Bearing The Unbearable: Grieving The Loss of a Child with guest speaker Dr Joanne Cacciatore

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 26 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @taragoldfarb6209
    @taragoldfarb6209 11 місяців тому +9

    I lost my only child my sweet precious daughter. Getting out of bed is a miracle. I'm trying to survive this. I'm still in shock when I it really happened pain is unbearable

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 6 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry ❤ please, never give up on a happy life, you can't change the past, but you can build a better future and learn for this experience and even help others with this kind of problems❤

  • @judithwallace2091
    @judithwallace2091 3 роки тому +13

    Stillborn is still born. 💖

  • @karenmoss7999
    @karenmoss7999 2 роки тому +15

    Thank you. I thought Dr. Cacciatore to be an inspiration. I lost my son almost 2 years ago. The grief weighs so heavily on my husband and myself. He was our whole world and a bright light. It helps to know there are people out there who understand

  • @nubianqueen4375
    @nubianqueen4375 2 роки тому +15

    I don’t know whether I will ever be able to go over grieving my teenage daughter. It’s hitting me more every day now..

  • @patriciabasurto9502
    @patriciabasurto9502 2 роки тому +18

    The pain i feel with the loss of my son is simply paralyzing. My son took his own life by fentanyl when he was 30. I am 😞 lost in grief.

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 6 місяців тому +1

      I'm so sorry ❤the grief never disappears, but you can control it, keep going, forgive you live a happy ❤good luck

  • @dominiquebarnum8560
    @dominiquebarnum8560 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for the service you provide. Its a club no one ever wanted to be in. I lost my 21 year old daughter Christina in a car accident in 2017. The compassionate network is a blessing. I would like to participate in some way as well.

  • @janetteashton9383
    @janetteashton9383 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you. Lots to take away. Just want to say we are alone in loosing our specific and unique child. But we are not alone in the grief journey. Hugs to all. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • @giamehlos5087
    @giamehlos5087 2 роки тому +15

    I lost my only child; he was 21 January 2nd 2021. It feels like yesterday he was my entire world!

    • @nubianqueen4375
      @nubianqueen4375 2 роки тому +2

      I share your pain dear and sorry for your loss and pain. I lost my only daughter at 16yrs, 10yrs ago and it feels new every day. They say time heals but with me it hasn’t

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 6 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry for you two ❤ don't worry the grief doesn't disappears, but you can keep going and never give up on a happy life, control the grief and forgive you, that's the only way when the pain it's going to really hela something ❤

  • @pfox9962
    @pfox9962 2 роки тому +13

    Thanks Joanne I was so impressed when you asked each person for their loved ones name. My son David passed just a year ago but when someone speaks his name to me it is such a balm, a gift to my heart. Sometimes it’s the simplest thing that can have a big effect. It was also a relief to hear you speak about grief as a sacred ground. Your insight and work is such a blessing. Thank you with all my heart🌈💗🙏

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 6 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry ❤ you're a great eoman fir surpass and share this, thnaksnfor help so much people ❤

  • @deniserodemich6268
    @deniserodemich6268 2 роки тому +20

    I lost my son two months ago and his death was horrific. I feel like I have ptsd alone mg with my grief. I feel now like all I have to look forward to is death.

    • @carolmusselman8859
      @carolmusselman8859 2 роки тому +1

      I hope you are doing better, my Mom died 5/1/22 and yesterday was her 89th birthday, I miss her so much

    • @AngelinaX23
      @AngelinaX23 2 роки тому +11

      @@carolmusselman8859 Losing a beloved parent is hard. But it's a very different type of grief from losing a child.

    • @pudik2008
      @pudik2008 2 роки тому +6

      My heart breaks for you,there is no greater pain of losing a child! Hugs to you! ❤️

    • @maureenoreilly8700
      @maureenoreilly8700 10 місяців тому +1

      Worst pain ever to lose a child.

    • @ShinebrightToday
      @ShinebrightToday 9 місяців тому

      So sorry for the loss of your son😢 how are you doing today

  • @klarafialova7101
    @klarafialova7101 2 роки тому +2

    I have been watching this every day since my son suddenly died. Thank you.💔

  • @bredaogrady-k9y
    @bredaogrady-k9y 7 місяців тому

    I lost my beloved son mark 22 yrs old never got over hid death my life's never the same that book sounds helpful l must get it all keep me going is my remaining son God bless him and keep him safe he's suffered with pts after my eldest son passed l.only had the two of them my heart breaks for my remaking son he's never been the same l.can resonate so much

  • @gerihing7494
    @gerihing7494 2 роки тому +2

    I just finished Dr. Cacciatore's book, Bearing the unbearable. It's a great read, very insightful. I'm planning on gifting the book to a couple of my relative. Thank you for bringing your compassion and knowledge to the public. I think it will help a lot of people struggling with grief. Many blessings..

  • @karabosedie4480
    @karabosedie4480 Рік тому +4

    I lost my youngest son on the 22nd August 2023 in a car accident on his way from school he was 15 years old,it really hurts too deep how do i move on from this trauma?

    • @ShinebrightToday
      @ShinebrightToday 9 місяців тому +1

      I also lost my son in a car accident in January 2024 he was just 3 y.o😢 sending you love and support❤❤❤

  • @karabosedie4480
    @karabosedie4480 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much

  • @jennebeattie3168
    @jennebeattie3168 Рік тому

    Incredible!!! THANK YOU ❤

  • @rebekaht90
    @rebekaht90 Рік тому +2

    I had a baby I was at 24 weeks along. I had hormonal infection story short I had the baby boy lived a hour and a half and passed away after on December 21, 2018. Later on when I came home and was with my family and my family members said that we are not parents, even if we lost a child, that’s one thing I had to deal with when I was going through loss and grief.

    • @Veedub09
      @Veedub09 Рік тому

      Of course you are parents. I lost my 25 year old. I’m still her mum. You are still your baby boys mummy and daddy.

  • @MadresDesaparecidosEvolucionan

    How do I go on? What to do? Personally, I was reborn when my son disappeared after the substraction by his father. First, I was lost, doing what Joanne recommends: dwelling in pain, paralyzed, histerical and full of guilt. But this is like watching the finger while you are missing the whole heavenly glory. Dear grieving mom/dad: you got to choose!!!! Give your situation a new sense: you are free now. Your child is not with you anymore. My son León is not with me anymore. That's reality. We got to get in contact with reality, brothers and sisters!! Not dwell in the past, spend time in the garden with this imaginary son, feeling guilty for laughing. Would your child like that about you? Of course not!!!! He/she would want to see us happy!!!! (And you know that) So, choose to be happy. Yes, it is a choice. Joanne Cacciatore sais it is not. Buda sais it is. I know it is. Science and religion have proven it.... It doesn't matter who is right or wrong. The reality is that now you and me, we are free from our child, so that is a second opportunity by itself, an opportunity to do it better now, to go higher, to become better, to build a life that would make our child proud, to pursue that dream we had before all that (like traveling to Japan, travel the world, start a business, make folk music, make love everyday, masturbate, go vegan, invest in real estate...). Science proofed we can heal ourselves from terminal diseases. . DO NOT FEEL GUILTY FOR CHOOSING HAPPINESS. HAPPINESS IS OUR CORE BEING. DO NOT KEEP WATCHING THE FINGER OR YOU WILL MISS ALL THAT HEAVENLY GLORY. On Mother's Day, I make a cake and make a party at a local orphanage. They are happy and I get a chance to be mom for a day. That fills our heart, theirs and mine. Dear grieving mom/dad: love yourself so much that your heart loves everyone around you so everybody can feel and wanna be next to your high gravitational vibration, so you are a blessing to this world, because YOU ARE ALIVE!!!! LIFE KEEPS YOU ALIVE BECAUSE LIFE WANTS YOU TO LIVE: SO LIVE FULLY!!!!

    • @NegMit
      @NegMit Рік тому

      Thanks for the beautiful comment ❤

  • @AshCal10
    @AshCal10 Рік тому

    thank you this has been very helpful !!

  • @jennebeattie3168
    @jennebeattie3168 Рік тому +1

    Are these online meetings still taking place? I would love to attend. I lost my 14 year old son, 15 months ago.

  • @michellefrench6617
    @michellefrench6617 2 роки тому +1

    Dell 😆😽She’s a comfort. Pretty kitty.

  • @VladyslavKL
    @VladyslavKL 3 роки тому +3

    🕊

  • @nancybecker5428
    @nancybecker5428 2 роки тому +1

    Hi. Iam. Nancy. Becker. I. Am. Look. Forward. To. Meet. You.

  • @livelovenow8862
    @livelovenow8862 3 роки тому +2

    Sounds new age.