LIFE ISNT EASY .... I don't want to force anything on yall but man I've had so many problems and the only true way to come out of them victorious is thru the Lord God Almighty... I know society makes everyone think being religious is for deluded people but please open your eyes it's not.. I plead to yall just say a prayer to God commit all your worries fears, regrets and deepest problems into his hands.. read the bible and keep praying to him in Jesus Name .. I promise you your life will change for the better I promise you I was pondering on suicide, I wanted to run away from home but I prayed to the Lord God and all of a sudden ..things started moving forward in my life.. I've done so many evil things in my past.. things that i think any other person would kill me for if they were God but God kept me alive and well I dont want to be seen as the deluded guy in the comment section but I'm literally pouring my heart out I thought my sins were too bad and that I will never succeed in my dreams.. but I forgot that in John 3:16 it says "For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life" Believe that Jesus died on the cross for all of our sins to be forgiven and to give us eternal life in heaven You may think I'm crazy but I'm begging just try this read the bible pray and watch yourself rise to heights you never expected Dont fall into the tricks of the world I'm begging I apologise for this being too long Imma try and send this out to loads of comments sections.. I hope this touched your soul.. if it did please like the message and comment let's make it togetherua-cam.com/video/AtBNTF90X08h/v-deo.htmlttps://ua-cam.com/video/6IawlQKMepoh/v-deo.htmlttps://ua-cam.com/video/UVmu-Aln2Xo/v-deo.html
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Oh my goodness this is what I was thinking I'll tell you how it will be getting Nev from Catfish to find this guy so we can get him help and she'll like what she has been through with this guy and stuff I think that's a really good idea
@@exclusivelyraven3515 The youngest boomers rn are 56, and if this happened around 2014 they'd be 50 then, and if they had a 17 year old they'd have had them at 33. I was speaking figuratively anyway.
This proves how sad people are they lie about death and killing them selves for attention. It is also sad how many times people can catfish and then the person can loose there trust in everything. It’s sad.
aesthetic alice your actually right , but I've gone threw this once with a friends and then I realized they catfish me bcs they where lost and confused and didn't know where to turn and they just wanted help and answers and when they would say they where gonna kill themselves they decide not to and remembered ppl cared and they did it just for reassurance they would be okay , maybe it's not always for the attention or maybe it was (if that makes sense )
Literally.. My ex boyfriend lied that his mom died to make me stay with him. I later found out that she was very much alive and he lied about everything.
fr my bsf ex who is VERY toxic is dating a toxic girl and she has pulled a knife on him and said she will kill herself if he breaks up with her like it's sad but it's crazy how some ppl are kinda meant for each other like it's crazy
I know right? My former boyfriend told me he once took a rejection so badly it ended up in a suicide attempt so I always hesitated to leave him when I suspected the relationship was no good. I asked him for space a couple of weeks before the breakup (for verbal abuse) and once I set that boundary, he said he's going to go off his meds as "punishment", implying it could result in self-injury. He even sent a gif of a man shooting himself. I told him later that what he did was emotional blackmail and he said I should not "use his words from a temporary emotional breakdown" against him. Two weeks into the breakup and he's still alive.
I just wanna spread some positivity. I met this guy online, we spoke online for a year. He said he’d come see me sooo many times and let me down each time, I was so heartbroken and my friends were the same as yours and would call me stupid for believing he’d come see me. But one day he did come see me and long story short, we’ve been together almost 4 years, we have our own home and a 1 year old daughter❤️❤️
Damn I wish to have that story some day. Been together with someone for six years... life keeps shitting on us... still haven’t met. We’re suppose to finally be together this March but ya , corona and how much hate I got from people around me saying I shouldn’t go lol.... happy to see a success story ! Good luck with your journey 💙💙
Chloe D I met a guy online in 2018, dated for 11 months, never were able to meet but ended up breaking up in January. Really happy things worked out for you though! not all guys online are creeps
Aw I love this! I met one of my best and oldest friends in a lobby on MW3 on Xbox live about 9 years ago. He’s come to visit my boyfriend and me once before and has plans to come see me again this year after all the craziness. He actually just texted me now, and we’ve been playing games together over zoom worm our other friends during quarantine. He’s the best
At 13 I was sexually groomed online. Although not exactly the same situation, when the police arrived at my house I stood there and told them he was my friend and that I didn't want anything bad to happen to him. Now, at 20, I understand that I only felt that way as a result of his manipulation and abuse. This person isn't a friend to you, his intentions were immoral and abusive. I hope with all my heart you can heal from this and move on to be an even stronger woman
I'm 13 and I was pressured to send nudes to a 20 year old. I didnt feel the same way at the time but it was stupid and i told him if was wrong and blocked his number, also my mum doesnt let me have my phone alone now
@@marigoonerrrr i’m so sorry this happened to you, please save nudes for when you’re 18+, most guys are no good for you anyway babe xx i believe you could actually report him for that if you feel brave, no pressure i just think he needs to be investigated
i’ve been in a similar catfish situation, everything was fine at first but then it started getting weird. he kept making up these different characters such as his friends or exes that would always attack me, i knew fully well they were all him but i ignored it. around the time that we stopped talking he told me that he was in hospital and he wasn’t expected to live for long. i couldn’t deal with it by then because he used to threaten to hurt himself a lot but it was all a lie. i stopped talking to him and then months later he messaged me as if everything was okay, he told me he was out of hospital and he was fine, even though he told me multiple times that the doctor said he wouldn’t make it. i was talking to this guy for 4 whole years and he would always have a reason to not call or facetime me but somehow i never saw the red flags because he supported me and was a nice guy. i knew he was fake, but i didn’t care. to this day he is still active on snapchat and we don’t talk anymore. but he caused me a lot of emotional trauma
I've had a really similar situation. What is it with the whole hurting themselves thing?! Like literally holding yourself ransom to a total stranger just so they don't "kill themselves". Ugh it frustrates me so much, these people are honestly mentally ill on the highest level. I hope you're okay sweet, sending hugs to you.
Confirmations they want you to feel as if they are the only person you have, once they’ve done that, that’s when the threats start coming. they also start when they can sense that you’re drifting a little or starting to lose interest. it’s a way of keeping you around so they can manipulate you further
Me and my friend had a very similar experience with these 2 boys we met on snapchat, they would always make excuses to not talk on call and then this random girl started talkin to us pretending to be an ex to one of them and she was exactly like them the way she talked, they would never wanna meet us and when 1 was talkin to one of us the other one wouldn’t be active at all, it was like it for both of them like they was logging in on the account after an hour of using the other, eventually one of them apparently was about to kill their self and didn’t message at all for days and then the one I was talkin to he was in hospital coz he badly harmed himself and he apparently wasn’t gonna make it and they haven’t been active on the accounts for 2 years now, I was 13 at the time. It really does affect you a lot, Ik I was hurt mentally for a while until it hit me that they was catfishes and I put all the pieces together, me and my friend decided to never trust someone who won’t call or show their face.
That’s all you have to say wow😭😭😭. Even though this was messed up he was her rock when she needed it., but it was sad but in that time it’s the reason she made it through some days with him making her smile .
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He and his "mom" had the same way of writing. For example, they would both use a space before the dot at the end of a sentence. I don't think most people do that. Anyway I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you're okay!
I think that's the technical format for sending "correct" professional emails/ non casual the only people I see who do it are older because it was typewriter etiquette? Or atleast that's what I've heard from various people I've worked in office settings with
the fact her mam was there for her instead of being mean about it to her, that’s good parenting like letting your child learn from their mistakes yes please we’re here for it
this started off kind of cute and goofy BUT DAMN did things go downhill fast. i am so sorry. even in my worst moments, I couldn't have done something like that to anyone i cared about... yikes.
Stranger from internet: hey girl lets meet KT: omg yas lets go here’s my address Me at 14: omg a boy from school said hello to me today and I managed to say hi back without choking
OKAY BUT THIS IS MY EX TYLER. I’m almost 100% certain. He tried to catfish me and I was stupid and ended up staying with him after finding out who he is. I was very young and he was older then me and he still tries to talk to me to this day. He faked an overdose and a car accident. Faked coming to my city. Faked being friends with a band I liked.. I was young and stupid and I hope that he doesn’t hurt anyone else
Adira A Lmaooo What would be the point of lying about something like that? Imma get clout offa comment ?? 🤣🤣 you sound dumb. And why would I lie about being GROOMED by an adult. Think before you type 👏🏻
dude... 😶 I had some guy named "Tyler" do the same to me for like 5 years online. I figured it out when his "brother" called me and told me he died, then he called me and told me he didnt really die and he was sorry for doing that to me. I had just lost a friend in real life so it broke me quite a bit. But how crazy is it that this happens SO often?! it's so creepy!
Why chase a toxic person? I think this video is enough energy spent after all the time she has already invested. These people are clearly unwell and it's not her responsibility to make him face his own issue's. You can't get sucked into their drama this guy believes his own lies. Just run and pray they heal.
@@vonbonbonjager It is not for talking to him anymore. Better of he does not know about it. It is just for figuring who the hell that person really was all the time. But well. It doesnt really matter.
Is it just me or does kt deserve more hype??? She's gone through so much taf i love you kt.💜💜💜💜 Edit: hey thanks guys where did all these likes come from? It's nice of u guys and i appriceate it because I'm going through a hard time 💜🥰 Omg wtf she liked it as well tysfm I'm crying 💗😭💗
i was dealing with the same thing recently. i was talking to this guy on my snap for about 2 months; he seemed so sweet at first. as time went on i noticed myself being isolated from my family, him becoming more manipulative, making up scenarios to make me feel bad or pity him. he would also talk about how rich he was. i was at a very low point in my life and he took advantage of that. he would say he was buying me gifts in stuff. towards the end, he figured out my school, last name, etc. and that's when i became frightened. i thought i was stupid, because everyone i knew made me feel like i was dumb for even talking to anyone online. including my best friend. this video just made me feel a bit better (:
@@verosestudio girl dont justify it you should never give ANYONE online your address no matter how many years youve spoken, like ty for example they spoke for years yet he still fucked her over
@@verosestudio MH LIKE NO???? i have internet friends for many years and the know about me (and the same them) only the city I live in. NOT my address, what????
This was very relatable for me. Extremely manipulative. A lot of these people use all the same tactics. It's amazing how they do it. It can really, really mess you up especially when you're young or in a psychologically vulnerable state. You shouldn't worry about that person, they don't really care about you, otherwise they wouldn't have tried to manipulate you so much. They just use you because they are lonely etc. The good feelings you have towards them and you worrying about them mostly just come from them emotionally manipulating you. As you said, they sent nice messages when you started to get more distant, it was less genuine and more calculated.
Gurl you are a warrior! I went through a similar situation as well and it’s not okay for people to do this!! Although I’ve been through this it’s way worse for you! I’m so sorry! Depression and anxiety isn’t a joke and I hope your okay!
This video is so sad, the emotion behind it fucking sucks. It reminds me a lot of my first heartbreak..... I wasn't catfished but there were many times we were going to meet up and he'd cancel last minute or something like that. He'd tell me he loved me and we had inside jokes that only we understood and he was there for me at a very hard time in my life. It's so hard as a teenager to go through heartbreak when you have so many other things going on. I can still read our messages and get emotional too. Glad you were able to move on x
Throughout the whole video I felt like I was there with her and she was telling me all of this face-to-face. I hope there's more storytimes that she makes long videos about because it is really nice listening to her talk 💕
I honestly feel so bad for you. I was in a similar situation at the age of 15 with someone also called Ty (must be a bad omen lol), and even though he wasn't a catfish it was so toxic. It's always easy to judge if you've never been in the situation but when you're actually in it, it's so easy to get caught up in it all, even if you've only ever spoken to them online. I really feel for you and I hope your heart can heal from this xx
seeing you cry about this tears me apart inside because something like this happened to me too, i'm so sorry love. girls having to deal with this like we did makes me so sad
This made me cry. Honestly, you did NOT need that manipulation. It seemed he offered you support in virtual world when you needed escape and then manipulated you. I am glad you can see how awful he treat you now ❤️❤️
this is such a relatable story.so many of us were emotionally manipulated by people we met online when we were babies. Im so sorry this happened to you thank you for sharing your story
Here came from tiktok ily so much so sorry that u had to go through something like this always here if u need help hope u notice this cause I really mean it ilysm 😁🙃
Watching this and hearing your story literally brought me to tears, and I’m not a crier. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that as I could literally feel the pain in your voice. Ur amazing for staying so positive x
Um to all those ppl who r just being idk weird about it, it was a joke actually chill out but I think the point is to kt and how she opened up to us about her past 😊
it’s crazy how this happens to so many people. i had a similar situation and i am still getting over it now. my person had the same name, but we went to the same school and met up every single day. my heart goes out to you and all the other people going through this❣️
im so glad i didn't get a phone until i was like 17 . Even when i got a phone my mum would always check just in case something was up . And i thank her for that she is an awesome mum . I feel bad for what you've gone through and i hope these people will get exposed more in videos like these. I think online relationships and friendships should always be taken very light because most of the time it can be dangerous . I think the problem is nowadays is more kids and teenagers are using phones and social apps with their parents unknowing whats going on . If you're ever in a position like this where you have a gut feeling something is off and the person you're speaking to gets you emotionally and mentally unwell and nervous and you feel manipulated. PLEASE speak up and tell you're parents or anyone and get these predators and horrible people banned . Stay safe and be more aware ♥
that’s terrible and that story gave me so much anxiety i’m glad you’re doing much better and moved passed it keep your head up, and broke my heart seeing you tear up 🥺🥺
I got catfished for 11 months, I found out yesterday. The amount of small details that went into this was almost genius. I had 2000 pictures of her, I spoke to her sister, her friends. I honestly trusted her with my soul. I found out I got catfished because she wouldn’t take a picture of my name written on her hand. An our later I had been blocked on everything. I’m really suffering and it’s fucked with my head so much. She was literally the only person I had. I didn’t even get an explanation, I’m so devastated, she was perfect. I don’t know what to do with myself.
Similar story as me... Mine is almost 10 months with him but I know sometime later that has to end.. don't let someone steal your time and play around with your feelings you know you deserve better. I'm also still healing from this
Hey I hope you're doing better now. That's so fucked up she didn't deserve you. I swear there are still nice people out there and you will find someone 100% :). Lots of love, you can do this
I hope you’re okay. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts me to see that people are going through things like that. I just do not understand people who lie, manipulate and pretend to be someone they’re not. I just hope you’re better now, that people learn from this and no one has to go through things like that again☹️
i'm so sorry you had to go through that! that person is so fucked up and nobody deserves to be messed up so badly. you deserve so much better you seem lovely
When you said "just delete my number your scarring me" I felt sooooo bad for you and I almost started to cry. Your amazing and I can't belive how you went through that❤
This has unfortunately happened to me on more than once occasion , I thought I was speaking to one person I opened up to them about everything we talked for years and then I noticed something off etc the insta profile got changed n stuff it was all sketchy
“Me getting in my feels while reading this” Ugh I feel for you :( I know that feeling. Even knowing everything, you still get transported back to that moment when reading messages like that...
wow that would’ve been such an exhausting experience. i’ve been in a similar situation myself, with the other person wanting to commit suicide. really connected with you katie. thank you so much for the story 💞
Im so so sorry for you. This is the most disturbing and manipulative shit ever. Im sorry you had to go thru this. I went through shit like this when i was young, when older people just try to manipulate and play with you. Always be careful, its so dangerous.
Thankyou for sharing your story with us all and helping us all to stop these things happening. Ilysm, it was really brave of you to say this, and i respect you for that. Some people are horrible, but i'm happy that you made it through!
Katy I’m so sorry you had to go though this ❤️he wasent the person he said he was and he was lying to you over and over again , you deserve so much more 🤍your honestly so beautiful and amazing and I’m so proud of you for sharing your story . Your amazing 😘I love you xx stay strong xx 💋 love Tasha
I went through the same exact thing. It really fucks up your mindset. I'm so sorry you went through this. You're strong love and I hope you're doing better..💗
i wanted to watch this last night but i decided to watch it this morning and let me tell you how much i relate to it. i cried so many times. i’m only 17 but i had a similar situation happen to me. i certainly hope that you are doing well. you are amazing and don’t deserve what he did to you.
You've been really brave and mature. I'm going through a similar situation with a guy I've met online 9 months ago; I'm pretty sure his identity is real, but I hope his intentions are good. I just don't understand why someone would ever do something like that; love shouldn't be a challenge. I know a lot of us are meeting people online during this period, maybe because we miss something. I'm sure someone will love us the way we want to be loved, without doubts or fears. We deserve it. ❤️
this just makes me sad because u were so hooked and so attached to this person and the way they helped you, but in reality he was doing more harm then good. i went through this as well except he wasn’t cat fishing. he just kept promising we’d get married and idk it was weird but it’s a long story and similar to this. anyways, i hope that you never experience this again.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. It is best to just move on. People like that are never going to change. I have been there myself for over a year before I just finally blocked them everywhere. The manipulation is so draining, no one deserves that.
when you said you never heard from him ever again i almost burst info tears that’s heartbreaking i’m so sorry :( just out of curiosity, do you think you’d ever contact him on whatsapp to see if he’s okay? obviously understandable if you wouldn’t after what he did and put you through
KT Franklin the fact that he put you through so much and caused you so much trauma and even after all these years you still care enough to want to reach out to him and know that he’s okay, just goes to show how strong his manipulation is. i really hope instead you consider deleting/blocking him on whatsapp and talking to a professional about what happened. he still clearly has a hold on you :(
KT you have such a good heart, you HAVE to protect it and guard it with people. You cannot be this naive. Especially because there are many people out there looking to hurt you like "Ty."
UGHHHH people suck!! This makes me so sad cos you're obviously still affected by it :( please do not ever speak to "him" ever again, he manipulated you and mentally and emotionally abused you! I know the feeling of wanting (even needing) someone to change, to be a better person, to treat me better, to show me that they loved me, butt it just never happened. It's sooo o hard, and you'll probably still feel a bit of emotion for years to come about it... but just know you deserve so much better, from someone who wont manipulate you, who shows you their face!! Thank you for posting this though, as it could help others in similar situations realise the same patterns
My very close friend went through something similar, I'm so glad I could help her. I can't imagine what it would be like to cope with this on your own. He took advantage of the fact you were young and decided to abuse his power with manipulation, deceit and threats. I really hope you are doing better now. ❤️
I talked to a guy for two years that was like this, too. He didn't catfish me, but he was always sending these sorts of things. He was all over the place, sometimes wanting a relationship (even though I said I didn't want that and we had never met) and other times being rude and talking about other girls/wanting advice on how to get them. These kinds of men are such a waste of time.
I think it’s really kind of you to tell everyone (even if it’s hard to) about what happened to you so we know what potential danger we’re in and all the things people can do to manipulate you and how to realise them xxxx (the 110 dislikes on this video are probably that person on his different accounts)
Yo I've seen every episode of Catfish, many of them more than once, and this person used basically all the stories/lies/techniques in the book. And it's completely possible that they changed their voice and it's actually a woman.
I’m really sorry you had to go through this, I couldn’t imagine myself having to go through the same. I hope you continue to heal and grow from this experience. thank you for sharing this as I can imagine myself reacting the same way as you did at this age if I was in this situation. it has opened my eyes to become more aware online. Thank you for making these videos. Ps I also follow you on tik tok :))
Wait I was texting this guy over the summer and he literally threatened to kill him self if I didn’t date him when I didn’t want to he was literally 19 and when it started I was 15 I ended up eventually blocking him
i've had a somewhat similar experience at the same age as well which is crazy to hear. the older person I talked to pulled some of the similar moves (ex. talking ab addictions, pushing me away/wanting me to leave for no reason, constantly complimenting me, etc.). some part of me thinks that I was groomed by them as well as just being manipulated by them. for future girls/boys, please be careful talking to older individuals and strangers in general. thank you for the storytime kt, i'm sorry this happened to you.
this isn't just catfishing, this is blatant mental abuse and manipulation. Please don't ever speak to him again.
Jaxcion I know it’s horrible 💔
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LIFE ISNT EASY .... I don't want to force anything on yall but man I've had so many problems and the only true way to come out of them victorious is thru the Lord God Almighty... I know society makes everyone think being religious is for deluded people but please open your eyes it's not.. I plead to yall just say a prayer to God commit all your worries fears, regrets and deepest problems into his hands.. read the bible and keep praying to him in Jesus Name .. I promise you your life will change for the better I promise you
I was pondering on suicide, I wanted to run away from home but I prayed to the Lord God and all of a sudden ..things started moving forward in my life.. I've done so many evil things in my past.. things that i think any other person would kill me for if they were God but God kept me alive and well
I dont want to be seen as the deluded guy in the comment section but I'm literally pouring my heart out
I thought my sins were too bad and that I will never succeed in my dreams.. but I forgot that in John 3:16 it says "For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life"
Believe that Jesus died on the cross for all of our sins to be forgiven and to give us eternal life in heaven
You may think I'm crazy but I'm begging just try this read the bible pray and watch yourself rise to heights you never expected
Dont fall into the tricks of the world I'm begging
I apologise for this being too long
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@@briannk3720 yessss !!!
can we get Nev from catfish to find this guy and give him a piece of his mind?!?!
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Oh my goodness this is what I was thinking I'll tell you how it will be getting Nev from Catfish to find this guy so we can get him help and she'll like what she has been through with this guy and stuff I think that's a really good idea
Yes! That would be an amazing episode.
Omg yesss
the nine dislikes are his different profiles lmaoo
Aneri Thaker HAHA
This is my favourite comment no argument😂
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funny how the “mom” typed the exact same way as ty
I noticed that right away too, no way does a boomer type like that LMAO
@@clalyrics441 The mum of a teenager wouldn't be a boomer - unless she had him at 50 or 60+
@@exclusivelyraven3515 The youngest boomers rn are 56, and if this happened around 2014 they'd be 50 then, and if they had a 17 year old they'd have had them at 33. I was speaking figuratively anyway.
yesss i noticed that
what?
the amount of times she curled her lashes lmaoooo
vasi uwu brushed her hair too lol
It hurt me internally how many times she layered mascara and curled
literally me hahaha
him: time difference you cant see me on ft
them: both fall asleep on ft together every night
Aurora Hilburn Lmao
omg yeah haha
how did no one else mention this? lmao
that's creepy
no he probably fell asleep whilst on ft with kt wheres as she would still be awake
This proves how sad people are they lie about death and killing them selves for attention. It is also sad how many times people can catfish and then the person can loose there trust in everything. It’s sad.
aesthetic alice your actually right , but I've gone threw this once with a friends and then I realized they catfish me bcs they where lost and confused and didn't know where to turn and they just wanted help and answers and when they would say they where gonna kill themselves they decide not to and remembered ppl cared and they did it just for reassurance they would be okay , maybe it's not always for the attention or maybe it was (if that makes sense )
Literally.. My ex boyfriend lied that his mom died to make me stay with him. I later found out that she was very much alive and he lied about everything.
fr my bsf ex who is VERY toxic is dating a toxic girl and she has pulled a knife on him and said she will kill herself if he breaks up with her like it's sad but it's crazy how some ppl are kinda meant for each other like it's crazy
I know right? My former boyfriend told me he once took a rejection so badly it ended up in a suicide attempt so I always hesitated to leave him when I suspected the relationship was no good. I asked him for space a couple of weeks before the breakup (for verbal abuse) and once I set that boundary, he said he's going to go off his meds as "punishment", implying it could result in self-injury. He even sent a gif of a man shooting himself.
I told him later that what he did was emotional blackmail and he said I should not "use his words from a temporary emotional breakdown" against him. Two weeks into the breakup and he's still alive.
we know hes watching. you should apologize dude.
I just wanna spread some positivity. I met this guy online, we spoke online for a year. He said he’d come see me sooo many times and let me down each time, I was so heartbroken and my friends were the same as yours and would call me stupid for believing he’d come see me. But one day he did come see me and long story short, we’ve been together almost 4 years, we have our own home and a 1 year old daughter❤️❤️
that's amazing!
I accidentally disliked your comment I'm really happy that your experience was a positive result of online dating
Damn I wish to have that story some day. Been together with someone for six years... life keeps shitting on us... still haven’t met. We’re suppose to finally be together this March but ya , corona and how much hate I got from people around me saying I shouldn’t go lol.... happy to see a success story ! Good luck with your journey 💙💙
Chloe D I met a guy online in 2018, dated for 11 months, never were able to meet but ended up breaking up in January. Really happy things worked out for you though! not all guys online are creeps
Aw I love this! I met one of my best and oldest friends in a lobby on MW3 on Xbox live about 9 years ago. He’s come to visit my boyfriend and me once before and has plans to come see me again this year after all the craziness. He actually just texted me now, and we’ve been playing games together over zoom worm our other friends during quarantine. He’s the best
At 13 I was sexually groomed online. Although not exactly the same situation, when the police arrived at my house I stood there and told them he was my friend and that I didn't want anything bad to happen to him. Now, at 20, I understand that I only felt that way as a result of his manipulation and abuse. This person isn't a friend to you, his intentions were immoral and abusive. I hope with all my heart you can heal from this and move on to be an even stronger woman
So sorry that happened to you. As children there's no way we can know or assume that people have bad intentions :(
I'm 13 and I was pressured to send nudes to a 20 year old. I didnt feel the same way at the time but it was stupid and i told him if was wrong and blocked his number, also my mum doesnt let me have my phone alone now
@@marigoonerrrr stay strong and i hope your ok now
omg...u was such a young child...i’m so sorry :(
@@marigoonerrrr i’m so sorry this happened to you, please save nudes for when you’re 18+, most guys are no good for you anyway babe xx i believe you could actually report him for that if you feel brave, no pressure i just think he needs to be investigated
i’ve been in a similar catfish situation, everything was fine at first but then it started getting weird. he kept making up these different characters such as his friends or exes that would always attack me, i knew fully well they were all him but i ignored it. around the time that we stopped talking he told me that he was in hospital and he wasn’t expected to live for long. i couldn’t deal with it by then because he used to threaten to hurt himself a lot but it was all a lie. i stopped talking to him and then months later he messaged me as if everything was okay, he told me he was out of hospital and he was fine, even though he told me multiple times that the doctor said he wouldn’t make it. i was talking to this guy for 4 whole years and he would always have a reason to not call or facetime me but somehow i never saw the red flags because he supported me and was a nice guy. i knew he was fake, but i didn’t care. to this day he is still active on snapchat and we don’t talk anymore. but he caused me a lot of emotional trauma
I've had a really similar situation. What is it with the whole hurting themselves thing?! Like literally holding yourself ransom to a total stranger just so they don't "kill themselves". Ugh it frustrates me so much, these people are honestly mentally ill on the highest level. I hope you're okay sweet, sending hugs to you.
This is terrifying to read, becauss this exact same thing happened to me, the "friends" the 'hospital' and in the end i found out he was a girl
THIS HAPPENED TO ME TOO!! omg. THE ENTIRE THING. EVERY DETAIL. THE EXACT SAME. thats terrifying
Confirmations they want you to feel as if they are the only person you have, once they’ve done that, that’s when the threats start coming. they also start when they can sense that you’re drifting a little or starting to lose interest. it’s a way of keeping you around so they can manipulate you further
Me and my friend had a very similar experience with these 2 boys we met on snapchat, they would always make excuses to not talk on call and then this random girl started talkin to us pretending to be an ex to one of them and she was exactly like them the way she talked, they would never wanna meet us and when 1 was talkin to one of us the other one wouldn’t be active at all, it was like it for both of them like they was logging in on the account after an hour of using the other, eventually one of them apparently was about to kill their self and didn’t message at all for days and then the one I was talkin to he was in hospital coz he badly harmed himself and he apparently wasn’t gonna make it and they haven’t been active on the accounts for 2 years now, I was 13 at the time. It really does affect you a lot, Ik I was hurt mentally for a while until it hit me that they was catfishes and I put all the pieces together, me and my friend decided to never trust someone who won’t call or show their face.
I’m so glad my parents were strict with my internet use when I was young
Me too!! I was never allowed to use it without an adult in the room.
We servived
Idk what happening just stop going on websites
That’s all you have to say wow😭😭😭. Even though this was messed up he was her rock when she needed it., but it was sad but in that time it’s the reason she made it through some days with him making her smile .
the dislikes are all his fake identities
the fact that this vid has 135 dislikes makes this comment funny
HOLLY NOSWORTHY hello my child
mochi uwu
Jimin-ssi 💘
@@jrd7_ jesus-
The fact that you genuinely care about this guy breaks my heart
The way she still cares about him is actually showing how caring KT is awww 🥰
Lilly Walker no, it’s the result of clear manipulation 🤮 she might want to see a therapist because there’s clearly a CRAP ton of trauma there
It looks like a narcissist/empath dynamic.
Yh true x
Grooming its called
JESUS LOVES YOU...YOU MAY FEEL ALONE BUT JESUS IS WITH YOU ...
TRY AND TALK TO HIM CONFINE IN HIM
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Gaslighting
"manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity"
He and his "mom" had the same way of writing. For example, they would both use a space before the dot at the end of a sentence. I don't think most people do that. Anyway I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you're okay!
Ida Kristine Pedersen it’s just grammar. I think everyone does this..
@@bexsmith5525 it's not really correct and most people I have talked to don't
Ida Kristine Pedersen ok whatever. Even though it’s simple grammar. 👍🏼
Bex Smith that is not grammar lol
I think that's the technical format for sending "correct" professional emails/ non casual the only people I see who do it are older because it was typewriter etiquette? Or atleast that's what I've heard from various people I've worked in office settings with
the fact her mam was there for her instead of being mean about it to her, that’s good parenting like letting your child learn from their mistakes yes please we’re here for it
you should've asked the ' mum ' to send you a picture of him in a coma. i wonder what his response would've been then lol
Imagine just getting the image of Gaga sleeping on stream.
"he's meditating guys'
@@Octoboobs 💀
this started off kind of cute and goofy BUT DAMN did things go downhill fast. i am so sorry. even in my worst moments, I couldn't have done something like that to anyone i cared about... yikes.
Her eyebrows r always so good
A lot of his expressions aren't used commonly in the U.S., so I feel like he was most likely British and faking his accent
Stranger from internet: hey girl lets meet
KT: omg yas lets go here’s my address
Me at 14: omg a boy from school said hello to me today and I managed to say hi back without choking
hahahaha yyessss!!!
Exactly! Tbh I kinda find THIS creepy!
@@satabdidas1153 you don't know what its like to be in that position ur heartless and don't deserve anything
@@lyricqueen101 wth
@@lemonscentedcloroxwipes WHAT!!
OKAY BUT THIS IS MY EX TYLER. I’m almost 100% certain. He tried to catfish me and I was stupid and ended up staying with him after finding out who he is. I was very young and he was older then me and he still tries to talk to me to this day. He faked an overdose and a car accident. Faked coming to my city. Faked being friends with a band I liked.. I was young and stupid and I hope that he doesn’t hurt anyone else
Ur just lying
Something similar happened to me and he was called Danny, it was so hard, sending love your way.
Adira A Lmaooo What would be the point of lying about something like that? Imma get clout offa comment ?? 🤣🤣 you sound dumb. And why would I lie about being GROOMED by an adult. Think before you type 👏🏻
dude... 😶 I had some guy named "Tyler" do the same to me for like 5 years online. I figured it out when his "brother" called me and told me he died, then he called me and told me he didnt really die and he was sorry for doing that to me. I had just lost a friend in real life so it broke me quite a bit. But how crazy is it that this happens SO often?! it's so creepy!
@@riotdudee3091 chill i just think its fake its MY opinion ok
the youtube notif for this came up as i watched the clip on tiktok
FreyaGrace same😂
hire a private investigator to find out who he really is
Why chase a toxic person? I think this video is enough energy spent after all the time she has already invested. These people are clearly unwell and it's not her responsibility to make him face his own issue's. You can't get sucked into their drama this guy believes his own lies. Just run and pray they heal.
@@vonbonbonjager for closure
@@vonbonbonjager It is not for talking to him anymore. Better of he does not know about it. It is just for figuring who the hell that person really was all the time.
But well. It doesnt really matter.
@@vonbonbonjager she has made money off the video, so got something from it.
I don’t understand how messed up people can be sometimes.. this is why I’m scared of social media
you can hear how heart broken her voice was when she was reading the texts😭💔
How did ur mum let u do these stuff mine would get the slippers out
Same :(((((((
Lolllllll
honestly 💀💀
Her: *emotional about the texts* Me: Why do you have 720 texts?! Giving me anxiety
Is it just me or does kt deserve more hype??? She's gone through so much taf i love you kt.💜💜💜💜
Edit: hey thanks guys where did all these likes come from? It's nice of u guys and i appriceate it because I'm going through a hard time 💜🥰
Omg wtf she liked it as well tysfm I'm crying 💗😭💗
Mia Castello ikr
She unliked it ahhaha
Lauren Hicks 😭
Hope things get better💜.
i was dealing with the same thing recently. i was talking to this guy on my snap for about 2 months; he seemed so sweet at first. as time went on i noticed myself being isolated from my family, him becoming more manipulative, making up scenarios to make me feel bad or pity him. he would also talk about how rich he was. i was at a very low point in my life and he took advantage of that. he would say he was buying me gifts in stuff. towards the end, he figured out my school, last name, etc. and that's when i became frightened.
i thought i was stupid, because everyone i knew made me feel like i was dumb for even talking to anyone online. including my best friend. this video just made me feel a bit better (:
I have a home pod and it literally went off when you went “hey Siri” 🤣xxxx
WHY WOULD U GIVE HIM YOUR ADDRESS
She was 14 give her a break
they talked for 2 years. that amount of time would make you give your online friend your address
@@verosestudio girl dont justify it you should never give ANYONE online your address no matter how many years youve spoken, like ty for example they spoke for years yet he still fucked her over
@@verosestudio MH LIKE NO???? i have internet friends for many years and the know about me (and the same them) only the city I live in. NOT my address, what????
@@verosestudio nah not until there's a meet up. i'd meet them at the airport. would never ever give someone i don't actually know my home address.
A sad and horrifying tale of narcissism and sociopathy (Ty). Thank you for sharing.
This was very relatable for me. Extremely manipulative. A lot of these people use all the same tactics. It's amazing how they do it. It can really, really mess you up especially when you're young or in a psychologically vulnerable state. You shouldn't worry about that person, they don't really care about you, otherwise they wouldn't have tried to manipulate you so much. They just use you because they are lonely etc. The good feelings you have towards them and you worrying about them mostly just come from them emotionally manipulating you. As you said, they sent nice messages when you started to get more distant, it was less genuine and more calculated.
this happened to me once and i was with him for 6 months and i was really upset when i found out the truth, we are here for you
I dated a dude EXACTLY like this.. he threatened to kill himself and lied a lot about stuff and even acted like he OD and was in the hospital ☠️
Gurl you are a warrior! I went through a similar situation as well and it’s not okay for people to do this!! Although I’ve been through this it’s way worse for you! I’m so sorry! Depression and anxiety isn’t a joke and I hope your okay!
This video is so sad, the emotion behind it fucking sucks. It reminds me a lot of my first heartbreak..... I wasn't catfished but there were many times we were going to meet up and he'd cancel last minute or something like that. He'd tell me he loved me and we had inside jokes that only we understood and he was there for me at a very hard time in my life. It's so hard as a teenager to go through heartbreak when you have so many other things going on. I can still read our messages and get emotional too. Glad you were able to move on x
Throughout the whole video I felt like I was there with her and she was telling me all of this face-to-face. I hope there's more storytimes that she makes long videos about because it is really nice listening to her talk 💕
I honestly feel so bad for you. I was in a similar situation at the age of 15 with someone also called Ty (must be a bad omen lol), and even though he wasn't a catfish it was so toxic. It's always easy to judge if you've never been in the situation but when you're actually in it, it's so easy to get caught up in it all, even if you've only ever spoken to them online. I really feel for you and I hope your heart can heal from this xx
i got catfished for 5 years and i feel like i lost those years to someone who never actually gave a damn about me. luv life :(
That why I am scared af to give efffort for those who dont deserve Im loving my self
I need to here your story for real
seeing you cry about this tears me apart inside because something like this happened to me too, i'm so sorry love. girls having to deal with this like we did makes me so sad
This made me cry. Honestly, you did NOT need that manipulation. It seemed he offered you support in virtual world when you needed escape and then manipulated you. I am glad you can see how awful he treat you now ❤️❤️
this is such a relatable story.so many of us were emotionally manipulated by people we met online when we were babies. Im so sorry this happened to you thank you for sharing your story
Here came from tiktok ily so much so sorry that u had to go through something like this always here if u need help hope u notice this cause I really mean it ilysm 😁🙃
Watching this and hearing your story literally brought me to tears, and I’m not a crier. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that as I could literally feel the pain in your voice. Ur amazing for staying so positive x
WHO TF IS THAT ONE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THE VIDEO, I WILL FIGHT U
Probs him
Yazmin El-Madawi-khan there’s a reason there’s a dislike button for a reason🤦🏽♀️why else would they have it
Aniah Raya and we have fists for a reason. :)
Um to all those ppl who r just being idk weird about it, it was a joke actually chill out but I think the point is to kt and how she opened up to us about her past 😊
Aniah Raya well no it’s a joke why so serious
it’s crazy how this happens to so many people. i had a similar situation and i am still getting over it now. my person had the same name, but we went to the same school and met up every single day. my heart goes out to you and all the other people going through this❣️
1:49 you set my Siri off 😂
aesthetic alice same
same hahaha
same lol
aesthetic alice right 😭😭
bringing younow back from the depths of my memory omg wtf
I found this on tiktok and really wanted to see the hole story time i feel really bad for you 💖😢🥺. Thx for the likes
Avas vidz whole*
I was tired don’t judge
Avas vidz lmao
@@yesimagirlsowhat1358 ef
im so glad i didn't get a phone until i was like 17 . Even when i got a phone my mum would always check just in case something was up . And i thank her for that she is an awesome mum . I feel bad for what you've gone through and i hope these people will get exposed more in videos like these. I think online relationships and friendships should always be taken very light because most of the time it can be dangerous . I think the problem is nowadays is more kids and teenagers are using phones and social apps with their parents unknowing whats going on . If you're ever in a position like this where you have a gut feeling something is off and the person you're speaking to gets you emotionally and mentally unwell and nervous and you feel manipulated. PLEASE speak up and tell you're parents or anyone and get these predators and horrible people banned . Stay safe and be more aware ♥
the ending really got me. it ended just like that. tears are in my eyes. hope your feeling better kt love you
that’s terrible and that story gave me so much anxiety i’m glad you’re doing much better and moved passed it keep your head up, and broke my heart seeing you tear up 🥺🥺
‘My aunt and crackhead mum’😂 Sounds like a wattpad story
So nicely said about his family... ughh.
I got catfished for 11 months, I found out yesterday. The amount of small details that went into this was almost genius. I had 2000 pictures of her, I spoke to her sister, her friends. I honestly trusted her with my soul. I found out I got catfished because she wouldn’t take a picture of my name written on her hand. An our later I had been blocked on everything. I’m really suffering and it’s fucked with my head so much. She was literally the only person I had. I didn’t even get an explanation, I’m so devastated, she was perfect. I don’t know what to do with myself.
Keep yourself busy. You didn't deserve to go through that. Take care
George Le Geyt I hope your okay. Everything happens for a reason, one day you’ll find the right girl, and you’ll know who she really is.
Thank you, it’s been nearly a week and I’m still suffering a lot
Similar story as me... Mine is almost 10 months with him but I know sometime later that has to end.. don't let someone steal your time and play around with your feelings you know you deserve better. I'm also still healing from this
Hey I hope you're doing better now. That's so fucked up she didn't deserve you. I swear there are still nice people out there and you will find someone 100% :). Lots of love, you can do this
I hope you’re okay. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts me to see that people are going through things like that. I just do not understand people who lie, manipulate and pretend to be someone they’re not. I just hope you’re better now, that people learn from this and no one has to go through things like that again☹️
y’all INVENTED love is blind 😂😂
Girl, Tylas was probably a girl.. that would explain the voice and no face on facetime
Yeah, Ty’s birthday message reminds me of the kinds of things my aunts send me.
@@KlutzyNinjaKitty damn🤣
This is my comfort video
You have so many stories I love listening to them!! Although some of them are sad or scary sorry that u have gone through so much! Xx
i'm so sorry you had to go through that! that person is so fucked up and nobody deserves to be messed up so badly. you deserve so much better you seem lovely
been waiting for this all day🥺
When you said "just delete my number your scarring me" I felt sooooo bad for you and I almost started to cry. Your amazing and I can't belive how you went through that❤
This has unfortunately happened to me on more than once occasion , I thought I was speaking to one person I opened up to them about everything we talked for years and then I noticed something off etc the insta profile got changed n stuff it was all sketchy
“Me getting in my feels while reading this” Ugh I feel for you :( I know that feeling. Even knowing everything, you still get transported back to that moment when reading messages like that...
wow that would’ve been such an exhausting experience. i’ve been in a similar situation myself, with the other person wanting to commit suicide. really connected with you katie. thank you so much for the story 💞
Im so so sorry for you. This is the most disturbing and manipulative shit ever. Im sorry you had to go thru this. I went through shit like this when i was young, when older people just try to manipulate and play with you. Always be careful, its so dangerous.
i get so invested in all your story times especially this one, it’s really deep🤕❤️
Thankyou for sharing your story with us all and helping us all to stop these things happening. Ilysm, it was really brave of you to say this, and i respect you for that. Some people are horrible, but i'm happy that you made it through!
Katy I’m so sorry you had to go though this ❤️he wasent the person he said he was and he was lying to you over and over again , you deserve so much more 🤍your honestly so beautiful and amazing and I’m so proud of you for sharing your story . Your amazing 😘I love you xx stay strong xx 💋 love Tasha
I went through the same exact thing. It really fucks up your mindset. I'm so sorry you went through this. You're strong love and I hope you're doing better..💗
you have literally got so many storys to tell!!!
i wanted to watch this last night but i decided to watch it this morning and let me tell you how much i relate to it. i cried so many times. i’m only 17 but i had a similar situation happen to me. i certainly hope that you are doing well. you are amazing and don’t deserve what he did to you.
I love the story times😍
You've been really brave and mature. I'm going through a similar situation with a guy I've met online 9 months ago; I'm pretty sure his identity is real, but I hope his intentions are good. I just don't understand why someone would ever do something like that; love shouldn't be a challenge. I know a lot of us are meeting people online during this period, maybe because we miss something. I'm sure someone will love us the way we want to be loved, without doubts or fears. We deserve it. ❤️
proud of you for doing this ❤️
Anyone notice that the “mom” is using the same writing style. Example being a space between every period or comma.
RIGHT
this just makes me sad because u were so hooked and so attached to this person and the way they helped you, but in reality he was doing more harm then good. i went through this as well except he wasn’t cat fishing. he just kept promising we’d get married and idk it was weird but it’s a long story and similar to this. anyways, i hope that you never experience this again.
I had online “friends” who faked their deaths and pretended to be their parents as well… im so sorry you had to go through that 💗
This really reminded me of a relationship I was in with someone, he left me after everything I had doen for him and to this day it hurts
I am so sorry you have to go through this. It is best to just move on. People like that are never going to change. I have been there myself for over a year before I just finally blocked them everywhere. The manipulation is so draining, no one deserves that.
when you said you never heard from him ever again i almost burst info tears that’s heartbreaking i’m so sorry :( just out of curiosity, do you think you’d ever contact him on whatsapp to see if he’s okay? obviously understandable if you wouldn’t after what he did and put you through
Laci Laci No I really want to hear from him! Like I’m genuinely worried about him, I hope he’s doing well and I hope he’s happy!
Are you Ty??? confess right now
KT Franklin just shows how much of a good heart you have. i can see why you’re worried bless you wishing you all the best love your videos
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KT Franklin the fact that he put you through so much and caused you so much trauma and even after all these years you still care enough to want to reach out to him and know that he’s okay, just goes to show how strong his manipulation is. i really hope instead you consider deleting/blocking him on whatsapp and talking to a professional about what happened. he still clearly has a hold on you :(
KT you have such a good heart, you HAVE to protect it and guard it with people. You cannot be this naive. Especially because there are many people out there looking to hurt you like "Ty."
When you asked Siri for the most popular live streaming app I was saying twitch and when it was twitch I was proud of myself walking Siri check
UGHHHH people suck!! This makes me so sad cos you're obviously still affected by it :( please do not ever speak to "him" ever again, he manipulated you and mentally and emotionally abused you! I know the feeling of wanting (even needing) someone to change, to be a better person, to treat me better, to show me that they loved me, butt it just never happened. It's sooo o hard, and you'll probably still feel a bit of emotion for years to come about it... but just know you deserve so much better, from someone who wont manipulate you, who shows you their face!! Thank you for posting this though, as it could help others in similar situations realise the same patterns
literally saw this on tiktok and clicked so fast lmao-
My very close friend went through something similar, I'm so glad I could help her. I can't imagine what it would be like to cope with this on your own. He took advantage of the fact you were young and decided to abuse his power with manipulation, deceit and threats. I really hope you are doing better now. ❤️
I talked to a guy for two years that was like this, too. He didn't catfish me, but he was always sending these sorts of things. He was all over the place, sometimes wanting a relationship (even though I said I didn't want that and we had never met) and other times being rude and talking about other girls/wanting advice on how to get them. These kinds of men are such a waste of time.
I think it’s really kind of you to tell everyone (even if it’s hard to) about what happened to you so we know what potential danger we’re in and all the things people can do to manipulate you and how to realise them xxxx (the 110 dislikes on this video are probably that person on his different accounts)
Yo I've seen every episode of Catfish, many of them more than once, and this person used basically all the stories/lies/techniques in the book. And it's completely possible that they changed their voice and it's actually a woman.
I’m really sorry you had to go through this, I couldn’t imagine myself having to go through the same. I hope you continue to heal and grow from this experience. thank you for sharing this as I can imagine myself reacting the same way as you did at this age if I was in this situation. it has opened my eyes to become more aware online. Thank you for making these videos. Ps I also follow you on tik tok :))
Wait I was texting this guy over the summer and he literally threatened to kill him self if I didn’t date him when I didn’t want to he was literally 19 and when it started I was 15 I ended up eventually blocking him
I went through almost the exact same situation my freshman year and it makes me emotional to hear you talk about this
Imagine that guy watching this video lol 😂
He honestly probably is.
@the girl with the sun in her head
why do I feel like you are the guy...
Aw honey, being manipulated is the worst thing. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that for so long. We're all so proud of you xx
Seeing you cry hurts me so much :(
i've had a somewhat similar experience at the same age as well which is crazy to hear. the older person I talked to pulled some of the similar moves (ex. talking ab addictions, pushing me away/wanting me to leave for no reason, constantly complimenting me, etc.). some part of me thinks that I was groomed by them as well as just being manipulated by them. for future girls/boys, please be careful talking to older individuals and strangers in general. thank you for the storytime kt, i'm sorry this happened to you.