boys so that they can grow up to be men like you.
God bless you bhuti
Another reason why our country is the way that it is. We have empty heads in key positions
ANC loves them cause they controllable and do whats told
You are right Kitso
Exactly airheads nje
Then people with empty head vote for them
Truthful Fact. U can say it Again. Million times!!!😭🤞🏾
Can we unpack how the ANC women's league always back the alleged abuser. The level of loyalism is sickening
I guess all they care about is supporting their own. No matter what.
My dear we are learning a lot from these videos. Thanks a lot for sharing. Your narration is always on point. Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much Mapule!❤️
The saddening part is that police officers came to investigate the scene and did not notice anything wrong, in South Africa perpetrators have 99% chance of getting away with a crime 😭😭💔
Ladies please remember that your family didn't raise you to be abused by some strangers child. They spent money, love, emotions, mental, psychology and physical energy in raising you. In their plans they never planned that some man will one day come and abuse you. So think about this whenever a man disrespects you and abuses you. You are an investment to your family and such an investment needs to be treated with love and care. Ladies you are a precious commodity who needs to be adored at all times.
Children are NOT a "commodity" or "investment". This view is SO wrong!
With this backwards way of thinking I'm not surprised that South Africa has so many interpersonal issues.
I love this comment -Everytime I meet a man and later find out he’s mean, I remember the fact that I was born in love and raised with love - I won’t let my parent’s sacrifices be for nothing by staying with an abusive partner. They don’t deserve me - I left a man for calling me stupid and he couldn’t believe it. Any sign of contempt I’m out.
@DM135__ Good girl! Keep it up!
He has limited vocabulary anyway...
Money and power distroyed this guy. Money is not an enemy, but greediness is weakedness .
How how I wish Major, Namhla's killer can also get arrested as well 😢
I thought he was arrested
My prayers too 🙏
You are amazing with your research and delivery✨ my favourite South African youtuber that covers true crime🤞🏾
Thank you so much, I appreciate it🙏❤️
Your narration is top notch!!!💯❣️
Thank you so much!❤️
@@theplug_truecrime You are most welcome!❤️
Can we as women normalize not staying in toxic relationships the moment we realize that's the kind of relationship we in? There are many of these stories for us to learn from.
They literally kill us for leaving dude !
Normalizing not dating men makes more sense, coz you stay you die,you leave you die
@@Anele_Mchunu No, they don't kill you after leaving the first time or second time they hit you, they kill you after you've allowed the toxicity for too long and then, allow them to enjoy that power dynamic for too ling and then after that say you want to leave.
How many stories have you heard of a woman that was hit once by a lover, left and got killed? That's why I said normalize "not staying" y'all stay too long and allow the abuser to get used to the dynamic of being a god over you, they never want to give up that power hence they kill y'all.
Don't give them that power to begin with. This is how it normally ends, with you dead. The first time he hits you f* out of that relationship! You're not going to be the exception chances of you changing that man are zero. Don't try to be a savior, leave and let that man be.
@@Thankgot continue making yourself a victim, you'll end up in the news. There's a pattern to this and I'm telling you normalize leaving " the moment" you realize the relationship is toxic. How many women you heard of who were killed after one or two incidents of abuse? It's the "staying in these toxic relationships too long" that gets you killed eventually. But you not ready to take responsibility for your life, go on with your victim hood mentality. You'll be a statistic, but know this you're not hopeless, you can leave the "very moment" a hand is laid on you and you'll save your life.
@@Anele_Mchunu I understand you Sisi but tell your brothers or cousins to warn him after you dumped him when I got married my younger brothers speech to my was "the day you lay hands on him ei be the death of you"
Hitting a woman to show ones masculinity is very very barbaric, worse than stupidity. If i'm angry i lock myself away for a minute n come back sober n apologise for any sort of misunderstanding. I love my wife so much.
Respect to you Brother
God gave him good job without filling Z83 form yena o dira nonsense, he could've walk away and find himself another lady. Bo ntsiki ba gona maaan
Some people can't handle power. They just end up destroying themselves. I mean this guy had it all; a beautiful family and a career in politics. He just destroyed it over nothing.
His arrogance. We live amongst psychopaths, portraying great community leaders but monsters on the other side.
I won’t lie, I’m going through all these abusive relationships that get all posted here and I’m a subscriber….I watch each Uploaded video and I fear for my life. I just hope God keeps me with the love and respect I show to this man.I’ve also realised that each time these women try to escape, that’s where the damage is done😢😢.
Love the content❤
Get away .run for your life..abusers never change....pray for guidance 🙏
I hope your doing fine ...don’t tell an abusive man your leaving him...just plan your moves silently and leave...I pray for you...❤
Please understand 🙏 that you are in danger. I pray this is not a hoax and that you seek help. God Bless.
You need an intervention of your mind and soul! Please get help for your safety and your loved ones. If this is a filthy lie, you are an evil mess to those who are suffering! Just my options 😌.
18 month old? This baby saw everything. She was subjected to the most horrific last memory of the only comfort and security she knew. Her mom who spent 24/7 with her. My 3rd baby is that age now and as I was typing this he came looking for me. At this age babies can read and express emotions.
I’m watching this for the second time as I watched it the first after you posted it.
That poor baby. I hope her brain blocked that incident out. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
SAD 💔💔💔
The baby won't have any recollection of this incident. As adults we only have memories of our childhood from age 3-4 prior to that nothing.
Thank you so much for the video i always look forward to these videos and my week just becomes boring when theres none
From Lesotho 🇱🇸 with love ♥️ amazing narration
🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
I love this channel… I thought I knew all the stories but I’m seeing new ones here. Amazing job , thank you 🙏🏾
This is becoming all too common here in South Africa nowadays. Be very vigilant especially the young ladies. If you feel in any way abused, just leave because it will only get worse if you turn a blind eye. But be wise and leave safely and make sure you have people to help you.
This is giving me more reasons to hate ANC 😭😭😭😭
The mere fact that I wanna vote for IFP or DA shows how much I hate ANC
Come on please.I do not think we can blame ANC for this evil deed
@@ayandanjodo3311 this is the 100th time he almost got away with it until he locked his own children 🙄🙄other than that they was no evidence sies the audacity
@@ayandanjodo3311 in question here is the calibre of comrades or cadres you have within the organization so it is not a matter of blame game it is more about the organizations image.
It just seems like the people in this organization are a bunch of sadistic people.
May her sweet soul rest in power.
Poor babies.
She was really crying for help in those FB posts .May her soul rest in peace.I hope he rots in jail.
Ladies the day he threatens you or you feel abused in anyway, please don't tell him you're leaving. Find a way to leave and move away please
I emediately left when he said he will kill me...
Ngizwela uJennifer nkosiyam 😭😭
😭😭
Thanks Sis. May God Almighty expose every details of what really transpired on the day in question.
Lovely Family; 🙏🏽& be 💪 till the decide about the future of the kids.❤️🇿🇦
This guy was one of the guys who were pressurizing Malema to answer about GBV kanti yena ubusy with killing 😢😢😢
Toxic and abusive relationships.... I wish our sisters can recognize them early and choose themselves and leave before it's too late. This is too much 😭😭
He traumatised the baby that Muskont 😢
Bathong guys! It's the fact that there should be a "safe" way to leave an abusive relationship for me that makes this whole GBV thing real and so sad. You cannot just decide that you're done 😢😭.. And imagine having to not only protect yourself but your little ones too.. It's a lot 😭
Pls cover Ntokozo Xaba next , thank you so much for these videos ❤️
Will try my best to collect as much info as possible, unfortunately because she only passed away this week, there isn’t enough info yet.❤
Yho I went through sis Facebook account; she was a beauty yhoooo🔥.... But gents let's do better man. These huns want nothing from us but pure love💔
Great narration. keep up the good work 👌
Thank you very much!❤️
Dunno what’s more traumatising between the case itself or the women in ANC regalia who came to support Sibusiso 😕
Those magogo who are good for NOTHING ❌
Their consistent support for perpetrators from within their ranks has long reached cult status.
@@archiemokhethi8464 word!
They are not supporting him but the victim and family. All structures of the ANC in North-West welcomed the arrest and stand with the victim and family and they did this openly.
😢😢
You are amazing! I love how you articulate yourself girl, you make me proud of us!🇿🇦
I am so happy he's in jail 😭 he is so arrogant I just cannot stand him standing in that court house faking a speech like he does in Parliament I hope this man never finds peace. I pray for healing and strength to this family and these beautiful children I pray God rewards them with a life that will take away all this pain 🙏🏾 💔 May our beautiful sister's soul Rest in Peace 🙏🏾
❤️🙏!
Most ladies married to politicians..they have been silenced
I really wanted to move back home to my country but damn the violence against women, the corruption, AKA death, HIV rates and my generation dying and not making it to 50 is just too much. I’m grateful I left as a child and the universe placed me in a country outside SA because what’s going on in SA is shocking. It’s sad because the country is beautiful 😢
Please cover that incident that happened at Tembisa Hospital last year somewhere in, were the husband shot his wife who was a nurse at Tembisa Hospital
Great work!👌 love your narration
Thank you Khanyiso!❤️
Love your channel, content is so well curated.
Keep up the good work. Your channel is absolutely saddening cause of the context but the way you narrate truly makes it so intriguing and interesting. You well spoken and your voice is absolutely contingeous. Wish this channel more subscribers and greatness. ❤️
Thank you Nene❤️🌺
I wish all the beautiful South African women would do better and love themselves more than these men that have absolutely shown them that they not worthy of them. May God be will all you beautiful ladies.🙏🏽❤️
PLUG! Thank you girl ❤️🌟
It's very heartbreaking, she knew one man from the age of 18 that's why she had no enough backbone to leave.
Can you also do Flavia Hlabangwane the fridge parts story🙏
Will do, I was following it closely, I will do it soon.❤️
@@theplug_truecrime And zolile khumalo from Durban a student from mangosuthu technikon
Did you do it? New subbie here
He thought he was too powerful to be in custody. He definitely belongs to jail
The ANC is just gonna make the case disappear 😭😭😭😭
That poor baby witnessed something so traumatic and heartbreaking.I hope and pray Jennifers family and kids will heal from this and the animal that murdered her will rot in prison where he belongs.
Her beauty bathong😍
People should learn to leave ,when the marriage /relationship becomes toxic. 💔💔
Not that easy
@@Zimruns not at all. 🥺🥺🥺
Unfortunately, his success went to his head, and he forgot that they had grown up together with his wife. The devil got the better of him and robbed him of his joy and peace and love for his family😢
He was abusive before his success. What were you listening to?
Please broadcast Ntokozo Xaba's story 😭
Will do, still trying to collect as much info as possible!❤
Ntokozos story is so painful they're both from Newcastle attended the same high school here in town and the boys stays 3 houses away from my house in Madadeni it's a township I wonder what happened to him he grew up a very good boy he must rot in prison
Also don't tell the abuser that you are leaving.
Not easy to be separated from soft life for most women they love being in a relationship and money as if they were born with it.
The same guy who was telling Julius Malema kak accusing him of abusing his wife sies hypocrisy
Please cover the most recent case of Ntokozo and Ngcebo
Love to listen to you well presented thank you so tragic
Sadly the baby who was present will live with this trauma...that she may not be able to articulate due to her age but she is forever scarred...an evil and wicked man 😢
This guy is so evil!!! This is why the courts need to automatically and IMMEDIATELY strip abusive men of parental rights!
Where is the connection.? Let’s listen
Don’t even wait for the court. Runaway and cut communication with the abuser.
@@vjchabane9795How do you not see it!👀
He has that arrogance that criminals have after coming from a sangoma. I hope he rots in jail sies!
Ummm sad really and she died hurting just looking at her 18 months old child
I once dated this other guy once pulled me by my hair from a car in 2020 and that was it. I left and even today he’s trying to get back together.
Tjooo that's hectic.
He's evil shem
Why were you were the makhwapheni
Well done 👍🏽
Wow please don't take abuser back
This man was obviously afraid of Jennifer's intelligence.
Abusers are cowards that think they can silence anyone who disagrees with them.
My dear sisters you all know what happen in an abuse relationship, how it ends most time what I don’t understand is why you keep on around someone u know can cause u pain (physically,emotionally) I think instead of posting verbs on social media terminate the relation for ur safety.that’s what makes we think that woman consider money than their lives coz they like spending and commodities do u know how it feels when someone got a protect order against u and u have to stay away from a house u built or u paying ? Please sisters stop giving yourself excuses and safe your life !!!!
Iam single for life. I have suffered in relationships
Hi my dear thank you for sharing this post it helps a lot, people are going through the most
Please share Ntokozo's story after doing some research 😢
Is it me or most ANC men are abusive
From Kenya with ❤️
❤️ ❤️❤️❤️🇰🇪
Please do an Anele Tembe video. Understanding its not solved yet, i like the way you weave sense into the stories.
I’m working on it❤️❤️❤️, hopefully i’ll be done editing tomorrow. Thank you for watching 🙏
Whenever I come across such videos the questions I keep asking is: why do these men turn out to become monsters? Did it start from their childhood? How did their fathers treat their mothers? How can this circle be broken?
Am afraid until something drastic is done to avoid such gory stories, this chain of violence will continue to spread without an end in sight. Its so sad😭
I believe the truth will come out soon. Let's not judge him now let's wait for the law to take it's course.
Watching these gbv videos all i can say, we need to teach our girl kids self love, respect, worth, independence (please stop depending on men demanding gfriend allowances) . I guess these are the building block to get rid of gbv.
I know independent women who are with abusive and entitled husband's. We need to teach men to love themselves and love women properly.
Women get all the training but still
We live among monsters in this world.look after yrself ladies.Marriage and relationships are not goals
Yoh kodwa demon bani leli😢
I guess as woman we must have the guts to leave abuse must not happen for the second time. Once is enough we really really .
Other wise our children are the ones who suffer the most. ...
First here, I sleep here mos mna.
Lol! ❤️❤️❤️😅
Ubongvusa oe
Me too❤️❤️
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Any update on this story?
Thiza wam, he's probably out😢
The poor baby😭😭 seeing her mum get killed by her dad💔
You cant reason with an abuser. You can’t tell them you are leaving. They must just find you gone. Don’t tell relatives / friends who can tell him where you are.
I think you should do follow ups on the cases once they have been concluded...I think that would be cool 🤷
I will look into this, thank you for the suggestions. Some cases take years to conclude, this one for example is STILL pending☹️
I guess they need an Ice-boy in jail.
Dlozi la Jennifer is powerful
Gvt should normalize removing abusers from public positions even while investigating
So they let him enjoy Christmas and New years eve before arresting him... 🤔🤨👏
Malema said in Parliament am still coming to others imagine how he disrespected Malema that day about GBV
I feel sorry for all these ladies I went thru hell on my 7 yrs marriage...Beaten blue black there after raped while bleeding 😢😢i don't wanna say more but God rescued me and im thankful
Financial independence is very important my beautiful sisters
ANC has nothing to do with abusive husband. Hating ANC for irresponsible heartless abusers is completely out of truth. RIP to Jennifer.
woman should never bekezela in the name of money😢
How did they catch him? I mean what led to the arrest😭😭 rest in peace queen 👸
With all due respect to our elders,friends and culture, at times they enable this behaviour. Women get abused and go back home but the parents and unfortunately mostly women encourage you to go back and they tell you it’s normal. Bekezela, soldier on! For what, because tomorrow the man will kill you. We have to change the narrative, no violence should ever be justified. Not having a husband is not a sin. We should say NO to Marriage at ALL costs. Let’s encourage our girls to protect themselves and know that they are enough on their on. If a man is abusive, leave before it gets worse.
Sis please cover the case of Tshepang Pitse and Flavio Hlabangwane 🙏🏼
Will do, I’m currently working on it.
Hope you will cover some of the brutal farm attacks and murders. It must also be public to the world. You don’t see anything in the news about the brutal brutal way farmers and there families are being killed.
Such a young life taken so early in life...we need harsh punshment for these murderers...what happened to our beautiful country so much killing of young women...future leaders. 😥
Where is the children right now...I hope they are safe and get the necessary therapy....this is so sad 😥
Yes they are finally back with the Grandmother.
Thank you for taking your time and really unpacking for us these stories. I have to say that when you share can you please refrain from calling people especially men that you have already judged and sentenced stupid. We have a deep problem in this country of men that are violent, this cannot be normal. There’s a deep rooted problem that we need to address as women by covering our husband, brothers, fathers and sons in the intercession of prayer. It’s clear that they cannot do this alone, we need to come as a collective for this. When we call them names, it’s making things worse because the mouth speaks life or death. This comes from a caring place.
That's why GBV never ends because this.
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So the dude is out on bail and still insists he is innocent. #JusticeforJennifer
If he walks free it will be so sad. Every August winens month and every December we need an update on this GBV case from Parliament