I had two kids ..I didn't even bother to pack much the second time ... I literally just had chapstick,change of clothes for me and baby and toiletries and a charger. Some moms on UA-cam suggest waaaaay too much , you will hardly get a chance to touch your hospital bag lol .
You are the best and your voice is so calming and reassuring to a 20 year old first time mother!! Thank you for not making the experience scary while also telling us exactly what to expect!!
SweetieStaige pack that hard candy, my mouth was very dry after having my 2. its like running a marathon. pack things you commonly use after a heavy work out to ease you. your favorite drinks and comfortable clothes. you can do this the key is #birthwithoutfear i was 21 when my first was born
Great list! You may also want to bring: makeup if you wear it regularly (we had lots of visitor after I had my baby and makeup made me feel better so I looked a little presentable), your own pads if you don't like the hospital ones (I much preferred always infinity overnight pads), depends underwear for women (a lot more secure than the hospital mesh panties in my opinion), breast pads (in case your milk comes in while in the hospital so if you leak you don't soak your bra), your baby's baby book (I brought mine and got the nurses to stamp his footprints directly into the book), your maternity leave paperwork if it still needs to be filled out, flip flops for the shower and for walking around the room, extra clothes for you and whoever is staying with you (we needed up staying an extra night due to complications and the extra clothes were needed), dry shampoo so you look presentable if you don't feel like washing your hair, hair brush and hair ties
Clothes in newborn and 0-3 months size for baby (we were expecting a large baby and bought mostly 0-3 with just a couple of newborn sizes but he was born early so all he could wear was the newborn size), witch hazel pads to tuck in between your perineum after vaginal delivery (trust me you are going to be SORE and the tucks pads were a life saver for me, the numbing spray they gave me only worked for 30 minutes max but the witch hazel pads helped so much with the soreness)
darien davis you're welcome! If I had to stress one item don't forget the witch hazel (tucks pads). They helped me soooo much for soreness after delivery. I'm pregnant again and that's the one thing I will definitely make sure I'm stocked up on.
Another important must have is an extension cord. My charger was never long enough to have by me while plugged in. I brought an extension cord and could always have my phone right next to me. Especially with a c section because it’s a lot harder to be getting up.
My hospital provided everything basic that you could need. Take a tour of your hospital’s labor and delivery floor and see what’s provided. Personally the first time I packed far too much and it was more of a bother than anything. I simply wanted to snuggle my newborn. The next two it was a change of clothes, my very basic toiletries (hospital provide toothbrush, paste etc, not deodorant). It’s all up to the individual but it was crazy to see how much stuff people drag to the hospital. Enjoy the moments not the stuff you bring. Oh I have to write in the baby book, I have to do this and that. No, just relax and take in those first days and ENJOY THEM.
I'm so glad you list of things is so simple. I've been looking at what i should bring and some list are insane. i really just want to pack light and not over due it, or grab unnecessary things. D:
I would like to add a noise machine to help you sleep (new moms tend to wake at every sound baby makes), and a folder to keep all of the paperwork you will be getting safe. An extra bag to take home all of the things the hospital gives you is a huge help too, or presents from family and friends.
Tip with toiletries: you don't need to walk with a average size shampoo as seen in this video, conditioner, soap etc... (this is your personal choice). You can get a small bottle & add 50/50 shampoo & conditioner. shake it up and u have liquid soap to wash your hair plus body and saves space and time to wash with so many products. 👌 you're most like in there for 3-4days. only once you might wash your hair. its also easier getting a fresh bath wen in labor, wash your hair at home. this is just an helpful tip... most comfy things are: big undies (4-5 piece is enough). you will need them even after a few months PP. also nice for wen u are on u period (PP). and combs, hair tie, hair clips for your bangs or to get those little fine/short hair out of your face. 😊
to all y'all Muslim abayas are amazing things to have I am Muslim and my abaya was absolutely huge on me but it worked also don't wear any white u will for sure ruin it. I also want to add get maxi pads before u go to to hospital I didn't and my husband was running to Walmart to get pads and diapers also when they tell u to use a bottle that squirts a shampoo bottle works amazingly.
So excited for my second baby after 11yrs of daughter I am 8months pregnant now and had a tough one at the first time as I had no experience at all but I am well prepared for this time with lots of positive attitude i love watching your videos all tho due to past experience I know some things but still a lot more to learn and your video helps thank you.😊
a journal and a book ? lol I couldn't even talk my whole 18 hour labor I was in So much pain even with an epidural ! horrible experience lol worth it though
I have read stuff like a bathrobe 😮 The second was born at 9:45pm. I didn't eat dinner but was super hungry after giving birth. LoL. I asked for food. The staff was nice to bring my husband and I a turkey sandwich and some other foods. 😊
You really need one of those really long chargers. Both of the hospitals I gave birth at the outlet was kind of behind the bed up on the wall. Loose night gowns and robes are great to wear too.
I just can’t get passed this statement: “of course mom won’t be eating but make sure to bring snacks for dad so he won’t pass out” Is this a joke?? Mamas are laboring and doing all the work and can’t eat, wtf. Mamas out there coming across this video, I encourage you to look into homebirth. The hospital system is in sane and not conducive to a healthy labor and birth.
Buy 2 cheap bathrobes (even if you're having an epidural) from your local store. It's much more comfy 1 is for labor and delivery and the 2nd one is for mother and baby (in case you get the 1st one dirty
I legit used nothing from my bag except the clothes I went home in and the phone charger. I didn't have an epidural but most of labor I just laid there with my eyes closed and breathed through it like I was on another planet lol. I didn't feel up to showering while there and the hospital provided absolutely everything else baby and I needed! Definitely packing lighter this time 😅
So many doctors allow labeling mothers to eat. Not cheeseburgers and fries. But there are things you CAN eat while in labor. I'm so glad my doctor was ok with it, because I could not imagine going through all that work with no fuel.
Nonya Bness I was allowed to eat my first pregnancy they let me have potatoe chips and when I got to 10cm dilated and was ready to push I got sick everywhere , it's also in case they need to do an emergency c section you're not supposed to have food in your stomach
In my country (Norway) they tell you that it is important to eat and drink. They say it gives you more energy and a faster and easier delivery. So when you get into the hospital they make sure you eat some snacks while the contractions still are mild, and if you are not able to eat they might give you some dextrose tablets. If you have a fast delivery you might not need any food, but you never know it could take some hours and then you need the energy and you can focus on giving birth and not the rumbling from the stomach
I came to the hospital with NOTHING (I was wearing a borrowed shirt from the birth center!) And the hospital took care of all of my needs! Packing your "labor and delivery bag" is nothing to stress out over.
I had my kid way earlier than expected due to unexpected complications and didn't have time to pack before being admitted. People were not kind about my unpreparedness as a "poor" mom. I was shamed by one of my nurses. Is there a way to spread awareness that not every situation can be prepared for whether financial or health?
I think that nurses need to apply more human compassion for others. Why would someone shame you at a time when you are in pain? That is just cruel. I have heard of this shaming before for a forgotten roll of tissue. That is why they say start packing the moment you find out you are pregnant, but how many mothers do that? Ah sorry you went through that but look at this way... you got your little treasure so that is that!
@@hafokagang4573 Well congrats Momma! I pray you have a smooth and safe delivery. Honestly, with both my deliveries (I have a 3 year old girl and a now 10 month old girl) I rarely even looked in my pile of heaping stuff (all super stuffed in my suitcase). What was most useful was poise adult undies for the bleeding, face wash and lotion, deodorant, some nuts, dried fruit, and water. Also two sets of very loose comfy clothes that you don't mind blood getting on, and non skid footwear or slippers that don't skid. As for the star of the show, your beautiful bundle will need a swaddle cloth, diapers (though hospitals typically provide diapers and wipes) a first outfit to take baby home in and any sweet little things you may want to take pictures in the hospital in. If You wear makeup and want to take pics, you can bring em' too. There is probably more items I missed, but those were the only things i remember at both births. Depending on what kind of birth you give, always feel free to ask your OB or mid wife what they recommend. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Take care, and hopefully there is an update on how your delivery experience went.💗💗💗 OH....and bring your phone charger!!!
Literally bring travel size toiletries. More than likely your going home as fast as possible . And your going to be in a hospital gown for the whole time so all you need is clothes to go home really and your first special outfit for your baby according to weather and proper car seat . Long phone cord snacks for dad and your cell phones. Idk who brings a professional photographer especially during covid when i had my son . Or now that visitor rules are so strict due to covid. .but a good camera instead of phone if you insist you need it . Good grippy slippers was a must for me even tho you will get hospital slipper socks they just dont feel secure enough for me personally i like a tighter sock i have very small feet so i wear my own socks and slippers . Unless its an orthopedic pillow you absolutely need to sleep you dont need to bring pillows maybe your own pillowcase if u want to feel like your in your own environment . Headphones are a good idea ..sound machines are not there will literzlly be people in and out of your room from the moment you arrive . You might get a several hours of sleep but it will be interrupted anyway . I packed two outfits very comfy sweats just in case i was there longer than expected and only needed one days worth of clothes .and i could have worn home what i came in wearing tbh bc it was still very clean as i was clean when arrived and immediately got into a gown . After you have your baby your not going to be getting up right away as you more than likely have an iv and have things on your ankles like pressure cuffs to keep blood flowing and prevent clots ...remember if your in a hospital it can awhile for the dr to order things like having them taken off . So your not getting up very quickly . Also your going to bleed alot once you stand up again so take that for what its worth . And afterwards asap my baby was with me all day and night periodically getting his tests done and his in my case circumcision . .thats when i took my shower . If you are alone especially might be good to know that you will have your baby with you so right from the beginning you will be lack of sleep and balancing your baby with your needs . If you ask the nurses they will take your baby so you can shower or sleep but they will be bringing him back for regular breast feeding so timing helps too. I watched a ton of these vids beforehand and i packed very light for both me and husband and still didnt need it all. I hope this helps someone who is questioning what to bring . These vids are helpful but if you absolutely can live without it for a cpl days then dont bring it .
I packed those items and after birth I was rushed to get out of bed, got up so fast I tore my stitches and bled everywhere. I then went to the shower and I didn't have nothing but 3 minutes just to get myself washed off. Could not even use my body was as they were telling me the whole time "Okay you need to hurry up.", "You cannot take long in there.", "You do not have time to wash your body." I felt so disgusted because I didn't get the chance to wash down there or my pits. I felt horrible. 😭😭 I'm no not ready to go through it again now I'm 5 months along with baby #2 and I dread going to that hospital as everything you do is limited and such. But giving birth is such a wonderful experience.
silpa das Just my mom. But everybody had left me to do my thing and the nurse I had was really rude and rushed me into doing everything when I didn't feel right. She even got mad that I accidentally bled all over the floor and was muttering: "I wish I got paid enough for this." While cleaning it up. The nurses don't have to necessarily clean up good, that's the housepersons job. If I'm treated that way again when this baby is due, I will say something because omg giving birth is tiring and after you have no control over your legs and body because how weak it becomes from pushing.
ClassyArtichoke I was thinking the same, like why do we have to starve ? What's keeping us from potentially passing out? Lol sounds crazy we're pushing out a baby but can't eat🤔
Shannon La Nasa www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/265206.php There's actually no proven evidence of eating during labour to cause risks. It actually benefits the mother to have a light meal and fluids. Especially if she's doing it all natural and doesn't have an iv which is what most women do who have water births. Hydration is extremely important. Hospitals do lots of unnecessary things it's really ridiculous. Women should have a choice to eat or drink during labour.
I think women should be allowed to eat during labor, but the reason they aren't is incase they need an emergency C section. The rule is the same for ANY surgery you might get. It could cause complications in surgery, which is obviously a big no no. But in the case of natural birth, it's really so that you don't poop, but in all honesty, no matter what, you're going to poop on the doctor. There isn't really a way around it. So in short, you're not supposed to incase of surgery. It sucks, but you have to follow through with it or you can risk your health, and the babys.
I thought you couldn’t wear pants in the hospital. Cause they have to constantly check bleeding and you change your bad often so I thought or assumed that nightgowns were a better option 🤷🏻♀️
I had a friend that had to have her boyfriend run home to get more baby clothes for her daughter. I'm packing my hospital bag but I'm just trying to figure out how many outfits should i pack for my son for the hospital.
@@DaughterofkingJesus1993 i know but you need to get it done i packed my bags & end up going in labor that same night i was 38 weeks 5 days. I end up packing less clothes for my baby & needed more. I have a boy & she peed everywhere when i was changing his diaper so have to change his clothes a couple of times.
I had two kids ..I didn't even bother to pack much the second time ... I literally just had chapstick,change of clothes for me and baby and toiletries and a charger. Some moms on UA-cam suggest waaaaay too much , you will hardly get a chance to touch your hospital bag lol .
Exactly
You are the best and your voice is so calming and reassuring to a 20 year old first time mother!! Thank you for not making the experience scary while also telling us exactly what to expect!!
SweetieStaige pack that hard candy, my mouth was very dry after having my 2. its like running a marathon. pack things you commonly use after a heavy work out to ease you. your favorite drinks and comfortable clothes. you can do this the key is #birthwithoutfear i was 21 when my first was born
I feel the same way this is my first
Right!!! She helped me by watcging her videos, but i had my baby early so i was rushing to get everything togethers
She looks like the actress that played Lorraine Warren in The Conjuring.
Darcy Massey I noticed this too
Darcy Massey i was thinking the same thing
Hahaha so true
Would be funny if her husband looked like ed
Omg! I can't unsee it now!!
The only video that is realistic and straight to the point. The other ones look like the mother packs for a week of vacation.
Lol so true
this is so funny! I guess new moms?
Great list! You may also want to bring: makeup if you wear it regularly (we had lots of visitor after I had my baby and makeup made me feel better so I looked a little presentable), your own pads if you don't like the hospital ones (I much preferred always infinity overnight pads), depends underwear for women (a lot more secure than the hospital mesh panties in my opinion), breast pads (in case your milk comes in while in the hospital so if you leak you don't soak your bra), your baby's baby book (I brought mine and got the nurses to stamp his footprints directly into the book), your maternity leave paperwork if it still needs to be filled out, flip flops for the shower and for walking around the room, extra clothes for you and whoever is staying with you (we needed up staying an extra night due to complications and the extra clothes were needed), dry shampoo so you look presentable if you don't feel like washing your hair, hair brush and hair ties
Clothes in newborn and 0-3 months size for baby (we were expecting a large baby and bought mostly 0-3 with just a couple of newborn sizes but he was born early so all he could wear was the newborn size), witch hazel pads to tuck in between your perineum after vaginal delivery (trust me you are going to be SORE and the tucks pads were a life saver for me, the numbing spray they gave me only worked for 30 minutes max but the witch hazel pads helped so much with the soreness)
Thanks!
Briana Holbrook Omg thank you so much, you're so helpful. I'm due next week 😏
darien davis you're welcome! If I had to stress one item don't forget the witch hazel (tucks pads). They helped me soooo much for soreness after delivery. I'm pregnant again and that's the one thing I will definitely make sure I'm stocked up on.
So your 1st most important thing is make up?And then you suggest dry shampoo!? How shallow are you?
Another important must have is an extension cord. My charger was never long enough to have by me while plugged in. I brought an extension cord and could always have my phone right next to me. Especially with a c section because it’s a lot harder to be getting up.
Just be careful with those. I know my hospital has all but banned them for fire risk.
My hospital provided everything basic that you could need. Take a tour of your hospital’s labor and delivery floor and see what’s provided. Personally the first time I packed far too much and it was more of a bother than anything. I simply wanted to snuggle my newborn. The next two it was a change of clothes, my very basic toiletries (hospital provide toothbrush, paste etc, not deodorant). It’s all up to the individual but it was crazy to see how much stuff people drag to the hospital. Enjoy the moments not the stuff you bring. Oh I have to write in the baby book, I have to do this and that. No, just relax and take in those first days and ENJOY THEM.
Trisha Yamada Agreed
I'm so glad you list of things is so simple. I've been looking at what i should bring and some list are insane. i really just want to pack light and not over due it, or grab unnecessary things. D:
I would like to add a noise machine to help you sleep (new moms tend to wake at every sound baby makes), and a folder to keep all of the paperwork you will be getting safe. An extra bag to take home all of the things the hospital gives you is a huge help too, or presents from family and friends.
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You're so sweet. I wish there were more L&D nurses like you!
Will be a new mom come May. This helped me as I always wondered what I would need to pack!
LOVE your channel! Thanks for always giving lots of great advice. It's so reassuring. 👏👼💕
This is the best video, honestly all the other ones just talk about brands and quit irrelevant stuff, I appreciate this video so much
Could not have survived this pregnancy without nurse Dani lol. Love these videos!!
First time mom at 35 ... I'm due in 5 to 7 weeks. Your videos have been so helpful!
she looks like jeniffer love Hewitt
Totally!
Definitely
Jenifer Love Hewitt With a mixture of Vera Farmiga
@@jdforeva3083 solar docks likeike
Yeah she pretty both of them
This video is so helpful! I don't have any kids or are even pregnant yet lol but i wanna be as informed as possible
This was so helpful! Thank you!
Im 22 y/o and pregnant with my first baby. My due is in march 2018. Im so happy and excited.
Flora Ramona congratulations.I hope u have a safe delivery.
Medjina Joanie thank you so much!!
sharon sharon thank you very much. i havent start packing all of my things yet but i will soon, ii really hope it will be a short delivery
Flora Ramona i havent packed either lol naughty us.....dont worry you will have a quick delivery...all the hugs
sharon sharon you too. Thank you so much!
Your voice is so soothing I’m literally about to fall asleep lol well I have 8 weeks left and I can’t wait to have my son
Thank you so freaking simple! Just what I need.
Can you please do a video on "What to pack in your C-Section Delivery Bag for the Hospital" ?
DessieMalone its the same thing
Eduardo Diaz no its not
Katie S lol, it's practically the same, maybe a different set of clothes so it doesn't run the cut but over all it's the same
Tip with toiletries:
you don't need to walk with a average size shampoo as seen in this video, conditioner, soap etc... (this is your personal choice).
You can get a small bottle & add 50/50 shampoo & conditioner. shake it up and u have liquid soap to wash your hair plus body and saves space and time to wash with so many products. 👌 you're most like in there for 3-4days. only once you might wash your hair. its also easier getting a fresh bath wen in labor, wash your hair at home. this is just an helpful tip...
most comfy things are:
big undies (4-5 piece is enough). you will need them even after a few months PP. also nice for wen u are on u period (PP). and combs, hair tie, hair clips for your bangs or to get those little fine/short hair out of your face. 😊
to all y'all Muslim abayas are amazing things to have I am Muslim and my abaya was absolutely huge on me but it worked also don't wear any white u will for sure ruin it. I also want to add get maxi pads before u go to to hospital I didn't and my husband was running to Walmart to get pads and diapers also when they tell u to use a bottle that squirts a shampoo bottle works amazingly.
Y Abaya?
I might as well pack a suitcase while I'm at it 😂
I feel like listening to music is the last thing I’m going to think about doing when I’m in labor lol
Haha exactly! Unless it’s Panterra 🤣
That’s why some people just prepack the bag
Lol they told us some people listen to heavy metal when giving birth
You'd be surprised
So excited for my second baby after 11yrs of daughter I am 8months pregnant now and had a tough one at the first time as I had no experience at all but I am well prepared for this time with lots of positive attitude i love watching your videos all tho due to past experience I know some things but still a lot more to learn and your video helps thank you.😊
“Dad should eat because he will pass out when baby comes”
He’s probably gonna pass out anyway, to be honest :|
yes 😆
Don't Kill Me 😂
You make me feel so much better! thank you
Thank you this was very helpful. I was wondering if you need to pack different items if you are having a c-section.
Needed this video!! Thank you
a journal and a book ? lol I couldn't even talk my whole 18 hour labor I was in So much pain even with an epidural ! horrible experience lol worth it though
Christina alissa I was in labor for 27 hours and reading was the last thing on my mind
This was so helpful thank you !!!
I have read stuff like a bathrobe 😮
The second was born at 9:45pm. I didn't eat dinner but was super hungry after giving birth. LoL. I asked for food. The staff was nice to bring my husband and I a turkey sandwich and some other foods. 😊
wish you could be there to help deliver my first, you are very knowledgeable and I enjoy your videos!
thank you so much this. is all new to me appreciated
You really need one of those really long chargers. Both of the hospitals I gave birth at the outlet was kind of behind the bed up on the wall. Loose night gowns and robes are great to wear too.
Very helpful. Need to start packing.
Im so excited I'm 3 months along I'm so excited that I'm planning everything before hand
I just can’t get passed this statement: “of course mom won’t be eating but make sure to bring snacks for dad so he won’t pass out” Is this a joke?? Mamas are laboring and doing all the work and can’t eat, wtf. Mamas out there coming across this video, I encourage you to look into homebirth. The hospital system is in sane and not conducive to a healthy labor and birth.
Yeeea going the duration of labor without sustenance is crazy and outdated imo. I second the homebirth option, when possible.
Thank you, this was very helpful :)
Buy 2 cheap bathrobes (even if you're having an epidural) from your local store. It's much more comfy
1 is for labor and delivery and the 2nd one is for mother and baby (in case you get the 1st one dirty
Thanks goodness for a real informative video rather than the unnecessary items from a UA-cam "celebrity"
Thank you so much for your video looking forward for god to give me the three one! 👌🏾✌🏾👍🏾😇🤗❤️😘😘😍
Due in April 2021..currently 27 weeks and 3 days preg. It's my first baby.I hope and pray for a safe delivery.
Good luck with your pregnancy and almost due I had 3 more weeks
Thanks you, super helpful! I'm due in March 2018 with my first baby at 22 years old. So excited!
Mary I'm also due in March 2018 , do you know the gender?
Same, due March 6th
March 19th
Omg we are exactly the same. 22 & pregnant. And expecting due on march 2018 too. So excited!! And its my first baby too!!!!!!!
Mary Same here darling, I'm so happy
Saving this to watch later so I can watch it when I am packing my bag lol
Thank you!
Very helpful due in Nov 8 so excited cant wait to pack my bag 😍💖💖😍
Dora Barrera Congratulations! Hope everything will go well!
20 yrs old and due this July excited & nervous! 😊
I legit used nothing from my bag except the clothes I went home in and the phone charger. I didn't have an epidural but most of labor I just laid there with my eyes closed and breathed through it like I was on another planet lol. I didn't feel up to showering while there and the hospital provided absolutely everything else baby and I needed! Definitely packing lighter this time 😅
Nurse Dani, you are gorgeous!
Very helpful. Thanks.
So many doctors allow labeling mothers to eat. Not cheeseburgers and fries. But there are things you CAN eat while in labor. I'm so glad my doctor was ok with it, because I could not imagine going through all that work with no fuel.
Nonya Bness I was allowed to eat my first pregnancy they let me have potatoe chips and when I got to 10cm dilated and was ready to push I got sick everywhere , it's also in case they need to do an emergency c section you're not supposed to have food in your stomach
I was only allowed liquids or Jello. No actual solid food whatsoever once o was admitted
Nonya Bness I had pizza
I’ve never been allowed and my second I seriously thought I couldn’t push because I was so exhausted and starving
In my country (Norway) they tell you that it is important to eat and drink. They say it gives you more energy and a faster and easier delivery. So when you get into the hospital they make sure you eat some snacks while the contractions still are mild, and if you are not able to eat they might give you some dextrose tablets. If you have a fast delivery you might not need any food, but you never know it could take some hours and then you need the energy and you can focus on giving birth and not the rumbling from the stomach
Really liked the video but I have to wonder if peanuts are a good idea to bring into a hospital especially with new borns.
My due date is coming up soon and this is a very helpful videos for me thank you 😍
Fab vid!!!!!!! Thank you!!!!
Thank you so much!
I love you!
am 32 week pregnant and my due date is December i still don't wat to pack in my haspital bag but with this video it will help me. tank a lot
Im 21 yr and having my first baby on november 2018 thank you
I came to the hospital with NOTHING (I was wearing a borrowed shirt from the birth center!) And the hospital took care of all of my needs! Packing your "labor and delivery bag" is nothing to stress out over.
I had my kid way earlier than expected due to unexpected complications and didn't have time to pack before being admitted. People were not kind about my unpreparedness as a "poor" mom. I was shamed by one of my nurses. Is there a way to spread awareness that not every situation can be prepared for whether financial or health?
That is so sad, sorry you went through that! I have had 6 babies and only packed charger and a change of clothes for me and baby! Nothing else.
I think that nurses need to apply more human compassion for others. Why would someone shame you at a time when you are in pain? That is just cruel. I have heard of this shaming before for a forgotten roll of tissue. That is why they say start packing the moment you find out you are pregnant, but how many mothers do that? Ah sorry you went through that but look at this way... you got your little treasure so that is that!
So sorry this happened to you 😢. Nurse needs more training
Thank you so much💘
This helped me a lot cause I am completely clueless as to what to pack for my son
1 thing i would suggest if you plan to breastfeed, bring nipple cream
Both hospitals I've given birth in did NOT allow me to record. Pictures had to be taken secretly... so how do I get around that BS rule
MrsLemonSantos good question. Both the hospitals I gave birth allowed pictures or video during labor but not during delivery.
I’m not even pregnant yet an I already want to pack my bag.😭
😂😂😂😂
Great video thanks
Haven't packed my bag, though I'm due in 3 days!
How'd it go?
Me too I am due in 1 week and haven’t packed I just have no clue
@@morganmiller5413 Though being induced is not tea party, it went as smooth as can be. Thank you for asking. God bless you.
@@hafokagang4573 Well congrats Momma! I pray you have a smooth and safe delivery. Honestly, with both my deliveries (I have a 3 year old girl and a now 10 month old girl) I rarely even looked in my pile of heaping stuff (all super stuffed in my suitcase). What was most useful was poise adult undies for the bleeding, face wash and lotion, deodorant, some nuts, dried fruit, and water. Also two sets of very loose comfy clothes that you don't mind blood getting on, and non skid footwear or slippers that don't skid. As for the star of the show, your beautiful bundle will need a swaddle cloth, diapers (though hospitals typically provide diapers and wipes) a first outfit to take baby home in and any sweet little things you may want to take pictures in the hospital in. If You wear makeup and want to take pics, you can bring em' too. There is probably more items I missed, but those were the only things i remember at both births. Depending on what kind of birth you give, always feel free to ask your OB or mid wife what they recommend. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Take care, and hopefully there is an update on how your delivery experience went.💗💗💗 OH....and bring your phone charger!!!
@@trudiisabellamendoza1301 Glad it went as well as it can.
Chapstick is a must!
Thnx for sharing
So its chapstick and sox in the first bag (dad can go to a vending machine), shampoo, lotions, change of clothes in the 2nd bag, go it.
Nice advice☺☺☺
How soon should you make sure your bag is packed?
Literally bring travel size toiletries. More than likely your going home as fast as possible . And your going to be in a hospital gown for the whole time so all you need is clothes to go home really and your first special outfit for your baby according to weather and proper car seat . Long phone cord snacks for dad and your cell phones. Idk who brings a professional photographer especially during covid when i had my son . Or now that visitor rules are so strict due to covid. .but a good camera instead of phone if you insist you need it . Good grippy slippers was a must for me even tho you will get hospital slipper socks they just dont feel secure enough for me personally i like a tighter sock i have very small feet so i wear my own socks and slippers . Unless its an orthopedic pillow you absolutely need to sleep you dont need to bring pillows maybe your own pillowcase if u want to feel like your in your own environment . Headphones are a good idea ..sound machines are not there will literzlly be people in and out of your room from the moment you arrive . You might get a several hours of sleep but it will be interrupted anyway . I packed two outfits very comfy sweats just in case i was there longer than expected and only needed one days worth of clothes .and i could have worn home what i came in wearing tbh bc it was still very clean as i was clean when arrived and immediately got into a gown . After you have your baby your not going to be getting up right away as you more than likely have an iv and have things on your ankles like pressure cuffs to keep blood flowing and prevent clots ...remember if your in a hospital it can awhile for the dr to order things like having them taken off . So your not getting up very quickly . Also your going to bleed alot once you stand up again so take that for what its worth . And afterwards asap my baby was with me all day and night periodically getting his tests done and his in my case circumcision . .thats when i took my shower . If you are alone especially might be good to know that you will have your baby with you so right from the beginning you will be lack of sleep and balancing your baby with your needs . If you ask the nurses they will take your baby so you can shower or sleep but they will be bringing him back for regular breast feeding so timing helps too. I watched a ton of these vids beforehand and i packed very light for both me and husband and still didnt need it all. I hope this helps someone who is questioning what to bring . These vids are helpful but if you absolutely can live without it for a cpl days then dont bring it .
Geeeeez, I’m almost 8 weeks pregnant, and today I am so emotional!!! Watching these videos are making me sob haha
I packed those items and after birth I was rushed to get out of bed, got up so fast I tore my stitches and bled everywhere. I then went to the shower and I didn't have nothing but 3 minutes just to get myself washed off. Could not even use my body was as they were telling me the whole time "Okay you need to hurry up.", "You cannot take long in there.", "You do not have time to wash your body." I felt so disgusted because I didn't get the chance to wash down there or my pits. I felt horrible. 😭😭
I'm no not ready to go through it again now I'm 5 months along with baby #2 and I dread going to that hospital as everything you do is limited and such. But giving birth is such a wonderful experience.
silpa das Just my mom. But everybody had left me to do my thing and the nurse I had was really rude and rushed me into doing everything when I didn't feel right. She even got mad that I accidentally bled all over the floor and was muttering: "I wish I got paid enough for this." While cleaning it up. The nurses don't have to necessarily clean up good, that's the housepersons job. If I'm treated that way again when this baby is due, I will say something because omg giving birth is tiring and after you have no control over your legs and body because how weak it becomes from pushing.
I'm 8 weeks with my 4th baby. Oh i'm so anxious for my baby to be here.
women need to eat during labor!
ClassyArtichoke I was thinking the same, like why do we have to starve ? What's keeping us from potentially passing out? Lol sounds crazy we're pushing out a baby but can't eat🤔
It's in case you need a c-section. You're not supposed to eat before surgery.
Shannon La Nasa www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/265206.php There's actually no proven evidence of eating during labour to cause risks. It actually benefits the mother to have a light meal and fluids. Especially if she's doing it all natural and doesn't have an iv which is what most women do who have water births. Hydration is extremely important. Hospitals do lots of unnecessary things it's really ridiculous. Women should have a choice to eat or drink during labour.
I think women should be allowed to eat during labor, but the reason they aren't is incase they need an emergency C section. The rule is the same for ANY surgery you might get. It could cause complications in surgery, which is obviously a big no no. But in the case of natural birth, it's really so that you don't poop, but in all honesty, no matter what, you're going to poop on the doctor. There isn't really a way around it. So in short, you're not supposed to incase of surgery. It sucks, but you have to follow through with it or you can risk your health, and the babys.
Cyanic Horizons if u have a good diet with fibre in it you won't poop on the docter lol I had a boul movement before I gave birth XD
I thought you couldn’t wear pants in the hospital. Cause they have to constantly check bleeding and you change your bad often so I thought or assumed that nightgowns were a better option 🤷🏻♀️
Such a lovely woman
Great video! I am poppin in a month! Aquarius Pig babyyy 🤗🤗🤗
Do a video on how siblings deal with a new baby
She's really pretty 👀
Thanks for sharing I
Feeling less nervous 😬 wow we counting down the days
Gosh I'm so nervous! I'm due in august. Thanks for the in depth video
Avella I'm due in July and the stories I hear about labour make me wanna reverse this whole thing
Hlengiwe Shabane hang in there. Hope it goes smooth for you!
I'm due n August too! soo excited!! birth buddies :)
I'm also due in August I'm nervous and excited.
I am also due in August. I am having a boy & I am very nervous but also excited. :)
I don't get the journal. What details do you want to remember during labor? It seems like something you wouldn't want to remember.
My sister's had babies when they were only 12 so technically I know what to bring. and great list
Love the idea of 2 bags
What a pretty nurse :) thumbs up
I’m only sixteen why do I love watching these videos?!
I had a friend that had to have her boyfriend run home to get more baby clothes for her daughter. I'm packing my hospital bag but I'm just trying to figure out how many outfits should i pack for my son for the hospital.
Nena Diaz I’m having my first I’m 37 weeks n just overwhelmed on what to bring for my bag.
@@DaughterofkingJesus1993 i know but you need to get it done i packed my bags & end up going in labor that same night i was 38 weeks 5 days. I end up packing less clothes for my baby & needed more. I have a boy & she peed everywhere when i was changing his diaper so have to change his clothes a couple of times.
Girl i love you.... Your so nice
Not sure all of this is allowed to bring to the hospital during the current Covid19 pandemic of 2020?? Thanks
Thanks for ur advices u I am thinking about I will be in labor alone because now they do not allow husband to be in labor I am afraid
So one outfit for 3 days? Or did I just not understand that correctly?
I bought my soap. Face wash. Deodorant. My own slippers. My own blanket. two pairs of new clean pajamas. One robe. Charger. Tooth brush
I got an epidural 4hours in today labor and went from 4cm dilated to 10cm in 4 hours. So epidural didn’t slow mylabor down
I trust this lady with my whole life.
I'm pregnant with my first child and my due date is tomorrow 😊
Does the hospital actually give FREE STUFF such as pads and diapers or will it be billed to my insurance later and get a huge surprise lol??$$ thanks
Oh man I'm 37 weeks pregnant. Wish me luck guys can't wait to see my baby boy April 3rd 😊😊😊
Awe congrats