How To Talk To Women Without Overthinking!
Вставка
- Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
- How to talk to women without overthinking. I give you examples of what to do and how men ruin the awkward moment of silence instead of seeing if a woman will show up. The key is to pick up on what she is giving you. Women love to talk about themselves.
Also, when that does not work ask her a question that is powerful. I give an example of 6:01.
There is so much pressure in trying to impress a woman and if there is pressure in the impression then you aren't going to shine through of who you really are.
LINKS:
[MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE -AUDIO SEMINAR]
www.apolloniaponti.com/master...
**PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS **
www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...
[ONLINE DATING RESULTS FOR MEN]
www.apolloniaponti.com/online...
[OVERCOME NEEDINESS & ATTACHMENTS]
www.apolloniaponti.com/Overco...
[HOW TO TEXT A WOMAN AND BOOST ATTRACTION]
www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to...
[ BLOG ]
www.apolloniaponti.com/blog/
[ FREE EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMAN
www.apolloniaponti.com/7Commo...
[FREE MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELF
www.apolloniaponti.com/20-dee...
[SOCIAL MEDIA]
Facebook: / apollonialov. .
Instagram: / apollonia_ponti
[CONTACT ME] **PLEASE SEE NOTE BELOW
NOTE*** Advice will ONLY be given to your situation if you book a coaching session. If you cannot afford a session please reference my blogs and videos as this is why I provide this content. Due to volume and fairness to paying clients please book a session if you need further guidance. Appreciate your understanding.
Media, coaching questions, and interviews: info@apolloniaponti.com
Apollonia Ponti
Good For You by THBD / thbdsultan
Creative Commons - Attribution 3.0 Unported- CC BY 3.0
creativecommons.org/licenses/b...
Music promoted by Audio Library • Good For You - THBD (N...
Let's help each other out! Give the men below some ideas. What is something you can say to a woman to open up conversation besides "hello" ? :) Would love to hear this! I have a feeling this is going to be hilarious! LOL
I don't say anything I just look in their eyes 😍😍😍😍😍 then they say. Why are you looking at me like that.. Then I snap out of it... and say... Like what... They start blushing.
For one..I don't do "hilarious!..the word is an instant turn off..for this deep diver!..do you find this reply .. hilarious?.. ask yourself... about this 'category' of people who find the world a hilarious place..what is their defining characteristic? ..is this what the planet needs right now?..what timbre of men who don't do... hilarious...are there any women out there to match them?..
By basically tell her your name first then you asked her wats is her name started from there... Right coach??
😍😍😍😍😏
After we exchanged names and then maybe make her laugh then I say "so tell me something interesting about yourself"...
That really throws them off! But once they come up with something then continue to talk about that and then eventually they ask you "so tell me something interesting about you". And I already have a go to answer for that. Then after I mentioned that stay silent that way she has to continue talking. ;)
"She needs to impress you too." GOLD!!
That's the point of the interview (if he's calling it a date, the man's mindset is already broke), the man is the interviewer asking questions, and she is the candidate seeking approval and acceptance. This is the ONLY context to speak with a women you are on a date with, interested in, or in any way sexually interested, period. The man will dominate the conversation's architecture whilst saying very little, and she will love him for it, as she gives her best presentation getting emotionally high. Make sense?
What if she doesn’t want to?🚶🏻♂️
@@scottjones7553 Yes what you said makes sense. I'm going on a date with a girl on October 18th which is tomorrow lol. She has a beautiful face with thick butt and thighs while still being slim, she is into fitness. I'm also a virgin so this is exciting.
@@napoleondynamite4148 lmao leave her immediately then, if you catch signs like she is not interested talking to you, best action at the time would be to take a step back
Right it shouldn’t be one sided
"Are you shy? ...Because I haven't heard you ask me anything." Apollonia is too good at this stuff.
Moo
Sounds good on paper, but the way she said it sounded abrasive. Doubt most women would appreciate that
Wrong... If a man doesn't ask you any questions back it means he's genuinely not interested in you and could careless in getting to know you.. There, that was simple and it is also a fact!
It's because women always seem to want the man to carry the entire conversation & basically keep them entertained the whole entire time. Unfortunately if we don't do this they tend to see us as uninteresting & tell their friends that we are the boring ones.
For real
No ! You have all the power to control how you want the conversation to go . It's an experience your giving her so you have it lead her,if you stand there talking too much her will continue to listen to you . Just leave silence for her to engage also . The process is between two people . It's like a dance , think of it like that .
Yes, you're absolutely right. It seems like we have to put a circus show in order to keep them entertained.
@@Pantera972 that's what she is saying here, don't give them a circus show. Give her room to talk, and if she can't, best to find someone who can!
You can't control anything if she is disinterested
Any man with a sense of self worth knows that both genders have to impress one another. 😎
True.
That's the problem, a lot of guys don't have a high value of self worth, confidence. It's easy to say be more confident and increase your value, I think it's more intricate than that.
Me approaching a girl: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: Good, thanks.
I'm exactly the same hahahahaha
LOL this got me
Mission accomplished lol
Bro chat about anything that you want. If she likes you, she'll be interested
It's a working progress
After 44 years of marriage, silence suits me just fine...not all, but a lot of the time. My wife often says, “You never ask me questions, I’m always asking you questions.” Now, 44 years ago I’m sure it was different but I can barely remember how it was then. Your advice to the young guys is always on point, Apollonia.
Joe Mancini good day joe
ask her the question, give her the dopamine she craves, come on show her you love her by getting her high!
DOES IT WOEK THO
?
i have been looking for this video my whole life. thank you so much!
Thank you for watching!
Nothing wrong with a comfortable silence!
Oh MY😍😍😍😍😍
I PLAY VIDEO GAMES AND THE GIRL IS TALKING I ANSWER HER QUESTIONS AND STAY SILENT THEN SHE GOES WHY DONT YOU TALK AND THAT TUIRNS HER ON AND THEN WE TAlk
But a lot of people dont like silence period. Resulting in them feeling awkward and will leave.
This girl is awesome !! She’s spot on and what makes it even better is that she’s not bitter or biased like many other videos out there.
#facts
Apollonia, I love it! Show up and be yourself! I love the silent part, make the woman talk!
Thank you!
your are a women with such PASSION, INTELLIGENCE, and WIT!
really ENJOY listening to you perspective.
you are SPOT ON!
THANKS!!!
I am following many channels about dating advice and so far this is the most sincere one.
Thank you for all that you do Apollonia. I’m glad to see your channel growing!
What a relief... Thank you Apollonia Ponti. You're awesome.
This is really smart and makes me realize I did always feel this pressure to impress or to keep the conversation going. I like that how you explain it too makes it about just trying to see if she's interested or not and moving on if she isn't. That's great advice.
You are my best online friend. Very helpful suggestion. Thanks you mam
“The eyes chico, they never lie”
Tony Montana from Scarface
I think that he said chichi get the yayo
Chico means boy in spanish :D
I do everything you said in this video yes I'm only 5ft 3 tall a lil chubby yet I accept the man that I am take it or leave it life is Good
Work on yourself. Don't just remain a chubby guy. You cannot fix height but fix what you can.
Apollonia,
Again another great video. What you said about " She needs to impress you too ". I sometimes ask myself why I always have to initiate the conversation . If she is there only the free meal, drinks and not for my company, then she's not appreciating or value me.
She's speaking truth you shouldn't have to try so hard to impress I was on a date with this lady and she was feeling awkward I told her pretend it's our 3rd date we laughed and had a great conversations and a good date !!!
Yes 'AP'...I love the content in this video! Thank You
Man I needed this. Great points and with great guidance. Thank you for being real!!!
Just an eye-opening video! Gold!
thanks Queen you give us 💯 scientifically proven tips I was reading a lot about it tonight Wishing you long life
This woman is so wise...
Woah Man
Wow you are the only person that but it in that way . So many vids out there explaining how to chat ladies up . I have never heard this before yet . Great stuff
I love you Apollonia.. Thank you for this video. ❤
Very informative. I love & respect your wisdom.
Mam I must say this, You are most honest lady I had ever saw in this UA-cam who tell only the truth to their audiences.
#respect
#loveApolloniaponti
Hi Laxmikant,
Thank you for your comment.
Best,
Apollonia
are you shy? because i haven't heard you ask anything.
THESE WORDS ARE SO POWERFUL!!
Thank you for being bold enough to speak on this! We really appreciate the effort. Made me a better man.
Your channel is one of the best on UA-cam presented by a woman 👌.
Whenever I've been on dates and there's a silence I immediately panic and start talking about myself. Not anymore, I'll give this method a shot. Thanks AP
It work?
Wow! I really really struggle with this when it comes to women. Apollonia Ponti you really help me clear up some issues I have, thank you.
Good video Apollonia!
“She needs to impress you too” ...excellent. Love the view, by the way.
Great video. As you were sharing your thoughts I realized how many men flip conversations and make it about themselves, as if it’s a comparison competition.
Like always thank you 🙏. Great things are coming your way.
Hi Mike,
Thank you so much for your support.
Best,
Apollonia
Great video, liked the information.
Thank you Apollonia! Great video, you impressed me
Thanx , mean a lot with this video. It’s like a master key Apollonia.
Apollonia, the world's need in such women like you are.it is not a compliment, it's fact!!!
Damn AP ! I love you for this.
You deserve my subscription 👍🏽
Great video once again apollonia
really cool attitude you portray. I appreciate your video. I'm subscribed!
loved the video, going to try this out
Excellent video and 100% spot on.
Very good , advice I desperately need and what an amazing backdrop. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Loving this content
My answer is "control"
Always maintain control of your emotions,keep limited conversation w/o over speaking,asking the right questions & ask open-ended questions so she can answer & give you questions that she can ask you w/o you having to be the 1 to carry on the conversation all the time .. Honesty is always the best policy so being straight up & forward with a woman about what your looking for & tryna go that limits time bcuz you know what you want & what your looking for out of her so now she doesn't have to guess & wonder what she's getting into ..
No. You just met the person, why would you go talking about what you want for? She doesn’t care about what you want at the moment. If you’re in so much control, you’re not relaxing and there is no chemistry.
One of your best vids yet Apollonia
Thank you!
You are so true, so well told 👍 totally agree
nice points you picked up.. Thanks Apollonia
Hello Prashant,
You are welcome!
Apollonia
Looking gorgeous as ever while giving great advice !
“Trust me, I’m a woman, I know!” I ain’t even mad, Miss Ponti. 👏
Awesome advice!
Taking time out to review all your other videos... Sad I only just got to know about your channel... Enjoyed this video. Thank you👍
Hi Stay humble,
Well, happy you're here now! :)
Best,
Apollonia
You certainly have a way of explaining things very well
Congratulations for 101k keep smiling keep growing your channel should have 10 million one day u will have
Hi Rajesh,
Thank you so much.
Best
Apollonia
I love you Apollonia Ponti
Man i like this women here. Thats how I always feel like i need to impress the women but wtf I need you to put some work in too! Help me out a bit lol
10 more hours of such videos and I should be able to say "hi" to a woman...omg
Boss vid that thank you for posting..
Lot of things , you say, are things
Are True and Cleaner, you gave
A Scope 🖌️🎨🌞 Thank yoveryuch
Thank u sm i needed this
Excellent video. I follow you on Instagram ,also.Yes,i've been guilty of thinking the conversation must always continue.Well presented on how to be quiet,but not disrespectful.Love your Man with a plan saying.Thanks again.
Hi Dan! You're welcome. :)
I'm loving this! I'm on a date tonight with a woman who might be "the one", so I want to make sure there's a second date.
What I'm hearing is it's interesting to be interested: about her, her job, what's she's about. Thank you very much!
Good info ima use a lot of this fr
Honestly good point of view
Good video. Goooooooood video! 👏👏👏👏 Glad I subscribed a while back!
incredible lesson!
Love this.
Very interesting video. There is only a part I didn't resonate. It's the part related with how things could be and how they are in real world...Thank you Apollonia. You are always loved!!
Thanks you Apollonia.
I appreciate you Apollonia.
Your support is so appreciated!
Congratulations for 100k cheers Apollonia :)
Thank you!
I wish I could thank you personally, Apollonia.
for shy guys, I believe that men tend to start conversations with women because it can either be a societal norm where men are expected to take charge and initiate things (relationships, ideas, activities, etc.) or it is for boost of confidence where just starting a conversation is getting out of our comfort zone and ultimately let the women know that we do not have cold feet. That rambling is just from my little experience.
I love your videos & I'm learning very good tips from you I'm no longer in friendzone
Thankyou a woman giving it straight
When she laid back I was about to start a conversation through the screen 😆 that shit is powerful.
Too much love for you 🙏
Great CONTENT............
Most women say the man should message first....when you have silence you presume they're not interested so you move on...
Great explained
I know plenty guys that needed this video 10 years ago!
Thanks dear for this video
Thanks Apollonia, You’re great.
Thank you! You too!
Apollonia Ponti, you welcome !
I agree.. she can start the process too!
Very helpful info,,,thank you,,very much.
Hello Alexander,
So glad you found the information helpful!
Apollonia
I think men feel they have to make the first move. Men have to have no fear of rejection and I believe women always want to be pursued. I have never witnessed a woman initiate the first move. It's very rare. I think this is a big component to why men overthink. Love your videos😀
101k subs😱 ok thats it apollonia no exceptions....your picking up the dinner check not me🙆📠.....good job😁
I liked that table so much that i didn't notice the background
My friend from MM recommend this video great content
Thank you so much for watching Peter!
I thank god for you 😊 When you sat back in your seat to mimic a confident guy embracing the silence I was “ like damn AP, that’s sexy!”
it would be great to do a series for woman. your coaching could help woman meet men in the middle on all of this. your work already is great for men and woman that dont uderstand how damaging mind games and pulling away are to getting passed the 3rd state of a relationship and to be able to move on as a new and improved couple. i want you to do this Apollonia?
I know I been single for 38 years walking this earth, never had a girlfriend, never been married, no kids. Even though, throw out those many years of being alone for so long. I have been observing human personalities and behaviors for such a long time and notice that a lot of women view men from their viewpoint. In past relationships, they had with them as to be the confident one in the intimate area, knowing what they want out of a link along with life itself, and if they carry themselves well health-wise is the biggest thing women look at the most. It always seems every detail, responsibility, connections, and the way that men carry themselves to the woman that they are interested in plays a huge role for them to notice them. The interaction between a man and a woman seems to play in the mind of each partner is doing something right to let the other person see that they are themselves without sending a wrong message towards each other, which leads to overthinking.
I guess that points to signs of nervousness, anxiety, and a lack of confidence in so many ways. In today's social world, it seems like all the pressure is on the man to keep a woman to see if a man worthy throughout the circus show as you said in the video. In the other area, when its a man turn to want to get to know a woman, by targeting the same questions and interactions, which was addressed to him right back at the woman that he is talking to, so he can learn something about her as well. There seems to be like it is more of a struggle because out of the woman that you're interested in, and if you are going to have that intense connection to make that relationship work. I know when many people once they soon become in relationships, they do not realize that it is a lot of hard work to keep all those things that when speaking in the 50/50 range without getting into breakups or divorces if both parties did not support the other. I guess that's why been single so long I been a deep thinker, always look hard before I get in too deep in a situation. Thanks for the upload, Apollonia Ponti I learned a lot from your video and pleased continue to coach the wisdom that you have. Most of all, keep up the good work.
Most the women don’t have much to say yet expect some type of magical conversation
Thank you very helpful
You're welcome!