You are very right I was in SA but left back to EA after the abuse got to much and I lied I was seeing my Aunt I just left with my son's clinic bag, that's Just a short story but don't say when you done n going 😢😢😢may her soul rest in peace..
Thank you for video. I'm glad that man's family came through and helped Nolovuyo's family. There is way too many people covering up for their own and not helping resolve crimes........So it's such a breath of fresh air that they came through with the bathtub suspicion...
@@shaneezmimie3222 it's very easy to do for as long as you leave the first time it happens....it only becomes harder the longer you stay and the more you tolerate
Not all men are the same! Do not forget that every woman has a six sense! So, if she was blinded by love and not listen to her intuition even by a slight chance, she was at fault too! And, if she really wanted to leave, she would have even though it wouldn't have been easy, but she would have alright? Hence why you shouldn't tell them ( Abuser ) what's your move... But, then, I am not arguing or being ignorant or anything. What happened was uncalled for, my her soul find peace. 🕊🙏
Am very scared of south africans, i had a business trip to south Africa in joburg i met a guy after 2 months of dating he became a control freak , i ran back to Zambia. Thank God am still alive it was hell.
My dad worked with this lady's dad, my sister knew the dad and because close with him after this ordeal, my aister says this ruined the dad on so many levels... its sad
I'm now even scared of my own hubby though he is very sweet, kind, loving, peaceful. Never had any form of abuse from him but I'm just scared just because I read all these sickening stories about men. Kya Sabisa nje
Guys watch how a man speaks to you from the moment he speaks to you throughout your dating life. If he ever disrespects you or does not respect what you have to say. Baleka!!! If he says he loves you within a week of meeting you or talking to you, please just run. These are abusive tendencies. So baleka tuuu please!!! After all how can he love you when he does not even know you. Never tolerate a man who dismisses what you have to say even if it seems like a small thing. This just means he does not care to invest in you emotionally
The bones under my flesh are shaking!!! I can't take hearing these details. The sheer evil and brutality of it all. Reminds me of the Francis Rasuge case. RIP Noluvuyo! Your life matters, even on the other side.
South African police like to fed information and not investigate the actual crime area or involved houses/ people. Had the kids never enquired about the bathtub this poor lady’s family would still not know how she lost her life. May he get the harshest punishment for this terrible act he did to the mother of his kids and for playing mind games with her family😢.
This is so heartbreaking, that beautiful woman that was trying her best for her family and her life just cut short like that. May Almighty God rest her soul 🙏🏽
😔SMH..It really troubles my heart and infuriates me inside as a black man that adores all of my sistas out there to see some of my our own kind, killing off our own black women in huge numbers like this. Every time I see things like this on the Fatal Attraction series or on #BlackWomenUnlost. I have NO words for this inexcusable and sickening behaviour. p.s. Thanks 4 sharing QUEEN👑🙏🏾
You are so talented!! The research analysis and reporting you do is delivered so concisely. Well done , you're creating awareness and giving the victims a voice. I honestly have gotten better insight to how bad the pathology of gender based violence is. CRAZY!!!
This excuse that an abuser is given countless chances for the children's sake is outdated,he mistreats you once pack your things and go you have family members,friends and colleagues out there,this forgiving lets work it out leads to one thing and 1 thing only DEATH because the impression they get from you ladies is that you dependent on them they own you.,let's change things it's starts with you making and taking an early wise decision
I experienced coercive control it's a form of abuse, I remember when I wnted to leave I was so paranoid about him killing me. He's never hit me but he would threaten to kill me and intimidated me with the threat of violence. I left him when I was sure he couldn't follow me from eastern cape(his home) to North West(my home) due to work. My therapist told me that I wasn't paranoid, most emotional abuse victims think that they are not in danger but they are in as much danger as physical abuse.
@@kingj7034 it's not just bravery, I left everything behind. My job, my furniture, left my son with his parents. I wanted him to have no reason or justification of pursuing me. He got married last year and I am finally at peace. I feel sorry for his wife but I'm just glad it's not me.
Mhsrip. Our elders used to forbid 🚫 marriages with unknown families for good reasons, you don't know that person's upbringing, their vulture and values to human life. We have allowed globalization and desire to meet new pple cloud our judgement to the nature of human. An animal first. Then the upbringing, family culture and values shape them as they grow into humans being. Let's raise our kids to be human beings. Let's create an environment conducive for kids to grow to be real mean and woman. We have so many broken families where kids are raised by a single parent. Most will turn out okay but not all.
When living an abusive partner, don't say anything. Whatever bag you're using for work, pack a shirt or two everyday take something that belongs to you make sure that you give them to a trusted friend or family member. Leave as if you're going to work.
Can’t believe there wasn’t a time where he was a suspect in this whole thing, they should have searched the house for clues a long time ago but ke this is SA🚮
I'm not surprised that he buried her in the home that they shared. He seems like the type that has severe separation anxiety as well as abusive ways and refuses to let her go in any way shape or form! That's why she was buried in the home in a place of the home where he would have to visit daily to use the bathroom 🪥 🚽🪠 where he can reminisce about his wife!!! It's sick to me!!! 🤷🏽♀️😔
Staying in an abusive relationship is dangerous, leaving an abusive relationship us dangerous. Just don't get into a relationship when you see red flags cos they're always there.
The guy abuses you physically and you forgive them hoping fir your kids to grow in a happy family…when you’re not happy??? You fall pregnant thinking that will help? Crazy how people get trapped in these vicious cycles and never stick to their guns when someone gets through to them and get them to lay charges
Honestly speaking, this mentality of "Men are all the same" or "Men are dogs" is just very inaccurate. Not all men are monstrous, the problem with most women is that they just don't want to admit that they are just meeting bad men and that alone makes them paint all men as monsters. They are a lot of good men out there who will go to extreme lengths to support their opposite gender partners to succeed in their lives. Even when there are arguments in that particular relationship or whatsoever, they'll try their best to fix it without any means of physical altercations. So I still believe such men do exist out there, you just can't easily find them nje.
So u tell me that he did that all alone and not in one point did he realise that he is takings it too far. He is a monster on note and does not belong in the community
I think the police did a bit of a shoddy job there. . . Why didn't they conduct a search pertaining to the fact that he was the last person recorded to have seen her... ? Anyway shoddy police work is everywhere in the world worse in the West, there it's blatant shoddy especially when it involves a black woman
If I was stupid/selfish or heartless,I could defend Yibanathi and say he did not do it,coz the way he was sweet and quiet at school at SEK Mqhayi,he couldn’t even kill a fly but he let the devil 👿 to turn him to be a monster and killed somebody else’s daughter like that and it’s worse that he buried under the bathtub that he uses to wash every day,he acted like a witchcraft and am sure he killed her for rituals, I know Nathi and we were at same high school and he was classmate and I was his sister’s friend and I used to sleep at his place even if her sister wasn’t there,and we live at NU 10,Mdantsane,but now he has done to his wife,it made me to be scared of him and I wouldn’t go near him, And remember siqhele ukuya eMqhayi ebusuku siyokufunda sizokubhalela iMatric,sasiye so them be yena nechomi yakhe that there will protect us,and am sure everyone that knew him before he turned to be a monster is very shocked,and ndifuna agwetywe shame big time for ukbulala umntana bantu May Nonkwelo’s Soul Rest In Peace 🙏🙏🙏
@@sunshinemotanyane6359 I think quite people are best instrument for the devil 👿 to use,coz Nathi was very nice guy and to do such an evil 👿 thing it’s really unbelievable
Heeeee wethu i know him too from kwa 10…. Hes so quiet, sweet yheeeses maaaan what a pyschooo, how can he do this. May he rot in jail nxxxxxxxx ndikhula naye Nathi haaaai ngumhlooola
@@anelamafu6264 Xa ungowakwa-10 maybe siyazana ke moss Hey wayelunge nyani uNathi kunye no-brother wakhe omncinci uMagebhula,I couldn’t not believe that he committed such high level of crime,coz I know him as a person who couldn’t kill even mpukane and he used to like to laugh with his gorgeous smile,but he let the devil 👿 used him so bad,hai nam ndifuna agwetywe and ahlele ejele for long time,and we all know that umvuzo wesono kukufa
I find it very difficult to understand why a beautiful woman from a loving family will remain in an abusive relationship AND HER FAMILY LET HER STAY THERE! Now they have lost her to the monster in whose care they left their precious daughter and sister. Rest in Peace lovely lady. I thank God for giving the cousins courage to speak up about the bathtub.
The police useless as usual, how did they never get a search warrant to search the house right at the beginning! It is a fact, in cases like this be it a man or woman that’s missing, their partner or spouse becomes the first person of interest or suspect!!! Useless SAPS domkop police!!!
I'm also not satisfied with the way the police dealt with case. I mean everyone knew how abusive this man was towards Noluvuyo. So their home was supposed to be the first place they went to look for her. 💔 It's heartbreaking honestly
If a man beats u for the first time, you become a recovering victim. BUT if you get back with him u become a lifetime victim. At every disagreement he will beat you up and be sorry. It becomes a vicious circle until u lose your life. I don't care if he drags u behind his car or it's just a slap across ur beautiful face. I will not tolerate even a near miss. A guy during my salad days beat me once. To date, he regrets it. I left him. I deleted him in every aspect. This was the promise I had made with my conscient and made sure to communicate it to him. The fool tried me 6years into the relationship and I dumped him. Oh boy this is one thing I will never negotiate. I am currently in a very loving marriage but "the principle of no beating or else" remains firm.
We need lessons in high-school to teach women on how to deal with men who show signs of abuse. In south africa, it is necessary.
Never tell your abuser you are leaving. Plan and leave.
So sad
Never stay after the first sign and strike. But you women have endless forgiveness when it comes to men esp dysfunctional ones
Yes dear
You are very right I was in SA but left back to EA after the abuse got to much and I lied I was seeing my Aunt I just left with my son's clinic bag, that's Just a short story but don't say when you done n going 😢😢😢may her soul rest in peace..
Well said.
@@Vv-fl2rm🎉polo 🎉plp
Mna im single for life shame. I have a bad experience with man. I have been practicing celibacy for 4years..
Better safe than sorry my sister
As long you are happy, is for me a normal family home setup is what I want
Same here, single and celibate for years now.
Well done sisi
Watching from zimbabwe
me tooo im addicted to the show
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Thank you for video. I'm glad that man's family came through and helped Nolovuyo's family. There is way too many people covering up for their own and not helping resolve crimes........So it's such a breath of fresh air that they came through with the bathtub suspicion...
RIP SIS❤. I was sadly admitted in same ward as her after she was beaten up by this cruel boy. I didn't know her, but she was very open and nice.😥
It hit close to home😢😢😢😢
Nice people forgive easier. I'm better off a 'vorspot' person😢
You beat me once, I'm gone. There is no such thing as a reconciliation
True
U are lyk me..just one slap is enough
Totally agree
Easier said than done though....😔😭
@@shaneezmimie3222 it's very easy to do for as long as you leave the first time it happens....it only becomes harder the longer you stay and the more you tolerate
Such a beautiful soul 😞. Hayi we should consider leaving men alone.
What and start dating women?
Not all men are the same!
Do not forget that every woman has a six sense!
So, if she was blinded by love and not listen to her intuition even by a slight chance, she was at fault too!
And, if she really wanted to leave, she would have even though it wouldn't have been easy, but she would have alright? Hence why you shouldn't tell them ( Abuser ) what's your move...
But, then, I am not arguing or being ignorant or anything. What happened was uncalled for, my her soul find peace. 🕊🙏
I truly believe the dead fight in the spiritual realm. Her spirit guided the children to that bathtub.
It's the holy spirit that leaded.. ull nvr hide anything from God
Am very scared of south africans, i had a business trip to south Africa in joburg i met a guy after 2 months of dating he became a control freak , i ran back to Zambia. Thank God am still alive it was hell.
I wish most women would see the red flags and ran
It's really not a south African problem, it's a global problem😢
Unfortunately GBV Is a global issue.. SA is probably more vocal about the stats and stories
Unfortunately GBV Is a global issue.. SA is probably more vocal about the stats and stories
Please upload more often. Discovered your channel and I finished everything in one day😍😍 you're good
My dad worked with this lady's dad, my sister knew the dad and because close with him after this ordeal, my aister says this ruined the dad on so many levels... its sad
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These stories make me more n more scared of entering a relationship with indoda. Kunzima in South Africa guys. RIP Noluvuyo.
Same here😢
Nami ngiyasaba!!
Kunzima for real in South Africa guy's.
I'm now even scared of my own hubby though he is very sweet, kind, loving, peaceful. Never had any form of abuse from him but I'm just scared just because I read all these sickening stories about men. Kya Sabisa nje
@@kingj7034 Sorry babes , you need to pray oe ahlale as sweet as he is.
Guys watch how a man speaks to you from the moment he speaks to you throughout your dating life. If he ever disrespects you or does not respect what you have to say. Baleka!!!
If he says he loves you within a week of meeting you or talking to you, please just run. These are abusive tendencies. So baleka tuuu please!!!
After all how can he love you when he does not even know you. Never tolerate a man who dismisses what you have to say even if it seems like a small thing. This just means he does not care to invest in you emotionally
Stop lying
Great work sthandwa....I heard about this story but never got to hear the details. Thanks and keep doing what you're doing.
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Such a tragic outcome. Some men don't take rejection well. Even if you leave silently they will track you down. R.I.P. 🕯 💐 ✝️.
I heard my notification bell ring and automatically got excited. I love your channel.👍 Great video.
Watching from SA❤️😍
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The bones under my flesh are shaking!!! I can't take hearing these details. The sheer evil and brutality of it all. Reminds me of the Francis Rasuge case. RIP Noluvuyo! Your life matters, even on the other side.
Some people are messed up. This is so sadistic 😢💔 May Noluvuyo's Soul Rest In Peace, and may all her loved ones find healing. 🕯🙏🏼🕊
I like your narrations girl!
Good job 👍
Thank you! 😄❤️
Heeeee correction:
I like how you tell the tale 👌🏽
Not the actual horrifying killings 🫣
South African police like to fed information and not investigate the actual crime area or involved houses/ people. Had the kids never enquired about the bathtub this poor lady’s family would still not know how she lost her life. May he get the harshest punishment for this terrible act he did to the mother of his kids and for playing mind games with her family😢.
This is so heartbreaking, that beautiful woman that was trying her best for her family and her life just cut short like that. May Almighty God rest her soul 🙏🏽
😔SMH..It really troubles my heart and infuriates me inside as a black man that adores all of my sistas out there to see some of my our own kind, killing off our own black women in huge numbers like this. Every time I see things like this on the Fatal Attraction series or on #BlackWomenUnlost. I have NO words for this inexcusable and sickening behaviour. p.s. Thanks 4 sharing QUEEN👑🙏🏾
South African man stop killing your woman ,if you don't have any thing to fight go in the street and fight the bulldogs.
When he beat her with a steel bar snd she lost the baby that was a dealbreaker!
Just discovered your channel ❤️ looove it!
Welcome!!❤️
Very intelligent lady .You explanation was brilliant and clear
Great content indeed. Love how you do your research and how you present the case soo thoroughly and well articulated.
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Thank you Sana!! Yiza nazo uyixela kammandi. We love you!! Please let is know the sentencing of this evil man!!
So heartbreaking 💔! This man is sick… imagine. RIP angel 🕊️
Great job to her sister for speaking this story and bringing awareness to her sisters death as the last act to do for her
You are so talented!! The research analysis and reporting you do is delivered so concisely. Well done , you're creating awareness and giving the victims a voice. I honestly have gotten better insight to how bad the pathology of gender based violence is. CRAZY!!!
First From Kenya 🇰🇪
Love you guys!
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This channel is so important for all. Would be great to have on our National TV . Great work indeed🤙👍
Some men come from dysfunctional family and didn't get love and got so angry in life that they act out their anger on the wrong people
Argh justifying his actions as usual? Women are not rehabilitation centers .
Rest in Peace Noluvuyo Nonkwelo, you were a beautiful and bright soul and you didn't deserve this. We love you always angel!! ❤❤
This man killed Noluvuyo next to her kid and promised the kid if she told anyone she will follow her mother, imagine the trauma the kid went through.
It's heartbreaking just thinking about it 😢
Oh my God ,may justice be prevailed
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I've just discovered your channel and I've been binge watching all these crime stories. You are so good at storytelling.
Thank you so much Akho I appreciate this comment ❤️🙏
This excuse that an abuser is given countless chances for the children's sake is outdated,he mistreats you once pack your things and go you have family members,friends and colleagues out there,this forgiving lets work it out leads to one thing and 1 thing only DEATH because the impression they get from you ladies is that you dependent on them they own you.,let's change things it's starts with you making and taking an early wise decision
I experienced coercive control it's a form of abuse, I remember when I wnted to leave I was so paranoid about him killing me. He's never hit me but he would threaten to kill me and intimidated me with the threat of violence. I left him when I was sure he couldn't follow me from eastern cape(his home) to North West(my home) due to work. My therapist told me that I wasn't paranoid, most emotional abuse victims think that they are not in danger but they are in as much danger as physical abuse.
Good for you sis. I wish more women could be as brave as you.
@@kingj7034 it's not just bravery, I left everything behind. My job, my furniture, left my son with his parents. I wanted him to have no reason or justification of pursuing me. He got married last year and I am finally at peace. I feel sorry for his wife but I'm just glad it's not me.
I am very proud of you 🤍
So it means no one went to Noluvuyo’s residence after she was reported missing? 😮 this is so heartbreaking
Exactly. Had someone just entered the house, they would've realised that something was off.
I really enjoy your content 👌 RIP to all these beautiful souls🕊️
I have been waiting yoh! Thank you girl❤
Just discovered your channel now and I subscribe CZ I want to see more videos
From al the videos i watch this is the first video i got goosh bumps 😢
How he managed to sleep in that house is a mystery
That's what i always ask my self balala njani vele 2years is too long nje
Best content ever ❤ watching from SA
Hi Sweetie, good to hear from you ❤️ thank you for the upload xx
Mhsrip. Our elders used to forbid 🚫 marriages with unknown families for good reasons, you don't know that person's upbringing, their vulture and values to human life. We have allowed globalization and desire to meet new pple cloud our judgement to the nature of human. An animal first. Then the upbringing, family culture and values shape them as they grow into humans being. Let's raise our kids to be human beings. Let's create an environment conducive for kids to grow to be real mean and woman. We have so many broken families where kids are raised by a single parent. Most will turn out okay but not all.
Can we please have the story of Tshepo Rakoma who was killed by an obsessive boyfriend.
When living an abusive partner, don't say anything. Whatever bag you're using for work, pack a shirt or two everyday take something that belongs to you make sure that you give them to a trusted friend or family member. Leave as if you're going to work.
I left Immediately after he went to work. Good thing he didn’t know where in Limpopo I was from
Love your case presentation ever, keep it up!
Good idea
You earned yourself a subscriber. Very informative and well put together.
thank you for these videos.....i wish you had a channel and i could pay subscription because you are quality
Thank you🙏 ❤️
So painful,what a cruel man 😢,am short of words
i love crime shows im glued to 48hours nd true crime
I love what you give us.may the Lord bless you
Thank you sooo much!❤️🙏🏽
Can’t believe there wasn’t a time where he was a suspect in this whole thing, they should have searched the house for clues a long time ago but ke this is SA🚮
Why am I only coming across your channel now 🤭. Great content, love it.
Thank you so much Zinitha❤️
Hayini this is soo painful he deserves to rot in jail
Love your content. I would suggest you add subtitles for your non-South African languages speakers
Thank you, trying to get someone who can assist me with that.❤️🙏
Ooooohhhhh my friend, I'm sooo heart broken. I think about u and the kids all the time.
Disgusting how these men feel entitled to killing nje
I just subscribed to your channel! We the people need to know about these crimes/incidents 🤔
Helping digging is sick and insane 😢
Love your content , Can we please have the story of the lady that was killed by flavio hlabangwane
I'm not surprised that he buried her in the home that they shared. He seems like the type that has severe separation anxiety as well as abusive ways and refuses to let her go in any way shape or form! That's why she was buried in the home in a place of the home where he would have to visit daily to use the bathroom 🪥 🚽🪠 where he can reminisce about his wife!!! It's sick to me!!! 🤷🏽♀️😔
RIP sisi. # justice for Noluvuyo . I wish our Justice system can take human life seriously. That man is a monster he deserves to rot in jail 😩💔
I agree. How was a search not done at the time of disappearance. Poor service
Once someone raise their hand at you once. Be gone.
Staying in an abusive relationship is dangerous, leaving an abusive relationship us dangerous. Just don't get into a relationship when you see red flags cos they're always there.
Never trust a man who wears shoes without socks 💀👞
Why please elaborate...
Happy New babes n siyabonga do the 2 videos I can't wait.
This is so terrifying 😭
Women...when you are in an abusive relationship, do not announce your exit...leave the relationship quietly and move as far away as possible
Oh wow😮
The guy abuses you physically and you forgive them hoping fir your kids to grow in a happy family…when you’re not happy??? You fall pregnant thinking that will help? Crazy how people get trapped in these vicious cycles and never stick to their guns when someone gets through to them and get them to lay charges
Nobody I know want to be once single mothers but I'm happy I made the best choice for me it still comes with pain and stigma
RIP Vovo this is too sad🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I honestly believe that Man hate us 😢😢😢😢😢
Very true my dear , they hate us
It's psychological. They can't stand strong, intelligent women because in this case it sounds like it was inferiority complex he had.
Yes they do , always have
Honestly speaking, this mentality of "Men are all the same" or "Men are dogs" is just very inaccurate. Not all men are monstrous, the problem with most women is that they just don't want to admit that they are just meeting bad men and that alone makes them paint all men as monsters. They are a lot of good men out there who will go to extreme lengths to support their opposite gender partners to succeed in their lives. Even when there are arguments in that particular relationship or whatsoever, they'll try their best to fix it without any means of physical altercations. So I still believe such men do exist out there, you just can't easily find them nje.
Such wickedness mare.....he should not be let out
So u tell me that he did that all alone and not in one point did he realise that he is takings it too far. He is a monster on note and does not belong in the community
I think the police did a bit of a shoddy job there. . . Why didn't they conduct a search pertaining to the fact that he was the last person recorded to have seen her... ? Anyway shoddy police work is everywhere in the world worse in the West, there it's blatant shoddy especially when it involves a black woman
I loved South African men now I fear the😢😢😢😢😢
Why are you not posting. I was looking forward to you narrating the malatji story
May her soul rest in peace this is heartbreaking 💔
Not all houses are homely and angry parents make angry children
They do but it's up to the child to break the trauma and generational curses nobody to blame but ourselves
I wonder how love turns sour,God watch relationships
If I was stupid/selfish or heartless,I could defend Yibanathi and say he did not do it,coz the way he was sweet and quiet at school at SEK Mqhayi,he couldn’t even kill a fly but he let the devil 👿 to turn him to be a monster and killed somebody else’s daughter like that and it’s worse that he buried under the bathtub that he uses to wash every day,he acted like a witchcraft and am sure he killed her for rituals,
I know Nathi and we were at same high school and he was classmate and I was his sister’s friend and I used to sleep at his place even if her sister wasn’t there,and we live at NU 10,Mdantsane,but now he has done to his wife,it made me to be scared of him and I wouldn’t go near him,
And remember siqhele ukuya eMqhayi ebusuku siyokufunda sizokubhalela iMatric,sasiye so them be yena nechomi yakhe that there will protect us,and am sure everyone that knew him before he turned to be a monster is very shocked,and ndifuna agwetywe shame big time for ukbulala umntana bantu
May Nonkwelo’s Soul Rest In Peace 🙏🙏🙏
The quite ones are sociopath. They know how to manipulate cos they use kindness as weapon.
@@sunshinemotanyane6359 I think quite people are best instrument for the devil 👿 to use,coz Nathi was very nice guy and to do such an evil 👿 thing it’s really unbelievable
@@sunshinemotanyane6359 very True
Heeeee wethu i know him too from kwa 10…. Hes so quiet, sweet yheeeses maaaan what a pyschooo, how can he do this. May he rot in jail nxxxxxxxx ndikhula naye Nathi haaaai ngumhlooola
@@anelamafu6264 Xa ungowakwa-10 maybe siyazana ke moss
Hey wayelunge nyani uNathi kunye no-brother wakhe omncinci uMagebhula,I couldn’t not believe that he committed such high level of crime,coz I know him as a person who couldn’t kill even mpukane and he used to like to laugh with his gorgeous smile,but he let the devil 👿 used him so bad,hai nam ndifuna agwetywe and ahlele ejele for long time,and we all know that umvuzo wesono kukufa
I find it very difficult to understand why a beautiful woman from a loving family will remain in an abusive relationship AND HER FAMILY LET HER STAY THERE! Now they have lost her to the monster in whose care they left their precious daughter and sister. Rest in Peace lovely lady. I thank God for giving the cousins courage to speak up about the bathtub.
You think it is easy to get a whole human being out of marriage... Tell me, are they supposed to drag her out and lock her in?
I always tell women, never wait for death,immediately you see dangers,just match away, let's love ourselves my fellow women
Unfortunately she was married to someone different from her loving family. Besides romantic relationships nd family relationships are different
Can you protect the children by blurring their faces🙏🏽
The police useless as usual, how did they never get a search warrant to search the house right at the beginning! It is a fact, in cases like this be it a man or woman that’s missing, their partner or spouse becomes the first person of interest or suspect!!! Useless SAPS domkop police!!!
So basically the police never searched the house or even investigate the husband
I'm also not satisfied with the way the police dealt with case. I mean everyone knew how abusive this man was towards Noluvuyo. So their home was supposed to be the first place they went to look for her. 💔 It's heartbreaking honestly
After 2 years and half😭😭😭, South African police is useless 🚮
May God heal the family and give them peace. 🕊️
If a man beats u for the first time, you become a recovering victim. BUT if you get back with him u become a lifetime victim. At every disagreement he will beat you up and be sorry. It becomes a vicious circle until u lose your life. I don't care if he drags u behind his car or it's just a slap across ur beautiful face. I will not tolerate even a near miss. A guy during my salad days beat me once. To date, he regrets it. I left him. I deleted him in every aspect. This was the promise I had made with my conscient and made sure to communicate it to him. The fool tried me 6years into the relationship and I dumped him. Oh boy this is one thing I will never negotiate. I am currently in a very loving marriage but "the principle of no beating or else" remains firm.
The other way round is the reality too. Pointing out the case of abusive wives.
kutheni ungatheti IsiXhosa nje cc
Jeez💔
first time you're a victim but second time you're a volunteer
Yoo🤭this man isibindi esingaka 😳💔
This man was pure evil, not only killing his wife but playing mind games with the family too. 💔💔💔💔 poor children